What Is It To Be A Man? (Part 2) | {THE AND} Ja-Ron & Keith

[@CheApplewhaite]

His analysis of the impact of White supremacy on Black masculinity was so on point

[@akittynamedcat]

so true

[@56manya]

These are what real men look like!!

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@yayraaa]

So true

[@astrangerfromtheinternet8925]

Those men seem like wonderful human beings.

[@jennygoodwine2494]

Definitely.

[@BTMcK92]

So great! Love that this conversation of generational violence and toxic masculinity within the Black Community is being addressed. Awesome job! I wish them both well.

[@giuseppinafazzina4802]

15minutes of tear wiping later....they have such a deep, genuine and unbreakable friendship. The topics that emerged here are so relevant and they addressed them in a very honest and mature way. You can tell that they're gonna be there for each other no matter what...life happens, shit happens, but friendships like this remain forever. Best wishes :)

[@akittynamedcat]

such a beautiful understanding between the two

[@akittynamedcat]

I have chills

[@carmenbutterfly8573]

I love seeing men, like this! I wish them both well. sooo beautiful ❤

[@IrakozeLIVE]

I love how open and free you both are. I could listen to you both talk for hours. Much success to you guys! I hope and pray there's a cure for Keith in the near future.

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much for your kind words and the prayers!

[@IrakozeLIVE]

Oh hi Keith! You welcome, we could all use some positivity :)

[@ThaD0nDiVa]

Keith Walker Hope you're doing well! I wish for you perfect health! I know you get tired but you're worthy of a beautiful life. Lean on JaRon during the hard times. Best wishes!!

[@SleepyCity0001]

Both of them are so beautiful. I know they will both get where they intend to be, thank you for showing us these beautiful humans.:)

[@aaronj.2132]

I loved this video.They hit home. As a Black male, the discussion of abuse, masculinity, and power. Thanks for this.

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're glad you liked it!

[@anoynmousanonymous7079]

brother I wish you well..I pray healing upon you

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your prayers and your thoughts.

[@_robynthebank]

Keith Walker I pray that you beat this thing. God is bigger than your mountains. Continue to find joy in everyday. I sincerely hope you're doing well.

[@lyonessetech6926]

Praise the LORD, my soul, and forget not all His benefits- Who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, Who redeems your life from the pit. psalm 103:2-4. Keith Jesus is the I AM, the healing you seek and He is waiting for you. I pray that Jesus comes with his healing hand and remove every cancer cell, every sickness that is in your body. In Jesus mighty name i pray. Keith belive that Jesus is able. Thank You Father. Amen

[@TheGayStoic]

My Gosh, this is therapy for me . . .

[@TheSkinDeep]

That's wonderful to hear. Thank you so much

[@TheGayStoic]

I already have ;)

[@kabelo_m]

Man... I am weeping as I watch this

[@Mike-schmike]

I have no idea how old these guys are, but as a 24 year old guy its great to hear them speak about what it means to be a man, and how the ideologies of masculinity are a bit messed up. My father was by no means a manly man, but he's also very reserved and quiet so I guess i've never heard somebody older than me talk about this sort of thing. I always take so much away from these videos from personalities I would never expect to be able to relate to.

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're very glad that our videos have such an impact on you and that you can relate to them on a personal level. :)

[@keithwalker3989]

word.

[@millieese9006]

grown black men with nothing but beautiful hearts

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're extremely happy we were able to portray this dynamic and we thank you for your love and support :)

[@malakcanvas]

As a young black woman, it is very pleasing mentally and emotionally to see two black men connect and express themselves on camera while giving insight on how realities of a black man outside from media stereotypes. I want my biological brothers and father to bond like this but don't know how to initiate it (or maybe it's not my place to). You two give me inspiration to renew relationships with loved ones and old friends.

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're glad you took something so positive from their relationship. Thank you for sharing something so insightful.

[@t.2283]

When Ja-Ron said "uncle Keith" I almost lost it. The bond and brotherhood you two have is so precious. I cant help but say thank you..thank you for sharing the love that you have for one another with us. My heart aches and is warm at the same time..I really pray that God will deliver Keith from this cancer. And I really pray that God will continue to bless Ja-Rons heart. Keith has nothing to fear, Ja-Ron is def not going anywhere. I can see his truth in his eyes. He meant what he said.

[@miamaclaine]

I am in love with both of these humans & their friendship ❤️❤️❤️

[@fardosafarah3324]

so emotional! I hope him quick miracle recovery for this cute friendship to last

[@kan8296]

I did not want this interview to end

[@laseulequimai]

KZbin knows how much I love your videos The Skin Deep, but these 2 just reached a whole 'nother level in my heart. They seem humble, kind, honest, and my heart aches to know Keith's cancer is incurable... I'm glad they have each other in such moments of hardship.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much

[@summerandluisa]

Keith really does have one of the kindest hearts, there friendship is so sweet

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much, Summer. I really, really appreciate your kindness. Thank you

[@WalnutandPecan01]

Keith Walker you put of a very kind and genuine energy. It's amazing that you are breaking the habits of your father and healing your self. I don't know if you've heard of him but you should research Dr.Sebi. :) love in all the ways

[@lovelyk3812]

*their

[@MsMaggieMP]

So vulnerable, and it's the vulnerability in both of these strong men that make this video so captivating.

[@carmzj9781]

Such a beautiful friendship between 2 wonderful people.

[@MsMayowao]

What a beautiful friendship, you are both outstanding men

[@hibalarabi6829]

Ja-ron is so calm and Keith so wise, loved it 💜

[@bipedalnonsense]

This was so great!!! I love your spirit, Keith. Thank you for wanting to break the cycle of domestic violence through out family generations! Not to mention you breaking the gender roles set upon humans in society. I love the bond you two share. It is very beautiful.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you for sharing! Breaking gender roles is extremely important and should be pursued further. Help us share more couples and spread more love by sharing our Kickstarter with your friends and family!

[@bipedalnonsense]

I have been watching your series since I found Anne Hathaway and Robert Dinero's episode! I have showed my family, but I will definitely talk to them about your new Kickstarter. I love this project!!! I wish I lived in New York!

[@LCROSIER97]

These guys touched on some of the themes I love in the documentary The Mask You Live In. About masculinity and vulnerability. I love their tender and open hearts.

[@keithwalker3989]

I actually love that documentary! I've been recommending that to all of my friends!

[@mariaczarinatallud2015]

This is not just Skin Deep, the entire series is Soul Deep! I woke up with puffy eyes 'coz I've been watching all night and I cried everytime.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much!

[@kaitlyn.blogss]

By far one of the best channels on KZbin! I love this so much.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you! Help us continue to make more content! theskindeep.com/kickstarter/

[@katybroadmusic123]

These guys are WOKE, so refreshing hearing the struggle of masculinity and how it's stunting. Love love love x

[@keithwalker3989]

I wish more men were having this convo as well. Thank you so much for your kind words

[@ChanelleNovosey]

I love the transparency and openness of these two! This is beautiful! And the intellect is amazing! Thank you for sharing! ❤

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're so glad you think so! Definitely take a moment to check out Keith on our new series, The Window: bit.ly/TheWindowKeith

[@valeriearthur66]

Just finished watching Keith's "Window" series. I loved it. Wish I can get a chance to speak with him I am in remission also. It is difficult to be young and try to find yourself again after a traumatic experience like that.

[@TheSkinDeep]

If you could speak to Keith now, what would you say? Are there things you believe Keith could tell you?

[@valeriearthur66]

I am not sure if he would say anything different to me. However, I would ask if he had the need to suppress his cancer (or feelings, vulnerability) due to masculinity and race? Did it make it harder to relate to others? For example, because of the stigma of the "Strong Black Woman Syndrome" people thought I was fine, people assumed I am strong. It didn't leave me room to be vulnerable because of the Stigma. I would want to know if he has ever felt that way during his battle with Cancer. I would not wish Cancer on my worst enemy. I am in remission now. Tuesday was my last treatment.

[@keithwalker3989]

Hey Valerie, thank you so much for taking the time to reach out to me! I definitely felt the need to suppress my cancer due to masculinity. Not so much because I am a black man but when you're in your 20s and 30s people tend to think that they are immortal. I never wanted to be the buzzkill that ruins the mood. Relating wise, all of my friends are amazingly empathetic! Sadly, no one can truly know what we go through. To be honest, explaining how dating works when you have cancer has been the most challenging. Earlier tonight, I even received a message saying she was not interested because of cancer. I find that we spend too much time caring what others think of us. Many moons ago I went out with my friends, whilst, hanging with them a pain shot up my back but I decided to stay quite. As we were walking I let my fear of what my friend might think of me get in the way of my own safety and ended up in the hospital. There are no simple answers when it comes to living with cancer. I can definitely tell you that first, you have, to be honest with yourself, only then will you allow yourself to be open to others about your pain.

[@valeriearthur66]

Thank you so much Keith for responding. I appreciate it. I hope all continues to be well for you.

[@holadios24]

Probably in the top 3 of my favorite videos and definitely the most relatable. Gained so much insight from the videos of these two lovely humans.

[@ilaishasylaire952]

this was very soothing... just watching them converse, laughing, tearing up, it was great. Il was very calming, and i needed it. I just feel so much calmer. My boyfriend found out that he has a brain cancer two days ago, and i can't stop crying. I'm scared shitless. for him, for me... it's very tough. I woke up this morning, and for half a second i forgot everything, and then i kinda jerk my head backward as if something was coming at me in my face as i remembered what was going on. Anyways... i was looking for a soothing, calming, positive thing to get my mind off of it all and give my head and eyes a break, and i found it in those videos. Thank you.

[@TheSkinDeep]

+Ilaisha Sylaire Were incredibly touched that this video is helping you in a difficult time. Thank you for sharing your touching story.

[@keithwalker3989]

IIaisha, I am so sorry to hear about your boy friend's diagnosis. It's okay to be scared, it's okay to not have all the answers; Feel everything you're feeling and write it down. I'm honored that you found something within this video that helped you and I pray that your journey together will be full of love, honesty, and communication. If you both want to message me, feel free to reach out! Wishing you both the best!

[@AshleyJohnson-xd1ei]

This was a beautiful interaction. I love how raw, open, and genuine they both are.

[@MsAlexCCS]

"Break that chain of violence". Powerful. Beautiful friendship. ❤

[@Gossiptgirl]

Their friendship is beautiful and inspiring, I love them and wish them the best.

[@BowPromise]

I just HAD to watch this since I have a song released called "To Be A Man" from my EP (Wo)Man which asks this same question. It's beautiful that to men...two friends can share so freely. It's rare but I think should be encouraged.

[@keithwalker3989]

absolutely! I wish more men felt comfortable talking about their feelings. By the way, I love your music!

[@BowPromise]

Keith Walker thank you so much for listening. Some things were mentioned about macho masculinity amongst black men that if it were spoken of more openly, more would understand it. I love that you spoke about each others qualities and could discuss what masculinity means to you as individuals and not the world.

[@lu8201]

Please do more videos with these awesome guys. I love the vulnerable deep connection ❤

[@mila.inthewoods]

This is my favorite episode!!

[@TheSkinDeep]

Awesome!! Please consider donating to our kickstarter campaign, we need your support to keep making {The And}: theskindeep.com/kickstarter

[@mila.inthewoods]

Yes, and I shared it!

[@raeritenow17]

I just fell in love with both of them. This was such a powerful conversation that I could relate to. Happy to be enlightened by these beautiful souls

[@tdotrenaegames]

I freaking love this! I love this friendship - it's so beautiful. My heart is just so full.

[@paigeh4056]

Absolutely adore the both of them individually and their friendship. It's so beautiful to see guys not care about conforming to societal standards of masculinity and accepting the fact that they are different, even regards to their particular upbringings. You can tell they have shaped each other over the years throughout their friendship in the best way. Ah I just love them

[@1stdaughter]

I take great comfort simply in knowing these two men exist and are friends and have chosen to share a small peek into their friendship with the world.

[@cocorenee2808]

This was so beautiful to watch! The communication in this friendship/brotherhood is something I'd love to see more of. I thank them both for participating and allowing this brotherly love to be witnessed. I hope it inspires the generations..

[@connerleemusic]

in love with both these guys. Will definitely need an update later on.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much! We'd love to keep inviting them back! However, we need support in order to keep making {The And}, please check out our kickstarter campaign: theskindeep.com/kickstarter :)

[@katrinalove473]

This is such a fantastic conversation. One of my favs. So interesting to hear of the pressures put on young men. From a womans perspective we dont see this but it's so insightful to hear it from two people who have lived it. Brilliant honesty guys.

[@youtuba6711]

ugh, this is so powerfull. I'm going to spend days digesting these wise thoughts

[@twerkqueenpoppy]

I'm glad Keith got to confront his dad, I never got that chance to do that bc my abusive guardian died before I got the chance. I know that he would've had to have been so brave and strong to do that, and I'm glad it made him feel stronger in himself. They both seem like really strong, kind souls and I wish them all the best

[@keithwalker3989]

I'm sorry you never had the chance to confront your guardian. Don't let that deter you from being the best possible version of yourself. I would encourage you to journal, ask yourself what would you say to that person who let you down as a kid; it's not your fault. Thanks for sharing your story

[@twerkqueenpoppy]

I didn't expect to get any responses to my comment, let alone from the person I was talking about so this really made my day ! Thank you so much for your advice, I'll take it and try to grow with it. I hope you're doing well

[@keithwalker3989]

My pleasure! By the way, I really loved your artwork! Keep creating!

[@twerkqueenpoppy]

Thank you so much !! I will :-)

[@TheSkinDeep]

[@sunshinethesunflower]

It's so cool how both of you are such gentle souls... Keep the realness going...and that friendship that's filled with genuine good intentions for one another ... inspiring.

[@louisah6020]

Their friendship + connection was beautiful to watch. My hope is for Keith's health to improve and for him to continue to find love in his life. Positive thoughts from Canada!

[@charmingcharlie011]

The openness here is healing. A reminder to just be, to just live, ragardless of life's circumstances and unanswered questions. Grace to you brothers, your spirits are uplifting. Grace and Peace, & the healing hand of God be with you brothers! 💝

[@anushkamahendran4294]

one of the best of the series

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much! We need your support in order to keep making {The And}, please check out our kickstarter campaign: theskindeep.com/kickstarter :)

[@LovingLife8D]

Keith has the most amazing laughter!

[@cardion411]

This kind of conversation among black men is almost nonexistent in today's world. I can relate to those guys so much. I could remember vividly when black women would ask me "If my wife was white" simply because of the way I spoke. And just as he asked, I would also ask the same in my mind: "Like, do you realize what you are saying?" Wow, just so incredibly moving and beautiful. I am going to donate to this site. You guys have me all in my feelings.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you for sharing and we appreciate the love and support you're throwing our way!

[@bragas85]

Wow, this was just beautiful. Two men openly discussing their emotions and friendship. It really opened my mind to societies ridiculous expectations that men are held to. I wish you both a long, happy life.

[@natmal6843]

I agree..this is kind of a therapy. We forget about lots things,daily. Wish more people could watch it and think. My favorite question in The Skin Deep is "what are you hesitant to tell me", we should be more honest with our closest. I'm with you, Keith. Best of luck. Don't give up cause you will find your loved ONE. Greetings from Poland.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much! We need your support in order to keep making {The And}, please check out our kickstarter campaign: theskindeep.com/kickstarter :) Hello from NY!

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much!

[@tweetpie5922]

ugh going thru the comments and seeing his beautiful responses to people makes me cry so hard cuz he's obviously a beautiful soul and i feel so bad that hes goin thru this!! ugh i hope hes doing well .

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much for your kind words, I really, really appreciate it. My professor always said I had a hard time accepting compliments but I'm going to try and breathe it in. Thank you so much!

[@marlenealves3535]

thank you so much Skin Deep!! that was truly beautifull!

[@TheSkinDeep]

You're welcome! Help us continue to spread the love by sharing to your friends and family! theskindeep.com/kickstarter/

[@misssofie6823]

Something that came in my head when they talked about dating..how would it be when keith had a blind date on skin deep? How would it be and is that a good idea? I mean in front of camera its hard...would he do that?

[@TheSkinDeep]

We'd love to keep making blind dates and regular {The And} episodes. However, we need your support to do that! Please check out our kickstarter campaign: theskindeep.com/kickstarter :)

[@keithwalker3989]

I would. :-)

[@kelleebeanz]

I would seriously marry either one of these gentlemen. They display such love for themselves and each other. And anytime that one fellow wants to bake, I'd be glad to sample some of his cookies 😊 There's nothing wrong with a man who can bake and speak proper diction 💜

[@kennedywhitehead4332]

I swear you all are really finding the most heart-tugging relationships. I cried during this video, its one of the best videos y'all made and thats what I said about the most recent mother and daughter videos. Honestly you all make some of the most meaningful, profound and creative videos I have ever seen. Love it definitely looking forward to when this is taken overseas

[@TheSkinDeep]

We tremendously appreciate it, thank you! We want to continue to find genuine relationships across the world. Help us by sharing with your friends and family! theskindeep.com/kickstarter/

[@keithwalker3989]

:-)

[@californiagurl11497]

For the past few months I've been obsessed with The Skin Deep. I love love love, the content ya'll put out, but Keith is definitely one of my favorites. I literally lost it when I watched "The Window". It's crazy how big of a positive impact Keith has on the people in his life, while still battling his own demons. So many people are so "woe is me", but Keith is the exact opposite. I aspire to be Keith. Thank you The Skin Deep for being an awesome channel, but also thank you Keith for being the beautiful person that you are. I hope I get to see more videos with you. Ja-ron is pretty amazing too :)

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much for watching us and supporting us and we're incredibly happy you connected with Keith and his story. We hope you enjoy the rest of the first season of The Window and watch every Thursday!

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much for your kind words! You're amazing on your own; empathy is the thread that binds us all together. Have a great day!

[@ChosenVessel82]

This was a beautiful display of friendship. I pray for your healing and strength. I pray you continue to smile and never give up. keep being bestfriends, it's a beautiful bond and your friendship continues to encourage Keith's spirit. peace and blessings to you both

[@lys5553]

Thank you for striving to keep your two beautiful souls.... May God send Ja-Ron a special link so both of you can be lucky! Life is now, and you are making it worth it by not ever giving up on trying to be your better self. Both of you are true supportive friends... You are lights on this struggling humanity! Be blessed and keep it up! Much Love

[@TheSkinDeep]

What a beautiful comment. Thank you for sending love their way!

[@tlhalefomolatlhegi7649]

What is that in my eyes? oh its just sawdust 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 how beautiful is this? I'm so glad I fell upon this channel. I'm subscribed and on a marathon!!!

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're so glad you found us. Make sure to check out the trailer to our new series, The Window! kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDUhmirdsuinqs

[@braidedblakkblacc2017]

The Skin Deep i wanna come on this show with my daughter asap

[@Cuchino51]

The Skin Deep Please tell me, how can I be a part of this beautiful mission. I subscribed of course, and I will give as well.....but as a cancer survivor this story touches me and I too have a story!!! Please be in touch! Thanks.

[@JeanetteKramer]

What a beautiful, precious friendship.

[@AgathaBluestockings]

So good. Both of you have a beautiful presence.

[@tamaraafflick993]

This was beautiful yet powerful.

[@kalyarobinson3299]

this was so touching one of my favorite episodes

[@aliya6577]

Brotherhood is its own kind of strength wow thank you Ja-ron and Keith for sharing your story

[@JoAnnaTCalixte]

amazing to see true friendship between different personalities. Prayers that Jehovah helps you both to be better and at peace.

[@Thashi179]

Thank you for being so raw and showing other boys that they can learn, evolve and set new standards despite challenging/traumatic experiences - that boys can turn out to be good people, no need for standards of being a "man". One of my favorites -. Sending all my love, positive vibes and healing energy to you both from Kl, Malaysia

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you for such an insightful comment! What do you believe is one of the biggest takeaways from this video and their relationship?

[@Thashi179]

I don't know if there is one specific take away. I think that the video shows viewers that two men can have an extremely deep and real relationship - with all the emotions! That men can be compassionate and sensitive to each other without having to be weird about it. It makes me realize that I want all my close relationships (with friends, family or romantic relationships) to be this open and natural.

[@thirtywars2261]

It's wonderful, this gives me hope that there are some good, genuine people out there.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Help us continue to make videos that make you feel that way! theskindeep.com/kickstarter/

[@makeup800]

This was beautiful to watch! What beautiful human beings and what a great friendship they have.

[@jscript22]

I love this, I appreciate seeing you guys uplift one another.

[@brilliantchic]

this was such a beautiful conversation

[@Susan-tl6oq]

These are such lovely, honest men. *heart eyes* I wish nothing but the best for Keith and his health. Sending good vibes to both of these fellas

[@tripletsgirl]

Love this video and the connection these two brothers have

[@amandawinsor5688]

You got me again, Skin Deep. You got me again.

[@miriam8803]

I'm learning a lot from these videos. Thank you!

[@remedy415]

BRUH! IT'S YG400 LOL BUT THESE EPISODES CAN HUMBLE A PERSON! I AM THANKFUL FOR THESE!

[@luphelele]

Aarg, I really love these guys. "For us both to break that chain of violence." Yes!!

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you!

[@jessxzaff]

My favourite "couple" so far. Amazing.

[@SaphPea]

What great guys!! such a beautiful bond they have! absolutely love this 💕

[@blb9320]

Prayers for you Keith! Your never alone.

[@Cuchino51]

Keith, I'm a cancer survivor and I'd love if you would reach out if you'd like!. Blessings upon blessings to you my precious brother!

[@matildenespolo163]

I love their relationship. I love them. This is precious.

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're so glad you think so. Check out Keith on his episode of The Window, where his family and friends discuss his incredible story! bit.ly/TheWindowKeith

[@peyabass5035]

Keith is incredible

[@keithwalker3989]

eh. I'm okay. Thanks for the compliment though!

[@TreySheltTV]

I really enjoy watching these videos. They are helping me think about somethings when they ask each other questions.

[@TheSkinDeep]

We're so glad! What do you take away the most from these conversations?

[@TreySheltTV]

The Skin Deep, what do I take away. Some perspective about myself, I am always hard on myself about certain things, and that I need to stop and relax. Hope that it will work out.

[@meashanorris7869]

Ok ok ok... I cried 😭😭. Such a touching video.

[@keithwalker3989]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@blujai1222]

This was so awesome to see.....thank you brothers for sharing

[@superflyTv94]

WOW!!!! This was amazing! Wow.

[@tonia3371]

Two amazing black men. God bless both of you in your journey

[@Esethu_Majaca]

Awww such amazing guys! May God bless you both! 💕

[@xaycca]

I wish them both so much love !

[@milou.l]

Love these guys! Great episode!

[@Larissakkuma]

This was awesome guys! Love it.

[@BamdalaBoomx]

Such a beautiful friendship. on a side note, Im convinced that Ja-Ron is my soul mate. @TheSkinDeep do your thing and get us on a blind date!

[@keithwalker3989]

He's in a LTR Sorry :-)

[@BamdalaBoomx]

Damn. She must be one lucky lady! Thank you for your reply, you have such a beautiful soul and spirit. Praying for the best for the both of you in Love and Life :)

[@issabout1420]

What a beautiful friendship