Thanks for the video, new mom here 😖, it’s so hard he did his first tantrum and I was so confused didn’t even know what to do.
@jocelynguo8945 жыл бұрын
Oh, I finally got an idea why my 1 year old boy starting whining more. I have never thought about throw a cookie from high chair and get more cookies is an issue. That's why throwing food from high chair turns to be a game, he thinks it's funny. Thank you so much for making this video.
@Yesimageekk2 жыл бұрын
You should start being a youtuber
@tashafryar94656 жыл бұрын
yep the same thing my 1year old does, she throws her food on the floor from her high chair table.
@meganhiggins92382 жыл бұрын
I have a cousin that has bad behavior. She doesn’t listen, she’s into everything, and she gets mad and throw stuff when I tell her no and I just ignore her.
@PEB97910 жыл бұрын
CAN YOU STAY ON THE SUBJECT OF A 1 YEAR OLD .
@queenc82804 жыл бұрын
EXACTLYYYYYY!
@rrrange18 жыл бұрын
liquid blue a child is only "one year old" for a day she has to cover a wide area also because kids have such different personalities .She can only generalize for some of the points that she makes.
@gandaConeng3 жыл бұрын
My 14months old starts hitting me, pulling my hair or throwing things on my face.. How can I stop him from doing that?
@insectica58913 жыл бұрын
My son is 20 months and started doing that too! He even slaps himself when angry. I don’t know what to do 😩
@athenap.m59553 жыл бұрын
Put in time out and walk away don’t pay no mind and then when time out is up explain to them why you put them in time out like “ I know your upset you were in time out, but you can not hit me or throw things at me its not nice” ( if the child keeps walking out of the time out spot keep putting them back until they accept that they have to do time out but do not React to them leaving the spot because that’s what they are looking for out of you ) you need to have a firm tone
@parentingbeyondbehaviours63822 жыл бұрын
Straight face, no eye contact no talking, and out him down when he pulls on your hair or throws things.
@catwilk82135 жыл бұрын
I used to babysit for a lady that had a two year old and the two year old would hit the dog with a toy and every time he did his mother would be like oh what am I going to do with him so when she left every time he hit the dog with a toy I take the toy and put on the top of the fridge by the end of the day he's no longer was hitting the dog with toys and his mother was wondering how I did it
@SavedError2 жыл бұрын
This would be helpful if my son did that. He doesn’t care if I give him food or not, he’ll still throw it when he’s done eating. I don’t know how to address that because obviously my “nos” don’t work. What do you do if your one year old throws your phone or glasses? I take it away, he’ll throw a tantrum but forget later. And do it again.
@winning33292 жыл бұрын
Im thinking about getting parenting classes to teach me to deal with this stuff
@LivelifeandLovedoingit3 жыл бұрын
My sons fits are getting so bad. Now my daughter is 8 months old so she’s getting in that stage too
@parentingbeyondbehaviours63822 жыл бұрын
Be consistent with using the strategies with both of them. 8 months isn’t too young.
@hollysmith13472 жыл бұрын
My 3 year old time out works. My 1 year old thinks it's a game and laughs. He either thinks being told off if funny or he has a tantrum. 🙄
@parentingbeyondbehaviours63822 жыл бұрын
Put him in the quiet corner and disconnect, don’t look at him don’t talk to him, just make sure he’s safe.
@winning33292 жыл бұрын
Because 1 year's old don't understand yet
@hollysmith13472 жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 yes my point.
@TheChamp8204 жыл бұрын
My baby's cousin spilled my Sprite on the bed and i legit am disappointed.
@gallantj186 жыл бұрын
I would take her advice with caution. I am a board-certified behaviour analyst. Most of her suggestions are punishment based. This is not how you change behaviour in a positive way. It's important to teach a skill and then provide positive reinforcement. Punishment based consequences can work temporarily but they also have negative side effects. I would use caution with them. For example if a child needs to learn to clean up it would be more productive to model the behaviour or to physically assist the child to clean up then provide positive reinforcement. I am wondering what makes you qualified to provide this type of information.
@BaudelaireOrphan16 жыл бұрын
Bijoux the video is about discipline
@susel2156 жыл бұрын
I found the video helpful. As a "board certified behavior analyst" I would exercise more tact when criticizing someone else.
@Starlett77776 жыл бұрын
Lol! Oh get over yourself she’s not criticizing....Everybody does things different so she’s explaining what she would do differently according to what she’s learned with her degree....🤦♀️And her example makes a hell of a lot more sense than what was said in the video… It worked with my kids!
@AriAlt1235 жыл бұрын
The fact that she’s currently a mother of a toddler makes her credible.
@kaladwarakanath55035 жыл бұрын
I like your approach better than punishing a baby!
@liveyourmflife62382 жыл бұрын
Out of all my babies. 6. 4 boys 2 girls. My 1 year old (youngest) daughter is upset like all the time
@ashleydixon54556 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@kamiutzify7 жыл бұрын
It's easy to say too keep calm after you stay with the baby NON-STOP! Except that I think that the tips with the food and toys are very good and I'm always doing this with my baby and workes because he understand that he's doing something wrong! I also think that 1 minute is way too short ....I keep him 5 minutes so he can understand that he did something wrong! In 1 minute he doesn't even realizes why is he there! (sorry for my english)
@kaladwarakanath55035 жыл бұрын
Are you talking about a one year old? How does a one year old makes the connection?
@Itsellasky7 жыл бұрын
My daughter is one and doesn't like to chew her food. Nothing wrong with her , she will chew sometimes but most of the time she won't. I'm scared she will choke and often does. Advice?
@smoothiesummers12456 жыл бұрын
SAHM Life show her yourself how to chew. Like chew very slowly in front of her face to demonstrate and then gulp when done and be like hmmm. And do that for a while
@Lisbett_Again6 жыл бұрын
Try speaking with a occupational therapist I know a lot of them come to your home and help u and observe them and will know if there is a reason that she doesn’t want to chew her food.
@Lisbett_Again6 жыл бұрын
And it’s free . The program is called early intervention. See if u have this in your area. It’s free
@queenc82804 жыл бұрын
@@smoothiesummers1245 she may need services. Also that is a sign of a possible speech delay. My son was that way and we started late...3 years old. Best you start early. My pediatrician recommended early intervention. Ask her doctor and she will refer you.
@Hugbryggen3 жыл бұрын
This video ia too old to be reccommended. It is 7 years old and things like positive dispiline in my mind should be more reccommended. Putting a child in a corner for feeling their emotions is not a good thing. It only teaches them that when they are mad about something they will not be seen. And that they should be ashamed of their emotions. When they are angry, sad or frustrated their parents are not there for them but a chair and a corner is. Look up Igor Gabor for more on these side affects ♥️♥️♥️
@lindsey33053 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. A 1 year old cannot comprehend timeouts. That’s why I genuinely only agreed with the natural consequences until I started looking at her funny🤨😂
@IndependentIncomeIdeas3 жыл бұрын
I literally remember being a child and my mom not being there for me lol the accuracy of this post 👌
@thebidendotwin29262 жыл бұрын
@@IndependentIncomeIdeas this is for one year olds. If you remember being one year old, you’re a liar
@lunpi53416 жыл бұрын
Thanks madam
@PEB97910 жыл бұрын
HOW CAN YOU HOPE THAT THE INFORMATION YOU GIVE WILL HELP YOU, YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THAT IT DOES . ESPECIALLY BEFORE TRYING TO TEACHING OTHERS .
@rupendrasingh61947 жыл бұрын
My one year baby he doesn't allow to feed him... While feeding he cry and close the mouth ... If we try a finger to open his mouth and feed him by force .. he throw out the milk by air pressure from his mouth... Pls help me and suggest good Idea for feeding milk or same other food without any force..
@lostindisorder6 жыл бұрын
Maybe try baby led weaning? No force needed (and no force should be needed, it'd cause stress around food for kids).
@sultanmosurrasel93204 жыл бұрын
Same problem here
@hollygrail29644 жыл бұрын
For us it really helped distraction! We give our boy a toy he’s interested in and he’ll play with it while we feed him. Best of luck!
@monicablima223 жыл бұрын
Distraction works really fine here, I play videos on KZbin of nursery rhymes and my son got really entertained with the cartoons. Never force a child to eat, cause it can be very stressful for baby and he /she can vomit.
@winning33292 жыл бұрын
Forcing a child to eat can make them choke. Try giving your child soft foods it can feed themselves.
@sultanmosurrasel93204 жыл бұрын
Hi how about when eating time ? He only try the food if he doesn’t like it he will not open his mouth lol
@parentingbeyondbehaviours63822 жыл бұрын
Have a eating schedule and if he doesn’t eat at that time move to the next eating time.
@fatimamohammad63584 жыл бұрын
Maam i want to know the method how to train toddler or kids to help with chores ... there are list of chores for each age but i dont now how to begin n how to stick to n how to gradually do it ... plz help me with this ...
@lindsey33053 жыл бұрын
Example & model. By showing example will encourage instead of just saying “Hey clean up your toys” at this age they don’t necessarily know what that means so we definitely have to model. But it shouldn’t be an expectation as they are still little!
@vegan_skye2 жыл бұрын
This approach is outdated. I prefer the Montessori philosophy for discipline.
@logica98436 жыл бұрын
1 year old baby won't understand this kind of discipline until they are around 3 maybe
@edsr1645 жыл бұрын
logica you would be surprised
@parentingbeyondbehaviours63822 жыл бұрын
1 year olds doesn’t understand a lot of talking because they are in the cause or effect stage. So discipline has to be quick and age appropriate 😊
@queenc82804 жыл бұрын
I think tapping them (not hard of course) to get their attention and make them understand you mean "no" or "it isn't nice" is acceptable
@winning33292 жыл бұрын
That's like someone coming up to you speaking a different language and slaping you in the face and you don't understand why. Children that little don't understand.
@gillymac93632 жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 tapping and "slaping" are not the same thing and it's quite disturbing that you can't discern between the 2.
@dracula19806 жыл бұрын
I heard nothing due to eyebrows
@chayadangol5 жыл бұрын
Caligula Germanicus that could be probably because you dont have a child required to discipline. Am i right?
@Dontdalla7 жыл бұрын
my one year old boy bites us, how do we deal with that?
@sammy80547 жыл бұрын
Dontdalla Bite him back of course not to where he's gonna bleed or leave a bruise but hard enough to make him twitch a lil, tell him that's not nice, say Ouch and soon he will stop
@katlondon96186 жыл бұрын
Never bite a child or shout at a child. They are so little. Be calm. Firm and repetitive. Mummy doesn’t like that. Sit them beside you safely for one minute and do not give attention then take them back cuddle and say Mum doesn’t like that. Reinforce positively with good safe boundaries but never hurt or bite or scream at a child!!!! Ridiculous advice.
@smoothiesummers12456 жыл бұрын
Sammy Sweetheart ahahhaha 😂😂 bite him back
@smoothiesummers12456 жыл бұрын
Dontdalla slap him on the hand but not to hard or pinch him on the hand but again not too hard