WHAT is the status of Misyar and Secret marriages in Islam?

[@ndean3296]

Did the Prophet ( peace and blessing be upon him ) have secret marriages ? If he didn't , and we are to follow examples set by the Prophet ( pbuh ), then, there should be NO SECRET MARRIAGES. These things will never remain a secret! Do these men want their children end up marrying each other? Life is weird, things happen ! Women think before you become somebody's secret wife!

[@hamzatanveer9543]

Prophet had 3 slave women, so why shouldn't we keep slave women?

[@pearleunjoo5439]

03:20 Why is it that the women always have to sacrifice (either willingly or unwillingly)? This makes me so so frustrated of my religion & then almost nothing is mentioned what we'll get in jannah. Ohhhh 72 hoors ONLY for men but nothing specifically mentioned only for women yet most sacrifices have to be made by them. We can't even ask for high mahr lol. BUT MEN? YASS, it is not only permissible but also encouraged to have more wives, kids & female slaves that too without marrying them. I get that they protect us from outsiders, fight in wars, carry heavy objects but their reward is also a lot for them. It’s something that'll make them happy but nothing mentioned only for the womenfolk despite making tremendous amount of sacrifices.

[@XxGamersxx1990]

There is no war now. Islam is clearly a religion made for men by men.

[@FuelYourAmbition0.1]

I think you got the wrong idea about this whole thing. Jannah is created to satisfy any human being, so if you want 72 men they will be given to you or even more. Not to mention that ruh Al 3in that is mentioned in the Qur'an is addressed to both sexes. Secondly about the whole slaves and multiple women. The verse that you're referring to, was revealed at time of war, when most men died and since women were left alone, Allah addressed the males to marry them so they can provide for them and their children but as you can see, Allah suggests to not do it because most will not treat them equally. "If you fear that you will not be able to treat them justly, then marry (only) one,5 or marry from among those whom your right hands possess.6 This will make it more likely that you will avoid injustice." 4:3 Women and Men are equal to Allah but men have more responsibility to carry. Allah says that Himself "..Women have rights similar to those of men equitably, although men have a degree ˹of responsibility˺ above them. And Allah is Almighty, All-Wise." 2:228 Allah wants the best for you sister, and He loves you that's why he created you and designed you and blew from his spirit into you to give the possibility to see and Be. Never think that Allah hasn't prepared for you a reward for your problems and patience. Allah is the Infinite the Rich and the one that gives. Don't limit your beliefs to your materialistic body that will perish but instead focus on the Soul that you are the Real you that isn't not a female or male or anything. It's an entity that comes directly from God. But beside from this, Allah has elevated women and freed them from slavery and the old idea that women are objects, things to sell. May Allah guide us to Him.

[@Nola-2000]

Don't be frustrated of your religion because it is false. There is no wedding in heaven and especially not an harem because we will be like the angels dwelling plainly satisfied by the presence of the LORD. The presence of God is too Holy to sacred and too pure to be ternished by this.

[@zamzamahmed8139]

As a therapist i have encountered sisters who were in secret mareiages. The saddest one was a lady with older daughter feom a different husband and a small boy from second husband. After that she was single for maybe 2 or 3 years and the lady with 3 or 4 years old son decided to move her daughter to move out of uk and live with her father as they kept arguing. So she was left woth pleanty of ti.e as she did not work. She used to take her small son to nursery. She then met a bus driver and they got married secretly. After 1 year she got pregnant. She called him thinking he will be hapoy. After that day he never visited her. It is horrible story what happened after but pleaee sister avoid any secret marriages. He just wanted to sattisfy his needs. The sister during the early stages of the pregnancy got ill and asked him to come and help her out and cook something for her 5 year old son. He ignored her..she became depressed.

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

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[@iNikkah]

Your advice is spot on sis and you say it with eloquence and rahma, I hope more people take heed 😊

[@Rubded]

WOW! I really enjoyed listening to you. You brought up the situtation, but you didn't place blame on wither party. You just taught a lesson on the subject. So mature and informative. I appreciate your positive message and look forward to learning more from you. As a new muslim, I feel like this situation has been drama show where blame is just passed. It was a bit discouraging seeing the channels I was trying to learn from get caught up in the drama instead of doing what you did. Thank you. Keep it up.

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

Thank you so much for your encouraging comment 🙏

[@purplelilly2267]

No such thing as a secret marriage Your living in sin if you think that a secret marriage is valid.

[@SimRan-wp3mu]

I wouldn’t be surprised is Ali Dawat “comments” on your video in his usual way.

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

😂 he only comments on famous people, I’ve got nothing to worry about 😮‍💨

[@SimRan-wp3mu]

@@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets inshallah. I love how this was explained. Well done to you sis.

[@o.h.8337]

I love the way you explained this! When hearing about this situation, many things didn't seem as though they were right to me, even though it seemed like everything was being done in a halal way. It just didn't seem right at all and I had never heard about this type of marriage. I wasn't sure what Islam said about this. Seeing as though this situation arose regarding someone I saw as being knowledgeable about Islam, it felt very wrong. I don't blindly trust people at all but you can tell when someone is genuinely knowledgeable and wants to spread that kindness to other muslims and educate them. Therefore what happened really didn't sit right with me as I saw the individual as being learned. Thank you very much sister. This video was extremely informative and said in a very respectful manner. May Allah (swt) bless you ❤

[@Mariyamsdeenworld]

Mashallah ❤

[@danyto]

Sister can you do a video on very young woman marriage?

[@Legend-c2d1q]

اس مسلے میں علماء کا اختلاف ہیں (اختلاف العلماء رحمت) 😂

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

رحمت ؟؟؟ اس مسلے ميں آپ کے ساتھ اتفاق کرنا مشکل ہيں

[@Legend-c2d1q]

@@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets علماء کے درمیان اختلاف سے مسئلہ اور بھی واضح ہوجاتا ہیں اور ہر فریق اپنے دلائل پیش کرتا ہیں تو اس وقت آپ کو جو اچھا لگے وہ کریں مسال حنفی رفع یدین نہیں کرتے اور شافعی اور دوسرے مسلک والے کرتے ہیں اس مسلے میں اختلاف ہیں اگر چہ فقہ حنفی کے دلائل مظبوط ہیں لیکن سامنے والے بھی احادیث پیش کرتے ہیں تو اب ہم یہ نہیں کہ سکتے کہ آپ غلط ہے اور میں ٹیک ہوں بلکہ کہے گے کہ اگر کیا تو کوئی گناہ نہیں اور نہیں کیا تو بھی ٹیک ہیں اور ہاں آپ کا اختلاف حق پر ہر انسان کی اس کے بارے میں مختلف افکار ہیں

[@DmzZayd]

What u saying is irrelevant. Misyar marriage is never considered as Haram,u listing several scholars who did not admit it is also absurd .and for ur information anything is admitted in Islam as far it not contradictory to the Quran and Sunnah. For example A.I is never mentioned in the Quran or Hadith but still accepted coz it's never contradicting out main source

[@Zoha.101]

sister the whole thing between them was a misunderstanding.

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

Sis I only mentioned them saying the whole issue of Misyar came into ‘spotlight’ because of them. Other than that my whole video is about Misyar and secret marriages.

[@Zoha.101]

@@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets yes I understand.

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

@@Zoha.101 honestly speaking I was scared of being misunderstood 😬. Personally I didn’t want to mention their names but it’s connected to my content and I felt people would understand it better as they’re familiar with this controversy.

[@DmzZayd]

Assalamualaikum yh we acknowledge it might also cause some chaos so I don't recommend it but it's still not Haram.

[@Zoha.101]

@@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets Ofcourse. SIster. I totally understand now.

[@UmairAhmed-pr1ip]

أي سيدة عربية مهتمة بزواج المسيار

[@salinakhan-razzaq9614]

What was permitted during Prophet S and sahaba was mutah and still should be

[@XxGamersxx1990]

And then prophet himself made it haram. So let it be haram.

[@Muslim3Kids]

Any benefit?😢

[@Saiqa-IslamicSnippets]

?

[@Feelfreetoconnect]

Any benifits of this marriage to women

[@Nola-2000]

No because there is no benefit in sin only destruction.