What it’s like being an introverted foster or adoptive parent

[@kristyp711]

This was so validating! when we started fostering it was a big change from being a childless couple to having other humans in our home and recent placements were very extroverted. Like we met people on the neighboring street - that we haven't met in the 10+ years living here - on our first walk together extroverted lol and the physical "clinginess" like I'm really used to my bubble. I love the hugs, but grew up in a bare minimum hug family lol thanks for reminding us to honor ourselves and that being an introvert can be a good thing!

[@jessicaolson717]

Good video! As a introvert I am more worried about all the conversations and reporting with the child's case worker, your case worker, the agency, ect.... The thought of all those texts and emails and phone calls freaks my introverted heart out!

[@adoptinformed]

@@jessicaolson717 I completely feel you! That feels like a distant memory now because once the adoption is finalized there are a lot fewer people…but I do still have to keep up with doctors, therapists, teachers 😅

[@lauramaxwell8327]

LOVE it. So practical. So healthy. And so soothing for me as an also introvert parent.

[@adoptinformed]

@@lauramaxwell8327 I’m so glad it resonated with you! 🥰

[@leaddust5539]

You're so awesome Katie keep doing what you do

[@jencas8597]

Great information!

[@cdeuell86]

This is fascinating. I'm an omnivert.

[@johnborris3222]

Random question: Any tips for single men? I'm a teacher. 39. Straight single man. I have a son and Always Dremamt of having a daughter. I have 2 nieces that I help raise. I adore them and spend my time with them whenever I can. Take them out, play with them, etc... Is it possible for a single man to adopta girl? What can I do to make it easier. I always wanted a daughter to raise. Any tips. Thanks

[@adoptinformed]

@@johnborris3222 yes, it is possible for a single man to adopt a daughter, but it would have to be the right situation. Some girls in foster care have negative experiences with men (like abuse) and would not do well in a male-only household. However, there are other kids that would benefit from having a father figure! One thing that could help you is if you were open to adopting siblings. They may be more likely to place you with a daughter if you are adopting a brother and a sister together.