What Makes A Guy Fall In Love | One RARE Trait That Makes A Guy Fall For You

[@dizzey5357]

I confessed to a guy that I liked him a couple months after meeting him. He didn't feel the same way but I said I was fine with continuing as friends. Not that this always happens, but we became really close after the rejection and he actually ended up developing feelings for me after a couple months because I respected the aftermath and showed that I could handle rejection. He admired that I was brave enough to take that risk and it goes to show how far taking a chance can go.

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's awesome Yezz! Cool story :)

[@JaniceHylton]

Omg

[@ikrambaouchouch9511]

I m thinking to do the same thing with my curent interest who confessed his feelings to me and I feel the same thing about him but i dont want to loose our special connection for the only reason that we cant be together as lovers but we do really respect and appreciatr each other

[@valianttruth3745]

Wow.

[@maureenkam9212]

That's amazing. By the way, is it necessary for a man to hug the woman after rejecting her? Does it mean anything? He said he was not going to like the woman as he would be leaving the country after a year and he did not want to start a relationship which he could not commit.

[@narinderkaur4164]

I love that line" never keep giving your attention to someone that doesn't deserve it". Your awesome.

[@tanyawieczorek6603]

"You're".

[@lilya77777]

I agree with you. That line caught me too.

[@carolynsekas717]

Whoever rejected this man needs to donate their brain for the sake of medical evaluation.

[@isabelparro6197]

yah hes so handsome but the girl has brains because mostly handsome men have multipe women

[@lucialu833]

@@isabelparro6197 :Exactly! And this man knows how to play woman,he do that for living😂

[@MercyMysteryMusic]

Slow down, she could be in a relationship already..

[@desertrose00]

whats so special about him?

[@AR-ni6vy]

the higher status a man has (wealth, social status, money) will often times be rejected for the perceived initial value he has. in other words she's virtue signaling to other men saying you need to better. doing all of this to increase her market value. this man is fairly attractive and in good shape but no doubt there are men with higher status, which makes him a perfect stepping stone for her to latch onto a better man.

[@2legit2Kwit]

Walk away. It's a blessing. Just kiss him on the cheek, thank him for getting to know you, then tell him to a great life. Walk away with a smile. You're free to meet a better man now. Great advice! You're my favorite KZbin coach.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Cool - really appreciate that!

[@danielapena2586]

I needed this. I'm afraid of getting rejected or making it akward with my ex & for a couple months he's been more closer then ever. I ft him thursday night then my phone died. I woke up to text messages from him saying "your phone died but I'm staying up late so if you want we can continue fting" & since I saw that I kept trying to dare myself to ft him but I was so scared pero now I need to face my fears & if it gose bad I'll move on finally.

[@evelinam.5835]

Why to kiss him? Say good bye and thats enough!

[@choosiakkiong85]

@@Markrosenfeld Hi, mark Rosenfeld.. Are u single?hahaha

[@clairewolf6013]

Thanks... I needed that.

[@deemaalelaby2621]

Getting rejected doesn't hurt much ,but being left after love really hurts!

[@Scheherazad100]

Look at it this way maybe? The one who rejected you was an angel who released you to the universe to grow into something much better and even more amazing then when they knew you. Love & rejection hurts horribly, however who knows where your new path will lead.❤

[@JIALINN]

Embracing rejection is conquering the fear of it. Thanks

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yeees!

[@Abig71ail]

Gah damn. That was deep. 😩 thank you for this.

[@maryadeledavis8577]

That taught me something I needed to know. Too bad it’s too late. But thank you.

[@tanjapersoglio8762]

I did that a few months ago....gave my phone number to a man....directly....and felt so Goood.....because I knew i did All i could.....felt so good even with a possible rejection.....I don' t mind

[@_heyimbritt]

I just did this last night to my Lyft driver. I gave it a shot and he said he was seeing someone. I thanked him for tge great conversation and that was that. I felt so good! Never have I put myself out there to even be rejected. Totally confidence boost!

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's fucking fantastic Iammsbritt. Wowowowow I'm SO happy hearing that!!

[@_heyimbritt]

Mark Rosenfeld Thanks Mark!! Keep up the awesome content!

[@Victoriaward]

I love this!

[@nofybn7794]

@@MonsterKathryn She was not dim witted.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*From what I've observed, a guy often falls in love when he feels a genuine sense of emotional safety and vulnerability with his partner. When he knows he can be his authentic self without judgment, it opens the door for deep emotional connection and love to flourish.*

[@LucyElenaReigns]

The problem comes when a man plays games with you because of your vulnerability!

[@michboyd10]

Well that my dear, is where our self respect takes the lead back after we have been vulnerable.☺

[@Freyablogja]

A man never does that, only immature little boys do.

[@maureenkam9212]

Sometimes, it's a mask that a man wears to hide his vulnerability especially his fear of rejection after falling in love.

[@tupelohoney622]

@Miguel Deer Get men to fall in love with you? Not giving men much respect, responsibility or self-determination are you? Don't project your life choices on to women.

[@NA-ux7qr]

@Lucy Elena. Best and wisest comment ever.

[@ceciliashen3134]

I strongly agree! Especially “if u get rejected, walk away with ur self-respect”

[@QueenAmour8888]

It just shows... Anyone can get rejected.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Literally anyone. Nothing to be ashamed of.

[@nina_summers]

xtreme bass yes

[@janae9183]

I rejected 5 men in a men all fuck boys

[@maureenkam9212]

It's a matter of timing, chemistry and personality match.

[@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021]

If Jesus was rejected by his own people, so can you!

[@dig1272]

I loved this one. So beautiful. I agree. My husband passed away 3 years ago (at 24 years of marriage) and I am definitely still working on my self esteem so your words helped me forgive myself for being so vulnerable recently with someone.

[@jcn5368]

same

[@reetkaur3247]

Embrace rejection... wow!! Beautiful thoughts

[@daniellewest4979]

I did exactly what you just advised about a month ago with a guy I had been dating for about 6 months. I showed him that I wanted this relationship and that I wasn't afraid of being hurt even when I knew he was about to end things between us. It was one of the best breakups I've ever had. I have no regrets, and it made it easier to get over him because I knew that I had done everything I could. Now I feel strong and confident in myself and what I have to offer to someone else. This is great advice and something I will continue to do in future relationships. Great video 👍🏻

[@catherinejuma6979]

I did not refuse rejection either.the same man I loved rejected me 6 times .come and went. But every time he come back I talked to him nicely .Few months ago he told me am the one made for him.he has gone far.,dating lots of girls but he misses me .Now we are together very strong relationship than never planning to start a family

[@celinabond]

i think this is my fav video of yours. I love how you used client examples alongside your own personal experience to paint the picture and make a point. well said and couldn't agree more xx

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Celina. Great little channel you're starting there. Good job!!

[@celinabond]

thank you, that means a lot coming from you mark!

[@michboyd10]

I like the format to...his and other client examples. 💯

[@nicolekkellidis9156]

Something I embraced long time ago. I decided I would just be brave and live fully for myself... rejection is not what we think it is it has nothing to do with our worth. And when you are truly confident it's because you love and appreciate yourself fully and are not scared of your imperfections. Vulnerability is the biggest gift we can give somebody. It is truly precious. ❤

[@hollygrail2964]

I think it’s very brave of you to tell us about your personal experience, you could’ve easily lied and turn it around so you could be seen as the “winner” and gotten the girl, but you were honest! Thank you for sharing that and for the video! Very important information! ... P.S. That girl is CRAZY for rejecting you! You are awesome! 👌🏻🙌🏻

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Liliana... definitely felt a little vulnerable myself sharing that one - but hopefully it helps inspire others to be vulnerable too :)

[@rahmanforever]

Thank you for sharing that story! You’ve got some guts to do what you did! I was just going through a difficult emotion today where I put myself “out there” and felt foolish and vulnerable...I didn’t get rejected but I am somehow expecting to be....haha, needed this.

[@MsNobody]

Rejection should be taken as a positive thing. Let me explain. Rejection is humbling. We learn why we get rejected so in the future we can look at ourselves what we can improve on. Also it does not leave you hanging or wondering what if. The greatest mistake we can do to ourselves is uncertainty. You can never be happy being uncertain about things. Take a chance & never leave things incomplete. Just like anything else in life. Unfinished will remain unfinished & there is no around it.

[@evelinam.5835]

There is no what if... if you go away and nobody follow you...again there is what if . You are rejected

[@shesheturlip9518]

True

[@Synty12]

I also agree that being vulnerable and honest is very attractive.. men and women both are tired of the masks people wear. I myself always look for people who can be sincere

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Irene - it's so important, and so connecting

[@sonarek7312]

@@Markrosenfeld . Sir, thanks fr video. I am looking fr matri. But wn I & other matri got chat..it was formal method. But aftt chats.c..we became friendly, after abt a month, too much chats.we had hurt, I block him . He gve hard time, tht I got low mood. I am try a way to come out of all those memories. Plz help us how to be more positive in find a gud life mate .sir.

[@jenholmes66]

I feel dating can become overwhelming, at times like a job. What can easily dissipate is a sense of aliveness & connection to my dating. Thank you, Mark, for this message. Allowing myself to be vulnerable is a way to honor my true self, I think. The times I've chosen to do this has always created peace & empowerment & growth. Good stuff!

[@foxx441]

Ok, you’re brave for walking right up to that girl and asking her point blank. You have my respect. Not easy to put yourself on the line.

[@christinejones5073]

I love and truly needed this advice at this point in my life. I was married 33 yrs. Blindsided 2 yrs.ago when he filed for divorce, just recently met a man and I'm scared to death to open up and feel again. I'll take it slow, but steady moving toward opening up and being venerable again ❤

[@Markrosenfeld]

Oh sorry to hear that, Christine Jones. Thanks for sharing! Glad the video helped. Take your time - fall in love in your own time and pace. All the best to you!

[@audfosutv2500]

Thank you Mark for being vulnerable and sharing your story. Life really is too short to wonder "What if?" This was the perfect time for me to hear this...thank you!

[@Aritul]

I also thought it was good of him to be vulnerable. Made me connect to his message much more.

[@madef5183]

Watching some of your videos makes me come into conclusion: you don't lead me to do such a dating game or manipulation, instead you empower me to be the best version of myself. I feel more relieved and happier watching your videos than other dating coach.. thank you

[@maryb.]

You are my favourite relationship coach on YT. Why? Because you are honest with us..:)

[@shiprayadav9409]

Exactly my thoughts

[@LisaGemini]

I agree, Mark! Thanks for giving me the courage to be vulnerable. Most people are too afraid to be vulnerable but...nothing ventured, nothing gained. I love you, thanks for your wisdom.

[@christinaphilly4278]

❤️ So great. Thank you, Mark. You’re helping to make the world a better place.

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's such a beautiful comment Christina - thankyou xx

[@ImWORTHITINC]

Great advice Mark!! I’ll be brave w ought to be vulnerable cause I never wanna die wondering!!! You never told us what happened with those 2 ladies??

[@ImWORTHITINC]

*Brave enough

[@adrianabrown1011]

That is not what I expected.... Doesn't mean it's not good advice. Thank you so much and keep it coming. Also, if a hot guy like you can get rejected, it feels easier for the rest of us! :-)

[@tanyacoupe5833]

Adriana Brown, you said exactly what I was going to say! If Mark could get rejected...

[@justyoutubing4285]

I'll say it again: You're seriously the best for me when it comes to how you approach and enourage: Vulnerability. It blends well with my philosophies because it actually pushes us to do, act, take a risk/challenge... and know the outcome (rightaway).

[@arianjanealoy1394]

Hello Mark, EMRACE REJECTION AND LEARN TO WALK AWAY. Thats what I've learn.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yeeeeeeeeeeees Arian - great takeaway x

[@arianjanealoy1394]

+Mark Rosenfeld , Favor please, can I ask your email or anyway to contact you, I have some personal questions to get away. God bless.

[@TheCherrinelle]

I have to admit that when I ran into your videos I had a prejudice. I thought 'here we are, he will be just like tons of other love coaches'. But you're different because you teach and inspire us to be the best version of ourselves. You teach us that the real secret is that we can find true love only by loving and cultivating our own lives first. You inspire us to be better people. No games, no fake changes that don't work. You make the difference. Thank you Mark.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Arw, that's the sweetest TheCherrinelle! really appreciate your thoughts. Thanks so much for watching and commenting xx

[@JewelandHart]

This is so inspiring! I've been learning this in all areas of my life and honestly it's life changing. Live with no regrets :) Do what scares you because something great might happen!

[@margaretcampbell2681]

That’s great advice how will we really get anywhere if we don’t know. It funny that I watched this video today because just last night a man I know who has a strong interest in me, and I am a bit shy but I try to show interest back but I’m not sure what is exactly appropriate, this man posted something on instagram that he had done and that I really loved. I sent a message to him telling how proud I was of his actions and why, then I finished the message by saying “I love you mate” which is absolutely true. When he saw it he put a heart next to it. I know I have really put myself out there as I dearly love this man, but because of his public position, even though he lives just around the corner, he needs to keep his personal details very private for government security reasons. I have met him on and off in public and had a couple of catch ups locally arranged through his office. We have another official catchup in 2 weeks and I am going to ask him if we can catch up informally and could he trust me with his private phone number. But he sure knows now that I have strong feelings for him and we both know we get on like a house on fire.

[@princessvanessa873]

I went through rejection a month ago with a guy I knew for six months we still talk but it's not the same. At least now I know and I can slowly move on. Not knowing was very stressful tho. 👸👑💚💜

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's good Vanessa - don't forget to give yourself the space if you need it xx

[@catlady715]

HI. Going through similar situation. Rejection sucks but I agree it's better to know where you stand in a relationship. This guy is friendly w/ me, we do still talk, I try to act like it's all good but inside I am hurt and confused. I have to see him at work and sometimes it's really difficult,

[@princessvanessa873]

+CatLady71 Oh sorry to hear that. Do yourself a favour go out and have fun with your friends, meet new ppl, fill your time with activities you enjoy. At work only talk to him if you have to but only about work related matters. No socialising with him. If you can take a vacation helps to get perspective too. You deserve better than him, if he's not interested you now know sooner rather than later. Maybe he'd have hurt you more later on. I know it's hard but he's not really worth you love or time. You will move on, in time you'll feel better, when you're ready start dating again. Stay strong stay positive talk to a professional if you're struggling, like I am, it helps. Feel better soon👸👑

[@princessvanessa873]

+CatLady71 Hi again love please watch KZbin videos of -Susan Winter. Extremely helpful lady.

[@princessvanessa873]

+CatLady71 Watch- Dating Games The Truth About Hot And Cold Partners. Search- Susan Winter- on KZbin and she has many other helpful videos bye love!!💚💜

[@heathers9818]

This is so true. It’s easy to put walls up but difficult to be vulnerable. Vulnerability does show confidence in oneself. It’s something I want to work on in my own life. Enjoying your videos. Props to you for leading the way by example!

[@alessandracruz5189]

A very helpful video Mark. Thank you for making me realize that it is indeed much better to embrace rejection than to wonder all my life and think about "what ifs". Vulnerability is indeed a virtue. Keep making videos Mark. Kudos!

[@FlightlessAngel1000]

Such a positive message in this video! Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there and stop worrying about what could go wrong and focus on what could go right and what you could gain from it! Thanks for the advice! I’ve subscribed! 😀

[@maryanntexas52]

Wow Mark thank you so much for sharing your personal experience- I am 67 and just now after over 25 years of being alone I find myself in a relationship- your insights and those of the young men like you are helping so much to understand and appreciate the man the Universe has given me ❤️

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Giant thumbs up Mark! My eyes started watering half way through this video because this truth hit at the core of my being. A light bulb has lit! My life has been spent with my shields up. I can justify it with a dozen reasons but the truth is, my soul is trapped inside fearing rejection, safe, but extremely lonely. Your personal story of how you lived your vulnerability, walked through it and onwards drove it home. You Rock Mark! Thank you so much, I needed to hear this. Cheers and big hug

[@racheladdams3365]

I can’t believe a girl would reject dancing with you 😲😲😲 I mean seriously, you’re gorgeous and perfect. Her loss. 😍 Appreciate your advice too. Rejection is hard to accept, but worth it to know

[@sushisaschi7744]

rachel addams I can't believe it either!! Crazy lady!! 😳😳

[@asjeable]

Maybe Mark can not dance...;)

[@Belladonnadonnaa]

Sometimes women want to be left alone and sometimes she just doesn’t want to leave her friends alone and focus on a guy the whole night .. doesn’t mean anything it’s probably just the girl most of the time

[@stevet2892]

+rachel addams Kudos for the video content! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Saankramer Love Trick System (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome exclusive guide for falling in love with an amazing partner without the hard work. Ive heard some decent things about it and my good mate called Gray after a lifetime of fighting got excellent success with it.

[@NENAD1979J]

Thanks for the video content! Excuse me for chiming in, I would love your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Saankramer Love Trick System (google it)? It is a good one of a kind product for falling in love with an amazing partner minus the headache. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my friend finally got great success with it.

[@mixedlibaby]

I’ve been watching this man since I was 16 years old 😆🤭 I’m 24 now and everything I once went through I fully UNDERSTAND, and I’ve grown sooo much wisdom… I am patient and focusing on SELF love until I feel that someone is meant for me…. 💕

[@lifetobelived9102]

Most likely she was married, wanted to dance and then decided it was a bad idea to keep dancing. She probably should have elaborated but many people do not.

[@carmenvillalba3082]

Like Anna Karenina! Anyone? No? Welp.....

[@KiaVolvo2]

Brilliant video. So true. Showing my vulnerability broke my heart, but at least I can see the person in front of me now. Walking away, no more thinking, head up. Thank you

[@nardaone]

THANK YOU. I was just forgetting I can definitely embrace rejection.

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

Process of illumination is better than not knowing anything at all I agree with you whole heartedly Because knowing where your stand is the most important thing so that you could either move on or invest your time accordingly to the situation in hand thank you for putting that out there!

[@yinsun_chew]

almost 3 years later, still this is true advise.

[@claudiamendez8782]

Super awesome story. Thanks for being open to share that. "Embrace rejection!"

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yup! Rejection is redirection! 😊

[@Maria-jl7tv]

Mark you’re very handsome

[@yabe1496]

You are a manly man embracing rejection like you do. The world needs more men like you. I always feel afraid when I have to say no to a men because I have seen how violent some men got when they are rejected. Aa a woman I have been rejected too and the best to aproach it is with dignity and in peace. Thanks for sharing your experience.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Agreed. Most of us have been rejected at some point in our lives. We have to learn from the experience to empower us and make us better people. Thanks for sharing, Ya Be!

[@violetlune72]

So refreshing! There would be so much less "game playing" in the dating world if more people took this approach...including myself 😇. Thank you for the reminder of what true confidence should look like. 🙏🏼

[@Sinej43]

I just did this exact thing today...all day I thought I did the wrong thing. Thank you for letting me know I did do the right thing!

[@sheenapearlbarandino3776]

Thanks Mark. I had the same experience and feared rejection it made me feel stiff and callous and not normal. It just prolonged the pain. Thank you for reminding me to be open again.

[@jennifferenriquez9773]

I like the line that you mention embraced your rejection...

[@ichangedmyname3487]

I made first move always and got rejected two times. Later those guys come back to me because they see i can handle their rejection and they started liking me😂😂.

[@Janjan-zu2zl]

Been there...put myself out there and let him know how i felt about him...he justbliked me as his buddy call...wish i would have had this type of coaching 10 and 30 years ago...what had made a big difference in my life. But its never too late...so im listening now...Thank You!!!

[@norrishastewart774]

Trur true. 🌻💛 Putting yourself out there is brave even if you do get rejected.

[@Markrosenfeld]

And even more importantly Norrisha, it gives the other person the opportunity to be equally vulnerable back and form that connection with you.

[@sheripeterson2298]

Oh sweetie... We all know what you're like through your videos that you make for us. Keep smiling...

[@mikechung1252]

Hello friend friend

[@mikechung1252]

I really want to have you like seriously .add me up on hangout [e-mail]

[@Markrosenfeld]

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[@hsfshampoorambutlebat3577]

This is sooo true! Thank you mark. I bet women are always afraid to risk rejection and same goes to me😌 'Embrace rejection and the mark of true confident woman is the fact that she's the one who's OKAY being rejected🥰'

[@orlyholland8173]

There is a Jewish saying that goes like this: There is a Jewish saying that goes like this: happy new year:) thank you from Israel

[@Traveller019]

Hi, I have used intense poetry to make him mine, long distance relationship, .

[@nuhuferuza2669]

Very true talk.

[@BarbaraRomano-akatropicgal55]

I needed to see this video today! Thank you for this valuable information. Maintaining and showing self respect that way became so clear. I plan on using this in the next few weeks. I am a bit anxious about it but i know that if the outcome isn't what I'd like, I can walk away confident and happy. Thank you again!

[@shaybee6893]

The girl you asked to dance had to be insane lol😂

[@alisonn7200]

Thank you Mark - this was so helpful, as are all your videos. We don't often realise that in attempting to protect ourselves from rejection, by adopting the I'll reject you before you reject me approach, we're actually harming our chances of finding love. I'm trying to be a bit bolder when it comes to dating and as difficult as it may be, I'm trying not to let setbacks and disappointments stop me from getting back out there and trying again. A huge thanks for all your advice and videos.

[@donnawoodford8145]

Hadn't considered the wall going up. Being open, honest and straight forward gave you the answer you choose, as a mature person, to accept...no unnecessary waste of time and go on from there. Saying thanks is being smart and respectful to all without game playing!

[@SoulNavigation]

Beautiful video... be strong enough to be vulnerable. Lovely message. Thank you for helping empower women.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Mwah. Thankyou Soul xx

[@brandyejordan8878]

Words cannot describe how this made me feel. I stumbled across your video at a moment when I I could not have ever needed it more. The exact moment that I realized my spirit was broken. I have to say that the tone of your voice was almost as loud as the words that you spoke. It all makes sense. ❤️

[@georgiarose1576]

I put myself out there, and I did get rejected. He said we were "too different." If you asked me to dance in a club, I'd be so thrilled. Hope you and I both find true love.

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's great Georgia - should be super proud of yourself for putting yourself out there like that! Congrats. And thankyou!

[@rja3386]

Wow..Just did this yesterday...being vulnerable can be scary but also a great way to release someone who isn’t interested.

[@IammilliondollarmonthMauimama]

I told the man I love that I loved him after 4 years of Friendship. He rejected me but now after 6 years our relationship is so strong. I didnt tell my first love I loved him before he died so I wouldn't let that happen again.

[@zoraidacastro5403]

😪

[@erinrichards3884]

Very true! Well said 😎 And your personal story was a great example of vulnerability. It makes us know you are authentic and real. Helps us trust what you say.

[@lauroandrea3241]

The ability to take rejection, failure, disappointment and other difficult emotions are the signs to look for in mature human beings...

[@Markrosenfeld]

Right on, Lauro Andrea. Thanks for sharing!

[@jimmychavre9049]

Thank you so much... I've been vulnerable, I've embarrassed myself and I have walked away. I am struggling to find myself and I'm in that state where I don't feel good about myself all due to opening up my feelings. This video made me feel strong again.

[@dewdrop4330]

Yes, vulnerability is beautiful. An ex lover taught me this. I’ve used it ever since. Sometimes I’ve been hurt but never have I had a doubt 😉

[@angelacarlisle9271]

Thank God someone finally giving great advice!! No game playing. Be real. It's not a rejection. It's just not your person at that time. But tell the truth on how you feel. And let it go. Never have to wonder. That's way better than not knowing.

[@rinagetsreal6189]

Date an Aries girl...we are risk takers. I always make the vulnerable moves if I like a guy. With great risk comes great reward!!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Absolutely Rina - couldn't agree more.

[@isaymanalot]

Right on, sister. Aries Sun, Leo Moon right here.

[@lilysandroses603]

haha yea I'm Aries mercury, venus and Saturn and i always go for what I desire. Not afraid of looking vulnerable and taking risks🤘

[@celissewillis9399]

I’m a Taurus sun & moon, with Aries Mercury & Venus... my Vedic chart has Aries in all 4 placements though lol

[@carisaisweird5545]

Aries girl here

[@alexandraclark8027]

You are spot on with your message. Be open, be vulnerable, be real. It is ok if they don’t want to be with you. Now you know and you also know that you were true to yourself and did all you can do. No regrets.

[@joannatedesco8497]

Mark has such a masculine magnetic look=) & so Charming❤

[@MusicLoverMusicLover-es6mi]

I agree wholeheartedly, Mark worth taking the risk of rejection! Better than regrets.

[@giadatelleri445]

i LOVE this video. I think that’s what I needed. And it’s so fucking true. Sincerity is everything and shows the truth, while pride leaves everything undone. People should understand that. I think I understood it now. Having no regret is better than living with doubts. Thanks for your words, you’ve been brilliant. 🙏❤️

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thankyou Jade!! What a lovely message x

[@mazolg3440]

I totally agree with you , Mark. Being vulnerable now days is very hard because of social media . Being vulnerable is a a challenging step but in the end your not going to lose anything. It will only make you stronger in the long run.

[@enchy1204]

Wow, I did the exact thing the second woman wanted to do. I literally told my ex(we broke up a month ago),in our last convo, after he hadn't contacted me for 3 days after a quasi-fight, 'If you don't know whether you want to be with me, I will decide for you... I don't want to be with someone who isn't sure whether he wants to be with me. " I regret it... It was my ego talking. But it was a right decision. I would have never been able to go back( to how it had been earlier in the relationship) after I had realized he was uncertain about us.

[@enchy1204]

At one point we had even lived together tho, and we were in a long distance relationship the entire time (except for living together for 4 months last year). I always traveled to his town to see him.

[@nicoleabiaad123]

I totally agree...ambiguity is worse than rejection...The small hope that you have is short lived

[@fambayendiayevieljus6387]

Best video I ever watched ! Gorgeous man, his voiiiiice, His STARE🔥...is this guy single???

[@nicoletrinidad5422]

Thank you for this! I always felt bad each time i put myself out there and get rejected. Lil did i know it made me braver at the same time it saved me from having so many doubts. Thank you really for this 😊

[@MeliLeani]

This is SO TRUE!! I had been talking/hanging out with a guy & one day he said he didn’t see a future for us. I took it well, I was hurt but I’m not going to beg him to stay if there’s nothing there. This was back in January. He wanted to continue to hang out but i said it probably wasn’t a good idea, and I went my merry way. I knew if we had kept in contact, it would just end up with me being hurt & being led on. I haven’t reached out, and let him live his life. Now he’s coming back around basically begging me to hang out with him. He said I was so understanding, confident and kind. I guess he went on a date and the girl threw a drink at him & it made him realize how good he had it with me. I told him I moved on, I’ve been dating and now he’s in his feelings and smothering me with attention. He hasn’t taken rejection well and it’s SUCH a turn off!!!

[@wilderheartland3920]

Thank you for supporting this message. Vulnerability is a strength. If you want a man to know it as a strength in him, and to open up to you over time, you must step into that fire first. Show him how brave a person can be. It's for you, not him. He will recognize this, if he's healthy, and see what a courageous, sovereign soul you are. Vulnerability is the sign of an open, trusting, humbled, honest person.

[@nataliasolakianofficial2066]

I LOVE your vulnerability, Mark!!! You are so good, kind and sweet and charming. Your heart is a gift from God! God bless you!!! 💐🌼🌸🌷🏵⚘🌹🥀🌿🍃🌊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Natalia! xx

[@nataliasolakianofficial2066]

Mark Rosenfeld You're welcome!!! Blessings!!! 💓💙💫

[@engr.princessivie8428]

Thank you so much for this video mark, often times I get scared of being rejected, maybe I get too protective, I try to avoid getting hurt but the truth is I still get hurt at the end. Now I know, its not me its them and I don't have to be scared anymore. Rejection is part of life and I won't have to worry about it when it comes..

[@youniqca1489]

You give me the courage. Thank you.

[@aliajohnson470]

I agree with concept of being confident even if you were rejected. I won't look back in regret ever, knowing l gave it my all. Thank you 👏🌹

[@atelaesther3142]

Finally I found someone realistic and my intuition tells me I am getting some good advice

[@Flixy282]

Mark I really appreciate your personal story here too. It’s so important for people to be brave sometimes! If you have an anxious attachment style you can kind of get hooked on these “not knowing where you stand” situationships. But being brave and risking rejection is so much more healthy and the first step to finding the RIGHT relationships!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yep very true, Bethanie. Thanks for watching and sharing your wisdom! xx

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

Very good! Thanks Mark.

[@縣美衣]

Fear always is the biggest obstacle I have, maybe we all have but once I embrace that, not trying to be liked by everyone, I feel happier. I am very happy to watch this video and you are a very brave man. I don't understand why she rejected you, awesome guy but I believe the vulnerability is the key to be happy and have a healthy relationship. Thank you so much for making this video. Loved it!

[@middy701]

What if he uses my vulnerability against me? Then what?

[@jessicah9311]

Midardley Joseph Then he’s shit and you know.

[@shoot4thstars]

Midardley Joseph then you have to take the risk - is there anything worse that can happen? Ego getting hurt is not the worst thing that can happen.

[@blueblaze9862]

Then he's a sociopath and you shouldn't want him.

[@evelinam.5835]

Some people were rejected so painfully that they didnt deserve one more rejection or should ever handle this. If you feel you are going to be rejected disapare first..no pain..its not a risk you just feel it. Dont be desperate!

[@dukeleach]

If I was there, I'd steal you from your dance partner! 😉

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Lol

[@aniciaisip323]

You made me face my fear of rejection, being vulnerable and getting hury. Thank you so much!

[@esskayelle18]

I got my ass burned by being the girl who "didn't care" about being rejected. I'll always prefer the truth no matter how hurtful but he did not fall in love with me LOL I'm laughing about it now but at the time.... eeeeeek!

[@farzforz]

Amazing!!! Indeed! We can’t live with doubt even for a moment but with the truth even so bitter, we feel peace for ever. Rejection is the bitter truth that clears all doubts for both sides.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Well-said, Farzaneh ! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! x

[@farzforz]

It’s my pleasure! x

[@jackiewalsh9652]

How do you deal with being rejected when you still have to see that person every week? Is there a way to take the awkwardness out of it?

[@Markrosenfeld]

Good question Jackie - will save it for a future Ask Mark!