Men Are Easily Attracted To Women Who Know These 6 Things | Mark Rosenfeld Dating Coach

[@Markrosenfeld]

What do YOU want a man to know for you to be most attracted to him? Share in the comments!

[@nazia2151]

Supportive and loyalty

[@LoveLove-ev1cm]

High morals, salt of the earth type, understanding of humanity, wise, strong in mind and body, surrenders to God, protects and defends the vulnerable from injustice , knows DIY, can build a well , a beehive , even the marital bed, that’s my man 🧔🏾‍♀️❤

[@helensanderson7092]

My boyfriend (well that's what he says he is) says he doesn't want anything serious but wants us to be in a relationship. I'd just like to be with someone who is genuine

[@CelticWild]

To know he isn’t a player and is stable and reliable. Highly attractive since women want a no-nonsense guy and we are geared with long-term ideas and not a man who wants a casual fling, only to get your heart trashed.

[@WonderWoman1984-uy5yn]

This might sound counter intuitive, but being able to hold her to a standard in a way that is powerful but not aggressive. There is only one person that I know that does this, and it scrambles my brain. If I were having mood swings, he would be unfazed by it and either calmly walk up to me, turn my head to look me in the eye and tell me to behave myself, or he would be quite charming but strong with it and it just turns me to jelly.

[@sanchez9552]

It’s very attractive when a man doesn’t rush things physically and always asks for consent for everything, especially when dating. I feel objectified and undervalued when men seem to care more about getting to know my body, rather than me as a person.

[@Markrosenfeld]

So many likes on this comment Sanchez - thanks for sharing it. Many women are resonating with what you've shared :)

[@bettinahayes3314]

Very true, thank you.

[@tinygirl]

This!

[@brooke_moon]

I love it when a man is in his masculine energy: decisive, full of purpose, direction, intention, and action. Bonus points if it highlights his physical strength. I dated a guy once who got a flat tire on the way to meet me for coffee. I offered to bring him an iced coffee, thinking he might be stressed. As I watched him change his tire, I was blown away by his physical strength, ability to take action, knowledge of what to do, and how something that would have sent my emotions spiraling didn’t seem to rattle him.

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's lovely of you to share, Brooke. Gives the guys here some insight! Thanks so much! x

[@theresahartley5146]

I absolutely love watching my man tinker around and fix things around the house, cars, whatever. He is handy and can fix ANYTHING. My dad is like that too, me and my sisters always said our dad can fix anything but a broken heart. And it makes me feel safe that my man can do that too!

[@pinky92]

More bonus points if he can translate it into love

[@yanammm]

Oh, I love that… “women need physical safety; men need emotional safety” ❤️👍🏻

[@mareecrook2162]

Women need emotional security too

[@aylex1974]

@@mareecrook2162more than physically I think

[@pikachocobo]

Its incredibly refreshing for a man to be transparent about his standards and needs yet still be able to set ego aside and show his vulnerable side too. Emotional intelligance and transparency are the first things I find attractive

[@Markrosenfeld]

Beautiful 👌👌👌

[@BetterTogether300]

Sorry to come across sounding strange, I've experienced a unusual behaviour from a group of others who introduced lots of confused situations n deceptions onto my life esp a kind of mind game type thing when others were exchanging identities n hiding out as so and so sending what seemed to be valid sourced youtubes with altered pics of the underrated well known persons using some kind of picture face melding with more than 1 persons face even. Some things sent to my phone contained threats to my well being

[@yardiebarbie5106]

Respect. Emotional intelligence/maturity. Thoughtfulness. Reliability/Dependability.

[@annettelysan7724]

I’m attracted to a man who is a good listener and doesn’t judge when you need someone to listen, even if they don’t fully understand everything. That also creates a safe space and a sense of empathy.

[@nazia2151]

Good character blend with kindness is most attractive 😍

[@Markrosenfeld]

Character! LOVE that.

[@dianebacon8464]

A man is most attractive when he is has true confidence- not arrogance or machismo. The man whom I started dating recently isn’t my typical physical “type” but I find his confidence to be magnetic and super sexy!

[@UnlimitedAspirations24]

@ Diane Bacon - omg, same here but when I saw his ring I was like damn ( I felt the most unlucky person right there ) who’s that lucky lady 😳

[@Markrosenfeld]

This is AWESOME to hear Diane - congrats!

[@jessicaw6963]

Emotional safety is number 1 for me, I need this from a man! I was a little surprised to hear it was on the men's list, but I guess it makes sense!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Jess I would say EVEN more so (in general) in this direction. Men have so little room to move emotionally in most of their lives and are historically more 'timid' and 'shamed' for their vulnerable emotions, thst they're at an even higher 'flight risk' because we've been exposed to so much sensitivity in this area. Not to mention, any man who has been trained to be scared of triggering his mum/ex girlfriend can feel very (emotionally) unsafe bringing up honest things with his girlfriend. Real challenges for men to overcome in this area!

[@jessicaw6963]

@@Markrosenfeld thanks for the feedback, very interesting and insightful!

[@EllaBella-76]

@@Markrosenfeld•Also different cultures?Family morals etc surely it better to date someone court someone?Than just to be viewed as an object as a man or as a woman?There are no set roles ?But we both have moral standards.I am making myself clear ether he accepts that or not ?Ether he learns to know that I actually have deeper feelings?Or he can go find someone Asian and maybe his Family will be happy he just says he doesn’t know what he wants yet in life I have no clue if I am friend zoned or dating someone that actually maybe eventually wants more ?It’s too complicated he has had someone cheat take money ?Yikes £15,000 ?He offered it then she dumped him I actually thought this was a long term ex Relationship well 10 days together then go back to his work abroad take another Holliday 10 days she said a car would help (“She had had a hard Life?”)Then she dumped him ?

[@meloney10]

For me it is basically the same vice versa. I also want to make sure that I can be safe emotionally around my guy. I want them to know that woman have just as much sexual desire to be wanted, and also to serve you that way as well. We want to also feel useful and as if we count (significance). I hope that helps💕🌺

[@Degen_Damsel]

Thank you Mark! Needed to hear this. The guy I was seeing for 5 months ghosted me after I expressed my needs for more consistent communication and connection. 🙅‍♀️ Felt quite bad and ashamed I expressed it, but you made me realize it's perfectly normal!

[@sweetbliss2472]

The question is what you to do when ghosted? Communicate that it was unacceptable or roll with the ghost?

[@Degen_Damsel]

@@sweetbliss2472 I sent him a final message after three weeks of silence saying I don't ghost, and I don't accept being ghosted. And that I would be ending the relationship there :) taking back the power.

[@Markrosenfeld]

@@Degen_Damsel Glad you did that. 💪💪

[@VIDEOHEREBOB]

@@sweetbliss2472 I mailed a letter after 5 weeks of ghosting. I'm very proud of that letter. At least she knows my take on things. Nothing in the letter but a review of our relationship. Better days are coming.

[@Degen_Damsel]

@@VIDEOHEREBOB well done, at least this gives you closure and dignity to move on ❤️

[@RubyLine]

There a lot of things that can make a man attractive 😆 But the most important ones (after a few failures xD) being reliable, consistent, respectful, supportive, kindness and humor. Plus he owning the fact that he has needs and knows how to communicate them !

[@Markrosenfeld]

These are great and I encourage them in clients a LOT. If only we could have a guy fill out a form on the first date ticking all these boxes! Still, that's what intuition (and even getting coaching!) is for ;)

[@RubyLine]

@@Markrosenfeld True true Mark ! 😂 Intuition and gut feeling should really be followed more ! But let's not forget that actions speak louder than words 😉 I have made quite a few discoveries since I watched your videos and read your book. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us ❤ It's been a real eye-opener and game-changer 😊

[@rezotydnic]

It is very attractive and appreciated if my man prioritizes me. Just because he has me doesn't mean he can back off and not continue dating me! The unexpected let's go for a bumble or I'll be in there in 5 minutes. Get dressed we're going out dancing. I love spending time with him no matter what we're doing. Hiking, working on our old classic car, running errands etc. And yes we do have our guy time/girl time. I just want more of him. He works away all week, we do not live together. Seeing him for an afternoon is not enough. I want an afternoon and a night!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Love this

[@dianebacon8464]

A man is most attractive when he is has true confidence- not. The man whom I started dating recently isn’t my typical physical “type” but I find his confidence magnetic and support sexy!

[@lapiswanders4384]

Great video Mark! ❤️ I’m easily attracted to men who generally behave like adults, and not teenagers: responsible and mature guys, yet able to relax and have fun 😍

[@Markrosenfeld]

Brilliant

[@Sara-mr1hs]

It's a tricky balancing act expressing your needs without being needy...🤔

[@ladyzelda4189]

I would like a man to know that we value feeling safe like just some-sort of a pull in hug from behind is just the best kind of feeling. It makes us feel secure knowing that we have someone. In my opinion at least.

[@melissab7270]

To be very present and learn what interests/passions of the woman rather than making endless small talk, sports, or work conversations.

[@anestrathdee3894]

I love this video! It speaks to me 💯💯💯. I’m happy married for 8 years and my husband values me just like Mark mentioned in the video. Well done! Thanks 🙏🏻 for the insight

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Hi Mark, I fell in love with my current beau after he didn’t rush me for the physical intimacy. He was interested in the music I liked and I listened to the music he liked. He didn’t try to stick his tongue down my throat. It was a beautiful moment. And we’ve had beautiful moments since outside the bedroom. I don’t know at this point 5 months later if it will last. He has pulled away. Whatever happens I have regained hope from this interaction. Thanks for your content - it definitely resonates and it is specially lovely how much you care about your girlfriend Mark ❤🎉🇨🇦🙏☀️🎶

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Great and extremely valuable information information Mark! Thank you so much ☺️ Ps I fell in love with my beau when on our first date, he let me hear him sing a fave song of his. I just thought this is unbelievable- what a beautiful moment, I felt special, to have that privilege, I will never forget it.

[@alannaphelan7029]

I like a friendly guy who is funny and makes me feel safe by showing empathy. Those are the two qualities I want a guy to have that makes me attracted to them.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Love that Alanna!

[@tobebetter6528]

You are so talented) I appreciate your content a lot)

[@Markrosenfeld]

🙏🙏

[@TerryGuzmanMartinez]

I love your shirts! That's your unique style. And, of course, thanks a lot for your advices.

[@Love_7777]

I love and appreciate men so much ❤❤❤

[@tanyagross3624]

When a man is emotionally vulnerable with a woman, what should the woman say? Is it a turn-off for the man if the woman says she is sad for him or worried about him? What would be a successful response?

[@Markrosenfeld]

"I appreciate you - thanks for sharing that"

[@sweeteime]

Be empathetic. Listen to him. Show him support and affection through hugs, touch, rub his hair, etc. Most often, hugging and letting him know that you accept and love him regardless of what the “situation” is. Thank him for trusting you to share his vulnerabilities. Don’t shame him or use his vulnerabilities EVER against him in arguments and low moments. Also, ask him how you can help him?

[@MsTwilightgirl94]

A man that's mature but also has a playful side. I don't mind a guy who likes playing videogames because so do I but I don't want to be with a boy, I want a Mature Man that knows how to handle business when needed but also can be laid back. A Man who's funny and has a good sense of humor, a Man that listens & communicates with you and actually wants to get to know you first is very attractive!! 🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥

[@clairexxx0405]

Great video Mark 🤗 For me Im attracted to men who have the ability to accept not only my flaws but his own too and grow together as we work through them x

[@Markrosenfeld]

Love that Claire

[@GoldenAngel-]

Please do videos on marriage and Marriage advice

[@charissedecalongne2553]

Excellent content Mark thank you!

[@granache]

Thank you Mark for this video. It is all true

[@Markrosenfeld]

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[@SalamSinjab]

Thank you so much. Words of gold

[@Demtows]

Hi Mark 🙂 I feel more safe and attracted to a guy when he acknowledges and respects my boundaries . I love those green flags 😍 . Thanks for your content - it's appreciated (by me)

[@MsLilac88]

I always feel enlightened by your amazing relationship videos. 😊 Men are attracted to women who embrace their uniqueness. 💜

[@liztowers2058]

That's right!!! WOMEN NEED TO VALUE MEN. WOMEN ALSO NEED TO STOP THINKING THEY CAN DO EVERYTHING A man can do. NO WE CANT. WE NEED TO FOCUS ON THE THINGS MEN CANT DO instead.

[@magdalenaguna7496]

Thank you Mark you rock

[@iyamzo]

Its attractive when he is fully in his masculine and feminine energy both balanced, also who respect and protects my dignity. Who is always has my back no matter what just like i always have his.

[@pinky92]

I want them to know slight contact, a kiss on the hand etc... can spark

[@lisapagliari9232]

What some of the men that I meet don't seem to realize that while it is okay for them to want certain things (such as sex), it is also okay for us to want or expect certain things, like someone who remembers our birthday and brings us a small, but thoughtful gift. I was told by one man that I didn't have the right to expect this because "men don't do that," yet men have the right to expect sex all the time. So we don't have the right to want what we want but they do?

[@Radtech2002]

Excellent

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thank you! Cheers from 'straya

[@BetterTogether300]

while some kinds of slander n mind abuses were sent as well, too

[@rebeccagarland4595]

What if both are the same zodiac signs. What I mean is what if both of you are similar in a lot of ways and you like him but you don't know if he likes you.

[@Markrosenfeld]

This is like another language to me so I have no idea 😂

[@RubyLine]

Soo .... usually when 2 people are of the same zodiac signs you might get along really well and like the same things 😬 If you love him and sense a reciprocal spark, you can either drop a few hints (aka flirting) or be entirely upfront with him 😉

[@VIDEOHEREBOB]

Ladies, Please don't emasculate us. We're men, and we like being men. I'm man enough to say; I don't always want my equal.

[@laurenhoelle7726]

If Number 5 feels really foreign, how do you suggest women start building it up?

[@BetterTogether300]

Thats why i askd things that made me come across as strange, which cdbe the goal of that abuse. It been very destructive The people doing these things cd imitate other ppls voices...which i saw n heard them do as others saw n heard them too. Narcissistic x group of many.

[@kidavis7024]

👍 it's the little things

[@imaneharit4035]

First comment

[@collagecult]

Doesn’t count if you don’t say anything

[@lizziandlewy8803]

@@collagecult That's so funny 🤣

[@Markrosenfeld]

😂

[@susanoliveira3155]

You're so mature... 😮😊

[@SuperDflower]

I hate to say this but I think the comment about women knowing they can go back to the marketplace has only to do with their looks.

[@npkrn6764]

And remember ladies... something he should've added is that if a man is NOT attracted to these qualities, he's a user and has ZERO intentions of treating you well. And the same for women who also disrespect men and what we should honor and want in them.

[@pinky92]

Want u to know dont stop

[@Dips755]

When you ask a man what he wants for dinner and he says he doesn’t know lol, and a man who doesn’t take care of his body. That’s a turn off!

[@annnee6818]

There's loads of guys who will be driven away by your wants and needs. Loads of those junkers kicking about😅

[@tonitv9991]

If we have to express our standards for men to give us the bare minimum, your opinion might be in alignment with scientific proof that men mature a decade after women. Can you understand how frustrating this is?

[@nel5802]

men love women who do not unblock them after blocking them

[@miriamnabulime8461]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I wanted to unblock him but let me keep in there...funny you..😂😂

[@nel5802]

@@miriamnabulime8461 I have not unblocked him for about 2 years and he still sends me emails begging me to unblock him 🙄! He will be a 💀 in my blocklist

[@Markrosenfeld]

😂😂😂

[@lb4397]

🥰

[@clarerowley6240]

haha show me a man who can handle the women you describe,, because I find men don't like it when you have a good job and a house, I cant turn into a weak thing that asks a man to do stuff to make him feel needed then they distance themselves and dump ya... no no no.. you want a man to want you, to be around you, laugh with you, be honest with you, and look after themselves, and be independent too. I'd rather stay single forever than drop my standards, and unfortunately that's why so many of my friends are single they value themselves while most men don't value or even try to get to know a women without trying to have sex with them asap. so pathetic and disrespectful

[@donnamcabee4299]

To treat me like the lady that I am…opening doors, helping me to be seated at the dinner table, ordering my meal for me, etc. 1:00pm March 12th

[@kimt8162]

I always feel bad for my daughter; (high school version). She always goes in positive, yes a little innocent, and then BOOOOMMMM! Something not great happens to her. A guy being a jerk, or a girl liking the guy she's talking to and the girl then goes after her. Then the trauma in the news, so she's on eggshells now. Being on eggshells is going to make it harder for her to meet the right guy. But I know where it's coming from.Things are just so complicated these days.

[@guido-o2h]

what makes me most attractred to a man is when he knows how to shut up

[@AussieGirl235]

Men are easily attracted to women that are hot. You’re welcome

[@Jca-y3m]

And what does it mean to be hot?

[@sovanndaily9194]