What My Husband Thinks of Our Feminine Decor

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

I have a husband who is very smart and is a CPA. He married a very creative woman who’s feminine and happens to be a hairdresser. When we bought our home he let me decorate the whole thing the way I want, it he took care of the budget, he told me how much we had to spend and I respected that and stayed within my budget. I’m the creative one who can decorate. He can’t decorate he’s not that type of man. He loves everything I pick out. I’m very feminine and have a very comfortable home that he loves.

[@leigh-annej3104]

"Everywhere I look I see what attracted me to her " This is so beautiful and touching. One can hear how much he loves you. You two seem to balance one another out perfectly. Much blessings 💐

[@leigh-annej3104]

@Jennifer Cardina Wow!! Beautifully said

[@BomberMan81]

As a personal friend of Jorge and Nikki, I can confirm that this is 100% accurate of their relationship and always has been well before this channel existed. When I visit their house I have never felt the home looked or felt “girly” or overly feminine, Nikki makes the home feel warm and comfortable and that’s all I have ever felt about it and I’m saying that as a guy. It’s strange to think that anyone would feel uncomfortable or awkward in their home, especially Jorge.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you, this was so nice of you to say!

[@jameshollister26]

who are you to say you are there friend? i have known that family sense i was 12 (i am 17 now). but really who are you?

[@LesleyLizbeth]

What a sweet husband with a servant heart. Glad to see couples modeling traditional roles. I strive for that as well.

[@simplehealthyliving4681]

A traditional husband is a gentleman but he is the head of the wife. A traditional wife is submissive to her husband and serves him well for all his hard work for her.

[@donmataciachenault9556]

My husband and I have been married 38 years. My mother told me when I was 17, "Treat him like a king, and he will treat you like a queen." You two have just explained this to the younger ones that watch your videos. Lovely! Thank you!

[@Progamerjay100]

Unfortunately, this is not always the case. You could treat a man like a King and he would still expect you to take out the trash alone at midnight. Or not pick up another job or do online schooling to better your families situation when he has free time. Or have you work from home, homeschool, pay the bills and clean up after everyone in the house (even him) and treat you cruely if he is in a bad mood. Not everyone is blessed with a traditional man.

[@donmataciachenault9556]

@@Progamerjay100 I'm sad to read this. I realize that this is true in the lives of many women. So sorry. :(

[@chellybarnard6394]

Amen!

[@007amy-n1b]

@@Progamerjay100 true in some cases but even if the man treats a good woman wrong God will take notice because of her eventually he will chage or God will take matters in his hands, my great grandmother work her whole life and took care of household my grandfather was known as a lazy man but in the end he was saved and God bless my great grandmother especially his passing in so many ways that people still talk about what women she was so elegant.

[@simplehealthyliving4681]

@@Progamerjay100 For most men under 40, the opposite experience has been true. Your case is a minority situation and you have my sympathy.

[@laurabarker88]

Masculine men, like Jorge, just want to make their woman happy. You and him are a perfect blend of masculinity and femininity! Jorge has a great sense of humour!

[@TLK526]

This was such a great video. Thank you so much for sharing. It is so great to see such a loving couple .

[@purltwotogether8218]

I love how this went from "how does your husband survive with pink walls?" to the beautiful heart of marriage, love and meeting one another's needs.

[@LesReadBooks]

Jorge reminds me of my husband. We’ve been married 12 years and he’s always supporting me in the best of ways. The world needs more men like ours. Being masculine is not toxic! It’s protective, strong, reliable, loving, and necessary. Men and women balance each other. As long as my husband has a rocking recliner and a tv he’s fine with the home I keep. :) :)

[@da.4302]

💜

[@catherinecorn2371]

Leslie, so true! All a man needs and wants is a full belly and a place to chill, and a woman who is happy. ❤

[@lenafreeze7131]

Amen

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

You two make such a handsome couple. Jorge had me laughing several times! All your hopes and dreams 😂 Ben is the same way. He has great taste and doesn't mind the toile in our bedroom, for example. It's nice when you agree on decor. Great video!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Jennifer! Ben does have great taste!

[@ladylana3093]

I admire how masculine husbands are attracted to feminine wives 💞 My hubby is a tradie and often reminds me how he always loved my feminine style. We women have a talent in “feathering our nest” - which makes for a warm and comfy home. I don’t know why people have trouble understanding what our hubby’s think of our feminine decor - they love it! 💖 I would be asking them “What does your husband think of your unkept house?”

[@catherinecox8921]

I used to think that my husband didn’t care about the inside of the house because every time I asked his opinion he said he didn’t care. After 40 years of marriage I realized that I completely misunderstood the whole thing. For him it wasn’t about the things, it was about the feel. As I brought my personality into each paint color choice and decor item I was Blessing our home; Making it warm and cozy for our family. That is what he loved. That is what has made him feel comfortable and relaxed at the end of a long hard day at work.

[@brecruz4832]

All he wants love and respect. To feel honored. Do that and he’ll give you whatever you want! Put him first, and you’ll be his queen!

[@just1desi]

Jorge is an absolute delight, I love his sense of humour. There is nothing more wonderful than an easygoing man who is good with his hands and building who just wants to make his wife happy and ensure she is at ease. He must be a great father. Also your dress is fabulous.

[@DansonforJoy]

Awwww! When Jorge said he looks around your home and sees YOU reflected in everything! Ah! Totally started crying! 🥰 SO LOVING!! This conversation was great. Thank you for sharing your perspectives with everyone. 🤗

[@DansonforJoy]

Oh, and since Jorge asked, yes - my husband lets me decorate our home however I like. He even drove me to pick up a jute rug I found on Craigslist last night, even though I know he firmly believes we have plenty of rugs. 😂

[@jessicasmoker7389]

My husband has said this same thing. 🥰

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Jesse!

[@AJ.943]

The thing that touched my heart the most.....was when he said “When I look around here....I see Nikki”. 🥰

[@kash-220]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 That’s all I have to say. You can see God in your marriage. You guys are both comfortable in the roles and who God made you both. Jorge expressing that he loves your femininity and he sees you in your home was so beautiful. Him expressing that he was uncomfortable being alone and being with you is comfortable...So very beautiful. You guys are so cute! God bless your marriage and your family.

[@barbaramathis5844]

Thanks for sharing, take it from a 75 year old, a happy wife in the daytime makes a happy husband at night. He probably would never say it, but am I wrong?

[@juanitahofmeister6605]

Oh I think he said it!!😂

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

@@juanitahofmeister6605 I thought so...in so many words.

[@ruthvanseeters6824]

Perfect content. He gets what it means to be a husband, father, son. He is sure of who he is and who you are. You both have a very special marriage.

[@cynthiaszall7923]

Definitely agree, thank you for your thoughts Jorge!

[@HeathermadeHome]

At my house, my husband is the Outside Team Lead. I’m the Inside Team Lead. The kids are in training for both teams 🤣🤣 It works for us. I genuinely do not even notice when the grass needs to be cut but I do notice that the ceiling is a touch grayer than I’d like it to be. My husband could not care less about the ceiling color but will measure each blade of grass. It works for us. At the end of the day, we trust each other enough to know that we’re each considering the other in the decisions we make. So it works.

[@heatherbishop8788]

Totally the same for our family!

[@lilylily3471]

Men like him are what is lacking in this world.. Fantastic video.. Truth always wins.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you!

[@Laura_B__]

Wow...I am blinking back tears. Jorge is such an amazingly sweet and loving man. I'm so glad that you are blessed with such a man for your husband, Nikki. It must feel wonderful to be loved, and even cherished, for who you are, and for your needs and desires to be taken so seriously.

[@Chronicles1611]

Jorge is just like my husband. He could care less how I decorate and if I change something he doesn't notice it. I think our traditional lifestyle is becoming extinct as time marches on and it can be hard for non- traditionalists to understand it. 🌷

[@da.4302]

💜

[@catherinecorn2371]

It definitely is an extinct thing.

[@karenramnath9993]

Please, we can’t let it go extinct! The Bible says that the older women should teach the younger ones how to love their husbands. ‘Cause it’s not instinctive, and we need taught. Please, if you see a young wife struggling, give her a hint about what to do. I know it won’t always be appreciated, but someone will be willing (or desperate😅) enough to listen.

[@fundamonium]

You would be surprised how many of the younger generations are seeing the benefits. There is hope

[@katie7748]

​​@@fundamonium Yes!!! All you have to do is look and you will see it! Edit: Meaning that yes, a LOT of whippersnappers see the beauty and benefit of these things. Most people tend to lump them all into one big non-appreciative group, but it's simply not true. There are a lot of us out there.

[@rooftopworship]

He's so sweet! You can tell he really loves you 🥰 he is very honoring. This video made me like y'all even more!!

[@virginiaescalera2419]

You can clearly see how important Nikki's happiness is to Jorge. I'm impressed.

[@cherriezontop567]

Jorge is a PAPI CHULO!!!❤😍You Hit The Jack Pot!!!💯Love This Masculine Man!!!💖It's Awesome That You Both Understand You Complement Each Other And You're Not Competing Against Each Other!!! God Bless Your Marriage!😎🌴

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

He is! Thank you so much!

[@blessednhm]

Traditionally women were always the keepers at home. My father also never had a say in decor. My mother did all the decorating and picked out all the furniture. She let us kids decide on what furniture we wanted when we became teens but my dad never wanted to be bother with that stuff really. But if we touched his things in the garage and shed their was hell to pay. That was his space lol.😄

[@shesinherapron]

He's a keeper!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I agree ;)

[@maryfi1983]

Best video of the channel!! love it!! well done! the world needs more masculine mens and feminine woman!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so glad you enjoyed this!

[@julzluvzdollz]

This is such a great video. This reminds me of how my husband supports all my decor choices. He’s always let me do my thing in our home and I adore him for it. I know he appreciates the ambiance of our home even if it’s not his personal taste. He certainly has his own space and does the things that make him happy. Your husband said it perfectly “I don’t have a say in here because I don’t want to have a say in here.” Lovely couple thanks for sharing with us Nikki!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so glad you enjoyed this, thank you 🌹

[@lindarobertt6206]

What a great video! I loved the way Jorge expressed himself. What stood out was that he was and is attracted to a very feminine woman and understands her need to create a home that reflects her feelings. I think now your viewers understand more your marriage and how it works and thrives with so much love.

[@tonicarey971]

This is beautiful! I loved when Jorge said that when he looks around, he sees Nikki 😍

[@0JReynolds]

I feel that the home is an extension of the wife. He loves you and so the home is just a part of what he loves about you. I’ve been married 30 years, dated my husband 4 years and our home makes my husband feel “at home”. My husband takes care of the things I don’t want to do and I love taking care of the home and family. I never wanted to work and my husband said I’d never have to if I didn’t want to. When we were young that meant sacrifice and building a life together.

[@Lakewaveboat]

❤️

[@lucerovillegas3133]

Must be nice

[@lilybee_]

@@lucerovillegas3133 I understand. I've always had to work and I used to be bitter about it. Now I get that God provided what was best for both of us.

[@lilybee_]

Thank you! I always ask my husband for his opinion and he says "that's fine" or "I dont care". It has always bothered me. I finally get it. He doesn't care and just wants me to be happy. We just built a new home and I made all the decisions. He keeps saying he's so happy that I have my dream home. I get it 😁

[@josephinejustiniano1461]

He said, “I’m wondering where my Cheetos stains are?” 😂😂😂 Such a beautiful couple! It’s great to see such genuine connection between you two.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Don't come between the man and his Cheetos! Hahaha!

[@juliecarns]

“An outlet 3” to the left” is so me!! 🙋🏼‍♀️ My husband moved the light switch 4” to the right in our bathroom so the towel hook wouldn’t be so close to the outlet. Great husbands are priceless! ❤️❤️❤️

[@donna7612]

Thanks for being honest in a politically correct world. You are in the majority.

[@mamarose9926]

You two are SO CUTE! The way you look at him and seem so giddy around him is everything! I would never guess you’ve been married for 16 years. Incredible love between you two 💕

[@JudithVanDenDool]

It makes him look more masculine! Perfect couple Nikki!

[@ladybethia5457]

Exactly! The more romantic it looks, the more manly he will be to her which is so beautiful and just the way the Lord Jesus meant it to be, I believe!:)

[@YodaMama777]

When he said “I love that she is feminine “ summed it up beautifully. He sees and feels you in the space. Beautiful!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, definitely!

[@HeidiSonboulDIY]

haha what a fun video. I got lucky too, because my guy goes along with my style. Funny enough, so do my kids and congrats on 16 years. I can't believe we are going on 20 this next May

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Congratulations Heidi!

[@LavenderandLinen]

My guess is that although he may not notice when a specific change is made, it most likely does effect his mood. That is what we do. We create a mood, an emotion, a personality. We express who we are in our homemaking. The fact is, our husbands married each of us because they were drawn to who we are as women. The way we make a home is part of that. So of course he loves the way the home looks; it looks like his beautiful wife whom he loves. I so appreciate the way that you both love and honor each other. It is such a blessing to see that this kind of relationship and mutual respect still exists in younger generations. 💕

[@heather440]

We live in the old house that my husband grew up in. A lot of decor his mother put up is still here. All the beautiful 60s wall paper goes perfectly with our traditional decor. He has his garage and office for him to decorate. He loves seeing the floral and traditional decor because he thinks it makes our home look like a magazine, which is what I strive for!

[@ec3325]

Each marriage is different. In my case, my husband cares about everything regarding the house as decorations, furniture, etc. We choose together the way the house looks (paint color, furniture, appliances, even the curtains) so our home reflects the taste of both. The decoration of our house is neither masculine nor feminine but one that has the preferences of both, approved by consensus. It has feminine touches in some areas and masculine touches in others. With me there is no problem with this because, although also I consider myself very feminine, the decoration that I like is sophisticated modern style rather than classic and romantic with flowers, etc. I think this helps a lot in my case ... LOL. But every person is different and there are men, like Jorge that prefer that his wife decor the house and is very valid too. Beautiful video!

[@LauraMcClellanwrites]

Same for us-my husband cares about this stuff, so when I choose things for the house I take his tastes into account and ask for his input. In my office or on my bathroom counter, for example, I do what I want, but in the shared spaces, it’s a consensus approach. That’s what works for us (and has for the 40-plus years we’ve been married).

[@lauramccoy2465]

This is so very interesting! My husband was building our home when I met him. I was completely honored that he let me have influence with his choices. As a result, we tend to make our choices together. Last night, I caught my husband staring at different places around our home. When I asked if everything was okay, he responded with “You’ve made my house really pretty.” 💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

How sweet!

[@debbs542]

We’ve been married 46 years and we have the same type of relationship! The home is my domain and my husband even makes furniture! More of Jorge!

[@simplesonia3497]

I love how traditional you both are. I try to be that way too. My husband does care about colors. But we meet in the middle and make it work.

[@deniseowens4543]

Hopefully if decor is a issue than you can meet in the middle that's what marriage is about .

[@cherylannjohnson8801]

This makes so much sense to me. My husband is very much like this...and we have been happily married over 50 years. My husband was in the timber business and a very masculine guy. I am very traditionally feminine and love to have my environment cozy and soft. Over the years when we have his business associates over, they have been surprised and teased him a little and he just blew it off. He has his man cave and shop area & I let him make the decision how to decorate and organize those areas. We actually have both changed a bit and our styles have become more similar in our retirement years. It’s nice to see a young couple actually communicate with respect and a bit of humor. You both are going to be ok...your marriage & family are important to you both. Be blessed... 💕

[@christineward7146]

I've been married for 48 years and the reason we've been together for so long is because we respect each other the same as you two do. I love being a housewife and mother. My house isn't perfect but my home is. By the way I'm from England.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Beautifully said Christine!

[@Jo-hello]

I love that! ‘My house isn’t perfect but my home is’ ☺️❤️

[@mrs.shockley]

Lol! I loved this video! My husband is the exact same way! He could care less about the decor and I have flowers and pink everywhere! He cares about the garage, the cars, appliances and keeping everything in working order. When we have visitors the first thing that he says is, "What candles do you want lit and where are they"? My husband knows that a feminine home makes me happy and he is good with it. Keep it up Jorge!!!!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

How sweet! I love that!

[@aujkalenic4203]

He honors his wife and she honors her husband.......love prevails......we are to hold the other higher than ourselves......God keep blessing these precious kids of YOURS.... folks, please try this beautiful Way of Life 🥰

[@tbuttercup2162]

I’m pretty traditional and I read once , when I was young, that men make things happen and women create within. So what he has provided for his wife and family, we as women create a warm and loving home. 💖 Sounds like you’re the perfect couple. 🤗

[@RobynG70]

My husband is the same way. He's a man's man. He doesn't care about the decor as long as he has a soft couch to sit on and a bed to sleep in....

[@MsDianaJean]

It seems so odd to me that people assume you would do something that made Jorge feel uncomfortable in y’all’s home. You have a respectful, loving marriage. You both put the other person’s priorities first & sacrifice where the other person’s priorities take center stage. It’s healthy compromise. Jorge is a masculine man who isn’t threatened by his wife’s feminine decor. In fact, living somewhere that makes her feel content makes him happy. That’s love.

[@alexisd83]

🤣🤣🤣 "I just noticed that my Cheeto stains were gone"🤣🤣🤣

[@SarahsAtticOfTreasures]

I really like the way they interact together.

[@clingingtoHim]

My husband is like that - very masculine and doesn't care how I decorate. He cares about food and things being organized, he doesn't care about the colors. My style is more beachy/ shabby chic, not pink, but he likes that I am feminine and care about decorating.

[@konniestaabmiller472]

Lol, my husband is the same way. He only cares if he has a comfortable chair and comfortable bed. He does like a clean house and does his part to get it done. His shed, garage and yard is where he makes the space his own. I good with that.

[@carolinew6095]

Jorge, my husband is just like you on the decorating side of life. He simply wants sports on tv and to relax after working hard all week . He would hate to shop for cushions etc, I adore seeing a happy Christian marriage where you respect each other- God bless you both and your sweet family ❤️❤️

[@designdoctor247]

5:55 this is very touching and inspiring ...thank you to your husband for his wonderful way of expressing how much he appreciates you and all your do to make your home relaxing, beautiful, "comfortable" and perfect for your family.

[@dailyoccasions9539]

I find your husbands attitude refreshing! I love traditional roles in a marriage. My husband would nail a couch to the ceiling if that would make me happy! I love you and your channel, Nikki!!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Love that!

[@AZHITW]

You are so lucky Nikki, mine has to shop with me. We've owned nothing but brown couches for the last 18 years. LOL!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I remember our brown couches.

[@annabalazova2708]

Love this ❤

[@blessednhm]

I hope my future hubby has this mindset because boy oh boy do I love to decorate 😄

[@brainstorm1899]

I don't have a husband but give me one that thinks like this, the beginning of this video almost made me cry, you guys are so sweet and I totally agree, you each have your own thing. spread the word to men here in Europe ;)

[@ashleyelizabeth902]

omg lol the look on your faces when he noticed the way he said that, i love how you both just laughed knowing there were people who were going to jump on the chance to comment. love how real and unrehearsed this is :)

[@TracyLambertLovesPaul]

I love to hear y'all laughing together! That was my favorite part.

[@jeannesnodgrass8073]

When I heard this question I thought what my husband would say. He is just the same! He doesn’t care how I decorate. I talk to him about what I want and hear his opinion then he will fix it. We have clearly defined roles and have been happily married for decades.💕

[@tinamarieschaffer-sick4456]

As I watch this video, my husband is next to me. He feels the same as Jorge. Then, to hear Jorge's comment about his surroundings reminding him of Nikki is so beautiful.

[@gaudiumrome]

"I've never been more comfortable in my life." LOL, wonderful.

[@rorysmom3]

Jorge can you talk to my husband, he has A LOT of opinions about my throw pillows 😜

[@yasemeenelson6495]

Haha! Girl me too 🤦‍♀️ every marriage is different right? As much as I wish he DIDNT care my husband does. I’m annoyed by it just writing this!! 😂 but 🤷‍♀️ gotta find a way to meet in the middle I guess!

[@andrea9797mdd]

Way to go! I always get confused when men fight with their wives over decor on HGTV!

[@PatriciaW80]

Loved this video with Jorge! So well said! I’ve been married 44 years & it’s much the same for us; respect for one another. We each have our ways that make our house a home. My husband is very practical & his skill set greatly contributes to our home & allows it to function well. I enjoy making our home a comfortable, cozy space with decor that promotes beauty & peace. You’re a wonderful couple. Thank you for sharing!

[@lovemyshipoo]

You are a GOOD man Jorge. I have been married for 51 years!! My husband has very similar views. In all these years...he has slept in his share of pink bedrooms 🙂 even in floral sheets....imagine that!😉 His concern...the bed was comfortable and I was snuggled up next to him. It's not that we necessarily focused on a "division of labor " by sex...it seemed natural...and...as we believe in God's plan. That's not to say that my husband didn't change diapers, wash dishes, give the children baths..etc. or that I never mowed the grass, pulled weeds, painted siding, changed light bulbs..etc. We have always been a team...working together. Thru the years sometimes we have decorated our home together if/when it matters and compromised when needed. One of our boys married a woman with her own professional career...their way is different yet traditional. They share most all of the household and children responsibilities but she still honors him as head of their home and he strives to please her, guards and protects their family unit. So...that works too. I think it all comes down to the love and respect that we give in a marriage....Love your spouse as you would love yourself. Some days one or the other gives or takes a little less or more...but the heart is always...100% . I've watched your channel for quit some time....you are on the right path. May God bless you with many years of marriage. Cyber hugs to you both.💐

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Very well said, I agree!

[@WootenWooten]

What a sweet video! I’ve been married 21 years this month, and y’all did a great job of explaining why no one is being oppressed or forced into anything, that a real marriage is a love and appreciation for the others needs and wants. I wallpapered our bathroom yesterday with flowers and butterflies and my husband loves it because he loves me, just like I love certain things because it’s who he is. Also, I don’t think I’ve seen you smile so much in a video, Nikki❤

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I’m so glad you enjoyed this and he certainly brings me joy 🌹

[@BeautifulTouches]

You two remind me so much of my husband and I...although we've been married for 47 years. He just wants me to be happy. I know that he would NOT prefer to live in very feminine surroundings, but he would never complain if I decorated like you have (and I do LOVE your taste). We've found a style that we both like, and are quite happy with. You and I are both very blessed to have kind, loving, caring husbands. My husband supports me in all that I do. If I wanted to be a "lineman" he would say go for it... but he insists on taking out the garbage, doing the repairs, holding doors open for me, etc. He says "you are my wife, and the mother of our children (we have 10)...you have the more difficult job of the two of us!"

[@stephanieburden5593]

I love you two! I hope my husband and I are like you both, we've been married half as long as you. You are so in love with each other. I decorate however I like, my husband takes care of the yard and garden and I take care of the house and children!!

[@hollykimball]

I love this video!! I lived in a latino community for 20 years and can appreciate your husband's pretty typical view, but I also have 2 brothers in interior design... so I liked how your husband communicated that this is how he's wired. This was so sweet. Love it!!

[@jaricot1056]

A lovely home and a lovely marriage. God bless you both. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@catherinelemaster3883]

Respect and partnership is so important! My partner and I work together every day, planning, cooking, cleaning, etc. We also have our separate projects. At the end of the day, we have dinner and relax. It’s a great life!

[@Laura-kv7bl]

My husband and I and our kids just got a new couch recently, at the store I kept asking what type and what color he liked, and repeatedly he just said that it’s my couch and to get whatever I like. The sales lady said he’s so good to me. And she’s right:) thank you so much for the male perspective on this.

[@amandamckevitt7890]

Also Nikki, your dress is beautiful on you! I LOVE the style of the sleeves😍😍

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Amanda!

[@chellybarnard6394]

My husband has had an identical attitude for the 33 years we've been married. When it comes to decor, all he cares about is the cost, and whether it obscures his view of the TV. And, he likes living with a happy, feminine wife, so he helps me make our home beautiful and comfortable. That's one way he expresses his love for me. And I return that by taking the best care of him that I can. It it works, I say, stick with it!

[@savedraven5096]

Oh my goodness!!! You two are so lovely and genuine about all of this! It was like watching and listening to my husband as Jorge explained his thoughts on these topics! You two are so right though, it is about each of you serving and giving to each other. Thats how The Good Lord works out all of our 'fleshly' ways, by thinking about others needs first, serving one another without tying to dominate or crush each other, but encourage, bless, and edify each other for Love sake. You are a beautiful example to others. And Jorge is right, its not about compromise or delineating who should do each task, but serving one another because you want to bless your spouse and appreciating that the 'Home' can reflect love, order and beauty OR chaos, neglect and stress. The modern way, is for each to get, take and do what they want until they are no longer 'happy' or satisfied with their spouse (or whatever) then they move on, because they are not happy... But this is not love, this is selfish, and the opposite of love. As Christians, we are commanded to Love one another, you obviously know and live by this! For a young couple you two have a lot of things figured out, to the glory of our Lord and Saviour. Most Sincerely, Raven

[@jesicamendoza3528]

😆. Love seeing your interactions with each other. Jorge made me laugh multiple times 😆. He must make you laugh all the time. You 2 are a beautiful couple inside and out and have a beautiful marriage. "When I come through that door, dinner better be served!" 😆😆

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Jesica!

[@designdoctor247]

7:44 this helps me...i actually asked my husband about this ...he said, "I see YOU in each room of our home and that is all i need to remember." I will cherish those words for the rest of my life.

[@amiraclefinds4867]

Sorry, but I'm old school as well and agree wholeheartedly. inside is my responsibility. inside comfortable and in charge of what goes on inside of the home.

[@lifeonhuckleberryhill6052]

I have learned about my husband that feminine touches here and there don't bother him a bit, but if he walks into a space that looks entirely feminine, he doesn't feel like it's HIS home. Through lots of little conversations as we remodel our home, I have learned which things matter to him and which don't, and he has learned the same about me. Marriage is a journey of discovery and learning where your interests overlap in the areas that matter to both spouses. It's a wonderful, complicated, beautiful thing!

[@ginamiller6754]

Your home is beautiful! Your relationship is fantastic and so sweet! I’m lucky I have a husband who is fine with pink & feminine decor. He says he’s secure in his manhood, so pink is OK with him. I do 80% of the decor & the other 20% we do together. We moved into a new home 3 years ago & started from scratch. He wanted plantation shutters in the front of our house, I agreed & choose the color (white). We will be married 25 years in June. ❤️

[@vicinalucinda]

This was so cute😢😍 So much devotion in this marriage ❤

[@dutchessoftruth5435]

If you're husband wants his say all over the house I wouldn't wanna be married to someone like that period it's just plain weird. But then I have more of a traditional marriage and I loved these type of values. It makes her so feminine and him so masculine.

[@LivingQuiteSimply]

Very interesting video! I agree 100% that in marriage you need to have an understanding of what’s important to each spouse, and each marriage will be different. I was hoping after watching this video and sharing the information with my husband, I may be able to get at least one pink room, but instead, you convinced me I don’t need one. My husband is also very traditional in taking care of the car, things that need to be done in the yard, he lifts the heavy things and fixes whatever’s not working, but my husband does care about the decor. He and I love picking out paint together and thrifting for furniture, lamps, and wall hangings, and we both have a love for older and more traditional style pieces, which is something I love about our marriage! But after hearing your husband say he doesn’t care at all about the interior design and that’s why you can have pink without it bothering him, it really makes me want to honor my husband’s preference to not having pink walls in our decor. Very well done. Thank you for sharing!

[@katrinadumonceaux8521]

Hello, I am so happy to find your channel. I found you through Jennifer Scott. You guys are so refreshing!!! Looking forward to getting to know you more through your channel.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello and welcome Katrina, it's great to have you here and Jennifer is so wonderful!

[@maeb7723]

This video is amazing. Honestly, I already assumed that he felt this way, I never wondered about it. But this is just beautiful to watch/listen to. Made me tear up. Hahahaha Jorge's conclusion is cracking me up! Yes my husband does care and would not want pink decor and flowery stuff, but... Neither would I. We have a pretty good agreement about our home and decor, and it's my job to decorate, but I get his input on it because he does care. 🤷 Everyone has to do what works for them and their marriage. This video was wonderful though. Love it.

[@denisegormley1763]

My husband and I will be married 40 years in April. You two have nailed it in what works in a marriage. To answer your question, my husband only cares to a point and asks that he just doesn't hate it. But we make a good team, much like the two of you. I design and envision it, he builds and hangs things up, and does my muscle work. When I say nail it, he asks, "How high?" 😅 I love the humor in here as well. I'm a new subscriber and enjoy seeing a woman who loves taking care of her home. It's a lost art. Truly inspirational. God bless you!

[@acaxochitlcavazos9300]

🥰 yes that’s how my husband thinks to and I’m so glad, he could care less about the decor but let’s me do whatever I can to make the home pleasant for everyone.

[@mangographics225]

Your such a darling couple! I hear him saying he wants you to be the most comfortable and relaxed, as you being in your best place makes him happy. He wants you to be the best you that helps you live your best life! How lovely!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, thank you!

[@luella2897]

I understand the "traditional" gender roles. My marriage is that way too. Jorge is very truthful . Seems he is happy if Nicki is happy!! He just really doesn't care about decor, he does care about Nicki and his relationship with her. That is wonderful, I see MANY wonderful years ahead for their marriage and family ! :)

[@Musichowler]

This was really really cute! My husband and I are blessed to have a similar type of relationship and I love seeing others so happy and playful together.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so glad you enjoyed this and can relate!

[@amandacollins518]

We need more of this! Make this main stream! This is a healthy marriage. I've also in the 16th year of marriage. And my husband is similar to this. But I am not naturally a decorator. So I. Used to get so mad with zero input. I've now decided recently I like it better this way .

[@PlumebeautyDunsborough]

I’m so lucky to have a fabulous husband just like yours . Our home is very feminine and he never comments on sleeping in a pretty room . If anything he loves it because it makes me happy . We built a home together for our children and ourselves. Xxx

[@klf153]

Wonderful to watch you two talking like this -- no need to explain anything! So obvious that you have a great relationship.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Karen!