What no one tells you about living abroad | On isolation, loneliness, finding community

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Nobue Khumalo

Nobue Khumalo

Күн бұрын

I talk about the struggles I have faced with living far away from home and how God has come through

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@itiswellAMOK
@itiswellAMOK Ай бұрын
Woooow the video as just pop up at my. Feed am also Adventist and study in certain university here in east Africa and no friends but have learn God gives us community am glad you found one in church.
@politempunzi9997
@politempunzi9997 8 ай бұрын
😢 they only told us about opportunities!
@KevinHJung
@KevinHJung 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your honesty! I lived abroad for many years and understand the struggle firsthand. This is why I started helping other people living abroad to combat loneliness and make friends :)
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo 2 ай бұрын
That is so thoughtful of you! Yeah it can be really tough
@cleopatramidzi6825
@cleopatramidzi6825 Жыл бұрын
not me watching and thinking i hope someday i will also find a community in this foreign land😒😒😒😒
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
Aww, I hope you will ❤️
@astrid-w5z
@astrid-w5z Жыл бұрын
Video just popped up in my KZbin feed, and 3 min into it, I've decided I'm staying here. I love how you speak. You're very smart. I'm in the diaspora myself, and yup, I definitely relate. I have learned to cope and deal with the changes, and I've grown so much surviving on my own, reminding myself to enjoy my home away from home for the sake of my degree 😅🙏
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
Hi there! Yeah it’s all growing pains but you eventually get used to it. Hope you’ve found a community!
@tafadzwamaruta1966
@tafadzwamaruta1966 Жыл бұрын
Uk has taught me the importance of sleeping hayi ah 😂😂😂.i love my sleep shem
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
😂😂 this can’t be your coping mechanism
@nitirajdaby2554
@nitirajdaby2554 7 ай бұрын
You are honest. You are describing my experience as well !
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo 7 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@_nceba__
@_nceba__ Жыл бұрын
Awwwww 🥺🥺😍😍🥰🥰. This was beautiful to watch. We all need a tribe. I am glad you finally found yours ❣️
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗
@Mommy_lifestyle_with_Mo
@Mommy_lifestyle_with_Mo Жыл бұрын
Im planning to relocate this is eye opening 😍
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
I’m glad it is! Where do you want to move to?
@tafadzwamaruta1966
@tafadzwamaruta1966 Жыл бұрын
Sooo true Nobue🥺🥺🥺
@SueChef100
@SueChef100 6 ай бұрын
"For everything you lost, you gained something better❤❤" Try writing down what you are grateful for😊
@lesegokgatitswe8136
@lesegokgatitswe8136 Жыл бұрын
Ahhhh this is beautiful and encouraging. Happy for you that you found a community, that's so so important :)
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️ it gets better!
@bigthangz5489
@bigthangz5489 Жыл бұрын
u are honest. thanks .... your videos give us so much value your perspectives are so valueable and valid
@tafadzwamaruta1966
@tafadzwamaruta1966 Жыл бұрын
You then get the “ how can you complain about being lonely wena usemazweni”
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
Yah neh
@KasiTvForKasiTribe
@KasiTvForKasiTribe Жыл бұрын
I'M planning on moving abroad n I was thinking about this for so long 😭 Thanks for sharing, I even thought I will get a partner Mina cz I can't. If it happens I don't get one😂I will miss my mom every now n then
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 please get a partner for the right reasons! You will be fine!
@theelands2606
@theelands2606 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢
@thandekakhumalo4696
@thandekakhumalo4696 Жыл бұрын
Church location please wanna visit…
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
Hi Thandeka, it’s Central London Church. If you Google Advent Center of Seventh Day Adventists you will find it. Please do come through!
@thandekakhumalo4696
@thandekakhumalo4696 Жыл бұрын
@@NobueKhumalo we will visit Hope you sing in Venec 😂 I miss it
@TholokuhleM
@TholokuhleM Жыл бұрын
..and please also watch the ads 😜
@NobueKhumalo
@NobueKhumalo Жыл бұрын
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