What Really Happened On Tana’s Birthday Trip - Ep. 42

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On this episode of Cancelled Tana and Brooke hash out the discrepancies of their life in the pop culture world. They talk about Tana’s “hook up” with Trevor Wallace, Tana gets a song written about her, Brooke get’s broken up with, react to Colleen Ballinger’s Apology and they recap the incident that happened on Tana’s birthday week vacation.
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[@taylora8984]

Brooke’s ability to have empathy for Ashly after Ashly was so obviously mean and petty towards her is admirable

[@Scorpioprincess99]

Right ! Brookes an angel 😭🩷🩷🩷🩷

[@devilstoothmushroom]

just knowing how awful she was towards her but then doing the same tenfold really says everything about that girl tbh. not a girls girl.

[@msm5334]

Brooke is a whole slay.

[@InuyashaGreen]

1:50:10 I commented on one of Brooke's videos and believe it was one of her vlogs and I asked What was the beef between her and Ashley? She kept it very cute and just said. That she loves Ashley and there was no beef. This was a couple months ago. But I remember Ashley had a get ready with me. Where she mentioned she would never forgive Brooke for what she did to Tana, And would personally never be friends with brooke. And I mean, come on if you follow tana and even the crew on even just insta, You would definitely see times where ashley would be at places or events with tana, and brooke wouldn't be there and vice versa.

[@lindsaybayless1861]

Yeahhh never really liked Ashly too much. Doesn’t seem very nice.

[@marleeraex]

Brooke just casually saying she doesn’t believe straight guys should be influencers was too funny

[@katieelizabeth1]

That is sexist af

[@sarajames298]

shes not wrong tho..

[@typischnoel9685]

time stamp?

[@__kylie]

Literally same though it gives me the ick

[@marleeraex]

@@katieelizabeth1 pretty sure straight guys are doing just fine after Brooke saying that 😂

[@mayonnaisemommy]

Hooking up in a movie theatre and then immediately telling someone is not the same as a friend of 12 years secretly hooking up with an ex of yours for MONTHS.

[@marytorres8257]

The key word here is secretly. They were secretly hooking up secretly for months? They must have known it was wrong and must have had some idea of what this coming out would do to her....

[@bjtdchutfrchirch9815]

She only told Tana because Tana confronted her

[@monse6103]

@@marytorres8257I read somewhere she was hooking up with them for 8 months idkkk

[@mysticalessandra]

honestly brooke is beyond classy for handling this with such empathy and understanding knowing ashly didn’t do the same for her

[@FangirlEclectic]

yes extremely 💜

[@tashcaarey]

brooke is always the better person 🥰

[@BeautyXXBrittany]

YESSSSSSS!! I kinda always thought ashley was grimey!! and idc

[@brittanybrooks3218]

How is this class? Love her but she doesn’t have an ounce of class in her body lol

[@les_ggg]

Tana spoon feeds all her friends and brings them up with her, and for ANYONE in that friend group to do her wrong breaks my heart!!! ❤️😭

[@Nicolelynn1217]

That’s 100% Facts! She is a really really good friend to her group!

[@didiibearr]

Omfg literally like…. She gives them the world. The least they can do is give her loyalty. Feel so bad for her

[@icanchewbullets]

literally

[@katieelizabeth1]

I mean i guess....

[@Etherealez]

And I think that’s why it hurts her so much ☹️

[@kajolchand8728]

Can we take a second to appreciate how beautiful Tana looks, she literally looks like a princess

[@doubtfullable]

Yes! They are both so stunning.

[@alexisbrea2596]

danny targaryen

[@vlavin1910]

yes, serving mother of dragons

[@MaybeItsElena]

Ashly’s poor behaviour towards Brooke isn’t just because she mistreated Tana. I think it comes from a place of jealousy…I believe she feels threatened that Brooke “stole” her place in the friend group. That’s why she held a grudge for so long whilst everyone else moved on.

[@nicolekaye1236]

Yep I think so also and i remember Ashley being on the hate train when all that crap went down with Brooke hooking up with that guy that made Tana make a video but wouldn’t say her name 🤷🏼‍♀️ she’s mad cus Tana forgave her and now she’s in a much better place then Ashley. I mean who is Ashley we all know her as ta as best friend that’s all. She hasn’t done anything memorable or even to stand out if she’s fine being tans sidekick then be ok with that but I think cus Brooke is way more popular then her Ashley thinks she doesn’t deserve what she has and where she is friendship wise with Tana 🤔

[@zoeyharrison5208]

100%

[@faithjordan8153]

i always thought this

[@dylanhinkel4868]

Yes 100%

[@sheilamacdougall6357]

100% yes. I was looking for this comment. I’m going to be honest I can be a jealous bitch HAHA so I feel like I can spot one… If I was in Ashly’s position I would be jealous too but I would never wrong my best friend of however many years who brought you to LA and has given her a career ? shady stuff and she knew it would hurt tana if it was months and months + lying

[@therealbrynnofficial]

The fact that this happened on HER birthday trip and Tana probably paid for Ashly to come, and this is what Ashly does to her. Disgusting

[@gabbypearson4165]

literally!

[@morgan69666]

Does anyone know who the guy was?

[@ellaa]

@@morgan69666 joey (idk his last name)

[@trippyinthetrap]

@@ellaaJoey from too hot to handle I believe the show was

[@BeautyXXBrittany]

WOW JUST WOW!! i said THE SAME thing too!!!! smh

[@alyssakangaloo3361]

the way tana did not pull the IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY card is mature as fuck i wouldve been saying that OVER AND OVER

[@vans0nhead220]

i hate to be this person but it has not been said so i must… AND YA DID IT AT MY BIRTHDAY DINNER

[@conformality]

@@vans0nhead220LMAO

[@mermaiddiyartist8119]

😂😂😂😂

[@timothee5518]

we're all rats

[@angel1202003]

lyla seems like a really sensitive immature person

[@TheSpookySculptress]

NO ONE can convince me that Tana isn't actually a deeply emotional person, she isn't heartless , it's the polar opposite. Seeing her cry made me extremely upset... 🥺

[@dylanhinkel4868]

Absolutely! I am just like this, deflect with humor

[@cakebby18]

Tanas a triple cancer, I'd say she probably has more emotions than most people lol

[@TheSpookySculptress]

@@cakebby18 TRIPLE ??? That girl must low key swim in her own tears 😭 lol

[@alexcanning5383]

When you go through emotional neglect as a child, you learn quickly that people don’t care or don’t want you to show your emotions. That subconsciously follows you into adulthood.

[@kitspina5436]

A 2 HOUR CANCELLED?! This is better than Christmas

[@jc948]

Frrr I was about to say 2 HOURSSSSSSSSS

[@MadiYeates]

i about cried when i saw it i’m so happy

[@tgh23]

Who sings the song tana is talking about?

[@MadiYeates]

@@tgh23 christian french

[@compressedst]

absolutely

[@ashleylee6861]

Blows me away Brooke doesn't have guys clawing their way to her. What a gem of an episode.

[@S0FlA]

simple: brooke isn't a dumb person. her mentality is threatening to men

[@emily-rw5cq]

@@S0FlA oooo perfectly put and so true

[@avrildawn6776]

There probably is! BUT are they worthy of Brooke🤷🏻‍♀️ Our girl needs a alpha male

[@heatherbonelli]

​@@avrildawn6776ewwww, nothing more disgusting than a REAL Alpha. In principle, sure... The strong, protective guy. But REAL Alphas are the type to expect dinner on the table when he gets home and looks at you as the weaker sex. Nah... She don't need that either.

[@xjenzy5623]

@@avrildawn6776”alpha male”? girl bye 💀

[@melxnielong]

If Ashly didn’t think tana would care, why hide it for 8 months? literally makes no sense, she knew what she was doing imo

[@tomorrow1wb]

Whoa I didn’t get to that part yet 🫢

[@emily_hamrick]

Yeaaaaa super sneaky and wack

[@xojaretzy]

Low-key fact

[@kaylabessette9927]

agreed, if you hide something that long you know what you're doing and you're doing it for a reason.. because you're guilty.

[@michaelbarnett656]

I need all the details ! Did they say that part? Do I need to rewatch it?)

[@chlocosta]

A Sarah Baska guest episode would be fun!! (guys it’s been over a year, i don’t think it’s happening)

[@lunaalexandra_]

yes!!!

[@keannas.6257]

YES

[@ellierainecook]

PLEASE

[@bellam223]

FOR REAL

[@mai9826]

OMG YESS

[@Bubbasimba22]

Listening to Brooke guide this conversation was so refreshing. I love how calm, cool and collected she is (even when fighting tears). It is so easy to jump on a hate train! But she helps Tana navigate difficulty in such a healthy way!!! Love it so much.

[@laurencooper5857]

So true she is open to her opinions while respecting tanas

[@lauriemiguel7990]

A hate train? Or a toxic gossip train?

[@katelynmarklinsky2229]

I SO agree with this. Brooke is a true queen. She handles herself with grace in a lot of shitty situations! Ashlys always been a bitch to her. This is brookes highest road yet, I’m so proud of her and the woman she is becoming!

[@kambrierose9859]

Just bc someone has been a with you for years doesn’t mean you should have to forgive them for disrespecting you

[@druglike]

Exactly!! Cause let's be real she can do it again thinking Oh Tana will just forgive me ..

[@michaelhxhdhdjdj]

People grow apart. I have 1 friend i speak too daily from the last 10 years.. everyone else is new. Old friends doesnt mean u get a passZ u grow apart naturally and ashly clearly has no respect for tana or she wouldnt have hid it? For 8 months! And still sponged off her!!!

[@lmpfunk]

I always say… just because a friendship has longevity does not mean it’s supposed to last forever. Sometimes we have to ask ourselves “would I be friends with this person if I met them today?” It’s important to keep your boundaries and values in mind *especially* with long term friends.

[@grace-fg7bu]

yuppp!!!

[@saltwaterwildflower]

and she will do it again, worse in the future.

[@mylasullivan4091]

Tana literally created Ashly and for her to turn around and fuck her over after bullying Brooke who wasn’t as close to her at the time is INSANE

[@jgx0x0]

Srsly

[@kphoria1009]

created?

[@jkills999]

@@kphoria1009Meaning that people only know who Ashly is because she’s friends with Tana

[@emilanya]

that part

[@deshaunwong4008]

Can you please give me a time stamp? I wanna hear the tea!

[@slr1311999]

Ashly has given me mean girl vibes from the very start. I hope she gets humbled, tana put her on the map. She wouldn’t be nearly as successful without tana because she’s not very personable, she’s just attractive. Tana doesn’t have to forgive her.

[@__kylie]

This!! I’ve never liked her energy. Tana and Brooke give off such good energy and I love their friendship so much more!

[@Nikkipikki22]

Honestly she’s not even attractive really…

[@joannaaadl]

Ashly has nothing to offer. lol she’s a bore

[@hithurshawn]

I agree

[@jpmontra4131]

Ashly would be lucky to be a bottle girl without Tana.

[@maggiemxn]

the house???? the view???? the new cameras??? tana is in her classy era.

[@loveluvleelove]

In her Sofia grainge era lol

[@alexl1043]

Her Sophia Ritchie phase

[@taylorsweet3878]

In her Sophia with an f era 😭

[@elizabeth9820]

Please lmfao

[@melodramatique]

I feel deeply within the pits of my very soul that she would definitely advocate for the ‘SoFia Richie’ era tagline.

[@kaitie3298]

i didn’t bully brooke during mindy 1.0 and i won’t do it to ashly either but what she did is significantly worse and as someone who’s watched tana for years to me this feels unforgivable and so heartbreaking. tana will most likely forgive her and that’s okay bc it’s her choice to make but there was no reason for her to hide that if she thought it wouldn’t hurt tana. she’s one of tanas oldest friends and she knew exactly what she was doing

[@youngdaggerdick9569]

deadass. watching her from the beginning and seeing her bring ashly with her through everything is what makes the biggest difference here. ashly knew what she was doing if not why hide it fr. they know eachother too well she knew this would hurt tana. but we love you and support you with whatever you choose❤️❤️

[@youngdaggerdick9569]

@@bryntu9m bae did u watch the video⁉️⁉️

[@grace-fg7bu]

@@bryntu9mhooked up with tan as ex. did u watch the episode?? lmao

[@ashlynnsmith369]

exactly if she truly thought it wouldn’t hurt tana there would be no reason she’d hide it

[@jojoindigo]

Yeah as a Tana fan for years, I’m heated. A new friend (Brooke) hooking up with someone you used to hook up with vs a lifelong friend (Ashly) going behind your back to hook up with ex boyfriend

[@qasaismalls7641]

This is not a Mindy situation. This is full on Euphoria, Cassie sleeping with Maddy’s ex and not telling her.

[@savannah00019]

do we know who the ex was like which one ?

[@savannah00019]

do we know who the ex was like which one ?

[@Sapphic288]

Exactly. Instant cut off.

[@Brittney2723]

@@savannah00019Joey

[@mirandabby22]

I was looking for this comment bc I was thinking this exact thing!!!! This is nothing like Mindy it’s WAY worse. 12 year friendship and you’re hiding ur EIGHT MONTH relationship w/ a dude Tana clearly cared for… vs. Brooke hooking up with a guy ONCE that Tana hooked up with & then admitting it to Tana. I hate that Brooke’s mishap is even referenced in regards to this bc what Ashley did was 1000000x worse. Although the correlation and similarities of the situations aren’t lost on me

[@lililol9475]

I’m sorry but Ashley owes Brooke the biggest apology!!! Putting her through hell for years then doing the same ? Nah Brooke is better than me bc I’d lose it

[@tessalarvie7168]

You’re so right. Situation sucks so bad. Ashley and tana have been friends for a long time. I’ve watched her for a long time and imauri and Ashley are all siblings in my mind.

[@lililol9475]

@@tessalarvie7168 agreed and I think part of Ashley treating Brooke that way was jealousy of Brooke and Tanas friendship…

[@Psychee323]

@@lililol9475yes totally

[@gloriakelly9276]

Wait I'm so confused, Ashley hooked up with tanas guy?

[@megansmith4121]

So hypocritical

[@alejandrasena94]

Brooke is an angel because the petty in me would be dragging Ashly up and down the street everyday. No one would hear the end of it from me

[@mchbritx]

my big mouth would NEVER shut up

[@ciruelas]

definitely!!!

[@jojoindigo]

When Brooke said she’s a “highly emotional individual” instead of saying “I’m an empath” that’s when I knew Brooke was a real one

[@itsyourgirl_9899]

Seeing how hurt Tana was by the birthday situation was so hard to watch. I'm so glad that Brooke supported her through that.

[@wildflower98902]

who was the friend?

[@bottomtextmafia5733]

WHO WAS IT DOES ANYBODY KNOW

[@apocalypsedreamss]

@@bottomtextmafia5733ashly

[@sarabanks8762]

@@bottomtextmafia5733ashly

[@tessalarvie7168]

@@wildflower98902I’m pretty sure it was Ashley

[@IsoJoee]

Ashly and Joey hookin up on Tanas BDAY vacation trip that she PAID for is actually the biggest slap in the face ever😭 im sorry but Ashly would of been cut off that day

[@Scorpioprincess99]

No fr i would cut her tf off idc how many years I’ve been knowing her

[@tokyoyoongi5538]

Yeah, that's crazy. I think Tana is downplaying this because it's Ashly, but man, if a *best friend* did that to me, it'd be over. At least with Brooke they were just friends (at the time) and it wasn’t on her BDAY trip smh.

[@myahpackard5539]

@@tokyoyoongi5538ashly’s been hee best friend for so so long too. :(

[@emrej2527]

Total betrayal

[@candiscarswell7513]

Yeah she needa CUT that fr

[@heikehasanzada5486]

Ashly’s incessant grudge against Brooke was probably the secret sign that she was doing something similar behind Tana’s back. It just wasn’t clear until now. It’s like when there are two people in a relationship and one always accuses the other one of cheating. But then ends up being the one who was the cheater all along. When you point the finger, there are 3 fingers pointing back at you, you know? There are probably many things that happened that maybe didn’t make sense or cause a second thought, and now Tana is putting all the pieces together like a puzzle as she mentioned. Hindsight is 2020 isn’t it? Sending you love, Tana! 🤍 And Brooke, we all need a friend like you. Queen, we love you. You are such a classy, genuine, empathic, beautiful person inside and out.

[@itsonlyada]

Omg this. Also, I wonder how much of an influence her jealousy was. Did she do it thinking she’d fair the way Brooke did?

[@savannah00019]

no cuz i think that too. i thought i was the only one

[@marlainalizarraga]

You made a perfect example yess I agree with you

[@IsoJoee]

Ashly pulling a mindy 2.0 is the most ironic but expected situation ever, I’m sorry but she never gave good energy always seemed like the mean girl type and for being tanas “bestfriend” they never seemed to have like amazing chemistry, Tana always looked like she was giving energy she never got back from her in their friendship imo

[@jayzt705]

All these people talking about mean girl vibes, girl ashly's always given me straight sociopath 🫠

[@jayzt705]

And i agree with you, it comes across as if tana has always looked up to ashley a little and that girl knows it

[@kaylink5277]

Always always felt the same way

[@xojaretzy]

Agreed honestly

[@finamarie4084]

if she didn’t think it would hurt tana this badly, she wouldn’t have lied. plain and simple.

[@charlietaylor590]

That’s such a good point, you’re so right

[@enrapturingfantasy]

spill

[@druglike]

Right!! She wouldn't have anything to hide. SMH

[@sydneyparks8217]

Period

[@valeriasuarez4972]

the thing that bothers me the most about the Ashly situation is that later on , when Ashly came back to social media , she made a video where she addressed why her and Brooke didn’t follow each other and she judged Tana a lot in that video for letting Brooke be her friend saying how she’d never take someone back if they did that to her and now she’s doing Tana like this ? thats horrible

[@micaela303]

Does someone have the link to this?

[@dangerluvzzzz]

yes! i remember this ashly sounded so ignorant and rude in that video like tana didnt hand her a career

[@heatherbonelli]

Yeah, Ashly had ALWAYS given me BAD friend vibes, AF

[@lindsaykat]

Brookes drunk reasoning for being kicked out the club party 😂😂😂😂 “I’m ugly” got me laughing by myself in my car rn 😂😂 first of all she’s gorg but second of all my body dysmorpia relates too hard

[@barbrothers2]

so relatable i love brooke sm more with every episode

[@EMaria-fg7dj]

Hearing about Ashly made me so sad for tana, and especially how Brooke reacted with empathy versus how Ashly reacted when all the mindy shit happened. Damn

[@tararainone5060]

Understood but not a comparable situation seeing as brook has hindsight after doing it and learning from it and Ashly situation just happened. Its always easier to learn from a mistake you made vs a mistake someone else made. You pay the consequences which helps you learn from your actions. Not at all saying Ashly is in the right, just saying you can’t compare someone giving grace to someone who’s already made a mistake in a similar situation versus someone who is giving someone shit for making a mistake before they have made the same one.

[@yasmeenalsutan6212]

@@tararainone5060 I totally agree

[@k8ravenscroft60]

it hurts me so much that tana doesn’t think she’s pretty enough to post without facetune, because when i think of her i think of her as the ultimate blonde bombshell and i’m envious of her. Just goes to show how deep women’s issues go.

[@janie.justjanie]

Ashley has ALWAYS looked down at Tana but will reap the benefits. BROOKE you are amazing. I’m happy Tana has you ❤️

[@hollythomson5313]

so true

[@tokyoyoongi5538]

Yes. I always got the vibe that she believed she was better then Tana.

[@Liss2001]

To this dayyy!!!! Jealous ass sister vibes

[@gabrielleg2765]

Hope tana remembers she doesn’t have to forgive ashly just because they’ve been close for a lot of years, quality of the friendship over quantity of how long the friendship has gone on. If she can do that to you and LIE, she can’t be trusted and doesn’t necessarily need to be in your life.

[@fatimayousif6789]

I actually needed to hear this, thank you

[@evatomas9671]

YUUUUPPP

[@zoeinkerman969]

Brooke is such a self aware down to earth to person

[@abbys278]

Yes! You can tell she’s been through a lot of shit! Which is why she’s so down to earth.

[@skylerross8004]

W

[@ashlynnbickham8048]

Seeing tana so hurt truly broke my heart. Cried with you over a situation I know nothing about. Brooke has been a blessing for you and you have been a blessing for her. Truly an amazing friendship.

[@heathers4586]

I think part of the reason Ashly dislikes Brooke is because she was the “put together, responsible” girl of the group for so long and Brooke is clearly filling that role.

[@Hannahtaylor4]

Worded perfectly

[@truetoshane4004]

This.

[@truetoshane4004]

And the fact Brooke is replacing her period.

[@AdviceFromAHipoCrite]

This is perfectly worded. I also believe, Brooke is so much more vulnerable, and real than Ashly. Ashly has to be perfect at all time and I feel like Brooke shows so much more personality. Brooke was a “threat” for no reason. Ashly could still have played her perfect Barbie doll role and let Brooke be put together but yet somehow still messy

[@conformality]

brooke has completely replaced her not on purpose and not with any meaning to, ashly straight up did it to herself and hating on brooke definitely didn’t help the situation, Ashly did it to herself.

[@jerbear77]

Seeing them both tear up talking about how they support each other and have these moments to think back and laugh about the hard stuff makes me so happy for them and their mature friendship 🥲

[@trvpvngel]

i’m gonna need a cancelled episode solely focused on brooke’s mother immediately 😂

[@virgo_xo]

no we don’t i feel like that’s a really personal/sensitive subject to ask her to put up on the internet for thousands to see..she also has a family n imagine her mom seeing it

[@abbyz13]

we’ve BEEN asking for this but she’s also a p private person so if she never wants to do that it’s understandable

[@abbyz13]

@@virgo_xowell she already talks about her 😂 yes we should respect her but don’t act like she doesn’t already make open jokes about her mom ya know?

[@BethanyARojas]

frrr!

[@heavensviolence]

@@abbyz13she said in a tiktok comment that she was too anxious to do an episode about her life story 💔 which is understandable

[@Madison-xc8qv]

Brooke is giving Fairy Princess vibes and Tana is giving Barbie Princess vibes

[@ladyhexton3773]

Ikr!! I love their looks in this episode

[@faithbrown5777]

They look sooo good ❤

[@Hannah-vz9pz]

The hairr

[@1997Redualed]

Brooke is the example of being the bigger person. Ashly has always treated her like shit and been insecure with her an tana’s relationship, but brooke will still say respectful comments and be there for Tana when she’s down. Brooke is a real one 👏🏼

[@heatherbonelli]

Brooke is THE real one. Ashly is a fraud dangling from Tanas coat tails.

[@Babygirlwilson]

Tana’s hair is so cute like that omg definitely giving “clean girl energy” 😅💖

[@Salvievelynn]

Looks incredible in whites!

[@abbyz13]

she’s taking after brooke and i love it

[@mChadsey]

SO proud of our girl for finally embracing her cute asf EARS! I feel like this is the first you’ve ever shown em proudly! ❤

[@amyelyn7689]

❤❤❤❤

[@Alex-ym5ox]

booooosting this comment 🙏

[@angiebaby8870]

The Brooke thing wasn’t unforgivable but the Ashly thing is… they’re pretty different imo. The deceit and the lack of loyalty is the thing. You and Brooke weren’t lifelong best friends, the dude was a hook up, and she was honest. Ashly purposely betrayed you then lied over and over. And she knew you would care which is why she hid it.

[@jordanwhite7377]

Agreed!

[@KF13777]

You mean Brooke is forgivable & Ashly isn’t?

[@jordanwhite7377]

@@KF13777 why would they mean that? Brooke and tana weren’t as close at the time and Brooke didn’t even actually sleep with him and told Tana the next day. Ashly was mean to Brooke and said she would never do that, then proceeded to do it and kept it a secret for 8 months…

[@KF13777]

@@jordanwhite7377 exactly. So that would mean that the brooke situation is forgivable & the Ashly situation is unforgivable….

[@jordanwhite7377]

@@KF13777 that’s what the original comment said😭😭and then disagreed w it

[@jigglybits2092]

im BEGGING for two hours to be standard practice. PLEASE. you guys were greeeeeeeeaaaat on this episode

[@NatalieAHough]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@sarahtatarczuk2276]

Watching this knowing Brooke’s talking about matt rife is CRAZY-her composure is unmatched

[@janie.justjanie]

NEVER liked Ashley, I get Tana considers her family and trust me I have sneaky family that I still love, but I don’t like them. But I love them. That’s ok. BROOKE you have always been a class act queen 👸🏻 your grace is solid 👏🏼

[@IsoJoee]

she always gave mean girl energy tbh

[@janie.justjanie]

@@IsoJoee agreed. She was jealous because she always thought she was better than Tana.

[@joscayeee]

I hate how they downplay this type of betrayal because she wasn’t “in love” with the joey because it is a huge betrayal ashly knew what she did was wrong which is why she lied for months

[@itsjanetlee]

it's even worse bc ashly didn't tell tana ANYTHING whereas brooke was self aware and told tana before tana had to hear it from other ppl

[@michellewilliams5120]

Exactly is Ashley did not think it would hurt Tana she would have told her instead of lying by omitting for 8 months

[@Ishouldshutup]

I think it’s unforgivable. Especially because other friends also knew. I would feel so betrayed by everyone😢

[@lalaland7961]

Let’s be real Tana has fucked all of Los Angeles was… what do you expect them to do

[@jordank1430]

I think when you remember that Tana genuinely does not have a birth family and views Ashly and Imari as her siblings, it’s clearer why Tana would be so hurt by her sister having a long term situation ship with her ex boyfriend.

[@carolinaferreira9585]

and lying about it! talk about betrayal...

[@rilesfomiles8662]

Imari but be putting in WORK mediating between them rn

[@bakedbombshell1694]

thanks for bringing that perspective up

[@alex1014]

time stamp?

[@christiancampbell2460]

as a 21 yr old straight male, i am absolutely obsessed with this pod and these two and im not ashamed of it

[@kate-ec4pj]

omg slay king

[@cecelia-kikilia8627]

mmmm interesting

[@pooja_aggarwal]

You should be a little ashamed lol

[@christiancampbell2460]

@@pooja_aggarwal that's mean

[@larissalarissaa]

The hinge date follow up, I can’t

[@jennasantostefano7785]

you really have to appreciate how raw and authentic this podcast is. these girls come on here and are vulnerable and talk about real things happening in their lives and it’s so respectable and why the podcast does so good. love you girls so much ♥️

[@marilyn101]

I’m so glad that tana has Brooke in her life. That’s the type of person she needs. Someone who truly loves and cares about her for her. I feel like Ashley was so mean to Brooke because she was deflecting her own guilt on her and there was a lot of jealousy too. Please don’t let Ashley back in your life tana

[@bebeerin]

ashley is one of tana’s best friends. they grew up together and are basically family. tana makes a point to keep all her best friends especially the people that have been in her life for a long time. pretty sure they’ll always be friends

[@emrose2267]

Tbh it feels all fuzzy and warm watching tana grow up. Maturing, rebranding, taking care of her spaces, having the mental capacity to think of those around her and be a compassionate friend and coworker. I think she’s even surprised herself at this point. Keep sliving queen.

[@smome7773]

I think Brooke would slay in a Lara Croft: Tomb Raider look for Halloween

[@Binstabih]

Omg made for her!

[@msm5334]

Or Kim possible!

[@msm5334]

She just needs some green cargos…slay

[@hwoods-kg1jf]

Omg yes she would! I would LIVE for this!

[@kirstylynne2871]

“dont be outside” brooke just naturally fuels the storytimes so well and says the funniest little comments

[@oliviag2411]

Tana is such a forgiving person. You can tell she was very hurt by Mindy 2.0.

[@jsunshinej]

wait who is mindy 2.0

[@erinhiggins1904]

It's ashly

[@jsunshinej]

ok and i just saw tana commented on joeys ig post that he mindy’d her

[@stepsislety]

WHAAAAAT

[@sheridan6281]

Time stamp??

[@user-zo6vd3qw9z]

I’m not surprised at all that Ashley is shady. She gives off mega mean girl energy

[@samig7313]

i have always gotten that vibe from her too 🫢

[@andrea4liberation]

AGREED! I've always felt this but couldn't put my finger on it.

[@nicoletesg]

What Ashley is this ?

[@carolinaferreira9585]

@@andrea4liberation I always felt like she thinks she is better than tana or something

[@gebz97bro19]

i cant stop looking at Tana’s hair in this episode, it just looks so good!❤

[@yasmeenalsutan6212]

IKRRR ITS SOO GOOD

[@khanoyara5551]

Right

[@AC-hg2qv]

Hopefully this is a one time thing but ultimately I think Ashly knew exactly what she was doing and either didn’t think she’d be caught, or more importantly that Tana doesn’t possess the self respect to cut her off, BC she knows how much she means to Tana, so she could get away with it, regardless of how badly it hurt Tana, bc Tana would have to forgive her since they’re basically sisters and she already forgave Brooke. She knew she had a pass, she knows what she can get away with. And doing it just bc you can doesn’t make you a true friend. Crazy. Ashly really showed her character here and I can only hope she’ll better herself for it. Boundaries are important. Someone shouldn’t cross them just because they know they can.

[@user-me8zx9rm3k]

I think Tana said in the podcast that it’s been an ongoing thing for 8 months? I could be wrong though

[@ashleymarie9916]

This!

[@audreysolberg6029]

This.

[@AC-hg2qv]

@@user-me8zx9rm3kno you’re right! I personally don’t think I would’ve forgiven Ashly, but I know Tana is, which is why i say I hope she grows from this.

[@meganlister5907]

Who did she get with I’m lost

[@chloe3299]

ashly is sooo hypocritical for that i really hope she apologizes to brooke

[@chelseamariiie9316]

when does the story start? like what time stamp

[@grace-fg7bu]

i can’t see her doing that but i totally agree she should. i don’t think she’s mature enough

[@chloe3299]

@@chelseamariiie9316 1:45:32

[@chloe3299]

@@grace-fg7buagree 100% shes not mature enough

[@rachelcolon2337]

This is by far one of the best podcast episodes I’ve ever seen. I’ve never been so engaged in a 2 hour podcast episode of anything before. Love the both of you together!!

[@TabathaJo]

Brooke's break up text from Mr. Flakey Flake was 100% written by Chat GPT. 👀 😂

[@leeannj3935]

RIGHT

[@NorthNodeAlchemyst]

I thought the same 😂

[@TheWonderfulSofia]

I thought the same thing lmao

[@seminaomerdic514]

I love how Tana's been on her grind w the videos for awhile now

[@mariahpeterson7275]

ashley’s comeback will be her ability to realize how horrible she was to brooke over the mindy situation. And obviously a huge apology to tana

[@dylanhinkel4868]

I literally wish tana would j cut her off this sitch is SO much worse than Mindy and 8 months of lying to someone who gave u a career and everything u have is insane FOR A GUY?! fuck that. While simultaneously bullying Brooke for the Mindy shit. Poor tana and love Brooke for handling it w grace.

[@sativafairy9906]

@@dylanhinkel4868 no fr this is way worse then brookes situation. also ashley so obviously doesnt even like tana idk how more ppl dont call it out.

[@kate-ec4pj]

@@sativafairy9906 i’ve always noticed this too

[@sativafairy9906]

@@kate-ec4pj I’m glad someone has bc I’ve never seen anyone comment on it and it sucks bc tana deserves genuine people in her life

[@kate-ec4pj]

@@sativafairy9906 yeah i was always confused about their friendship bc their personalities are so different & it always seems like ashly thinks she’s above everyone else

[@stopbeingana-hole4151]

“Is she gaslighting me?” 😭 The difference is Brooke did it once, was honest, communicated, apologized, and actually changed. Ashly did this many times without consulting Tana once before being caught. Didn’t care. Very different situations. Brookes seemed more like a one time mistake, and Ashly’s was not.

[@christineharley1453]

10000%

[@devon7593]

Ashly talked so much Shit about Brooke after round one Mindy. She straight up said she would refuse to even be in the same room as her cause of what she did. Oh how the turn tables. Poor tana I love you girls

[@abigails4139]

What did Brooke do?

[@devon7593]

She hooked up with someone Tana had been hooking up with

[@ruthissssss]

cancelled feels much more honest and real this time around, i love that ❤️❤️

[@mackaylatoole8074]

A

[@darbybaldwin6112]

Aw seeing Tana cry I just wanna give her a hug, we love you Tana ❤

[@SouthOfJersey]

Seeing Tana in so much pain right now and trying to hold back is so hard to watch, Tana you are loved and supported and we are all here for you, Ive been stabbed in the back by people i truly cared about. The situation with Ashly is so different, she has been your friend for years and joey was someone you once cared for and it’s just girl fucking code, I think Ashly showed her true colors and it sucks

[@thatwaterchick7931]

The dysmorphia she must have living in LA. Brooke is one of the most attractive girls in this social media world. How could she think that ?

[@sofiaalvarez.123]

The fact that you pay for everyone’s trip and she has the balls to mindy you like girl look in the mirror. I understand you are a forgiving person and your friends are family but draw a line. So sorry this has happen to you Tana love you ❤

[@Olivia-gu4um]

Agreed !

[@kats3459]

What did Ashley do? Who did she get with?

[@sabrinac9861]

@@kats3459she hooked up with tanas ex boyfriend

[@marinaglass]

ashly deleted her instagram

[@TaylorMendez709]

I get the feeling Ashly was jealous of Brooke because of how close her and Tana have gotten and their success together and I think that was probably a big reason she disliked Brooke, not so much because of the mindy situation although ofc she plays it off like that. The irony tho….

[@hsn2277]

completely agree

[@SandraRose143]

I’m 29, I’ve watched Tana since she was so young and seeing her grow into the woman she is has been so great to witness.. I love that Brooke and her have each other too. It’s sucks to hear friends I’ve seen her with for years that she had literally given everything too hurt her like this.

[@loveglitter1]

im 28 and have been watching her since she was young bc her childhood is so similar to mine and she has really pulled a 180 and im just proud of her 🥲

[@nc3634]

You don’t hide something that you genuinely feel someone won’t care about

[@LawnOrnament]

Exactly.

[@justineann388]

Ash is jealous of the rational and adult friendship Brooke and Tana have. Ash is used to trauma Tana and trauma Tana is evolving… is she? I hope so BFFL

[@P4Stalot]

Yeah, Tana is actively, deliberately changing and fixing her stuff, but Ashley...isn't.

[@sarahlaverty3346]

Ashly is a grown woman and knows tana extremely well..she knew what she was doing. Tana has such a good heart and (from an outsiders perspective) it sounds like Ashly is taking advantage of that. Also just sounds like Ashly has just been jealous of Brooke and used the Mindy situation as an excuse to be a bully.

[@sarahlaverty3346]

So many excuses are being made for someone who doesn't deserve it. Ashly knows tana and knows she has feelings. I am so sorry this happened to you Tana. It hurts when a close friend shows their true colours. Please don't let her manipulate you into forgiving her by playing the victim card

[@oliviabeauty1856]

brooke did not do the same thing as ashly. brooke immediately told tana and ashly has been hiding around for 8 months. tana you dont deserve this babe

[@caitbarton4616]

My heart hurts for Tana. My boyfriend of 7 years cheated on me, on my family vacation for my 30th birthday, with my friend (ex friend) of a decade - and they then proceeded to date and live together. Most painful thing I’ve ever endured and would not wish that on anyone. I’m sending you a lot of love Tana. Ashly owes you more, you’ve been such a good friend to her. It’s okay be upset and mad. All my love xx

[@compilationstation1136]

omg that’s absolutely so messed up. i’m so so sorry they did that to you

[@caitbarton4616]

@@compilationstation1136 Thanks bb! Sometimes bad shit has to happen for you to get people out of your life who no longer serve you, because you won’t let them go yourself!

[@devinosborn879]

it breaks my heart seeing Tana so upset. I’m not gonna speak bad about Ashly because Tana doesn’t want people attacking her friends, but all I’m gonna say is I hope Tana realizes Ashly’s character and does what she truly thinks she is best for her, and not let her emotions or how long the friendship is rule her decisions.

[@abigailllllllllll]

brooke really said “you are not almost famous tell him to go to disney land with you”😂😂😂 SHE IS SO FUNNY

[@Jessica-nu2xu]

How I know I'm too old to be a fan, I cringed cause it's a reference to a movie 😭

[@christy3888]

This is my favorite podcast of all time ever. No one lays it all out like y’all. Government names and all during the story times 😂

[@camrynhogue7401]

when they hint about people or don’t use names everyone always knows anyways so why not at this point 🤣

[@colbyandbrennen3543]

Brooke never ceases to amaze us how literally perfect she is in everything she does

[@jadamisty11]

Brooke tearing up cause tanas mood instantly changed is so real

[@luciajoyce23]

Why did tanas mood change? What happened

[@user-me8zx9rm3k]

I was recently mindy’d by one of my friends with my boyfriend of 2 years. & now they’re dating…That shit cuts so deep I can’t even express how painful it’s been.

[@Robynjanelawlor]

I’m so sorry love

[@TalanaJordan]

omg that's awful :( i'm sorry

[@tetrapak4300]

Sorry to hear that

[@isabellasalmonella]

god the whole brushing of and hiding hurt and insecurity with laughter in a dgaf way hits so close to home and as someone else who grew up with a very toxic and abusive family environment i honestly think it comes from a place of protecting ourselves.

[@alyssakangaloo3361]

brooke last week: i don’t think ive ever really seen tana cry well ya spoke too soon

[@Scorpioprincess99]

No fr lol i thought this too also poor tana I feel so bad for her

[@alyssakangaloo3361]

yeah same :(

[@nataliestratton198]

Imagine brooke gifting ashly a ukulele

[@smithar2120]

this made me lol

[@melandbelle89]

😂 petty

[@rebekahmarie7665]

This comment wins

[@tetrapak4300]

Lmfao!!

[@melodramatique]

Officially dubbed the MVP and GOAT of underrated comments. 🐐👏👏

[@lindsay2156]

The part about Ashly had my jaw on the ground … I never though she would be that way how hypocritical of her to hate on Brooke when Brooke didn’t even go to this level.

[@alex1014]

time stamp?

[@QueenDai]

It begins around 1hr 37 min

[@QueenDai]

The good stuff 1hr 42

[@aweXiomara]

It bothers me that Tana says she won’t let go of Ashly because they’ve known each other and considered each other sisters for many years. Disrespect is disrespect! No amount of years or if you’re my family will change that. I’d cut ANYONE off with real disrespect like that but I do understand everyone is different. Hard to see you so upset tana, love you girl

[@kaylabessette9927]

It is so hard to let go of a friend of that long. I let go of my best friend of 25 years, but it took me a long time to say finally "I am done, I will never trust you again." because I loved her so much. It is so hard :( i feel for tana.

[@terminally_zach]

I've been watching Tana since 2015/2016 and I'm in love with her as a person, so proud of her growth and brooke's capacity for empathy is just such a breath of fresh air

[@Dannysworlddd]

AND YOU DID IT ON MY BIRTHDAY TRIP , that’s so crazy, you guys were so respectful would’ve loved to hear the unfiltered vers of this conversation 👀

[@anniehubbard5159]

hearing tana crying really broke my heart 💔 girl you are so valid in your feelings always and it must go way way deeper than this situation alone 🤍 brooke said it best, it just sometimes take time for people to process things

[@rachelmiller7795]

Beyond disappointed with Ashly.. betraying a friend who literally brought you up and someone who was suppose to be a sister for so long and such a hypocrite for how she treated Brooke , I'm so sad for tana. I honestly love Brooke so much , she is such a mature understanding supportive person.

[@Skyyyy101]

Ashley’s such a hypocrite The way brooke is talking abt the situation is admirable. I would’ve been so petty😂

[@jenniferjay7108]

Brooke and Tana are truly a blessing for each other I can’t even.

[@megancruz6022]

it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been friends with each other she disrespected you, hid it from you, and didn’t care how you felt. I’ve cut of so many friends that i’ve known my whole life because of the same situation

[@paula92111]

Loved seeing a more serious and vulnerable side of Tana. This was a great episode!

[@ashleylittle9288]

I’m so jealous of Brooke’s hair, I need to know what products she uses to make it so shiny and healthy and just absolutely beautiful

[@hopehansen607]

she’s said before she just washes it with redken ultra soft and nothing else, good genetics too

[@ashleylittle9288]

I totally missed whenever she said that, so thank you for letting me know

[@KiaraskornerTV]

ive done nothing but stare at her hair thee entire time!! lol

[@tylersmith328]

Brooke is such a slay baddie, not only did she acknowledge her faults but she also gave Tana non-judgmental advice about people who have put hits on Brooke!!!!