What's Next for Ur Mom's House - EP 6

[@theywereroommates3552]

Hey guys! We noticed some negative comments and just want to say that they truly hurt each and everyone of us associated with the house. There are some comments speculating about Annemarie’s decision to leave UMH and it’s truly unnecessary to make assumptions. It’s brings us immense sadness to see comments slandering Ashley or Annemarie or Kelly or Elliot. Not everything we do is shown online. Please be kind to all of the roommates and everyone associated w the house. All we are trying to do is spread positivity and this comment section should never be a place for negativity. We love you guys and can’t wait to make more content. This is just the beginning!

[@JSK-gm8yu]

As someone who has watched all of you separately for years before you came together, it’s crazy to see the amount of negativity and hate people are putting out there and using that to base your whole personality off of. The way people are stating things as if they are fact is insane, when really it’s just internalized misogyny under the pretext of wanting to defend one person over the other. You all make fun videos for us to watch and enjoy. That’s it. That’s all it ever should be. Ashley, Kelly, Elliot, Annemarie, your true fans are all still here to support you in whatever you choose to do moving forward!!

[@kevylees]

Positivity for the win!!! 😁☀️👍😂

[@peepo4619]

i thought the podcast was good. just a little awkwardness since anne marie left but it’ll mellow out

[@ntsh9136]

I don’t know about other people but I know thatI love ur moms house no matter who’s in it. People come and go fo a reason and everything happens for the better. I understand how u guys feel and I’m so sorry that you are receiving these impolite comments which some times don’t even have anything to do with you guys. So don’t be sad or disheartened guys, there are still lots of people out there like me who are supporting you and will always be here. And I would love if Am would come and join a podcast sometime or even other KZbinrs. Do what excites!! And don’t let the hate comments bring you guys down and please don’t stop this channel. its a very precious channel to all of us. Love u guys always 💖 To past, present, and future ur moms house members.

[@mimadeurim]

Let things flow and be happy guys!

[@cynthia.unlimited]

“Daddy, why are uncle Kelly's kids so crazy”, this is the warmest and most hilarious moment of this episode, cant wait to see that day comes! 🤣🤣

[@littleangels1875]

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[@Aaron-jk2ik]

When was that said

[@cerovskichannel6403]

@@Aaron-jk2ik 54:55

[@sunnyspoumaroux607]

The best life advice I ever had was from my dad "Stop stressing over things you can't control" and also even tho he never told me that but I learned by watching him "enjoy the little stuff you don't need much in life"

[@ThePasindu]

That's great advice 👍

[@littleangels1875]

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[@JoeSmith-no4kb]

Elliot being so honest about his mom was so real … their best episode i feel like this podcast can make it

[@littleangels1875]

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[@roryroopa]

That part was so raw. I hope he will forgive himself and his mom. Forgiveness is so tough. But it can move them forward. 🙏🏽

[@mon699]

Agreed I love the raw content

[@angelalomeli6758]

To add some positivity in the comments, I am really excited to see what ur moms house will have in store for the future. Love this podcast

[@ntsh9136]

Thankyou for the positivity 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🥺

[@theywereroommates3552]

just the beginning!

[@ThePasindu]

@@theywereroommates3552 Let's go 🤘

[@littleangels1875]

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[@deliacook4953]

@@theywereroommates3552 of the end.

[@stephanielee2497]

Elliot, I just wanted to thank you for sharing the story between you and your mom, and how that continues to be a source of pain. I think sometimes there are many layers to why these things happen, such as generational, cultural differences. I think many of us have our own unique experiences with similar underlying themes, and can relate to each other through how we felt from that. I, personally, can empathize with your sentiment about being emotionally charged or "different" from the family. My heart goes out to anyone experiencing or having experienced that.

[@sarrrrrrj]

The way that kelly casually dropped the fact that his gran had passed (rest in peace gran) made me speechless

[@pinkstrwberry8]

oh no. wait wtf this is actually so upsetting 🥺

[@mawiewamos]

is it his mom or dad side? that's so sad

[@cowlemin8613]

What about Elliot’s grandpa huh?

[@everthingunboxpro3953]

@@cowlemin8613 We're connected to Kelly's grannies cus we have seen both of em in Kelly's vids and they both are so cool and chill

[@littleangels1875]

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[@Lucky-se3ln]

It would pretty nice to have colt do a podcast with you guys even though he isn’t a roommate he already there long enough and it gives a different perspective.

[@smritisingh1440]

i loved when kelly said i wished my grandma would have met ashley they r soo cute

[@littleangels1875]

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[@user-gd1yz7wd9h]

At 22:09 when Ashley said to just talk to parents more to fix issues, I feel like it was a rly privileged thing to say bc not everyone’s parents are down to talk and not everyone’s parents are as loving as hers

[@cgotlb]

Hearing Elliot talk abt his relationship w his mom n family.. was quite emotional.. But Elliot something special and we all do have a nd for that mom child relationship.. It's never too late to form that.. There's definitely pple u can ask for advice.. be open and communicate with your mom/family.. You'll be happy you did..

[@littleangels1875]

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[@godjihyotwiceislife8152]

I feel like Ashley and Kelly don’t have as much emotional depth as Elliot does (not a bad thing). Their upbringing seems to be much different than Elliot and I couldn’t help but notice the disconnect between the three as Elliot spoke about his mom. To Elliot, opening up on the podcast as you did was incredibly impressive and showed a lot of your character. Don’t be afraid to share more, your experiences are valid and not weird. Tips to Kelly and Ashley, sometimes relating to someone and sharing your own experience in response to someone else’s isn’t how you respond to someone’s traumatic or “deep” experience. I urge you two to listen and ask informative questions, develop that conversation into something more for all of you to learn. Be genuine towards one another. I’m not sure what the goal of your podcast is, but to make it a podcast that creates a safe space for you three that are involved requires work. Surface level conversation and automatic responses aren’t enough. Peoples experiences are more than a story or someone’s past, recognize that in Elliot’s case. Explore together, utilize this podcast as a place to grow rather than content to please the masses.

[@Wizard101duncan]

I agree, I think Ashley’s advice was a bit superficial to just “talk to them about it more”. Based on her origin story, she seems to have had a different relationship with her parents that may not have involved as much emotional charge as Elliot did. Wish there was a little more empathy rather than them just comparing to how their situations are “good” while Elliots clearly wasn’t

[@yomairareyes7481]

Very well said tip I think for this podcast to keep its audience and become something to constantly come back to and listen each eps and even in a way different make this podcast stand out from the vast many there are

[@skycheng17]

agreee

[@christophercho2496]

They arent therapists you dont need to tell someone how to have empathy its just a podcast

[@godjihyotwiceislife8152]

@@christophercho2496 which is why I questioned what they want from the podcast. Even when someone opens up about something vulnerable, being a proactive listener is important. I think your comment is misguided in defense of them.

[@uyen0810]

22:20 the way Kelly comforted Elliot after he told them his stories about the relationship between he and his mom litterally makes me cry… After all, no matter who is right or wrong, the saddest thing is that they ended their friendship after a long time of being best friends..

[@abigaillopez217]

It seems that many of you did not truly listen to the full episode. Yes, it lacks organization. Yes we miss AM. Yes this is different. Many of us expected for them to address more of the AM situation. However, they DONT OWE us that. Of course, we can all make our own assumptions but not to the point that we say hurtful things that are possibly not even true. They're humans. Most of them are our age. It is clear that they are all going through a hard time. Kelly and Elliot just lost someone. Ashley is taking a lot of the backlash for AM leaving. AM is also receiving a great amount of hate on her KZbin channel. Come on, put yourselves in their shoes. Cut them some slack and give them a sec to heal. Overall, we all feel that maybe they should have addressed and handled things differently. But what even is the right way to go about this? They could have done it a million different ways ,and everyone would still find a way to come-up with their own narratives. Stop with the hate. There's ways to give constructive feedback without calling people names.

[@free-palestine000]

elliot, i can see how much you value your family/mom. as someone with a very similar experience, it is still nice to see you out there still enjoying your life to the fullest, without putting so much of that regret on yourself everyday. one day you will repair your relationship with your mom, and im sure she is deep down happy that you're doing the best you can. ive never heard a youtuber talk about being the "outcast" of their family but still love/respect their parents (our cultures have similar values of parents) and its nice to see someone i genuinely enjoy talking about this.

[@BigScalyBird]

So excited to see the three of you forging ahead! Enjoy the chill energy and this episode really shows the synergy that led the three of you to decide in the Hamptons to give this idea a go. Condolences to Elliot and Kelly and your families for your loss. Glad you took time off to rest during such hard weeks.

[@journeymariereacts]

I don’t usually watch full long podcasts like this but I actually reallyyy enjoyed it. I like the vulnerable moments as well as the fun/funny ones. I hope you guys aren’t getting too overwhelmed by all the negativity. Try and focus on everyone who love and support you no matter what and recognize that you’re just young creators figuring everything out. Sending love to you all💞💞💞

[@projectdwn2824]

I felt the sadness from Kelly when he said that his nana will no longer be able to meet ashley :((

[@joshuamartinez7249]

I have been waiting for this upload. Was a little scared they wouldn’t keep it going

[@littleangels1875]

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[@Jean-wh2hu]

Nice seeing the podcast again! Excited for more to come(:

[@mirakinebuchi4589]

I don't usually comment on videos but I do want to say this after seeing some comments on their recent videos - I know that everyone is allowed to have their opinions, but it feels icky to see people comment things that are just speculative or aren't constructive! Early 20's are still so impressionable and here these young adults are, sharing their lives and creating content while also navigating transitions. I hope we can spread love, give grace, and give back to them as a community too so that they can grow, instead of us just consuming their content and having opinions on them. Anyway ❤️ much love to ya

[@emiliay5636]

Everyone saying negative things needs to stop. Kelly, Elliot, Ashley and Annemarie deserve their privacy and they only need to tell us stuff if and when they feel like it. They are HUMANS and they have feelings too. It doesn't matter about your personal opinion, just keep things to yourselves if it's not positive. Clearly all of them are still friends and it was Annemarie's choice to move out. And to Kelly, Ashley and Elliot: stay strong, and just ignore the hate comments!!

[@yupokaygetlost5444]

Did anyone asked you?

[@jenill8952]

I did

[@emiliay5636]

@@jenill8952 thanks!! 😊

[@jenill8952]

@@emiliay5636 ;)

[@Justme_143]

​@@jenill8952 me too

[@gisel00]

I will admit the video feels a bit empty without anne marie but change happens and hope all works out smoothly with whatever may come next for you all. sending love from mexico

[@littleangels1875]

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[@yupokaygetlost5444]

I miss her too but it's okay ig. Everyone have their own priorities

[@celinebeanie]

anne marie is what made them

[@tink6225]

she's great with conversation & filling up dead air but yeah change isn't always so smoothe. hopefully everything works out ok

[@eduardovelasquez3603]

🇲🇽

[@angelango5696]

I totally relate with Ashley on being the oldest child! You also pave the way for your siblings 🖤

[@ThePasindu]

Paiently waited for this episode, I love it. I love when you all go on tangents cause we get to hear stories we wouldn't hear otherwise. Also RIP to Kelly's grandma, I remember her from your videos Kelly, of telling about going to college🙏 It was pretty sweet how you wanted her to meet Ashley ❤️ At least, she talked to her facetime, and I'm sure she would happy if you all are happy. Also, RIP to Elliot's grandfather. And yeah, you all definitely need to go trips with campfires and eat some smores 😅 You guys haven't even started yet (in life) and is already doing great. Change needs to happen to see growth, excited to watch you guys in the next 100 years 🍻

[@DeepakSingh-qp3ds]

I don't normally comment, but I think I should make an exception today just to shed some light on how I think y'all should continue what y'all do, no matter what other people think. So many toxic views and people thinking it's cool to bring up the same negative things to hurt others is not cool. I hope y'all keep up the amazing work that you all have been doing at UMH!

[@cherrysgoods]

The fact that Elliot got a little excited about sharing secrets they’ve kept from their parents 😂 bless

[@littleangels1875]

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[@leonylias]

I LOVE seeing this side of you guys, this is so valuable for me. I just turned 18 and am so grateful for having you guys speak about things living life a few years ahead of me.

[@1234krisg]

This is such a great podcast! I love everyone’s personality and how you draw us in to your lives! Keep up the great work!

[@annaquino3320]

Hey ur mom's house! I just want to say that I'm so proud of you guys for still pushing through despite all the backlash, trials, and transitions. It shows how passionate you guys are when it comes to your craft. And this is something no one can ever take away from you guys. Please take care of each other's mental health. 🙏🙏 Don't ever let the hate get into you guys. Let's ignore the trolls and starve them.

[@timtam9758]

!!

[@YM-sj9qg]

To everyone making assumptions sitting in your house.. that's easy but imagine yourself in their shoes ..their life is already tensed and we are further aggravating it . Let's just spread love ❤️

[@standoutsidekick8324]

And as of today, anne marie is the only roommate to have addressed the mean comments ON VIDEO (intro of her latest vid). She talked about how tolling it is for someone to read mean comments about them and she's kindly asking everyone TO STOP SPEAKING ON HER BEHALF. Thank you for those who are defending annemarie but it came from her that we should stop and move on.

[@juliannaceralde]

did u not read Ashley’s and Kelly’s comments to a kpop Stan acc? Especially Ashley’s bc everyone keeps on pointing her way bc they addressed it also. An I agree everyone should move on and stop nitpicking

[@standoutsidekick8324]

@@juliannaceralde Video has a very different reach compared to a simple comment. Not everyone has the time to scroll down all these...

[@juliannaceralde]

@@standoutsidekick8324 yea but saying they didn’t even address it when they literally did in the comments should already be enough. It’s not that hard to look for a acc that wrote a whole assumptions essay then look at the replies on the 2 creators that cleared the air already addressing it

[@hiidiots820]

@@juliannaceralde Standout Sidekick didn't say they didn't address it, they said that Anne-Marie is the only person who has done it in a video. Addressing the offensive comments in a video is much different than doing it in a comment, barely anyone is stalking these comments to see what Ashley or Kelly respond. Addressing the issue in a video has a much larger reach, if you don't get why those two are different, I don't know what else to tell you. You missed the entire point of Standout Sidekick's comment and just had to mention Ashley and Kelly because you favor them. Expecting people to be that obsessed with Ashley and Kelly and saying "it's not that hard to look for their replies" tells me that you spend a lot of time stalking these comments. Not to mention, Kelly and Ashley didn't really address the situation AT ALL. They commented to defend themselves, not to tell people to stop hating on Anne-Marie.

[@aleena7497]

@@hiidiots820adding onto that, the comment ashley left was condescending anyways

[@05.luuduy14]

I love all of your contents. This podcast also makes me chance to learn English and helps me gain more knowledge about the American life. Look forward to watching your newest podcasts

[@jen8728]

I think disabling the comment section would be healthier for the roommates at this point. It’s important to set boundaries and protect your mental wellbeing & also your relationships with one another. I love every single content you guys have been putting out but lately I feel pretty stressed looking at all the unwarranted hate and speculations and negativity thrown out towards you guys. Hoping that you guys will prioritise your emotional wellbeing above everything else, and thank you for all the content y’all have been putting out!

[@maciejletek]

very nice episode, it kinda shows that yours relationships with parents affected yours perspective on life and that helped u guys beceome strong and full of energy. i feel that most of your viewers (at least me) love you because you have this helathy relation with life and its pleasure to think that we might be as you someday. You are big inspiration for me and i wanted to thanks for being here.

[@leilei1517]

I don’t get the comments on this video. At first, people kept on shipping Kashley. And now that they’re dating, they ruined the group, the dynamic??? What???

[@jenifert4356]

So true lol

[@lerong4001]

Rest In Peace to the kids and teachers in Texas

[@nataliefields9009]

Yes, it’s sad that AM left. I’m appalled at the hate Ashley is getting, let her be however she is? Calling her a pick me doesn’t do anything but hurt people. She’s a real person lol some of y’all just decided to turn your empathy off 😳. Let her grow and mature at her own pace, she is a human being. Maybe her sibs ground her in a diff way, and these roommates bring out a diff side to her energy. She’s allowed to show different sides to her. This is their first ep without AM so sure it’s gonna be different. The “lack of depth” might just be people wanting to get to know K, A and E better? AM provided substantial questions so maybe that’s the real reason for the comments. Curious to see how the podcast evolves. The drama in the comments is ridiculous lol why are y’all taking it so personally when it’s literally their lives. It’s okay to have ur own opinion but why give energy to hate on someone? All the comments replying to the hate saying that they’re jobless, jealous, etc I get that y’all are trying to defend but you’re also spewing negativity in the comments. Hope all of this dies down soon, the drama is annoying 🥴 I hope everyone in the house can just reflect on themselves and this experience w AM leaving. Maybe another video clearing things up would help? Idk, but this transition is rough. I wish people were more loving and encouraging of positive change instead of hating and forcing people to change. It’s just sad to see, when the intention of this house was for positive reasons and the people left living there are trying their best too.

[@user-ti3zi3sk5t]

31:17 I feel like Elliot was sending a signal that he isn’t thinking about living together with them for more years.

[@smritisingh1440]

soo happy to see them together

[@kairoberts9894]

I feel like the best nominees for roommates right now are Luke Eich and Issa Sung

[@littleangels1875]

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[@celinebeanie]

not issa

[@maweenabby]

@@celinebeanie did she do something bad to make you say that? or is she already settled herself?

[@Pr0d3gi]

​@@hillarymirindi5718 who

[@ThePasindu]

@@celinebeanie it doesn't matter wtf you think.

[@spamswiftie]

This episode was very chill and i loved it! Keep it up guys and can’t wait for the new episodes and the new chapter :)

[@dwidas6323]

It’s clear some of you have never had roommates or are not even old enough to move out of your parent’s house because it’s normal to not be best friends with all your roommates. If you don’t hang out with them, it doesn’t mean there’s drama. People have different personalities and lifestyles, and that’s okay. All the negativity is unnecessary.

[@nimrabhutto6768]

exactly!!!!!!

[@annaquino3320]

This is so true, I had a roommate back in college for four years and I never really got to know her deeply, we were just coexisting in the same room, it's because we don't have the same interests and vibe 🙈,

[@hiidiots820]

I don’t think a content house and having randomly assigned roommates is comparable though. AM, Elliot and Kelly were close friends before this content house came together. They all came together for the same reason initially, to create content together. For some reason, that didn’t happen even though they all had a common goal. It’s normal to not be friends with your roommates, but what are the odds that things didn’t work out when one more person became apart of the equation? AM, Elliot and Kelly had a very comfortable and close dynamic before this content house came about. Now, it seems like Kelly and AM aren’t as close as they used to be when it was just the three (AM, Elliot, Kelly) of them.

[@nobodys2358]

I love you all and sending love your way. Watching/listening to your brightens my day. And also inspires to keep going. Thank you! Hugs to all of you.

[@logan2b]

Rip to Kelly’s grandma and Elliot’s grandpa

[@wowowww]

Ashley's mic cover should have been green. 💚

[@jenifert4356]

Ashley stay strong we are always with you no matter what❣️

[@syd5831]

I knew you was gonna say “ do what excites”lmaooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@boredguy5805]

Are you guys ever gonna upload to Spotify :/, this is the only pod I know that doesn't. Just asking since I like to list to pods while I do things passively while moving around, or in the car, and I can't really do that with this one

[@eliasheld2846]

thats a good question :) i would like to listen to you on spotify!

[@Jensen-C]

Idk I don’t tbink the podcast is very professional or a very top priority of theirs. They go without uploading for weeks idk

[@danielab332]

It takes more work to configure podcasts for audio, you have to manage the hosting separately, and in KZbin it is automatic. Maybe they have been positioning that process

[@boredguy5805]

​@@danielab332 barely any extra work, all you need to do is sign up for a podcast host platform and they distribute it to all platforms for you. Some kids from my school run a podcast with almost no listeners are all able to do it just fine, I don't see why fulltime youtubers wouldn't be able too. There's nothing unique they'd have to do for the audio.

[@theywereroommates3552]

We will be on all platforms soon!

[@limcrissajeanne]

everyone commenting hate about each roommate just sounds like a 14-year old speculating about internet beef that wasn't even there tbh

[@lilo_-qu2qo]

ashleys morning is literally my goal

[@Tiamariawouldntwanttobeya]

Kelly I use to work in the hair transplant industry and the best advice I can give is prevention but it does come with some costs. Get an idea of when your grandfather started balding and the pattern of his hair loss. Whether it’s receding or crown loss. It will give you a good indication of where it may go. Using your brothers does not help too much. I always found that if you look more like your mother or father then that’s generally the family path you will follow. Hope that helps 😊

[@keziacamille]

Y’all always make me smile! Keep on doing what you’re doing and keep up the great work and I love y’all! Will keep on watching and supporting y’all 💛💛

[@Natallz]

I actually challenging thought for you guys ! In Dr. Brene Brown’s “Atlas of the Heart”, she says “ a life without regret is a life without reflection”. I think regret can be interpreted by different people. I think you guys saying that you have no regrets shows that you guys have reflected internally already and learned from it and don’t let regret define you 🙌🏼❤️ love your guys content have a great week!!

[@Natallz]

On that note also thank you for sharing your story about your relationship with your mom ❤️ I think you should cut yourself some slack. Like Ashley said, being a teenager is a hard time in life, and developmentally your at a different place and not fully developed yet.

[@DoGzrule430]

idk why there's so many comments saying podcasts with no set questions/structure can't work...like emergency intercom with drew and enya is so fun to listen to bc they dont plan shit and just talk about their crazy life experiences/stories😭 honestly i feel like if these 3 did the same it would be entertaining but cut them some slack bc its obviously not their first priority, especially trying to adjust without AM

[@gabbystarbear23]

emergency intercom flows more, I think this podcast just has to work more on their transitioning and banter. There’s a lot of awkward pauses throughout the podcast I can barely finish it

[@necolin]

Bring Luke back. He fits the vibe!

[@filippeo]

I don't think that Annemarie would necessarily change the conversation drastically, remember that this is the first full podcast there wasn't a backstory for any member, so there wasn't a one big topic connecting everything. I loved it, cannot wait for more!

[@Eastudios925]

FACTS

[@itsMeeeeeh]

Speaking of campfire, why don’t you guys go camping this summer? That would be a really fun vlog. And can you please make the video longer than 10 minutes? Your vlogs are so short guys then we have to wait another week for the next one?!😅

[@littleangels1875]

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[@penguinwithwifi]

I like Isabelle Sung’s personality and her cooking skills. She would be a great addition to the house. Though with the drama/fallout from Annemarie’s departure, I imagine a lot of potential roommates might be reluctant to move in.

[@royaguirre410]

Just an idea, but maybe having a roommate who's down to be in the atmosphere but isn't an influencer would be a fun roommate.

[@CynicalDuchess]

if they work a regular job though, they wouldn't have time to be in the videos tho

[@DilsJourney]

like Nik

[@elinosnip]

I feel like it would just turn out like with anne marie. At some point the lifestyles and goals of everyone just won’t work with each other

[@royaguirre410]

@@CynicalDuchess yeah but if they work a normal corporate job. Before and after work they don't care about work and are stress free able to do whatever they want. Idk if I worked and lived in the city, it would be fun to come home to fun all the time

[@gdwwt8303]

@@DilsJourney is she a student or ??? does she have a job

[@tolidoklein3822]

it's great to see that you guys are branching out and trying new things. awesome podcast and keep up the good work! 🎉🎉

[@dancingdapper]

man, i can relate to kelly being not the perfect child but the child that gives excitement and fun to his parents lol love the podcast!! keep making videos, guys!!

[@TifeAdedeji]

lmao elliot's 5pm alarm is so me. i have an alarm almost every hour

[@kirstywright]

Love you guys! Always real and genuine in your videos.

[@projectdwn2824]

why do u keep saying about “depth”? 😅 this is a podcast of 3 young creators, they’re talking about their own experiences and they’re on insughts. it’s not like there’s a requirement in a podcast..

[@karlpettersson7224]

I think the talk in this episode was really great. I love the reflections.

[@berry2853]

I can’t with this comment section likeee I just can’t why can’t we as fans just live and let them live their life and then people will get offended if you would speak even a word against them how can they expect y’all to stay put. I just feel like lashing out at everyone idk how y’all must be feeling about this and controlling yourselves from not saying anything. Also to the people saying Ashley is a pick me like where how in the world is she like everyone was happy when they were all there everyone loved Ashley supported everyone and all and now that they need this support why is everyone being so rude. As it’s not easy to move out of somewhere it’s not easy for the others left behind either. So just get over it people or just don’t come over here to just hate comment.

[@kinwind8432]

would love to hear a podcast going deep on existential/universal topics since having existential crisis and questioning the meaning of life is on the minds of a lot of young adults I feel like

[@ashleighsprings9732]

WOW this comment section. Yes, the podcast isn’t the same without AM BUT if you are here, you should be supportive of the other three (now that doesn’t mean you can’t be constructively critical!). I am sending love to all of you💞💞

[@sheenapatricio2418]

love this episode! very chill and cozy. excited for the future of ur mom's house 😄

[@lilymtran]

my sunday just got better ily

[@adriancruzschiffer]

IKRR AHHHHHH

[@miffyroll]

hope you guys still continue with this podcast!! i know there’s a lot of negative comments but there’s also a bunch of us who really enjoy this podcast 💕 just take it easy and remember to have fun with the episodes! i think it would also be cool to bring some guests into future episodes too!! love you guys

[@lunarmoth44]

love you ashley

[@Jhinn4869]

People are afraid of change. That's why negative comments are being shown, quite honestly, AM left in her own terms, so they really shouldn't be getting hate comments, legitimately sad to scroll down the comment section right now oof

[@itsmatthewalvarado]

Bro I am watching this like it's my job, great one

[@dietervankeilegom5214]

I have no idea what i think of the podcasts. Is it just me or is the podcast all over the place?

[@samarpan9382]

I mean yeah. 🙂. But they are trying hard let's support and wait and see how things go.

[@TropicalPianist]

@@samarpan9382 hey, how old are you?

[@blakeguckert8372]

I think you guys should shoot a podcast contemplating existential topics

[@LauraMartinez-ec3fx]

🤍 excited for the new changes , can’t wait and see what’s in store for Ur mom’s house

[@libby1758]

I love you guysss, you help me see things further and with more positivity. Can’t wait for the future whatever that may be :)

[@im2tuff]

Love seeing yall but damn its tough not seeing AM

[@user-killachickendinna]

I feel like Kelly and Ashley’s reactions/handling of Elliot opening up about his regret involving the relationship he has with his mom was so hard to watch. Elliot doesn’t seem like he is typically that vulnerable and the one time he chose to, they didn’t even really ask him much about it or try to understand it on a deeper level. Kelly reverted straight to comparing himself to it and Ashley just talked about how her mom and her generally get along. Elliot’s mom obviously seems a bit more of like those old fashioned asian parents and so their strained relationship isn’t as easy to mend, but Kelly + Ashley could’ve delved into it a bit more with him or at least seem a bit more compassionate about the circumstance. But they didn’t. I thought that was kinda sad and honestly really disappointing. Maybe they were caught off guard, but even on the basis of just friends and without the pressure of being recorded, how can you be close friends with someone who you can’t talk deeply to about these things? Not everything has to be deep, but these two seemed so surface level when this situation came up. You don’t have to become a therapist or crutch for your friend, but if they’re the type to rarely open up, I feel like it’s important as a friend to understand how you can “show up” for them.

[@juliannaceralde_b2856]

u really can’t even read their pinned comment u just had to bring negativity into it right away assuming things🤦🏽‍♀️

[@juliannaceralde]

ur really trying to teach them how to podcast and read feelings🤦🏽‍♀️. First off ashley has a podcast on her own called extra dynamic which is literally her motto then Kelly and Luke had one together on patreon called life of Luke and Kelly. An this is Elliot’s first time doing a podcast. Plus I don’t like how ur really assuming stuff right away without reading there pinned comment that all of them have feelings and they don’t like bringing negativity into the nonsense drama. It literally should be easy for you to ignore the video and grow up and be mature

[@diogotavares2590]

Not trying to excuse anyone, because I completely agree with your take, but I too have no idea how I would react if a friend of mine talked about something personal for hundreds of thousands of people to see. I wouldn't know what to ask with the fear of being too intimate , or too personal and fear of how said friend would react to questions. Maybe these are conversations they should have off cam first and then be more comfortable to talk about in on video or podcast if they choose to. But I feel like this is the "new" generation issue. They are too attached to this social media bubble that they simply don't know how to relate to issues. Like when Ashley said that they do "work" every day and then mentioned doing a "story" on instagram as work. For a whole day. That doesn't make any sense to me. I guess thats just the reality of their work but most social media influencers are very very clearly "immature" on personal development and relationships maturity and relating to REAL past, current and personal issues. Quick edit: When Kelly was talking about his grandma I feel like Elliot handled it really nicely. I feel like he is just more mature and more connected to his feelings and his ability to deal with people. And Kelly also dealt alot better with Elliot's grandpa situation. He asked questions and seemed genuinely interested and caring. Because he could relate.

[@theywereroommates3552]

I think it's important to remember that we are talking on a podcast that is seen by thousands of people and although it's more interesting to ask more inquisitive questions, it can really pry into people's personal lives which not everyone is comfortable with. We try to be as "deep" as we are comfortable with online but somethings are better talked about off camera!

[@BigScalyBird]

@@juliannaceralde don’t know if it’s worth engaging with folks like cj/mike/etc. who seem to feed off the negativity and toxicity they insist on spreading. Hopefully the roommates are taking care of their mental health and ignoring and deleting comments as they see fit.

[@randidotplans]

OK SOOO while I agree that this episode lacks depth, I think what people are struggling with is the lack of structure and organisation in this video. “Hangout” episodes like this don’t need to be super deep or meaningful, but it’s not as entertaining when there isn’t a lot of direction. I listen to podcasts where they spend an entire episode doing a q&a, but it’s a lot more fluid than this, which makes them more engaging and interesting. 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe use that white board you have to prepare a little more… brush through the questions… your brands are flashy and exciting, and I think that’s what people expect from this podcast. You don’t need to be that 100% of the time, but a disclaimer at the beginning of “hey, we’re just hanging out and going with the flow. Answering some random questions and going on tangents” would be good and I think would set the tone/agenda for the video, so you’re not getting the criticisms you are under this video.

[@dino9607]

Love thissss!!

[@TheWorldAccordingToV]

so trueee, the crew already spend so much time and energy editing and scripting their every second I think it's really nice to get this chill side where you get to see how they talk in day to day life

[@protiousofgentleheart6249]

For Kelly, you may not think that you can beat your “perfect brother” yet think of the numerous lives you have touched. I am sure your brother has not influenced and touched as many lives as you, has not had as large an impact on people as you have. I think it just comes down to different paths and no matter what path you take, making your mark through it.

[@Khan-dw1mr]

His "perfect brother" will save lives fr in the future. Probably an ortho since he is sporty.

[@anikasimone]

This was a really enjoyable episode

[@sabyramos9320]

the 5pm part literally came on as the clock hit 5pm

[@Jean-wh2hu]

You all are doing great and it's been nice following your journey. Ignore the negative comments. Remember your fans surpass the trolls in the comment section.

[@ThePasindu]

So true 👆

[@crazymango737]

Hey guys! So sad to see all these hate comments. For me, I love the unstructured podcast and it feels like a proper convo. Many podcasts that are labelled "professional" feel way too formal and only highlights the best parts of a conversation/talk. UMH podcast is such a breath of fresh air and I would just ignore the hate comments. These people clearly only care about what they want from you guys, and are not aware of the majority of us who enjoy and love your videos! You guys rock and will continue to grow. If you dont like the podcast, then watch something else lol. Respect for putting up with this.

[@kookpage]

as someone who was introduced to ur mom’s house because of ashley, i think the hate towards her is ridiculous. the house would absolutely not be the same without her (like, it literally was named after her and her brand lmfao??). all of the roommates have described her as nothing but sweet, generous and generally positive INCLUDING AM. that much is evident through her videos too (seeing as how little you can actually gauge from a person’s life through youtube, the fact that it’s clear that she is a kind and thoughtful person even with only seeing a glimpse of her life says a LOT), like the gifts she’s given them was clearly something that took them all by surprise and that they each appreciated. and AM herself has said that ashley inspired her to be more giving and charitable. so people trying to create this imaginary beef between them when it quite literally is not there, is so stupid and they clearly have nothing better to do with their lives. trying to paint her as this person creating all this drama is not only the epitome of miserable loner behaviour, but also fundamentally untrue and baseless. also, it’s so crazy how much kelly and ashley’s happiness bothers some people, to the point where they’re *convinced* it’s making things worse for the house. idk about you, but if my friends are clearly happy together i too would be over the moon for them! elliot is first and foremost their friend and if you think he’d be the type to be bitter and annoyed over them being together, it says a lot about what you think of him as a person; any normal friend would welcome their friends’ happiness?&?@&@ wanting them to breakup when they clearly are happy together is just sooo crazy to me but it is also SUPER telling- miserable people can’t stand other people being happy so they want them to be miserable too 😕 to the roomies- i genuinely wish the best for you all and hope you manage to push through even with all of these awful comments. love you and (unlike some people) i hope you guys are happy 💗💗💗 can’t wait to see what’s coming from the house!!

[@acnh3373]

"seeing as how little you can actually gauge from a person’s life through youtube" This argument applies both ways to all of the roommates. How do you know any of them on KZbin/SM are truly "kind and thoughtful" if you get such a small snippet of their lives??? In that same vein how do you know if they're bad people? You can't accurately claim either of those things under your own logic lol. This makes me think of people who film themselves giving to the homeless to come across as kind on SM..... clearly it works because people like you will believe it without a second thought.

[@kookpage]

@@acnh3373 they’re youtubers, not actors. if they were faking everything onscreen i think it would be pretty obvious since like i said, unless they’re trained actors, it would be extremely difficult to maintain their on camera personas (we saw a bit of their acting in kelly’s friends skit sooo yeah i think it’s pretty clear what their acting is like lmfaooo). what i said was that there is only so little of a person’s life you see on youtube, not that it’s fake, but that a large portion of it is left out. the fact that even with so much of her life left out her caring and generous personality shines through IS telling of the kind of person she is. and no i’m not going off of solely what SHE puts in her videos- the rest of the roommates in their own videos have described ashley as such, again, including annemarie. if she hates her so much as you so desperately wish to believe, would she be going out of her way to say that about ashley in her own videos?? it’s funny how out of everything in this comment you picked that to focus on instead of quite literally everything else i said :/ the miserable people part probably hit a sensitive spot

[@acnh3373]

​@@kookpage Notice how I didn't bring up a single name and only called out your logic. You're the one projecting and jumping to conclusions clearly. The fact of the matter is that people behave differently when they know they're being filmed. Psychologically you wouldn't act the same if you were being told that you're in a vlog v.s. a skit which have clearly different connotations. I'm not even talking abt the roommates at this point your reasoning is just flawed

[@kookpage]

@@acnh3373 i’ve seen *you* in this comment section multiple times mentioning names so i’m seriously not buying that looool. get a life instead of dissecting these people’s relationships and trying to look for drama that simply isn’t there. i promise it will make you a little happier.

[@acnh3373]

​@@kookpage I obviously have an opinion but made a deliberate choice not to bring it into my argument or call you names. but if you think you're being the mature one then by all means. have a good day

[@tuvi7666]

it would be good for elliot to go to therapyy, it has helped me a lot

[@AdeolaAsh]

I listened to this episode while cooking & eating, I thought it was chill & fun!

[@Shegirlbossonmy]

u guys should probably turn off the comments lol no matter what u say there’s still going to be people who spew shit about both sides

[@shiasung6321]

It feel so weird without Annemarie. Like something's empty and not full..

[@Myself12383]

They are like the Good kid's with style, creativity, kindness etc etc etc 😁 in this kind generation..... 😁 Love you guy's ❤️

[@matthewkendall5235]

The bit about star signs - when Kelly said I am Sagittarius - I so picked that - from one to another - even if you have zero belief in it - such a classic representation of the star signs predicted personality. Mate I tell you like recognizes - and really appreciates - like! A great and very honest episode guys - you smashed it!

[@Maisannnn89]

Some of you need to go outside and touch some grass, because you clearly never had real human interactions before. Sometimes people just don’t get along. That doesn’t mean one of the is a bad person/ is a bully. Sometimes you meet people and think you’ll have a great friendship but then when you get to know them more you realize your personalities are just so different. You are not going to be friends with everyone and get along with them just because they are good people, friendships require more than that. So stop attacking left and right.

[@thefudgeameh]

holy shit, exactly. it’s like some of these people have never had human interaction in person or like.. idk, joined a school club or something. two people can coexist as both good people and not get along as well. being close friends isn’t just about being nice to each other and what not, and you can still be friendly with one another without being best friends. and, it’s like people have never lived with other roommates. sometimes even living with your best friend is hard due to the simplest differences in lifestyles-for ex, one person is super messy and one person is a clean freak. there doesn’t have to be bullying involved for someone to want to move out.

[@Maisannnn89]

@@thefudgeameh EXACTLYYYYYYYY!!! OMG

[@houdabouabdallah7106]

it was fun wonderful and amazing, can't wait for other videos.

[@m.e.4666]

I love this episode! Such a chill vibe!

[@carlosramos-ramirez3733]

Ashley’s fit 🔥🔥

[@rxbieber]

Why do I fall more inlove with Elliot every episode

[@rkivegal]

💜💜💜 one heart for each