What's Not Handled In Singleness, Will Affect Your Togetherness II | Therapy Thursday | The Flowers

[@Sunshine-wn4eg]

God does not just send you somebody for romance, but to advance the kingdom

[@7sevyn664]

Talk That Talk!

[@enhancebeauty2975]

Amen.

[@lisamedla]

Not sure they are mutually exclusive but without the latter the former loses meaning

[@MFSTJ125]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 purposely driven !!!

[@B.laguerre]

Amen!

[@malakya19]

When he’s speaking she be staring at him with such admiration. I love it!

[@traceydumase]

I caught that too😭🥰❤️

[@beaniebaby7958]

"That pain hits different when you are contributing patience to something that's never going to be yours" -Jerry Flowers

[@aliciasandy2042]

Ouch!!

[@jenniferrivera8627]

😬😬😬

[@cbriggs719]

Geesh

[@anissawilliams4533]

I.........😳😳

[@patriciacampbell7296]

This is so true.

[@glorycarriersrenmow]

"Hell gets nervous when you mature." 🎯

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

This!!!!! AMEN!!!

[@tamarajolee2115]

“We have to unlearn what we learned from wounded people” 👏👏 This whole teaching is powerful!!

[@beaniebaby7958]

"The last thing I want is for you to be the same thing I just left"

[@debbier957]

I love @25:36 where he cuts her politely and is like “No we’re not doing churchy. How did you really feel.” The transparency. It’s a blessing. So many real emotions are hidden by church phrases because people think that it’ll be uncomfortable if they tell the truth about how they feel. Thank you for being real. It empowers me to respectfully do the same.

[@india_milan6305]

I was cracking up 😆 If I had 2 reaction rates, I would love and laugh at the same time. The transparency and humor just brings a natural flow to the Therapy session. Loves it! ❤

[@Sunshine-wn4eg]

When you are in purpose, it collides you with purpose partners... thats a word

[@mjkneeland6344]

Tenisha please write a prayer book: you authentic prayers shared so effortlessly is a blessing to share with the world.

[@marilynalicea8039]

Y'all have NO IDEA how much this has blessed me 😭

[@ladennayoung2939]

Me too. I absolutely love Therapy Thursday's. I got so excited when I realized that it was Thursday on yesterday, and even more excited, when I saw that title. Because I had forgot that they was going to continue with that topic on last night.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Well you continue to have a blessed remainder of your day, a blessed and prosperous weekend, and a blessed and prosperous remainder of your year, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.

[@stevenvil94]

Father God thank you for Pastors Jerry and Tanisha. Thank you for their ministry and I pray that Your Spirit continues to speak through them as we learn to do things the kingdom way. Too much of culture and the enemy’s way has diluted and polluted what you meant for good Lord and I pray that our eyes are opened and we allow for our minds to be renewed. I pray that Your patience is with us Lord and that we learn to wait for your confirmation and continue to abide by Your spirit.

[@imbrycewilson]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@natalie.antoinette]

Amen! 🙏🏽

[@adriennelewis9986]

Amen🙏🏽

[@Bougiechic717]

“She wanted a fool”🤣🤣. You guys are so real and It’s helping me in my singleness. I need to continue working on me!!

[@ziondreams_]

Therapy Thursdays have been a part of my Friday morning here in the Philippines. Thank you so much for sowing good seed. I have grown more profound in the Lord since joining this ministry back in 2020. I gained so much knowledge, wisdom, understanding, and discernment. Thank you so much, Pastor Jerry and First Lady Tanisha Flowers! God bless you abundantly! ✝️♥️🙏🏻

[@yolandawilliams3319]

THIS THERAPY THURSDAY HIT HOME FOR ME!!!! I HAVE BEEN SOOOOO INPATIENT IN WAITING ON GOD'S HARVEST FOR ME UNTIL I FELT THAT GOD HAD FORGOTTEN ABOUT ME IN MY LOVE LIFE!!! I FELT I HAD BEEN BLESSED IN EVERY AREA OF MY LIFE EXCEPT THAT ONE!!! I HAD TO REALIZE THAT THE BLESSING WAS IN THE TAKING AWAY OF THE COUNTERFEITS AND THE HEALING PROCESS!!! WITH EVERY PAIN CAME A PRAISE AND WITH EVERY HURT CAME A HEALING!!!! SO I THANK GOD FOR THIS POWER COUPLE FOR SHOWING US THE WAY!!!! GIVING US THE TRUTH!!! AND LEADING US TO THE LIGHT!!!!!!

[@yahkar]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 *That Pain Hits Different When Your Patient With Something That'll Never Be Yours* .

[@PatriceElam]

Man… you broke down that thing about our generation not wanting to walk thru the process. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 That’s is sooo true!!! We want the end result now.

[@preciousolea]

This video is an entire WRECKAGE of my life in the BEST way possible.🙌🏽😭 “An impatient heart is not a loving one” & “God does not just send you a partner just for romance but to ADVANCE” the kingdom of God … listen now 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you both! 🙏🏽♥️

[@Mindsetolympics]

Very anointed couple! I’m new. I won’t go into detail but the “nursing” vs nuturing man is very timely and confirmation of somethings for me! THANK YOU! God bless you both!

[@3D3LIA]

“ the last thing I want, if for you to be the same thing I just left “ ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@traceydumase]

You see every time I THINK I'm healed, God exposes something new. It's so fascinating to me because as I believe within myself "I'm healed" I also believe "I'm ready for my husband" lol but my waiting season is teaching me. I'm learning. Most important lesson being that God has purpose in the wait and my focus should be on unlearning and learning. My focus should be on seeking God and submitting to His will even for my healing. Holy Spirit, you sent me here for a reason..... continue to speak🙏🏾❤️

[@salimtwene5605]

25:47 😂😂😂he called her out …appreciate y’all’s authenticity

[@alattractions]

All this therapy for free…love it! God bless you all and your ministry. God is changing lives through this! Hugs☺️

[@kimberlysingleton306]

Your patience has left with something that was never yours. Powerful

[@MsTBrown07]

Blessings to you Pastor Flowers and First Lady Flowers 🌺! I cried when you said, “Their tired of hearing in God’s timing” ⏱ You struck a nerve! Many of us have been faithful stewards in prayer, serving the Lord to the best of our ability and really trying to wait on God’s plan! But yet still, though I began to tear up, I know there’s yet STILL a process and God yet has a plan…Thanks for the transparency of both of your stories…It helps! Please say a prayer me! Sincerely, Tréasa Brown

[@kimberlysingleton306]

I believe that, there are still good men after God's own ❤️

[@p.s.706]

Embrace the process.Hell gets nervous when you mature.Lifesaving jewels for healthy function.Thank you for this 🔥🔥🔥powerful anointed words of wisdom 🙌🏽

[@dashelledisna6239]

This was so good. I have to REWATCH 10x and take notes

[@horschiday9449]

ME TOO!!! 😅

[@Lynnejordan1218]

This teaching truly has been Life Changing and I'm 60, Absolutely Beautiful word from a young Beautiful Godly Couple. Continued Blessings upon your marriage and ministry🌅 I saved this video as I wait on Daddy for his choice for me the next time around.

[@ladybluemoon1]

Are you guys expecting!!!!! Mrs Flowers you look radiant and I appreciate this ministry you helped me through celibacy and continuing onward

[@latoyadykes5010]

Was wondering the same thing. They were throwing words out there like baring and labor and I was like Mmm hmmmmm 🤔🤔🤔🤔…. Are they going to announce another little Flowers is baking in the oven lol. That’ll be so awesome 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@dashelledisna6239]

Lol Jerry wants another, Tanisha doesnt .

[@josefina502]

I love this Theapy Thursday. This session has helped me in my singleness journey and where I am at right now!! I thank GOD for using both of you!! May GOD continue to bless your family!! I so excited when I will be able to share my testimony on what desires for me!! I know GOD was speaking to me through both of you!!

[@seniquarenee8034]

My God!!! What a word!!! Pastor & 1st Lady Flowers… I was a “nurse” for 15 years in my 2nd marriage… I am recently divorced for the 2nd time and I am in a season of singleness, I discovered your ministry during my separation and I have learned so much about me, your sermons have opened my eyes to God’s truth and will. I have received healing on somethings and I continue to heal.. this was an on time word because now I understand why God said what her said to me…. Patience…. Thank you for your obedience and walking in your purpose. God has certainly used you to change my life. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏽✝️💜

[@lindahlexxie9301]

God gives us Trees & instructions ...and we got to put in the work to build the ark.

[@angelicaakers4445]

My God!! Lissseennnn!! I love Pastor Flowers and First Lady Flowers! Your transparency and honesty is needed for the merging of mantles that is happening in the spirit. There will be an abundance of marriages and babies. Healing is required because the Father is restoring families. We cannot bring Egypt into Canaan, which is here. Get ready! Get healed!

[@AFaithWalk]

i must say this really spoke to my spirit especially when you used the analogy of the camera being a photorapher that was so clear Glory to God!

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

Help me to unlearn what I learned by wounded people!!! That was real good!!!

[@sheenaj1977]

I can honestly say that since I began dating at 17 up to this point in life every man I have allowed into my heart has cheated. When Pastor said women get tired I felt that! My heart is exhausted. My spirit is weary. I understand now that my story wasn't written for that man I prayed for. I'm focused on healing and my purpose. I just pray to be okay with God's purpose for my singleness. My God just help to follow the instructions you implement within my holy spirit.

[@lillymovies845]

I so enjoyed this session. God dealt with me on so many levels of focusing on becoming a healthier me. You both are such a blessing. My relational emotional intelligence has grown by leaps and bounds from listening to you. God bless you First Lady and Pastor!! Respectfully and humbly,

[@joanatim9448]

I like when he asked her about what she thought when he told her he was a student pastor... ahihihi. So real y'all.

[@michellebridges4248]

Mrs. Flowers is so cute!

[@missshantae24]

The ENEMY GETS NERRRRRRVOUS WHEN YOU MATURE!!! 💯💯💯

[@lilyjohnson1411]

PATIENCE

[@kinchasadaniels7166]

So shall I think so shall it be! The devil wants negative thinkers because it’ll bring about negative actions and self inflicted outcomes

[@StaSta927]

This is so meaningful. Before my husband left, I asked him to be patient with me for God has something that will change our lives. He told me that I am not making him happy. I pray that God open the eyes to his heart and know that we have a purpose and he was sent to me for that purpose.

[@joyricherson4570]

Wow! I feel so convicted because I used to ask my honey the same thing like what do you see in me, like are you sure you want to be with me, why do you love me, it was almost like I had to convince myself that I'm worthy to be loved. And plus he's like 15 years younger than I am so I just can't believe how mature he is like I really just talked to God like I already found myself like looking at his birthday like this can't be right he's just so focused and just so committed and I'm talking about to God and just consistent and I'm just like this can't be true. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@arethaford3368]

Pain builds a wall,healing builds a door🔥🔥🔥

[@sheilasnowden3414]

This piece here……. Is so valuable and hits right on point. Thank you Father God for Pastor Flowers and his wife for this powerful word. There’s so much pain in “generational stuff”!! Layers to be pulled back. Things we don’t want to acknowledge and let go of. Owning the fact that we become products of our environments. The bottom line is we cannot fix any body no matter how much you love them or how hard you try. The only way. The absolute only way is Gods plan. Nothing else. 🙏🏽✝️

[@GenesisZaria]

I’m 21 and I talk about this all the time! I love this

[@tahomalewis2300]

This message was so good. I needed to hear what you meant about nurturing vs. being a nurse.

[@yangelthomas]

Don't let broke people fix you!.....👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾...whoa!

[@TheDarijunk]

Thank you! I was patient with men that wasn’t mine and I am tired of dealing with these men that are not ready. I am thankful for your sermons because they are keeping me focused and giving me more patience in my singleness.

[@msaverielle]

God doesn’t just send you someone for romance but to ADVANCE the kingdom.

[@jenniferrivera8627]

Amen . 5 min in and already feel it. Walking away is the best no matter how much it hurts. I deserve better.

[@upt225]

Man, I love the realness of y'all! God Bless! 🙏🏾

[@tamarafritz4178]

Thank you Lord for your continued blessings and Jerry and Mrs. Flowers giving us who are seeking your Kingdom your wisdom and understanding of your word through therapy Thursday

[@sarahwood-qj6by]

I love it your marriage it is so real and beautiful I'm glad you guys found each other God is good

[@Wellpro31]

Love that 💖💪 'Unlearn what we have learned from hurting people.'

[@velonikaafimeimounga469]

Thank you mr & mrs flowers for your inspiring video. I'm a single mother off three and i just came out off a 10 yr relationship that was full off toxic and all i wanted was out because off what it has done to me and my lil family. So i got myself out off it. Before i left i started my relationship with jesus like never before. And i could say i'm Bless for another chance off life💕 I've been a mess for awhile now but ur videos has helped me thru this single journey..Thank you so so much. I would listen to you guys most night to help me sleep.. 🙏🏽 May our heavenly father continue to Bless you and ur family ❤️❤️ The peace you guys share👌🏽💕

[@saints_treasure]

Mrs. Flowers hit when she started speaking at 45 min talking about the nursing and nurturing part. It made me realize that my actions were as if I was a nurse. God I didn't see it then, but I hear and see it now. At the time with my ex, my intentions were pure and good, but who I was nurturing (and sometimes naively nursing), I had no chance. I am so happy to have this revelation now. It hurts so bad and deep to hear this, but there is some comfort in hearing it as well. I am hoping that it is God's will that He wants me to send me a man that He wants me to help (NURTURE). If He does, I will have right this time. God thank you for Pastor Flowers and Mrs. Flowers message. I needed this!

[@horschiday9449]

Oooo THIS WAS FOR MEEEE!!!! Mrs Flowers, you couldn’t have said it any better, thank you so much for clarifying the difference between both roles. THANK YOU JESUS FOR YOUR WISDOM through this couple 🙌🙌.

[@richakhanna8112]

Impatient heart Cannot be loving heart

[@Lovingme626]

I’m seeing this a year later and the wisdom is just as powerful today! Y’all speak TRUTH 🎤for healing, wisdom, and discernment . 🙏🏽🙌🏽Thank you for your ministry! 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@everevolve247]

I loved Mrs. Flowers breakdown, so good. I felt like a true student with the many points made here. Thank you.

[@kierrademus8092]

Yes🙌🏿

[@IAMKAFFY]

Awesome , honest , vulnerable and clarity giving session . Thank you and God bless you. Both on this kingdom agenda you are on !!!

[@ceeare12345]

33:08 I am so tired of hearing that. No matter how true it is. I love that he pointed out I’m tired of hearing it. It’s painful.

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

There it is!!! That right there!!!!

[@judylearnsmorewithtime159]

I said I wasn’t going to cry and now I’m sitting here with tears of healing streaming down my face.

[@ceeare12345]

This ministry is such a blessing to me as someone who is the first one in my family to be breaking generational curses. I’ve never had godly examples nor role models. These teachings are so important.

[@melindakalenga4268]

Who else love these two ❤❤❤❤ God blessed their union. is through their union that we’re tremendously blessed with their wisdom.

[@lerandabrewer3923]

I truly appreciate this ministry and Pastor and First Lady Flowers. Thank you all for being available for to the Holy Spirit...God Bless you

[@joyricherson4570]

This is proof that God listens to our conversations!!

[@anthonycandler5331]

Amen Mrs. Flowers!! The breakdown of the definition nursing was so essential to me in understanding that my curing is no woman's responsibility. It's God's purpose for my only.

[@andreamyers1209]

Thank you Pastor Flowers and Mrs. Flowers for your transparency. Your message opened my mind and my heart to patterns and strongholds that I had no idea I even possessed. Thank you for your obedience to God, and for sharing the good news with the world! May God continue to bless and grow your family.

[@harrisk1920]

Thank you for the teaching both of you brought on this segment. As Christian woman I saw a lot of things I need to work on. You shine that light onto my darkness

[@springrain5297]

"I'm here today! ☺️" ❤️ I love her!!

[@zabrinatheteacher]

The dynamic duo. Continue to allow God to use you both. You are going to continue setting a lot of people free. God bless.

[@elegantlady7029]

Thank you Therapy Thursdays 🙏 lord I forgive myself for trying to do it without your instructions 😇 don't want to entertain anyone that wasn't sent by you (counterfeits)

[@kimberlyrainey771]

Now this is Good🤦🏾‍♀️God bless this union and their purpose. 🙌🏽🙋🏽‍♀️❤️

[@Innerluvtae]

The way I felt this more than I expected to feel this word

[@latoyasmith8022]

I here you guys thanks so much with this season of teaching on these topics.. Tenisha is amazingly awesome on tonight I love listening to her tonight.. Understanding the journey.. Im in the middle of separation and divorce heading that way and alot has changed in these few months and my trusting on God word lead me here tonight.. Thank you so much 😊

[@marthawellington8554]

I thank God for you people, youve walked with me in my heartbreak season can't thank you enough, been binge watching your sermons like crazy ❤ lots of love from a kenyan🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@JUntappp3d]

I love you guys chemistry and you can feel the love…I love you guys realness forreal❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾

[@AAA-ec4vf]

Ooohweeee this is KINGDOM LANGUAGE! GOOD SPIRITUAL FOOD! 😊😀

[@ladennayoung2939]

HALLELUJAH. GLORY BE TO GOD. THANK YOU PASTOR FLOWERS FOR BREAKING DOWN WHAT BEING PATIENT MEAN.

[@candidconyea]

Thank you for this message. Yall have shaped my dating life. I have been part of the family since 2019 and I have shared with my sisters as well. Thank you Mr. & Mrs. Flowers.

[@elicao.7969]

I was so blessed at how God used the both of you to speak into my life just now. It brought me to tears and praise because all the questions i had for God about a certain individual in my life, was answered in this video.

[@kidtut7708]

I love this balanced conversation.

[@Valencia77]

"THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF HELP, THAT YOU CAN GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT GRACE TO BE WITH" WOW!!! MRS. FLOWERS THIS IS GOOD!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👐👐👐🤲🤲🤲🤲 " I CAN'T LEAD SOMEBODY THAT IAM NOT GRACE TO" 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@ryansmith7721]

AMEN!!!

[@jillh440]

My favorites🎉🎉🎉 1. Stop expecting you from them. 2. The discernment series. 3. Wheat VS weeds in the discernment series. 4. Pawns projects, partners and parasites. Oh, my goodness! 5. Kings still exist II coughing season. You have changed my life with these teachings!

[@faithlcockrell2332]

Patient Patient🙏🏽

[@love-kt5vi]

Amen Amen Mrs. Flowers

[@all4god116]

Beautiful convicting message!!!!! As Always my cousins come to mind who have rushed marriages because they wanted to be married before 30 and 40. It's bonkers! All I do is pray so heavy for them! Why is it that when they do get married one will block and delete you out of their whole life because they look the part of happy projection for social media! It's wild to me! All I want is purpose partners not meaning romantic authentic relationships around me! Love you guys so much!

[@PatTheBarber_]

This is Good… I was just saying this to guys in the barbershop on last night… Salute to You Pastor Jerry and your wife y’all definitely was necessarily thorough in teaching the word of God! 🙏🏽💙 Blessings

[@brishelle1659]

A spiritual click! Yes Lord!!!

[@Chantusyluvmuzik]

This was soo good … every part every scriptures made sense !!! Thank you 😊

[@cortneeking3237]

This is some good content! Lord I thank you.

[@dashanarichburg9529]

My God this message was solid 🙌🏽

[@amorx36]

Eye opener! I love Mrs Flowers emphasis To the disernment, God gives grace to nurture broken men❤ Godbless to your ministry❤ Also men cant lead without being led

[@Nique20029]

🙋🏿‍♀️YES Pastors Thank you, I'm grateful that there are strong individuals that break those generational cycles Thank you.

[@jadevaluja]

You guys are amazing preachers. Thank you for ty his message. Love ❤️

[@Nique20029]

I had to I watch this twice, So many great life keys for both Men and Women. Patience is something I had to learn for myself, 🤔so Love isn't weaknesses, Bleeding Heart bleeds on other , God want Spiritual Click in relationship, You can't force anyone to change 💯. Wow🤯 in a good way "Speechless"! GOD Thank you for Ms. And Mr.. Flowers

[@Angela3Parker8]

Thank you for this message. It hits different when you are already a married nurse. Lord help!

[@ambermcneese2542]

Under your teaching for the past few months has my spirit SOO on fire 🔥 for God!! You both are such a blessing 🙌🏽 keep allowing God to use you what you both are doing is working! I wish I lived in Houston TX 😩