What’s The Best Relationship Advice You’ve Ever Receivable?

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[@annabelle2832]

If your significant other is venting about something, do you want me to help problem solve or do you want to just vent. My partner was an always jump in to problem solve guy and it drove me crazy. Our therapist suggested asking what we needed from the conversation. It’s been a game changer in our communication.

[@swearimnotarobot3746]

Sometimes people just wanna vent. They don’t need anything solved. Just a simple, “damn, that sucks.” And make dinner that night to cheer them up.

[@dappermancer]

“never go to bed angry” i complimented an older woman’s ring, and she began gushing over her husband, telling me how much she loved him and vice verse. one thing she emphasized was that, no matter how frustrated you are with your partner, always *always* talk it out as much as you can, and never go to bed angry. the anger won’t just subside overnight, it’ll fester and grow and make you resentful; communication is integral, and if you love each other, talking it out will only bring you two closer. it’s been at least a year since that conversation, but it’s stuck with me and i’ve done my best to remember it when/if my fiancée and i ever have issues, it’s only ever helped us ❤

[@mr_kirk42]

I feel like this should just be with significant other. This works with family, friends, and can even be with hobbies. Great life advice.

[@CatsOverBrats]

I told my husband within the first 14 days of dating that if children were ever part of his future image, he should move on to another woman right away. We just celebrated 16 years together. We live a quiet life with our two cats. Blissful silence. I love it. I love him. I love our cats. I don't want to live in any other way.

[@swearimnotarobot3746]

Yeah, there are some things that couples have to agree on. Marriage, kids, etc. It’s best to break things off early if you know it won’t work.

[@CatsOverBrats]

@@swearimnotarobot3746 Yes, pushing it ahead and thinking you can figure it out later will only end up growing resentment and making people miserable when they finally realize years down the line that the other person won't change their mind for them.

[@alyssabaerne9508]

Honestly, i haven't experienced it in a romantic relationship, but have noticed around me it applies both between parents and kids, as well as between romantic partners. If trust has left the building, so has honesty. With how controlling my parents were, there was no trust and fir me getting through anything relied on constant lies by ommision because anything i said would be twisted and turned into a mangless mess i never said. I have seen the same in failing relationships where 1 (or both) partner doesn't trust a word the other says or anything where communication just grinds to a halt before evaporating. So i srrongly feel this applies to both dating AND parenting, if there is no trust from one side, the will be little to no honesty from the other.

[@mr_kirk42]

I stand by the statement of having your own life alongside being in a relationship. About 7-8 months ago (as of this comment) I was in a relationship with someone. I devoted way too much of my life towards them and tried to spend as much time with them as I could. When we broke up I was devastated. I didn’t feel like myself my school grades dropped a little and I struggled to spend time or even talk to my friends. After about 4-5 months I went on a vacation with some family and that’s when I truly felt inner peace. I’m now closer to my friends and family and I learned some good things. The main takeaway from this was that you need your own life. Don’t rely on other people for your happiness but have the be supporting factors of it. I’m now doing great meeting new people and enjoying life.

[@WanderingScarecrow]

Story 4 also includes with friends as well. I had a friend ask if I wanted to share a project I was working on with other people, and I said no. I didn’t want to share it because certain people I knew would pick it apart and criticise it to hell and I didnt want that. Instead of taking ‘No’ for an answer, this friend kept pressuring me until I snapped, and then went running to everyone else with a sob story about how I was an A-Hole and yelled at her. I lost a dozen friends all because no didn’t mean no when its something she wanted.

[@robinkholmes7127]

Talk about the serious life-altering topics on the second or third date, or just before you get too emotionally invested in the other person. It makes a clean break so much easier and lets you see the reality of them rather than your fantasy of them.

[@onionbubs386]

Best advice I've ever gotten: it's not "you vs. your partner" it's "you and your partner vs. the problem".

[@Shadow_Microwaive]

DO NOT get into a relationship until you're ready, because if you haven't discovered yourself, or are recurving from something, it is a good idea to avoid relationships for the time being, and if you're are fine mentally and physically and want to know if you're ready, ask a friend to ask at a random time "would you date blank" and if takes longer than 2 seconds don't get into a relationship. I have seen SO MANY VIDEOS of "high school advice" saying ask your crush out before they get asked out, and I say BS, don't do that, you may regret it, and if your crush is going to a different school/etc., than risk it, and tell them "give me some time to adjust to being in a relationship" if they are good people then they will understand. I fell no shame making this comment long, more people need to know about this, mainly (pun intended) 8th graders going to high school.

[@DanielSelk]

I can have the best dates and get to know a person well but the moment I say I want no pets for some reason that breaks it off completely for a lot of people. Like, I am BUSY with work and a career and I want pets to be taken care of by people who CAN and have time to take care of them. I'm glad living without pets. I'm not heartless, I love cats. But they deserve better than me. It's NOT wrong to not want pets. Also when it comes to chores and stuff I'm the type of person that needs to plan for that or be told "Hey, this needs to be taken care of" and I'll do it. When I say tell me to do it that does NOT mean yell at me for "never" doing it especially when you never did tell me to do it to begin with.

[@TammoKorsai]

The kids issue is ignored all too often and parenthood is regarded as 'something you just do.' Good enough for having fish and chips on a Friday, but not good enough for a life-changing decision. The no-kids thing has made dating even more difficult for me, but I'd rather die alone than become a father.

[@manicmarauder]

"A few minutes of pleasure isn't worth 18 years of torment". - from a parent lol

[@Farhan_049]

Crotch fruit? About the keeping score, just like that person said - do it as a way of coming to a solution, not to find guilt. The more important thing I want to talk about is 12:21 - "wants" can change, "needs" don't! My parents are whom I consider the perfect example of a stable marriage; they are both working parents, they divide the chores somewhat evenly. Dad is a little forgetful, so Mom is his "alarm clock" of sorts. Mom is a short, plump woman, so Dad did almost all of the heavy-lifting. They both covered each others' weaknesses, so they "need" each other, not just "want". Today, my Sister and I are doing whatever we can to reduce their workload, but you get the point. If I'm marrying somebody, she must also "need" me. That is the only way I see stability in that marriage. If she just "wants" me, she could just find a more genetically or financially gifted guy and discard me like a used tissue paper! You may call this co-dependancy, I call it stability. 14:08 Truly good advice. I'd do that too in future.

[@johnclaybaugh9536]

Needs will change when health issues arise. And there are so many other things that can happen as well.

[@Farhan_049]

@@johnclaybaugh9536 The needs during illnesses are just extra things that have to be taken care of. They don't replace or hold greater priority over the old ones.

[@F0xtrat775]

Unrelated but this guy has the BEST mustache!

[@wykydwyrm]

You can't make everyone equally happy 100% of the time, the best you can hope for is to make everyone equally miserable...

[@wykydwyrm]

This is a joke btw

[@daniel22208bruh]

Lol

[@lovingbreanne]

10:58 agreed. I’ve been with my spouse for 23 years and they’re still times but he’ll say to me no means no as reminder. It’s very true, respect your partners boundaries, no matter how long you’ve been together.

[@BTS-4eva]

The best advice i got was If they look at you with lust,concet is a must

[@Sara-sn5gd]

Thank you for giving me entertainment through my third bout of corona. Love your nails and your voice!

[@Unnecessary_Potato]

I basically got to the point with my ex where I would rather be homeless than be with him ✨

[@MingMango-lc9cj]

I use to give my friends love advice even ough I never been in a relationship before and now I have been in a relationship I understand and what I'd say now is: Be honest with them but if you find you can't find the reason why you can't and build from there. I realised I wanted to break up as they never believed me when I say I'm okay and they continued to say I wasn't, whan they where jealous they would force them self on me Their friends didn't help as they just wanted to see us kiss but stuff has happen in the past few years and they don't seem to understand I take everything slow to become comfortable.this was the same with my bestfriend too...

[@8Spikey]

Wow I can't stress 1 enough. I told my then fiance now wife this: There will be a thousand issues that arise during our marriage. Let's try to figure out the ones we can forsee now so the road together is less bumpy. Kids, finances and chores are 3 big ones.

[@heidistokes9273]

Look at things objectively sometimes, not with the rose tinted glasses. If you're crying almost every night because of them, they're not someone you should be with. I really wish I'd listened to my mother on this about my ex

[@velkonemriam1935]

I would hope any good advice is “receivable.” Lol

[@chrisnemec5644]

Really depends on the receiver. Some may not want to listen to good advice, no matter how good it is.

[@velkonemriam1935]

@@chrisnemec5644 Yah, that’s unfortunately true.

[@tinnagigja3723]

lol I wonder what happened there? Some sort of spell check overzealousness maybe?

[@saagisharon8595]

I never got very good advice but I can give you one right now. You don't reach relationship status by being too nice

[@firefly127]

Also talk about your partners view on marriage because if they want a big event and to be married and the other person doesn’t have any interest in it and just wants a long term relationship with marriage not being a goal at any point it can put a strain on things they eventually may want marriage but they also may never want it and that’s ok but needs to be talked about and considered if that’s ur end goal

[@tanyavandermerwe8330]

Never go to bed angry. You don't know whether that was your last interaction

[@TheSolidMidgetOfficial]

Story 4. >14. >>>Serious relationship. 😂

[@Byorgan]

I needed this

[@tylerbessette1953]

Story 10. I wish I could get a minute alone w friends let alone going to the bar

[@georgem7965]

I got married fairly late (42) and had always been pretty neutral about kids. If my spouse wanted them or already had them that was cool. If she didn't want them that was cool too. My late wife and I weren't trying to start a family but we were being a little casual about not starting a family. When the little test strip turned color we swallowed hard and asked "now what?" Being a dad turned out to be one of the best and most rewarding experiences in my life and I am very glad it happened. We only had one because she had a very hard delivery. If you are a guy and you and your partner are definite you don't want any (or more) kids get a vasectomy. It is more than worth it. The physical side of your relationship will be better once the possibility of pregancy is off the table. You cannot tell that you are firing blanks.

[@macylouwho1187]

I second this. We had two kids and knew that was what we could reasonably handle. I can’t take birth control because it really messes me up severely. I’ve tried several, none worked for me. Getting tubes tied for a woman is a major surgery. For a man, a vasectomy takes maybe 20 minutes and you get to leave with pain meds and go home. Two days later and sex is the same as it ever was, no difference in feeling for either of us. And so so many years of not having to worry about getting pregnant, using protection, taking pills or shots etc. Zero problems. “Happily ever after” no stress sex 😂👍

[@chrisnemec5644]

One thing I've been taught is to ask yourself these questions before you date someone. 1) What are your ultimate goals in a relationship? 2) How can this person fulfill my goals, and are they willing to do so? 3) If not, am I willing to give up a goal to get the others fulfilled? 4) Can I fulfill this person's goals and am I willing to do so? 5) If not, will that person be willing to give up that goal to get the others fulfilled? Another piece from someone else: Never hesitate to tell your partner how much you appreciate what they do for you.

[@TheSolidMidgetOfficial]

Childless life. Much happier life. ~Me.

[@tanyavandermerwe8330]

When something is broken, fix it. Don't throw it away. Unless it's really REALLY broken

[@Sylphella]

Did anyone else on here have a weird problem with youtube where the video didn't fill the standard view completely? (It's hard to explain, but it looked like someone resized the video like how someone would resize a specific layer of an image so that it's smaller than the rest of the image.)

[@macylouwho1187]

Don’t fall into the seven year itch “I’m bored with life so it’s my partner’s fault for not exciting me anymore” trap. Sometimes “new” is not better, it’s just new. You can literally trade DOWN on partners because you’re experiencing excitement and fresh romantic feelings for a WORSE partner than the one you’ve already got. It happens all of the time out there, the boredom/too routine life partner swap. It happens so often because people stop communicating and trying as hard for each other, and it’s work to fix it and does not deliver instant gratification like a new love affair does. So much easier to just cut and run right??? It delivers all the feels-right up front. What people rarely realize is that the grass is not always greener and you simply trade one set of problems for an entirely new set of problems that you don’t know about yet. But they are coming regardless. And new doesn’t STAY new for long. It doesn’t stay exciting. It doesn’t stay hot, “burning you up” with new relationship passion. Nope, it fizzles just like the last one did. Again-it’s actual work to keep a relationship healthy. Life, bills, kids, work schedules, lack of sleep etc-it gets us down. It’s so easy to start snapping at a partner when you’re feeling like that. After so long together it’s so easy to take them for granted and stop really seeing that person-the reasons why you fell for them in the first place. Life got you down. Stress did. Boredom did. All of those things will happen again with someone else too. All you can really do is fight to change the things that you CAN change. You can’t always leave that job easily. You can’t always find more time in your schedules. So on and so forth. But you “can” change little things. Plan a weekend adventure out doing something new. Plan elaborate date nights. Plan a sexy little sexcapade for the two of you. Leave love notes around for each other in hidden places that will surprise your lover. Sext each other. Pay attention to each other. Don’t ignore problems until they bite you, communicate communicate communicate until resolution is reached. So many problems could be solved so easily if a) one person would be honest and b)the other person opened their ears and friggin LISTENED, then acted on the problem instead of denying it or ignoring it. And Vice versa when the problem is the other person. If you’re wrong, get off your high horse and admit it, and apologize. So so so many people cannot or will not do this, they can’t admit fault over anything. A real relationship killer-that one! Eventually so much stored up resentment builds to the point that the person hurt by this behavior can’t take it anymore. So they leave. It’s abusive to be wrong and not ever admit it. People get hurt so bad by that, and it never changes until the person decides to leave and THEN the person who is never accountable for their own actions suddenly realizes what they are about to lose, THEN they care and say they will change. Too late. The love is lost. And you’ve lost your lover with no one to blame but yourself.

[@MsAquamonkey]

The only people that have never tried to order me to have kids are my family and boyfriend. People who don't know me, us, or barely know us are super offended that neither of us want kids and we never have. Those who know and care don't give a damn that we don't. They're glad we know we don't and don't just have one 'because that's what society says you should do.'

[@albertotequida6964]

"Never go to bed upset/angry at your S.O."

[@tylergnosis2581]

The first story, was dead on

[@frostbite3820]

Before I even go on a date with someone I make it very apparent that I do NOT want children. If she wants or thinks she will want kids then that's fine but let's not waste each other's time. Cause if we try to make something work that we both know 100% won't work, during the time you're wasting "the one" for either of you could walk right past you and you'll be too focused on something completely pointless to notice

[@FoxChatter]

how do you find your threads and can you give me the link to the thread

[@artitrash7052]

Mr Clown facts

[@janfick7260]

We almost got a name there lol

[@NeroDefogger]

hahaha I just realized, I don't have a single good advice and a single bad advice, I don't know how many I received but absolutely 100% of them are completely neutral, because they can't be anything than neutral as I didn't have a single relationship to have even the chance to test them, lol

[@johnclaybaugh9536]

Relationships take effort and work. If you aren't willing to put in some work, don't get into a relationship.

[@MsAngelique]

Who is typing the titles?

[@tra-viskaiser8737]

Grandpa taught me 2 of the best relationship bits.. 1. If you want to date 2 or more girls, make sure they live atleast 2 towns apart. I use a 50 mile rule now. 2. You can't love a whore.

[@giacomostringhini4163]

Relationship are like farts. If you have to force them, it's probably shit

[@marlomoth3275]

Love is like farts. If you are pushing too hard, it is going to get sh*tty pretty soon.

[@Puppy52]

Crotch fruit😂

[@ArthurGraham-vy1ze]

Never be with a woman who can't stand to be alone.

[@skittlemenow]

The title looks like an autocorrect mistake. Recievable? lol

[@nyotamwuaji6484]

Girls should also be told no means no. Guys are allowed to say no.

[@CellPhoneGuy]

1st!

[@grimreaper7901]

Do get married i did it already i should have lissened

[@noliravioli2506]

Can’t date someone’s potential

[@pablodiaz2792]

You need to cut down the commentary dude. We’ve only gone through 2 stories and your commentary takes up half the video.

[@Hiimreggie]

Wow this is is completely useless to me