What's The WORST Gift You've Ever Received From A Partner? | ShxtsNGigs Clips

[@theamazingrico]

Giving your partner stretch mark cream two days after they've birthed your child virtually guarantees that you aren't seeing a damn thing for a lot longer than six weeks.

[@LPnerd]

guarantee. also, we call them push presents. I got a beautiful white and pink pearl bracelet. also, You men, the child is the gift??? carry another human around on top of your bladders for 9 months, and then go through labor. Why should you give them a present??? seriously. You men have a rude awakening, roflmao.

[@justkenny7505]

"Our first child" meaning he got some eventually😂😂😂

[@elodieelvira7913]

Give it up for Fuhad being the only one who could realize that stretch marks cream 2 days after the most painful and potentially deadly experience of her life a woman doesn’t want stretch marks cream. The birth gift is also called a push present, it’s definitely not a basic item like cream it’s more like an expensive piece of jewelry

[@radhiadeedou8286]

A birth gift is a gift a man gives to his wife as a thank you for carrying and giving birth to their child. Usually it's jewelry

[@Nxg108]

Nuh just prayers for James from here on out… hes gonna have the biggest awakening one of these day, its gonna hit him like a truck. 🤣

[@Jujubeautiful1]

Me and my child almost died during childbirth, so a push gift was the last thing on my mind. However, my husband would have been in the bed next to me if he came to me with some stretch mark cream.

[@laLouve22]

2 days after...?? in what world would that be something that she wants. I would've cried ahaha

[@pmccray551]

😂😂😂 Faacts

[@Q................]

🤣🤣🤣❤

[@trueblue2892]

😂😂😂😂😂 THE AUDACITY!!!

[@somedaysoon9551]

The only way stretch mark cream MIGHT be an acceptable gift is if it came in a gift basket of other good stuff for the new mom. But giving it to her by itself like it's a candy bar is insane 😂😂😂

[@marthal8862]

I suggest you lot look into push presents IMMEDIATELY. What did you do to make that baby after your 2 second contribution? The least you can do is thank her for risking her life. The baby is the gift? Stretch mark cream does nothing as well, he's basically saying he's disgusted by her body that only changed because she had your big headed yout.

[@kcjustice08]

Listen!!! Smh

[@knockoutguitarist087]

Push gifts are based upon culture not all black people are of the same culture experience… in my family we don’t do push gifts we have baby showers and sit and sees..

[@mtg979]

disagreed, he was clearly trying to buy something of convenience, he didn't even have to buy anything in the first place

[@jaka1748]

You say this on the assumption that husbands (or whatever) are physically and emotionally absent for the duration of the pregnancy. I don't know what your or those that think like you experienced, but a (good) husband provides much need emotional support, assistance, and comfort for their wives while they're carrying a baby. It's a team effort, so while a birth gift is definitely not a bad thing as a gesture of gratitude, but expecting one shouldn't be the case.

[@trueblue2892]

@@jaka1748well said They don’t get protection and provision gifts so if we get a push present for something our grown ass CHOSE to do then that’s a blessing , if not , oh well grow tf up 😂

[@AKDonMega1]

😂 James answer to the first one shows he ain't ready for no long ter relationship with no yats

[@DamilolaRotowa]

Fr

[@authornataliehaigh3811]

Believe me the baby is not the gift. While the baby is a blessing after carrying a baby for nine months and giving birth a woman deserves a gift from her partner or husband. Also the stretch mark cream is not a gift that's something you might find on a shopping list also 2 days after giving birth to give that and call it a gift is such a huge insult.

[@erinjae8395]

If you think a birth gift isn't necessary, please watch a video of what a baby does to a nipple for months while breastfeeding. 🤣🤣🤣

[@sunnni_]

I paused this and went to go google, absolutelyTHEEEfucknot 🤣🤣

[@mtg979]

still unnecessary

[@chicoli6530]

@@sunnni_ right!! 😲😲🤣🤣

[@angela1504]

Not to mention your body and your vagina will never be the same… I better get a gift.

[@K_.amui._]

@@mtg979facts

[@Tshepi-Lush]

Let a man's hairline go out of tact for a second and its pandemonium, but let a woman's body go through a metamorphosis for a man to be a father and not even a thought to show reasonable appreciation is acceptable? I'm tired! What are we doing on earth?!?

[@mzzthang3912]

There's def a huge difference between the child being a blessing and the mother deserving a birthing gift carrying a child for 9 months and going through hours of labour everything your body has gone thru to bring life into this world she deserves a gift from you lot as her man its the least yall can do to show your appreciation to her but her body changed she knows that u dont need to remind her by giving her stretch mark cream so soon after childbirth read the room it's insensitive

[@andremabarnes5934]

Lol you think that you won’t see her stomach for 6 weeks cause you aren’t having sex? Some dads need to help new moms change their own diapers and clean stitches n shit. It’s often very gnarly healing from birth and you’re probably going to have to do more to help your partner physically than you think.

[@Dawn-xf6bh]

In the US, the "birth" gift is known as a PUSH gift. Typically jewelry to celebrate/thank the new Mom.

[@petrichor541]

They’re both such red flags lmao

[@DeeTailzz]

james shows me every episode why he is still immature as a man and why he can never be in a long term or serious relationship cs his mindset still in middle school

[@cjwilliamsvi]

He is crazy immature, but hilarious to watch on a screen from afar.

[@DamilolaRotowa]

Exactly

[@مُسلِم21]

It’s almost like he has an online persona😮!!!

[@mzzthang3912]

I usually find yalls videos so funny even yalls dramatic take on some topics but plz be more aware of how serious childbirth is i still find yall funny but the lack of empathy towards women risking their life to give you a child to carry your last name and legacy is crazy to not appreciate her enough to show her with a meaningful gift like jewelry or something for her to cherish stretch mark cream just shows her u think shes disgusting and needs work asap

[@TFGeodeForce]

Man, James, please tell me you know better than to get a woman “stretch mark cream” or whatever it is under any circumstances…

[@ambermarie3975]

I love you guys so i can forgive you for scoffing at the idea of birth gifts lmaoo

[@herb_a_day]

Men in Africa buying their wives whole cars for giving birth, and man dem are asking what a birth gift is?!

[@AdySeifer]

it isn't a thing

[@andywangatshifhango4204]

​@@AdySeiferIt's just a dumb concept in itself. 😂

[@ambermarie3975]

@AdySeifer it definitely is a thing for some people. I got push gifts for all of my kids. A concept I never thought of until he did it. Nothing wrong with wanting to appreciate a person risking their life to give you a legacy.

[@jamesdsmith1217]

@@ambermarie3975 this is 2023.... risking your life is an overstatement in this day in age. but either way if your partner wants to give you birthing gifts i see no issue. i only see issue in a woman expecting them

[@deloresewoodson9896]

I love y’all a lot bBut go ask your mothers how much they went through just to bring you into this world.because yes we carry the baby for 10 months then another year in your arms Not including the emotional strain it can have all you birth is not just pushing a baby it’s mentally physically emotionally draining and we do it all out of love so a push gift is a wonderful way to tell your partner you care and appreciate them

[@mtg979]

if you are having a baby for a gift, then you just shouldn't be having a baby at all

[@dawsonpio2874]

Only answer to "she busy right now little bro" is "keep her busy G, i need another hour "

[@mizmckenzie3444]

The people that turn their nose up at birth gifts remind me of "it's valentines day everyday in my house" when they don't do anything special for their partner. They have to be the same people.

[@sammiesmith3454]

why would you give someone stretch mark cream 2 days after she gave birth? Like...cmon now

[@DamilolaRotowa]

How stupid

[@chicoli6530]

Why is James so dramatic!?!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Amandaks286]

Eish,well thank you for saying you don't know what is push present. I think you should see it this way. The idea of any gift is to bring a smile, joy, or a sense of celebration 🍾 to that person. Now receiving a cream to get rid of scratch marks, it's not a gift. That gift, if i can even call it a gift, thank you for risking your life and extending my family name. Now, here is a cream to get rid of those stretch marks.' Or think about it when someone buys you toothbrush or toothpaste and calls it a gift. That's definitely not a gift, a message at most. 0:38

[@H12457]

James faces any minor inconvenience: *Stairs* 😂😂

[@andywangatshifhango4204]

If you're gonna steal and make a copy of your man's keys at least make him something or do some chores so he appreciates it a bit. Lounging around is insane 😂😭

[@M2161]

Wait until they find out that mums get fully loaded range rovers and G wagons as birth gift 💀

[@mcmikeplusogfirst3823]

James is gonna have to give a public apology for this birth/push gift take 😂😂😂😂😂 the ladies aren’t gonna let this one slide brother. It’s necessary!

[@Jasthebas]

I hope all future girls yall fall in love with get to see this before they make the worst mistake of their lives by birthing your spawn 😂

[@PressPowerPlay]

That kind of cream is something I would expect to get during a baby shower not as a birth gift. He was wrong for that.

[@justnadine6410]

James and these stairs😂

[@whoodenfoottv]

Y’all just disappoint me more and more each day

[@AlidoesArt]

Then.. don't watch them ?

[@sabiworld6261]

I think this is the first time I’ve ever commented on their videos and I’m only commenting, because James said something so negative and did not do any sort of research on what he was saying to say that giving stretch mark cream two days after giving birth from your partner as a female that’s not coming off in no nice way that’s coming off of you need to get that covered. Also, what do you mean? Why would you need a birth gift? You try carrying a baby in your stomach for nine months and pushing it out to your vaginal area James I hope I never have to see or do this again for the comment you make, but please do some research on things you say before you say them because you could’ve simply pause the podcast and like what is a birth gift and why is it given that is very ignorant and for that I’m unsubscribing to this channel to me, this was like a no go ever again.

[@rhiannonhooper]

Birth gift one- prevention. 2 days after is way to late to prevent the stretch marks meaning she has them now for life and that was needed at the start

[@AdoseofAlana_]

Stretch mark cream ain't no mf push present 😂😂😂😂 it's not a present at all. Buy that shit with diapers and lotion or something. Or wait until you hear her mention her stretch marks lol

[@shelivinoutloud]

Stretch mark cream 2 days after delivery is an insult!!!!

[@hollymcgee5739]

She sent you a collage of the two of you and “accidentally” included a different guy? That wasn’t an accident. More like “accidentally-on-purpose-go-somewhere-and-leave-me-alone.” 😂

[@tenaschtebogocollis3890]

One of my colleagues got a used teething necklace for Secret Santa. A part of me died of laughter that day.

[@raheeeg]

My cousin gave me clean and clear for my 14th or 15th birthday and I'm still grateful

[@Jessie_Katsubae]

My dude wants to make the stairs cry

[@reginafromrio]

My friend's boyfriend gave her paper clips (the ones that flip open and pinch) as nipple clamps because she's a teacher.😅

[@dontrunbutreload3052]

Always making my work day better thanks for the laughs my boys

[@ksmith9715]

I'm a month late to this conversation, but it sounds like you guys don't even know what stretch marks are, if you're saying you can't "see anything for 6 weeks" and "she's not even thinking about *that* two days after giving birth." But obviously you two are. Stretch marks are marks on the stomach typically, it has nothing to do with sex or the vagina. Imagine if you ran an ultramarathon, finished in first place, and your prize was a tube of athlete's foot cream. That would be bad; stretch mark cream is exponentially more insulting, because it says, "Hey, you look like shit. Rub this on your belly to look sexy for me again." EFF THAT.

[@Heyguhh]

Throwing urself down stairs is crazyyy😂😂

[@laliboo8001]

8:42 Loved James' reaction 🤣 “Real Man” 😅

[@AZ-mq4km]

Gold necklace with your name & his last name is SWEET stop killing that sweet man

[@brown14suga]

After risking death birthing a child, stretch marks is the last thing on a woman's mind TWO DAYS LATER.

[@mtg979]

at least they got something

[@verymojito]

@@mtg979they might as well not got anything in the 1st place 😂 might have been better

[@DwayneTheFoolosopher]

Hold up...are we just gonna pretend a step brother was listed in a partner's thread??m

[@Brian28021]

The content of this clip was overshadowed for me by James's crisp, laser-precise forehead frame. That hairline is so tight, I could hear it screaming. I think I saw sparks coming off it.

[@madraaiisaacmohohole3972]

A coloring book to keep myself in line😭

[@jenniesmythe8188]

It’s a rude thing to give as a gift to someone. Stretch marks are normal and they appear when the belly stretches and can show more post birth. so it’s just not the nicest thing. No one wants that after giving birth. Very vain

[@mtg979]

if you don't want it, don't take it. Simple

[@magpie8621]

Usually called a ‘push present’ and is often jewellery, luxury item (purse etc) or a trip in the future

[@TNGG_Lucky]

Them locks wouldve been changed the same day. I keep a extra set of door locks on me 😂😂😂

[@tylerfraze873]

If someone messaged me “she is busy right now lil bro.” I would reply “keep the trash lil boy.” 😂

[@born2b289]

"stairs again... because, tell me where you are" 😂 #james

[@babytooty04]

Stretch mark cream should be given and used before AND after birth.

[@_myia_renee]

A birth gift is usually called a push present in the states.

[@christyprietoable]

Thank you, Fuhad! That’s exactly what I thought. 😅

[@laliboo8001]

0:38 No James 😅😂

[@brownsugar8075]

I am seeing that alot of these gifts are choosing violence😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

[@mprelli]

That cream one isn't bad I know people who have gotten and my girl also got it and they found it thoughtful that during the pregnancy their insecurities were heard.

[@justshe_6618]

She’s busy right now 😂😂😂

[@steph8842]

I love you guys, but sometimes you both act like y'all are in your early 20s instead of in your 30s. (To be fair, James admits it sometimes). If you don't know what a birth gift/push gift is, look it up AND THEN give your opinion.

[@NoDoubtItsKenz]

Fuhad gets it! 1:30

[@XxrayrayxX94]

🤣🤣🤣 I wanna say poor man didn’t know what a birth gift was, but he had time to do research 😂🙈 . That first child usually comes late and you carry for nearer to 10months than 9. I don’t think the stretch mark cream was a problem, as I would have loved the fact that I didn’t have to go and get it myself😂 I think it’s the fact that the push/birth gift is like a reflection of your appreciation of what she had to endure.

[@Elara_Luna]

"Stairs again" 😂😂😂😂

[@2near_death]

What do you mean first child... you stayed ?!?!

[@kasagure.]

"the baby is the gift" ?! try around 10 years of constant work and maintenence and 18 years of commitment. gollee boys...

[@Jdot_grimey]

Your body, your what?

[@mtg979]

then don't have a baby lol

[@cocalita03]

@@mtg979 you are so triggered. Up and down the comments section being a troll. Get a life (actually that's insensitive, no one wants you)

[@AlidoesArt]

@@cocalita03 But you're in the comment sections crying also ? Lmfao the irony in this idiot.

[@best_ronin3033]

The way I gasped at minute 5:28 😦

[@kalissamoore8823]

“NO SHE.. never” 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@thandeka5924]

Nah, the gold necklace is a wonderful gift. It just sounds like she wasn't into him or wasn't ready for that type of relationship.

[@Chakras.N.Chasers]

Giving birth is the closest a woman can get to death. The amount of blood lost, the high blood pressure, the heart rate, the strain. A push present is for a man to show his appreciation for her almost losing her life for his child. Push presents aren’t necessary but giving a woman stretch mark cream after birth as a GIFT is hella insensitive.

[@with4tt477]

Keep James away from the stairs😂😂😂😂

[@ShannonJackson__]

Definitely giving top lol. Stairs

[@eternaltwilight7430]

I am a woman and I kinda agree with James on the stretch mark cream, especially if the woman had made complaints about her marks in the past. Also have never heard of a birth/push gift before today and think the entire concept is wild. To each their own though

[@jaimiesjourneys3044]

Birth is often compared to having kidney stones. Imagine if you will, a stone with jagged edges moving to pass out of you. Lmao

[@ceha9517]

Rem has kids, right? That he thinks stretch mark cream is a okay gift baffles me. I did not expect anything else from immature James and Fuhad.

[@G254611]

I should not laugh as a woman, and I know lovely James won't do it - but the comment: James: "Drag her by her ankles..." 🤣🤣🤣

[@trueblue2892]

A birth gift? I’ve only heard it called a push present lol same thing though

[@yvettesmith6704]

It's called a Push Present in the U.S. It's usually jewelry.

[@k.lizabethhh2396]

alright… gne have to disagree with james on this, carried a baby for 9months, vagina ripped , nd almost died, i didnt ask for a birth gift but was still given one for being strong nd pushing through it

[@XiAdu2]

I keep forgetting how young y’all are, smh. My fault. One day you’ll find out. 😂

[@Yxcvbnmxy]

All of these give me second hand trauma

[@portiamaree8637]

I also thought what is a birth gift. As a woman who gave birth I had no idea what the hell that is.

[@TheMonaLeezah]

It’s called a push gift by people too

[@shylilith18]

sigh..... where is the female or a parent when you need one LOL...trust me that is NOT the gift LOL

[@chocolatebunnygs]

Plan B I was gifted Plan B

[@sngclips1]

AINTNOWAY

[@danastirling9294]

No stretch mark cream is a shady gift

[@nicholeclarke8076]

No birth gift No birth tf💀💀

[@Sharon-fc6lz]

The reasing re: the birth gift is some bs, for convenience, eh. Just insentive all round.

[@mtg979]

it is for convenience though

[@Nxg108]

@@mtg979If she hasn’t been applying it during the pregnancy while her skin was stretching, applying it after isn’t going to do much.. he’s either not been paying attention for the 9months that she’d already been applying it or she’s someone who doesn’t personally care or is wanting to embraces them. Either way its out of touch with your partner

[@mtg979]

@@Nxg108 not everyone knows how it works, he gifted it with the intention of doing something good for her, if you get offended over something like that, maybe you are not old enough for a serious relationship

[@Nxg108]

@@mtg979 offended? I pointed out how it works, to indicate just how frequently she would have already been using it around him. How has that translated to offence to you?

[@mtg979]

@@Nxg108 I wasn't talking about you specifically with that ''offended'' statement, but you are still calling them out of touch with their partner just because they bought them stretch mark cream (which they clearly didn't know that it had have been applied during pregnancy), when they honestly shouldn't even have gifted them anything anyway they just did it for her own convenience

[@yolandadavis344]

Oh James

[@linneastorm2111]

I think she meant a push present. A present given to a women after giving birth.

[@imani5666]

James is wasteman for that first answer.

[@fullsendxr7867]

Poor fuhad, his hairline is fighting for its life 😢

[@AnthonyQ50]

is a push gift an American thing or??😂

[@mariarosas8386]

Not a mother, but James do better. It’s shit like this that make me glad in some small way I didn’t have any. Last thing I need is my body under even MORE scrutiny than usual! Then to have the man I’m supposed to trust the most give something so damn insensitive (also that she clearly didn’t ask for). A small gift not necessarily luxury would be kind and loving. Not uncommon.

[@joshuamunoz534]

Wat ep is this

[@well.2420]

I understand push gifts because you can literally die from pregnancy. but I understand for men, it’s no big deal because y’all don’t really have to do shit and nine months later the baby is just in your hands.

[@teejbees]

This podcast is usually funny but I’m ngl, James is slick a loser.

[@theweirdfoodguy8243]

Birth gifts are definitely not a think in the UK Gotta be honest sounds stupid if you ask me