Women Share Worst Dating App Messages! | ShxtsnGigs Podcast | Patreon Clips

[@Rae777]

I got off of dating apps when I got the comment “I’ve never been with a black girl before” over and over again. It’s just gross.

[@jusletursoulglobaby]

it's super gross. why people cant just be normal acting?

[@sumlem]

I'm sorry people are so gross!!

[@bochaberinyakundi7148]

😂😂 I got this ALLLLLLLL THE TIMEEEEEE! They also phrase it as... 'I want to have an exotic experience'.... Exotic is your mother... Nonsense 🙄dating apps have become trash.

[@KimmaParish]

Why WHY do people do this. Anything that starts with "I've never been with a...." is always followed by nonsense.

[@Sigma2HisAlpha]

Exactly and super fetishized

[@1ejordan]

Honestly, "Okay, my bad" bro I ain't even mad at. He got his response and moved on.

[@kaihiroku8495]

One, he asked. Two, he accepted the rejection. It's a lot better than what we're used to 😂

[@mealad937]

but what a bad opener 😭

[@steph1526]

James asking “I don’t understand how man can open their app and just see this level of air, and think ‘Today’s the day.’” When I tell you women have been asking ourselves this question for TIME now. It has never nor will ever make SENSE to us, let it go we don’t want you! Men doing that is the epitome of the meme of the man talking to a brick wall 😭

[@crazydragy4233]

men quite literally run the world on that unbased confidence lol

[@divinemafikuyomi6669]

Like where is the audacity actually coming from 😭

[@tyronelorenzovalentio3414]

@@crazydragy4233that’s why the win

[@MakeWay4CJ]

@divinemafikuyomi6669 - previously unchecked behavior.

[@steph1526]

@@MakeWay4CJ you’re not wrong lol

[@AndyyWithAY]

The one about I've never been with a black girl was DREAD! He would've been left on read and promptly blocked. I'd say not to do that again, but the girlies need to know if it's a weirdo

[@victoriabanks7701]

Exactly! When a guy acts weird, don’t give him advice on how to be a more effective weirdo

[@bemass94323]

M Mn nnnnnn

[@Rae777]

I actually got harassed on KZbin when I made a comment about how I didn’t like when men say this. The number of people that think it’s okay is wild to me!

[@yolandawilson6619]

@@Rae777 I wouldn't be offended nor mad if someone says this, you need to know this about people. Why would you not want to know when it's likely to have such an impact on their intentions, background, etc. You'd feel crazy going on a date with someone finding out their parents are racists and it wasn't until they were living on their own that they could explore other races. This doesn't mean they are into someone solely based on race but it's definitely vital information.

[@Rae777]

@@yolandawilson6619 they were talking sexually. I’m not interested in someone who wants to be with me as a fetish. It wasn’t in the middle of the convo… first sentence “I’ve never been with a black girl before.” Immediate turn off. I wouldn’t mind if someone was saying it as part of a conversation instead of as a pick up line (depending on context of course).

[@Carolmoon11]

The amount of unsolicited d pics is out of control. 😬 I once got a message from someone I hadn't spoken to in 3 years out of the blue. He was shocked to find out I had gotten married and was pregnant. He expected me to wait for him to come back into my life. Funny thing is we had only gone on one date. He was now texting me saying how he couldn't stop thinking of me. I was like I'm good bro. ✌️

[@girlblanime6302]

wow...the NERVES!!!

[@namehere6544]

It breaks my heart that black women can't exist in peace. There's so much love and respect in this world for you, those who do see your worth just need to be louder than the creeps

[@Donovanrideout1276]

I don't get ppl like that honestly weird ass guys

[@dillsmacker2446]

What are you on

[@namehere6544]

@@dillsmacker2446 youtube

[@abm5119]

Some people are way too comfortable

[@breannaanderson3169]

Thank you❤❤❤❤

[@ifyphillips]

A white guy once said to me ‘ i have Neva had a black girl before’ and i asked as what a slave, murder victim ,sir what’s ur vibe

[@kikinyte6806]

Love this reply

[@GoddessLuna23]

LMFAO!

[@SarahDenna]

🤣🤣🤣

[@letsbefrankkpop1041]

That got personal real quick 🤐💀

[@gerainice]

🤣🤣🤣

[@RRVlogs02]

Boys I gotta say man I ran into this channel by accident, by just scrolling through KZbin shorts best decision. Man as a College student in Canada this channel is a life saver swear! Love the culture you guys keep it up can’t wait when y’all hit 1millon

[@ashleyzviitei]

Bulge... silhouette 🤣😁James is the MVP

[@ebenboy2260]

Nah this ain’t fair, you guys need to start making 2 videos per week. The waiting eats me alive 😂

[@chy8427]

They do, Mondays and Thursdays 😏😎

[@khanyodlokweni2661]

@@chy8427 Patreon gang 😁

[@laflame1476]

3 pounds a month, 10p a day

[@asiasocial6155]

@@laflame1476 run the p!

[@73starrdiva]

🤭🤭🤭

[@NoName-nj4mw]

That one message is the reason as a black woman, I don't entertain it when other races of men try to talk to me anymore. The few that I tried to give chances to, immediately treated me like I was a prostitute. Like literally "hey I really love black women" and 2 seconds later......here's comes a picture of the wang. A guy straight up said "I've never been with a black woman, how much money would it take?" I'm fully dressed in a room full of people and he assumed he could purchase me because I'm black.

[@laurafedora5385]

Sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately this seems to be a common occurrence for pretty much all women. I had a guy insist on paying for dinner even when I offered to split it, then suggested I owed it to him to sleep with him because he paid. As if I’d sell my body for a meal 🥴

[@destinymcgowan5328]

I don't think all of the non-poc men are like that but sorry you went through that. The large majority of bm I have seen have been red pill believers

[@happyalice6306]

Or they treat you like a fetish. It doesn’t feel normal.

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

Black men do it too but since they are the same race it will be more like "damn you thick ma" or something about how they want a test drive or insistence that you are thick. Dating apps and thristy men go hand in hand regardless of the race lol

[@alisasmith7901]

White men have a habit of trying to get you to say you like them better than black men as well from my experience. It's just one big fetishism of black women.

[@Chiyembekezo]

I dno why they don’t get how scary it is to be fetishised like that. One guy said he’s never been with a black girl and he wanted to “taste me” smh. Never been so scared in my life, he lived on my street.

[@katalintomusz2169]

It’s the same the other way around. Every second black dude on a dating app starts with the I want to try a white girl I’ve never done it before line.

[@yb9964]

There is not enough words on this here planet earth to fully explain how deep the waters run on this topic. That fear you feel runs back generations, centuries and they run DEEP in today’s society. If you’ve never been in something similar, I don’t think there’s any way you could ever understand.

[@eprahs1]

@@katalintomusz2169 how come everytime a black person explains their experiences, yall got to come with the " it's not just you" attempt. We are allowed to experience life without you. And the experience black women have compared to yt women Is Not The Same.

[@katalintomusz2169]

You don’t really it’s not just a race issue it’s a sex issue too, men do it to women of all races from all races of men and it’s equally disgusting either way.

[@katalintomusz2169]

I’m also an Eastern European immigrant living in the UK, and get treated inferior by British black men, and I’m also often not white enough to the white men here, interesting to see you think my experiences making yours invalid somehow.

[@Back2Humanity]

The one with the "liking my shit and not responding" made me chuckle, me and my partner met pretty much this exact way

[@RTDDL]

That’s me she was taking too long to respond but she responded eventually

[@EmleeLikesTurtles]

The opening message was "do you need anything from Morrisons?". We've been together for 5 years. 💕

[@roxvid2]

was he military?

[@mariams3879]

Explain

[@raheeeg]

The amount of times I've heard something along the lines of I've never xyz'd a black girl 🙄 I respond with me neither

[@Rae777]

It’s such a violation! I hate it.

[@jenns4926]

ive had a dude tell me "i thought this was a safe space to send d pics" and I've also gotten pics where the guy was balancing a shampoo bottle on his thing. i just dont understand what goes through their minds 😭

[@crazydragy4233]

Nothing xd

[@Samson16436]

A shampoo bottle 🤣😭😭

[@michelemartin3360]

Bro balancing?! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m just imagining him holding it with the tip of his finger and moving away just in time to snap the picture and being so proud 🤣🤣🤣 I wonder how many tries it took 🤣🤣🤣💀☠️

[@jenns4926]

@@michelemartin3360 yes!! no omg it was much worse. He was wearing boxers and basically put his d to the side and then put the bottle on it handsfree 💀 i think it was for size scale but it was so not sexy 😭

[@michelemartin3360]

@@jenns4926 OMG I’m dead! 🤣🤣🤣💀💀 that’s too funny! These guys do too much! 🤣🤣😭

[@youdontknowme1258]

Sometimes I feel sorry for men because they want sex so bad and can’t get it as readily as we can but then, something like this happens and all that compassion goes out the window. Some people have no impulse control. Thanks for the red flag.

[@ChristinaQueenHeart]

... they can get sex easily. Who do you think straight women are f'ing???? It's the weirdos that don't get play and are the loudest about it.

[@timescale9326]

There’s always prostitutes

[@crazydragy4233]

Girl they have hands.

[@iDreamOfCece88]

Xes workers exist for this VERY reason

[@HALOSnHORNS]

It would be easier if they just chill out. Like reel it in bro. Maybe don't start with damn your nips are cute or wanna see my cock😂 like damn a hey how you doing might be plain but it's not an immediate block.

[@kiannagriffin6631]

I have had a white guy do the "I've never been with a black girl" thing to me in person. I had another feel the need to express to me how much he loved black women. Both are weird

[@db6881]

Once they talk too much about skin colour all I hear is "I have a fetish".

[@To-ingAndFro-ing]

Been there 😔

[@Simyfy]

I’m guessing the lol is there as a safety net just to be like “ha! I was kidding!” LMAO 😂😂😂😂

[@PressPowerPlay]

Was binge watching another one of your videos and this popped up!! Great timing!!!

[@riayaraizel2214]

4:05 nah cause she was waaay too patient and kind with that person 😭 I wouldn't have answered after receiving the first message

[@Rae777]

I think she might have been amused with his audacity. Sometimes it’s entertaining to see how highly people think of themselves.

[@rachelmason3979]

I heard to you guys ask for messages from dating apps i think tinder specifically and i am glad the people delivered.i can't wait to watch..

[@Tshepiso.Morake]

It’s honestly refreshing finding something where I can just laugh 😂

[@yolandawilson6619]

It is vital to know if someone is testing flavors when showing interest.

[@katpapper9884]

1:34 just watching Fuhad say fanny over and over again is the greatest thing 🤣🤣🤣

[@Beautyinthebreakdown.]

‘You’ve got pretty eyes do you want to come round and I’ll tie you to my bed?’ …. I think he was planning on STEALING MY EYES!

[@neverstop9731]

Def not defending the guy but you def do have amazing eyes 👀

[@ZaZa-nm6sw]

Jeepers creepers

[@makaylafranks6312]

Someone called me a sexy pilgrim once. I wasn’t offended honestly I just didn’t know how the hell to respond 😂😂

[@shamachelon]

Respond: “Well you missed the boat” “I might be a pilgrim, but you currently sinking on the Titanic” “Honey, you’re never getting this Mayflower” “Im gonna voyage tf away from you, then”

[@yabi333]

Maybe they're a regular pilgrim just stating facts, who knows?

[@yabi333]

​@ShamaChelon and not one response for if she had been interested? I dunno if sexy pilgrim doesn't work as a pickup line why bother 🤷🏿

[@kristalfifer5800]

Yeah blocked 😂

[@monikamorawska6363]

I see a little silhouetto of a man, Scaramouch, Scaramouch, will you do the Fandango! 🤣

[@Samson16436]

Stoooop 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@rayeshawright9106]

Absolutely made my friday,I love you guys.Please keep the content coming.

[@aucashmoneyy]

I’m sending SILHOUETTES from now on!!!😂😂

[@entropy3615]

What were you sending before lmao?

[@omuntusgustapo256]

" Don't use that opener again" 🤣🤣😂

[@foreignlovedreams]

I also have many examples of ""interesting"" text messages from men in chats in dating apps. They are sometimes strange, sometimes cheeky, sometimes funny. Therefore, I emphasize once again that online dating is fun. But it is pleasing that men still learn the art of texting and communicating, and write unusual first openers or ice-breakers.

[@Emberelle420]

About the feet one... I worked at a warehouse, they hired this girl who went around to all of the men giving out her OF info and after she worked every shift and talked to damn near every man, she quit, and went to another warehouse job 😂 she was racking up the clientele. ☠️ (She disclosed to me this is not the first or last place she would do this).

[@HoneyBats]

God why does the hoodie Fuhad’s wearing look so damn cozy. I have to go find one of those now because all I can focus on in the clip is his shirt

[@hopetrnr0]

One Italian guy I dated said, you don't have ghetto hairstyles like other black girls. Then, when we arrived at his house, he made me go through the back door. He went through the front. I went through with it as a social experiment. Never again.

[@sensimania]

WTF?? 😳

[@denice6604]

😱 dead

[@The_upstarts]

Probably still smashed why else would you go in?

[@jord_2wYT]

Just stumbled across these a week ago and I'm officially hooked 😂

[@aphumelelenzimande6074]

GUYS I DONT THINK YALL UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH I WAS WAITING 4 THIS VID

[@KellZej]

You guys are the type of friends I need 🤣🤣 definitely a fan

[@izzy_hatake]

James bring back the hoochi daddy shorts!

[@deenhazahmed5718]

Your laughs make us laugh more 😆😆😆😆😆

[@atiazafr4775]

My dearest Brothers over the pond, I pray you get this message: Thank you for speaking up for your Black Sisters all around the world...when White men say those types of things it is the ickest-cringyest-scary-degrading statements to us.. it is disgusting and disrespectful! I love what you Brothers are doing and I love how you treat your Black Sisters!!! ❤️🖤💚

[@mztazh08]

I had a guy say out of nowhere when we already exchange messages. “Will you be willing to peg me? I’m not gay cause you are a women” yes “women”

[@SarahDenna]

Poor man just dying to be pegged and probably keeps getting turned down so he's just casting out a net 🤣🤣🤣

[@M66CBH]

Wasn’t subbed and didn’t realise. Consistently coming up on my shorts and laugh repeatedly😂 hopefully catch a live at some point but what a channel lads 😂👌

[@yabi333]

I really wish there were some kind of announcement to every guy that unless a girl asks for a dp, she does not want a dp, it's not even a difficult concept lmao

[@TheSuperNats]

They shouldn’t need an announcement, it’s common sense. We know not to randomly send pics of our body parts to people.

[@GothicUndone]

The “a breast” as in singular just got me - I mean just one breast! I mean WTF! What are these msgs?? Some ppl that speak to ppl think they are SO quîRkY🤪 they are “different” lol I mean - I can’t 😂😂😂

[@wolfscythespk]

A perfect breast yeah, I thought that man was talking about a chicken sandwich😅

[@janesmith4h]

I was done with dating apps, when a "Pigment-Challenged gentleman" sent me the following: You're cute for a Black girl. Maybe I can take you to dinner? Happy to pay you in Fried Chicken and Watermelon." I'm a lady, so my response shall not be reshared. Assume I had a visceral reaction though.

[@mbach003]

Adding lol at the end of any sentence softens the blow lol

[@Dreaaaa3]

Yeah I deleted all my apps when they stopped trying and just said, “give me your number” 😂😂 Like alright cool, where’s the van? I’ll hop right in while I’m at it! LOL creeps.

[@neverstop9731]

Does "give me your Snapchat" work any better? Asking for a friend. Lol

[@Dreaaaa3]

@@neverstop9731 Yoooo I’m cringing!!! Lol, But to be fair I feel women are less opposed to giving up their Snapchat than just handing out numbers.

[@Dreaaaa3]

@@prima-donna8127 Run. 😂

[@Samson16436]

@@neverstop9731 it's a no for me, at least if it's right of the bat

[@Ray-pp5qb]

This is dumb. How else are they gonna get to know you without calling you? I'm glad you deleted the app, your scary ass was just wasting dudes time.

[@JustOlls]

Ahhh it's my birthday ✨️ favourite notification, made my day

[@jojoone1099]

Happy Birthday! 🎂

[@raizelcortez3219]

Happy birthday!!!! I hope you have a fantastic day!

[@harryjennings8244]

"Today's the day" 😂😂

[@Aham_bu_iffy]

James " fam, beautiful tattoos LOL" 😂😂😂😂

[@DBrokeMillenial]

JAMES PLEASE INCLUDE THE TIME STAMPS TOO LOL

[@silentnote1915]

I can see it in James eyes he's gonna get vexxed 🤣

[@AndyyWithAY]

And what kind've fanny??😱 Fanny is the back in the US, but the front in UK.

[@godrules3596]

Fanny means pussy in the UK

[@karlandbarrett5045]

2:51 "Today's the day" 😂😂😂

[@kaiwhat1207]

If y’all wanna do crazy dating app bios I have about 30 screenshots locked and loaded

[@LFC-Canada]

I will always remember the guy who said on his bio that he wasn’t interested in women who showed too much cleavage in their profile pics because it lacked class… while having his profile pic being him shirtless. I pointed out that obviously he knew all about being classy 😂

[@iscavengersam]

I've never heard anyone say, "sweeted me" but it sounds fantastic.

[@samanthaalexis5877]

I have a whole album of terrible Tinder profiles and messages called Tinder Honorable Mentions... it's over 200 pictures lol

[@rockchicbabe]

Me too, mine's called Hinge Horrors 😂

[@Samson16436]

@@rockchicbabe not thaaat haha 😂😂

[@alexandrap4753]

Lol I’m not calling it a print anymore… it’s a silhouette from now on 😂😂😂

[@smsjbrxzy1317]

Aye it’s my birthday and I get blessed with a video from my favorite podcast

[@tahjaniagibbs]

This didn't happen to me on a dating app it happened on Instagram and I was 15 at the time when this grown ass man in his 40's asked me if I could video call him so he can look at my face while he punches his balls 💀

[@balltongue666]

I'd have reported his ass

[@chels_god]

Out of all the comments, this one left me speechless😭😭

[@Samson16436]

I'm actually dead 😭

[@boydoilikecheerios]

every 5 or so words in this is a punch to the gut and then a left hook at the end 😭😭😭

[@mrsbee4230]

This is the funniest FriDay I’ve had 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@briglover8179]

I remembered a guy matched with me and we were having good conversations. Then he asked me on a date. I was happy of course; he was a nice guy. Then he sent me a link. -___- Turns out "the date" was me signing up for a massage session cuz he needed more clients for his new business he started like a month ago. That is when I knew it was time to delete the app. Dating apps are literally so trash now. ILL probably be alone forever at this point.

[@DetectiveHowler]

Did you get a massage??

[@neverstop9731]

Ah the one female in the entirety of existence who has gone through this. Care to guess how many times ive been sent OF links by some tater thot crackin pussy open online for 10 dollars?

[@cottoncandiez8872]

I feel that last line. It's so hard for below average people to date nowadays (myself below average just to be clear, I dunno about you)

[@Ray-pp5qb]

Keep the apps, just use casually. It's good to keep all avenues open. My best friend just married the best woman he's ever dated a few months ago. They met on tinder.

[@shamachelon]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Fuhad, STOP!! “Bits….as well as bobs” Jokes!!!

[@sharigill3130]

The way I’m stealing “😌🤚🏾aired!” Lmao!!

[@miamimercenary9623]

it’s the weirdo’s like some of these guys that make it difficult for men who are mostly respectable to approach women without the women being afraid we’re weirdo’s like other guys that have tried to talk to them

[@kenyawhite1842]

I bet the dude that said breast and nipple the same person 🤣🤣

[@thegurlwhodreams]

im convinced both singular , lol messages are the same guy 😂😂😂nothing can convince me otherwise

[@luqwithaq]

Best 10 mins of mt day already!

[@taraloker6045]

Love it, guys. Keep it coming! 😄

[@QuinMonalisa-y7v]

Sometimes no matter how many times you said no … they will still continue asking if you wish to see their crooks

[@Sophiasdaughter]

I can't believe that. The aggression is real!

[@87Strong]

I love how Fuhad basically says Black Woman can’t get intellectual respect…never mind the rest. Not a Black woman but my heart breaks nevertheless. 💔🤢😮‍💨

[@freestateschoolsgwijo]

"jungle ting" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jhaydinedaniel8749]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 that sweetened me too

[@godrules3596]

​@@jhaydinedaniel8749"sweeTED" not "ENED" but it's cool you must be American 😂😂

[@dorothymarias5771]

UK slang is so corny and goofy 😂 “Fanny” “willay whiskers” “jokes!” “Snog” I can’t 😂😂💀

[@godrules3596]

"Willay whiskers" and"Snog" are all white words that only white posh kids use no one Black in the UK uses those words AT ALL and if you're black and you do that means you grew up around white people and normally peope who talk like that get bullied lmao😂😂😂 Btw no way an American is chatting about "corny" 🙅🏾‍♂️😂😂 you guys say "Doofus" "Douchebag" "Goofball" "Ghosted" and call dicks "Weiners" and even some off-brand Jamaican slang instead of "Gyal" you say "Gal" it doesn't suit you Americans💀😂😂 US slang is 10x worse we can't take that shit serious over here.

[@maylee8862]

The funniest dm I ever recieved: Him: I am very nice I will make you happy 💕 Me: How old are you? Him: I'm 22 Me: Thats too young for me Him: I'm 24 years old but I have a certificate of younger age Bro just changed his age for me lmao💀

[@ChristalClearCarma]

This channel is dark humor gold

[@NaomiSamaraSpeaks]

Lmaooo I remember some of the WRETCHED things I’ve send by people tryna chat to me online. Some of these men/women have no composure at allllll

[@Samson16436]

Say less 😭 people be wildiiiiiin

[@yakmand7252]

Todays the day....stay positive 😆🤷‍♂️

[@LadyBugPicnic12]

I would like to see you guys compete for finding the funnier or more cringe tweets or whatever

[@purplepantha11]

1:30 and I’m already howling

[@troirussell637]

I have some good ones! Lol between hinge and the dms it’s ridiculous 😂😂

[@angel123456789164]

You need to read HBCU confessions

[@dubbingsync]

People using dating apps to push their onlyfans or premium Snapchat are like 90% of the matches I get… and I don’t get many matches at all. The other 10% don’t ever respond. Even if it was just a few messages would be better than me sending a hello… only to get ignored or even unmatched. Granted I’m not exactly the most sex or relationship guy anyway but still. Sometimes it’s nice to just have a chat with someone new.

[@queenash2702]

I'll comment on every video... LOVE THE ACCENTS!

[@skyecruz3013]

Laughing so hard you can’t even get the words out is so fucking relatable 😂😂

[@wowyg5781]

Killed me with the silhouette!!! 😂

[@lunanoir84]

01:31 Fuhad's reaction 😂 😆 🤣 😅

[@yaboi-om4vt]

"YES OR NO"

[@Niquie_Dee]

I've once had a guy just open with: " Oof that ass" I didn't even respond smh

[@anniefull5166]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE

[@BrittanyRose-wm5zi]

That Silhouette 😍

[@autterrr]

Who is ghosting James 🙄

[@inesguimaraes9226]

The guy I used to date “my lil chocolate brownie”, “my chocolate lady” me : black Him: white

[@RTDDL]

5:30 is me she actually responded back to me a few days later

[@kianawilcox253]

What did she say?

[@EliCasenave]

The person talking about trying to see who’s uglier than your ex is clearly still not over them and clearly has low self esteem. Imagine needing to validate your existence by specifically looking for people uglier than your ex on dating apps.

[@celiwempungose6820]

I've sent a silhouette 😭😭😭⚰️

[@Mrdevine3055]

😂😂😂 you know what sometimes you don’t know when that day is lol

[@thesamardahab]

Don’t even send the silhouette unless she asks.