What these men went through during & after divorce! Men, Divorce & Church

[@philipkasoo]

Divorce hurts both parties and takes different times and the grace of God to heal.

[@therispero]

You can tell from the occasional choking , these wonderful men of God are still healing. May God give you peace!

[@wanjirukuria6551]

I agree, give guests room for them to introduce themselves

[@emilyomondi9247]

That was sad Michael..eating the cake alone that was meant for your child! I pray as parents we separate our divorce issues from the children

[@Leela_L]

Finally men are having such conversations. Men have been side lined alot with divorces and people Focus on the women more.

[@evakamau483]

These gentlemen are one of a kind. 🥰 God does heal broken hearts. He healed mine, however I did have to put in effort to pick myself up.

[@Latoya835]

Bitterness is real. So sorry guys for what tou are going through. The Grace of God is sufficient, let it be sufficient. I applaud you for being brave some of us are still chewing some pain killers hoping that God will give us understanding.

[@Nzembitv]

This kind of discussions are crucial to providing insights to those caught in the funky mess of divorce.

[@kaburagathoni2621]

For introductions, allow your guests to do it and tell us about themselves. Very good convo this one is Lily

[@wangechimurage2295]

God is a God of second chances for sure.

[@Wahgees]

"There is grace" lovely conversation and wonderful nuggets of sound theology from the Rev. Suggestion? Add a plant or something to enhance the set/background. But other than that, really refreshing. I listened to the conversation and enjoyed it more than the inflight entertainment that was on offer. We'll done

[@apikowinnie7702]

Am here Rev

[@JowakEnterprises]

alll the best Rev Thande

[@kijoking]

This is such an important conversation 👌🏽

[@adventuresofmarie]

Happg to listen to these insightful conversation. Happy to see Sammy now Rev Sammy i went to college with him

[@emilyomondi9247]

I love this. Thank you for having this kind of conversations, so helpful and this would cause most men to come out, open up and also seek help. Am so happy to see men speak about their painful experiences, it's not easy sharing about divorce for them. Divorce is super painful but there's healing. I love that part of ....How can I help you.. coming from those who are willing to hep those going through divorce.

[@ritamuraguri7367]

Time, Presence and Resources👏👏

[@annmunene819]

Point of correction, those words were actually Jesus words not Paul's and had no context. Those words stabd as they were then, today.

[@sianrapei691]

Precisely. The Pasi needs to go back to Theology school.

[@graceoketch5937]

People just twist the word to fit their character

[@eunicenjeru215]

Mostly when people ask about what is happening to another, many are not from a point of concern but to get information(gossip).Anyone concerned doesn't ask for details but steps up to help and after some time, there will be a healthy rapport where the victim can share all what they want.I am very careful not to dig into another person's hurting wound but to step up to help if I can.

[@inspirationgaragewithruth]

Very healthy discussion ,once you are in marriage to your spouse probably you will have misunderstandings because of two backgrounds raised differently coming together which is understandable. But i have a problem when this fights stretch to one year or more ,definitely their is a problem, pay attention for every strange thing you notice and act accordingly . Do not just marry for feelings and affections only but marry for purpose. Sorry for all you went through, but i believe God can not pass you through something you can't handle,God will locate your tribe to you. May God restore you in Jesus name😢😢

[@lorineasigo5348]

" There is grace!"

[@Akatsa66]

I reserve my comment's no one knows The pain of separation besides the individual.The but Bible have remained irrelevant om the issues of separation and divorce.Times have evolved and changed

[@ProlificBantu]

I have been looking for this kind of content for a while. I have been divorced now for almost two years and I am still healing, dealing with all the hurt, self flagellating feelings of knowing I am the one who broke this marriage. Am the capable one, I am the one who is guilty, how do I feel with this ?

[@lucywambui1516]

Forgive yourself first

[@cpaannwanjau6044]

God is helping us

[@bettytett8116]

If break up is painful while courting what about divorce 😢😢

[@MichaelAdamba]

Truee .. remember even after pple marry some never recover fully.. from breakup B4 marriage they just manage or adapt the feelings... depending on the magnitude of the breakup !

[@bethelmuriithi973]

Divorce is devastating but God heals and restores brocken hearts.I have experienced it.

[@bettytett8116]

@@bethelmuriithi973 sorry my dear hopefully God will restore you and more grace in your life ... he's a able

[@salomeorina3579]

For Three years now I always see anything to do with divorce.I am the victim

[@sianrapei691]

What am unfair statement to say that two are always guilty. That's not true. Sometimes it's one.

[@deborahemojong]

@@sianrapei691 True.

[@kemkem9621]

Why use the term "Rev. Gikonyo's relative" who is bla blah blah, can't you refer to him as just simply Mr xyz and avoid attaching a tag to him? Just like people like to say example 'lilian yule divorced or yule ako na mtoto kilema etc Our society needs a mind shift!!!!! Dear lilly have watched a few of your episodes, please consider learning better ways to ask your questions, have seen you sounding so surprised even for obvious responses or questions asked to/by your guests #mytwocents

[@damariszuckschwert9489]

💯

[@MargaretWanjiru-bp3rx]

She wanted us to remember that Rev Gikonyo said Mike is happily remarried..n that coming from a Rev has some weight #myview

[@lillygithui]

​@@MargaretWanjiru-bp3rx Thank you... youre a good listener, in my view. Sometimes one may listen partially, miss out on the gyst of something and altogether misunderstand it😊

[@sianrapei691]

Your Pastor guest has decided to re-write the bible.