What to Consider When Marrying A Woman Who Has A Child - The Benjamin Zulu Show

[@de-sh109]

This is one of the most sensitive topics that is hits a lot of nerves

[@ROTHEEPERSONA2002]

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[@samke3503]

Dating a single mum with the baby daddy still in her life is hectic, if you are a young man no child, please just look for a lady who you will both start your own family avoid some dramas in your life.

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[@TheSiphelo]

Facts

[@showtime2182]

​@quantesiarobinson2155can't compare the 2. Why women always say some crap. Women usually have custody of child, so u can't compare single father's to single mothers

[@Portugal309]

Getting in a relationship for single mothers who have a teen kid it's hard because the moment that kid becomes a teenager it's very hard to convince that kid to accept the fact of having a guy in life(father).I don't know it's me or ever single mom especially those of us who have babygirl feels hard to get in a relationship,I always tell myself that even if in future I would fall in love with a guy he won't be that much needed to play a daddy role to my daughter because out here am trying my best to provide for her. Some people will see this as an ego but if you are single mother work hard to avoid any man who will ever come in your life feel like he's the dependent on your kid life.Yes you can have him as your man but biologically he will never be father to a kid whom he met you with,even if you might end up bearing him children it's always better to set limit when it comes to (that) kid.

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[@user-wr9fn4ny4i]

Of course he will never be the biological father but when you set conditions on a relationship I do know?

[@jakymunya7164]

Bram Am ok

[@yolliaallen9405]

Great stuff

[@unscriptedbydantheatei]

Wueh! Benjamin Zulu is one of the best illustrators I've watched in a minute. Cheers man

[@davidthomspson9771]

I have a daughter already...I have a grandson...getting involved with someone who has a daughter who doesn't have a dad in her life is nothing wrong with that...Being a dad has been the greatest possible meaning in life...my mom once asked me " are you sure she is even yours?" It never mattered if she wasn't...she was and I raised her alone as a single dad.She had a mom...I wasn't looking for a replacement.In fact most women wouldn't even get involved with me because I had a kid.Adults are selfish ...single childless people are predominantly selfish by nature.Kids are innocent beings caught up in the lives of adults and their own choices.There is nothing wrong with single parents.We get shit on enough by society....maybe two broken people can be way more because GOD is in control

[@mercymutheu688]

I love this bro.

[@kevkev4413]

I remember one time a single mom approached me but as the day progressed i told her straight that I can't date her because she's a single mother, she immediately got triggered and talked a whole bunch of bs but one thing she said to me was "you know what fuck you am gonna give my child the world" And i replied "ok you talk about giving him the world but you couldn't even give him a father". She immediately left the conference. 🤷🏿‍♂️.

[@tashachichigeorge4363]

And that’s a flex🤔🤔 Or what’s your point You sound like a misogynist with very fragile masculinity

[@emmanueljuma5492]

Great discussion sir. I had a concern: When women say they can not date short, broke, blah blah men, no one questions them. But when a man chooses not to date a single mother, women nowadays perceive him as immature, selfish, etc. As if men don't have a right to choose. I've also noticed single ladies without kids are increasingly receiving backlashes from their own kinds. Oh, they aborted,... oh, they're unattractive, ...oh, they're barren...The direction which society is taking is quite worrisome!

[@crawfordtorr8749]

single mothers are jealous of single ladies without kids because their market value is high, and therefore they taint them, it doesn't change the fact that men want women without baggage

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[@crawfordtorr8749]

@@HeAloneIsGod9901 why should your bestie be jealous of you, maybe you are imagining that, nobody would want to raise a child alone, if you are honest, you want a father figure for your son and a helping hand, parenting is not easy and it not just about provision as much as it is about mentorship also. I'm from Norway, i've been to Malindi and Nanyuki, great weather!

[@nellyobiero2023]

Hi Benjamin,mind talking about widows and widowers who has/have kid/s

[@candacesmith5572]

Thank you Benjamin for once single Mom's are given a good rep. Appreciate you God bless you and yours.

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[@Jojo.kazumi]

💯💯💯💯💯The accuracy!!! A high flying excellent perfect single mother! I love it 👌👌👌👌 Character! Personality. 💯

[@margaretwachoro7532]

Hahahaa 😂😂this one made my night/morning headache is real...thankyou Benja and Bram you make my days men

[@sweetbabe6806]

"Some women gets child and grow, others get a child and groan....!"~BZ

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[@maryjulius2863]

Kudos.....Mr.Bramwel....doing a good job.

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[@dollyoduori8883]

Nzulu you are wonderful ,pliz talk about men who were helped by their wives but after being somewhere up financially, he leaves the woman and marries another woman . Frustrates to her and enjoys the money with someone's wife with three children eventually marries a married woman whose husband lives. The woman gets pregnant and plants on him to cage him yet not sure if his or not.

[@miss_vill]

Go to the market and get the best deal.

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[@scotscot5657]

big heart, small head, easily trapped

[@leslieomondi1314]

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[@wanjirumarigamonica4841]

Kindly can you talk about parents inlaw rejecting someone because she is a single mother.like being against their son to marry a single mother.

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[@samke3503]

True many mothers don't want their son's to marry women with kids,

[@elviskinyanjui8386]

@@samke3503 those in-laws know better

[@Thesongstress1909]

I would not support my son in marrying a single woman!! Unless he insists, I would not stop him but its not a good idea marrying a woman with a kid from another man

[@iamalexisadreana]

I'm 25 years old and I'm currently dating a man with no kids. I finally met his mom and we ended up moving close to her. I don't think she likes me very much. But I'm still always respectful because I love her son and I'm not what she thinks. My girls father is not in their life... But me and her son love each other very much. I hope she comes around...

[@amidusaidunfor5332]

What i believe is that my God is a God that brought out something out of nothing meaning single mother or not God is God.

[@iamalexisadreana]

Thank you guys for this God Bless

[@dbizzle85]

Nothing to consider, I'm not doing it

[@Girlygirl24]

Just avoid anyone with a kid.

[@Thesongstress1909]

Thank you, that is the right thing to do...

[@wanyamuthimookariuki2012]

"'"'Talk when they are not there physically"'"

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[@tinaachieng9931]

Love to Benjamin and Bramwel

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My everyday class waooooh it's worth watching 🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@danielmachio6864]

Q

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[@SIFAHUEBOSETALE-uf6qt]

There is no best couple in this world and there is compatibility in this world is God that perfect everything.... That is why the Bible said "the race is not for the swift or the battle for the strong"....

[@scotscot5657]

Sometimes I just cage myself too.... a lot of times :D

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[@captainbosingwa7226]

Thanks Benjamin Zulu on story of Evengelist Renaidbonge "that's really application of wisdom many people enter into such situations of commit sin due to lack of self control and not applying wisdom to avoid scandal.

[@dorcaswangui6072]

a child respond to love wow amazing not hatred 💪

[@asiimweprecious6025]

I broke up with a father of my kid n i stay with the child, but he takes care of his child..i have now moved on i have got a man whom i know i would love to be with for the rest of my life....he says he can take care of the child but my x wants the child to stay with him if my time for getting married comes....n i as well dont want to leave my child ...what shud i do

[@JcCurry100k]

mtoto akae na mama yako not you or your man,if u want to save yo marriage....talking from experience, mi niliachana nayo time baby daddy alirudi na sikuwa respected

[@creopalmer8345]

This one cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣

[@francewonder7411]

Yhoooo Im the brother you spoke about

[@mamakeharvey2110]

Hi, any link to the chat about the advantages of marrying a woman with a child?

[@JcCurry100k]

theres zerotrophy for marrying a single mom

[@faithisasubstance111]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@abbychirry8051]

Everyone situation is different...some left the baby daddies so most of the things you are saying is bullshit...nkt

[@juliusmcbean1611]

They are no benefit marrying a single mother.

[@ireneirene9834]

An SM here listening🙄

[@takkoidrismadaki5070]

What of a man that has a child

[@phanicekhalayi8250]

Benjamin is 😂 wrestle a running baby daddy.its better kipchoge

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[@jaseminephat4953]

Actually a lady with a child is a pure definition of a wife material if the partner is ready to take care of there child

[@antonymn5199]

not necessarily and use quantifiers such as most,some, and all to evade generalizations.

[@samke3503]

Now hapo kwa ku take care of the child ndio Kuna shida.

[@Portugal309]

@@samke3503 sure any single mom who gets in relationship just for child support is a disgrace!I always advice single mothers before they get in any relationship they should be financially stable to take care of their child because no man will be happy to take care of another man's child especially if that biological father is alive and for men they always have to be aware that if the single mom is getting child support from the (ex husband/ex boyfriend) that means once you get in that relationship you will be the one to provide (If)she have to stop communicating or getting the support from the child's dad.....better get in a relationship with a lady who takes care of her kid on her own to avoid dramas

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[@TheSiphelo]

Pure trash !! Wife materials don't have kids out of wedlock !!

[@sheilachepkorir2711]

Asap am learning

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[@ladyafrica3553]

a he goat from the bushes

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[@Mregas1]

Quick question, bahlali🙏. How much does it cost to marry a lady with a kid in KZN? With 6-7 years old boy. Just based on your experience or something you know. 🙏🙏🙏 There is someone I've been dating for almost 4 years, when I meet her, the kid was about 3-4 years... Coming from North West province, it's a bit odd for me to marry someone with a kid for 70K(including everything)🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🙄

[@talentesibiya1235]

That's too much .

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