What To Do If You're In Love? - Ask Mufti Menk - 2018

"To fall in love is a disease and it's cure is to marry the person you love."
{ Ibn al-Qayyim } ♥

[@fatimahaliu6681]

Ya Allah pls let my future husband be a man that will always increase my deen

[@earthworldserver]

what's deen?? i'm catholic .

[@saimaahmed816]

Aameen

[@berlin2135]

Fatimah Aliu ameen

[@ahmedabdi5304]

Aamiin,Also our wives

[@zzayxo]

ameen 🙏

[@mddilshad9668]

Oh Allah give us thousands mufti like this

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Md Dilshad Better than this InshAllah

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Alhumma ameen

[@hafswaabbas3152]

Ameen

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Ameen

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Ameen

[@lilxxangel6576]

I love watching him, he is probably the most positive person I’ve ever seen Mashallah, Alhamdulillah for everything Allah has given us!

[@aishahabibi6463]

Mufti menk inspires me a lot.as well as millions of people who are list.. Sometimes I get answers by watching his lectures

[@fharjulkipli3665]

Masha allah,he is the most positive person I've ever seen💓may Allah grant him jannah

[@farisaizat8121]

And also nouman Ali khan

[@muazamfarooq9803]

Plzz write"" Ma sha Allah"" with gaps... Otherwise meaning will be opposite

[@abeehaikhlaq8156]

Write A of Allah in capital

[@tariq2arabic708]

I have fallen in love with a brother but I have told myself to not ever confess to the brother or chat with him with no importance until I am ready to involve my parents and prepare for immediate marriage. Pray that Allah guide me through out my life✨

[@mohamedab9033]

Holy crap. You thought that far ahead and he doesn't even know you or your feelings? That's a bit too much, scary tbh not gonna lie.

[@mariyajavaid9555]

Brother! Wym

[@t.ayeshasiddika2020]

May Allah answer ur duas ... And end this love in marriage 😊❤️... Also make for me

[@dr.sofiataranum605]

Ameen

[@somebodysopinion543]

Mohamed Ab that’s how it’s supposed to be though

[@sultanatai8506]

For me ..... Any one giving me right advice after my parents....... Is mufti menk.....

[@candypoplaila543]

Exactly

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Yess....

[@yasmeenkhan7890]

How sweet!

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sultana tai 2

[@thrayhan7425]

What a comment!

[@Bymithiii]

I was in love with a guy who changed so much in me the guy I love he does 5 times day salah doesn’t miss any unless busy but he never told me to pray 5 times day salah but actually what happend is I followed him and eventually I started loving Allah the most by praying 5 times day

[@Mumbaimerijaan978]

then start praying your salah as soon as possible, and make dua for my success ,OK?, aslamalikum warahmatullahu wabarkatahu

[@Bymithiii]

strange thing yes I hope Allah listens to my prayer please do pray for me

[@kheerooumayrah8231]

Mashallah hope you guys always stay together

[@asmasyed6040]

Mashallah

[@mariibabyy]

mashallah

[@adilkhannitianmtech188]

I m in permanent love with one girl I told her everyday that i love allah for this blessing and also i told her that don't worry about future allah is with us, she always appreciate my love towards allah and now i m loving her more or more everyday passes, i m in truly deeply love, pls everybody pray for me for future with my love

[@farhanshaikh6462]

Ameen brother I have a same situation and tbh I'm so much scared that it'll happen Or not 😢

[@sameerhafeez7029]

@@farhanshaikh6462 don't be scared, if she is in your destiny then Allah has already written her name beside yours

[@cooldude3380]

same situation brother

[@bimmer.joo34]

@@sameerhafeez7029 I'm also scared so I never talk

[@begumbushra6739]

😊 Love is a wonderful feeling, 💖 but some people are not understanding the true meaning of Love. Many of us are in haram relationship which is prohibited in islam. 😐May Allah guide all the muslim ummah specially those who are in love with Haram Relationship. Amin

[@arbabkhan1042]

How to convert haram relationship to halal without marriage for 4 years

[@MM-kx5yg]

@@arbabkhan1042 do tobah for what happened n take a step toward halal as marriage

[@fathimathaki2375]

@@arbabkhan1042 My dear brother in islam. ...Allah is Gafoor...gaffaar...Afuvvu & He is thawwab....so pls do thoubah. .. He'll forgive our sins

[@ultrapowerlevel]

@@arbabkhan1042 Very easy actually except forever... not just for 4 years. You're interested in someone, tell your parents... be open with them about it and try to get them with you on the same page to let them know you've matured enough. Once that happens, inspect the girl and the family, if they are good why not? Send your proposal. If they accept, good enough, congratulations. If they don't... and realize they will never accept, stop thinking about it now, maybe she wasn't meant for you. Respect her decision and go marry someone else. But don't do this text messaging and hidden contact business and stuff for like 2 years without even telling your families. You like someone and you know they are good from religious perspective too? Go tell your family that very day. Don't delay on it. Don't start hidden contact with the girl. Let her become your wife or at least let both families agree to your marriage first. After she is your wife, talk to her as much you like. If you fear there is something important you wish to ask her before marriage in terms of compatibility, ask your family and her family to allow and arrange such a meeting in presence of both the houses in a respectable manner.

[@cherry-vh7wp]

I believe in virgin love especially when there two people who are in love with each other and they have respect for themselves what I mean is they don't do anything forbidden and they don't want to have it from the beginning But i think this case is very rare it is very possible for asexuals as me and i am very lucky to find someone who really cares about me and respect me It might be surprising for you as it is for all my friends when i tell them about this but it is quite possible

[@abdilahifarah3439]

Mufti menk is chill not like many scholars who will scream at u "u r going to hell'

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😂😂😂

[@fatimata-fatimdiarrassouba1492]

True

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🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hibamujeeb5422]

True 😂

[@rayyanmustafa1284]

So true.....😅

[@destriakurnianti1770]

MashaAllah. Im in love with a man bcz of his deen, but i let Allah decide. He knows whats and who's the best for me. We dont communicate each other, but i always pray for his health.

[@moonakhan776]

So cute MaaShaAallah may ALLAH make both of u together😊ameen

[@jabibamoha1376]

Masha Allha 🥰💖

[@mohammadisra1536]

I have the same story. May Allah turn your relationship into Husband and wife. Ameen😊

[@elhamdastur2189]

I have exactly the same problem... I hope you got over it sister. Tests like these are very Hard .... you know the person would be the best spouse and would increase you in your deen but the person doesn’t have feelings for you ... just put your trust in Allah. Sometimes time will really make everything easier.

[@sanem6648]

How u doing now sister :)

[@khanazeez123]

Never give your heart and mind to any one except Allah or you will also be faced like this . I thank Allah to give me second chance and to love him more them any one even my 4 kids .

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The funniest part when he says in Africa we fish a lot and some people laugh he replys come on guys it's a real fish😅😅😅😅

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Right haha

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Brother Barry

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ARMY'S r everywhere 💜

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@Yoshi Tekashi sure he’s a got a sense of humour lad

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Mufti menk is very humble Almighty Allah will continue to increase you knowledge ameen

[@shamsamohamed2459]

Amiin

[@naumanistani]

Ya Allah I gave my heart away without involving a third party. I genuinely believe she’s the one. May Allah guide both of our hearts and make it halal. I won’t give up on us🤲🏻

[@najmaissak3792]

May Allah make it easy for you guys 🥰

[@nagmavadodiya6117]

Same situation.... Allah sabko apni pasand ka sathi ata kare

[@muskantaj9427]

first to watch Masha Allah He is My farviout scholar lecturer

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Muskan Taj

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Mee too yaa

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Yuppp mine too❤️

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Who is that

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*Favorite

[@brokenhearted9815]

I am learning about islam religions and so many Muslim try to learn me but I never feel good and I don't understand anything they say because they use to learn me in different ways like correcting my mistake and let there mistake continues. When I did wrong they gonna eat me completely but when they do wrong it's like nothing happened but when I found the video's for mufti menk I feel every words he said directly going to my heart and mine and I love

[@abdallamsellem5298]

Yes you don't understand them because maybe they have not enough education

[@toophatbaby3671]

don't listen to them.. listen to the expert.. even im born as a muslim, Im still not the best example of a muslim.. Im still struggling to be one.. may Allah help us

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oldstupid oldhell may Allah guide uh to de right path whoever ur

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oldstupid oldhell keep it up for learning and don’t give up at that easily 💪🏾😄👏🏾

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Islam 1400 year old started by mohmmad .. islam = terrorism

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I’ve reverted to Islam recently and I watch Mufti Menk’s videos to help increase my understanding of Islam. JazakAllah Mufti Menk!

[@cricketzz6401]

We are blessed to have scholars like him in our ummah...

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all I wish I I don't want fall inlove to someone can't proposed to marry ..pain is pain !!! cry is cry huhu

[@abdulaibah6282]

Fact

[@saqibkhan8641]

Nam Sansawi really

[@naziapanezai2799]

U r right, but falling in love is not in the hand of anyone it just happen to a person, and marrying to that person is also not written in the face of anyone.... So half agree n half not.....😓

[@xtreme6018]

do u meant ti say fallen in love is painful?? no no sis... if u pray to allah then allah will nt hurt u n allah will save ur relation forever

[@zikrakhan2871]

Nam Sansawi Yes i also wish

[@mariamayabo8543]

when ever I listen to his videos or records only God knows how I feel.....because I learn a lot from him.....

[@unknown-nr7wh]

I've never seen someone elaborating things like this.....his way of saying things attract me👌

[@aayanpvt1506]

I'm 16 and I've fallen for a girl in my class however I'm trying my best to avoid those feelings.. may Allah help me 🛐

[@bangtanite6308]

same but mine is a guy i really want to avoid these feelings i dont want it

[@TellTheTru]

Very importantly, don’t look at them, in real or in photo. May allah guide us all

[@wanirayees6311]

u beautifully and logically explained the trap of Haram relationship with great example of FISHING

[@thomasogugu9755]

This man is wise i love his teachings may The Almighty bless him

[@ifrazargar]

He changes my heart everytime I listen to him...such an inspiring soul he is 🌸

[@mustaqeemmohd6683]

Masha Allah I pray with Allah grant them jannah tul firdous how many people's are engaged in uploading this video. I have been in trouble from past few months but now I feel good and happy after watching this video.

[@NerminLleshi]

I thank God for your existence! Your speeches are enlightening to me! You're almost the only Islamic knowledgeable person I listen to, who has really caught my attention with his positivity.

[@Life-xk6zy]

He is such a positive person I have seen so far ! Allah guide us !

[@rukhshandarehman7509]

Each an every word is so true. May ALLAH guide us all aameen

[@ibrahimabdijimale7674]

Sh Mufti Menk,may Allah rewards you for what you're doing.

[@noraisaesmail5767]

Mashaallah tabarak Allah jazaka Allahu khayran..may Allah Grant us deep understanding and protect us from evil Ameen...

[@faizshariff9968]

I have deeply fallen in love with a girl I'm ready to involve my parents and make her my spouse but the only problem I don't know where she is right now. Pls pray to Allah so that one day we meet again and come together forever!!!!!

[@meowmeowgirly5381]

Okay I will 👍

[@shamraanas7075]

Ameen

[@shamraanas7075]

You r on a right track ...

[@sanem6648]

If she is destined for u don't worry no matter where she is rn and how far she is from u u both will meet one day by the will of Allah when it will be perfect for u :)

[@HardcoreInsanity]

I'm in the same position. Inshallah it all works out for you

[@bhatowais288]

So inspiring So inspiring May Allah subhanallahu wa tala protect us n forgive us

[@umerzafar2753]

keep it mufti. You are doing great job. You are teaching us like our parents. SubhanAllah!

[@bhatthameed419]

Eminent speaker nd scholar ....like him much

[@imfilms8199]

Beautifully explained. MashAllah. May Allah guide & bless us all. Ameen.

[@kuravle008]

ماشاء الله just love his lectures. I loved the part when he saud shaitan wakes you up.

[@alauddin6684]

Best ever advice to an unmarried person. Love you sheikh. May Allah SWT bless you

[@iqrabashir7543]

May Allah give u highest place in Jannah.....u open my eyes seriously 😭😭😭

[@lamiyabinthali2498]

We love u brother mufti menk for the sake of allah❤️may allah swt bless u with long n healthy life آمين

[@semabiamaqsood5513]

Greatttttttt.....MashaaAllah SubhanAllah....give your heart to Allah...before its too late

[@ceesah32]

What a mighty good Man Sheikh Mufti Menk

[@md.jahidulislamjihad3417]

Thanks a lot for the beautiful talk. Really needed these directions right now. May Allah bless you with the best rewards.

[@jasminasultana6291]

I always get motivated listening your speech or bayan...the way you explain is really really soft and calm...that everyone will be impressed and come to the path of islam by your lecture....thanks a lott mufti menk sir...big fan of yours👍👍May ALLAH give you all the happiness ....May you live long..Ameen

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MashAllah i am learning lot of things which may be happen in my life in future but your speeches help me to be away from bad things MashAllah,May Allah bless you and keep you happy and healthy always dear brother...

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Masha Allah!!!! May Allah keep blessing you for the 《《Ummah》》.

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Masha-allah... Thank you for talking on this topic. All my doubts are now cleared. Alhumdulillah

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Mufti menk 's speeches inspires me to do more good things

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A very concise and concrete answer exactly to my problem. Thank you

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He is such an nice person with apealing words masha allah may allah subhanatallah have emmense blessings on us..ameen🤲🤲

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Mashllah jazakllah khair mufti menk I am so proud of u wllhi inshllaha we'll meet in jannah .

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Subhan Allah! The best advice ever. May Allah SWT grant us ease, strengthen our Iman and take care of our affairs in the best of ways. Aameen💝

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Jazakallah menk is my favorite lecturer

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THE BEST VIDEO IN THESE TIMES

[@MSA_madi]

Subhanallah, Just the answer I expect, gotta chain down the heart more.

[@asifreza962]

Sooo accurate MashaaAllah thank you mufti menk jazakallahu khair

[@PrincessofIslam]

MAASHAALLAH The way of explaining is really outstanding May ALLAH SUBHANAHU TAALA give him a long life with complete Deen .. Summa aameen 🤲😇

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MashAllah May Allah keep us away from these bad deeds!

[@sirinaabdulhamid2091]

Ameen

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mashaallah.. a good reminder for us.. tq.. one of my fav scholar.

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I wouldn't lie this man is really a good adviser may Allah bless him

[@sevilayle5701]

Ameen

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Mashallah, soo beautifully explained✨

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I enjoy listening to his discussions.

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To be honest, joining Nannim the great doctor was the best choice I've ever made. Thanks for bringing my wife back (pg)*

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Mashah Allah.... Mufti Menk is so charming.

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Yeah true ...May Allah Almighty guide us all ameen

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1st viewer alhamdulillah Masha Allah such a beautiful suggestion

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Bhatt Obaid awe

[@mayaishaque6094]

I'm scared to fall in love now ....

[@ahmada56]

Well, I don't think it is something to get scared of. I personally think that love has a specific time in one's life when he/she is ready for the consequences of love. I mean, I'll start looking for love when I'm stable enough to support someone other than myself.

[@Sara-tw4kl]

I think its not haram to fall in love but when u fall of the trick than its haram what u do

[@zohrant7399]

@@Sara-tw4kl exactly as long you don't act on the feeling.

[@Sara-tw4kl]

@@zohrant7399 uff ok thx

[@sakutibi1112]

Dear..Love is not something that can be said as haram or halal. Because it is emotions that you can't control. What is haram is what you DO. :)

[@smilebuddy5997]

Thank u very much sir for this beautiful message..... I'm following ur quotes from last 5 years..... u r my favourite ever mufti, mentor, inspiration. love u alottt ... may allah SWT bless you

[@ashurahussein9748]

Alhamdulillah 🤲 I saw this video today. May Allah bless you abundantly Sheikh .

[@karterluca4189]

If you fall in love be patient because kind Take your time to learn about this person you’re interested in don’t always look at it as negative

[@misbahuddin3878]

Exactly right. Initially we are in control of feelings we start to develop but later, we are hell lot enslaved in them and its impossible almost to get out of them. That exactly right.

[@fadilaabubakar786]

Thank you for inspiring me...May Allah reward you Abundantly

[@najmakhalif1843]

M.a mufti menk is a good adviser

[@ashrafmukhtarali1350]

2:47 I'm talking of real fish 😂😂

[@refanaafreen9012]

😂😂😂🤞

[@mosammatfathima7264]

Btw, i didn't get that

[@fhamzi95]

@@mosammatfathima7264 muft talk about real fishing, some of people might thinking baiting people or fishing people into something. that why mufti said that

[@Sabrina-dl2in]

“Come on guys” HAHAHAHA

[@ayeshaameermaliha]

Come on guyse😂

[@sobster123]

OH MY ALLAH I LOVE THIS VIDEO! ALHAMDULILLAH!!!!!!! 💓

[@gulshankhan6286]

mashaallah good motivational speech

[@asmaualkali329]

Masha Allah may Allah guide us all.

[@grownwoman777]

First time I actually with the mufti

[@Barakatullah]

Mufti is the best, What a Good example thank you, It did make me laough a bit. My God the Fish example the best. Thank you Once again

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Mufti menk...may almighty allah olyz keep uh under his mercy. ..

[@fatimazohra-ou1wx]

Mashallah♥♥ such a realistic talk

[@user-xl7fn9zf6b]

Im only 16 but when i get married we both gonna keep each other in line

[@krwlz9452]

im confuse, can u help me cuz what do i do if he suddenly say "i love u"? im non muslim but im willingly follow the rule of islam because he is muslim, is saying i love you haram?

[@sameerminhaj8555]

Mufti Menk's humor is soo on point! 🤣🤣

[@mohammedpolo3717]

My favorite sheikh

[@scarletjhon7272]

Ooohh my God finally this is exactly what I was thinking of 😭😭❤️❤️ allhamdulillah

[@medinaduraj2922]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 Asalamu alaikum!!! Muslim believers that God is so loving that he recreated His attribute of love as an instinct in us. Hence true love is part of God's love, and it is our d to love one another truly ,as indeed He loves us. Without Devine Love there can be no human love. Greetings and support from Albania 🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱!!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

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He’s so admiring i just love watching him ❤️

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Masha Allah i like your speech goes direct to the heart,jazakallah kheir

[@abdulrehmanchawdhary4114]

Oh God Please make her mine here in this world and here after.

[@tajuddinmansoor9670]

Subhaan'allaaha, Masha Allah, 💖💖💖💖💕💞💞💞💓💓 May Allah subhanwataallah have mercy on you, shayakh...., you painted mine situation. I so so convinced by your talk. I was probably going to be snared in a shaitaan's decoy.

[@fakiamahmood3164]

Best way of explaining the the things...

[@kheiraadan1511]

Allah will help wherever you are InshaAllah

[@fahabdul301]

I love this video mashaAllah