What To Do When People Are Hard To Love | Joyce Meyer's Talk It Out Podcast | Episode 95

[@kindzozodoinghaus9956]

So I've been waiting for you guys like forever 😔😔. I thought you have abandoned us. But thank God you're here 😂😂😂

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear you look forward to new episodes!! We upload one new episode every 2 weeks. Blessings! -Team JMM

[@marsharowaihy6725]

Man, these ladies are some smart cookies!!

[@jadajohnson783]

I want to say this respectfully, I would not have any desire to do anything for my ex-and his new wife. Come on, lets be real. That would be really hard for anyone to do. I love Gingers honesty.

[@TheresaGelso]

This one made me laugh out loud. It was enjoyable seeing Joyce tease Ginger.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JayJay-sm8zy]

The more you around people the more you get mad. Try to change your ways put God first and pray.

[@jennym268]

Ginger your hair color is fabulous!

[@kathygross6911]

I know this was recorded a year ago but that was SO brave Ginger! “The fool scripture”. And that is how God renews us isn’t it? Blessings…

[@MonsterVision_33]

I’m a Samoan man raised in the urban community on section 8… I have fallen in love with your guys honesty and transparency. I want to keep a good a good attitude while going through trials. Love the show

[@mattjohnson5489]

I love Erin she's georgous.

[@LaRhonda.]

"Why am I responding that way?" 🙏🏼 wow, Jesus, help me.

[@sharron8766]

OMG! This was soooo good. I feel like I can leap tall buildings 🦸‍♂️ I appreciate Joyce and the girls so much. Show me Jesus💞💕💞

[@joycemeyer]

😁🤗 We're so grateful to hear that this episode encouraged you today!! Check out Joyce's online study, How to Love Difficult People at bit.ly/3eNv9qo. God bless! -Team JMM

[@rhondastorey8544]

Love this!! Why is my favorite part that Joyce has tattoos ❤ And men wanting to help where we don’t need it - is called “mansplaining” 😂

[@normaleiva2311]

Please, Joyce try our coffee.. Leiva’s Coffee… I know you love coffee..this is from Guatemala… I am your fan..love every sermon that I heard , it helped me a lot.. God bless you

[@patwarburtonr7488]

The light of our Saviour’s love still shines brightly in this darkened world. He will provide a way for us to walk with Him to absolute victory. Trust in Jesus. He loves you so much. 🙏

[@ashleyrobinson6780]

I just keep loving mama Joyce more and more! Love the tattoo statement! Welcome to the club Joyce! ❤

[@teodosaportorreal8728]

God Bless, There’s My Mother, mY brothers and sisters OMG GOD PLEASE FORGIVE THEM , Forgive me , I can’t understand THEM . I Love them , I forgive them 🙏 💕

[@julienatoli8561]

I say love God and do what you want!! Because Momma Joyce is correct in reminding us that it's WHY we say & do what we do that God looks at. A lot of people probably judge Mommas Joyce for getting her face lifted years ago, well those same people will probably judge your tattoo too!! How cares?!! Not me & not God!!! I love you exactly the same Momma Joyce & it's between you and God anyway!! Hallelujah!! 😘😘😘

[@deannaj91]

Wow she hit it on the head when she spoke about ppl who hold grudges and walk around like everything is ok, for her to say that doesn’t make them an honest person really is an eye opener for me

[@deannaj91]

Honest relationship *

[@kindzozodoinghaus9956]

Ginger was so sweet🥰

[@patriciaamongin6662]

Wow,thankyou for this podcast. Joyce 😭😭😭😭 thankyou. Another book is out again💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

[@thatosegopolo9072]

Great discussion boy oh boy I don't get narcissists, they are so draining

[@dianabraid6864]

I value each of you women who have shared. I admire your faith and maturity and strength in Him. One thing that really encourages me is that you don’t pretend you are above feeling certain things and you give us practical advice for when the rubber meets the road. Blessings.

[@tiffanylollis6101]

I’m exactly like Jai

[@celinaruscica47]

I’m glad that joyce talked about how she would immediately not like someone or feel uncomfortable of someone because that person reminded her of her dad. I thought it was amazing how that works and I’m glad she mentioned that cause I realized that I’ve felt uncomfortable to and did dislike someone before that also had reminded me of my dad because of how that person acted! This group helps me out so much and I think that I feel like I’m apart of it. I feel like It’s a form of counselling and just being able to talk things out is great , all of this is refreshing and encouraging and uplifting and fun !!! Never stop this podcast!!! I get so much from it and I love it!! It’s probably anointed lol. I love you girls and you all have something to share!! Everything that has been mentioned in this video is so important and helpful!!!❤️❤️💜💜💜💛💛💛🌻

[@snellis3607]

This is the episode we all needed

[@joycemeyer]

We're grateful to hear that this blessed you. We also encourage you to check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@LoveTheSon11]

This message has come at the PERFECT (God’s timing always is) time for me and my family! ❤️🙏🏼😄 I’m praying that I can take what I’m hearing and learning from God’s word and apply it to our current situation that seems to be never-ending. And I’m praying for all others who are listening to this today and reading the comments. We all need God’s help and guidance in dealing with the difficult things in this life. Thanks, ladies! I always love listening to your talks! 😘🙏🏼 - Your sister in Christ

[@henriettaatkin1968]

Thank you Joyce. I'm praying for a friend of my daughter's who was just bad news from the get-go. Thankfully, the Lord moved, and they are no longer friends. I know the mother is a wonderful Christian, and no one understands why the daughter is so hurtful. So I'm praying for her to return to Jesus.

[@joycemeyer]

We are praying for the situation as well. If you’d like, you can also fill out a prayer request at joycemeyer.org/prayer. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@vhd4325]

This was extremely helpful!!! Thank you so much ladies!!!

[@Deedii777]

By the way … listening all the way from Ghana… you’re all changing lives here too! ❤ thank you Joyce ❤!!

[@lucillelaurenzi4510]

Hi talk it podcast.I love this show.This show sounds like what I'm going through.I appreciate listening to you ladies.I feel like I'm part of your show.Merry Christmas.

[@itumelengmpeke]

I appreciate this podcast every time I listen to it I become empowered

[@deborahlustig4956]

Great discussion

[@marypierce5444]

Best, most important talk show ever. Everyone of you are an expression of God's awesome love. I have listened almost everyday in a time in my life when I have been on the edge. I thank you all for being a spokesman for God, and keeping me from falling off that edge.

[@sna7142]

I've listened to a lot of epidodes and this is one of the best ones! So much wisdom, honest sharing, and the humor doesn't hurt either! Y'all are so funny! Bless all of these women leading this topic.🙏

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear that you enjoyed this episode! 😁 We also encourage you to check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@karmiller4540]

This is so amazing and im so grateful for this incredible video and beautiful messages. I wish you all an amazing week.

[@kennyskhronicles4880]

Oh my goodness…I’m all of you in one…I can relate to almost every comment. Thank you so much ladies 😊💕

[@thatlovelydancerIlao]

Yes, me too 😂

[@janellamurphy4212]

@@thatlovelydancerIlao ME TOO AS WELL

[@carlabullock8681]

❤❤❤❤❤ What a wonderful podcast! I learned so much about myself listening to you ladies! MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!

[@rosaliafeal671]

Blessed

[@ILYSydneyDarling]

This absolutely could not have come at a better time. Thank you.

[@joycemeyer]

We're glad to hear that this came just at the right time! Check out this online study from Joyce at bit.ly/3eNv9qo. We pray it blesses you! -Team JMM

[@ladyj.crafty2016]

Wow! This couldn't have come at a greater time. I am currently dealing with a difficult person who thinks they know it all and will not listen to reason no matter who. I know that this person is hurting because a loved passed away and I think that this person is feeling guilty because of the way they treated or behaved at a time when the deceased needed them more. This person now has no one to do things for them. Although I must admit that I too am difficult to live with and I'm set in my own ways, but in the sense that when it was just me and my spouse, we lived a different life than the one we have now. It was more relaxed and stress free. Now It's different that this person lives with us. This person is also very, very negative and inconsiderate of what they do. And sometimes I have to mention that this is my house and that they just can't come to my house and do what they feel like or take whatever they want without asking. Then this person is not very trustworthy. But I suppose God put it in my heart to start listening to your sermons and teachings about two years ago and some of them are really on point to what is going on in my life or what I'm trying to change about my life. Sometimes I ignore what they say or do and other times it just bothers me and I end up saying something or complaining it to my spouse or someone else. I'm like you Joyce. I'm quick with my mouth, but I also don't think before I speak and that gets me into trouble a lot. So I really appreciate this talk today and I saved it so that I can watch it over and over again and hopefully I will finally listen to God and let it go. Leave it alone and let Him handle it. God Bless you ladies and Thank you. 🙏☺️🌻💓

[@olettadlamini7781]

Love you guys!

[@Olamideofthenations]

Thank you Joyce🥺

[@erintighe8795]

This was so great! I listened to it twice!!! And Joyce, you rock those tattoos!!!✝️

[@suzy1676]

This was EXCELLENT and so complementary to the teachings! Thanks 😊 🙏

[@ladonnawilson2145]

I would love to say I never judge but darn it I do it and then feel terrible most of the time Thanks for talking about this topic.

[@joycemeyer]

Blessings to you, LaDonna! Check out this new online study from Joyce at bit.ly/3eNv9qo. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@estherbyoona1572]

Beautiful beautiful,timely episode 😊🤗❤💙I have a friend who really hurt and annoyed me and I have been trying to forgive her and move on from what happened but this has really touched me and helped me...thank you so so much ❤❤❤I love Joyce saying "obedience to God shows our love to him..."thank you ladies...love this show

[@ammiesmith7545]

Thank you!!! Pastor Joyce, I have watched you for many years and appreciate all of your teaching and preaching sermons. This has truly changed my life.❤

[@edithpando1264]

Wow, how God put you ladies in my life. God knew I needed to listen to this message. Thank you Lord, for the blessings you bring through these ladies. 🙏❤️

[@sinple_music]

I really messed things up with the woman I love and I just pray that God can heal our pain and we can be together again some day. She is the light of my life and I don't want to spend another day without her 💔

[@chichis7768]

Awesome and beautiful conversation. I absolutely love it, thank you beautiful ladies. Love you my beautiful Joyce 😊🤗😘💕💕💕

[@karynknutson1480]

There's so much here to relate to and comment on! My Mother always told us "It takes all kinds to make this here world go round. If we were all the same, life would be boring." And there would be nothing to talk about!!😊❤

[@gayle2276]

Please remember when you go thru a divorce, not being around the ex and mistress you may have to do in order to take care of yourself. You need to heal. You need boundaries. Take the time. You'll be able to forgive and pray for them eventually. Take care of yourself it'll happen and God understands. It's ok.

[@RandeeFerry]

Thank you for yet another on point message and discussion. As believers, Christ followers we must open our arms and welcome all people in! That’s how Jesus lived and ministered to others. Love one another! So simple if we let it be!

[@Freddie-pe9nz]

Love ya Joyce and Dave and the JMM team 😊

[@lidyanaredeemed9848]

I thank God for this ministry. I find it useful from time to time. Relatable and practical authentic conversation makes it much easier to reflect in our life and make adjustments where it’s needed. I love practical and authentic ppl! Thank you.

[@kevinkajobe9689]

Just watching this for my first time. Its amazing. Its teaching me something. Kevina in Mozambique

[@tecon2]

I love you all too 😀

[@rhondagriffith2159]

Love is an action word.Amen...

[@cindysecker3028]

Every word today has blessed me and helped me. Thank you so much! That's exactly what happened to me, Joyce. My best friend of 45 years! Blew up. Issues with me now and 40 years ago and no longer likes me...only says what I want to hear...what do I say? All these decades a lie? I'm in shock. I can't not love her, but I feel abused.

[@uniquelyshellz]

This was an amazing conversation, thank you ladies, and thank you Mrs. Joyce. I am greateful for this podcast.

[@annyg1757]

Absolutely The Chosen❣️🙏💖

[@thatlovelydancerIlao]

This was epic. I needed this and yes, if you love, you will get hurt. People are all different and we don't need to be right, we need to be love and do that thing today that you'll be glad you did later. Thank you Joyce and all my sisters on this video. Love you so much

[@ginaprosser3595]

I’ve been waiting for this! Love y’all!

[@joycemeyer]

We're so happy to hear that you look forward to this podcast!! God bless you, Gina! -Team JMM

[@Supsup7777]

Amen!

[@adriannaesparza9919]

I enjoyed this episode

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear that, Adrianna! God bless you! -Team JMM

[@lorihunsaker1810]

Thank you ladies! Love you all.

[@joycemeyer]

We love you too, Lori! -Team JMM

[@jleamon3823]

@ 27. I cut off a relationship with a Christian when we disagreed on a point of scripture, not because of the point, but because of the way the conflict was handled. When someone apologizes for what they say, then in the very next breath, does the very same thing they just apologized for, you know you have a problem. It's at that point, one must decide whether to continue the relationship. Thankfully, I saw what was coming, and had a friend witness the conversation and she herself advised that this other person and I cut ties. Sadly, religion gets in the way of love, when it's love that should be the religion.

[@VictoriaC777]

This is so timely and sooo good. Thank you for reminding me to do a heart check.

[@joycemeyer]

We're grateful to hear that this episode was a blessing to you today! -Team JMM

[@Maha1J]

Thank you 😊 This’s amazing 💖 God bless you my sisters

[@carriehaouse1617]

This video was fire it definitely bless me thank you ladies

[@joycemeyer]

We're grateful to hear that, Carrie! Check out Joyce's new online study "How to Love Difficult People" at bit.ly/3eNv9qo. We pray it blesses you! -Team JMM

[@tecon2]

Love this talk! God bless you guys

[@MitchelleSaez]

Awesome conversation!!!!! Love it! ❤️

[@luevondataylor6286]

I am in that kind of relationship thank God at first I thought I was settling but I like him and he feels the same towards me but I do see attraction thank God I decided to open my heart and give him a try thanks for this video

[@joycemeyer]

We're grateful to hear that this episode blessed you! Check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@monicafaria6267]

You all are a great blessing Thank you

[@lisak6321]

So good, thank you for sharing. Love is the only thing that is going to make this world a better place but we have to get past ourselves. May I also recommend Joyce's book Love Revolution, it is my favorite book of hers. I've read this book at least 5 times and I still get something new out of it each time. Such a good book, I still find it hard to believe it wasn't on the top 10 list.

[@joycemeyer]

That's so great to hear, Lisa! Thank you so much for sharing! We also encourage you to check out this new online study from Joyce at bit.ly/3eNv9qo. We pray you have a wonderful day! -Team JMM

[@karenlewis8601]

This was awesome and helpful. Thank you all!

[@almendragarcia4197]

I was waiting the whole week to see you and learn more. So wonderful to hear this message in the perfect time. Love you gilrs. Jay, you are so great, i'm with you trying to forgive.😍🤗😇

[@keishawalker4686]

Thank you for this message. I feel like I have to walk though this process every week. My sons’ father tests me almost every week. I’m working to coparent with him and truly forgive him. He is still holding onto the idea of one big happy family all together and this is not what it is for me. So because of this he gets upset frequently and tries to start arguments or conflicts. I really do want the best for him but praying for his healing and mine 🙏🏽

[@joycemeyer]

We are praying! We hope this online study From Joyce at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy is a blessing to you. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@9703787205]

awsome!! Loved it.

[@maurisapoore4280]

I watch Talk it Out every time a new episode comes out and this is one of the best episodes!! Thank you Ladies!! I have ordered the new book and cant wait to get it!!

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear that you enjoyed this episode so much!! We hope the book encourages you! -Team JMM

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

This is a great discussion!!!💖💝♥️

[@tanetteallen7655]

Loved it!!!

[@TheImperfectReader]

Ok I needed to hear this!!!

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear that this episode blessed you today! We also encourage you to check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@LynWesthoff]

Wow. Such a powerful conversation 👏 😍

[@Maria-006.]

Lord knows I needed this 🙌🏻❤️ I have the most trouble getting along with my Children’s dad I say I have forgiven him for what happened in the past but I’m not sure if I fully have and if I let it go 😭 PS. I’m loving the new red Couch

[@joycemeyer]

We are praying for you, Maria! We hope these resources from Joyce at bit.ly/3tM0kX8 and bit.ly/3eNv9qo are a blessing to you. -Team JMM

[@Maria-006.]

@@joycemeyer Thank you🙏🏻🫶🏻❤️

[@whitneysawyer483]

Loved this sermon :)

[@Deedii777]

I really really enjoyed and needed this! Thank you all so much for being so real…❤

[@celinaruscica47]

This was really good and awesome to hear ! And so helpful, thank you for being so open about things that you learned or experienced or any hard things that you all have experienced or are still dealing with!! I appreciate you guys so much!! This podcast is so needed and good to have and I’m so thankful for it !! You guys are so fun to listen to as well. I feel like I’m apart of you guys when you get together and talk about stuff.

[@periseanhall4071]

This is really good!

[@graciousgift]

Technically it is not under the old covenant either since God said don't make cutting for the dead. Jesus is the only true and living God. We do not serve a dead God . And so it is another form of worship.

[@lisadmarshall7484]

Hey There TIOP Gals! Have you thought of developing a similar podcast for younger adult diverse women hosted with some diverse young women from JM, targeting ages 18-30 with their issues - bullying, social media, COVID-19 social distancing trauma as well as reintegration, and navigating life.

[@joycemeyer]

Thank you so much for sharing this suggestion with us! We have passed it along! God bless you! -Team JMM

[@amandag7777]

♥️

[@terryinkster]

I’m the hard person to love.

[@mattjohnson5489]

I been hurt by brother who drinks very abusive to me I'm terrified all the time what do I do.

[@joycemeyer]

We are sorry to hear that, Matt. One of the best things we can do for the people in our lives is pray for them. When we pray, we open the door for God to come into problems and situations and work on them. Prayer makes us partners with God. And while we can’t really change people, the Lord can minister to their hearts and reach them. We encourage you to check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/newstudy. We are praying for you! -Team JMM

[@hizgrase]

Funny how we pray for revival and in my opinion the church is not ready for the kind of people that need to be saved and come in to the church for protection and family. I know a girl that said it was easier to come out of the closet in the world then it was to come out to the church for what her past was even though she was totally free she got more judgment from the church on what she used to be then she did in the world for being that way. She was totally free of that spirit but was not free of many of her hurts and wounds so didn’t always respond the way they thought she should. She got so damaged that she left church and never got free of the wounds from her past. She has never gone back to her old lifestyle and still tries to follow Jesus best she can but she has no church family or support she needs to know true love of God. Sad.

[@RandeeFerry]

This saddens my heart.

[@sheilamorrell9296]

I don’t like talking to people who talk a lot too much don’t have the attention span for it 😩 ugh

[@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@violabaguindo6311]

I'm the complainer lol

[@efrenlucero6849]

✌️❤️

[@deborahlustig4956]

And Faith is not logical