When a person doesnt like you...you will feel it in their vibes. The best thing to do is keep it moving. And not be bothered by them.
@ms.camillewarrenempress315 жыл бұрын
Thank you ... If they did , I tell people this all the time lack of communication
@nanciemarin40263 жыл бұрын
So hard..but he only like u when one is around and your money
@Movieclips_1012 жыл бұрын
Facts their vibes and behavior towards you will tell it all 💯
@donnam.557810 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%. Sometimes you can encounter people that may have not learned how to deal with their animosity towards another person. Next thing you know, they are spending their entire life reminding you that they don't like you over and over and over again. That's what I'm experiencing now. But, on the flip side, that's how I handle people that don't like me. I keep it moving.
@sigmasiren72 жыл бұрын
The older I get, the more I realize that the ppl “who don’t like me” usually don’t even know me and judge me by my appearance and are jealous of something about me. They aren’t my cup of tea anyway & are ultimately doing me a favor by staying away.
@donnam.557810 ай бұрын
I wish this was the same in my case. I have people that I didn't get along with in grade school still hunting down and making my life miserable.
@talltalllady6 ай бұрын
What if it is people you have to work with and speak to on a daily basis?
@peachestaylor34172 жыл бұрын
I've become a loner and boy I tell u my life is so peaceful ....people are weird...no longer can they mess with my mental because they crazy
@mahoganysoul71952 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
You're not alone. I spend easily over 90% of my time alone, and the rest with a couple of longtime friends, and I definitely like it! I discarded many people, and it served them right.
@Chance7545 жыл бұрын
I have had a few people in my lifetime who did not like me, but I just kept my distance and mind my business. But it made the people who don’t like me curious about me. 🤣
@donnam.557810 ай бұрын
I can relate to this. Were they doing things to sabotage you and keep you from achieving your goals?
@christinehaigh98076 жыл бұрын
People have the ability to pre-judge someone before they even get to know them...I hope this makes sense.
@Chance7545 жыл бұрын
I agree because I have been pre judged before because of my weight, and the way I dress.
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
You're right! I got pre-judged for most of my life.
@Movieclips_1012 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@thecountscastle48602 жыл бұрын
Judging someone before you know them makes no logical sense.
@BKLYNGIRL2228 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people look for approval from others, even the ones who mean them harm. So, your advice is very well stated. Hopefully, people are willing to listen.
@TylerJTI8 жыл бұрын
IReminisceNyc, thank you so much for visiting my channel. Peace and blessings to you.
@daryusi93472 жыл бұрын
that's me, lol. i gotta change, maam.
@paulcooper57483 жыл бұрын
Boy dealing with people is exhausting these days, great vid btw.
@lilc5353 Жыл бұрын
😢
@deontraymartin964 Жыл бұрын
Yes It Is
@candy5742 Жыл бұрын
🫡 Yessasa
@chancegamble88045 жыл бұрын
i dont care who likes me i like me all matters
@sigmasiren72 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jimmymatt6228 Жыл бұрын
Amen! (I mean that to Jesus TOO for you or me getting through this temporary roadblock)
@sandramane8265 жыл бұрын
Agree i have soo much enemies including family members
@plazmagirl46336 жыл бұрын
Makes a lot of sense... it's like why even waste time. Its just that it seems they want you around but can't stand you. Weird.
@rickeystovall75475 жыл бұрын
I try to stay away from them at all cost ! Tyler you are right as rain & truthful..
@sharonanderson69262 жыл бұрын
Those kind of people doesn't like themselves they are.miserable.
@ChrisRoth19722 жыл бұрын
My Fiancé’s Son & Girlfriend don’t like me at all & I used to try to form a friendship for nearly three years & now I am going to take your advice! Thank You 🙏
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
Tyler, I am SO grateful to you for this advice. I will remember it for the rest of my life. I wasted time and energy trying to convince those who didn't like me to change their minds, because, growing up as an adoptee in the 70's + 80's, I was made to feel less than by PLENTY of narrow-minded + intolerant people in my neighbourhood, in high school, + in the workplace. Thank God that I have, today, at 53, people who accept me as I am, + are good to me! I learned the hard way that once someone decides to dislike you, there's 0 you can do about it. I made the mistakes, and it gave me aggravation and sadness. No more!
@terriali6457 жыл бұрын
Just saw someone in the store I use to go to sometime . He used to talk and say nice things. Now he gets some kind of disagreeable look on his face or sit where I can't see him. I don't care tho cause he Tryed to talk to me I didn't go for it because he has a baby a girlfriend or wife. Someone has again made me look bad to another person. It's like they want no one to like me. Who Cares I WILL STILL live. Thanks Tylor.
@adranvier9928 Жыл бұрын
Many years have passed, but I agree with you Tyler. We simply do not understand why some people do not like us, ( because of our EGO ) and we invest to much energy on them, rather then appreciate the ones that do care about us.
@rudyescobar70717 ай бұрын
This is the best answer for what I should do in all these situations, I work in the corporate environment and see many people a day. From one day to the next, for whatever reason, sometimes people change their attitudes towards me, I remain courteous and respectful to everyone that I encounter, but as you said, not everyone is going to like me. Someone wise once told me NOT to try and fix unimportant relationships in any way. If someone wants to be in a bad mood or whatever the case it may be, simply let them. I used to try and fix the situation by saying, "Hey, I noticed that you seem off towards me today. Let's talk about it." That always put the person in the driver seat to continue to disrespect me. Once, I started letting that person be in that bad mood to regulate their own emotions, the tables turned and they started coming to me and asking me what was the matter. I simply told them the truth. . .that we are there to do a job and that I would like to keep it that way. I simply continued to work and let people be miserable if they so choose. I'm 100% happier that way.
@PerryEmpire7 жыл бұрын
Tyler thank you sir, because of discipline, respect and honesty to others, some try my patience, u got it sir, ignore them. thank you a lot......
@katherineprill60642 жыл бұрын
You are the Wise OWL, TYLER!
@BaljinderSingh-uz6nk7 жыл бұрын
Very good bro.... Ur speech helped me lot I thank u
@terriali6456 жыл бұрын
Amen Tylor you are right thanks for this video. No matter what you do they still will not like you, Better to find people who will like you and value you.
@ivdddoxiemama72755 жыл бұрын
You are so right! I have come in contact with a few of these people. I don't have time for it. Thank you for all your videos!!🙏💖😊
@marylynch9515 жыл бұрын
Omg Tyler You are so right This is what I have been trying to do with a few people Thank you Tyler so much You are a gift from GOD God bless you Tyler And protect you And never stop making these videos You are raw But so truthful
@chriswalls58313 жыл бұрын
I like me dont care who dont like me
@niteshmohla9896 жыл бұрын
This is I think the best advice one can give. Keep going. 👍
@nancywilson3463 ай бұрын
I have two female neighbors that have shown me again and again,that they Don't Like Me! I couldn't care less.❤️🥰
@sunflower-bp6np7 жыл бұрын
yes its a total waste of time :( its sad when some people dont like me because I'm doing better in my academics and my life...? although i tried to be nice but they use worst tactics to destroy your peace..and because of this i don't get the credit i deserve. ..
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Urrooja Memom. Sometimes, it's best to leave it alone and let the universe fix the situation. Ask the universe to fix the situation if he's truly meant to be in your life. Sometimes, it takes time for a person to see. Peace and blessings to you.
@sunflower-bp6np7 жыл бұрын
Tyler JTI thanku so much its nice to see you take time to respond to people...you are gifted seriously. ..God bless you!!
@wherearewe64125 жыл бұрын
It's ok Baby
@AnaliseFrank2 жыл бұрын
What if this is your instructor and you have to respect someone who doesn't respect me
@DawnMaxwell-y4z2 жыл бұрын
No lies told here 🎯
@feefee86276 жыл бұрын
What to do if your coworker doesn't like you and gossiping to management about you????
@daniellee17225 жыл бұрын
FeeFee 86 I say let them create their own karma loop, one that will check them for acting out of line. No one is above consequences for their actions.
@ladybird4913 жыл бұрын
Prepare to find another job, because you spend too much time on the job to be exposed to that.
@sigmasiren72 жыл бұрын
@@daniellee1722 Funny you say this cuz this is exactly what I did & karma bit them all right in the ass. God sees all & works accordingly.
@daniellee17222 жыл бұрын
@@sigmasiren7 There you go. It's liberating not seeking revenge or dwelling on the actions of others. Have yourself a nice weekend :)
@sigmasiren72 жыл бұрын
@@daniellee1722 I agree & thank you, you as well.
@ozzydfc92297 жыл бұрын
your real no bullshit I wish I could meet someone like you tired of living in fear
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Ozzy Dfc. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@Marco.917 жыл бұрын
Even when you feel that fear put yourself out there and face it head on it gets easier and easier . don't worry about the critics ,they've got there own problems to deal with
@Dad-pb1gg3 жыл бұрын
Great video. You got right to the point and you changed my mindset of how I am going to approach a meeting at work today. Thank you
@Goddess_776 күн бұрын
Thank you, Tyler❤...
@k.4th1een2 жыл бұрын
thank you i needed this.
@sharonanderson69264 жыл бұрын
Amen!!Real Talk.
@itzskyler90236 жыл бұрын
Great advice ❤👍
@trinaa27266 ай бұрын
I have a woman who lives across the street from me who doesn't like me. She lies on me to other people, stalks me, tracks me, and has video camera's all over my house. She has friends and family help her to do things to me.She even had a friend who threatened to run me over!! I don't care to be friends or what she thinks. I just want her to leave me alone. I even called the police to get her to leave me alone but it still hasn't worked. What do I do?
@aholibamahernandez42857 жыл бұрын
You are correct I have a friend like that she doesn't like me you're right about that I'm not going to try to be her friend anymore just to say hi and that's it you're right about that? But I know her for so many years I thought you was my friend?
@Gisellexo Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this
@sharonanderson69262 жыл бұрын
Keep it moving 💯
@itsMegx6 жыл бұрын
So, so true.. thank you for this video.
@DawnMaxwell-y4z2 жыл бұрын
🎯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 i used to wear foundation to work , 1 day I didn’t wear it this female ran up to me and said “We thought you had dark blotches that’s why you wore makeup “ See that’s YOUR assumption I just like makeup “ lol
@sagrammyfour4 ай бұрын
It's awkward if they are family. I just wish I knew why my sister in law dislikes me. I've examined my behavior and the things I've done and said over the years, but just can't figure it out. Nowadays I limit contact and pretend everything is fine., saying absolutely nothing. She pretends to be a caring Christian, but I can't feel that vibe at all.
@donnam.557810 ай бұрын
I encountered someone a long time ago who may have been pretending like he liked me. He approached me as if he wanted to date me. I guess he may have heard some gossip, and instead of forming his own judgement, he decided that he didn't like me. I guess he may have been heckled and he felt a need to prove to those people that he really didn't like me. I briefly saw him for maybe 1 1/2 years, then I left the area, so I hadn't seen him in many many years. Today, he still seems to continue to do things to me. I don't have any of his information: email, address, phone number but he seems to have all of my information. When you don't like someone, you don't have to spend 40 years telling them everyday. Your friends already know.
@angied11783 жыл бұрын
I needed this! Thank you
@bdvids48042 жыл бұрын
Some kid at my school just doesnt like me for no reason and while i walked out the door she just shut it in my face
@alvinbeal21236 жыл бұрын
What if its a family member ?
@ultimoyt04 жыл бұрын
Then still, fuck them as long as you are doing your best to improve your behavior(not kissing their ass), improving yourself too then move on from them
@Ms88Chick2 жыл бұрын
Treat them the same
@Maddog_Mark Жыл бұрын
Good video man
@Latindama5 жыл бұрын
Amén 🙏 great 👍🏽 advice
@christineb2640 Жыл бұрын
I needed that advice thank you ❤
@melvonjohnson5711Ай бұрын
If a person doesn't like me, then I'm not the one that should be around them---I seen how people would try to make others like them because they wanted to just to please them---everybody is not going to like you no matter how you present yourself as a person
@JS-Jms7 жыл бұрын
Right on.
@geoffsullivan40639 ай бұрын
Word..
@catelynsilverine8508 Жыл бұрын
thanks i needed this
@aldinaatic93606 жыл бұрын
so true👐👐👐👏👏👏💖
@_hencethename5 жыл бұрын
What If? This person/s are the head of your ministry at church, and you are pretty sure they have convinced most of the other members that you are a toxic and untrustworthy person. They all greet each other and laugh and talk and hang out in private groups outside of the main ministry amd they dont include me. They also will privately text each other asking for assistance, help, advice and roles and responsibilities and I am never mentioned or talked about. I have to run to find out information. Where they all share information freely with each other. Is it time to walk away?
@ladybird4913 жыл бұрын
Run like hell from that church it is not church it is the devils playground.
@TedShatner103 жыл бұрын
Yeah, run away from the church run by a textbook narc/psycho.
@Barbywinston9 ай бұрын
yes
@Abyss.Walker7 ай бұрын
What if they are constantly around a person that I like? For example, there is a girl I want to make conversation with but she is always with this one specific friend group that does not want me around. Should I just move on? Should I attempt to socialise with that person despite the situation in hand with the other group being there? I don’t know..
@Fourleafclover93 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@michaelbrantley.86287 ай бұрын
If someone doesn't like me for who I'm i keep my distance away from them they're full of hate and miserable and finally i don't pay them no mind don't want no friends like that i have one friend is the Lord just me and him only the rest can leave me alone.
@marissaortega1386 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@lorraine47553 жыл бұрын
To hell with them.
@jankeizer4072 жыл бұрын
See it as a balance : 0 in the middle, 50+ and 50- . The person that's not a bit convinced about you will be 40- and less, FAR AWAY from what you demand. Demand at least 30+. If someone does not like you or dont want to meet up with you they are definitly way down the balance. So go invite the NEXT. 😉 Ps. Its not a matter of good and bad but that you just do not resonate at that particular moment, and/or probably never. Dont waste your precious love energy.
@mauricelexington50832 жыл бұрын
✨🙏🏽✨
@etaokha41645 ай бұрын
Misery loves company
@candy5742 Жыл бұрын
I luv luv luv luv #1 because that can change a lot. This guy stop liking me because I didn't speak to him in the morning but I did that to throw other people off who was asking if I want to sleep with him if he can see that screw him.
@frankiecardona1656 Жыл бұрын
agree
@EsotericOccultist3 жыл бұрын
I like you
@Kennyp517 Жыл бұрын
Meaning they’re going to use you
@kevinturner34007 жыл бұрын
Like
@quietzone63597 ай бұрын
Consider the source. Lol. Most likely the ppl that dont like you look a mess. Lol.
@shameDJ5 Жыл бұрын
Everybody didn't like Jesus, and he was a great person.