What To Do When You Are Married But Separated & Have Children

[@deyonchan3625]

Came to my son, my heart break. He is just an innocent child. And now he suffering the most. May God love and bless this child more. In Jesus name 🙏🏻Amen

[@singgreekandhebrew]

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[@wheelmangames5366]

She's not wrong here... This WILL be the fight of your life. Stay STRONG for your Self, in order to stay strong for your kids. And hopefully your marriage.

[@leeperez66]

Hard to deal with kids while the marriage is failing.

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[@Leo363615]

We separated a year ago. We've had up and downs co parenting. Sometimes it felt we were coming back together. Even the kids saw it and they were happy. Come to find out she's seeing someone else. She's not a bad person. She's just lost.

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The thing is your children may choose one of the parents to spend time with but that parent is constantly tell them no. It’s the most hurtful thing to see kids get hurt from a selfish parent.

[@daxvanbuerle4778]

This is beautiful. I wish our church could council about these things. Thank you for the advise. God bless.

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[@southerngyrl98]

I got my daughter's their own phone so that they could communicate with their dad as often and freely as they want. I want my calls and threads with him to be about us and for the lines of communication to be clear. He also moved about 10 minutes away which is reassuring to them. We presented this separation to them in a positive light, focusing on Dad's need to take care of himself right now.

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[@sudiptabose8892]

Will it create a problem for my child to bear to stay separated from her paternal grandparents ? Actually my wife wants to stay with me but not with my parents. Though my parents love my wife and the new born very much, my wife doesn't want to understand. What to do? To stay separated or be forceful to keep my wife and child along with my parents.

[@4evaRoyal10]

Im glad he stayed close to stay involved and make it feel normal. Mine is moving 6hrs away. I hate it for my kids.but that is his decision what can i do

[@seanlodge7687]

Getting served papers. 10 Years married. Two kids 8&6. It’s extremely emotional. It’s not easy.

[@singgreekandhebrew]

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[@anthonygutierrez8933]

She doesn't know if she wants a divorce or to reconcile. But she wants to be single, and flirts with everyone at her job. I've been talking and seeing women too just to get my mind off the fact that she said she doesn't feel the same way anymore but still loves me. I trying to be a better father and person. I get that she's tired of me not having my life together, but I'm trying. She just doesn't care. Idk if I should file for divorce or try to sway her decision. It's killing me inside, but I was doing the same to her the year before. I think I'm just being like this because she wants out. I was too ipn my ego to come back, too busy with other women i didn't care about. So much pain on both sides, married too young and our son sees all of it. I feel like such a horrible person and that this is all my fault. I want my best friend back. All I see is her and my son.

[@nadinesmith5914]

I feel slightly better. Rough couple of days. Narcissist abuse. Think so anyway. Making the motion to split. My 13 yo is wonderful. Keeping my cards close to my chest. Irs gonna take some time. I worry about his coping with a parent in separate homes. I may for the first time join an online...yours...services. so good to know you are there and you are knowledgeable. The right therapist is so key.

[@jijahgamara8977]

I am a mom,my son Cornelius kana has been separated from his wife for another person,but his legal wife Sharon Contance still waiting for his return.Pls pray for both of them for restoration.

[@mercydelara8915]

Praying. Jesus performs miracles and prayers move mountains. I was in the same boat. I came back home to be with my family. Dont give up and lose hope

[@MarriageHelper]

We actually have a video we created talking about what you can do if your child is going through marriage problems in their own relationship. Please watch this video! kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5rOn5mtf72UiZY

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[@ronwill06]

One issue I faced is my wife introduced my kids to her new boyfriend 3 weeks after I moved out of the home. She also got into a relationship fairly quickly after I left the home (3 weeks). Can you guys make a video about spouses getting into rebound relationships while separated?

[@Jc-ei7hz]

I’m sorry to say She was in that relationship already.

[@GoogleUser-ge5hi]

Some people are emotionally weak ans constantly need someone in their life to be fulfilled. That’s very sad and you should know that’s their weakness. Good for you to step away. But sucks for the kids to absorb that.

[@CJ_The_Preparing_Prepper9644]

I agree what do you do in situations like this need a video

[@Divinebeauty15]

My ex fiancé did they same. A quick rebound and has been hounding me to take the kids around her and her children.

[@ronwill06]

@@Divinebeauty15 I don’t get the mentality around this and I wish the Marriage Helper folks would do some videos around this.

[@singgreekandhebrew]

How to deal with separation while in the same household. What’s the best thing to tell the kids. Do we just split the holidays into half? Half the day w each parent?

I am going through separation, because my wife don't appreciate my efforts, don't spend time with me and the children. She use me and the children for her and her family personal gain, which is really traumatizing me and the kids. And I am very very really frustrated right now and very very angry. My children are more open to me and not their mom like, if they want something from their mom, they come to me to asked on behalf of them.

[@genasoriano559]

I really love your approach and your encouragement. I can relate myself with it. Thank you for sharing it.

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Do not let anyone come in between you and your love,you can actually win their love and make it too deep that the ocean are jealous

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[@gunsknives5395]

My wife is a vulnerable narcissist because of her mother who was also one. Our marriage has suffered due to those tendencies she had of constant affirmation needs and if she didn't get them, she tried to threaten me to get her way. She wonders why our marriage went south after pushing me away after constant threats. I tried to tell her what she needed to fix but everything was my fault not her's. Every discussion/argument was always a circular criticism session with the blame always coming back to me. Now she wants a divorce and my daughter is a huge Daddy's Girl and is not liking this one bit. I am trying but it seems impossible because my wife tends to listen to her morally compromised friend and divorced three times brother. Kind of like if you want to know how to rob a bank talk to a bank robber. If you want to save your marriage talk to a person that has been married for a very long time. My daughter is 10 and I pray she doesn't suffer long term due to this if the divorce goes all the way through.

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Thank you very informative and helpful

[@gimetips]

And what do you say to your kids if they mother walks out from them as well? Do you still tell them to ignore the fact of being left alone? Do you still tell them to love her mother after ripping the family apart ?!

[@manuelmarinho3733]

How to deal when my spouse is always out doing things she thinks is good for her self ? Also I understand that I had neglected her for so many years and is that how she is feeling about what I had did to her for so many years?

[@kar3n35]

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[@MarriageHelper]

We actually have multiple videos covering this subject. Please watch this video! We hope you find it helpful. kzbin.info/www/bejne/roa7fnSMnKiHpa8

[@kmm0931]

What's the best thing for kids when the Wayward spouse wants them to be around the affair partner? I set a boundary that he needs to not have her around them, but he's throwing a fit.

[@kmm0931]

@@beccaghosein7024 it's hard. They have lost all moral compass that they used to have, and I feel like the boundary has to be in place to show my daughter that right is right.

[@ociceman07]

Same boat i put my children in therapy.

[@marissarequimin4270]

how did you approached your ex husband doing that. My son has been traumatized with us because my husband cheated with me many times and my son knows that we left because of the same woman on sept.17,2021 and left him for good on Nov.27,2023. Thank you.

[@olivergrano9765]

I'm going through this and it is very painful.

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[@isaiahfloyd3009]

My child about to have a step daddy for real there's the change in my life.

[@103thecraig]

Well my wife left the place in October and we agreed that I'd have our children on my days off. But my wife stopped this in November after making some story up. And now only allows me to see the children with supervision from her family members. With no evidence of any wrong doing

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[@christinemcwaters5186]

I have gotten separated recently because my spouse has unresolved psychological traumas and he's not aware that he does. He has trust issues, anxiety, control issues and ptsd. How can I help him realize theses problems exist? He thinks the way he acts is normal but it's way off. Any suggestions on how to help him regain control for his life and happiness? Any idea on how to help him trust when the problem of distrust was established way before I came into the picture?

[@MrSedro22]

Christine McWaters speaking as the guy who was this person in the relationship, it is pretty hard to change if you don’t recognize the need within yourself. Until he understands the need and is willing to do the work necessary to heal himself there might not be a whole lot you can do other than take care of yourself and be as supportive as you can while still establishing strong and healthy boundaries. My separation started me down the path but really accepting that I needed help was the real start of my recovery.

[@nikstar1313]

Run and keep strong :(

[@jesusisking8471]

My wife has the same problem.. be the anchor. Realize it’s not an attack on you. Heal whatever pain it has caused you. Keep loving that person. They will wake up

[@CalebKearby]

Thank you for this video

[@lfranc923]

Not what to do when my spouse won't talk to me at all. We have a teen son who needs mentorship and discipline as he navigates adolescence.

[@davidamateisi7681]

it is so difficult being seperated and not getting any child support from your spouse, he has no time to see the child or pay any money for the child and going to court is also a mission cause they are unable to track him down or get him to appear in court for mediation/agreement on how much he needs to pay every month

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[@gebremeskelberhane8062]

Hi thank you for sharing this video. I have question please. I’m married have two children .I need to separate .so can I just left my family with out doing agreement cuz my spouse doesn’t like do an agreement.we still have everything join . Can you advice me how to start ? Thank you

[@salemthorup9536]

Where do we find the science on how separation affects kids? I ask because the men of the family want to talk to my husband about his choice to be separated. I didn't ask them to. I can respect his desire for space. But they are praying about how to talk to him and if they feel they can get to him on the issue, they'd like to have information that will back up what they are saying. I just want to point them in direction. I don't think I've told my husband that separation can hurt the kids.

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[@LWANGAFRED]

Am having atoxic woman but seeking for aseparation and we're having two sons bt not legally married.What to do?

[@pekeyor1]

Could you guys make a video about re-integration to civilian world and family after leaving military? Is hard to tell if my husband has PTSD or depression or something deeper and would love some guidance

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What if your already feeling angry, sad, hopeless before splitting and this is why you want to flee the relationship. Because you don’t want that example for your kids ❤️‍🩹 Interested in hearing the rest of the video

[@thedogmaatemyhomework7760]

what do I say to my kids when I don't want a divorce and her their mother is romantically entwined Witt someone else? i want them to know I'm standing for tye marriage and still respect her

[@michaelallanscottharrison8679]

If your spouse is in an affair would it be worth or wise trying to get them to go to the weekend workshop?

[@MarriageHelper]

Out of the couples that attend our workshop, a large majority are still in a relationship with their affair partner. The workshop helps to bring clarity to the relationship and help you understand yourself, your spouse and decide whether or not reconciliation is something you want to pursue. We hope to save your marriage, but I strongly advise you call one of our Client Reps who can talk you through this situation before asking your spouse to attend. It can be seen as a PUSH behavior if you ask it in the wrong way. Please call our office to get guidance on this. Office Phone Number is 1 - 866 - 903 - 0990

[@ociceman07]

I always ask how are they doing they always nothing wrong but i know something wrong i think am being prenatal alienation.

[@thomasdowner6692]

I'm not getting to see my daughter much. 3times in 5weeks

[@edwinmuhanji1832]

Hi,am a victim of the circumstances,my wife separated me due to long distance relationship ,am getting it hard to reach out to my kids,I support them but she feels isn't enough , what am I gonna do to save the marriage.

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I want to save the marriage She left and She won't talk to me period. She won't let me see them or tell me anything about the kids period even had court date for custody without telling me where

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[@debieshafoster7567]

I married to my husband for two years and a half no we are separated and he leaves the house we one child and he is not supporting me with any of the bills at home I am not working at this time and he leaves me with all these bills and he's not giving me any support what must I do

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[@ociceman07]

What if the mom tested positive for covid 19 and the mom has them? Riddle me that.

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How much is the support?

[@tky2289]

What do you do when there’s a child born outside the marriage when separated?

[@euniceblanco1549]

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[@joeousley7748]

If you separate while married with children, you're a bad person. It's selfish, it's destructive, and just wrong. Be adults and work it out. Your kids won't be there for you when older, because you weren't there for them when they were younger. Work it out. Don't be a trash person.

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[@shilaghbrowne2167]

I don’t want my kids around this woman that has broken up my family

[@lorijm28]

How do I tell them i filed for divorce? Ages 17, 15, 12 all boys

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[@taramarks-ql4bo]

I just don't no what foundries to put in place to stay friends and keep things good . I also still like him so it's hard for us to do the rite thing

[@maksimilic2901]

My wife filed a restraining order on herself and the children. What do I do?

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[@shinluvjaman]

But what if she's a walkaway wife... all she has is the fact she gave birth to them

[@vicko7476]

my wife is dictating when it comes to the children

[@babc4323]

Honestly, so is mine. The day's conversation started with "100 percent done, leave me alone" to now we are meeting at the park this Sunday afternoon. the threat of divorce is something that comes up often but hasn't happened yet. Just try and present yourself as keeping it together, keep any anger in check (my issue) be giving and flexible, communicate wanting to know things from her perspective, always have something to talk about if you mention the kids and a small thing I found helps. End each conversation with a question. That way, they see it and have to continue the (hopefully positive) flow of conversation. Never give up.

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