"What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart."

[@amosed9210]

"Love is not something you fall into, it's something you grow into" You preachin pastor!!

[@fdoctor79]

+Alexis Moses Okay! Love that!!!

[@omid580]

I've been studying what to do when your marriage is falling apart and discovered a great resource at Secret Fixer Blueprint (google it if you're interested)

[@jmsr8640]

I have spent months investigating improving your partnership and discovered a fantastic website at Pavs partner pundit (look it up on google)

[@fdoctor79]

"Love is not what you fall into, but what you grow into." Powerful!!!!

[@SheFixedHerEyes]

love seeing married couples in ministry together. #beautiful.

[@ayodari_style]

Yes, I agree when you have marriage problems, don't talk about it with your family! They mean well for you all but when the rough points are over they will still remember what you or your spouse did in the back of their head!

[@FitfoodieLe]

going on 9 yrs of marriage and this blessed me! transparency is inspiring...perfection is not. thank you both👍

[@FamilyAffair2012]

Sooooooo true I LOVE that "transparency is inspiring...perfection is not" 💞

[@blkpopeye]

Christian? Like a ball bouncing on the mike..I'm listening with a blutooth.

[@blkpopeye]

There is some kind of interference that is is going bonk bonk

[@emioduntan]

You guys are blessed! Your home is blessed! The enemy comes only to steal, kill and destroy. It is never about the other person. Keep Christ as the Center of your Union and watch God continue to use you for great and mighty things. Thanks for impacting lives ❤️

[@TiaTeaire]

You are seriously awesome. I was literally just arguing with hubs and this popped up in my notifications as a new video and when I got off the phone with him I prayed about it and came and watched this video. The Holy Spirit answered my questions through u. Thank you for always being led and a blessing. Continued blessings to you both in your marriage!

[@kendalshakell1848]

I just thank God for this , me and my husband has been arguing soooo much lately .. we have been fighting so much , and I decided today I was gonna get a divorce.. but this came at the right time ! Thank you so much , I will fight for my marriage ...

[@KellyNicoleMUA]

Thanks for sharing! 💕 I was watching Silent war with holding on to your past and my Kindle froze while I was getting ready for church as I was watching. I decided to let it do what it does. I assumed my internet switched off. Instead of the video continuing to play, your videos from the marriage conference started playing. I immediately started to laugh because I intentionally tried not to watch those videos because I'm not married or courting, just enjoying my singleness. I decided to watch them all because I felt I needed to watch them. I'm grateful that I did. Great nuggets and tools for those of us who are still waiting and in focused mode while being single. God bless!

[@KellyNicoleMUA]

Happy my "random blabber" helped a bit LOL. I'm assuming others felt the same way I did, considering the thumbs up. But definitely watch them (when you're ready), great tools to keep in mind once you're married.

[@infaith83]

I just came across this video. Thank you for your transparency. Today is a hard day in my 3 year marriage. My flesh wants to just run away but my spirit isn't giving up.

[@sivebaartman9001]

Wow! So inspiring. I love how Cornelius understands that he must protect his pride. I haven't seen a marriage where the husband understands that. I've seen that most men just disappear. So inspiring to see that men like that actually exist.

[@kjack3211]

Aww I love videos like this! I like how his face lit up when Heather said "my baby's hungry" So sweet and caring. Beautiful couple

[@MsMuffin2008]

gosh, this was an Awesome Video!!!! I really appreciate the honesty of you guys being so transparent, because so many folks aren't. I feel like it's when people have honesty and transparency like this that we experience "iron sharpening iron" (Proverbs 27:17). Love you guys! ❤💗❤

[@dnae_islander5614]

Wow! This is beautiful. I'm not married, yet I am learning so much. I love the part where you mentioned about looking at your husband as Christ! What a difference it makes when our perspective changes. Christ is the center truly.

[@dnae_islander5614]

And that lion analogy was on point!

[@HisandHerMoney]

Great video! I love how transparent you both are. This message is going to bless so many. Thanks for sharing. -Tai

[@aleksandarjoe4290]

hey ,if anyone else trying to find out help for troubled marriage try Nadazma Repair Partner Helper (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.

[@nflalphamale3094]

I Pray That It Bless mines

[@karenjohnson4814]

I watched this video with my husband and it definitely gave comfort in knowing we weren't alone in the things we have dealt with in the past as well. thank you for sharing your story and you guys should do more videos together! 😊

Body language speaks volume. You guys stayed connected the entire conversation

[@CulturaPA]

This message was such a blessing. I thank God for your ministry and will continue to pray for the marriages and relationships of myself and others. Your honesty and transparency is so very helpful and I thank you for your desire to enhance the relationships and marriages of others through your word. God Bless you both.🙏🏽

[@ashleyashley792]

God bless you’ll. I feel like I was listening to you’ll describe my marriage regarding growing with each other. Deciding together on staying married is everything. Paired with learning each other and the tools to effectively communicate. God bless you’ll.

[@lizgonzalez4471]

I love seeing married couples in ministry together and to be so open and transparent about their journey in marriage. God bless all you couples who are going through a hard season currently. There is hope. God restores marriages

[@theufuoma]

You both are amazing and oh so beautiful! Thanks for being so honest and I pray God continues to strengthen your marriage! You are blessings! Yes to more videos together!!!

[@sonoshock]

thank you for being so open and transparent with your life

[@RhealovesGod]

This is so profound! Going on 8 years of marriage and I can relate to all of this. Thank you both for this testimony. 🙏🏽

[@larisacleaves9835]

Yes, Amen to all of this. Thank you for being so honest and transparent.This is Exactly what was going on with me and as soon as i made that decision and as soon as i started to submit it was amazing my relationship with Jesus has grown so much bigger and closer and deeper. I see the change in my husbands heart and mine. During the time we was using that D word i found your blog again and truly told myself i gotta surrender myself, etc and the Holy Spirit went to work. I have fully changed everything my mind set; once i surrendered my heart to Christ. Even though my whole life being christian and raised christian i never learned the true meaning and value, and relationship part of it, and know i truly have through marriage ( now apart of my testimony ) now its like i constantly surrender myself, submit, worship, praise, study and read. Thanks so much, me and my husband & I learned so much at the GO marriage retreat this year. : ) Blessings to you both and your family

[@iTSJAYBABii]

Such a blessing to hear! I appreciate you two for making this video.

[@shayrenae3829]

Im not ready for marriage because im not spiritually mature.

[@ChinyereVictorious]

I love this video. I'm a newly wed and I got good points from this video.

[@ashleygilliard8951]

Congrats

[@ChinyereVictorious]

Thank you ladies :)

[@claresa7858]

+Forever Chi-Chi Oh My Goodness! Congrats. I follow your youtube channel. You inspired me to work out. :)

[@ChinyereVictorious]

Awww thank you Resa V. :)

[@SermonsSubtitled]

You're so cute and lovely together! It's so heart warming and encouraging to see you together! Thank you SO much for being so transparent! I pray that God blesses your union and makes it grow stronger and stronger each day!!

[@taedavis4657]

I like the way you put it...And I do believe that people should stop pretending things are perfect. Because if we are raised thinking even just one marriage is perfect, that is what we want and expect.

[@jenneyryan1083]

So proud of you two for putting God's love into your marriage and coming into the light.

[@brickdavidofficial6961]

You guys testimony is powerful and very encouraging! God bless you both! Thank you thank you thank you.

[@MyYoutube101GGG]

hi heather thank you soo much for this video was a blessing been married 6years now had our first baby last year its been challenging the past few months but God is helping us i was told before children change everything in mariage, but now we are realising we really have to be intentional with the time we spend together God bless guys, :-)

[@LearnEnglishESL]

Wow! Marriage can be a difficult. A good quote I read for these times is this: "Marriage, like all our other relationships in life, is a process which, among other things, serves to grind the sharp edges off us. The grinding often hurts, the adjustment to another person’s character is difficult at first, that is why love is needed here more than in any other relationship. Love, being essentially a divine force, binds; it leaps like a spark the gap between people’s thoughts and conflicting desires, between perhaps widely different temperaments. It heals the wounds we all inflict on each other whether inadvertently or in moments of rage, jealousy or spite..." - Ruhiyyih Rabbani, Prescription for Living, Baha'i Author

[@mariofortuin1055]

awesome... may God continue to use u helping other marriages work...The enemy is out there to destroy homes....so keep on doing what u guys are doing...I was truly blessed.

[@ReginaColeyATL]

Thanks for sharing this! Great tips and were certainly in need on spiritual marriage mentors. Hope you all have another Marriage Retreat this year.

[@marjorielouissaint4886]

Keep it real!!! people think just because you are a believer you have a perfect marriage....12 years on this journey and it is all GOD!!!

[@richardevans9225]

Your words were really inspiring. Loved it! I soaked it all in and I’m gonna utilize it in my life and in my marriage. But right now, I feel like I’ve messed things up soo bad they are beyond repair. I hope that things get better for me and my wife. Thank you!

[@simoiyahector-morales3781]

Saw this is in my notifications and I needed this as my marriage is on the rocks so too speak. Thanks for the advice and encouragement

[@Clarinda1963]

awesome, hope you do more together. God bless. .

[@sandyi8260]

Thanks so much for this. My marriage really needed this. God bless u guys!

[@patriciasmart1329]

Good morning Mrs. Mina thank you for taking time to bless me with your words of encouragement and wisdom. I know that God is with me and he loves me now it is time for me to forgive and love myself. Sometimes I wonder if God is listening to my cries and prayer I get so frustrated because I love Jesus and I refuse to step out of his will I want and need the Lord my aim in life is to please him and obey his statues as I am typing tears are flowing out of my eyes because I know that Weeping my endure for the night, but joy cometh in the morning Hallelujah he is worthy to be praised. Thank you Jesus for sending Mrs. Mina to encourage me because I felt alone I felt like no one was there to listen to me thank you for that ram in the bush. Mrs. Mina May God continue to bless you and your family more abundantly and cover you in his precious blood. Have a bless weekend and enjoy your Christmas God Bless.

[@madison_redfx]

thank you so so so much for sharing. I really needed to hear that my situation isn't abnormal.

[@Sotina.]

So true. So real. My husband and I loved it. All couples deal with similar things. It's great to see a coupe like yourself opening up and keeping it 💯! I loved "hourly". It's work but worth it! God bless!

[@nikkigoree5883]

I just love you Heather :) Your family is indeed blessed

[@iwamambo86]

please do more videos together! love them

[@valeriepayton2534]

This was awesome! Please do more videos together!!!

[@lisandrabrown221]

I watched this some time ago just for the sake of it. Watching it now, going through what we're going through....Whew!! I feel like you are looking into and speaking about our lives.

[@lovefromdrey]

Yes Heather your hubby is a natural born preacher, the leadership skills are so evident. Great video very insightful, lol I'm quite not ready for marriage.

[@chimdisharon]

LoveFromDrey lol, its two years later, do you think you're ready now. I love how you knew you were not ready, its rare

[@deaitrajones7]

Amazing teachings.. You two have a realistic genuine love... May God continue to bless your unity...

[@Essie914]

praise God for your testimony! "flesh definitely need to be in subjection" by the mercies of God...love the convo as a single lady, it's really helpful as well

[@me2cute2c]

Still a much needed relevant video, bless you Lindsey's!

[@regynamedley5387]

Thanks for sharing. Shout out to "Mama Lindsey"!!!

[@Cynister262]

Wow you guys are a Joy to watch and listen to. I love the transparency and the way you both look at each other is truly beautiful.

[@nflalphamale3094]

This is so amazing....I sent this to my wife and I pray that it have some type of impact on her but this has taught me alot by listening to you all mainly him so thank you for this...

[@HeidiG11]

I'm glad this video came up it was so edifying. Thank you for all tips I will try this with my husband. 👏 👏 👏 👏 💕

[@mzznunu45]

oh my God ... God has his way of getting to us .. I scroll through and I see this post and it's so me and my husband and I felt just like you did right now wow... thanks so much from sharing this amen!!!!!!

[@ashleygilliard8951]

We definitely will be at this marriage retreat!

[@DesiLu4Life]

I love when men can be transparent!! Help us!!

[@SeekingGodwithallmyheart]

Love the trueness in this video. God will bless you for be opened about your problems and God will bless others marriages through you. Xx

[@loveEliAfua]

This was awesome, even as a single person! thanks for sharing

[@sharasimmons]

This video was great but the video on your hubby's end with the two of you is excellent!!!! So transparent and real. Thank you so much for both videos : x

[@sunshine9717]

I've never watched any of your videos before. I typed in what do you do when your marriage is falling apart. I have been a lonely wife as if I'm married to myself. Yet I have a husband at home. Even as I record this message. My heart aches. But I want to say everything that you two are sharing you are on point and I'll Iliff you're marriage up in prayer. Keep sharing and I know a few people I can share this video with God bless you and I will be tuning in to your station thank you

[@diamondtaylor4283]

Man ppl need this so bad ! Because ppl ruin good things over rough spots ... we don’t know what’s healthy... n the ppl wit the lasting relationships won’t open up they project this perfect relationship n when u can’t add up to the perfection u think it’s wrong! U ready to quit 🤧 it’s been so hard coming from generations of broken homes n to try for normal n not know what it it!

[@Lmdub4life]

love it! thanks for being transparent! I agree that transparency is what our faith walk requires so that we can get true freedom! very encouraging :-) I believe God let y'all work it out on such an intense level before you had the platform so there was less outside pressure and more opportunity to work it out personally. and I believe the same is true with me as a single woman. there are so many gifts in me and God is working out the insecurities so I gain the surety to stand no matter what when He gives me the platform to lift up His name more publicly. God bless you and your marriage! :-D

[@yasminbagley8826]

Love this ! It's nice to know that other people go through challenges as well in their marriage and they over come it :).

[@sheenatalks8529]

I cannot thank you enough for making this video. Thank you times a million. You've given me hope that I can make it through this difficult time ❤️ God bless you

[@lisascurlock3463]

Awww you guys are inspirational... I hope The Most High blesses me with a marriage like this one day and thank u for Always keeping it real!

[@joyinprogress]

Definitely enjoyed this video. I'm in a courtship and we are leaning towards engagement within the year and a half. so many point you both brought up that I agree with. Thanks for posting! Be blessed Heather and Cornelius!

[@tanianino4852]

wow THANKS YOU LORD MY GOD for this marriage it is a precious BLESSING , thanks guys i can totally relate to you guys we are actually going through hardships with my husband its gotten pretty difficult , GOD IS SPEAKING TO ME THROUGH THIS VIDEO SUCH A BLESSING AMEN

[@taeme_mp4]

Please do a video about rejection, abandonment & getting over someone!

[@MizzMalcolm17]

The way you two look at each other... :)

[@frugallyfierce]

Thank you guys for being so transparent!

[@destinynash135]

God Bless you two and your covenant!

[@chachababy88]

I absolutely loved this video! It spoke to me so much! I'm trying to get my husband on board with going to the gathering oasis marriage retreat. 2 kids, both work full time, but I'm gonna make it happen.

[@mysticbluelight5872]

This has been happening to me like u I am the younger one. Had all the same symptoms. May god protect us all 🙏

[@RosieRoseTV]

Thanks for this message ,my marriage is currently rocky

[@ShanicaJ]

Awww awesome word together...keep them coming very encouraging. So sweet how he looks at you lol God bless you both !!

[@bridelamb2000]

You guys are special! Praise God🙏

[@voyeurtube510]

Marriage is powerful!!!

[@angeljosephs30]

I’ve learned sooo much from this it has really resonated with my spirit I am tryna be a better wife and it’s definitely a struggle but I want to not lose my husband

[@InspiredUno]

Awesome!!! Love y'all!!! God bless you both as individuals and as a union!!!💕💕💕

[@nevergoin28]

This is so transparent, God bless you guys! Love it!

[@chaunceywoodfork680]

Very helpful I need to hear this .

[@ThePeAcHyK]

Thank you both!

[@FlyWon]

Thanks for your transparency

[@RichardJones-xx3vi]

Thanks I hope this helps out my parents

[@shaniseify]

loved it!!! Thanks for your realness!! You always keep it 100!!!

[@mrmrs.dugais4853]

Just found your channel! I love you two already! Thank you for the advice and being transparent!

[@latishamcgruder1160]

Watched & Cried!

[@ItsOhKay]

OMG!!!! i have been waiting on this type of video from you guys! im excited to watch this. I cant wait until i get off work

[@danagardner3102]

Feeling yall

[@jackielinesmith3551]

this is great, but my situation seems hopeless. you have one person wanting to fight and the other not willing and making steps to leave.

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Jackieline Smith Mine too , on BTGM Better Together Movement this couple got a divorce and were apart for 3 years and God brought them back together. I too am praying for myself and my husband we are separated in different states, but I still feel like its something there. My husband has filed but he still did not cut off contact with me and that is hope. God is in control , let's stay encouraged together ! #teammarriagerestoration

[@ThePeAcHyK]

thank you both for your honesty!

[@St.Irenaeus]

I needed this.. thank you both 😥

[@melanienorman8981]

Such a powerful video! God bless you!!!!

[@nicoleahmad9631]

Oh my goodness thank you for this Heather..this is so powerful. ❤️

[@crystalanderson9946]

What if the husband isn't doing CHRIST like commitments? or making an initiative to be the man of God and the husband?

[@HeatherLLove]

+Crystal Anderson my husband is actually uploading a response to your question! :) Check out his channel - Cornelius Lindsey for the upload tonight!

[@crystalanderson9946]

Heather Lindsey I will most definitely check out his response. Love your channel. Be blessed.

[@Capricornunicorn1]

+Crystal Anderson I'm in the same boat. I am glad you asked.

[@crystalanderson9946]

+Heather Lindsey I just watched the other part on your husband page. Great response.

[@MEMIKKI818]

+Crystal Anderson can you tell me the link to that page for the response please, I couldn't find it. :-( Thank you!

[@LovelyMocha12]

Thank you for posting this!

[@linabingbing3881]

I've gone through great betrayl in my marriage. great.wouldnt make a video about it because it was baddd.so....I've gone through the process of healing with that.and I left one time bc the psychological abuse was so bad.it was there from the beginning but I couldn't take it anymore. he got saved and filled with Holy Ghost and is changed yet I still see old behaviors of course..everyone's process is different and St different levels.theres remorse for outbursts and disrespect more than before.but because of what I went through I find myself more defnesive...more protecting and less surrendered in what I will put up with.its like a light bulb moment happened months back.but Now God is assuring me things have changed and will continue to. I believe that in my spirit and know he'll do it.i have a hard time letting go of hurts because there still recent and right before his salvation.yes hrs a new creation.i get that to an extent.yet I have a hard time knowing when to take it for christ and when to have boundaries and stand up for self respect l. I'm learning boundaries and it's beautiful.and it's teaching him that I'm different.im more confident and respect myself now.i just wanna let go of all hurts and believe that betrayl is truly over and the process of deliverance for his anger rage etc is still at work.i see it.im just wavery at times.

[@catriniasmith8009]

Very helpful and transparent.