Thankyou for this video. I am going inpatient tommorow. So I needed this.
@Michelle77Va5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@mvslimes55134 жыл бұрын
Same sos
@selflove-vs-selfhate3 жыл бұрын
I hope you all are well. You deserve to have a full life.
@ghale946 жыл бұрын
I am a guy seeking inpatient help. thank you for this video. when you answered the weight restoration question it brought tears to my eyes because hearing her say that her brain could finally function again and she can think clearly and she had energy....that is my dream. I have just felt so hopeless and many days would rather give up. thank you for the hope.
@irenedavo37682 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@gretayoung22567 жыл бұрын
i don't know if anyone will see this but I'm currently relapsing and i feel like i need inpatient. I haven't lost that much weight tho. It just sucks because i want to get better but I'm not bad enough to get better. :(
@kaelynnmercier6286 жыл бұрын
greta young same... I hope you are better now ❤️
@TropicOfGemini6 жыл бұрын
greta young virtually everyone with an ED feels like they’re “not sick enough” for treatment. ED’s are mental illnesses, not physical illnesses ya know? ANY amount of restricting food, binging, purging, over exercising, diet pills/laxatives, or any other ED behavior means YOU ARE SICK ENOUGH FOR TREATMENT. i hope you got the help you need :)
@Ava-hu4gc5 жыл бұрын
I know this is late but I am in the same boat rn and you ARE bad enough to get help if it bothers you and you’re noticing it. Which you are because you commented this. You may not even have to go to full inpatient, but just more therapy.
@selflove-vs-selfhate3 жыл бұрын
@greta young and everyone here - how are you guys doing? I hope everyone is happy and healthy.
@sofiamartinez97978 жыл бұрын
I'm going to impatient for the first time soon and I'm super nervous. I don't want to leave my theatre program or dance behind and I don't want to have to drop out of school or get too far behind. Any way, thanks for making this!
@rempanda8 жыл бұрын
good luck! I wish you all the best. Try to fully embrace and enjoy the good moments, and don't feel guilty if you struggle with certain things or relapse in any way
@pmin99557 жыл бұрын
Sofia Mendiola Martinez do you mind me asking what for?
@ashleybeck10424 жыл бұрын
I’m also going into impatient and I’m Really nervous because know I can’t play sports and I’m scared what people back home will say. I definitely can understand your nerves
@irenedavo37682 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@irenedavo37682 жыл бұрын
@@ashleybeck1042 hope you are doing well!
@blakedawson9445 жыл бұрын
As a celiac watching this I highly appreciate that you mentioned it!
@thatcrazydaisey34374 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Rebeccachazzy6 жыл бұрын
I'm about to do inpatient and I really needed this video. I'm afraid of losing my current job since I have to take so much time off and when you said its hard to take a break from life that is so true
@jayroman3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to residential next week and I’m so scared, but this made me feel better. Thank you.
@Whisper888888887 жыл бұрын
I'm terrified of inpatient treatment. The first time I was forced to go when I was very young and it was horrendously traumatic and is mainly what has stopped me from getting help now that I'm older. Now I'm at that point where I'm really wanting to recover' going willfully to inpatient is something that I promised myself I'd never do. Now I'm just at a loss..... I don't know what to do :'(
@Taureanfitness5 жыл бұрын
experiences. last painful negative on based terrified still but now help want I months. few last the in twice ICU to admitted was bad struggling now older I'm me. traumatized experiences bad forced Younger same. the feel I relate! completely I
@irenedavo37682 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@princesspatty19836 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this! I am hoping my time going in-patient goes well. I am so terrified...
@carpertomscratchcards4 жыл бұрын
my parents dont evan know what im goign through mentally and phisically they just say stop attention seeking but i know that im not and would sometimes like themto be supportive of who i am and know what im goign through so makes it worse for me
@lillianmoffatt26687 жыл бұрын
Make a video about outpatient please! You girls are so awesome!
@brenorton7114 жыл бұрын
hey this video just popped up on my feed i am going to residential Tuesday and this video helped so much(:
@lamya15138 жыл бұрын
thats answered a lot of my questions, thanks xx
@LydiasFight8 жыл бұрын
so happy to hear that :)
@squeakymcsqueakerson65003 жыл бұрын
I'm going to my first residential treatment center in a few weeks and this video was super helpful, thank you!
@ashleytuttle97247 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure when I'm going none of my family knows I don't eat soooo...
@ellamaeturknett48633 жыл бұрын
@Casey Strauss i only eat lunch,sometimes nothing, or once i start eating i cant stop
@creature_skin6 жыл бұрын
Outpatient treatment was hellish for me and didn't help me at all. IP sounds like a living nightmare, there is nothing that terrifies me more. Uuuuurghhhhhhhhhhh.
@janellephoenix43784 жыл бұрын
I also went for a month and then signed myself out in a hurry. They only focused on food and body image but not anything deeper than that. If you have serious trauma, CPTSD, or other mental health issues you aren't going to get any help for those core problems. Those are issues I struggle with primarily and my ED is on the side. (So to speak.) I felt that I got what I could out of the experience but I need help for the rest. So treatment at the facility was superficial help in my opinion nothing more than that.
@waldmann77775 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving me hope❤️
@olivias25606 жыл бұрын
I was in an inpatient medical hospital a few weeks ago for low vital signs. I was in outpatient for a few weeks but there deciding to send me to a mental facility so I can weight restored and then a residential home. I can’t go to school for the rest of the year so do you have to have assignments sent to me. Does anyone have any advice on getting school work done and being recovery focused, and dealing with being away from friends?
@ameliaxgarland6 жыл бұрын
What if you have many food intolerances? I can't eat suger, starch, or milk.
@meganfitz83696 жыл бұрын
I have 5 days until my next outpatient session to show any progress with my weight or ill get sent to a residential. Teaching myself how to eat again is terrifying and so incredibly hard, but i so desperately dont want to go to inpatient. Im scared im not thin enough to go...but all ive been doing is dropping and dropping.
@happyland101236 жыл бұрын
I don't know how to talk or ask about me going into an inpatient facility (something i truly know i need) to my doctor, nutritionist, and my therapist. Its just really hard. And aslo they might not agree with me.
@dumbmusorowan7 жыл бұрын
is it bad that I kind of want to go to some sort of residential centre? not so much for my eating problems (they're pretty mild) but more to just have a break from life? to reset? I've been on edge since last year, I attempted suicide multiple times and I'm still struggling. I just want to stop self harming, stop wanting to die and stop hating myself. but my counsellor thinks I'm getting better but I really don't feel like I am. sorry for the rant, can anyone relate?
@carolynh85106 жыл бұрын
I understand, I was in a psychiatric hospital for a week after I tried to overdose last September. It was helpful in that it gave me a break from life and I started taking medicine for my depression and anxiety. If you need a break, it might help you.
@isobelpalk56425 жыл бұрын
It isn’t bad at all, you should ask for more help 💕
@notyourbusiness72397 жыл бұрын
If I'm already at "normal weight" will I still need to be weight restored? If they feed me a lot will I end up getting overweight ? I go to the first appointment/treatment (idk which I am doing because my mother won't tell me) tomorrow and I'm scared that if I go to treatment I'll end up being overweight and the thought makes me sob. I'm fat but I've made myself go down to a normal weight for my bmi so idk what's gonna happen if they make me eat.
@laurenwood27027 жыл бұрын
Alexia Figueroa you'll have to be nutrient restored which may or may not mean weight gain. If you have vitamin deficiencies or dehydration, you'll have to get those back up to speed. Best of luck, dear!
@notyourbusiness72397 жыл бұрын
Lauren Cunningham Thank you! I leave in a few hours for treatment. I'm so nervous.
@iluvdogsandcats1007 жыл бұрын
same
@jvthegreat44976 жыл бұрын
Alexia Figueroa how did it go?
@rueg67756 жыл бұрын
I have the same question. Please tell me what happened! That is the reason I haven’t talked to a doctor yet because I feel like either I will have to gain weight, or they will not do anything at all. I am 103 when underweight is under 100for my height. (5’ 1”) PLEASE REPLY
@angieisrelatable18397 жыл бұрын
were y'all in an adult one or adolescent
@ele1bubu8 жыл бұрын
Lydia you talk about weight restoration and I have some questions about that! I have been eating enough for the past 2 months i think and ive gained like 2 kilos and im trying to gain more! Lately ive been making a progress and i have to say that your videos helped me the most in the last one month (ive been incorporating fear foods into my diet and foods i really love , like milk and cereal before bed,yum!) So with the weight i am now i still feel tired a lot of the time and sleepy and i still have a bad temper sometimes.Does that mean Im not weight restored? How will I know that my body is weight restored? I just wanna feel more energetic and happy and not be so dull sometimes. I have also lost my period and its been more than 9 months since my last one. Can you talk more about weight restoration and give us information about that? I believe that it would motivate a lot of people struggling with an eating disorder! Thank you
@LydiasFight8 жыл бұрын
Hey! I can definitely make a video about it, obviously I'm not a dietician or professional but I can talk about my experience/tips/what to expect etc. It's difficult to know if you're weight restored or not just from what you've said, I would definitely recommend talking to your doctor or another medical professional if you can to get their input. Since you haven't gotten your period back and still feel tired and sluggish it sounds like you may not be, but i'm not in a place to decide that or not. I'm so proud of you for how hard you've been working, though! that's really amazing, I'm here cheering for you!!
@ele1bubu8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Lydia. Although I've watched a lot of videos on eating disorders your channel has helped me the most! Please make a video on weight restoration I would be really interested on that!
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@maevecostello7104 жыл бұрын
I am about to go into residential treatment, it's not the same as inpatient since it'll be in a house for 30-45 days, but I am watching what I can to prepare
@ingestrauss38264 жыл бұрын
I'm first year in college. Is it hard to stay up to date with school while inpatient?
@raydoescode3 жыл бұрын
Yup I had to drop out
@jinran1138 жыл бұрын
Lydia, why I found it is so hard to concentrate. I am preparing an exam and I can't focus. what can I do?
@rempanda8 жыл бұрын
If you've been restricting, you're finding it hard to concentrate because your brain is nutrient starved. You need to be getting enough calories and vitamins etc for your brain to fully function. I have the same issue with studying. I hope the exam went/goes well
@Taureanfitness5 жыл бұрын
Hey pretty good video so glad u made a friend & are doing welll! What residential program did u go to? Just curious
@fangirl36 жыл бұрын
How much does it cost to go to a treatment place/inpatient?
@weethetniet94276 жыл бұрын
I believe that (in some countries) your insurance pays a big part of it (depending on which insurance you have)
@happyland101236 жыл бұрын
I know that its something i NEED in order to get better, or else i am just going to get worse and worse
@cocobarrett68336 жыл бұрын
my mums about to force me into a second impatient
@dumbfuck16455 жыл бұрын
Difference between residential and inpatient?
@bella-mccord5 жыл бұрын
i have been muliple inpatient places, and only one allowed exercise and it was ONLY allowed with a group. it was a 20 minute walk and if you dropped even .01 pounds, you lost the privilege. Just wanted to say this as not every place allows exercise :) also unfortunately, it looks like i'm going back inpatient again soon...
@judypsa1336 Жыл бұрын
I could NEVER do this. So, I guess the key word is want. Been anamia for 50 of my 60 yrs. No one - & I mean NO ONE - can force me to eat breakfast or any 'treat' at any time. Unimaginable! Good luck to you all though.
@ababy60745 жыл бұрын
For AN recovery inpatient, how much weight is expected to gain per week and is the BMI target for leaving inpatient 17 or 17.5 or 18.5 or 20?
@Hannah-on3wj5 жыл бұрын
It depends, a 18.5 is Considered medically stable power mode I’ve been to both inpatient and residential treatment LOL so I know
@cassiecollis61708 жыл бұрын
two beautiful ladies I love!! :)
@LydiasFight8 жыл бұрын
love you Cassie!!
@VMPR_S_HR3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to inpatient tomorrow and and I'm terrified
@jul621876 жыл бұрын
which 2 places have you been?
@carpertomscratchcards4 жыл бұрын
do they make u eat , are u aloud to smoke im 20 6ft 116lb bmi 15 when i ws last checked at doctors and took photo 9 days ago like 2 weeks after going to doctors and then yesterday and in 1 way im happy ive lost the weight in anoughther just taking the photos has made me more depressed any tips be greatful cus from research ive done sounds like im close to having to be sectioned which i dont want
@sehnisweet3438 жыл бұрын
Have you guys ever watched Eugenia Cooney? Is there anything we can do to help her?
@TheHopefulThoughts6 жыл бұрын
What song is playing in the background? 😍
@carpertomscratchcards4 жыл бұрын
also im vegan and was wondering do they let u stay with that cus ill kick of and refuse anything not vegan been vegan for over a yr now
@supportcircleforall5 жыл бұрын
Great video! Friend going in IP soon.
@mannarshbali42233 жыл бұрын
Heyyy!!! Myself Mannarsh. I recently started watching your videos on KZbin. Your videos were amazing and they helped me a lot to understand what basically eating disorder is. I really need your help. My best friend recently came to know that she is suffering from this. She hasn't told anyone else except me, so I am trying my best to help her but as u said in your video I can only support her I can't be her therapist. So today she said let's ignore it and I am fine and I know she is not. I am so confused about what to do now. I really need your help. I will be waiting for your reply.
@nataliem66607 жыл бұрын
do they take your phone?
@Sam-rn9di7 жыл бұрын
Every facility I know of takes your phone
@MusikGirl2310 ай бұрын
Depends where you go. I’m in Canada and was always allowed my phone just not in groups or during meals etc.
@jessicaraichlemusic5 жыл бұрын
I wish I could at least enter residential, but resources/government insurance does not cover it... Sad... Struggling with ARFID.
@Mandapanda.5 жыл бұрын
Struggling with 13 years of bulimia. I feel your pain with the lack of help. It costs an arm and a leg to get treatment
@tinkertulip35536 жыл бұрын
BUT I AM VEGAN. I’ve been vegan for 8 months. I am NOT eating eggs, meat, cheese, or fish. It’s not because of my eating disorder, it’s becuase of ethical reasons. I am going to get my diagnosis at 12:30 today Andy I’m freaking out. So I’m looking at videos.
@diedielullaby62984 жыл бұрын
My nutritionist assumed I wanted to go vegan because of the Ed I don't have in the first place and it pissed me off so much tbh. Like I find it really offensive that anytime I have a negative opinion about food they turn it around on me. Like no, I'm just a human being with opinions.
@MusikGirl2310 ай бұрын
I was vegetarian, and was forced at my home hospital program which is horrible and the ONLY one in my province to eat meat, even VEAL. But when I got funding to go out of province to a centre in the neighbouring province which was residential, I was allowed to be vegetarian, I’ve been vegetarian since 2011 and have no plans to change. If I was absolutely told I’d die if I didn’t add something, I would add small amounts of fish, but NEVER something like red meat.
@lexaprohoe13054 жыл бұрын
hey can anyone tell me about the adolescent unit for eating recovery center in denver colorado?
@Elle-zu8fi3 жыл бұрын
im going there soon and if you already went can you tell me about it?
@lexaprohoe13053 жыл бұрын
@@Elle-zu8fi yes i can!! it was my hardest treatment yet, but it’s really been worth it i think. when you get there, you’re gonna be assessed by nurses & whatnot & you’re assigned a psychiatrist, dietician, & therapist. i think all of the doctors there are pretty great. there are different phases & i think it goes all the way up to phase 4. everyone starts off on phase one but get off it as soon as possible. phase 1’s don’t really get any group therapy & it’s pretty shitty. but once you phase up, you get more groups, more movie time, outside time etc. there’s 3 meals & 3 snacks a day (with dessert every day at dinner) if you don’t complete you are required to drink boost. if you don’t complete the boost, it follows you to your next meal/snack. they tube people really fast so if you have too much following & you can’t keep up with it, you’re tubed. with covid, there’s no visiting so all i got were 15 min phone calls every night & 20 min video chats on the weekend. but as you level up you’re able to get more time. i stayed for 3 months in inpatient/residential and 1 month in php but that’s only because my insurance cut. your time length just depends on your condition. there’s soooo much more so if you have any questions, feel free to ask :)
@Elle-zu8fi3 жыл бұрын
@@lexaprohoe1305 thank you! how exactly does the admissions process work and once i’ve filled the form and done the assessment, how long after will my admissions date be?
@lexaprohoe13053 жыл бұрын
@@Elle-zu8fi it all depends on their openings. for me, it took about 3 weeks before they had a bed opening
@Elle-zu8fi3 жыл бұрын
@@lexaprohoe1305 ok cool thanks! im submitting an admissions form this weekend so good luck to me
@lisa-mt7mc3 жыл бұрын
does anyone have any experience with clementine (monte nido) ?
@irenedavo37682 жыл бұрын
Hello
@inspiredtomo97038 жыл бұрын
Can people with binge eating disorder also get help like this?
@rogerandsyd8 жыл бұрын
InspiredTomo yes! Renfrew Center does this (I was in residential treatment with people diagnosed with BED)
@jessesgirl19907 жыл бұрын
yes! I'm in the process of getting set up to receive treatment for B.E.D.
@torani36427 жыл бұрын
remuda ranch at the meadows also treats B.E.D.!!!
@torani36427 жыл бұрын
I loved it there- I was there for different reasons but I was there with patients with binge eating and they had a successful treatment
@mildo62504 жыл бұрын
Wdd
@stevenkirmes8 жыл бұрын
Help eugenia cooney.
@Blueberryintheocean5 жыл бұрын
Steven Kirmes two years later and she’s finally seeking help ❤️❤️❤️