What To Say To A Girl You Like | How To Be Your Best Self and Impress Her!

[@adamsvictor9671]

Apolonia just gave me the cheat code.I really love this.Some pick up artist will just beat around the bush and never give you specific words to use.

[@pmonk1177]

It's not about the words. It's how you say it and your vibe.

[@tgswartlane6317]

Thank you Apollonia, i made a mistake few months ago when i went full force on a girl, after realizing my mistakes, i backed off, and she's now chasing me after noticing that i'm no longer after her, i'm now acting like i don't care. For that reason she's now after me, and i'm loving it, i'm making her work to get me now, hahhahahah, love you Apollonia.

[@jl_galleza]

@Den Danske Helt hahaha 😂

[@MnvGyl]

NICE MANNNN!

[@reymarkgallinero]

Dude, this is what happened to me. I got rejected before we even get to date, because I told her I like her already. HAHA

[@rejectwokeness1314]

I'm in the same scenario, rejected by this girl of my dreams. I doubt she'll ever chase me cos she's a toughie, but I'll do anything just for her to contact me again... 😢

[@mikesaldana4164]

I wish I could download all this information and input it into my brain ... it’s hard for us shy guys 😔

[@mikecrook8434]

When talking to a woman, pretend that she has a penis instead of a vagina. You'll be amazed by the drop in your stress level.

[@mesaprime1299]

@@mikecrook8434 :0

[@dgamer2185]

@@mikecrook8434 lol 😂

[@jakethemistake19]

Gay.

[@zeldoncarpenter1046]

Bruh your not gonna die if you talk to a girl dawg. I use to be shy bro but after you start doing it you’ll feel better after it

[@gnnaal]

I’m new to your channel and have been watching your videos all day. It is chilling how you can put yourself in a man’s shoes and relate to educate. I couldn’t agree more with the mistakes we men make when trying to attract the girl of our dreams. We become inauthentic and lose the true authenticity we have. We become so bogged down on trying to “win” her over but lose sight of ourselves. Even your 4 minutes videos are enlightening and serve as a wake up call. You’re amazing. Thank you for allowing me to see all the potential I’ve always had.

[@superstar-ok6ip]

I’ve made that mistake before and I learned the hard way. To not force things with a woman. I did that one time with a girl I feel heels for. I went for the grand slam in baseball. Not taking my time to hit the pitch to reach first base. I pushed her alway. Mistakes make people better when they learn from them next time around. Making a woman laugh a lot is a powerful weapon. Through my experience it creates more affection and including flirting. Be a gentleman to any woman you meet and after you known her for a while. You can confess your feelings. And sometimes she will just tell you after having lots of conversations through time. Straight off the bat you pitching to her the baseball and letting her put her effort to hit the ball. And not going all out not giving her a chance to swing ⚾️ if you like a girl approach her period don’t look nervous or like a creep. Smile and maintain eye contact and ask her a question. If she doesn’t seem too interested in talking she’s not interested. But never be afraid to get rejected it makes you more confident and stronger. Let your motivation be that if I don’t approach her and talk to her. Some other guy will to make you go up to her and introduce yourself 💯

[@garbajful]

I've told women "I like you" plenty of times on a first date.... It's all about how you say it and the vibe you give off. It's just truth, without any expectation of her saying anything in return. It usually works well😊

[@SuperCabrito14]

You have to follow up with "and I hope you feel the same way." If she doesn't feel the same then you're wasting both of your time

[@shawnstephens6795]

Its like saying "Quitting smoking is easy I've done it a hundred times."...that statement means you really aren't committed. Saying "Telling women you like them is easy I've done it a hundred times."...your liking them has no value because there's no commitment...it's meaningless...and they probably can sense that.

[@secfeed6987]

Exactly, never rush, and don't even try. You don't need to tell her you like her, she will know.

[@patrickmeechan644]

I said almost everything that You said in this video without even seeing it before and She was absolutely amazed. She said that She needs some time and I am going to leave Her alone and let Her be. I have always liked Her and She is the sweetest Woman I have ever known. She said that We can definitely hang out and of course with my luck the virus is going around and quarantine is going on. I just never saw or heard of this page and seriously searched for a page like this because I cannot screw-up with Her. I told her that She was a 100 out’ve 10 rating and that Her ex struck gold when he was with you and he was so stupid that he didn’t even realize

[@busyrand]

This is interesting and underscores exactly why I started to model how women behave in relationships. I'm naturally expressive with a big heart, but I realized I needed to recalibrate things after my fiance rarely verbally expressed that she liked me. Yeah, it was how she was wired [reserved intellectual], but she was a very honest person and made me realize that I may have been missing something in terms of pacing things at a rate to maintain female interest. Very emotionally expensive personal lesson...

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Great awareness busyrand - Apollonia

[@Sooper_B]

Apollonia Ponti this is very very true. I am in this exact situation with a women. I had to pull back my emotions and openness somewhat to be at pace she can deal with.

[@Jaikenz37]

The only time you should tell a girl you like her is when she's begging to hear you say it. That's when you know you ve got her. Make her earn those words. And even then I wouldn't flap out say "I like you" I'd say something like "why do you think I'm around you? "Your good company!"Lol

[@nene90047R1]

Richard Cooper and you are the best on KZbin in relationships advice. amazing information that I was clueless few years back.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Rudy, Thank you for your support! Best, Apollonia

[@danhuskey2496]

I like the warm-up analogy.I've been the deer in the headlights and trying to overcome shyness.Thanks again for the pedestal emphasisis and the fact that we both want to work for something.Especially take your time and don't do the superficial compliments but the deeper heartfelt ones.Thanks again.

[@Sanderteeuwen]

Not too long ago I told a girl that I liked her and it was actually the first time I ever told a girl that I like her. She said she didn’t have the same feelings for me but for some reason our contact became better and she reached out to me more as I stopped chasing her and let her start the conversations. My hopes aren’t that high that a relationship will develop but who knows what will happen.

[@Oreocycllo]

She maybe felt bad for you

[@issaccaballero3929]

Oreocycllo just do yourself, make yourself mysterious to her and maybe she will fall ;)

[@texasrebel7754]

You've been friend zoned. Don't bother getting your hopes up.

[@acharich]

How is it now..? 👀💭

[@Python-xs2iv]

Hey bud, how's your relationship with that girl?

[@ccjailen]

Your info. Is coming from a women's point of view. It's golden! I didn't know this stuff.

[@DT-oh6gx]

I wish I could live where you live. Beautiful area that you’re filming. I love that you help guys who have no game like me. To get advice from such an attractive woman is Gold

[@James-he4cr]

Your giving genuine great advice from a woman’s perspective. This information is golden. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@johnroman4575]

Right on point again AP💯 The “warm up” is the key! Without that do NOT say anything about “like”, she’ll run.

[@DRGUANE]

Communication-a lost and overlooked skill. Express your PERSONAL experience you have with her. Hmmmm. Noted - Thank you for this one.

[@puffy_vegas7610]

Never never never tell a woman you like her before she ask you. Then only tell he the truth.

[@davekavanagh1989]

I enjoyed this video too. Reading through the comments I find many men are confused about what sounds like conflicting advice and seeming confusion in some of the women they would like to know. It reminded me of the best advice I ever got. How to talk to any woman is ask her questions. Even a mom told me she was afraid of her own teenage daughter and I said just ask her questions, anything. That worked for them and it works for me too. The most beautiful women on planet earth will answer a question. Its a good way to start a conversation and if you can think of a question for her you can talk to her.

[@go-goakins1489]

Remember the old line from a Van Halen song" well they love when you leaving , and they leave you when you stay. ..". I like your videos , appollonia! Keep up the great work 👍👏

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for your continuous support! Your comments are always so appreciated. Best, Apollonia

[@babajideoladayo4541]

You are excellent and your ideas about approaching women light up the world. Please keep up the good work

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you, I will!

[@zantigar]

I'm FAR from being successful with women, but I consider myself to be extremely keen on human psychology. And I must say you are incredibly sharp and precise about every aspect of the way people think and feel in the beginning of possible relationships. Wow you are GOOD!

[@jimwilliams4088]

Yes the warm-up is very important, because it gives people a chance to relax and feel confident with their feelings! 😃

[@kutubokamaso924]

Jim Williams for sure daddy

[@joseartist9347]

I don't know why I fall in love with you when I'm watching your videos. I put in practice all what you say in your videos. Thanks! Love ya

[@SuperMrBlaze]

Thanks Apollonia for talking about this 3 month long time period! It was very thought provoking!

[@c.1211]

Wow! That was very convincing. I'm going to try this on my sister's friend. I needed this push. Thanks👍

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you! :)

[@NisBussin]

Thank you for existing! You have helped me soo much with myself!! Side note: it's sad seeing no trees in that concrete jungle 🙁

[@elchinmammadov624]

I believe you do not need to say you like her if you already go out together for 3 months and enjoying each others company. Things will develop naturally and you will notice that you are holding each other's hands already.

[@ponyericgt350]

Enjoy all your videos Apollonia, could definitely use all of your input after being single for so long

[@treyvionganggamingtgg3973]

Apollonia i need your help

[@LaRueDuConsommateur]

What's Appolonia said it's true. No warm commitment at first eyesight.

[@gregpowell9985]

I wish I would have known this a month ago......told a girl I use to work with I had a crush on her...........results was cold shoulder status but it is what it is live and learn!

[@mindmybusiness4245]

I Swear Women are just TOO COMPLICATED For their own good

[@macvena]

Women are a challenge to be overcome...and so should you be her challenge. Make her work for your time and attention.

[@Max-fr6ny]

And you too are complicated my friend.

[@SaturnVII]

for what its worth so are you

[@ejazdowler948]

True 🤝

[@iamjanjel]

This is the reason why most relationships don't work.

[@peterhoatson]

Brilliant. Love it. Yes it's incumbent on us men to articulate what it is we truly like about this woman and why we like it . I'm getting closer to this point and hope to share my 'progress reoort' soon!

[@paulgonzalez2985]

Thank you so much!!! Where were you like 5 years ago!!! (I just started following you this year) 😜🤓 Thank you so much for all your wonderful advice. Your passion for your work with men, and our stumbling blocks in dating, is absolutely felt in all your videos. You are so appreciated. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart.

[@rich04-i9u]

Attract Quality! Period

[@anotherfool9278]

People do get in their own way but also people can judge way too harsh way too soon. Which is a lot easier to do on the receiving end. Really the best advice is either change or find someone like you. Either way you will be surprised how fast you forget about the person you were “in love” with. And how slow the other person forgets.

[@juliocesarbmi9556]

I came here because of the girl I love (i really do), but now apollonia is my crush

[@gaznann6503]

I found out not validating a woman makes her want you more because when you have good time with a woman and both are having fun and laughing she doesn't know if you like her keeps a woman guessing but I normally throw hints and give her back handed complaint's

[@steelfox4437]

Could you give some examples of not validating women

[@parveenkumar3208]

Sister u changed my life i follow your advice it helps me thank so much

[@CleberSantanaOficial]

Thank you so much for ur coaching... U did save me... I'm leaving for now but I'll sure come back when i need ur videos again... Ur amazing, thanks for all! ♥

[@kingknottydread8711]

This was crucial advice I definitely took something knowledgeable from this. I have had always struggled in toxic relationships

[@moisesblanco]

It's always nice to watch your videos. Thank you!

[@jimmiesmith8925]

Thanks Apollonia I think sometimes we end up telling a woman that we like her so the woman don't feel like we are attempting to play her or just running game on her. If she knows that we are into her then in some of our minds we think it gives her a since of peace to know we were transparent.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Jimmie, You are welcome! Best, Apollonia

[@christianlopez1383]

Hi Apollonia, great as usual, never say those ordinary comments like " you're beautiful".. why? Cause she has heard that phrase all her life. It's monotnes. Abrigado, you are exquisite, chao

[@cartunetv8728]

I’m good at the warming up part but when it comes to the big moment I seem to slip up thanks for helping me find out what I’ve done wrong 🙏🏽

[@lamarr85l.a96]

Good stuff. I'm learning patients through you thank you so much Apollonia. 1love God bless

[@louismar42]

Cant lie this video is on point. For sure.

[@ricksp991]

I love your videos...this one is really useful and interesting. Thank you...you are always loved Apollonia

[@samndambuki9005]

Nice tips Apollonia👍

[@wessamyoussef6082]

Thank you for this beautiful video I did all these steps to be honest on messenger I sent her video about my feelings after 2 months not 3 but she was too nice accepting my compliment & she told me after that it's complicated she refused to meet me she said .. we will be just friends !!!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@MichaelJackson647]

I am just starting to get over one, I definitely want to dive deeper into this when I feel more confident

[@rich04-i9u]

Thank You So Much Apolliana!!

[@socalbeeguy8041]

Here's how I know, besides the fact that she makes sense, that Apollonia is genuine: @6:53 came the plug for her 20 question manual. Notice that she appears humble, and even for a split second uncomfortable with self-promotion. I like this woman. Hope she is impressed with this comment.

[@danielsantana540]

Apollonia most of the time I don't have an issue with saying anything to a woman to get her appeal _approval. However it's the girls female friends who like to give then advice to. Not hang with a guy because he s a weirdo etc etc and the girl reluctantly takes their advice and leaves the guy instantly

[@wishbhaiatitkar1444]

That was bloody straight up awesome...

[@DarpaSeven]

The main problem is my crush also watching this...when i use this technic she'll shoot me

[@waltercruz7931]

Apollonia said women will give hints that they like you. There is a huge range when it comes to this with different women. There are women who will simply hold eye contact for a tad longer than necessary and you will know right away, unmistakably. Others give you absolutely nothing, then they get upset when you stop pursuing because you couldn't figure it out.

[@pianoLee-sx9dx]

Good advice here!

[@docthebilly]

Super solid advice.. better than alot of "surface" advice out there.. 😊

[@ApolloniaPonti]

So happy it resonated! -Apollonia

[@mustaphadoaa1024]

Thank you Apollonia. Your self degnity is very important as you keep saying Apollonia. By the way, I notice that you are a great fan of flowers, aren't you 😊? Allah bless you Apollonia.

[@dropdeadsyed7204]

Your advice saved my huge male ego from being crushed on even before i started. Thanks it makes sense

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for being here!

[@jimkasianides5676]

I like watching your videos but sometimes it seems like the women you talk about only exist in a perfect world,. Lol. Maybe one day there will be that one , I can only hope. Keep up the great work.

[@davidscott1827]

I really appreciate your words Apollonia ,Your very knowledgeable in your profession Thankyou

[@ed9810]

I really love your content. Thank you for your wise words. Forever learning!

[@jakeofalltrade140]

You're always so on point! Wish I found you like 5mknths ago, I probably would have played my cards right with someone I deeply care about who was initially attracted to me but guess she no longer feels that way. Anyhoo, now I get unlearn with you.

[@versatilelord8893]

All of this is true. I only wished I learned this sooner. And I hope it isn’t too late for me with the girl that I’m currently into. I’d hate for her to be the one that got away

[@ApolloniaPonti]

It's never too late. - Apollonia

[@versatilelord8893]

Apollonia Ponti thank you! That was quite encouraging and soothing to hear. Also duly noted

[@Iamcapable4]

That’s pretty huge when you’re rushing something you’re valuing the wrong thing

[@Von.007]

Old school principle: build a good friendship, specially if the woman you like is a little or completely out of your league. When they get comfortable, then slowly level up your game. Most woman loves a chase, so if you run fast to it, you're killing the thrill, so does the attraction.

[@epsilonsaona9062]

I absolutely love and enjoy your experiences of relationship's. It's very real and informative....And thanks to you, I'm in a better position! You're the best Misses Ponti

[@wheneaglesfly466]

Beautifully said.

[@slvpro]

Oh Man, I just keep on screwing time and time again, get 2, 3 things right, and then 3 steps backward for things like this. That's why relationships end up on divorce and child support. You get a degree in flirting and getting the girl overcoming so many things but in the end, you will need to master a lifetime relationship with all these Jedi Mind Tricks. I´m aware but sometimes it's overwhelming to have to do so many things by yourself just to get someone´s attention. I wish someone would work this hard to get me. Thanks by the way Apollonia you're such a relief and help.

[@kizito8888]

Don't tell her any of that shit until you are okay with losing her. They can't stand not knowing where they fit in your bubble. Use it to your advantage.

[@jasonolson5630]

I told a woman I liked that once her divorce was finalized I would like to see her socially. It didn't work in the long run but it was a good way to begin.

[@abednigojustin3508]

This is awesome...it is really the unlocking code to a woman's heart.....

[@ubongabson4781]

You've blessed me with the key factor.

[@shrikanthnambanath]

that was enlightening

[@frederickhoward5598]

A waste of energy to pursue anyone, just let it flow naturally while remaining in your masculine frame🤔💯 Remain Centered

[@markrugman1435]

Hi Apollonia Thank you for your information and tips because it's been three months since I have been dating with Sarah Avantika and she really wants to be with me and I have given her my heart and I have shared with her that I have been through women that had a lot of gossip and she has said the same thing to me about men and I told her that I wanted to meet her family and I told her that I would bring her to meet with my family and relatives before we get married.

[@lewislipsey9722]

You are Loved too, thanks for the help !

[@dailywithJesus247]

Nice presentation.

[@Sancarah]

Nicely articulated

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you!

[@tryingtochangemyways5074]

I have a date Mon and I am nervous..She said she is nervous but so am I..I known her for over a year..We started hanging out 3 months ago..But I wasn't really trying to get with her..Now I am in to her..And this will be the first time where I will be taking control..I even said some of the things you mentioned you should say when you like her..But I didn't even realize it was the right thing to say.. I just spoke from the heart..And then asked her out.

[@fonz112goss4]

Dating to me is courting getting to know them. No rushing, if I can't have fun with you I really know it's a no go!!

[@jaylopez1978]

Thank you!! Thank you!! This is so helpful.

[@puertecitos6888]

be mysterious, calm, dont look desperate, show just enough eye contact (so she knows you know she is eye candy), observe her body language , dont rush, think of something humorous to say, approach and hope you dont go home with, and to be with, the palm of your hand.....again. there is just too much going on in our (guys) lives to have to go through so much BS to find a nice gal.

[@jamesenloe277]

yes she maybe beautiful, but lets be interested in her and not just the outside, but interested in her get to know her.

[@hormatov]

Thank you coach.. appreciate all the advice !

[@preludegold11]

Spot on, great advice presented clearly without a bunch of fluff! Thank you! :-)

[@Australia-ky7kx]

There seems a common theme here. Just play it cool with a new woman. Take your time and don't go in too heavy. I have noticed this after many years not dating.

[@fx_sammy4136]

Thanks a lot for the lesson.....always warm up will do that first from now

[@cristiandelacruz881]

Thank you Apollonia, you got my like.

[@jonahhill4179]

I often rush into things. This was especially a good video for me 🙌

[@halcioncocaine2096]

Don't rush your driving if you drive✔

[@Iamcapable4]

It’s almost like everything in life you have to warm up🔥✌🏼😉😅

[@petermaina7111]

To be honest...the way you pronounce "apollonia Ponti" I love the way you sound it ...

[@PM-yx3kz]

I had a dream of this woman I started working with close to this time last year. I came out of a toxic relationship and was recreating myself at the time. Immediately after I had this dream I felt I had to ask her out. I asked her out and found that she had a crush on me. Things felt great, but had no idea all the things I had been doing wrong. I adored this woman and she didn't start denying me until 5 months going into quarantine. She told me she didn't like going whole days without me texting her. Only for her to say I became too much with texting. She's ghosting me now and puts up a wall. I continued texting trying to figure what I did wrong and felt deep anxiety from heartbreak. If I wasn't too much before I felt at that time I most definitely became so. I can tell she still attracted to me, but doesn't leave me an opening. I freaked her out once so now I limit my interaction. I opened up to the universe, practiced meditation, manifesting positivity/love within, and put my self into trying new things. I feel so much better now, but am unsure of how I will win her back. You videos help me to understand that I will need patience on a high level. I must wait for an opening after a month or more of detachement. We act as freinds around each other at work, but I will limit contact still poking fun at her if I do. Funny I'm in love and still dream of her. I trying to be the version of me that never lost her. Please wish me luck on this. I feel the universe opened me up to so much information I never knew. Including your beautiful insight and wisdom, thank you.

[@mig2cool982]

I’m listening to you from now on

[@smiles7631]

I have heard that when a women is ready for exclusivity she will bring it up. Then you have the conversation about how you feel.

[@leomagat2085]

When she sent me a letter like this ( on Instagram) , how can I respond ?... I like her. Dear friend who is geographically distant but only-one chat away. Thank you for always being at the other side of the keyboard whenever I need you. Thank you for our company. Thank you for being patient with me and for your understanding of my craziness or imperfections. Thank you for the friendship. Most importantly, thank you for staying with me. I'm not the most ideal companion nor friend, but I promise to grow with you

[@luismorales4617]

Be sure that she is a chromosomal right and real woman .

[@texasrebel7754]

Don't respond at all. You've been friend zoned.

[@Blackbarry10]

Warm- up Can't stop laughing😂😂 Well I warmed up for just a month before pouring my feelings on her and guess what she said, Dame!! I really like you but Mike came first,Mike was and still a friend who encouraged then not to rush into it.

[@ch1bob]

Chizoba Barisco ? English please