What Types Are Socially Compatible With ENTJs? | ENTJ Relationships | CS Joseph

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C.S. Joseph

C.S. Joseph

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@underlyingmotivations313
@underlyingmotivations313 6 жыл бұрын
''I am worried that I am stupid!'' ''- ENTJ '' I am worried that you are stupid too!'' INTP LOL
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
yeah lol, I laughed inside myself after that
@jacktaylor1801
@jacktaylor1801 4 жыл бұрын
Or when the INTP finds a smart ENTJ, no conflict! The INTP doesn't have to worry the ENTJ is an idiot. And the ENTJ doesn't feel dumb around the INTP.
@fleszu112
@fleszu112 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacktaylor1801 none of that. I am an INTP guy and thought my ENTJ isn't too smart, until she told me she wants a divorce. Well I still think, she's not to smart divorcing me and I'm afraid She will regret it.
@bperez8656
@bperez8656 3 жыл бұрын
That sounds awful I’d send a bitch to hell if they think I’m stupid. - ENTJ
@tilinapple
@tilinapple 3 жыл бұрын
*walks off into the sunset together*
@dawnriddler
@dawnriddler 2 жыл бұрын
Can't believe no one's done this: INTP - 3:40 ENTP - 14:27 ISFJ - 19:53 ESFJ - 23:31 ISFP - 24:08 ESFP - 25:02 INTJ - 26:18 ENTJ - 26:59 That being said, I have a completely opposite experience. My longest relationship was with an INTJ, and INTJs are people that I easily get along with, also absolutely love ENTJs and working with them. It's refreshing being with someone who approaches things and problems just like you. If both of you value each other's opinion, there is no conflict, just constant improvement.
@Amrrkevin
@Amrrkevin 2 жыл бұрын
5:18
@NB-qy7ku
@NB-qy7ku Жыл бұрын
What is your type?
@dawnriddler
@dawnriddler Жыл бұрын
@@NB-qy7ku I think it's obvious from what I wrote.
@NB-qy7ku
@NB-qy7ku Жыл бұрын
@@dawnriddler could imply but I still asked.
@toaalta
@toaalta 6 ай бұрын
Because they're shifting into another side of their mind
@andreaosit7386
@andreaosit7386 6 жыл бұрын
I am INTP and have ate maple bacon icecream, can confirm its dope
@cygooseitllc9533
@cygooseitllc9533 6 жыл бұрын
Same here and same.
@maladjustedmaverick6619
@maladjustedmaverick6619 5 жыл бұрын
*have eaten, lol
@bluegiant13
@bluegiant13 5 жыл бұрын
I was skeptical, but I do like bacon, I am curious.
@alignyourselfwithbethany7069
@alignyourselfwithbethany7069 4 жыл бұрын
My husbands an INTP, he doesn't eat icecream or bacon.
@isla1668
@isla1668 3 жыл бұрын
That combination sounds gross but they’re both delicious so...I’m going to try it!
@theresefrancis9283
@theresefrancis9283 6 жыл бұрын
My sister is an INTP and her fiancé is an INFJ :). His dad is an ENTJ. We were siting (all four of us) at dinner and the ENTJ was discussing how much he appreciated that we weren't idiots. He pointed to me (ISFP) and commented about how much he respected me. I had never been more flattered 😂. He's a great guy, we get along pretty well.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Therese Francis awesome, that’s dope.
@slashwind3417
@slashwind3417 2 жыл бұрын
as a ENTJ i thank you. i am laughing hard.
@enitaargenaldechang5889
@enitaargenaldechang5889 6 жыл бұрын
I am an ENTJ woman with a INTP boyfriend and it's great how much your video really does help explain us. My bf is Taiwanese, and his culture involves lots of food and snacks, so your example of the maple bacon ice cream really hit home and made me laugh a lot. I really enjoy my INTP because he challenges me, sometimes I think I've already mastered something.. but he casually comes along and breaks it down to bits with his logic... This normally will frustrate me, and if it were anyone else I would be ready to defend myself, but I have come to understand that he does it out of love and have learnt to respect and value that about him. Not always does it feel that he does this out of love since he might add words like "dumb" and "stupid", but I've come to see past that and realize he otherwise has a great point! (He is learning not to use words like that with me, it hurts, he knows, after watching your video about ENTJs, he now gets it lol THANK YOU). After the fact I am challenged with new direction to be better and think smarter - I love him very much for taking the time to really focus on me that way :)
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 4 ай бұрын
This "I would be ready to defend myself"_ might be my number one reason for misanthropy, from my daily, career perspective. I'm giving them truth and value, if they had the heathy ego to accept it, and even thank for it, and instead they "defend" themselves where no defense was ever necessary and with this defense "punish" me for trying to improve their situation. I don't repeat it anymore, I keep quiet when I see them be suboptimal or outright wrong. I give it to people the way they want it... it's fine. I, on the other hand, make *everything* to make people feel secure in criticizing me and explicitly assure them that _giving me value this way_ will be highly appreciated _instead._ You can't see your own blindspots. Honesty is the greatest gift.
@alejandroaugusto7789
@alejandroaugusto7789 2 жыл бұрын
As an ENTJ, I am a fan and I love ESFJ's. I think they complement me, especially if we have the same level of maturity. The first thing that came to my mind when talking about what ENTJ's want and what the ESFJ's can provide is comprehension, I have felt misunderstood all my life, it’s like the ESFJ's can read your mind and understand you perfectly. It feels great. Thank you for existing ESFJ's.
@mattanova
@mattanova 3 жыл бұрын
As an ENTJ, I have three INTJ close friends ( one of them is my best friend ). I was starting to think I was an INTJ magnet. On first conversation me and my current best friend had, we both said that we give up on people asap if they don't seem efficient and interesting enough, and happily announced that we'd probably give up on each other too. Here we are after years of friendship being the best pals possible. I have to say, we are both super cautios when giving opinions and whenever one of us is mad we just leave each other alone for a while. We respect and value one another and our TIME so much that different problem solving styles don't bother us much, we're even starting business together. And setting aside our pride, we find it beautiful that we can cover for some of the other one's weaknesses.
@singtoangels
@singtoangels 5 жыл бұрын
ENTJ with an ISFP mother. She makes me absolutely inSANE.
@tyunizelle1537
@tyunizelle1537 3 жыл бұрын
+1
@aaronday7677
@aaronday7677 Жыл бұрын
ikr holy fuck
@博瑞-i7o
@博瑞-i7o 9 ай бұрын
istj mother and estj stepfather, i’n estranged from them - absolutely despise them lmao
@paul2609
@paul2609 6 жыл бұрын
What I like about your content is you give examples, for instance the whole maple bacon ice cream scenario haha, please keep doing this as it helps to understand a lot.
@igglywompus
@igglywompus 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree, it makes it way clearer what he is referencing
@SirVipAvernus
@SirVipAvernus 5 жыл бұрын
I'm ENTJ, and most of my close friends are INFP, ISFJ, INFJ, INTP
@mitysaprimita5754
@mitysaprimita5754 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@leliavoinea1942
@leliavoinea1942 3 жыл бұрын
As a INFP woman I like and admire female ENTJ as friends and mentors and evan as boss.😂 I learned alot from them.
@TaxingIsThieving
@TaxingIsThieving 3 жыл бұрын
Why don't you have any extroverted friends?
@SirVipAvernus
@SirVipAvernus 3 жыл бұрын
@@TaxingIsThieving IDK, and I feel like wasting my time try to figure that out, lol
@thetromsky
@thetromsky 4 күн бұрын
@@mitysaprimita5754 It's actually a bit confusing to see INFJ is down there on this list with INTJ. ENTJ, especially mature, would get along well with them.
@bellarose8511
@bellarose8511 5 жыл бұрын
ENTJs don’t give a damn about how ESFPs feel AND they think they’re stupid! 🤣 Blunt. To the point. And true! Perfect! (said ENTJ).
@7mileproductions237
@7mileproductions237 4 жыл бұрын
How am I not most compatible with an ENTJ ? So sick of political correctness and perfect isn't used enough while truth is - perfection is our truth.
@heffthehecked
@heffthehecked 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr lmao!
@mzi668
@mzi668 4 жыл бұрын
I have 2 esfp co-workers, I can confirm
@misscogito9865
@misscogito9865 3 жыл бұрын
@Bella Rose hello! INTP here. I’ve met this ENTJ on a dating site. We spoke for a bit and he asked me out on a date, pretty early into our interactions, judging from what I know about the type (the date is yet to happen). Since then we’ve chatted about our values as individuals and expectations when it comes to relationships and had some banter too (pure gold 🤣). He seems to be open and doesn’t beat around the bush, so to speak, which is hilarious at times. He did tell me that I’m cute. His tinder profile doesn’t clearly state what he’s looking for, so given the above, how likely is it that he’s playing and looking for a casual dating as opposed to something serious? The reason why i’m not asking him directly is because I’m afraid that it’s too early and I’m afraid to scare him off - we haven’t met yet.
@MrEvldreamr
@MrEvldreamr 2 жыл бұрын
@Stella Natum you can't scare an ENTJ off...either you fit his mold of a good woman or you don't. He'll decide if youre worthy not you
@Shreyapreaches
@Shreyapreaches 4 жыл бұрын
Why is this episode so funny? I just imagine a relationship between an intp and an entj and what their conversation is going to be like and I just can't. The intp will kill the self esteem of an entj. And at the end of the day both of them will walk home together with their straight faces since they are thinkers. But in all seriousness, i truly want them to end up together always. Because they are some of the best people on Earth. I have an intp brother but he is married to an esfp. Just wish there was more awareness about mbti so that people could know what options they have and won't end up compromising with their life partner. -an INFP who likes NT's.
@Konsqwali
@Konsqwali 3 ай бұрын
These episodes are funny because CS Joseph brings honesty and joy to what he professes. He's also animated when he's excited, so you can tell he's genuinely happy to talk about ENTJs, who often walk around misunderstood by modern society.
@Shreyapreaches
@Shreyapreaches 3 ай бұрын
@@Konsqwali Absolutely which is what we need more of.
@dynestis2875
@dynestis2875 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an ENTJ male with a ENFJ girlfriend. Our first year together was *hell* , but we've been together for 3 years now and we have an incredible relationship!
@PaperMicShow
@PaperMicShow 3 жыл бұрын
Same here ,, it was slow painful start ,,, but now after 2 years ,, she would die for me
@morefaiththanever
@morefaiththanever Жыл бұрын
Respect is key. It’s okay to let ENTJ dominate the relationship, just sit back and let them take care of business. I love the take charge bolder version of istj !im ENFP fyi…
@lovinWonder
@lovinWonder 6 жыл бұрын
You are feisty today! You had me laughing out loud numerous times. I LOVED the bit about intps...my entj best friend is the most amazing relationship I’ve ever had. 🙌🏻
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Yes I am feisty lol. I had to do deal with internet chat room drama.
@lovinWonder
@lovinWonder 6 жыл бұрын
Well, I throughly enjoyed the feistiness. I love that you say things that will ruffle feathers with no remorse. Admirable and amusing.
@abadi173
@abadi173 5 жыл бұрын
im an intj and i see how ENTJ can be annoying sometimes but i love them to death.
@EmmaKnightley954
@EmmaKnightley954 5 жыл бұрын
It's actually pretty accurate as and ENTJ female. My last long term relationship was actually with an ISFJ and I didn't realize it until I watched your description of such type, and we work out because of how secure I felt in terms of loyalty.
@ambera7114
@ambera7114 6 жыл бұрын
Yesss! I’ve been waiting for this, as an ENTJ woman, if you weren’t taken, I’d marry you 😂 Seriously, very informative. Thank you for being in depth with the functions! I’m a firm believer that, really any type COULD work with one another depending on the maturity and development of the functions. My best friend is an INTP (👇🏼 commented below 🙌🏼) I’m anxious for the romantic relationship series! Good work 👍🏼
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment, its comments like these that keep me going. You are correct in that any type could get with any type, it is just the difference between going uphill or down hill in terms of the relationship. Path of least resistance etc.
@cyberneticbutterfly8506
@cyberneticbutterfly8506 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder if your frequent and tactile use of emojis here is a Se-child function kind of thing? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@therealmekkor
@therealmekkor 3 жыл бұрын
ENTJ here with an INTJ gf of 8 years soon to be married. She's definitely an INTJ. It's strange that it's constantly said we're not compatible on paper but reality we're a healthy power couple. We argue, understand each other boundaries, and are determined to conquer the world lol
@dawnriddler
@dawnriddler 2 жыл бұрын
My longest relationship was with an INTJ, I'd say in reality, I'm the most compatible with this type. I was legit surprised to see that we aren't compatible on paper.
@y0ake77
@y0ake77 2 жыл бұрын
Glad to find this ❤️
@Hello0o0o064
@Hello0o0o064 8 ай бұрын
I agree. One of my best friends is an INTJ
@daytradersanonymous9955
@daytradersanonymous9955 9 күн бұрын
Love to hear it. Just got into a relationship ENTJ and INTJ. Figured jt would work much like you described🫡
@OpportunisticHunter
@OpportunisticHunter 6 жыл бұрын
+C.S. Joseph You're one of the best ENTPs =D
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@MrSwac31
@MrSwac31 6 жыл бұрын
Fun combo: dad: ENTJ mom: ESFJ son: ENTJ stuck in shadow INTP.
@dimmerfaaanaahaahaahaahaah657
@dimmerfaaanaahaahaahaahaah657 5 жыл бұрын
Actually for me: Mom: ESTJ, Dad: ESFP. I was stuck in my shadow for nine (or more)freaking years....
@ikaafiqah2000
@ikaafiqah2000 4 жыл бұрын
Im an entj gf with a esfj bf. How they do it? 😂 Im having difficulty communicating with my esfj bf. Is it bcs of age?
@zlatanibrahimovicisbettert7980
@zlatanibrahimovicisbettert7980 4 жыл бұрын
My dad entp mom esfp I'm intp
@iulianoprea6659
@iulianoprea6659 4 жыл бұрын
Same bro...... but my mom is ISFJ instead :DDDD
@cratcliff8820
@cratcliff8820 4 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENTJ woman married to an ENTP man and have been together for 9 years. It’s an awesome relationship! Highly recommend. Our 6 year old son seems to be an ENTJ as well and our 12 year old is an ISFP. Raising them has been interesting to navigate because they need such different parenting.
@konstantinelinakis4443
@konstantinelinakis4443 3 жыл бұрын
I've been seeing an ENTJ girl for 3 months, I'm an ENTP do you have any tips? She always seems to be busy, which is fine.
@muhammadedwards8425
@muhammadedwards8425 3 жыл бұрын
One way that entj+entj relationships work is by giving criticism in either a friendly or sexual rivalry way. The build up of tension and complete trust/honesty creates a very energy intensive atmosphere that may overwhelm everyone around the two of you. The energy intensiveness isn't an issue though, but they both need spaces to retreat for 6 hrs a day or a 6hr cuddle
@keylockwood9487
@keylockwood9487 Жыл бұрын
Yes, can confirm this. Very true.
@cameronpickford7568
@cameronpickford7568 6 жыл бұрын
Really cool. I love these break downs. I’m looking forward to the INTJ.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your patience, it is coming!
@ashtontarot2824
@ashtontarot2824 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an ISFJ married to an ENTJ
@cygooseitllc9533
@cygooseitllc9533 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 32yo male INTP with 30 yo wife ENTJ (daughter ENFP I’ve typed at age 10) it’s intense and rewarding around here. Knowing why my wife gets so intense is helpful. I started acknowledging the experience she cares so much about around social hosting and even dinner time. I don’t care about these things I just want peace at the lowest dollar spent and now I see how it’s not helpful saying that to her. It’s not validating at all. I totally see her do the POLLS now too on decision making and hate when I don’t respect credentialed people. I’ve adapted lots of my traits to participate socially. I’ve experienced more of the world because of my wife. I’ve learned to be a little more decisive than before so she’s helped me lots. I feel home with her. 😄👌 many guys don’t understand our relationship but I cherish all the friction that comes with it! Daughter ENFP I get impressed and simultaneously pissed at her choices but now I’m started to get it. She’s very witty & passive for her age so I try to guide her. Learning is so helpful! Keep the content going Joseph, I’ve never followed anyone this much! I have an ENFP friend who says I’m obsessing but of course he’d say that. I’m being introduced to whole new world of LIFE Tools!
@cyberneticbutterfly8506
@cyberneticbutterfly8506 3 жыл бұрын
Fellow INTP, I started realizing that regularly doing just a little bit of trickster Se-like actions and Te-like actions helps me grow alot. It's just that it needs pacing. There isn't enough energy to do too much of it.
@karenloria77
@karenloria77 6 жыл бұрын
I found this very informative. I'm an ENTJ and my son is an INTP. I related to the examples you gave during the comparison between the two.
@CleoPhoenixRT
@CleoPhoenixRT 3 жыл бұрын
My love is an ENTJ and I would go to the ends of the earth for that man. He is the only person I look forward to spending time with...but as an INFJ, whew boy, it took YEARS of work by both of us but love and loyalty makes you choose your battles.
@singtoangels
@singtoangels 5 жыл бұрын
ENTJ married to an INTP with 2 of 4 of our children INTP...
@CupcakesX
@CupcakesX 4 жыл бұрын
Your family consists of mini Einsteins...but full of procrastinators
@singtoangels
@singtoangels 4 жыл бұрын
@@CupcakesX dude, you have no idea. My youngest daughter is probably going to be an ESFJ or ENFJ and my youngest son is probably ExxJ too, so I have hope. My youngest daughter isn't super clever like them but she's well organized and does all her homework so she gets better grades than the geniuses who are doodling in the margins of their notebooks while they think of more 'important' things. 😂
@CupcakesX
@CupcakesX 4 жыл бұрын
@@singtoangels You have quite a gifted family...each one of your children are special and have their own unique ability...especially your INTP children if you could manage to train them and reduce their ability to procrastinate...INTPs are extremely creative...so one huge advice to you if you are willing to motivate them...Know their passions....and get more deep with them that way...if they are into music...get them an instrument they prefer (Not always recommended)...My mom is an ISFJ...my dad is an ISTP...my sisters (2) are INFP...and younger bro is extremely INFP...my older bro is an Immature INTP...and i am...an INTP aswell...but...i have trained myself (psychologically) enhancing my cognitive functions and all...knowing my weaknesses/stregth...and using that to my advantage...i have to say...MBTI has changed my life.
@singtoangels
@singtoangels 4 жыл бұрын
@@CupcakesX if you ever met them you'd never think they're gifted until they just spew out some random insight that blows you away. Organizing them... no. Lol. I've tried. They're like herding cats. They all have learning disabilities and are not remotely interested in schooling so it's going to be hard for them to use their gifts.
@CupcakesX
@CupcakesX 4 жыл бұрын
@@singtoangels that is interesting, if they tend to be in their rooms and use electronical devices all the time...this can be extremely unhealthy for them in the future...what other ways have you tried to get them motivated etc?
@ollie6853
@ollie6853 5 жыл бұрын
my little brother is INTP and i'm ENTJ. we understand each other almost telepathically and share a unique sense of humor. we used to be each other's best friends but now he's not talking to me because i snapped at his now-ex for being abusive towards him and our step-sister and... just basically being a rotten human being that i never wanted to see again. i tore her a new one while also being highly encouraging, complimentary and supportive towards him. they finally broke up (7-8 year relationship) a few months after that argument. when we see each other he's friendly and warm but then he doesn't keep in touch... really wish we could go back to our relationship from before he met this abusive b*. i'll comprise more info so i can ask you the right questions and i'll get one of your private video sessions because i really think your approach to relationships is spot on and a life saver! your youtube channel kinda saved my romantic relationship with my INFJ... but that's another story :) sending you infinite thanks and love and hope you achieve great success because - fucking hell man - the world needs this. you're amazing!
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын
you are welcome.
@NeuropsychologistPi
@NeuropsychologistPi Жыл бұрын
Thank you CS Joseph!! ENTJ ENTP relationship is hilariously true. my brother is an ENTP and we have all the things you mentioned! 🙃
@evaanjos
@evaanjos 4 жыл бұрын
Your attitude is addictive, keep it up. Great video, once again!
@swoimislowami
@swoimislowami Жыл бұрын
What you do while explaining us staff is an outstanding performance. Your videos are so entertaining 🥰 I truly appreciate your content, thank you
@14sergiustan
@14sergiustan 5 жыл бұрын
I am an ENTJ. My best friend is an ENTJ. We`ve been best friends for aprox. 6 years or even more. We connected from the start and none of the friends I ever had even came close to the type of friendship we have. We never see each other in a competition but rather we have the "we are in the same boat" kind of friendship. We are in competition with everyone else, the kind of disappointed types of ENTJ`s you`ve described previously. Each of us knows when the other one is down and what we need and when we need it. We listen to each other`s advice. We have that altruism side only for each other. You hit it like 100 % with the description video about ENTJ`s, but I`m sorry you`re very wrong about this one when it comes to ENTJ - ENTJ compatibility. It`s because ENTJ`s are rare and weird in their way, it would seem only normal to appreciate more each other for being the same.
@bperez8656
@bperez8656 3 жыл бұрын
1,000% agree with you So ludicrous to put same as opposing same Similars attract
@TaxingIsThieving
@TaxingIsThieving 3 жыл бұрын
@@bperez8656 I'm an INTP and don't tend to like other INTPs.
@langstonrichardson3828
@langstonrichardson3828 2 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this comment, ENTJ similar circumstances and I agree
@TeamRockHit4
@TeamRockHit4 6 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t always work. I know an ENTJ who snubs every idea from INTPs and this promotes a resentment and distance between them. Of course there’s healthy and unhealthy types and this could be an example. A tongue-in-cheek comment I’ve made before is get a room full of ENTJs and you have the setup for Hunger Games.
@catinthepeng2686
@catinthepeng2686 5 жыл бұрын
Hmm, ENTJs in my life don't snub my ideas unless they think it's ridiculous and a waste of time... which tbh, sometimes, they are.
@chamosphere3725
@chamosphere3725 3 жыл бұрын
Hunger Games ENTJ edition will turn into Gachimuchi. Aka all tops, wrestling meets bdsm. Sure that requires sp/sx ENTJS but still.
@thetromsky
@thetromsky 4 күн бұрын
@@catinthepeng2686 And realistically that would upset/offend the xNTP and xNFP when their ideas are just dismissed. Yet CS put them at the top of the list.
@catinthepeng2686
@catinthepeng2686 4 күн бұрын
@thetromsky I am not that annoyed when my ideas are snubbed. I have many ideas all of the time of generally equal value, so Ni user telling me something is not as good helps me put the ducks in a row. What pisses me off is when my comfort is disregarded. ENxJs usually don't do that too much, but Se child can get pretty uh... stuck on me sometimes and drain me of alone time. That annoys me the most.
@RainbowTractors
@RainbowTractors 4 күн бұрын
​@catinthepeng2686 agreed, although I'm thinking more constantly/routinely snubbed. Challenged ideas is perfect for inspiration.
@isla1668
@isla1668 3 жыл бұрын
Love the layout and neatness of your graph btw good work!
@jackieweaver3884
@jackieweaver3884 5 жыл бұрын
how would an ENTJ-INFP relationship be? what about the ENTJ will the INFP not like and what about it would they want? Also, your videos are THE most educational when it comes to types, keep going!
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын
pretty good provided they dont out selfish each other
@jackieweaver3884
@jackieweaver3884 5 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph ohh I thought the infp is quite selfless though, but thank you for the reply!
@mattrivera8587
@mattrivera8587 2 жыл бұрын
Also, I(ENTJ) that is married to an ISFJ and have an ISFP sister-in-law... Ive said many times to my mother-in-law that I ended up with the "right daughter" because I would have murdered the other one. We go together like oil and water.
@xtalking2501
@xtalking2501 6 жыл бұрын
It seems people with same judging functions feel often more comfortable with each other, depends also where it is in the function stack, e.g. Fi dominant will feel better with someone with Fi, because values are so important for them and want others to have it, IXTPs are getting disappointed when others are stupid, and IXFPs when people have no morals. but then extroverted judging functions completing introverted ones and vice versa give more opportunity to grow and learn from each other, this is how I see it
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
well said
@SonnyBCreative
@SonnyBCreative 8 ай бұрын
seems like there are a few ways to interpret compatibility. i find different websites saying different things regarding ENTJ and compatibility.
@alignyourselfwithbethany7069
@alignyourselfwithbethany7069 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an ENTJ/ENFJ (or ENFJ-T, one of the two) my husband is an INTP. We are both set on improvement and morality. I don't think I would be as compatible and able to improve with anyone else. He says I've made him more compassionate and he's made me more confident. He's more stability focused and I'm more career focused. In some way we think, aspire to achieve and live a lifestyle outside of what's common. I enjoy his logic and patience and that he's not afraid to point things out or not conform to unnecessary social ways. He will conform sometimes because it's the thing to do to save unnecessary conflict but for example he'd question the logic to anyone in needing to wear certain polished shoes for a restaurant, the point in singing happy birthday, giving presents on dedicated days like Christmas because then it's not very genuine and he questions the general fake social smiles and attitudes and will blatantly ask others "but what do you actually think or want?". It always amazes me. Our conflicts are usually about our social approaches, the way we explain perspectives and I get grumpy at things not being organised properly. But non of us are closed off to listening and changing if it makes enough sense so conflicts are short lived.
@lenaishere02
@lenaishere02 5 жыл бұрын
I am a ENTJ lady and all of my closest friends are NFs, can confirm.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын
I hope you confirmed without using a test.
@lenaishere02
@lenaishere02 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, definitely.
@franco-russo
@franco-russo 5 жыл бұрын
As an ENTJ, here is my take on ISFJs: - ISFJs like to dwell on their strong and emotional impressions that they've had throughout their life (Si/Fe). As an ENTJ, I tend to translate this into being shortsighted (lack of Ni) and traditional for the sake of comfort (dominate Si). Everything they do relates back to their rather subjective impressions of the world over the span of their life, and they have a hard time understanding much of anything beyond those impressions (inferior Ne). - As an ENTJ, I tend to have a negative association with introverted sensing, as I would personally describe it as being "stuck in a time that I don't concern myself with". I tend to live life according to what I'd like to achieve (dominant Te and auxiliary Ni) and the new experiences I could be having (tertiary Se), however ISFJs have a really hard time with changing and they can often be rather irrational about considering long-term and abstract perspectives of life-they simply don't trust introverted intuition, as it seems to make leaps into the unknown that makes them uncomfortable, as they are blind to it. They also find the Te approach to be rather cruel and lacking in "kind consideration of others". - They like to spend a lot of time talking about the practicalities of their day (chores and their duties) and people problems, which means that they constantly want me to be involved with the feeling attitudes of not only them, but everyone around them they either care about or dislike (forcing me to constantly engage in Fe, even though I have a hard time accessing inferior Fi as it is). Some people might find this aspect of ISFJs to be "endearing" and to help ENTJs grow in their values, but I see it as a waste of my time because if I'm going to engage in my feelings, then I'd prefer it be less shallow than what an ISFJ can offer me. - ISFJs are like little timid deers running through the forest, as they tend to overly worry and concern themselves with theoretical and negative possibilities that are based entirely on their skewed use of inferior intuition. This not only makes for terrible conversations, but it also breeds clingy behavior that can begin to feel restricting over time. - While ISFJs can be quite organized and dutiful, they're not very good at managing systems because they navigate the world through their impressions and how these impressions make them feel (Si/Fe), which means that they do a lot of impractical shit that just makes no sense to me. Like buying see-through curtains because they like the way it makes a room feel, however constantly complaining that people on the front porch can see through the windows. Then stop buying see-through curtains, idiot! - ISFJs tend to focus more on peoples behaviors and the tone of voice more than actions and intent. They're prone to completely missing the point of what you're trying to explain simply because they're being overly sensitive "to the tone of voice that you've used", which ends an intellectual conversation because it becomes more of a therapy session for the ISFJs hurt feelings over something as silly as a tone of voice that had no intention in the first place. I often feel like I have to speak to ISFJs like babies and walk around egg-shells to get anywhere with them in terms of a conversation that goes into more intellectual interests. To summarize this, I have no admiration or interest in Si, and there is not enough cognitive understanding between one another to bridge gaps between these types. I can respect them as people from a distance, but they're not people I'd be close friends with or even consider a relationship with. For the sake of an oversimplification on why ENTJs might end up with xSFJs on average, it might have something to do with these types being common in women. I actually get along a lot better with ESFJs than I do ISFJs, however a lot of the complaints that I have about ISFJs could be explained with ESFJs as well. I tend to stay away from xSFJs, and most of my deeper bonds have been with INFPs (on an emotional level) and your occasional ISFP if they actually fucking talk, the mute bastards. But to be honest, I talk a lot (as you can tell from my writing), so it might not be all that bad. Lolol As for INTPs, I only know one and we get along pretty well. Since INTPs are residing mainly in the darkest part of their house, I don't have an opportunity to meet them in the wild.
@williamlancaster
@williamlancaster 5 жыл бұрын
Very entertaining write-up. Can confirm I am an INTP currently in the darkest part of my apartment.
@lulubadaguas7604
@lulubadaguas7604 5 жыл бұрын
I am an ENTJ woman and my ISFJ is very private and sensitive. I cannot be vulnerable in his presence. He just thought that I was his ideal until I told him that I was suffering from anxiety. He exclaimed that there is really no ideal one. I recovered in no time and I became stronger because of that. I just could not tell him that I might be more than his ideal because I am now able to understand other people's feeling. I used to ignore feelings, even my own. Now I have learned how to emphatize with others. But I learned to keep my thougths to myself. Not all people can handle me.
@emjhendrickson8290
@emjhendrickson8290 4 жыл бұрын
Ahahah your rant is hilarious. Im entj. I was raised to be sensitive and loving so im ok with some feelings. My x has a really messed up sister. He was trying to get me to hug her every time she cried (which was a lot) and i literally could not. I had to get away like drive away. I understand feelings its just that i think they should be dealt with, or acted upon, rather then drowning in them. Im pretty happy and confident through out my life. I think this is largely because of how i handle my emotions. Seriously when im really upset, i find a private page to just let them flow, figure them out, then develope a plan to act on... Anywayssss 😁😜🧐
@ikaafiqah2000
@ikaafiqah2000 4 жыл бұрын
Im an entj and my boyf esfj and my bff is a isfj. Its quite tough and always ends with fight but for me NTJ x SFJ is tough but well entj like a good challenge so why not? 🤷🏻‍♀️😂
@thetromsky
@thetromsky 4 күн бұрын
Good point that there are simply more ISFJs out there, and they're nice too. From my observation, ENTJs will get along better with mature INFJs with good Se who could cover practical stuff, however it's just INFJs are rarer out there. Some of them also probably after feelers (ENFP) or other introverts (INTx).
@heffthehecked
@heffthehecked 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't help but recall when a few days ago I was playing an xbox game with my INTP bf and he basically took over this little in-game task for me bc I wasn't proving any competence in the span of ten seconds and it was my first time with that in-game task, although his argument was that it wasn't my first time playing a game itself, and so in-game I removed myself from him and he kindly pleaded I come back and when I said no, he sadly asked why not. I said because he didn't let me practice my best some more and then he asked if I wanted to keep trying my best some more! I happily complied in the way a shy child hides behind their guardian's leg and then he very supportively let me do my best again and I felt a surge in power and playfulness shoot up again 😈
@faa3820
@faa3820 2 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this because my boss is a ENTJ, you know, I can actually see the get-the-hell-out-of-my-way vibe.
@qtdeshina
@qtdeshina 6 жыл бұрын
This was enlightening. As an ENTJ female, I'm curious as to why my friends are usually NF types! 😢😂
@spark300c
@spark300c 5 жыл бұрын
because you are intuitive and initiative usually get along with uncommon types and more women are nf than men.
@leliavoinea1942
@leliavoinea1942 3 жыл бұрын
Because ENTJ female are amazing as friends.😂 I am a INFP woman.
@ankushtagore4299
@ankushtagore4299 3 жыл бұрын
Because they're easy to fool.
@svetajadhav3385
@svetajadhav3385 3 жыл бұрын
@@leliavoinea1942 amazing
@tajmarie1329
@tajmarie1329 6 жыл бұрын
I know this is supposed to be a baseline for compatibility. However, I do have some skepticism. In this lecture, you had indicated that ISFJ was among one of the four highest compatibilities with ENTJ. If that was the case, then that would mean that ESFJ would be among the four highest compatiblities for INTJ (according to your system). However, irl, I have typically had some of the worst relationships with ESFJs. This could be due to gender or even power dynamics (work/family) -- and I know I am not the only one. While there may be some mistyping or effects from being "unhealthy" or not well developed (for both types), clearly there has to be some assumptions in regards to compatibility.
@fserrano5312
@fserrano5312 6 жыл бұрын
TajMarie I agree with you on this. Most of my worst relationships were with XSFJs and my best were with XSFPs. ESFPs tend to energize me which is a euphoric feeling but tired me out after a while.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
You are not wrong. Social compatibility is as general as you get. it is not the deepest form of compatibility in which I would wager is more face to face. Furthermore, there is also the concept of camaraderie as well as how human nurture impacts people. If the levels of maturity do not match up, it does not matter how compatible they are, nothing will work.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
See above comment
@spark300c
@spark300c 5 жыл бұрын
it make alot sense. how ENTJS work make them opposed to the si view point. For me I intp with decent develop inferior fe, well develop tertiary si. Therefore general get along with ESFJs and ISFJs. I like ISFJs better because they usually level headed. For me ESFP detrain me if they really extroverted because they all over the place in things they like and easily contradict them selves. ISFPs values are more organized so its easier follow what they are saying.
@reidarmysen1880
@reidarmysen1880 2 жыл бұрын
For male ENTJ types you (CSJ) said that they typically marry SFJ women. I believe it is important with the balance of both pragmatic and affiliative types in an relationship. The pragmatics relieve tension created by the affiliative and the affiliative relieve tension created by the pragmatic. Of course this is not always the case since many well working relationships have a double pair of each, but the dynamic of relieving the tension would be quite calming and provide a sense of security for the ENTJ male with Fi inferior. Fi is about feeling of attachement to others and it has a more responding long-term attitude compared to Fe. Fi inferior means that the attachement have a somewhat insecurity to it and probably only a affiliative high Fe user can provide that conformity that the ENTJ needs for a long term relationship. SFJs have the two most affiliative functions in their ego and those are Si and Fe. In a recent lecture you (CSJ) said that male relationship is based on affiliation and female relationship is based on pragmatism and this may explain that female ENTJ can endure pragmatic males but not the other way around.
@xinyiwang1525
@xinyiwang1525 2 жыл бұрын
I am an ENTJ. The guys attracted me are INFP, ISFJ mostly…UPDATE: you are not lying Joseph! I have met a few guys I am interested in recently and surprisingly they are all ISFJs! I feel that ENTJ just naturally likes ISFJ my gosh
@Padawanji
@Padawanji 2 жыл бұрын
Aww I actually have entj bf
@xinyiwang1525
@xinyiwang1525 2 жыл бұрын
@@Padawanji isfj?
@Padawanji
@Padawanji 2 жыл бұрын
@@xinyiwang1525 yes
@faithscott696
@faithscott696 3 жыл бұрын
ENTJ with INTJ dad and ESFP mom. It’s rough....
@SonnyBCreative
@SonnyBCreative 2 күн бұрын
Why do so many websites have different results?
@LaTanya_78
@LaTanya_78 8 ай бұрын
That's funny. As an ENTJ woman with an INTP son, you have pegged our relationship as a good one, and it is. It's challenging at times, but none the less a good one. Very curious about the ENTJ ENTP relationship 🤔 😊
@negin1421
@negin1421 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂I'm an ENTJ And i think the only thing that is uncomfortable with ENTP‌, is that they need so much charm in a person to be loyal to them at first.. In the beginning they might not be so much loyal that we need, but once they realize who are the ENTJs they never leave you And i think entjs should consider this to doesn't lose an ENTP at first.. This took me time to know One more thing ENTPs please listen when an ENTJ is busy with their work and doesn't have SO MUCH CHARM ‌، the ENTP will get tired as well and the odds of betrayal will get high (maybe the definition of betrayal is different to us and them 😂) .. Otherwise they're literally great and funny i LOVE them😍😂
@FinanceElevation
@FinanceElevation 2 жыл бұрын
ENTJ and I am married to ESFJ. Oh he we challenge each other 😂 but she’s an amazing parent and partner. I just realize I am pushed to use NT a lot more and it’s helped me become a lot more mature.
@mariyabardarska5895
@mariyabardarska5895 Жыл бұрын
It would be so good and beneficial if you did a video on ENTJs and INFPs compatibility. I know it's a rather exclusive thing to make a whole video about, but I feel like it's actually a very common pairing for some reason with lots of potential for growth but also a LOT of potential for conflict and triggering each others'"bad" side. Considering our dominant and inferior functions are inversed. Yet they are high on the list of compatibility? I know you've moved on from that topic and you're probably onto new stuff, but anyway, just a potential topic to consider.
@malindaeckert2300
@malindaeckert2300 5 жыл бұрын
2 compatibility points you make that i can attest is true. ENTJs thinking ESFPs are stupid. Or id actually say not necessarily stupid , we just have a hard time validating their silly self esteem sensitivities. And us being semi blunt. We would crush their child. Its not a pretty picture. Side note my daughter is an ESFP i just realized, and lord help me im having to seriously re wire my interactions with her. 😞 and as far as INTJs not being compatible. True. we cant respect each other. Doing too much and focused on the wrong things are spot on sentiments. Semi distant friends is the best they could hope for. Constantly trying to obligate the other isn't a good game. King of the mountain anyone? 🙄
@malindaeckert2300
@malindaeckert2300 5 жыл бұрын
@@arturkvieira meet an ESTP. :)
@malindaeckert2300
@malindaeckert2300 6 жыл бұрын
It's funny you say NPs are most compatible.. lately I've been asking my top few people I choose to interact with on a regular basis.. to tell me their mbti.. and nearly all were either ENFP/INFP which.. is pretty accurate. I'm talking about.. the first 6 people I asked.. and then 2 we're ENFJ's and 1 an ESFJ.
@Jake-sv1fs
@Jake-sv1fs 5 жыл бұрын
Jeez. I carpool with my ESFP manager and your remark on Te dom trying to latch on to Ti trickster is absolutely hysterical and on point that I couldn't help but laugh out loud. He is much older than me though (he's 36 and I'm 22) so I guess maturity plays a role in where we can sort of make the commute work. One time, he tried to give me advice by saying I should spend my younger years living life to the fullest, don't worry about getting into debt and just rack it up. In my head, I was just like, wait what????
@johnlopez6544
@johnlopez6544 4 жыл бұрын
Entj here with a best friend intj. it is a lot of effort but I love him a lot.
@mikvillasin
@mikvillasin 3 жыл бұрын
Also an ENTJ here. I used to have an INTJ bestfriend. Lasted for years until we realized we're too full of pride to submit to one another. We just stopped talking one day and that's it.
@xBanii_
@xBanii_ 6 жыл бұрын
My best friend my ride or die and my damn soulmate is a INFJ I’m sad to see his type lower 😭😭 and I have a friend who is a ISFJ and INFP and I buttheads with them a lot more so the INFP because of their emotional dependency of never feeling included and that emotional want that they require was easy to try and diffuse and prove to them that they do matter but over time as an ENTJ you get tired of dealing with the emotional need that an INFP demands.
@whitneyvalens4126
@whitneyvalens4126 2 жыл бұрын
It’s harder for us ENTJs to find other intellectuals because it’s rare, less of the population than guardians. Is that why ENTJ to ISFJ marriage might be more common too?
@nemesis27
@nemesis27 4 ай бұрын
Yes
@Mercyreneeb
@Mercyreneeb 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a ENTJ and my bf is an ENTP and honestly when you said deapool I was like omg someone agrees with me. my bf always challenges me but is most sensitive about it which allows me to develop healthy communication between us. also my bf is so fucking funny lol ENTP at heart, only man who can win a debate against me
@raulsanz7120
@raulsanz7120 4 жыл бұрын
Only one thing I don't agree... "ENTJ+INTJ" works really well. ;-)
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
mistypes
@arrobatic
@arrobatic 4 жыл бұрын
Entjs, I find them intimiting :S
@raulsanz7120
@raulsanz7120 4 жыл бұрын
Rebeca lopez You are right, we are (especially when we are angry)
@SonnyBCreative
@SonnyBCreative 2 күн бұрын
@@CSJoseph so many websites says ENTJ and INTJ work well
@salazarslytha
@salazarslytha 6 жыл бұрын
I feel like you need to revisit and reevaluate the points in this video. I find INTPs crude and unappealing. And I’m an ENTJ. The majority of my friends are two types and two types only: INFP and INFJ. And the one that isn’t is my best friend. And he’s INTJ.
@usa4287
@usa4287 6 жыл бұрын
I agree. I dislike INTPs even more than ENTJs, and that says a lot. INTPs tend to get a little asocial, a little amoral. The 3 I have known well will say pervy things directly but unexpectedly because, either, they don't know how to flirt, or, they are too godlike to abide by social decorum. Professionally they can become too niche and thus redundant.
@bluegiant13
@bluegiant13 5 жыл бұрын
@@usa4287 You guys probably met some underdeveloped INTPs or just plain and simple not a match for you guys as a person. But to say that he should re-evaluate his points based on your experience sounds illogical to me. I've read most of the comments to gather more information so far I read about 10 comments talking about positive experiences between INTP and ENTJ, and only 2 of yours talking about a negative experience. Based on the same logic that you guys used, he should not re-evaluate his points because most people disagree with you guys. Of course, it is irrelevant to the truth what most people think, 2+2=4 irrelevant of whether the world thinks it is not. I think you guys should re-evaluate your style of thinking because you are totally missing the point of the theoretical understanding.
@misfithomemaker3683
@misfithomemaker3683 5 жыл бұрын
My husband is ENTJ and I am INFJ. INFJ often aren't too into material things, they won't drain your recources. They aren't needy. They admire your qualities and will nurture you. They respect your ethics. They are very loyal and appreciate your honesty and loyalty. Thiough they don't like to be criticized...they can go pray and get over it. On the downside they may end up saying something like "I don't work for you."
@TaxingIsThieving
@TaxingIsThieving 3 жыл бұрын
Why would an extrovert only have two types of introverted friends...
@chamosphere3725
@chamosphere3725 3 жыл бұрын
Intjs run from me because my sensing cognitions are too much. They told me they fuckin love it but ultimately it drains them and kinda pushes their Ni into overdrive. I miss them. But I'm sure they're thriving. In fear.
@iulianoprea6659
@iulianoprea6659 4 жыл бұрын
What you think about an ENTJ-ENFP relationship?
@chamosphere3725
@chamosphere3725 3 жыл бұрын
By personal experience of being an Enfp at a time in my life, they don't need entj's up in their business. I am an entj. I was enfp for a period of 2ish years of my life. If you're gonna shack up together... The enfp doesn't need complete emotional sanctity from a partner, if their focus is on who they want to make smile or laugh every day. An entj may need to contribute, by giving the enfp things and ideas they can change or reform into instruments of happiness, creativity. That would for sure capture their heart piece by piece. As their heart IS the environment and life they create or try to reside in. In a way entj and enfp are both compatible with that aspiration, but I don't recommend their unity.
@chamosphere3725
@chamosphere3725 3 жыл бұрын
The enfp is likely to take the entj for granted. So the entj will struggle to find a way to approach an enfp's life.
@iulianoprea6659
@iulianoprea6659 2 жыл бұрын
@@chamosphere3725 What about an ENTP-ENFP relationship? Thanks for the answer btw Chamo, great to hear from you.
@jacobroach5731
@jacobroach5731 2 жыл бұрын
This is hilarious to me because I can see these being broken down in my life. 1. I’m ENTJ and while I get along with some other ENTJs and am even inspired by a few, there are some that I cannot stand being around for even a minute. 2. I have many INTJ friends but you’re right, I haven’t talked to them in years and we used to be close but after time I’ve kind of lost some respect for them. Where’s the drive for success? They have so much potential and yet they squander it. So sad. 3. My three best friends at work: two are ENTPs and one is an ENFP.
@thaisplouvier5403
@thaisplouvier5403 Жыл бұрын
8:00 FI inf afraid it's a bad person / Fe inf afraid it's not caring enough, makes Fi inf feel less of a bad person so both don't feel bad 8:30 "I had an idea but I'm worried I might be wrong" 9:00 Ne critic : people may not be loyal because Si trickster isn't loyal. 10:30 ENTJs don't care if other's are good or not. 11:20 sometimes there is competition between Xe and Xi, when Xe has more data so thinks it knows more than Xi. 13:30 Deadpool = ENTP / his girlfriend = ENTJ 14:34 ENTP-ENTJ : "built in humility" 15:00 Ti parent wants Te hero to be accurate, if not Fe child is scared it can hurt other people. Or Ti parent taking care of Se child : "your inaccuracy is giving people a bad experience like myself" 16:30 Ni parent : your Ne hero is too out of touch with reality, it's making my child freak out. I don't want what you're doing. 16:55 Se child envelops Si inf, Fe child envelops Fi inf with hugs. 18:00 underdeveloped Ni nem makes ENTPs disloyal, Ne critic knows that and makes sure the ENTP stays sincere. 18:25 Te critic keeps ENTJs sincere & altruistic. 18:40 golden pair is more like "a punch in the face", "more accountability" -> can be more conflictual. 20:00 ISFJ x ENTJ most common marriage bc of other people being disloyal. 9/10 ENTJs he's met. 21:20 Si hero helps Si trickster develop. 21:30 Fe parent can make the Fi inf feel bad. Also keeps them from observing social rules. Ne inf is afraid of what the ENTJ's about to do bc know how impulsive Ni parent can get, it makes Si hero uncomfortable. 22:50 ENTJs and INTPs are in local politics and philosophy groups. 23:40 ESFJ x ENTJ : good to develop the inferior, risk of bitterness & high conflict if one is more mature than the other. 25:30 ESFP = amusing = without thought. ENTJs see SFPs as really stupid. 27:30 camaraderie : "keep at arms length"
@zephdo2971
@zephdo2971 Жыл бұрын
My department head is actually admirable and cool and respectable
@imrebenedect
@imrebenedect 4 жыл бұрын
Makes sense why my esfp brother and I didn't get along at all as kids.. Now I realize that as a kid I always had to put on an act to get along to avoid arguments/fights because there was no amount of reason that could win against Se.. Now as an adult I get to be myself finally and I'm cordial to my family but I don't like their company and I avoid them as much as possible. Funny my brother got enfp in an online test.. lmao And I always liked sfj's, my mom being an estp I thought she was very selfish, I always wanted a caring loving mother like sfj's are perceived to be. (sorry for my English, it's my 2nd language)
@brickellvoss7739
@brickellvoss7739 Жыл бұрын
my boyfriend is an INTP and him describing the ice-cream scene is totally how we are with trying new beer and cocktails, he is really into mixology or whatever you call it and he keeps up with what I like, so I trust him to introduce me to new things all the time.
@MusicCrackhead
@MusicCrackhead 6 жыл бұрын
My friend (ENTJ) and I (INTJ) are starting a business together. Glad I watched this. Now when she feels I’m focusing on one thing to much, I can stop myself and listen to the things she thinks is important and then direct her ass to start working on those things her self. Haha! She’s going to hate me. 😂😂 It’s all love.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
did you see my comparison vid on the two just released today?
@MusicCrackhead
@MusicCrackhead 6 жыл бұрын
C.S. Joseph don’t be silly, of course I did
@Sniegel
@Sniegel 5 жыл бұрын
I am quite certain my female colleague is an ENTJ. These videos helps me immensely. If I don't screw up. I am worried she is suspicious if my intentions. And at this moment of my life I am working on how to express my intentions so that people don't misunderstand me. That's why it's great to know peoples weaknesses so I can reduce their suspiciousness so their trust for me increases. Once trust is gained I can reveal that I want to (in the ENTJ case) empower her (because she deserves more power than she has currently). Something along those lines. I'm worried I'll manipulate her in a way where she feels I am trying to control her.
@angelcat4785
@angelcat4785 3 жыл бұрын
Enfp and ENTJ please; they keep finding me . I’m not sure if this is good or bad idea
@veilsideride
@veilsideride 6 жыл бұрын
Am a entj, unlikely to get along with ESFJ,ENFJ,INFJ,ESFP,ISFP or ISTJ. Sometimes ESTP.
@Whyareyoustalkingme123
@Whyareyoustalkingme123 2 жыл бұрын
I realllyyyy love ISFJ , and ENTP men -entj
@swampy2008
@swampy2008 4 жыл бұрын
19:51 ENTJ, ISFJ 23:33 ENTJ, ESFJ 26:58 ENTJ, ENTJ
@ladom6315
@ladom6315 6 жыл бұрын
Not sure about SFJs being so high up there. My bf is ENTJ and I'm an INFP, he really dislikes them. Also have met other ENTJs who don't have very good relationships with them.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Liane Arandia they really are, but then again you provide all the loyalty he needs
@maloneaqua
@maloneaqua 2 жыл бұрын
As an ENTJ I generally loathe SJ types. I can tolerate them if they’re balanced with Feeling and Introversion, but otherwise I can’t stand the conventional thinking and self righteousness of SJ
@aparnadas359
@aparnadas359 5 жыл бұрын
An infj in love with an entj...it breaks my heart to see infj in the bottoms 💔
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын
perhaps someone in there is mistyped. If you are using a test, you only have a 1/5 chance of being accurate.
@flekicao7054
@flekicao7054 5 жыл бұрын
ENTJ women here. Here is my experience with an ENTP. I've been in a relationship with an ENTP for three and a half years. First year was great, then, like you, he talks too much, I'm not saying that everything he said was BS, but, that interaction style, when he just starts to mimicking someone, in a petty way...half of the time I didn't even listen to him. Yes, you are funny, but aslo petty, aside flirting and cheating and that, we didn't have any other problems.
@mzi668
@mzi668 3 жыл бұрын
Ey ENTJ here, I passed on ENTP lady, great sexual compatibility but I knew she would cheat. Noped the hell out of there pretty quick😌
@agent001sa
@agent001sa 2 жыл бұрын
Can you kindly do a detailed account of ENTJ and INFP. I can’t understand why I find the INFP so interesting. That empathy and kindness is so intoxicating
@entersandmanlml
@entersandmanlml Жыл бұрын
Those types are complementary opposites, different enough to complement each other, but similar enough to have good communication. Not to mention that both types gets really exited about intellectual/deep/philosophical conversation, making them an excellent pair.
@appsjeff
@appsjeff 5 жыл бұрын
As a young INTJ sitting in a bar drinking a beer, alone, depressed trying to be "normal." I had an ENTJ woman come up and hit on me, and asked fo,r my number. It felt so...awkward, and was frozen in my tracks. To say the least it went nowhere, but years later, she ended up my boss. Luckily, i transferred to another department fairly quickly. She was butthurt and treated me like shit. Soon enough, she would( and still does sometimes) will flirt with me or hit on me. (Took me forever to see she was flirting) we went to lunch once and had fun, but i could always see we have nothing
@maçadouradaatelie
@maçadouradaatelie 2 жыл бұрын
just watched this with my friend (im an entj hes and entp) and we laughed the whole part he was explaining entpxentj because it's so accurate
@ThePhi96
@ThePhi96 6 жыл бұрын
now i know why mates dont like the Girlfriend of each other
@doyoueatrocks
@doyoueatrocks 3 ай бұрын
Forget women o just fell in love with this board and the tedious amounts of work that went into it… if your not using that whiteboard later,,, can I take it out for coffee
@KudoMelad
@KudoMelad 4 жыл бұрын
Ah, too bad as an INTJ I am attracted to ENTJs. If I had the chance I would be very much be in a relationship with an ENTJ.
@tpose5637
@tpose5637 3 жыл бұрын
You’re awesome. 😅 I like you. You’re “good people”.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 3 жыл бұрын
I try
@jphone9200
@jphone9200 Жыл бұрын
Dating an isfj for the guaranteed loyalty
@phinehas1387
@phinehas1387 3 жыл бұрын
And an ENTJ I think the list is kinda funny because ... 1. My best friend is an intp which makes sense. 2. Most of my other friends are intjs and I get well with them really well. 3. I have some of the other types, but I think that I get well (medium wise) with xxfjs, but I don’t get as well with xsfx types (with them I usually spend a lot of energy getting along with them while most xntx types I get well with together. 4. I would say that I am the worst with the ENTP, just because it can get heated. That’s just my opinion and I hope you found this helpful
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 3 жыл бұрын
You're combining Camaraderie and Compatibility, this list is solely compatibility.
@awakeinthedream1111
@awakeinthedream1111 4 жыл бұрын
I’m curious why ENFPs are ranked so high up because wouldn’t ENTJs hold a similar attitude towards ENFPs as they do ESFPs? As in, thinking they’re stupid and not caring about their feelings. But ENTJ Se child wants to give ENFP Si inferior a good experience nonetheless? lol I’m kinda confused about this dynamic
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah but ENFP is good in bed
@awakeinthedream1111
@awakeinthedream1111 4 жыл бұрын
Lol well as an ENFP, I agree! ;) ENTJs are condescending but possessive towards me, and I think you explained why perfectly. ENTJs can help make our dreams come true + they like ENFPs imaginative and sometimes rational side (NeTe) but idk if it’s healthy for the ENFP to be with someone who doesn’t think or feel for them much, but wants to keep them loyal so they can keep giving them hot sex hahha. Thanks for the vid :)
@chamosphere3725
@chamosphere3725 3 жыл бұрын
Enfps are spicy and when u force them to feel anything critically- *Entj has been throat slit by enfp in the shadows.* . . . They sew you back up and make sweet love if provoked. All seriousness though, they're still intuitive people. Big difference in potential dynamic opposed to esfp.
@hudasungyeollie4680
@hudasungyeollie4680 6 жыл бұрын
I am INTP and I feel like my ENTJ housemate is too bossy for me to handle and always dragging me out of my comfort zone (I know it is a good thing but hey I need my space to... you know do my thing) anyway she is scary when she start to practice those chinese weapons in our room as her new hobby.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Women provide challenge for men so they can respect them.
@hudasungyeollie4680
@hudasungyeollie4680 6 жыл бұрын
Okay, but we both are women.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
okay, then based on that I recommend you get acquainted with my lecture playlist here on this channel titled: "The Four Pillars Of Self-Intimacy" as that will give you the tools to enforce boundaries with others, especially ENTJs.
@TaxingIsThieving
@TaxingIsThieving 3 жыл бұрын
On the one hand they can be efficient, on the other hand they can be pushy.
@englishmuffin7
@englishmuffin7 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, and i really like INTJs too... I feel ENTPs can be friends but i haven't seen a lot of ENTJ and ENTP relationships to get into it with thise types. Lol great video tho 👌
@Hello0o0o064
@Hello0o0o064 8 ай бұрын
As an ENTJ, I disagree. I don’t really get much fulfilment from INTPs. INTJs are just way cooler and I get them at heart. INTPs don’t really understand me, or at least they usually irritate me too much. But maybe it’s just the people from my experience, not the types cognitively… Idk Also I feel like an ENTP wouldn’t value me highly in reality so vice versatility I guess… But I do agree I love ISFJs and ESFJs can be really cool
@AnonW
@AnonW 3 жыл бұрын
But as an ENTJ all my friends are INTJs... And most of my best friends are INTJs... Also April Ludgate from Parks and Rec is an INTP and after watching all the seasons, I dislike her ALOT and think her personality is terrible.
@muchgoodisgiven1517
@muchgoodisgiven1517 2 жыл бұрын
I’m intj and most of my close relationships are with entj
@EllaFadeout
@EllaFadeout 9 ай бұрын
In regards to if the entj or intp is smarter argument, I think the more accurate thing to consider (which you did mention) is they're different types of knowledge gained in different ways (experiential vs intellectual reference) and applied in different ways. The importance is how they balance each other. Competition is so fun sometimes, but other times it's good to just say they fill in where the other is lacking and enjoy learning together. 👁️👄👁️ Amirite? 😂
@mattrivera8587
@mattrivera8587 2 жыл бұрын
i am an ENTJ...married to an ISFJ 😅
@oflameo8927
@oflameo8927 2 жыл бұрын
I want the competition so I would be less lazy about finishing things. Competition means caring. I don't like doing things for or against apathetic people. It is just a waste of time.
@zenithgreyhatENTJ
@zenithgreyhatENTJ 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I can’t tell the difference whether you’re being sarcastic or genuine 😂
@emjhendrickson8290
@emjhendrickson8290 4 жыл бұрын
My response to "Separate the boys from the men," YES PLZZZ
@mumalkhan4083
@mumalkhan4083 6 жыл бұрын
I am an INTJ woman and I've been in a relationship with an ENTJ manchild! Now I know why was it such a pain in the ass! :/ Thanks for the information. you are doing a great job! All the best :)
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Mumal Khan much appreciated. Please watch the human nurture playlist to help with relationships.
@mumalkhan4083
@mumalkhan4083 6 жыл бұрын
C.S. Joseph Thanks, I will. Keep up the good work. You're amazing! :)
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын
Mumal Khan much appreciated:)
@ENFPhoneybee
@ENFPhoneybee 5 жыл бұрын
Could you please comment on how an ENTJ male and ISTP female relationship would work? (ISTP here asking.....so be as detailed as possible?) :) Thanks!
@chamosphere3725
@chamosphere3725 3 жыл бұрын
Damn if the istp likes the entj then ya better clap down on going for it. Pro tips, As an entj never have I ever been more impressed with my istp buds that ask me to help them to do something, only to find out they already did it and now I'm part of the squad because the thing I just made has to be my own so it isn't useless. Also to show your sensing awareness of a variety of scenarios you can bring up or just talk about, are great discussions. If they like you too, humoring comedy will make em blush. if the comedy is sexual and they're nipping at it like lil mako sharks, make it a meal they cant refuse 😏
@dawnriddler
@dawnriddler 2 жыл бұрын
ISTPs are my favourite type. I've only met 3 irl, and been with all of them. 😂
@nemesis27
@nemesis27 4 ай бұрын
Nope
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