WHAT WE WISH WE KNEW BEFORE MARRIAGE... 10 things we've learned

[@danihenry21]

I saw this somewhere that is so true. “Biblical submission in marriage is a wife making a choice not to overtly resist her husband’s will. That is not to say she cannot disagree with him or that she cannot express her opinion. Indeed, a wife who practices submission is by definition a woman with strength of character. She will therefore usually have her own opinions and ideas about issues. These may often be different to the opinions of her husband. But she can express her opinions and ideas respectfully without belittling and without disrespectful confrontation. In fact it might sometimes be wrong for her not to express her opinion. She is ordained by God to be her husband’s helper, not his doormat. By expressing her opinions, giving advice and offering suggestions she will be an invaluable partner to her husband.””

[@shamelesshussy]

That is chilling.

[@truthfreed7]

Well said.

[@annedaughterofGod]

👍👍

[@OrchidTingz]

This is an incredible share/comment thank you it touches so many points and explains submission in a truthful, honorable, and safe way this kind of submission is safe ❤

[@latinourbano]

So when are you paying back the money you stoled from all those people?

[@martinepeters9891]

Explain....

[@fairyy6349]

@@martinepeters9891 She scammed so so so many people. Got 25,000 for a homeless man to send him to rehab centre and kept the money all to herself

[@jasminea7828]

Woah! The state of Texas has a lawsuit against you seeking between $250,000 and $1,000,000 for civil penalties!

[@nikki27ish]

I had no idea about her being sued, just googled it and oh my time to unsubscribe!

[@hittingtax2670]

Not anymore. That was settled and Britney doesn’t have to pay anybody.

[@hittingtax2670]

Her plaintiff lost their case

[@nikki27ish]

@@hittingtax2670 when people show me who they are I believe them, she knew she was taking people's money and not giving them the product and service advertised. I wish her well but she isn't someone I choose to follow now.

[@hittingtax2670]

I’m hesitant to trust her too.😕

[@ludak8890]

So you really wanted to go to church but you didn't because he didn't say it? That's so bizarre to my. Just say I wanna go to church. Done. What do you mean it's "not your role" to get you to church. You want to go, so say you wanna go. Or if he doesn't wanna go just go by yourself. But it seems like he also wanted to go cause he said "well why didn't you say something" It's just seems like you were affraid to say you wanted to go to church.

[@monzyj]

Yeah… a lot of weird things in this video. Very cringy.

[@SabrinaWall]

It’s quite a passive aggressive thing to do actually. You wanna go to church, it’s called communication lol. Don’t just assume he knows your thoughts and expectations.

[@shelbyj5671]

I’ve followed her for 5 years. 1st video I’ve watched in 6 months. It’s giving (I don’t actually believe anything my husband says) vibes. I’m just going to hop off another 6 months. :/ also. . “I was financially abused” ok Brittany so you become a financial abuser? Wth

[@briannagamboa4821]

You missed it

[@rileywiley268]

@@shelbyj5671 why even bother following her. I’m watching this for a project on scammers lol .

[@OrchidTingz]

I love Jordan's transparency and honesty thank you so much for this it ignites so much hope for the truth that there are God honoring, healthy, evolving men out there seeking Christ- Centered marriage! Thank you to you both for sharing this with us ❤ God Bless you both 🙏🏾

[@christinaloeffler4406]

Great video! Love how genuine you guys are and those tips were refreshing to hear :) we’ve been married almost 15 years and these were all great reminders! *also only being married a year does not disqualify you! God has obviously given both of you great wisdom and awesome you are putting these into practice now and not allowing bad habits to form ❤ Bless you guys!!

[@kourtneyweiss]

Thank you for this. 3 months into marriage and already found this so helpful ☺️ God bless you both 🙏

[@taraleasure]

Congrats on one year of marriage! My husband and I celebrated our 1 year in August. I am quite confused though about the whole "it's your job to get us to church" segment. Sure, I would absolutely agree it's the husband's job to encourage the family and say 'hey, we're all going to church this Sunday.' But I have to disagree with what said about how it's Jordan's job to just know you want to go to church; it's not our spouses' responsibility to read our minds. Communication is key, and it's important to have fair and realistic expectations of one another.

[@taraleasure]

@@ellevictory1339 ???

[@valeriebarnett6946]

Communicating and not nagging. 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 Women want to feel heard and men want to feel respected. My husband and I celebrate our 12 year wedding anniversary this October.

[@aoyamiuriko5059]

So anyway,ignoring the comments that didnt use discernment before they criticized.. I had this video playing during dinner with my husband and I today,our anniversary was on Nov 4th, but its been 3yrs of marriage and this was very helpful,relatable and edifying. We really thought deeply and even enjoyed a laugh,God bless you guys

[@Braveh3artGirl]

So good not to see a hateful comment! People nasty around here man

[@MLove5357]

This is such a testament to why testimony is so powerful. True honest accounts of losing your way, finding your path back through forgiveness through Christ and making the commitment to serve Him first shines here. Thank you! We all fall short no matter where we are in our journey. Repentance is real and necessary every day.

[@sulusu4812]

Sis, maybe they had discernment while giving their opinions. Don't be so lofty

[@melissaann7380]

The “stop crying” 💀💀💀 😂😂😂😂

[@Shaylarealtor]

I can understand what Jordan means about our traumas don't go away instantly with marriage. It can seem like marriage would magically heel trust or abandonment issues just because there is a covenant. But that doesn't erase the fears and trauma inside each partner.

[@femininityfaith7920]

Loved this! It really did take my standards higher and help confirm some thing's going on in my life Thank you so so so so much!!!! I feel this is going to be a very good reference of course along side my Bible, prayer, my own convictions but this was great, quite emotional if I'm being honest!

[@michelleoliver7667]

Did you reimburse the people you stole from …. God bless you

[@indiging8330]

Whatever happened to all that money you raised for the homeless man that you then sent to a free forced labour rehab facility and then proceeded to block and not give the gofundme money to? It didn’t go to that god awful tacky wedding you had did it?

[@miamag8722]

That was beautiful. Thankyou.

[@e93sports80]

How's James doing?

[@mmoonnkkeeyy]

This the guy that got sued by the actual for police brutality??

[@roses993]

What a beautiful marriage! You inspire me. If the Lord blessed you like this, He can bless me too❤🥰 may the Lord continue to bless you and your marriage ❤

[@esaflaka9155]

Her: ✨I’m crying✨ Him: Stop crying😐 🤣🤣❤️

[@TheKalle801]

Have you paid back the money you scammed?

[@nympholoqy]

what?

[@AB-ChristianFoster]

Brittany, may God bless your Chanel and your marriage! Don’t let ANYONE tear you down!

[@-._.-_.-_]

She scammed 25k from people and pretended she was gonna give it to a homeless man

[@angelrebekah9153]

@@-._.-_.-_ what are you talking about? They put him in a rehab! Do you know how much that costs?

[@elyseawitan4135]

@@angelrebekah9153 i thought the rehab they sent him to was free?

[@kylielynn9398]

Just a question, how long so you think you should date before marriage?

[@BH1TV]

Stop stealing money please that’s all we ask!

[@angelashqau6308]

Justice for James

[@rileywiley268]

Her eyelashes are scary

[@sulusu4812]

Your judgments are frightening

[@KristineKaktina]

May I ask to film more videos about gym if you still are working out. I was trying to find someone who has knowledge about it, but found only non christian content. They give good tips about working out, but it comes along with worldly point of view and I am trying to guard my ears. Maybe you can suggest someone?

[@thanou2000]

Stealing is against of what Jesus said, so please don’t claim to be a Christian! JUSTICE FOR JAMES

[@belleingersoll6240]

sweet sweet brittany && jordan , W O A H ! where do i even start ? this is such a beautiful beautiful sit down video ! it was so so beautiful to see how evident the Lord has been working in your lives through your beautiful 1 0 things ! i absolutely loved all of your sweet answers && it was so so evident that you both have such a beautiful marriage that is wholeheartedly found in the steadfast love of the Lord . i cannot wait to see how the Lord uses you both in this next season as foster parents . . . i am so so grateful the Lord has called you into this place && i know that the kids He brings to you through your love for Him will be so so encouraged ! continue to lean into Him && His never ending love in all things ! 🕊️🤎

[@julianaawrey]

How’s the court case coming along? Jesus isn’t gonna get you out of that.

[@Talania12]

What court case? I’m genuinely curious

[@julianaawrey]

@@Talania12 look up her name & you’ll see! She stole tons of money from people and didn’t provide the services

[@julianaawrey]

@@Talania12 trying to use my words wisely because my comment gets deleted if I use words because they have then blocked.

[@Talania12]

@@julianaawrey​wow so sad 😞 I did some research and it’s sad. A healthy reminder not to look up to these “influencers” . It’s sad she says she’s a woman of God. Just disappointing

[@julianaawrey]

@@Talania12 so sad :( and they aren’t taking accountability either.

[@ahl8229]

2:18 HAHAH love ya all sm😹🥰. GOD bless you both!!!❤️‍🔥✝️

[@strawbabbie]

sister… please stand up for yourself… i’m gonna hurl at how many times you say to submit to a man

[@BrittanyDawn]

you realize it’s biblical to submit to your husband… right?

[@vanessastone6797]

If you have problems with biblical marriage why watch the channel?

[@BrittanyDawn]

@@Missamericana29 I actually do talk about this, a lot. honor goes both ways. if you read/watched my content on all my platforms you would see that. 🕊

[@strawbabbie]

@@vanessastone6797 i’m allowed to enjoy someone’s content but question the content in it… i like brit but this vid was kinda 😕

[@mommasea]

When you are submitting to a husband who is leading you biblically according to God’s Word and design for your marriage it is a joy and peace to walk alongside and submit to your husband’s authority over your family.

[@kaylahenderson3285]

we want two and maybe adopt. newsflashhhh that would be your child too!!! the fact that you are separating it is startling

[@vanessastone6797]

I know this is way off subject but I went back through a few of your videos and I love your outfits. Can you do a video of the way you style your wardrobe and what pieces you would put together because they're always so nice the way you pair things?

[@milleypana]

I wonder what James wished he knew when you guys stole the money donated to him and forced him into labour?

[@seeker27.]

Hey Brittney ! If you see this I just have a quick question .. I'm trying to find Bible apps and I remember you having a link to one in the description of one of your videos. But I've gone back thru all of them and I must be blind or the enemy is trying to prevent me from finding it but for the life of me I CANT FIND IT ! LoL ... can you please let me know good Bible apps ? If you reply back, thank you so much ! God Bless You Love ♥

[@miriklas4035]

This video blessed me so much, thanks💜 Please never stop to share what God puts on your hearts 💕

[@BellicV]

A con artist and a cop who beats people up with no justification. What a great couple.

[@alexiarifaey]

uhhh what?

[@seeker27.]

Rude.

[@BellicV]

@@seeker27. No, not rude. Facts.

[@BabyGirlRaven]

@@seeker27. they’re right it’s facts. Why don’t you do some more research on your own you’ll see how fat that really is. She stole peoples money when she was doing the fitness stuff people with eating disorders work reaching out to her because she used to have a similar problem from my understanding and she would send robot automated messages to them. She has been sued by the state of Texas because it was getting to the point where she was almost killing people by not speaking to those people and that was by the attorney generals office so if you don’t believe the facts look it up yourself you’ll find out that information. Also, so she didn’t have to continue to give people half of their money back if any at all, she decided to become a “Christian woman so she found a way to take more peoples money.

[@rileywiley268]

@@seeker27. facts not rude it’s the truth

[@ashleysmith3713]

I wish there was a love button!!!

[@TheSungjiun]

So beautiful! Thank you for sharing all these!🤍

[@randishierman882]

What does it mean to call higher?

[@cindybrown4622]

Girl.... I watched you for years now..and to see how far you've come and watch you grow is amazing. You are absolutely motivational, kind, willing to grow.. you are beautiful inside and out and I am so happy for you. You couldn't have found a more perfect man for you to help you with this journey. Be proud of where you are! So blown away. :-)

[@arbretree5463]

Love the direction this channel has taken ❤️!

[@thechristianmilso5981]

Love this! Married 1.5 years and I can relate to so much of this 🤍

[@Reverend_Brown]

Yaaaassssssss so needed this You goooooo girrrrrrrl yasssssss Love this. I’ll think of some more tacky comments later

[@Miriam2100.]

It makes me laugh when he says that it scares him to have 5 kids because I'm the oldest of 9 children so I honestly don't understand when people can't deal with just 1 or 2 kids. No hate ,I just thought it was funny.

[@tammyoeding8161]

I'm so blessed to see how you've turned your life around! Following JC and having a true believer, with your husband! I've watched you before and loved your content but unsubscribed at 1 point... Now this is what I love to see. Advice from true believers. Be blessed, both of you, as you have blessed me! 🙌❤️🕊️

[@naomiscollectionofvideos4231]

"Do not be alarmed. Just feed her" definitely needs to be made lol. I loved every single thing the both of you shared. It was very helpful

[@garvin0313]

Thank YOÜ 4 making this video💕 It blessed me 💓a whole lot! I'm in the midst of a stormy season. Your video brought convection to my spirit. 😇 What's something women or men can do to better posture themselves spiritually for their Godly chosen? *Love yall! Always praying for yall!* 💝💖

[@melaniajet9833]

Chill the the tan lady

[@JohnnySmoove]

y’all still paying back that lawsuit money?

[@broken_rebirth]

The 'just feed her' one is so true. Some people have blood sugar instability and women specifically need to have balanced blood sugar for hormonal reasons. Esp. if it's close to our periods. So don't just feed her, give her chocolate. Lol Or her fav. sweet treat on stressful days where you can see she's struggling to keep it together. Struggling with past trauma I can say I will definitely wake up a 3 and go to a 10 with no warning and I'm standing there wondering wtf just happened and have to go into a literal corner to meditate and ground myself. And chocolate does help LOL.

[@erincmalley]

I’m loving this content! ❤ more please!

[@loredanab]

I am very proud and beautiful impressed on how much God worked into your life 🥰 I pray that God blesses your marriage and everything else in your life you are so beautiful from inside and came so far ❤love it

[@Braveh3artGirl]

I really enjoyed this video ❤ great to hear both sides too

[@melaniesmith652]

I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!! holy rollers i love it sister!!!!! God Bless you both!!!

[@BrittanyDawn]

love you sister!!!!

[@drewfoster4607]

JUSTICE FOR JAMES

[@kelseymena1844]

We need to see a tutorial on your hair curling process britt!

[@siftingtrutheshit2380]

Dis dude has AMAZING patience

[@alphalifestyleacademy]

3:33 Amen Brother...

[@VickyFlores]

I love your videos together!🥹❤️

[@wesleyking1]

Wow....167 comments many are positive and she is only responding to 4 people and not those who asked questions😂😂😂😂lol...see now that's where the problem comes...i mean im trying to understand for a whole year she couldnt find time to respond to the other say like 20 positive questions......preferred she could have just not responded to any...atleast that would be fare and realistic to those who were ignored anyway😂

[@staceylmstar]

Honestly it was min 31 for me. I have been taking on the responsibility of trying to bring the man Im dating to the Lord so that man can lead me. I thought I was doing right by God by brining him another believer. And maybe I am in that but to have that man lead me is where Im going wrong. I really needed to hear that. Thank you for mentioning that.

[@LetsSingTheDoomSong]

Ever considered leading yourself, and building self-sufficiency?? Are you condemned to being a wayward duckling if you don't have a man to LEEEAD you?? You'll end up with a stronger sense of self if you master the art of controlling your own life, and you'll be more skilled at navigating through life's challenges. Sorry to say, but if your man doesn't have much interest in "Leading you," psssst...he might not be as into you as you think he is. If you so desperately need another person to assist you in keeping your shit straight, then stay single until one does that willingly and doesn't need convincing. You wouldn't rather be with someone who shared those values with you from the beginning?

[@frydagenao846]

4:36

[@purplelamington279]

🤣🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@dena5558]

Loved this! Thank you for taking the time to share 🙏🏻❤️

[@lifeoflaurynn]

loving the content ❤👍

[@UghHamburgers]

It’s what you do when you think no one is looking that really counts. you two give Christians a bad name

[@hdr7455]

I love this . It’s so helpful .

[@ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney]

So nice to see you are in a good place now...God bless your marriage.

[@chahrazb1559]

I absolutely love this video. It's helped me put my actions into perspective ❤️

[@blossom654]

This was nice ❤

[@bethanydillfan]

Thanks for this! As a married woman, i can relate to a lot of these things! Ive been married 9 years and I can say 100% nagging is not helpful and is not biblical

[@BrittanyDawn]

you’re so welcome! it’s hard sometimes but the Holy Spirit is faithful to help us bite our tongues!

[@melaniesmith652]

Fantastic video. Sharing!!!!1

[@BrittanyDawn]

thank you for watching! 💗

[@jessicabrooks1764]

Hey Brittany you still vegan?

[@babysq7777]

Sweet Jesus, don't show this channel to me again

[@jeniisabellarodriguez8150]

i love your videos but…. i miss the health y food topics , exercise, so i watch alot of your older videos-

[@boglarkabalogh307]

I hope you know that she scammed people and stole a lot of money... That is the reason why she doesnt do those type of videos anymore.

[@korva_puusti]

You should check out her true crime videos!

[@geneticfreak84]

@@korva_puusti 🤣

[@Zeyaad1000]

Cassidy Campbell exposed you for your fraudulent behaviour hahaha

[@Talania12]

What are you talking about? I’m genuinely curious…

[@Zeyaad1000]

@@Talania12 There was a big controversy about this lady scamming women who ordered fitness plans from her. Cassidy Campbell made a KZbin video where he confronted her about it at a fitness expo event.

[@Talania12]

@@Zeyaad1000wow so sad 😞 I did some research and it’s sad. A healthy reminder not to look up to these “influencers”

[@Zeyaad1000]

@@Talania12 Absolutely! Not all influencers obviously, but there are a few bad apples for sure. I hope this one realizes what she did wrong and apologizes to all the people she harmed

[@LK-bn7sz]

so communicating with your husband is nagging, got it.

[@WeirdWhiteRabbit]

Did you listen to them ? or just heard what you wanted to hear... Cuz I certainly don't like my BF nagging at me and I try to pay him back that respect.

[@LK-bn7sz]

@@WeirdWhiteRabbit I did listen. Simply communicating frustration or asking questions isn't nagging, it's control.

[@mycupofcocoa1125]

Ur going to be great parents because feeding ur spouse also applies to babies/kids with they’re hangry. I appreciate the calling to higher tip without embarrassing them in public 😊