what I wish I knew about sex...

[@notsorry3631]

They tell you sex will stop after marriage. I've been married 15 years. Sometimes we are crazy about each other for days at a time, and sometimes we're lucky if it's once a week. Communication is definitely key.

[@katiejane6761]

They tell men. They don't tell women that some husbands will withhold sex too.

[@jakto9747]

Sex should be start after mariage.

[@monicastanley0422]

21 years of marriage here and I wholeheartedly agree with you! We are the same. It’s very normal. ❤❤

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

It's less.

[@tonyzone8999]

Facts

[@BuzzMediaUS]

It's difficult if not impossible to love anyone else if you don't love yourself. On the other hand, you can't love someone else if you love yourself too much.

[@arimantumc2392]

What do you mean by this phrase?

[@throughfrankieseyeznow]

@@arimantumc2392 If you don't love The Lord first, you can't love yourself, if you don't love yourself, you can't love someone else to be with. You can't show love if you don't know love.

[@owrah2198]

Thats Not true.

[@throughfrankieseyeznow]

@@akatgif that's your opinion.

[@returningtoperfection]

So tell what you mean. What this commentor said is very true and highly rational. Can you figure it out?

[@Hairbykatelynmarie]

This video is amazing! Thank you for being so honest and transparent about your history! They don’t touch this topic in church at all! I’d love to see more like this!

[@mkpete1098]

You put everything into such a beautiful perspective, Brittany!! Thank you!!🫶🏼🖤

[@mimicoolwhip5991]

Not sure how many of Brits lovely subs are older than her but as a woman who is, I was wondering how many of ya all deal with sexual trauma as a child/young adult. Theres also the perimenopause/menopause aspect as well. Ugh lol Would love to see an episode or 2 on trauma & how it relates to marriage, advice etc. I feel like this is a huge subject that does affect our intimate life, no matter how long weve been married. Great video nonetheless❤

[@ellydestiny8105]

More of these, from a biblical perspective. Thank you!

[@Life.as.Vicky.]

Thank you so much for this video. I am a new Christian, I had what feels like a calling last fall, and honestly, being spiritual but non Christian my all life, it's been hard to fit the Lord into my life. I have been praying and struggling, and even though I am not a virgin, it's been almost a year of celibacy. The Lord made something shift in me, and I am not interested in selfish sex anymore. I have no idea what the future holds for me, but I will not be going back to that. I could talk for hours on how much I realized it was wrong for me. I will absolutely research more on this topic, thank you so much. God bless ❤

[@Foxiepawstotti]

She isnt a Christian, she is just using it to deflect from her court case!

[@jennjohnson-richards5829]

Sex is marriage. Sex is a covenant between a married couple, and God.

[@mimicoolwhip5991]

Love this! Beautifully said❤❤❤

[@Phoenix_Rising82]

You are JOKING!😅

[@amberpelz1989]

❤thank you for this♡ coming from a single mom who's had a past with single sex, I appreciate your courage to stand up and talk about these hard topics. You're such an inspiration!!! God bless you!

[@BrookeTheOutcast]

highly appreciate the disclaimer you gave at the beginning!

[@howardross9614]

A1 Excellent discussion of the topic! More power to you and your hubby! So proud to have you in the Kingdom!!!

[@estergrinchuk8987]

This was a much needed video especially for someone who didn’t know a lot about this but is getting married soon

[@throughfrankieseyeznow]

Have you ever talked about what kind of sexual things are allowed or not allowed in a Godly marriage, what are your thoughts? Are there limits in regards to sexual intimacy and or other sexual things... in a Godly marriage to honor The Lord before doing other things with your husband or wife. I know it doesn't say in The Bible, but I know it's a good question most would ask, since we're on the topic. Like wouldn't all that "OS" stuff cause a gateway for the enemy to come where he doesn't belong like the past. Sry to throw a big one at ya💛 This would be interesting to talk about.

[@courtneyhowell812]

Hahahah oral sex is great especially in marriage. If you’re old enough to be married and having sex you can say “oral sex”

[@courtneyhowell812]

And actually if you read Song Of Solomon it talks about it

[@throughfrankieseyeznow]

@@courtneyhowell812 some people can't read and don't know. There's nothing funny about my question that I'm asking, yet you want to laugh at me for something I'm taking seriously. Maybe some people just don't want to write the whole word. What's it to you anyway, I wasn't asking you. You should be a bit more compassionate towards people who are curious before you go about talking like your educated knowing nothing about nothing, cause if you actually did know something you would handle answering my question in a more respectable, approachable manner cause there are people who just don't know who are following The Lord, that's why people ask. It's ok not to know everything, learn from others, ASK QUESTIONS, and be appropriate about it. There's nothing funny about laughing at someone asking a serious question.

[@katiejane6761]

In my marriage its...hes not allowed to "finish" anywhere but the place where there's possibility of baby.

[@throughfrankieseyeznow]

@@katiejane6761 💛🙏🏼

[@laural6479]

Great video. I would also mention that enthusiasm and creativity (time of day, part of the house, etc.) is important as well. This is God’s gift to married couples, why not take full advantage of it?

[@Mary-zl7et]

i’m so glad your talking about this, my husband and i are going through IVF, in our season of life, our sex life has been non-existent because of the hormones and also being told not to. different seasons of life causes different changes in sex life and when we first got married it was definitely hard to figure out why i didn’t or he didn’t want to

[@fromthethrone]

It's not about you but only about your spouse to enjoy the sex in marriage??? Do not agree!!! Both of partners must to enjoy in marital sex, otherwise one is just denying him/herself, which for sure leads to unhappiness and unfulfillment long term, and separation in the end.

[@katiejane6761]

Its about both of you. I think you took it the wrong way.

[@AndreaClewell]

No, she means sex with your husband isn't only about how you feel and what you get outta it. It's about what you're giving to ur husband and how he feels during sex. When u think of sex you think of yourself feeling pleasured and enjoying the act. In marriage you are to focus on your husband's satisfaction before your own

[@fromthethrone]

@@AndreaClewell It's a natural thing that he is the one that makes you satisfied and fulfilled first, and then after this is his turn. And this is how it's supposed to be, not the opposite. How can he satisfy you, if he was satisfied first? This means that he is done for the day or at least for that time, everything drops, he becomes tired and his motivation drops. He can't satisfy you then. And you stayed unsatisfied then. That's sad.

[@DanaiMRamos95]

i love you for this, ive always struggled with this..

[@Abbicushoneybadger]

Definitely more of these types of videos please!

[@freedom_fighter8096]

I think that It will be super interesting for you to get information about teaching of Catholic Church about marriage. Highly recommend 'Theology of the body' by John Paul II. And I personally love NFP from Catholic Church. It's so beautiful how God created us :)

[@nanciumphres9001]

Thank you for sharing this! So much I wish I had known years ago…

[@garvin0313]

Purple nails! You go girl! Yas! Color! Loved this deep video!

[@arimantumc2392]

Thank you for talking about the topic.

[@hannahgenesis3593]

Amen amen amen🤍 everything you said , I was over here in full agreement. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and are expecting our 4th child. 🫶🏽 thank you for this video!!

[@OrchidTingz]

Thank you so much Brittany for this video it's real it's true and much appreciated ❤🙏🏾

[@lynnwilcoxson7]

Thank you Brittany for your clarity to this topic.❤ yes more videos please.

[@ahl8229]

You are God’s daughter Brittany with whom he is well pleased💛

[@kievb.6383]

Please Brittany, more, more, more. I really love and need these types of videos. I love you❤❤

[@TeresaPytel]

Thank you for this video with all my heart. 🥰 This is very precious in a world, where young people are getting more and more lost.

[@arianabovenkamp3773]

Imagine your parents just saying “no sex and if you do…hell”. Not surprising to see that’s how you grew up. Ickyyyyy

[@anniedrosham7299]

Thats how i grew up....

[@katiejane6761]

Nobody says you're going to HELL if u have sex...

[@Arlene_DOTK]

This was awesome, thank you Brittany ❤

[@jemjok2330]

how much was the settlement?

[@AndreaClewell]

400k

[@jemjok2330]

@@AndreaClewell thank you for answering. late response i know

[@johnnyray377]

Grateful. Well expressed and insightful. God bless and keep shining, it’s beautiful. When it comes to sex for me and my significant other, the want to and the understanding of how it’s important to me and vice versa. It can’t be a chore. The excitement is important and beautiful.

[@melaniesmith652]

Amen sister amen, amen and amen and amen!!!!!!!!!!!! God bless Jordon and Brittany!!!!

[@lizcalo12]

Awesome do more of these videos 😊

[@notsorry3631]

This is so spot on

[@heshkesh4004]

Spot on your right 🙏🙏 God bless you

[@anaelleray3458]

Yes please! Thank you for sharing all that with us !

[@fromthethrone]

😱😱😱 I need to lower my expectations when it comes to marriage sex??? No, thank you!!.If you needed to lower your standard and accept less, and if he does not fulfill your expectations, then this means that you are not married to the right man. Period.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

Well it's impossible to be married to the right man if you've had 100+ to taste test -- no single guy will be able to match up to every single other guy who may have been better at one thing or another. That's why notch counts matter for people who actually want to get married.

[@fromthethrone]

@@Billy-bc8pk I'm sorry to hear that you've had to go through so many guys, but I wish you all the best finding the right match anyway. With human is impossible, but with God everything is possible! 🤩

[@jennifercramp1257]

Love this!! 🙌🏼💕

[@cheenouthao7112]

Many say that oral sex is also a sin, is this true? Others say that it’s not a sin. I’m very lost atm.

[@loganfletcher3812]

Thank you so much !!

[@katiejane6761]

Thank you for this

[@michellewilliams1489]

Great points 👍👍👍

[@Lady-C]

Brittany I would really like to share my comment with you I was at the laundromat the other day listening to of the world music which of course never satisfied me when I had the urge to listen to your podcast and it was about the sex one and for the duration of the entire time spent at the p Laundromat from start to finish I found myself relating more than ever and I must say that I think this is my calling to get into Jesus more as I know I should so thank you very much and please keep it up prayers be with you

[@blessedby5780]

You're amazing! Thank you for your words of truth

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

Marriage zeggs is not like single zeggs, but women will always remember that one experience with that one guy.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

Yeah, it's also disingenuous to mention not comparing marriage partners to past partners, because memories of your best experiences don't just fade away. There will always be comparisons, and when the marriage zeggs doesn't live up to past zeggs, it will impact the relationship.

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

@@Billy-bc8pk That's sad. That's why it's better not to have zeggs outta wedlock. But if these comparisons happen, what shall we do besides suffer or tarnish the relationship?

[@Billy-bc8pk]

@@aramisy.cajigas744Sadly, all that will happen (and it's inevitable when wedlock is involved) is suffer the consequences. People can try to pretend the past doesn't matter, but it does... it always does.

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

@@Billy-bc8pk How much we suffer due to sin. God always told us the truth. Jah bless!

[@emeliaaryee7517]

This was much needed! Thank you so much for posting this Brittany. Straight forward and insightful. Looking forward to using this video as a reference for young girls we mentor at our church. God bless you and may he grant the deepest desires of your heart according to his will! 🙌🏾🤍 Looking forward to more videos like these

[@anniedrosham7299]

This is so good!

[@true4585]

This video was really good. Thank you.

[@ayahharper994]

New subbie!!!! ❤

[@MM-sp1xn]

Have you ever wondered why Christians outside the us - e.g. in Europe - are able to talk about Sex and therefore we don't have such an awkward relationship with the topic???

[@returningtoperfection]

Everyone loves sex but it's icky to talk about. We need to get it straight.

[@salinasmith928]

When you say sex in marriage do you mean intercourse or intimacy?

[@AndreaClewell]

Intercourse.

[@PrayerWillWork]

Your so gorgeous

[@sobersherpa]

😬

[@elainekellogg6345]

🍊

[@admiralpiett5894]

Dang you got old

[@chantelg41214]

Yessss🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼amen

[@tonyzone8999]

Are u the Brittany who is a diver?

[@mistycunningham2374]

Good video more please

[@williamwhite1596]

You're doing good works ! God Bless !!!

[@eggytoast]

Are you white or biracial?

[@emelinedbs1070]

I've Never been in love but sex doesn't attract me. IS it normal ?

[@Nzazaaa]

Nothing wrong with that. Maybe you have the gift of singleness. My former teacher has been single all of her life and she has accomplished some great things for other families and runaway children.

[@katiejane6761]

It's lucky.

[@MHSMagicLuver]

You could be asexual. It all depends. But nothing wrong with that.

[@SusieQZee]

🍇 ✖️ 😆

[@blossom654]

Maybe it’s super fine not to roll around in the hay so often, for a while after you had a baby, so as to not get pregnant soon after again 😅 Might want to wait a little while. A way of nature and God giving a couple time to enjoy the little one, get some sleep, and restful nipples, before a next possible baby.

[@baloog_a]

👍🏻

[@jalisabarrows3790]

Our church did a talk about sex and I’m sooo grateful about this!👏🏽 @parellelchurch 😄