What Women Do Men Approach?

[@MissPetrina1]

Lord help us introverted hermits! 🙏🏾

[@88niteowl88]

Right!!!! ❤

[@michelletingling2069]

Yes 🙌🏽 indeed

[@MsCoolGemini]

I'm a Gemini but born so close to Cancer that I know I enjoy being AT HOME.😶‍🌫Maybe in 2024 I will be more my Gemini side😏

[@j-tenn226]

@@MsCoolGeminiI’m a Gemini and I am very introverted! I do very very much so desire to go out and meet people more. I have it in me, it just hasn’t been ignited yet!

[@hellothere8347]

Tony is so funny mane he said, “if you want to meet you a man the wig cannot look like a wig” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😩

[@EsiriE]

😂😂😂

[@MsCoolGemini]

That is the real truth, the wig can't be wigging😁😆😅

[@chasidycollins9061]

Don’t forget, “or look like bristles on a brush” 😭🤣

[@dii-N-sd]

​@@chasidycollins9061😂😂😂

[@julieanne413]

😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@denisecousins5994]

I’m 45 & my husband is 46💕We’ve been married for 26 yrs! WE APPROVED THIS MESSAGE!!!!!!!!!😂 Yes……. We are watching this video right now😅

[@initiatorhater0688]

i assume your husband was the one who asked you out

[@Rain_413]

Great information Mr. Gaskins! Another reason that people don’t often consider is that sometimes it’s just not your season to be found. Singleness serves a purpose within itself; there might be some things God may want you to complete or have established before you are married, and that can be another reason why people are not found.

[@gillobrown]

True

[@Courie11e]

I believe that's where I'm at right now. My career is finally going the right direction and I've received so many accolades this year. 2024 will be a very busy year with me with me traveling for work, going to conferences, networking. If my husband is at these conferences please reveal him and let him see me.

[@Machenziethemodel]

Yea I’m over it. My season ain’t coming but I’m happy for the people it happens to.

[@PreciousdaughterofChrist]

Amen ❤❤❤ sometimes we are hidden by God for protection & because He is still working on us because he reveals us who we are supposed to be married to. ❤️❤️ every season serves a purpose

[@adulting4116]

Amen!!

[@ericabridley5679]

If you’re in a corporate environment, go outside the office for lunch. Local events, church events. I get approached often but it’s because I’m polite and men think I’m flirting. A smile can go a long way.

[@n.Lenice]

Yep, a smile and common courtesy.

[@millertymehomechef7909]

Facts 💯

[@tawanabrown3650]

Facts!

[@PreciousdaughterofChrist]

Yes same here ❤😂

[@tiffanibanks7218]

🗣️ 🗣️ Being kind and having a nice smile 😊 🔑 ❤

[@desertbeauty1846]

The wig... the mama dress.. We get it Mr. Gaskin. We really appreciate you. 😂😊

[@ashiraprovost7819]

I'm fine being single and concentrating on myself. I don't feel the need to prove that I moved on by dating someone else. I moved on and I love myself and im single. And I'm celibate. Thanks for the input though.

[@MissPetrina1]

Definitely, this video is great advice for women asking how to be approached. People are all in different seasons. I think it's great many women are content single, but are open and on the lookout to meet someone for marriage. I also think it's great some women are single and content as they are.

[@gillobrown]

Here here☺️

[@yolandabaldwin4883]

Me too! Totally happy being single! 😊

[@itypethetruthnobshere8975]

No one is happy “being single”they just can’t find someone that they want…that wants them back. It’s pure cope. It’s like saying I’m happy being poor.

[@j-tenn226]

@@itypethetruthnobshere8975always sus when there is a man lurking in the Tony Gaskins comment section

[@tarahbruno3793]

The wig took me out 😂😂😂 Tony told no lies! We need to be visually appealing first. It is what it is

[@bougiegal2074]

I’m guilty of this. I am a homebody and love being home. I’m an older woman who spent her ‘20’s out in the streets and clubs going everywhere but you’re right I may be set in my ways. In 2024 I will get out more.

[@Stormy867]

Same

[@KatiePalmer-fv6ue]

Totally agree

[@bougiegal2074]

Yep spent my ‘20’s and ‘30’s going everywhere and having fun. I did all that and got it out my system. Now that I’m older I pretty content staying home majority of the time however I would like to meet a nice older man who I can spend time with but the way these dating streets are set up geesh!!! It’s crazy the mindset of men. It’s definitely different than when I was younger.

[@fayewearing581]

Definitely me. I did the clubs & other WORLDLY things before I was of legal age. Fake IDs were the rage in my late teens. Lol! After my 40s, I became a young grandmother and an active worshipper but a social homebody. Now in my mid 50s, I spend most of my time caring for my parents.

[@TheGlamEmpress]

Same! I was always outside in the clubs but now that I’m in my early 30’s I want to get out more but in mature spaces. It’s hard because I do WFH FT and I do have a PT job so I pretty much work 7 days a week😖 if anyone has any ideas on how to get it out or ideas on where to go please let me know. ✨

[@itssilvermadallion]

Recently I went to the grocery store, and I was told I’m glowing just from a simple compliment that put a smile on my face. I am also learning we have to stop looking so serious and put a smile on our face. At least a smirk lol. That will allow a man to approach you. Walking upright, wearing an unforgettable scent that’s soft. And not being on your phone or holding your head down. Walk confidently. ❤ and when someone compliments you, always say thank you. Make direct eye contact. And be soft spoken. DO NOT be on the phone with it on speaker or talking loud. A man cannot stand a loud woman. Move graciously. If he compliments you, compliment him. Find something quick lol ❤ I’m learning to step outside my little bubble

[@trinigirl7846]

Very true sis

[@millertymehomechef7909]

Woman need to gain the habit of looking good just because do it for yourself sis y’all feel better!! Think about when a man walks by you and smells so good 😊 be that girl for him 💕

[@user-le1mo4hk7x]

I’m sorry I couldn’t help but laugh at you describing the polyester skirts 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ronahshieldlifestyleshowro6589]

Same here, who wears that anyway?

[@MsCoolGemini]

@@ronahshieldlifestyleshowro6589 The ladies that are NOT getting hollered at wear the pleated polyester skirts😀

[@Naswillshine]

I’m still tryna figure out what this skirt looks like 😂

[@TweenyMq]

😂😂😂 "with the cow print on it" took me out 😂😂

[@tamekawhitaker8459]

I Lovvvve T. Gaskins😂😂 he said "If the wig look like the hair grew out of a broom 🧹🧹..." Tony is funny as crap but real at the same time

[@mjj5642]

“Most women is hermits… Ion know what a hermit is… “ 😩😭😭🤣🤣 Tony cracks me up

[@fashionwithoutlabels]

Simply, these men today want to be pursued Tony! They have been told they are the prize by these online podcasts. These men want to be courted, door held open for them and all.

[@texcoco41]

I ain't lying 😂🤣💯😭

[@dii-N-sd]

Exactly! A lot of men are def in their "feminine energy" when it comes to dating. 😒

[@texcoco41]

@@dii-N-sd I laughed but it really is sad that that sassy and selfish spirit is amongst a good number of our brothers. It is real and the worst part about it is that they are ten toes down in their feminine mentality.

[@JustAGalAndHerDog]

I never shop. But because of TG, today I went with my big sis shopping today and she knows labels and style and left with 1 long cardigan, 1 holiday sweater, and 1 bold colored tunic. Last week I bought a dress and ordered 2 sweaters on Shein - first time ordered through them. So I’m trying to update my wardrobe and look more modern and presentable🎣

[@misswill8488]

There’s a lot of podcasts for men telling men not to approach women and let the women approach them. They are telling them to work out and get in shape, wear suits, dress and look nice, wear a gold chain, have hair cut and facial hair trimmed, put on cologne, etc, and go to a place that looks like they are accomplished and let the women approach them. I see some men doing this. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been getting approached by men, but I say it’s 50/50 because I also see a lot of men taking this approach of looking nice, staring women down, but not approaching, and waiting for women to approach them. I do not recommend women approach them tho. IJS that’s half of the reason why women aren’t getting approached, and that is a reality currently.

[@manuellaarbeit5481]

These podcasts are training men to be manipulators and play mind games. Just by the nature of women, a woman should stay in her feminine role and be a lady and a man should stay in his masculine role and be a gentleman. I let them do the chase but I am polite and considerate when I talk to them.

[@reneejacobs8183]

This is so true! I remember this happening to me a couple of times! One guy was trying to stare me down and actually caught my attention, because he was very attractive. After a good 30 seconds of looking at each other, he tilted his head like, you gone come over here or what? I knew then he was full of himself! Boy bye!

[@tierraweatherspoon3419]

Facts! You ain’t neva lied!

[@j-tenn226]

@@reneejacobs8183light skinned?

[@abundantlife1111]

wow...thanks 4 sharing idk that was a thing

[@sanamuhammad97]

I'm the one who's always at home, and works from home and then complain about not meeting anyone 😂

[@Ria23854]

Me too 🙈 Want to change that! It’s not always working out, but still we are not constantly at home.

[@TeeAhhhna]

Same😂😂

[@MissPetrina1]

Walking fast, going home after work, resting face (not mean, but can be more pleasant)...need to improve 😂

[@jasminepettigrew371]

😂 I just moved to a new city and I'm an introvert, smh. I got so frustrated I got mad one night and created a FB just for this area and sent out random requests lol. This man jumped in my inbox and surprisingly we clicked😂We video chatted and talked on the phone and I told him my bday is coming up He took me out for my birthday❤ He took me to a seafood restaurant and then took me to the movies. We had so much fun and enjoyed eachother. I'm so glad I did that. He's a whole vibe and just an all around great man. I'm so glad I did that lol!❤

[@PbnJAMilah]

Omg 🥺 that sounds like you had a great time. Love this for you 🤍

[@jasminepettigrew371]

@@PbnJAMilah Thank you! Girlll, I did! I was shocked lol. The way we were acting, if you didn't know us, you would think we were a whole couple🤣Like we just clicked and everything was so natural❤️We're going to a comedy club on Sunday. This man opened my door, I didn't have to ask. It was like he was happy to treat me good🥺And I let him know how much I appreciated him and I thanked him. I hadn't smiled and been happy in so long. And what's even better is he's my type girl🤣❤️🤤

[@kheleecebrown1799]

God is good I am introverted too thanks for your input there is still hope 🙂🙏.

[@j-tenn226]

Update?

[@Daughteroftheking07]

He’s correct, we are stuck in our ways! Time for change 😊

[@MoneyMagnet2007]

Cow print had me at dead 🤣

[@ashleycavin]

This was a good video I’m single with no kids and plan to get out of the house more and also I work from home so I for sure plan to get out more!

[@BeautybyJemyjoan]

I died at pleats…😂😂😂😂 the day Tony stops saying you will all have to forgive I’ll stop watching😀it’s nice to me.

[@aeptacon]

When I went outside my chances increased 100%. Sure the wrong people asked me out 🤣, but that showed me that's the only way people will see you and get to ask you out.

[@Youreapwhatyousew]

Not the “bristles of a broom.” I am weaketh 😂

[@jacquelinerussaw6967]

I am guilty of being a hermit. After working 48 hours a week in a busy ER,all I want to do on my days off is run errands, go to the gym, and go to church. I am going to try to do better at getting out the house. I will make that my New Years Resolution.

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

It’s this grocery store where I live .. Lawd every time I go there it’s just fine men left and right..😂😂😂 I just be hoping they say something but they just stare as usual

[@TracyTranquility]

Girl .. what store I wonna go ...😂 lol

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

@@TracyTranquilitywhat state u in ?

[@MarloShaVonne]

Say Hello to them....

[@j-tenn226]

Tell us what store and where you live! Inquiring minds want to know!

[@j-tenn226]

Bump!

[@MsFitVegan]

Please start your makeover agency one day! This is GENIUS!!!!!! And sooooooo needed!!!!

[@katrinanelson6175]

I can't remember the last time I even had a date, lol. I really have forgotten how to date. I appreciate your honesty in how to position ourselves to be found in HIS TIME. ✨🙏🏽

[@j-tenn226]

Me either. I am considered attractive and people think I’m lying when I say that I haven’t had a relationship in 3 years . I’m glad I have Tony to help me navigate and be prepared and alert for whenever I do meet somebody, lord willing.

[@nomcebomthembu383]

Ladies take Tony's advice, I changed my wardrobe based on the video Tony posted titled A man's perspective(It cut off). I started wearing sneakers, colorful clothes and gold jewelery and I've been approached by men ever since. Get out the house more and you will be seen 🤗.

[@The_Perfect_Housewife]

When I feel someone looking at me. I don’t look back 😅! If they want to approach me and ask they will 🤭

[@ybrueckner5589]

For a channel with such casual production the wisdom is priceless. This amazing number of subscribers restores my hope for the world

[@loulo204]

Tony didnt have to call me out like that 😂, im such an introvert and very shy and have an RBF, i have been trying to go out more though and look friendly, it’s hard still going through the process, im 24 and ready to meet a man of God

[@Gloria_All_Day]

I absolutely forgive you for doing this video in the dark 🙆🏾

[@Dollface8835]

I think my problem might be my location..I live in a very small country town where people are not really used to seeing people dress very fashionable and well-kept up and so I think a lot of men can be intimidated by my look . I have always kept myself up with my hair & makeup and the way I dress and though I do get a ton of compliments from women (and I notice mostly White women or other non -Black race) Men usually just stare and look like they have seen a ghost or are too scared to speak clearly. The men that usually do approach me are men that I do not find attractive at all or are way too old like around my father's age or too young like 18-23ish and i'm 35 with a Babyface smh lol The men I do find attractive and are more of my type are usually taken or married already and I go out alot but most will just stare or if they do approach it doesn't really go anywhere past friendly conversation. I have been told I look too much out their league and they wouldn't think someone who looks like me would even be interested in them or they stay assuming I'm from a bigger city. So idk maybe I need to relocate to a bigger city where men are more accustomed to seeing attractive women and are more confident 🤷

[@evansjustin2459]

Try showing interest in them. I'm not talking about approach (even though there is nothing wrong with that, and I bet you'd have better success), but at least make it somewhat obvious that you'd like him to approach. Give them a simple "hello how are you". Hell, even a smile with eye contact is all a lot of men need. Ps. However, as someone who is also from a small town, I feel you on wanting to relocate.

[@antoinettesherrod1895]

Tony go to work plus do overtime, church and home. Well doing DIY at home right now so frequent Home Depot too. 😂 Always smiling and right now haven't been trying to get out there. Over 50 and just listening to you Tony and learning. God I feel is working on me.

[@virgohontas]

"Come up here if you want too, you gone leave holey"😂😂😂

[@benji3314]

The bristles on broom wig took me out. Tony you are amazing so true and in depth should kept being in tune with you… it’s ok cause I’m gaining me back thanks in advance. Sending love and light and many many more blessings your way ❤

[@n.Lenice]

I guess it could be any grocery store, but probably primarily grocery stores who sell hot meals...try Whole Foods, Wegmans, Publix and Kroger around dinner time - there's lots of men. Either they're single and getting something for themselves or not single getting something for themselves 😂😂 I'm thoroughly enjoying my single season, but I've been approached often and had very nice conversations with gentleman during this high flux time 😉

[@2madwithaj]

This man part time comedian 😂😂😂😂😂😂…looking like who shot John and forgot to kill em…what? 😭

[@tayloralliease8013]

Lol I love when Tony says that . I be getting ready for the day and always chuckle when I hear him in the back saying that . I be like fine lemme fix my hair and put on something nice 😂

[@pooh4025]

I'm guilty of working and going home

[@krocker8112]

Thanks for the helpful (and comedic) advice, Tony! Lol! No matter the topic, you never disappoint! 😂 Safe travels! God Bless You! 😇🙏🏽

[@Prettywings777]

I dress for myself for sure 💯 it happens to be that men like how that looks too 😂 now if i am seeing someone exclusively and they like certain looks, i keep it going for them 😊

[@Alicia155]

Speak. I’m about to come out of my healing space. This message is so key! Thank you God Bless!

[@lwilliams1461]

Bristles like a broom, the wig factor 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@missj5564]

Some of the men that approach, I really wish they would not. Some are not properly groomed and few of them had an odor, others do not care about their overall appearance or health. One looks like he has some mental issue, I ignored him when he tried to approach. I am usually on my way to or from work. I am well groomed, wear my hair in an interloced style, that is well kept and wears the latest fashions. I am hoping if I continue to ignore the wrong men, they will stop approaching. I live in a city where it is much easier to commute to and from work by train and that is where I get approached the most. I guess I need to start driving to and from work to eliminate from being approached by the men that I am not attracted to. If there is something I am doing to attract that type of attention, I am hoping to figure it out, so that I can change that to attract the men that I am interested in, the ones that are well groomed and take pride in their appearance and are also gainfully employed.

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

They do it to me too, on rare occasion, and it's not gonna stop- these are the ones with nothing to lose. I'd prefer to be invisible & completely ignored bcos it hurts that these are the few approaches.

[@Channyb89]

Agreed! I never understand why some men can’t do basic grooming 🤯

[@missj5564]

​@@Channyb89They do not care and expect women to accept them like that.

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

I am so mad 😂that the grocery store is the only place I see men I am attracted to . But for some reason that’s the ONLY place I have never met a man .. smh

[@j-tenn226]

Many many years ago, I remember meeting a guy while renting a movie outside of Redbox outside of Kroger. We ended up dating for a good amount of time. That was such an organic and unsuspecting time. Men don’t do that these days.

[@shereewhite4828]

Amen!! Tony, this was a very needed video! 🙏🏽Bless you for being obedient to God by sharing all of your experiences & knowledge with the world. 😂😂😂But the wig looking like the bristles on a broom?!!! Lawd, you are a comedian!

[@carolyn4realife]

Ladies, mrTG is on point! When you make an effort at your appearance, you stand out! women think they need filters and surgery. I notice old women dressed to the nines in the grocery store...😄

[@slicksweet1]

In this modern society, men expect you to be perfect. They expect you to have a BBL shape and wearing a filter. If not, you don't get approached online because they think other girls who put filters on their pics are more beautiful....but it be the opposite in real life. They go out into the real world looking for filter face chics.

[@DeniseM4698]

“Here go a cookie” 😂🤣🤣

[@transformationstudio6158]

I appreciate you Tony for giving DETAILS. Sometimes we need that

[@karenbailey921]

Safe travels! Mr. Tony 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@flofearless9173]

The goat has spoken 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾

[@AllyMark-xy8ry]

Basically, I need a wardrobe makeover..that would explain a lot. I laughed at "if his mama got the same dress" but was crying inside cause that was a bomb.

[@TheindyyG]

I love tony so much ! 😂 hilarious but the realest there is 💪🏽 he keeps me grounded

[@Phoenixishot]

Great video Tony!

[@denisealexis4261]

Tony you are cracking me up i sure am guilty because i was not looking man you should see me on my best days .thank you i learn alot from you

[@Harlemsweetie82]

“The woman with the deep voice that says men are incapable of love” lol Ooooo Tony be mentioning ppl without mentioning their name 🫠

[@easyw1220]

That hair hat holigan is tryna turn yall lesbian😂😂.

[@j-tenn226]

@@easyw1220who???

[@tabbysworld93]

I know sometimes I like to stay at home but I’m getting out more. Men tell me I’m pretty all the time. So, I don’t know if it’s my weight or my facial expression 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@manoniemoments]

Are you showing that you are taking time with yourself? Are you smiling, pleasant, and welcoming?

[@MsFitVegan]

This is 1000000000% the reason I am single. I work from home and love to stay in my pajamas 😅 smh…. Tony is so right! I work and workout at home. Smh. I’m changing my ways! Thank you for this reminder 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@j-tenn226]

Have you changed yet?

[@Phillychic]

Great advice. Thank you Sir

[@crystalrochelle611]

We forgive you Tony!

[@indiaivory]

🤣😆🤣

[@BeautybyJemyjoan]

Always!😅

[@TonyGaskins]

Lolol

[@krocker8112]

We always do. Don't we!? 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

[@j-tenn226]

@@krocker8112we always do and always will.

[@Godmailwithtamaira]

Sit I LOVE your content 😂. Thank you!

[@texaschic3039]

When you talked about the wigs..😅😅 I am crying laughing. I work from home and don't get out much during the week. I'm in Dallas, Texas. I made a bucket list of places to visit and I just go on the weekends. I must be picking the wrong spots cause I don't see alot of black men hanging out. Where are the black men @?? They don't be out. 😕

[@AKR892]

Victory park, Addison, Arlington

[@angelb2412]

When I lived in Dallas I got approached alot at krogers on MacArthur. Happened 3 times all black men!

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Tony!!!! What's up brother? Tell the wife and kids the peeps said HEY! 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾❤

[@cleoflowers3913]

😊😊You are So Funny!! Truthful and Funny! Keep being yourself!👍

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

Preach!!! I thought I was the only one who thought that about the lady with the deep voice !! 😂

[@gabrielle.sunflower]

Uncle Tony is coming to England yay!!! When are you doing a seminar/ meet up here !! 🙏🙏🙏

[@pracs3377]

Thank you, Mr. Gaskin. I’m starting to feel like I’m in a FaceTime group and I like it.

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony i just can't with you when you said if the wig looks like the bristles on the Broom lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@Isa-Amor]

Look good smell good and look happy. They will come!😊

[@user-fo9mi7nn5k]

Did Tony say "the bristle of a broom" ?? I bout fell out my chair 😂😂😂

[@OptimisticSeven]

I appreciate this video, I love being at home and staying to myself. Staying to myself is my shield. Being hurt drains you and places you in a mold. I know staying at home is hindering a lot of us. At times I was always wondering why are so many women meeting men to go out on dates and have so many men to choose from. I'm wondering what am I doing wrong? I never get approached, to be honest. Also, If you break up, how do you move on to the next relationship if no one is available.

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

With me it’s 50/50 u could get approached for like 3 months than h can go 4 months straight without getting approached and u live in a major city

[@OptimisticSeven]

I live in the Mid-West/Southwestern Illinois @@Tisha-oi5yn

[@joyceharvey410]

You are on point. This was helpful. Thank you

[@blaqbombshell]

Tony you got me screaming at work talking about the wig lmaooo

[@lifewithramyaaa]

“is that a wig” took me out 😂

[@jackiesingleton5797]

Thank you Tony

[@nayyorktv]

Yall got to forgive me !! Lol love you tony 💜🙏🏾

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

“She different handed…” 🤣😂🤣 Listen, if I hear that anywhere else, I know it came from Tony! 🤣😂🤣@19:03

[@brownsugarglamour]

At some point can we get a comedy tour!

[@esther4844]

Where do introverts go? Lol😅😅😅

[@Nectar_Ix]

Bookstore!

[@esther4844]

I really am going to do better with getting out the house!

[@phizzy123]

cafes are a nice chill spot to go! 😊

[@sandrapollard2541]

Alright now, I'm taking 🎶....but that wig situation took me all the way out😂😂..the bristles of a broom, some of these wigs be looking a hot mess, absolutely no lies

[@Destinee36]

Checking in ✅

[@harmonybringswealth9193]

Tony, you are the big brother I never had! 🥰from Singapore!

[@sharrellfaith]

Maybe i look mean...idk what it is, but i get stared down but never approached..sheesh😂

[@Glamrocs]

You're absolutely correct about Zoes in Miami. Most of my family members in Lil Haiti got dreads.

[@alishia4433]

Not the bristles on a broom !!! It’s tight but it’s right. Brain, body, brand.

[@luevondataylor6286]

Hey 😂 I'm hurting laughing 🤣 He funny and don't know that he is but Thank God For The Man Of God ❤

[@elll3s]

🤣🤣the wig part

[@carnishaxo2.0]

Girl I am screaminggg but you are correct!!

[@vanisacampbell5261]

Good topic

[@deemitchell8228]

TONY!!!😅😂😭💙

[@sherrimanuel1454]

Men have looked at me and said nothing.

[@sharmelldb2971]

Be friendly

[@tialynn1111]

Ok I’ll make a plan to get out more I’m trying🙏🏽

[@ParentsTrynaStopDysfunction]

I don’t like locs on a man either. Great information and thanks for sharing!

[@j-tenn226]

I don’t think they’re cute on women either. I think in one of his videos he said they look masculine

[@tabsmlmsuccesstools]

Thanks Tony

[@brittaneebell]

I get approached all the time but from men that’s not my type. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Thia980]

Mr Gaskins, enjoy your coaching! Great subject. Since you are talking about what men like outwardly to attract. Hair seems to be one of the attributes of a woman. I've always worn my hair natural, short or with length. I discovered that wearing short hair styles is what I prefer because working in fast-paced environments; healthcare there are policies in place and is hard to keep a well groomed look daily due to not having a certain texture of hair naturally, a mini fro for example and it is less maintenance for the most part and affordable. Personally, I wear the accessories to accentuate to keep it feminine, and it has always been attractive to me. However, now, with the way the world is my male friends have said that women who wear their hair in short natural styles are questionable due to lesbianism. My ancestry results show a high percentage of Nigerian, maybe its the reason I desire the look of natural, plus I've learned it is not healthy to put relaxers continuously causing hair loss, cancer...thats another story. Judgment by men is overly superficial they don't like black women naturally it seems vs straighten as a majority, I think. Maybe I'm overthinking this one 😂. Thank you for your input, if any.