Berlin Why is this in the danganronpa playlists?...
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
If you liked this video, I highly recommend watching my related videos: 1) How To Be A Man - The Deep Core Of Being Masculine 2) How To Be Attractive - The Ultimate Attraction Strategy 3) How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You - What Girls Really Want 4) How To Be More Confident - A Step-by-Step Process for Becoming Truly Confident 5) Relationship Advice - The Master Plan For Creating An Amazing Relationship
@joystick3966 жыл бұрын
It’s also important to note that some men enjoy the emotional stimulation too, I was dating a girl for a few months who was by far the hottest girl I’ve been with, but she just had a bland personality. Didn’t joke much nor did she appreciate my attempts to make her laugh and I got super bored with her and left. So some of those points are important for both men and women!
@mr.e75412 жыл бұрын
The problem with advice sometimes is that the human beings often take it to one extreme or the other. Yes men do care about personality. the same way that women do care about looks. Especially if you're looking for more than just a one-night stand. If you're looking to develop a relationship with someone yes you want them to have a good personality. The problem is you're taking the advice from one extreme to the other. An epiphany that I realized recently that I sort of realized before but I realize even more right now how true it is in life in general, is that life is all about being balanced and things in life are not one way or the other. Men are not completely masculine women are not completely feminine. Men don't care only about looks and women don't care only about confidence. I came to this conclusion recently when watching a video on KZbin about do you need to be an a$$hole to led. It's free on KZbin I recommend watching it pretty short and it's entertaining. There was a documentary about directors and if they need to be a$$holes to be a director. Ultimately the video comes to conclusion that everybody has their own style. However I think they missed a very important point which is that balance is key if you're too much of an a$$hole you need to be nicer if you're too nice you won't be forceful enough. This combined with other things that I've learned over the years like different balance between different things. For example ideas such as should you be yourself or should you work on yourself. Should you be arrogant or should you be humble. Leo has a whole video that talks about contradiction like this. An answer I believe is balance. In fact I would say this is a major Epiphany that I came to because balance is the answer to almost every problem that we have. If we're too far one way we often over correct and go the complete opposite way. Instead we should just go a little bit more over to the other side until we find a balance that works for us.
@Scatmanfan459 жыл бұрын
She doesn't like you? Too bad. Don't get stuck on her. Move on
@Lichfeldian--Suttonian5 жыл бұрын
Gladly!
@oumardiop14 жыл бұрын
or just play danganronpa
@vejet3 жыл бұрын
@@oumardiop1 🤣
@epicbehavior8 ай бұрын
Not really relevant to the content of the video.
@aliramezani23332 жыл бұрын
Deal Breaker qualities: 1-Confidence 2-Humor 3-Detachment 4-Edginess/Adventurness 5-Intimate Dirty Sex Likeable Qualities: 1-Good looks 2-Financial Security/provider role 3-Social Status 4-Loyalty
@Jesus777_7_92 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT JOB WELL DONE 👏✔👍😀👌🙌👏
@sanataj Жыл бұрын
What does detachment mean?
@SzaboB339 ай бұрын
@@sanataj 13:17
@QUQINGPING9 жыл бұрын
9/ good looks 8/ security 7/ social status 6/ loyalty 5/ confidence 4/ humor 3/ detachment 2/ edgy guys (adventurous) 1/ intimate dirty sex
@sanataj Жыл бұрын
That is what only the slimy primitive organisms that live under stones are obsessed with.
@CristinaF210 Жыл бұрын
lots of (good) sex
@pdiddy64529 жыл бұрын
"Women, they're not that difficult to understand." HEAD = EXPLODE!
@asyas55294 жыл бұрын
Berleezy we caught you🤣 wtf
@zero96234 жыл бұрын
Maybe he’s just strugglin’ you know?
@remo46444 жыл бұрын
Hold on, this isn't Danganronpa
@epicbehavior8 ай бұрын
No one cares about whatever that is.
@Desperato698 ай бұрын
No man it is. This is a character who uses attraction to manipulate and set up the perfect murder and win
@oraoraoraoraora95254 жыл бұрын
Did Berlin Accidentally put this in this playlist (wow this blew up)
@gummyfumy44484 жыл бұрын
That's what's I'm Here to find out
@valentinmoscatello32824 жыл бұрын
Lmao I was coming here to see if anyone else saw
@gummyfumy44484 жыл бұрын
@@valentinmoscatello3282 ayyyyy Nagito
@AbbaTalix4 жыл бұрын
Our boi struggling 😔
@hurrihydra4 жыл бұрын
I’m fr asking the same thing, what happened here 😂
@andreaslambropoulos11594 жыл бұрын
What? This isn't Danganronpa Goodbye Despair Episode 32. This is What Women Want In a Man.
@thatoneguy95824 жыл бұрын
hey wait a minute Berleezy my guy wtf is this doing here
@AltumNovo8 жыл бұрын
One additional thing is that when a girl sees you with other attractive girls it can short circuit the whole thing and make them attracted to you regardless of all the "key factors"
@wesnorthcutt6398 жыл бұрын
you are exactly right...my wife is "stunning"she's a 10+, not bragging I can't stand her, but ppl were nicer to me, I seemed to get more respect, hell the girls would check her out more than the guys would and talk about a slob, I'm an eddie van halen lookin' jeans and t shirt type guy with long hair!
@kirkrammsy7 жыл бұрын
even I would say , when she sees you with not that beatiful girls .
@abraham85653 жыл бұрын
Pre selection
@Brian-zc2ip8 жыл бұрын
I really think you nailed it here. the thing guys forget is that putting up a front of confidence isn't the same as feeling confident. as you said, for the most part women are far more emotional intelligent than guys. emotions don't have words, they are felt. words are like a third party observation from the logical side of the brain. confidence is not arrogance. today we are bombarded with imagery of the arrogant man winning the fair maiden. sure, you may peak her interest with your peacocking and loud manner but this is merely exciting to her, it tickles her danger button. it is not a display of confidence. it's a cheap trick. confidence is knowing yourself at the very deepest level. it's the stillness when you are completely comfortable with what you find there and an unwavering in your statement "I am". it's the coolness in the eyes of a predator. the peace made with our own mortality. know yourself without reserve or apology and bring this to the relationship. she will have more than just a passing interest. she will want to follow you. peace.
@moss274 жыл бұрын
why was this in a berleezy danganronpa playlist-
@randomcommenter9224 жыл бұрын
I know right!
@trctsurenai39034 жыл бұрын
🤣
@yeremiafrans94254 жыл бұрын
Kazuichi Soda probably put this in the playlist
@valentinmoscatello32824 жыл бұрын
Sounds like sumn he'd do 😔
@oumardiop14 жыл бұрын
😂
@miniafro33074 жыл бұрын
*wheeze 😂
@Bob-zx7io9 жыл бұрын
Wooooo, 'm ugly, poor and I live in my parents basement. Call me ladies.
@Lichfeldian--Suttonian5 жыл бұрын
That’s what I like! Honesty! Well done, mate!
@anshumansingh75015 жыл бұрын
You are super desired
@alexandriabrown34273 жыл бұрын
Lacking in the confidence department, man.
@yamnehroncero42386 жыл бұрын
It's quite simple I recently realized. As a man, do this : - Own your shadow, your dark side. You'll become dangerous, but in control. - Stop being a victim. Stop blaming others. - Take personal responsibility for your life. Realize that your life is 100% your responsibility. You will gain your personal power back and your emotional independence. What are the offspring of these things ? Confidence and detachment from the outcome. These things will naturally allow you completely and utterly stop objectifying women as the source of your sense of self-esteem or self-worth. You will stop demanding, expecting, controlling or manipulating THEM to make YOU happy. She will be free and you'll be unconditionally yourself. You'll be able to just be who you are. You will become indifferent basically to rejection. You will then be able to be completely in your masculine core, be comfortable in your truth and women will naturally react to you in a very positive way. I was the typical nice guy and I got often rejected. Lately, I've learned these things and at my job, I am constantly flirting and vibing with some of the hot waitresses. To a point where I feel now the other guys are starting to feel a bit jealous of me cause the girls respond super well to me. Since learning these things, I'm even kinder. I'm even more sweet, but I'm genuinely confident and authentic. Because I'm not objectifying them, even as I flirt with them, it's not creepy. They are very comfortable with me. Send me kisses, tell me sweet nothings, jokes, are being cute, do me little favors, tell me compliments, etc. Am I getting laid by them ? No, but I don't need to to feel good as a man. That's the key. Your manhood is 100% your responsibility. When you are indifferent to the outcome, that's when you get good results. That will tell the girl that you are independent and that she won't need to "mother" you. You won't be needy or clingy with her. What happens is that mentality will not only help you with women, but with life and everyone.
@mistamist2 жыл бұрын
Amazing mate, this is 👌👌
@Jedilord8822 жыл бұрын
None of this matters if you’re fucking black.
@sanataj Жыл бұрын
I like that, apart from your dark side. What on does that mean? It makes me think of paedophiles, rapists and serial killers or other fetishes.
@RandomVideoCircus8 жыл бұрын
I'm done trying to figure them out!!!
@boredcat43638 жыл бұрын
+TheDrunkerKing hahahahaha
@millymoo54709 жыл бұрын
I agree with many of your points, you're hitting emotional connection right on target. In the beginning, what attracts a woman (from my view point) is truly a genuine personality, confidence, (it's so attractive) financial stability, moral ethics, sexual compatiblity, etc.. We are overwhelmed emotionally in the beginning from all of these things and the new relationship. Once all of the "new" wears off we have an OVERBEARING demand for emotional intimacy and support from the man we are with. This can be a tulmutuous time because men do not always know how to provide deep emotional support and women don't know how to proactivley ask for it. Women need emotional and physical bonding without sexual intimacy; holding hands, looking up at the stars, walks on the beach, etc. Men truly jeopardize the relationship when they stop courting us and stop spending personal intimate time with us.
@minah24808 жыл бұрын
I'd like it to be known that I just left a guy who was that edgy emotionally stimulating guy because he was not enough of the practical, loyal guy. I agree with what you're saying Leo, but balance is still key.
@minah24808 жыл бұрын
+Actualized.org Leo are you single I keep asking but you haven't responded to me yet haha ;b
@forrestb11654 жыл бұрын
You're correct Minah. A guy who is confident, is loyal as well as a good solutions provider, plus he shows kindness and a healthy sense of ambition and humor...he's probably a keeper.
@Alexander-gv6oh4 жыл бұрын
@@minah2480 he too busy getting high af off of them shrooms
@fordtrucks71363 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm single ?
@kirbfx9 жыл бұрын
This is solid gold!! Wow!! I've been studying and applying male to female social dynamics and attraction for 8 years and he is nailing some of the core fundamental aspects to it all. Take notes!! Seriously take notes! Get a notebook or journal and write down everything you learn from others and your own experiences, over time, you'll be amazed by how much better you get with women.
@scotchjameson29599 жыл бұрын
Men's range of emotions: "We're either happy, sad, angry, or horny" -- I laughed my head off. This is so true. I always thought I was a very emotional guy, but this pretty much hits the whole range for me. Too funny, but true.
@joaov7779 жыл бұрын
This guy knows what he talks about. Good video. Thanks.
@ShowMeYoBoob8 жыл бұрын
man wtf do u even have a life i see u in every of his vids replying to anyone "you dont fuck" "you will fuck"
@luisherrera23016 жыл бұрын
iLoveDianabol1995 hahaha truuuuue!
@luisherrera23016 жыл бұрын
iLoveDianabol1995 He acts like the determining factor of people's lives or something!? Lmao fortune teller I suppose 🙄
@d-nice28665 жыл бұрын
He better he did all this research
@1wibble29 жыл бұрын
My last girlfriend said one of the things that attracted her to me first was the fact that I wasn't overly confident and was humble about my own talents. She was sick of guys over-playing their abilities. I'd rank humility pretty high if you want to attract a woman that is actually worth attracting.
@ActualizedOrg9 жыл бұрын
Obnxious arrogance can be a turn-off, sure. Core confidence is still a must. But I find girls fall in love even with obnoxious arrogance. I play arrogant a lot with girls and they eat it up. You just gotta do it in a playful way so she knows you don't take yourself too seriously.
@1wibble29 жыл бұрын
+Actualized.org A core sense of confidence sure, I agree with that. But I never play anything except being my true self, its the only way to find a really good match. Quality over quantity for me. A girl attracted to arrogance is not attractive for me, and looks are but one tiny aspect of what makes a woman attractive in my world.
@googcommenter72049 жыл бұрын
+Actualized.org find one with some money so you can retire from your shit clown-job...
@epicbehavior8 ай бұрын
@@1wibble2Do you have your own world? Sounds like something a woman would say.
@epicbehavior8 ай бұрын
You actually don’t need to show _confidence per say._ You just need to avoid saying or do things that display insecurity. It doesn’t sound like there was anything you did that expressed insecurity.
@ActualizedOrg9 жыл бұрын
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@tinvo93769 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org So far to what ive observed elsewhere. you dont have to look good be wealthy or educated to get a girl due to some dude i personally know...but hopefully you can give me a quick brief summary on what I should mainly do to get a girl friend....ill wait patiently.. thanks...at times I am still wondering how the pros do it.
@ActualizedOrg9 жыл бұрын
Tin Vo See my video called How To Get A Girlfriend.
@allnamesarepicked9 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org you are an immoral person. And i say this because you endorse and promote immoral and unfair female behaviour. I believe life is always about a balnce, an equilibrium...and that means that what you give is what you recieve. You can NOT give 1$ and expect to recieve 100$. this immoral mentality is basically being selfish and cheating the equilibrium i mentioned before (which others will have to overcompensate for your lack of input but exagerated output benefits), and it is exactly what you are forcing men to accept as normal/standard female behaviour. And ill give you an example: why do women like humor in men? because they typically lack humor themselves. Almost no succesfull standup comedian is a woman, and it's very easy to see how women usually are the first to get offended and dont understand humorous jokes. So is it moral for a woman to expect to recieve something she can not give herself? according to you it is...and when you accept this immoral premise as valid, in this un-important example, you open the gates for this unfairness to be extrapolated to more important fields such as: -requesting from the man to have intimate dirty sex but then be unattached with said woman... First of all those 2 characteristic are mutually exclusive in a healthy human mind. How can you expect someone who isn't that focused in you, who has your interests at a secundary level of importance, to then be extra intimitate with you? Second of all, is it fair for a woman to ask a man this but be unable to give it in return herself? Its almost always the woman who is clingy and overattached to the man in a healthy functioning relationship, so how can she morally expect from you to be the total opposite?... she can't you are, as many woman, asking for everything you potentially can without noticing that you can't get all of those characterisitics from ONE healthy sane human, because they are mutually exclusive in many cases. And i admit you are not the only type of men doing this, Pick UpArtists do the same, WITH THE BIG DIFFERENCE that they know at every second that they are faking all of those female requisites to get in their pants, and once they have achieved this goal, they stop faking and dump this delusional and immoral woman, to repeat the deed again and again... Perpetuating(as you do) this delusional dream/unrealistic expectations of finding a functioning healthy man with all the mutually exclusive characteristics, and setting the bar so high up, no legitimately interested man will ever be even given the time/chance because of the unralistic expectations woman have been promoted to have try to rebattle my comment points if you can, you seem like a rational man and i dont understand how can you still flow with the socialmedia delusional BS
@ActualizedOrg9 жыл бұрын
allnamesarepicked Women are most attracted to detached men. Why? Because that's exactly what makes a man strong. Your problem is that you haven't yet accept this and you're trying to turn men into women. If you want a healthy relationship with men, you have to understand how masculinity works. How it actually works! Not how you wish it would work. The more you refuse to understand men, the bigger problems it will create for you with men.
@allnamesarepicked9 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org ... you barely responded to any of my specific points... besides im a white MAN, not a woman as you have wrongly assumed. I still have a moral issue with your advice, the overburden of responabilities you condone to put on men, and the lack if such on women. You sound literally like the average mainstream leftist media, the young turks for example, who rally for a only woman controlled wrold instead of equality between both sexes
@HiSanai4 жыл бұрын
BERLIN THIS ISNT DANGAN!! YOU GOOD??
@DarkForest868 жыл бұрын
Simple truths are the hardest to accept
@SoapyTitsWank9 жыл бұрын
Dude you've got even less hair than me, this give me renewed hope.
@LIMITSDESTROYED6 жыл бұрын
Man LOL 😂
@teijo58214 жыл бұрын
I like how half the comment section is about berleezy having this in his dangan playlist and like half way of them didn’t even watch the video on top of that😂
@mileyclips4 жыл бұрын
berlin, you wanna tell us something?
@vejet3 жыл бұрын
He's not just telling you, he's screaming it at you by putting something like this on the playlist 😂
@raciemay1978 жыл бұрын
Confidence and detachment are what I personally find most attractive
@always-stay-positive51878 жыл бұрын
You love narcissists don't ya. You need my younger brother, such an arrogant successful narcissistic idiot.
@howmathematicianscreatemat92268 жыл бұрын
@ Rachel... from your aura you seem to have a cute and rare personality!
@youngspunky28358 жыл бұрын
you don't know what you want
@always-stay-positive51878 жыл бұрын
The Truth is HARD to believe The Lord alone knows who you are referring to.
@always-stay-positive51878 жыл бұрын
Saxon Greene ha ha ha
@mahdikoubaa88176 жыл бұрын
Have all of the 4 dealbreakers down except needyness. I didn't know this was a character trait in me, and need to solve it ASAP. Had a really good woman leave me because of this. Thanks Leo!
@leonreaper909 жыл бұрын
Why should we go through all that? why can't women do it for a change? we've been trying to impress women since the stone age. It's their turn now.
@deckardshaw40859 жыл бұрын
+Leon Reaper hahahahah it will never happen until you looks like your picture , women is beautifull and she is always taking the advantage of it in this world
@janjani94589 жыл бұрын
+Leon Reaper nowadays they arise on the street and call us to do......but costs 30 euro
@1Kingppolo9 жыл бұрын
+Leon Reaper wheres the fun in that
@bos98249 жыл бұрын
+Leon Reaper Bumble dating App :D
@stoney6069 жыл бұрын
+Leon Reaper if you want a girl and she does nothing, its your job to do something
@scotticus808 жыл бұрын
so women dont care about moral ethics. it wasnt listed. It makes sense though. You see it all the time.
@realdeal74719 жыл бұрын
Do you want to be a woman magnet? KNOW YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF! PERIOD!
@edymasta8 жыл бұрын
false
@realdeal74718 жыл бұрын
+edymasta true
@edymasta8 жыл бұрын
+Cabdalla Cabdi if that happened RSD wouldnt have been successful for 10 years, you could be true in some cases though, onle youve established a social base
@BigBadassR9 жыл бұрын
1750 Humor is obviously NOT a deal breaker. Looks are FAR more important than humor, get real. Most guys don't have a great sense of humor, and a lot of girls don't even like Mr. Funny Guys. Think Chris Farley got more chicks than Leonardo Di Caprio? Or even Justin Irritating Bieber? And besides...how is someone supposed to have a better sense of humor, practice your stand up? How much do women like posers? She will read your desperation and no matter what you wont be able to keep it up.
@BigBadassR9 жыл бұрын
***** Nah....not being uptight and boring all the time is not the same as having a good sense of humor. This boy is talking out of his ass is whats up.
@BigBadassR9 жыл бұрын
***** Yeah.....uptight people don't get chicks. Then pretty much every boxer on the planet would be childless, and Im pretty sure that isn't the case.
@BigBadassR9 жыл бұрын
***** Jesus you're a dumb fuck. Have you even considered what you are saying, or are you just a follower of this skinny guru?
@CapeEniEer9 жыл бұрын
Big R no. humour over looks any day
@eulisesmelo71839 жыл бұрын
As FART that im concern your RIGHT GUARD on your material; not everyone likes a JOKER in the room. Specially if your BATMAN.
@MultiDiceman8 жыл бұрын
If you want to get women focus on yourself and they will recognize it and flock to you, or don't put them on a pedestal when you talk to them because if she thinks that she is better than you its over.
@Lichfeldian--Suttonian5 жыл бұрын
You mean woman actually want to be worse than men? Shocking!
@undaunted78 жыл бұрын
This is a pretty good list. I do think that both the male and the female should strive for self embetterment. I noticed a bunch of guys in the comments section were like "why should I change myself?" You are right. You should be liked for who you are. The foundation does not have to change but why not make better the things you already have? Everyone should have goals, a sense of humor, deep connections with people, and good communication. Some of these will be intuitive and others you can learn and improve. It won't just help in relationships, but also in the quality of your life which is in my opinion, a bit -and by a bit I mean a significant amount-more important. The other stuff can come later.
@RizkySyaiful8 жыл бұрын
+Maryann G. (MU QT) I agree. It should be two sided. I quite sad when Leo said 'supermodel' & 'pornstar' stuff... Yeah, that's the first thing, chronologically---same as woman isn't it? But absolutely not the most important thing.
@Itsmeeman19 жыл бұрын
Q. What do women want? A. HIS Money, so she can buy the life she wants without earning it.
@goldstar91748 жыл бұрын
I've been told that the answer is: EVERYTHING
@youngspunky28358 жыл бұрын
Famous with alot of money and skills so he can cary her ass ...
@kurnygina5 жыл бұрын
That’s right!
@Skwod0392jebxnwo4 жыл бұрын
Only money
@northstar57478 жыл бұрын
I'm a very "self-aware" woman and you are brilliant and super insightful. I have to say that character/substance/values are number one....Kindness. Integrity. Intelligence. Honesty. Let's be honest...any woman worth her salt requires those things in a man, and will give so much in return. A man that comes through for her....is there for her...for both security and her emotional needs...is her hero...and she will adore him and give all of herself in return...all the love, attention, affection, and adoration he could ever want. You are a real man! The bitter guys, so rampant these days, are total wimps. You have handled the pitfalls and disappointments you have experience with women like a man. The bitter guys are incredibly unattractive. You are not a whiner, you are not bitter or anger...You're a real man Leo! :-)
@spearmint409310 жыл бұрын
Great video thank you! I'm a woman and still watched it out of curiosity and all you said is really true! Keep up the good work man, you're amazing! :)
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
Good to see women who understand.
@SoTotallySammi8 жыл бұрын
I am a woman and this is more than 200% accurate. Definitely explained some relationships in my life.
@edkuehn40075 жыл бұрын
I need it B a d how about you
@Alexander-gv6oh4 жыл бұрын
Always found it interesting to know how women felt about Leo's teachings. I always imagine his audience to be 100% men
@jsabra892 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@sanataj Жыл бұрын
@@edkuehn4007 - Slither back under your stone quickly, before another slimy organism takes it.
@sanataj Жыл бұрын
But where does that leave all the average girls, or lower than average girls? It's not very nice language. What is the majority of males - average or way lower than the average women going to do? There are not enough top hot women for all of them.
@h3a7wa1t3r7 жыл бұрын
OMG , I can`t say how much i thank you for this video . I met that amazing girl, and we like each other , in the procces of knowing each other thing started to get a little bit numb , i knew i did something wrong . Then i found your video , i realized i`m missing 4 of your dealbreakers , i only had the looks and the humor part ... but i was soo needy and atached to her , made her the center of my everyday ... So i started to get more detached from her and not being so needy. I had some work i started kind of ignoring her .... she didn`t stop calling me after that and be much more interested in me , i`m still working on the others , but i think i`m going in the right way ! THANK YOU SO MUCH ! (sorry for my bad english)
@OpticSlinky104 жыл бұрын
This is a real nice video of Berlin playing Danganronpa
@LorenzoNW8 жыл бұрын
I didn't think YT ads could get any worse than Tai Lopez. But now there's Scientology. LOL
@ActualizedOrg8 жыл бұрын
+LorenzoNW I blocked Tai cause ya'll are whining about him. Oh the irony.
@LorenzoNW8 жыл бұрын
That's so funny! Sometimes ya just can't win. Haha
@jordangiesige41958 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct for American women. Women in other countries, the mix differs. Great video! I don't know how you talk that long without notes.
@Rinorhinoboye24 жыл бұрын
Bro why did berleezy put this in the playlist
@Concatenate9 жыл бұрын
I find that women often want opposing or nonsensical characteristics in a man. Funny but also serious. Confident but not cocky. Outgoing and adventurous but stable and secure. Ambitious but still wants him to pay attention to her. Wealthy and charitable but you better spend money on her. Good looking but she doesn't want to feel like she has to compete with other women for you. There is no "win" in any of this. I'll never understand it, I don't think anyone ever will.
@polutanka7 жыл бұрын
A B it's called balance and acting according the situation
@vision36914 жыл бұрын
I'm very happy to have found you. You make sense. No games needed. Straight masculine quality.
@howmathematicianscreatemat92268 жыл бұрын
The reason why it is so hard for so many men is simply because a woman subconciously compares us to the dozens and dozens of other men they know in their lifes at the same time. It's natural that then it is very hard to be the one they want. You really have to proof to be the best of them. Sometimes this is not even possible with the hardest amount of work because there still remains auch a thing as a talent for leadership, provider and a mentally quick witted person who is able to act very quickly and kick down possible family threateners like James Bond if the don't stop when the confident stands in front of the family! I am sorry guys if I disappoint some of you now, but it is really naive to belief that for a really extraordinary pretty women (which you would call "a 10") it is enough to be just good at "game". Look at the thousands and thousands of offers they get each day from extraordinary rich and influencial guys. If you don't have a VERY(!) ambitious goal where she can really feel DEEP INSINDE her, that you are dilegently and quickly improving and getting closer towards your goal, YOU HAVE NO CHANCE TO BEAT THESE SUPERGUYS!!
@expressivepancake46934 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOO BERLIN WAS FR WATCHING THIS I CANT-
@heatherillo6 жыл бұрын
I’m just looking for kindness. Genuine kindness and someone who inspires me to be the best version of myself.
@TheUltimateMarioFan8 жыл бұрын
12:20 Not all guys are a flat line emotionally. I'm a highly sensitive person to the extent that I'm also an empath; I am very complex emotionally and can sense the emotional energies of others and what they're feeling. I know you're generalizing, but there are still far more highly and deeply emotional guys out there than you would be led to believe. The problem is, like women and their love of sex, men are pressured by society to keep quiet about their sensitivity. Unfortunately, because everyone seems to equate vulnerability with weakness and effeminacy, there are very strong social stigmas against sensitive men.
@humblekuro79268 жыл бұрын
Jeremy Burleson 💀
@adamlittle61646 жыл бұрын
The Ultimate Mario Fan good for you
@kristinrobinson1806 жыл бұрын
Frédéric Chopin you are correct!😜
@rowley22196 жыл бұрын
Highly sensitive person??? What sort of guy refers to themselves in this way?? You are screwed sunshine and are going to be taken to the cleaners, it sounds like you will put a woman on a pedestal and will then be shocked when she doesn't respect you for kissing her arse. When I think back to Uni loads of the female teachers to be were the worse for playing around and getting laid and these are to be teaching the next batch of kids. God help us, the age of internet dating, selfies etc. etc. means people can be choosey and constantly looking for better things, trading up. The look at me, entitled women of today are hard work and it's getting worse and if you get married, have kids and things go south you are taken to the cleaners like my brother and one of my best mates and have to start from scratch. Modern day feminism blurs with man hating far too much. Bad times all round.
@junysann4 жыл бұрын
Hold up... Did Kazuichi put this in the danganronpa playlist?
@iskeipizm2 жыл бұрын
whenever i hear “every woman...” i lose a reason to keep listening
@wulf6710 жыл бұрын
Is a person who seeks validation from others really "actualized"? Would a Buddha seek to "hook women like crack"? lol. Will you finally love yourself once you have women "hooked" on you like desperate crackheads? Free yourself from the desire of such an outcome and be happy. You are here in this moment and that is enough.
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
The moment is just a little nicer when you got a hot girl in it ;)
@wulf6710 жыл бұрын
...only if you are still at the stage in which you receive superficial validation from external forms, i.e., not really "actualized". Do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
wulf67 Lol, that's a marketing slogan! What do you want me to say, "Watch this video and you will never care about having sex again?"
@wulf6710 жыл бұрын
The question was, do you believe that healthy mature human relationships really involve one party being hooked on another "like crack?"
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
wulf67 No, but it is in a girl's nature to fall for the guy. Guys do it to. That's the nature of romantic love. The better man you become, the more women will get hooked on you. Cause you're just too awesome! But what I am supposed to do? Not be awesome?? Love comes up with ups and downs.
@mikefoley37858 жыл бұрын
This guy shaves his head. In my book, that must mean he is automatically some kind of brilliant Guru. How can you have a shaved head and not be the coolest dude ever?
@СвятойАнтоний-в1щ5 жыл бұрын
100% agree!
@mandeepkalsi9524 жыл бұрын
He looks like The Mask
@Alexander-gv6oh4 жыл бұрын
That's why they call them enlightened; their heads are shining!
@DmitryIvanovDfcreative9 жыл бұрын
These points are the result and the reflection of inner process. Also they are interrelated. If you are confident, you are free to choice any interesting activity, that becomes a passion. In that, you’re detached. That creates joy, and a good ground for humour and making friends. Which leads to sex and sexual skills. All that keeps that lifestyle going. But there is the vibe, the initial energy behind that.
@GNO899 жыл бұрын
I agree completely. However, in reality, giving women the "whole package" even the five (confidence, humor, sex etc.) over the long term (years) is exhausting. You're better off putting your energy into being a Navy Seal or Astronaut.
@ActualizedOrg9 жыл бұрын
The whole package isn't for them, it's for you!
@mandarpednekar30454 жыл бұрын
@@ActualizedOrg is this apply in country like India?
@spanishquickandeasy9 жыл бұрын
Flawless analysis.
@Sweetdevotion358 Жыл бұрын
Oh man as a woman this really helped me understand the problems I’m experiencing in my relationship. My man is a provider but there’s a couple other guys who have stimulated my emotions 😂
@Buddhism555_35 Жыл бұрын
R u really a man 👨 ?
@nr6553218 жыл бұрын
The problem with this video is that it talks only about the first encounter / initial stages of a relationship. So unless you plan to date around until you're freaking 70 or go through 5 marriages taking another approach will be necessary. Sorry, but while learning how to "get" women can be actually achieved, being in a good relationship is a pretty different thing. There's a qualitative leap between the two, if you know what I mean.
@Silberpfote78 жыл бұрын
“guy are calm and stoic. we're either this or that or horny.“ I had to stop the video and laugh. oh and... loyalty is on top of my list. to be honest, i think every woman has her own list/order, even if you say we don't psychoanalize ourselves that much.
Everyone knows this by default. You are born with this knowledge (we'd have gone extinct by now if that wasn't the case) and it gradually unlocks with puberty. It's just that some are unluckier than others, get sad and/or frustrated with their bad luck and click videos like this where someone tells them "the secrets you aren't aware of". That is the sad but true reality. It doesn't mean that you should sulk and never care about it again, but it also doesn't mean that your frustration is unjustified and you're just doing everything wrong (like this video suggests). In most first world societies the younger generations, especially millenials, (not just women) are incredibly biased towards certain sterotypes, because that's what they're told they should be looking for. And if you don't fit the (incredibly shallow and boring in my eyes) norm, you're often already disqualified before you even get a chance. _"Any man who exhibits these characteristics shouldn't spend much time without a woman in his life."_ I would testify under oath that this is complete and utter bullshit. This video would've worked 20 years ago, but today's society is way different mate.
@DAEDAEANT4 жыл бұрын
What women need, Danganronpa episode 32
@douglassmith20558 жыл бұрын
Women will say to each other things that they will never tell any man. One is that when the man "knows" what she wants without asking or being told its a home run for them. Figuring out the "wiring" differences between men and women helps both. Women do want a man they respect and have many many ways to "test" men to determine this. Knowing these tests ahead of time and making sure you have the proper response every time is a necessity. Your vid is hitting upon the science of this, good job!
@PupBruh4 жыл бұрын
So when I was checking out all of the videos... There was *all the Danganronpa videos* in that playlist! So, there was no extras? Nope, there was *no extras* TRUTH BULLET> PLAYLIST ACCOUNT NO THATS WRONG! B R E A K ! ! Actually, that’s not so true... what was found in there was a video on 5 steps to becoming a man. You would’ve only knew that had you checked Berleezy’s playlist!
@Raccon_Detective.3 жыл бұрын
01:57 Never listen to a women about what she wants in a man 03:28 Women want deep emotional intimacy 05:28 What does a guy want in a girl 09:10 Security 09:30 Social status 09:52 Loyalty 11:21 Deal breakers 11:53 Humor 13:00 Detachment 18:35 Emotional stimulation
@jsabra892 жыл бұрын
My scores on these traits, the important ones first! Confidence: 7/10 Humour - high energy: 5/10 Detachment - non neediness: 6/10 Adventurous - Boldness: 6/10 Sex: 6/10 Looks: 8/10 Social Status - celebrity: 6/10 Security - financial security: 8/10 Loyalty: 7/10
@ManiNassah2 жыл бұрын
You ain't. No celebrity
@DiceDecides2 жыл бұрын
@@ManiNassah that's why he said 6/10... do you know his social circle?
@hellogoditsmesatan71694 жыл бұрын
F in chat for Berlin
@katelynnlee35529 жыл бұрын
It's true that women desire deep emotional intimacy, are social creatures, are free flowing, spontaneous and relationship bound creatures. And, it's true that though good looks, security and social status draw a women to a man it's not what will keep her in his life. These traits may get her attention to come closer and take a look, but they are not the qualities women seek. I appreciate you putting into categories what awakens a women's spirit and soul. I agree that we seek men of confidence & detachment, mental strength, one who will lead and provide options for her when she's lost in her emotions and dysfunctional relations. We seek Humor and Adventure, as you say, but truly it's emotional stimulation, so that we may keep in touch with our delicate feminine nature to be able to reciprocate a mans desire for intimacy, closeness, and being the provider/protector. And finally, I agree that we long for the dirty & intimate sex because, I think, it's means of connecting both needs: physical and emotional. Thank you for your work. I personally thinks it's awesome! Keep it up.
@dethwing588 жыл бұрын
this tip is for them guys that told the girl i love you and she said it back if you really want this girl to fall in love with you barley text her for 3 days now this tip is risky but it did a hell of a job for me my girl wasnt in love with me i was in love with her but she would tell me she love me. just want to mention saying i love you and being in love is two different things. so after i found out she wasnt in love with me now i didnt do this on purpose but literally a day after i didnt have chance to talk to her as often when i did she told me out of the blue word from her mouth ( nit being able to talk to you have made me realize that im in love with you)
@Ke1ko74 жыл бұрын
Please lord let berleezy return back to this video and see all of these comments 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ghoulbabi67844 жыл бұрын
im here bc berlin accidentally put this in the playlist LMAOOO 😂😂
@lucarin81915 жыл бұрын
Personally, my favorite type of guy is the dedicated one! The one who is loyal to me but also wants to focus on his own goals and acheive them :)
@louieunlocked4 жыл бұрын
Berlin going thru it😭
@Shotzfired034 жыл бұрын
Wtf why is this in berleezy Danganronpa playlist
@xximo8 жыл бұрын
Confidence, Detachment, Humor, Edginess and Sex. I think every body needs to learn and improve those five features to have more interesting and happy life. Great video. I learned something Today.
@golfwangus4 жыл бұрын
This episode of dangan is fucking fire.
@shiz77710 жыл бұрын
I watched your videos and I wish it were true. I had someone once whom I loved and who loved me back. But situations in my life happened, deaths in my family, poverty and a highly stressful job where I was under a lot of durress and things didn't work out. She didn't want to stick it through. I went through years of pain at losing someone I deeply loved but now I have come to realize we are all animals. I disagree with you on the emotional intimacy part. Emotional intimacy for them, as a man I have learned that it's best to only rely on blood and to feign emotional interest back. I became stronger and dated quite a few women. In my experience, at the basest level all that matters is power, looks and money. Power mostly.
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
Nah man, you just got shitty game. The only thing that matters is your game. Which you can develop if you want to.
@shiz77710 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org How am I actually supposed to employ game when going through several life crises while in a relationship? And by employing game, isn't that affirming what I said? That there is no true emotional intimacy, just power dynamics?
@matt2342210 жыл бұрын
Have you ever heard of the secret?
@aaronworkgrierson147010 жыл бұрын
I think that what leo is saying is that the mechanics, the game, were shitty. You cannot have the great feeling of driving your car if the mechanics of the engine aren't there. there are mechanics to a relationship just like there are mechanics to a car. your engine was busted so she couldn't love driving you. metaphorically speaking.
@matt2342210 жыл бұрын
My friend let me tell you your problem. You don't want to believe in anything he says because you are heartbroken and that sucks. You probably are pretty successful to the average bystander but you don't feel that way. That's why you watched a 25 minute video on what girls want. You want to know why she left and how to find another one like her. But that's not how you build a great life. You need to forget all the pain and tough times you went through and believe that you will find someone you love more. Shit happens and the world isn't slowing down to help you up.
@nedimkamil39503 жыл бұрын
This apllies to low value women. Detachment is the worst thing for women, if you think we want that, you will always lose. But detachment attracts men. I know it, I did it.
@marynarkw9 жыл бұрын
Total Rubbish and you can see proofs everywhere. There are many women who are with guys with no money, sense of humour, confidence etc. Just look around yourself, your friends, colleagues, fellow workers etc. According to top psychologists women choose partners who remind them relations they had at home while they were children. It seems familiar to them and they feel safe (even if they come from bad families) That`s why people from pathological families very often end up having toxic partners and relations and vice versa. These women attract the same type of men all the time because they choose them subconsciously. Yes, they can change that but it will take some work Guys do not watch rubbish videos like this as it creates confusion and your knowledge will be based on rubbish later. Just, for example, buy a best seller book from an expert in this area (no from YT guru) and you will be fine. It is quite visible that the guy in the video is not the type (bald, very skiny,..) whom attractive women would like so he is probably trying to find explanation to... I see on my right that he has a video about the confidence. It is very interested because on this video he choking on air from time to time which is the very first sign of luck of confidence. Typical theoretical guy. Remember there is a big difference between what women want and choose! Just be honest and yourself and you will meet (if you did not meet already) a partner who will appreciate you.
@cats108710 жыл бұрын
we want a man that takes responsibility for his actions, commitments - who has the ability to show his emotions when needed, a responsible person and a person who works full time to provide for his woman or family. Qualities I do not see in the men from the years 1985 till now...
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
That's not who you're initially attracted to though.
@Sam-gn6og10 жыл бұрын
Terri Robison then quit demanding equality...
@cats10879 жыл бұрын
***** Yes Johnny B. I know exactly what you are saying. Unfortunately, these girls and grown-ups do not realize this until it is too late. I myself passed up these great qualities in guys while I was in high school and I actually married a guy who was the tall, dark handsome guy but with no MORAL CODE. Divorced him after 3 years... I am aware....
@nickademofrost469 жыл бұрын
Terri Robison Women take NO responsibilities for anything.... they use their VAGINA and a get out of jail free card.
@jimmyburton52769 жыл бұрын
Terri Robison Were you able to nail down a beta provider after that?
@silver2screen8 жыл бұрын
Nice video Joe! But my question is - "how do i build confidence and humor?" coz i dont have them!
@calvincandie919810 жыл бұрын
What about just being yourself to just find true love ? Honestly
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
Does it work for you? Honestly
@AntonioSantos-ep8bc10 жыл бұрын
Yes, turning the dating scene into a game, has made it so dishonest. It is as if people hold dishonesty and manipulation as virtues nowadays. True love is based on truth, not just hitting the right buttons. Calvin Candie just be yourself. You will find the true love that you and everybody else wants.
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
Antonio Santos No one is telling you to be dishonest. Being authentic is what gets you laid, but you have to be your best authentic self, not your weak authentic self. Also realize that the dating scene is a game no matter if you want it or not. Dating is an auction system for getting the best genes to rise to the top. What you call love is part of this mechanism and there's nothing particularly scared about it.
@AntonioSantos-ep8bc10 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org Calvin is seeking true love. And I just responded to HIM not YOU, that he is right about the best way of getting true love is by totally being himself. True love is long term. Getting "laid" is short sighted by nature. And honestly, the females you are talking about are the ones who go to bars to get laid too. They look at sexual relations as just a game and a way to entertain and pleasure themselves. So they are not really the "easy prey" that you think they are. It is a game as you said. And there is MUTUAL USING of each other's bodies for selfish reasons. Love is NEVER selfish. Lust, which is the game you are talking about, is totally selfish. It is really technically just masturbation with the aid of somebody's body and sexual organ. Love can NEVER be in the equation in such a meaningless and overly casual activity. Not all females can be classified in just one category as you seem to be insisting. Every single person, whether male or female is unique. I think that was what @Simona480 and Green Queen were trying to tell you.
@Dan010101010101010 жыл бұрын
What is yourself? Theres no area of the brain where "you" are located, who you are is just an idea you have in your memory given to you by others. Its just information/ideas from other people.
@Momlife1038 жыл бұрын
Lol you're 100000% right
@Momlife1038 жыл бұрын
My ex was funny and good in bed that's about it, and I kept him around for way too long
@wesnorthcutt6398 жыл бұрын
I had the same thing happen...to the extreme, she was a manipulator deluxe not to mention a succubus, I tried so hard with her, I guess she thinks "her toy broke" "not man enough to handle a severe toxic event, beat it only to contract crps...that took me down, but I had just beaten a poisoning which caused kidney failure, stroke, encephalitis and near heart failure and beat it ALL w/o 1 single side effect/affect, that was nothing compared to CRPS!
@youngspunky28358 жыл бұрын
you didn't hear ? he was funny and good at bed that's good but he wasnt rich i think maybe this is why she didn't like him ?
@wesnorthcutt6398 жыл бұрын
The Truth is HARD to believe my moneys on you truth...
@Momlife1038 жыл бұрын
The Truth is HARD to believe lol you have no idea but no that's definitely not why. he wasn't rich but had a good job making a decent amount of money. the issues we had are to long to say here
@ChibiSlowpoke7 жыл бұрын
I am a woman and I know more than you what I want out of those things and that's confidence, humor, attention, loyalty and emotion stimulation. I can't believe you said loyalty isn't important because that is the most important of them all.
@ryans4138 жыл бұрын
What women want bla bla bla do they ever ask what we want nope it's all about them
@americanalien64118 жыл бұрын
+Ryan Scherbluk There's a video telling women what men want too bruh
@jadajackson53338 жыл бұрын
ur on this viedo cause,
@jadajackson53338 жыл бұрын
+Jada Jackson?
@mr.fitness45287 жыл бұрын
Lydia xxx What do you mean "we". Your doing it to yourself.
@Shoshii7 жыл бұрын
Mr. Fitness Lol that was 43 weeks ago when I was cringey I forgot I posted that kms
@sirliridon.44198 жыл бұрын
I did all of them and still failed!!
@tydusjames95078 жыл бұрын
Liridon Cenaj remember that not all women are fully feminine. she might want a few things a man might want.
@DontFuckWitDreDay8 жыл бұрын
Get plastic surgery bro
@theyellowcube06 жыл бұрын
Practice is necessary.. u can't expect to pick up a pencil and instantly be a great artist.. The magic is in the practice because in practice you're able to make these tactics your own unique attraction spell.. Think of it as exercise.. -Shquare..
@garym88528 жыл бұрын
Hi , . I went out with this girl for about a month, and despite her saying she wanted to take it slow, in hindsight I pushed things a bit and we got really close. I got visibly frustrated with her at one point for pulling back at the last moment and ever since that point the relationship was not the same. On our last date she never made any attempts to be physical and after confronting her about it she said she was unsure if she was attracted to me like that anymore and even proposed being friends. I told her that wasn't something I could do. She said she would think about it. (Obviously I reacted poorly as I never have gone through something like this before and I even got a little needy.) I didnt contact her for two weeks. I called her asked her to a function that she was unable to go to. We rescheduled a trip that I cancelled due to poor weather. She was supposed to let me know what her schedule was but I haven't heard anything from her for over two weeks. How should I proceed, how can i fix this etc. I really liked this girl. Its been over a month since we've actually seen each other.Thank you,
@rizwanqamar19748 жыл бұрын
Intimate ..And Dirty. Got it! Thanks.
@TheSinisterPress8 жыл бұрын
Is that a picture of Bas Rutten?
@colloredbrothers8 жыл бұрын
Don't shit in her mouth Qamar, we went over this, thats not what dirty means.
@TheSinisterPress8 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@Alexander-gv6oh4 жыл бұрын
@@colloredbrothers what if she says "please shit in my mouth"?
@eavesDropSound8 жыл бұрын
He hit them points tho. Thanks for sharing :)
@AKARazorback9 жыл бұрын
When you started on the first point I instantly liked this. That really IS number 1!
@penelopeedwards6298 жыл бұрын
Women and men are both human beings we are not a different species. The idea that "all woman" think a certain way is ridiculously sexist and stupid. Be fulfilled in your own life before looking for a relationship and when you meet someone take a genuine interest in who that individual is and just be yourself- simple. Goes for men and women.
@SuperImmortal248 жыл бұрын
stop chasing after women!!! dont try to impress a women. let them make the move.
@cjgokuhomes106 жыл бұрын
And end up being an incel !! .
@sabaande6 жыл бұрын
Don't chase a woman? Ok...good luck living the rest of your life alone Mr. Beta Male 😂😂
@ConnorDRyan5 жыл бұрын
This is the dumbest thing I’ve ever read
@HelLo-dl4ne4 жыл бұрын
23:14 Example: There’s a guy exactly as you described, And he did find his “Princess” How does she know that she’s special? I mean if he’s a guy with abundance & a care free attitude how would she really know?
@HelLo-dl4ne4 жыл бұрын
How does she know that he gave up “all that” for her, so she can give the right valuation to the guy