What You Should Actually Say To Your Crush

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[@rohan-mf4ve]

1. set up a hidden camera and record 2. ask them out 3. if they say yes, forget about the camera and retrieve it later 4. if they say no, pretend it was a prank and show them the camera whaddya think? 😉😉😉

[@MaryMeow92]

you're a genius! omg hahah this is actually not a bad idea :D

[@rohan-mf4ve]

thanks lol

[@nuclear2906]

It may be smart but your crush wont think the same way you want it to be :/

[@kadieaguilera6796]

OMG AMAZBALLZ

[@demikoh844]

not bad

[@moniimagine]

Sometimes I get scared that my crush sees me looking at him but then I realized if he sees me looking at him that means he is looking at me too

[@annag2267]

Or he feels your eyes burning on him😂

[@vlryzc]

CuptainCapcake One time there was a conversation between my crush, my best friend and me. _Best friend to me:_ What do we have now? _Me:_ I think Biology. Yes, Biology, I'm pretty sure. _Best friend:_ You sure? _Me:_ Of course I am. I'm sure. _Best friend:_ *asks crush (he sits behind us in class)* What do we have now? _Crush:_ I don't know, wait a second. _Me (I'm so awkward):_ We have Biolgy, I'm sure. _Crush:_ We have physics. *makes eye contact with me, felt like an eternity even if it was just like one second. He just looked me right into the eye* _Me:_ Oh okay, I was wrong, sorry then… *feels embarassed, walks away*

[@meg82133]

iHalfBlood 101 OMG me too

[@cristiperez2203]

Thats not necesarily true. Sometimes I look at certain ppl because I think they r looking at me. Nlt because I like them

[@ghost-of-ann]

literally every time

[@signorinalucia7342]

I started talking to my crush and she asked me out... ...of the room. Damn it, third time this week!

[@noused1381]

I love your user and profile pic

[@signorinalucia7342]

Livi Cat Thanks. ;). And you're really pretty... o.O

[@noused1381]

+Phanic! At The Disco thank you😊

[@nikola206]

My crush asked me out ... out of the EU. Racism was a deal breaker, don't have that crush now.

[@livinglikelex9114]

+Poppy Lochland same

[@InternetGamerz101]

Me: I like you Crush: I'm sorry... I just- Me: I-It's just a dare, bro... Crush: Oh for a second there I thought- Me: Runs away

[@nightwicxw5269]

U gave me a great idea to confess to my crush. Thanks!

[@InternetGamerz101]

+风夜 glad to help! 😂😂😂

[@nightwicxw5269]

***** me: it was a dare! crush (who is also my guy best friend) : I knew it! me: .-. *friendzoned forever

[@liyadeen9164]

+Nightwic xw My biggest fear though is if he (my crush and my closest guy friend) asks me out and I say yes, and they will just be like "Uh, that was a dare...." And I'm so stubborn and set on making him ask me out, but the only way I'll ever feel satisfied is if he likes me for me 😕

[@freyaguppy6305]

This is brilliant

[@mrjixk]

"Is that a grandpa or a sugar daddy?" Oh no :O

[@ReeThealien]

+TheLoneVolfe XDDDDDD

[@inns5737]

Is it bad to think about Donald Trump ..

[@katieblasco6183]

I really like my crush it's just he knows and well people were saying that I like him and he found out about it and we'll ......

[@eloisaguers]

It killed me

[@potatosquirrel808]

XD IKR

[@lolakidd528]

I prefer not to call it stalking and more... intense research of an individual.

[@sebastianioancio9004]

The story of my life

[@lolakidd528]

Michael Wittmann Hahaha, Yea

[@emmaenos5459]

some call it stalking I say walking just extremely close behind

[@memetrash8500]

your pfp makes the comment even better lmao

[@ZeWunderwaffen]

True that

[@thanksman4897]

Lets hope none of our crushes look in the comments :)

[@autumnbeck8432]

Lol ikr

[@Sagemama41]

😂yeah😂

[@kyliee3107]

lol

[@icantthinkofausername8964]

I wanted to like but then it would have 70 likes and not 69

[@Happy81555]

Yep xD

[@bink6565]

I said 'hi' to my crush. He said 'hi' to me. The conversation ended. :')))

[@Daria-qu4dq]

Woow that is so cool

[@jasminesmriti2443]

Story of my life😂

[@criardutson734]

@Luna Lovegood wait, what?

[@jenniferchan632]

When my crush likes someone else.... You plot revenge

[@imsofussy]

+Yan Chan yup and thank god he ain't dating someone because if he dating someone, hue hue hue you will guess what i will do to her... hue hue hue

[@imsofussy]

depends hue hue hue

[@azureskyes5446]

+Yan Chan wait... if YOUR crush likes someone else, why am I the one plotting revenge? do your own plotting...

[@jesxicamartxnez4784]

Yandere Simulator☝☝☝☝

[@singaloudproductions]

In that situation right now 😢 he knows I like him but he likes one of my kinda close friends sadly

[@isabellarobaina9746]

Ok so, i told my crush i liked him, and he told me he liked me. Were dating now.

[@LetsStopThisSong]

How do you gather the courage to say that lol

[@isabellarobaina9746]

i have no idea xDDD

[@hyacinthobrien660]

Lucky!!!

[@Courtny-cq4pl]

YOU ARE TEN

[@laurariley351]

+TheMuffinWithFrosting how do you know she might be 17 you never kno2

[@michellevyanca5280]

But he's my friend and I don't want to ruin our friendship

[@MGPEARCEY]

ME AF RIGHT NOW

[@michellevyanca5280]

Mikey Pearce lol i'm just trying to get over him because there is no way in the world he and i will ever be together

[@MGPEARCEY]

+Michelle Vyanca I swear I'm in the exact same situation as you!!! it's hard getting over them tho

[@michellevyanca5280]

Mikey Pearce I tried distancing myself from him but just came off as rude and ignored him so now he thinks I hate him.. lol

[@MGPEARCEY]

+Michelle Vyanca I've been considering distancing myself from the girl but I was worried that exact same thing would happen so I dunno I'm just carrying on our 'friend' relationship but it's hard cos whenever I talk to her it's like the feelings come back you know??? idk it sucks haha

[@levicrossdechantel]

"Use those weird flaps you call lips and form noises into words" Me: **queefs in front of crush** .........

[@Nishchio]

omg I'm dying

[@rensrevengee]

LOOOL I just laughed so hard 😂😂😂😂

[@diamondlove5370]

Lol this comment is funny.

[@petal1475]

OMG IM DYING 😂😂😂😂

[@rosielow527]

Effie Gabrielle Blakely OH GOD WHY

[@ThePerksOfBooks]

Me talking to my crush: If you were a potato, you'd be a good potato.

[@victoriahill5593]

+❤🔥Jade Taylor🔥❤ "what's your favorite brand of pencil?"

[@fetasprite]

+ThePerksOfBooks me talking to me crush : hi.... (him) umm hey? me on the outside: so do you play minecarft?me on the inside: OMG HE TALKED TO ME I BET HE LIKE ME OH MY GAAAAAWD IM SO HAPPY WE ARE GOING TO KISS AND DATE AND MARRY AND HAVE BUETIFUL CHILDREN AND WE WILL GROW OLD TOGETHER YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!1

[@kenzieandpip6839]

I called my crush a friendly preying mantis. He called me a quiet but friendly Bambi... ☺️

[@kenzieandpip6839]

I'm actually going to go and use that potato line on him right now.

[@kenzieandpip6839]

I did it. Now we wait.

[@zetarhythm3503]

Uh, yeah. I don't have the confidence even to make eye contact with them, let alone talk.

[@bumpin9086]

+Crescendo Same here she thought I'd stole something from her because I couldn't look her in the eye and tell her I hadn't

[@zetarhythm3503]

Incesticide 13 Due to a lack of confidence, I didn't talk to my crush _at all._ Now, she's in a relationship that looks like it's gonna last. Looks like we both have a problem.

[@bumpin9086]

I know this is pretty sad for both of us, but how'd you get the all to be in italics?

[@zetarhythm3503]

Incesticide 13 Put an underscore (This --> _) around the text you want to be in italics. You can also use asterisks for bold, and hyphens for crossed out text, I think. But yeah, I know things are bad for us. But still, you actually have a chance to talk to your crush, you just need the confidence. I think you should talk to her, because, well, that's the only way your gonna make progress, right? Don't sit around and do nothing, or someone else *will* move in, like what happened with me.

[@bumpin9086]

I honestly don't mind if she's dating someone at this point. She knows I like her and we've talked about it before, just not in a good way. Good luck with your crush, though

[@nuriel8104]

What if my crush and i are introverted

[@adrianab1771]

i feel ya

[@oatmeal4866]

Then you talk to them?... Introverted means that you gain energy off by being alone. Not that you physically can't speak to people.

[@lalakuma9]

I feel like that's actually the best scenario. You two can live in your own world together forever and ever and ever.

[@anamariaruales1641]

Nuriel Cahigas relatable...

[@storyvivian662]

You cry

[@worldofsamantha949]

I told my crush I like him he likes me back! ❤️

[@ariiposa]

Samantha Xox You give me hope😭😭

[@worldofsamantha949]

Pretty Smart it's okay!!! ❤️❤️

[@ariiposa]

YOU ARE LIKE GOODLUCK OR SOMETHING!MY CRUSH TOLD MY FRIENDS HE LIKES ME!HE DOESNT KNOW THAT I KNOW BUT IM GONNA TELL HIM I LIKE HIM TOMORROW!IM SO HAPPY AND EXCITED!THANK YOU

[@worldofsamantha949]

Pretty Smart no problem!! ❤️❤️

[@sabiraa.b.7883]

Wow you guys. I'd be lucky if I can even have a decent conversation with my crush.

[@TheILuvmustache]

my love life is so sad i looked to this video for real advice 😂😂😂

[@2pretty4u1000]

+Denise Nanase right!!!

[@lnolen101]

same

[@Amy-uh7nh]

same

[@runegaming3122]

+Denise Nanase it is real advice though...best thing you can do is just go up and talk

[@aliwiston7971]

same here 😓

[@thisisitthisiswhat]

Sarah is one of my three favorite girls in Buzzfeed. Ashly and Quinta are the two other ones.

[@floralkatie]

+Michaela Fuchsová same omg

[@heklasolbjorggunnarsdottir9699]

SAME!!!

[@myloujoores2724]

what about Kelsey

[@floralkatie]

Mylou Joores who's that

[@heklasolbjorggunnarsdottir9699]

+Mylou Joores Nah...

[@aleia7238]

Hey, what's it called when your crush says he likes you? Oh that right it's called...... IMAGINATION....... (@ - @)

[@neednottoknow7213]

Haha that was funny af 😂😂

[@khioneyui]

@May_ Taurus don't do gake accounts its better to just face them instead.

[@mayazucchini7991]

ᅲᅳ ᅲ김지 my crush is a girl so

[@gwenmartinez9662]

Ask them out on april fools, so that if they say yes, date them. If they say no, say april fools and run away.

[@ariiposa]

Gwen Martinez 0.o You can also ask them if they wanna kiss and if they say no take out a bag of Hershey kisses😂

[@k8ieg]

Gwen Martinez logic

[@karolinaturynova5789]

The day is here - i dare you xD

[@anonymouscheesepie3768]

What if they say yes, but that was April Fools?

[@parksandy4112]

Gwen Martinez good idea😂😂❤️❤️

[@barbaravibes]

I love how theres just a random shovel in the background

[@lemonmania967]

+barbaravibes She's obviously digging the grave of the girlfriend-cousin and the grandpa-sugar daddy

[@ferngully8135]

samerzz

[@lemonmania967]

***** *nod*

[@elishamay6121]

maybe it's incase her crush likes someone else ;)

[@mcscrafts1232]

I see mine in school. We talk alot, and thats just cuz we sre close friends......

[@Toby-yz7wt]

I'll just keep watching random videos and do nothing. Best plan ever.

[@ezrakylander734]

Toby Zhang me too

[@jadep3882]

I CAN RELATE

[@xienela]

RELATABLE

[@sashakys]

"is that a grandpa or a sugar daddy" LMAO

[@jodi2622]

саша 😂 😂 😂

[@lexiebrothers5695]

"but on the inside everyones a weird wriggling ball of anxiety"

[@riell.4021]

My favorite line

[@TIEKOK]

is that grandpa or sugardaddy LOL

[@jamiewinter2727]

Haha I know I was like woah slow down 😂

[@kashish2787]

I see 19 days

[@garyjaycat]

I'm a girl, and I've straight up asked guys out. They've all said no, but at least I found out thay they weren't interested in me like that so I wouldn't waste more time obsessing over whether or not they liked me and I could move on with my life.

[@johannaguerrero1790]

Same

[@febirigor9478]

+Gary Jaycat Wow!!! You've got guts

[@PhantomPoor]

+Gary Jaycat We boys, do like girls that are straightforward!

[@jacksonjones4035]

+Vulpin Very true

[@kaim0nd]

This is so relatable! I use to wonder if its because I'm ugly or something, but when I looked in the mirror I laugh out loud. it is their loss.

[@rainbowgirl8991]

She didn't even have lipstick on when she was kissing the letters

[@aarna7859]

lol yeah

[@Elysian_Peaches]

Rainbow Girl I noticed that

[@bungonuts]

so i was talking to this girl for a while... then she said: " youre like a brother to me omg!!!" r.i.p soul

[@lacornichon1751]

hahaha

[@inesmagalhaes8284]

Selena Gomez said exactly the same thing about Justin Bieber before they dated,so keep hopefull.

[@milanabaklagina9216]

FRIENDZONE

[@AlmendraMiku]

Today, I got rejected...

[@yoselinaguirre6420]

...you can start watching a marathon on Netflix, that always helps

[@Sardonyxx]

You have our permission

[@deliciousx5]

+Almendra Miku the internet is here to comfort you.

[@andreaparsons2120]

At you didn't get ejected.....haha get it?

[@AlmendraMiku]

jhenai dixon thank

[@kmichael9452]

My crush one time said hi to me!!!! HE SAID HI!!!! SO HE BASICALLY ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM RIGHT!?!?!?! RIGHT?!?!?!?....... yaaa noooo WHY CANT HE LOVE ME?!?!?!? LOVE ME!!!!!!!!

[@pakemainajak1662]

XDDDD

[@beatrizkim1754]

best comment lol

[@Sonicfanyay]

XD I can relate to that too well

[@misty2902]

He DEFINITELY wants to marry you :3 xD

[@kaci8102]

My crush told me the word love in a sentence He said I love cats My name has a c in it so HE LOVES ME

[@justealeksaite2000]

introvert: nah, too complicated *crawles back in to the trash can to draw.*

[@ilyar-k.114]

ok me

[@trexala1491]

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO SAY TO MY CRUSH IF I NEVER TALKED TO HIM D: I cant just go to him and be like "hey, how are you" because that would just be so akward

[@masterjennifer4549]

Casually pulls out violin and plays a solo next to crush.

[@yhwong1]

Actually, I never talked to my crush before too........ *sigh*

[@nayonikaarawal2593]

exactly. pls help me out with this. my crush rejected me 3 times to be his friend but he doesn't know i like him. his brother does tho. idk what to do

[@optimisticdread]

I develop awful crushes. it's like my brain picks out the most attractive guy in the room (who doesn't know me and there's 0 chance we'll ever talk) and says 'Yes, you like him' ..... then I proceed to stalk him online... and if we ever do talk it's a lot of blinking, nodding, and words that aren't actually words.

[@sydneyshino5570]

Same and my crush makes fun of me and makes me cry and yet I have a crush on him.

[@optimisticdread]

been there. done that, god its awful :(

[@kiarajacob7765]

O_O

[@thestreetdisciple3955]

This post is super old but GOD YOUR STUNNING!

[@AbraminWonderland]

sara is my spirit animal

[@fishgay3904]

this comment is cultural appropriation

[@jeanninef9014]

yes

[@uglygirldoes2420]

Depends on the culture of the person saying it.

[@angeladavidson2350]

"Oh hi! I'm not doing anything suspicious." Yeah, and I'm the Queen of England XD

[@yoonsanhaismybaby9907]

Omg! The Queen of England! Whatever are you doing on KZbin, your highness?"

[@rawrni]

Angela Davidson OMG Ginny! Since when did u become Queen? 😂

[@angeladavidson2350]

Yoon Sanga Oh, you know, the usual ;)

[@angeladavidson2350]

Princess Redstone I've always been queen, what are you talking about? ;)

[@sarahwoods2480]

Angela Davidson im actually related to the queen of England so, if like, 1,000 people died at once i'd become the queen! (Probably...)

[@janineisabelle6787]

I told my crush I like him and he said that his crush is janine ( im janine) but guess what?! The other janine in our school!!!! (It hurts)

[@kiarajacob7765]

Bro thats harsh..😓

[@zilong4133]

Yea..That sad

[@crishealingvtuber8626]

oh noooo!

[@lancevanceGTA]

Aren't you too young for this Janine🤣

[@JamesV84]

So since this video doesn't actually tell you what to say to your crush, my advice is to actually tell them you like them before it's too late...

[@alicelikesrainbows]

but what if you barely speak to your crush, and you have no real reason to speak to him (like we're not in the same classes or anything) I can't just tell him I like him out of nowhere we hardly speak aghh

[@sorayalia8393]

+Alice Neate then you'll have to talk to that person and Form a bond first.. maybe you have mutual friends then you could all hang out together.. or you invite him to something. and then when you have a connection with hiM or her it won't be awkward to tell them you feelings.

[@sorayalia8393]

+Alice Neate typing is difficult lol. I hope you understood what I meant

[@JamesV84]

***** But then don't you wonder why you have a crush on someone if you never speak to them and hardly know them? Either way, the first step is what this video teaches, to start to speak to them about anything. "What's your favourite brand of toothpaste?" "Minty Butt." And if you liked them in that short of time, there is no reason they won't like you in that short of time either. But like I said, just make sure they eventually know you like them, as the longer you wait, the more chance there is they will fall for someone else.

[@haha-yn3bm]

why don't you make a video about it and then people can watch it.

[@James-nm6jb]

My thoughts : let the charm bomb explode When I talk : " Um...h- * runs away *

[@mirandabarranco5112]

I have a crush on someone that everyone thinks I hate to the core, because I always said I always hated them. why, brain. why.

[@woainiaimer]

God, same here. So frustrating..

[@GamerPlaysGamess]

+Skylar Potterhead :3 exactlyy

[@emmypenguin4832]

Omg!same :(

[@ariiposa]

GIRL YOU NEED TO STOP YOU ARE DRIVING YO CRUSH AWAY!GET IT TOGETHER BECAUSE WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER.Show HIM kindness,show him affection,show him compassion,but be goofy with him too

[@elvali3341]

same here

[@christhel2329]

I have a crush and we are BESTFREINDS

[@ahmedabdullah3883]

same :') and he is in love with my female best friend.. well that sucks even more.. domt know what to do sad life

[@marijamladenovic2874]

+Ahmed Abdullah same

[@marijamladenovic2874]

same bruh

[@yamamma9224]

same. were best friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship... and I'm not allowed to date till I'm 23...

[@jackstephan3911]

Hi

[@helene6686]

The closest thing I've said to my crush was hi. THAT WAS ONE TIME. And I see him every sunday..... dammit

[@erickalena]

+Helene Naicker Church crush or something? xd I get ya...

[@helene6686]

Ericka Alena Castillo Haha yes! :'D

[@mandyfrommars8789]

+Helene Naicker I said "Hello" and "Cool" to him once.

[@helene6686]

Mandy From Mars :'D Well atleast it's something!!

[@agnieszkazagajska4234]

+Helene Naicker Oh, same thing here, haha! xD I know what you feel

[@hanc724]

When ur crush has a gf... 😔

[@BestNoobEver67]

Yep I'm with you

[@helen418]

Same

[@peanutbutter0155]

+Chloe Cramer RIGHT THOOOO

[@conphused]

AAAH always the worst

[@emilydauge6507]

When your crush seems like a nice person, but he is friends with a bunch of assholes :(

[@unseasonedchicken2012]

Its weird how my crush kinda likes me, then kinda likes another girl.. Uh... Just me? Or just.. Yeah probably just me..

[@user-lr1ul9oh7h]

no giiirl my old crush was exactly the same!!!

[@unseasonedchicken2012]

Ever since my friends told my crush I like him, shes been slightly meaner to me.. -_-.. Like she calls me a name that I absolutely HATE. She said HA when her friend said she was sitting where I was sitting.. Life is hard. We used to be friends (sorta) now I kinda hate her XD

[@user-lr1ul9oh7h]

+IcyClawsAJ that's sad tho 😕 I am really sorry I think you deserve someone better than her 👍 you seem a good person 😊

[@unseasonedchicken2012]

And you know what else, that girl used to date him XD

[@unseasonedchicken2012]

Wait nvm guys he likes another girl who's really nice to me and everyone. AND I FOUND OUT HE FUDGING LIKES ME TOO.

[@urakeh4472]

My crush likes me, but she doesn't know I like her WTF DO I DO

[@10dawgg28]

STS Tell her. That's what I did. It didn't turn out so well though :/

[@ariiposa]

STS TELL HER DONT YOU DARE LEAVE HER HANGING OR ELSE SHE WILL MOVE ON.......You need to tell her your feelings.....If you want something serious you must tell her.....Or else she will find somebody else

[@urakeh4472]

Pretty Smart update: we're dating now :b

[@ariiposa]

STS CONGRATS NOW I MUST FIGURE OUT MY OWN LOVE LIFE!MY MISSION HERE IS DONE.

[@urakeh4472]

Pretty Smart Thxx... good luck to u:b

[@Anvocnighma]

...I only have crush on or love fictional characters or celebrities.

[@LoveTheBeauty77]

Same

[@alextuohy861]

Same lol

[@KaylaKasel]

+Sammy P Those are the worst kind because with "normal" people (relative term, but I think you know what I mean) you at least have a chance, whereas with fictional characters.... *cries in pain of feels*

[@Anvocnighma]

Kayla Lee Actually, for me it's more that I know I will never get a chance so I can't really expect anything. If it was a crush on a real guy then I know I could try to tell him but then I could get rejected and that's more painful, I guess. So I feel better with fictional and celebs and the fact I have never had a crush on a real guy for some reason.

[@Ada-ev8wl]

FRED WEASLY!!!!!! wooow hoooo

[@artemissharp1227]

My crush goes to a different school, but we've known each other since we were six. He just got a gf and now I'm kind of bummed tbh- but honestly, I just want him to be happy.

[@Saskahh]

So you had a crush on him since he was 6?

[@artemissharp1227]

Saskah Uh, kind of? It's been on and off. When we were little he was just my friend obviously, but after we got a little older I started to like him. He's not like, the only person I've liked, and when I like someone else I tend to like him less.

[@Saskahh]

+Artemis Sharp ok

[@kandimoon17]

+Artemis Sharp I'm in the exact situation you are in. We can lonely together. But keep your head up high. I know this advice might sound hard, but don't try not to think about him. That's what I'm doing right now, and I know, it's definitely not easy. BUT if you really like him at the moment or feel there is still something there, just let him find out on his own, instead of chasing him. I don't know how old you are (I'm 16), but hopefully my advice helped? I've known my crush since I was 7, liked him since last year, and honestly I don't know how it's going to turn out. But good luck!

[@artemissharp1227]

superbacon247 Thank you for your advice - I'll do my best. Let's lonely together bro!

[@chelseayhoward]

So this is what my life has come to...

[@xclusivezion5985]

Chelsea Howard mine too even though I already know my crush likes me

[@randomshiz7783]

*"What kind of masks they like to wear"* 2020: NOT WEIRD AT ALL

[@kylaaahhh]

when you fall for the handsome popular guy...... but there are like 100000 other people that he could be with -_-

[@AJ-sr2hz]

Omg this exactly my problem rn

[@aliceschroeder8975]

Minty butt toothpaste is my favourite

[@bullerballer520]

me too. that lovely minty anus

[@laurahiebert6296]

SAME

[@floralkatie]

+ANNA Basic OMG SAME

[@aliceschroeder8975]

+ANNA Basic it makes my breath fresher

[@floralkatie]

Alice Schroeder omg i thought i was the only one

[@_cherry_soda_]

I have a crush on my friend, an we have a lot in common. Still doesn't like me back. D:

[@_cherry_soda_]

coowlunaxy it sucks right.

[@julia-bj4sc]

Ava Hendricks get to know them well if noting after that nit worth it!!!!

[@StarryNightxx]

my friend is a straight girl and im bi. Try that. T^T

[@nelly1807]

Hope Loves KZbin my crush is a homophobic girl and she's the only girl I'll ever like (apart from Ruby Rose) on this planet cause I'm straight... Hopefully.. Oh yeah, shes my BEST friend to, try that ;-; (im gonna go cry myself to sleep now)

[@joannaty252]

Sameee

[@flyingunicornepicgamer9488]

"talk to them" the way i define talking to my crush is glance at her constantly and say hey to her every chance i get

[@Sparklemyblackworld]

Just sayin to all of you who are scared to death about talking to your crush because of social anxiety: I had to form the courage for about a week, and when I was ready, I walked around in circles for 15 minuter trying to go talk to him. It took all the courge in the world and at first it was horrible, but then it was so easy to talk to him and we had a really fun conversation. Soooo to my fellow ladies and boys, you'll never know if you never take a chance! YOU CAN DO IT!!!!

[@tommycastro9424]

+Sparklemyblackworld What if you know the answer...well in my case its basically i have to leave her because its wrong to feel this way especially since she has a relationship with someone. Got any pringles?

[@Sonicfanyay]

Thank you!!! It makes me feel more confident!!! :)

[@robinfidel5366]

How do you start a conversation with your crush and keep it going ,I say hi ,he says hi back and it just ends there the conversation never goes on.

[@Sonicfanyay]

Robin Saint-Louis sameee in that experience worse when you always make the move and he thinks its natural for you to make the move DX . Just say whats your favorite music or hows your day or say hey hows your classes, things like that

[@robinfidel5366]

Sonic Fanyay I'm quite awkward when it comes to things such as small talk. I once asked him his ethnicity as just a random question and it was quite awkward because he's african-american so his reply was just black.I'm a first generation American but now I've realized not to ask people questions like that.He's very outgoing and he seems kind so I'll use your advice and try to talk to him for a second time.

[@ariaisnothere5910]

MY CRUSH LITERALLY ASKED MY BEST FRIEND WHY I WAS SO WIERD AROUND HIM HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM WHY IS ASKING SUCH A DUMB QUESTION??!!??? OH MY LORD HELP ME.. HE'S ALWAYS STARING AT ME... HALPPPPPPP!!!!

[@isabellemay9071]

He's probably waiting for you to say something to him 😉😉

[@ariaisnothere5910]

Isabelle May Thank You 😂 I will try and talk to him today I only have so much time until I move so.. BIG STEPS NOW... lol

[@isabellemay9071]

AriaPetShops ™ Oh no!! Well, good luck! If not, just get his number and run 😂

[@ariaisnothere5910]

+Isabelle May YUP! I will probably end up screaming all the way home and running etc 😂😂😂

[@isabellemay9071]

AriaPetShops ™ don't worry… if he feels the same he will run too 😂

[@lucia-wq3qq]

Anybody else have a crush on sarah?

[@yalihendrix]

DanIsNotNamedMyer jup

[@josie4971]

loosh You didn't even spell her jdicenjxixen name right

[@prettyexloverinnewamsterdam]

does "mild " obsession with her boyfriend count?

[@Claire-jt7pl]

We need more of Sara ! love her quirky creativeness and drawings (:

[@chocolate_cat1814]

Unfortunately all my crushes be in South Korea tho... on the other side of the world :'( :'( #kpopproblems XD

[@lowriwilliams9740]

Would you look at that

[@chocolate_cat1814]

Lowri Williams Huh?... It's damn true tho ahaha XD

[@puffpuffgrande4875]

Lol same

[@0dd50]

oh my god everywhere I go kpop is here

[@chocolate_cat1814]

erieta !! It's what we do best XD

[@juliastamerra]

Do you just go up to them and be like "Hey" and just stand there and look at them? WHAT DO YOU TALK TO THEM ABOUT

[@WolfTown56]

OMF I KNOW

[@Sonicfanyay]

Omg I literally asked that to my friends and family and they say the same thing! I finally Learned what to do by a friend. Say hi! How's your day? Look at your surroundings and ask about it? And then tell a funny story or say what did you do today that's new ? . I still haven't ask him half of that but I'm ready to ask that to him! Good luck soldier!!

[@juliastamerra]

Sonic Fanyay He would probably just stare at me and then walk away. The only way we talk is when something funny happens, and then we make jokes about it.

[@Sonicfanyay]

+Julia TheUnicorn yup me and my crush did that too but to a teacher. When the teacher was rude or sassy we would make fun of him. But that was in the beginning of the school after that we don't share the same classes anymore or grade (we never did ether) so it was hard finding a way to see him but I finally do hehe and if he just stares and walks away then it seems like he's the awkward guy ( I don't know this guy but by what you say it looks to me he's the awkward type maybe! ) keep trying to talk to him.the talking and the getting to know the guy better works out good.oh and ask question about him or like the weird me way be opened hearted and say since I want to get to know you better let talk shall we.(see that's my sad way of getting my crushes attention) Like I said think of a funny story and be like this I remember when this happened did that happened to you. Make fun of him. And when you both make fun of something that happened make a expand of that

[@whysozzzmate2800]

That "Don't stalk them online" hit me like a truck

[@harmie1743]

I dont have a crush but this is the way crushes should be! Give them space, dont stalk them, and respect THEY ARE A HUMAN! This is what anyone who has a crush should use.

[@JustFifaThings]

Good point..

[@zanniahmargaret2632]

I confess to my crush. I'm so nervous that time, but you know? Its all worth it. I knew that he likes me back. So now, we're together for 3 yrs. ☺️

[@babybunny3002]

Ikr I confessed to my laptop and now we have been happily married for 1 year

[@Joanna-rc7ty]

+I don't even know anymore i'm here thinking how i'm going to tell my crush how i feel and i'm scared shitless and i read your comment lmao thanks like this is genuine thank you

[@babybunny3002]

JKFilms#1fan No problem, girly!

[@26jessied26]

I hate how pretty her eyes are :(

[@rasha7861]

same ! It's because i have dark brown eyes and that's not really unique .

[@Saatkraehen]

+Ra Sha actually every eye is completely unique! it's like your tongue or fingerprint. there's so many different shades of brown as well, as many as there is different shades of blue, green or hazel. so smile! brown eyes are beautiful and unique as well.

[@rasha7861]

schmeichelkatze thank you for such kind words .

[@26jessied26]

+Ra Sha I'd love to have brown eyes! They looks so nice and friendly

[@lectrovidal9737]

I dint wanna be that creepy internet guy buy You have pretty eyes too :)

[@charlee2273]

Something that pretty much always works is asking them out and pretending its a dare if they say no.

[@ScorpionDaggar]

When your crush is not real or is in Seoul. * looks at anime guys and Koop idols*

[@lemonmoth456]

hey, sebby.

[@ScorpionDaggar]

Lemon Moth Hello :)

[@alexiusfraser3564]

Me to Amber and Jin 😆 but low key ship them 2 but I do have a crush in my school

[@nanskugirl1762]

omg true!! but I do have a crush tho cx

[@alinaali8505]

Feel ya

[@jack22767]

My crush actually implied that she wanted to go on a date with me so i asked her out and we're going on a date tomorrow :)

[@groove-heroine]

Yaaaay! Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊

[@JeweleryPower]

TELL US HOW IT WENT

[@0dd50]

^^^^

[@mandyfrommars8789]

+jack22767

[@JeweleryPower]

TELL USS WHAT HAPPENDD

[@YoungIroh]

here's an easy way for guys to get a date with your crush easy. I do it all the time and it works maybe 89% of the time. basically get up, sit next to her or somewhere around her and ask her about her clothes or her day. that'll send a signal that you care. and take notice of what she wears. like let's say she's wearing a hoodie, jeans and uggs. ask, "cold"? of course she'll say yeah, then tell a joke about cold, like an embarrassing story you have about falling on ice. if she laughs, laugh with her, she'll notice you have a sence of humor. then ask if she has a story of her own, if she does let her tell it and laugh if it's funny. then follow up with telling her your name, and asking for hers, and shake hands. when you're finally acquainted ask if you can buy her dinner or something or maybe a drink. if she says yes then there you go. if you want ask about any other situation, since it's winter where I am I thought I'd give it a winter theme

[@swagfab5271]

That's pretty damn good

[@elle8380]

You've found our secret! Caring is the key to a girls heart... Once I dyed my hair and someone noticed... I literally was so excited that they took time to notice me :D

[@chloecinnamonn]

whoa that's really sound advice, its a perfect plan 👌👌

[@BestNoobEver67]

Thanks btw will it work on guys lol😂😂😅

[@angeladiaz3523]

Buzzfeed: Don't Stalk Me: BAHAHAHAHAHAHA no.

[@gboy193]

So, I think I found who at Buzzfeed i most resonate with lol unfortunately in my case, that crush does indeed have a significant other, going strong for a few years. Trying to shrug it off and get over, but it's not always that easy, though.

[@Tccg97]

Agree!

[@jackstephan3911]

I'm so sad because mine moved and we never said a word😭😭😭

[@oijoioihiehie]

I feel for you. It's the worst scenario. Ur comment is old. Did u get over him/her?

[@Gammil1982]

I love Sara, her videos are totally relatable and I love her humor. She's the type of "comfortable weirdo" I aspire to be.

[@Cat-cq1st]

Meow

[@luciasisko3286]

meow meow

[@hellothere4485]

+Lucia Sisko meow

[@luciasisko3286]

+The Chocoholic meow meow

[@shivanikuthe7395]

meoow, meoow

[@fetasprite]

+Cat moew moew meow *squeak* meow meow..

[@-zahiravelez-639]

I have not had a crush yet but I'm preparing myself with this videos made by u! 😁😁

[@melody5241]

I thought I was the only one.😂

[@-zahiravelez-639]

+Estefania Lopez Jajaja!!!

[@tasiyeahh]

Prepare yourself for the worst feeling in the world.

[@-zahiravelez-639]

+Tasia Boldyreva doesn't look that bad......well....it's embarrassing

[@nekomomolp]

+Tasia Boldyreva Best comment xD

[@allisonsnoop3921]

I love these videos from Sara! Please continue them!!!!!

[@Pikacute]

I got rejected 😂

[@anaju3595]

So did I...sad high five? ✋😭

[@graciegonzalez1954]

samee

[@toothbrush2go412]

R e j e c t oh oh rejected oh oh oh

[@lgeraghty3687]

Same. He did it so hard he made up a lie saying he had a girlfriend. He sent me fake pics and have me her insta account. She was like idk. 25? But I said to him I knew he was lying and then he got angry and told me to go away :/

[@bethsieb7373]

Now you scaring me that I'll get rejected

[@yeah6682]

What I say to my crush: So, do you see other guys? Or girls? Do they like you? Do you like them? What I'm actually saying: Do you like other guys or girls? Because if you do, I'll gladly end their existence! They don't like you as much as I do! They don't want you as much as I do! I'm the only one you need! No one will come between us! We'll be together forever! *psychotic laughter*

[@ChocoPrincessLove]

"Is that a grandpa or a sugar daddy?" IM

[@potatosalad3097]

I was hoping for actual advice about crushes. I’m friends with my crush and love seeing his smiles and hearing him laugh.

[@jonii5962]

That's the thing when is a crush a crush? And if it's a crush doesn't it just last a little while. I just wait until a problem disappears, I do the same when I have a crush.

[@bethsieb7373]

That's what I do too

[@Kebabsmacker74]

+Katree Kat its love.

[@Kebabsmacker74]

You dont need age for love. For example, babies love their mothers c:

[@______________2944]

Mine hasn't disappeared. It's been 5 years.

[@Kebabsmacker74]

If a crush lasts longer than 6 months, its love .^_^

[@Meowchiesmeow]

Too scared to talk to my crush .later when teacher picks the pair. .johannas pair is (the crush). My mind: OMG OMG OMG, ok now fast talk about something Me: .doesnt talk. My mind: .facepalm.

[@uglytm1481]

"Is that a granpa, or a sugardaddy?"

[@Nishchio]

BUT WHAT CAN I TELL HIM

[@coolnatlove]

RIGHT!

[@sabmendez12]

I HAVE THE SAME QUESTION D:

[@elizah4516]

Forever alone, I barely go out and I LOVE IT :)

[@MarkLeo9506]

Same but I do go out

[@elizah4516]

kieran lawless awhh

[@kiprs]

your youtube description literally flat-out says 'taken'. so unless you've been kidnapped and are waiting for Liam Neeson to save you, stop bullshittin

[@godfilth]

Haha me too! XD

[@diablalyssa]

"is that a grandpa or a sugar daddy"

[@nadahaydar3757]

that was so helpful thanx Sarah !!

[@yalihendrix]

Her personality is soooo awesome!!! I like her a lot as host.

[@Alycornz]

This doesn't apply to me since I was planning to confess AND HE GOT A FREAKIN' GF BEFORE I COULD DO SO. GOD. ;__;

[@jaybrielz9244]

+Alycornz N.A i was too but he went to another high school ugh

[@SigurdKristvik]

+Alycornz N.A It happends... Love sucks in that way :/

[@artemissharp1227]

Hahahahahahhah same

[@mysteryperson7909]

THIS HAPPENED TO ME LAST WEEK

[@Alycornz]

***** I don't see how you 'look homophobic' seeing as I am a girl, lol~ Thank you! ;7;

[@blehbloop6584]

Or you can just be Yandere...

[@cupcakelovescak7886]

I'm literally Yandere-chan and this is my life. My crush liked me last year now another girl this year. She likes him back. Another guy likes her. Which leads me to jealousy which leads me to hate her every day. I sit next to him in math and stare at him. He never notices. Secretly crying in the corner. Never notices. Science stares at him like pretending to look at the teacher. Sometimes looks at me... (Mind: OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG GOOD THING I CAN'T BLUSH!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!) Reading I just talk to my friend when the guy beside me leaves to go to another class. Sometimes just stares at him at reading while I have nothing to do. Other classes I just stare at him every day. I'm trying to get that guy who likes her to be with her while trying to get my other 6 friends together since I call my self the crushgettertogether since I get people together. My life is the weirdest thing ever... Sometimes I wish I was never born... :(

[@lilyvingdead]

Megan Aguiar 😂😂😂

[@Elysian_Peaches]

Megan Aguiar Oh yea that works too 😂

[@riverirl5820]

Sarah is what I would be like if I wasnt that super mega shy. U go queen! Maybe i'll try to smile to my crush tomorrow and see what happens, thanks for the inspiration

[@elotrrs]

it is even worse when you are friends with your crush

[@JoeGetUrKdUp]

Bat Culture isnt so bad...

[@cozzie1407]

+Bible Thump Your profile picture makes this comment.

[@lilnoot1365]

where do i sign up?

[@daniellatolstov9082]

PLEASE HELP AND READ THIS! :( In class when my crush and I had assigned seats, he would always look at my eyes, deeply and lips, then i would always catch him looking at me, during a class trip, i saw him stare at me, and so did my friend. He made up a nickname for me and he said that he could buy me a sweater that said the nickname on it, (i thought he was kidding but he actually went on a website that you can create your own clothing) He even offered to get the bra as well, but I said it's okay (lmao) And after I had an object in my hand that was based on my nickname and when I wasn't looking he took it and put a bow on it and wrote ''I thought this would be romantic'' And I BLUSHED OMFG. Btw, He is one year ahead of me, so rn he had left to highschool, which was disappointing.. Like honestly. But, I even asked him if he could ask our teacher if he could stay another year, and he did, I was joking, but he seriously asked the teacher if he could stay behind. I follow him on all social media, and since he left, I keep wanting to see him and talk to him, but if he has all my social media why wouldn't he message me first? All these years, he never asked me for my number or anything, no texts, no calls, Seems to think that he doesn't like me.

[@morganagoesbananas]

that's sweet :)

[@Th3D3vilishBoy]

Here we see two wildly different responses.

[@Th3D3vilishBoy]

Also, coming from the view of a guy, there are two reasons I can think of as to why he isn't responding. Either he doesn't have the time to do it (as in he tried to make time, but can't) or he is waiting for YOU to say something first, unsure of whether or not you have any interest in him or not.

[@rosadeleon5768]

+DaniellaCraft as +Mighty_Devil _1 said he maybe is waiting for you to take the first step. If that's not the case (hopefully no) tell him, you got nothing to lose. Good luck (^_-)

[@pokeyman112]

+Daniella Craft just message him.

[@pengolepengo2399]

When it comes to buzzfeed,this is the perfect video!!!

[@M4r1lynM0nr03]

Please keep making these Sara videos! They are fantastic!

[@TheJinroKing]

The production, script, acting was actually really well done. I thought i was watching a clip from the Disney channel or Nickoloeeoieljndjban.

[@lumi225]

good old nickoloeeoieljndjban eh

[@hannahslevin03]

+TheJinroKing i literally looked like a weirdo because i laughed so much on this comment good old Nickoloeeoieljndjban.

[@ruanrossouw4916]

+Hannah Slevin You are not alone lol

[@amyisntcool7143]

+TheJinroKing I just choked on my gum because of Nickoloeeoieljndjban oh my gosh

[@lucyhannah1227]

I get confused when people talk about crushes, because I've never had a crush. EVER. It's hard to believe because I'm nearly twenty, but it just hasn't happened. not trying to be a special snowflake or anything, that's just how i am

[@rosadeleon5768]

Yeah, same.

[@imadreamer1507]

you could be aromatic or you just haven't met the "right" person I suggest a cat/dog or other pet ((that is my plan anyway))

[@lucyhannah1227]

ImaDreamer I'm both a cat AND dog person, so that sounds like a perfect plan

[@yoselinaguirre6420]

+Spoderman (MLG) I wouldn't exactly say asexual. Asexual people still find people attractive, they still want to have a loving relationship they just don't want to have sexual relationships with people.

[@yoselinaguirre6420]

***** oh yeah, i guess youre right

[@Day-et3fm]

Or maybe you're like me, and you find out they're straight and you sell your soul to a hellhound in hopes they can do something for you. (I did not actually sell my soul... at least... not yet...)

[@bootsball4878]

Day Supernatural? XD

[@gwen9925]

So thankful for BuzzFeed

[@finbees]

Why... Why are the police after out girl :0

[@anastasiamakarycheva6189]

+Lindsay is a Penguin It is? Crap.

[@trashgoblin6174]

+Crazy Gurl o_O

[@celynlayaguemilan6456]

LOL WHUT, stalking is illegal?

[@anastasiamakarycheva6189]

Celyn Milan IKR? I am surprised too.

[@sachini5344]

There is a shovel behind her XD

[@imkaiirxs2177]

my crush knows I like him but I want to know if he likes me back 😟

[@CodeAndCoins]

This video is awesome because I can relate this video with me. And also very helpful, now I can apply this.

[@donutworry9775]

THIS SERIES ARE AMAZING