Let’s keep it real, some women use men for dinner dates but not shows genuine interest with the guy. There are good men out here and we don’t mind approaching, but sometimes you black women are not always approachable. Remember it’s not about the date and where I am taking you, it’s about the connection, chemistry snd consistency
@goldenopportunity312 ай бұрын
It actually is about the date. Are you looking for a wife and woman to bear your children? The least you can do is show her you have some sort of ability to provide on some level…an actual date is a nice start.
@ChardaeNoPersonaАй бұрын
I agree, it’s not about where your taking me it’s about the connection. You never hear anyone say that anymore, which is actually more important. Especially in today’s times, with the rise of social media, and materialism. 🤷🏽♀️
@AccordingToQueenАй бұрын
I’m not sure if you really watched the video because no one ever stated anything about what kind of date or where we were going for the date … we just stated that in this city most “ men “ don’t believe in dates .. and also we don’t need to use anyone for food we take ourselves anywhere that we want to go and I don’t think either of us has been looked at as unapproachable lol but thanks for watching 😌
@uniceroberson63774 ай бұрын
It's always been a fact that it's more women to men than men to women, but, when I moved here in 2013, it was always said that there's a shortage of men here and the men here know it. It's good to see Queens on point and know their worth. Kudos🎉🎉🎉😊 .
@AccordingToQueen4 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in Queen ! We appreciate your support !😀
@VirgosGroove33 ай бұрын
I don’t want to move but I’ve been here 6 years and only the first 2 years dating was lit. I’m tired of going on dates, getting love bombed and then ghosted😵💫
@AccordingToQueen3 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that’s happened to you and wishing you better future dates and thank you so much for tuning in 😀
@mariahssoapbox9 ай бұрын
We are too hilarious! You were soooo right about the if you didn’t get them when they got here than you’re done!
@AccordingToQueen9 ай бұрын
lol looking forward to collaborating with you again in the New Year 😀
@goldenopportunity312 ай бұрын
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it all boils down to your level of attractiveness. A man WILL pursue the woman he truly wants. In your other video you mentioned that you wanted to be taken out of dates which is fine. But I think a man is only going to truly do that if he actually likes you it’s kinda like an investment. It sounds like the guys you’re meeting are only looking to be friends with benefits or perhaps use you in some other way. You can’t make someone like or date you. If men in Charlotte aren’t taking the bait I would move onto a different location. There is a man who will like and pursue you.
@Bre_Inspired_Ай бұрын
Chile where you moving to next cause my husband isn't here either and I'm ready to go 😩 lol... I've enjoyed Charlotte, but not dating wise. You guys hit so many great points
@AccordingToQueenАй бұрын
Heyyy! I’m not completely sure yet but I know for sure I’m leaving lol and I’m sorry you haven’t been having good experiences dating either .. wishing you much success in the future with dating and thank you for watching I appreciate your support 💜
@wiltay1006 ай бұрын
I just moved to charlotte 2 in a half weeks ago. Literally came out to spots being a gentlemen. The bs out is ridiculous. People are just Liars and wont tell you the truth. They give you the number but hell trying to actually go on a date is almost impossible especially when it’s someone you find interest in.some ladies I met out here are playing games, wasting your time, and not serious at all but want to use you as a text bae until they get off work and have to play their true ROLES! Ive researched many places and offered to actually date and you cant even get to that point because people just not serious just want their EGOS STROKED!!
@AccordingToQueen6 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that .. but I wish you much success in the future. Thank you for tuning in.
@wiltay1006 ай бұрын
@@AccordingToQueen lol!! Sorry for that vent. Im all good now!
@StephSteph52 ай бұрын
This is such a fact!! It’s crazy
@Teannaschannel9 ай бұрын
Before she mentioned meeting someone in college, that’s exactly what I was thinking! Also I’m not really into those apps either.
@AccordingToQueen9 ай бұрын
Yes sis it’s really like if you didn’t meet and date in college it’s looking real bad 😩🤣and yeah I don’t knock anyone who is into the apps it’s just not my thing either 😩 thank you for tuning in 🫶🏼
@Teannaschannel9 ай бұрын
@@AccordingToQueen yea. I didn’t meet my guy til after college but it was through mutual college friends.
@so__mirandom9 ай бұрын
Keep them coming!
@so__mirandom9 ай бұрын
This was everything!
@AccordingToQueen9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ! Thank you so much for tuning in 💜
@SPTsystems9 ай бұрын
I hear you! 😂
@AccordingToQueen9 ай бұрын
lol thank you for tuning in 🫶🏼
@SundarHarris6 ай бұрын
Thanks your video earth to sky hightest honestly
@briamonyae13964 ай бұрын
This sounds like Mississippi!
@AccordingToQueen4 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in 😀
@realadvantageproductions5639 ай бұрын
What you should know about Charlotte's dating scene, According to Queen. Hey. I'm back. And I'm back. And I'm back. I'm back watching you. I'm seeing you. And that is half the battle right? That's what it is all about. I like what I see. Very cool. Very cool. Yes, stay away from men who want to lead you to the gutter. Let the man lead. But let him lead you to a better place not a worse one. You did a good job with this one. Great video! I am and I continue to be a proud subj7scriber to your channel. I am and I continue to be. I am an advocate on this platform for engaging with others and supporting one another. And returning love and reciprocating feedback. I think that kind of community on here is what we need. If there were more people like me, you might have an extra 2,000 fans and friends to your channel; right now. Let me get half the battle too. Who knows you might even like one of videos there.
@RobertFreeman-c1m8 ай бұрын
A lot BLK women missed the boat on relationships!!
@marcus278866 ай бұрын
Yep they really did like I just told my white girlfriend and black girlfriend the dating market no matter where women go will be tough and competitive you just have to compete and realize that if you truly want a man in the six and seven figures range becomes the women he wants and that takes a lot of studying and time plus effort but black women don't believe in that which is why the lose the man before ever reaching him
@Itsmeyaae2 ай бұрын
Well maybe they want men because yall are so cute
@AccordingToQueenАй бұрын
Thank youuu! And thank you for watching 🫶🏼
@ZeneseAshley9 ай бұрын
Y’all are hilarious but I loved hearing this discussion from two beautiful level-headed women with standards and morals! 🤍
@AccordingToQueen9 ай бұрын
Awww thank you sooo much for tuning in! I appreciate your support 💜