WHO WOULD DATE A GUY IN A WHEELCHAIR?

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[@Mst3000113]

I was lucky enough to find a girl just like HER! I also found self confidence goes a long way. People are attracted to it. Now me and my wife are married 8 years with 2 gorgeous daughters.

[@Wheels2Walking]

Dude we’re two lucky guys!

[@sesenena7013]

Congratulations!

[@user-gi7fs9rr2p]

Jay Handicap u are my hero!!!!

[@ConnyNordlicht]

And l hope you'll be happy with her and she with you futher on! She is like anyone shout be! She sees your inside and your outside and she knows what is important! Be blessed!

[@The_crippled_gamer]

i'm so happy for you! i'm half a year using a wheelchair all the time.. and i'm pretty scared being alone forever :/

[@eurasianhillbilly5513]

My dad was paralyzed from the waist down and in a wheelchair my whole life and most of his adult life from 26 untíl he passed in 04 😇. My mom is 4'10" so it was just us 3. I had the best childhood and some of the best times of my life back in the day!! My mothér loved him déarly and still doés!! I just wish social media was around in the 80's, so he and us could have connected with other families like us. You all are so inspiring¡! I wish you many happy héalthy yéars!! ✌🏼 Fróm CT

[@QQ0000]

So cool

[@M.khashan]

Thanks for sharing your journey. I would love to know more about your relationship and the barriers you faced

[@Wheels2Walking]

We have a lot of stuff on Instagram if you wanna jump over there and read the captions! Is there anything specific you were curious about?

[@warrenhawkes8757]

Thank you - your videos are always great!

[@edfink9508]

Just joined, great videos, I'm wheelchair bound it's fun to watch you get around, you're the wheel dude.....

[@askurmom1]

I'm happy for you! A lot of people will think your girlfriend is beautiful. Personally I like a woman who is thicker, one who doesn't appear to have anorexia. That's me though. Hat's off to you for being happy! Live life, and love it 100%

[@luke-fh9gf]

Some people are born with that body types...for me its really hard to gain weight easily but I lose it too fast...I try my best not to look all skin and bones.

[@benjaminsorenson]

What@@luke-fh9gf said.

[@hmslovesmonkeys1403]

i have a wheelchair and a walker and a picc line and feeding tube and i rhink people try to say away from me for the i also have seizure the one boyfriend i had before on of my major stomach surgerys said i was to mush of a drama queen i can't help i hve these health issues what can i do to stop people from saying things like that

[@SEDONA2U]

I recently gave my number to a guy in a wheelchair. I obviously noticed the chair, but I noticed his smile first and that’s what caught my eye. My coworker discouraged me because he might be “needy” or “isn’t looking for something because of his situation”. I was so annoyed by their closed minded thinking! But I think people forget to remember that we all have things that make us needy. Where he “may” be physically needy, I’m emotionally needy. I also have internal health issues that don’t physically present themselves but are a struggle in my day to day life. His personality was amazing and I didn’t wanna lose my chance. I hope things progress because he’s really funny and sweet. So, don’t ever be afraid!

[@MajorGold1]

Thanks, for helping me.

[@pikagamergirl1252]

Rich are u her gf

[@MajorGold1]

@@pikagamergirl1252 I have a gf, I never thought I would because I'm disabled and in a wheelchair, no one here knows my gf's name. I was just thanking Sedona for her words, I had some low self esteem until my gf came to me.

[@keaganterry6916]

It’s 7 months later, so are you dating?

[@SEDONA2U]

Keagan Terry yes, we are! Things have been amazing ❤️

[@cjaydeep22]

I am a paraplegic and wish I get such a person in my life

[@JEEEVANJOHN]

Patients my friend. I too am in the same position as you.

[@peacefulwife5199]

The same goes for women in a wheelchair. It's hard to find a good man to love you, care for you, help you. I said it was hard to find, not impossible. Going on 29 years with my man. He took his marriage vows seriously. He didn't say, when things get tough or you can't feel certain things anymore I'm out of here.....no, no, no. He's with me in sickness and in health. Health things can happen to anyone. You are shallow if you bail out on someone because of that. 😊

[@peacefulwife5199]

@@JEEEVANJOHN, hang in there. There's a special person out there for you.......you just haven't found each other yet. 😁

[@anthonyowsley8286]

@@peacefulwife5199 If I may say so, I love your attitude, And, I think it's SO cool that you and your man are going on 29 years.... I am in a wheelchair, I have spinabifida. I met a lady on here in 2004, we dated long distance for a year, And then, I moved to Michigan, And we lived together for another year..... We Married in October of 06,,,,,,, in 2011 She met another guy on here, I trusted her, so I never knew until I found pictures, and videos of them together....... And, When I confronted my now ex-wife, She told me, She just couldn't live with a man in a wheelchair. My response was, It took you Almost 8 years to decide that? I didn't mean to go on, and on.... My point was in response to you saying people are shallow if they bail out on someone because of that, Yes, Their are some Shallow people in this world...... My ex-wife being one of them.

[@thechariotvii9259]

Go get her!

[@jessikaeguia1946]

I’m dating a guy in a wheelchair, it happened through a dating app too and I never even cared about the wheelchair, I thought he was super good looking and intelligent, he sent me a message and I replied and now we’re really happy together. I love him so much, unlike many people think, he’s very independent and does everything on his own, he’s not needy like judgmental people think, he’s just a normal person and I saw him like that since day one. People tend to have the wrong idea of it. Romance, sexual life, intelligence, moral wise he’s just the perfect man for me. 😍

[@latishacross3207]

What app was it??? I don’t have a problem with it!!!

[@QQ0000]

Wow you’re amazing

[@izzysmomtattoos8274]

This channel is going to explode..

[@thechariotvii9259]

Thats what she said! 🥳

[@eremika4life]

More like this D- Im sorry..

[@izzysmomtattoos8274]

@@eremika4life lmao

[@stoss4259]

I'm a guy in an online long distance relationship. My girlfriend has been in a wheelchair her entire life. When she told me I said that this changes nothing for me and I will still love her regardless. In fact It made me love her even more. We are very happy together and love each a lot.

[@jobellecollie7139]

i went on a blind date. i use a powerchair, but i can walk short distances. i was told DO NOT BRING YOUR CHAIR!!! which is worse? hiding my true self or falling on my butt and embarrassing my date? date said he was okay, but i never heard from him again. HIS loss, not mine.

[@kaybee6704]

in case no one has told you but you are strong and very brave for showing your true self despite others opinions. Like you said HIS loss! Stay strong and positive :)

[@fluffybren]

what a wanker ! totally his loss !

[@kevinj9315]

Jobelle Collie hiding your true self is worse. Be yourself and someday you’ll find the one I’m sure.

[@DANNYTHEFROG123]

Unless he was gonna carry you around. No clue why people are afraid of wheelchairs. It's for independence so you don't have to rely on others.

[@todydn]

Always be the true you no matter what if they can't take you for you they don't deserve the best parts of being with you always ask for honesty in others and be honest yourself you will find an amazing person with your attitude you'll lead a wonderfull life no matter what

[@melissazebley7768]

I’ve been talking to this awesome guy whom is in a wheelchair due to terrible accident. Let me tell you. He and I vibe so well together and have amazing chemistry. He is a awesome human.

[@Snak3mast3r]

Hey, I’m recently paralyzed this year (jul 2019) and watching this is gave me some extra confidence. Hope that I can go back to a normal I’m comfortable with.

[@sergiorobelto]

This is vídeo makes it so much better for people understand relationships. Her input is honest 👌✊🏻 way to go bro 🙌🙌

[@Wheels2Walking]

She really did a great job. I appreciate her input a lot, even during the filming I learned a lot about what she thought.

[@cutedpanda00]

I have md girls will never like me

[@cutedpanda00]

@@Wheels2Walking i want to kill my self

[@dustingresham8078]

My best friend is in a wheelchair, and I completely understand. I'll be riding in his truck in the walmart parking lot looking for a spot and completely look over the handicapped spots because I forget he's in a wheelchair. There have been many times that I just completely forget. Lol

[@casbaby6503]

As an 18 yr old para this has really hit home for me. Never have I been so glad to discover a channel on KZbin. Thankyou guys

[@Wheels2Walking]

Don’t give up bro. Love is out there for ya 👊🏻

[@leviwosick2761]

Hey man! I just had my 18th last week, 9 weeks ago I had my injury and I’m a t3 complete! 2 weeks ago I met the most amazing girl who legit didn’t even care bout the chair! It can happen and it will for you!

[@lenak9438]

I dated some one who was an incomplete quad for years and Him being in a wheelchair was never a deal breaker.... I was young 23 and just saw him for him

[@DFSGURUTRIPP]

Awesome... It's hard tho... Most ppl host give up on us..

[@alexandercano9285]

Date me lol

[@lilru8409]

Lena K Kan I get to know you wats your instagram name

[@QQ0000]

So cool

[@amanipoli1945]

This is such an amazing video to bring awareness about a topic that for so many people is misunderstood. And man, the way that you two look at each other shows how in love you are!

[@Wheels2Walking]

Thanks! We both felt it was really important. You’re right, I noticed it when I was watching as well, we just stare away 🥰

[@lillie-evedavies1966]

“I love you for you” honestly is the he way we should all love, and live.....xxxx

[@Leighfrance]

“You have to become what you want to attract.”.....so true...Does not matter if your obstacles are external (wheelchair) or internal (depression)...etc....great quote.

[@motokimbo9916]

Richard, “Sometimes I poop my pants.” 😂🤣😭 You’re awesome buddy!

[@Wheels2Walking]

LOL I did today! 😂 😭 just the reality of living with an SCI

[@ChrisPage68]

@@Wheels2Walking Yup! 💩

[@tanyasweatland9244]

@@Wheels2Walking yup i do that in bed a lot nowdays my bf is so awesome though and just cleans me up and says its ok not your fault babe its awesome to have someone like that not judge what you have no control over

[@brianhellm755]

I am in a wheelchair and it becomes difficult from time to time with dating. I usually don’t think about much except being able to go places that are not accessible. When I have an accessible van equipped with a lift but parking make me not want to go places at times depending on where it is

[@Wheels2Walking]

Plan to win my friend!

[@persianmuneca6264]

This is a beautiful relationship. Love is so much more than physical appearance or any disability the person has. Wish more people were open-minded.

[@christinatitolo5563]

Juvv Ansari Vlogs absolutely love is not a physical thing. I’m dating a wonderful man in a wheelchair, he is my everything

[@persianmuneca6264]

@@christinatitolo5563 Godbless you both ❤

[@QQ0000]

Check me out

[@MysteriousRJC]

Wish I could have watched that video back in 1991 @ 15yrs old... would have been really helpful overcoming a lot of my hang-ups that you discuss we all deal with. Great vid, will definitely help many

[@Wheels2Walking]

That’s the goal with this channel! Find them when they’re in the first year of their journey and teach em all I know!

[@PixelSheep]

@@Wheels2Walking this is great man! Love it!

[@captebbtide]

This video, and others like it, need to be shown in high school and college sociology classes!

[@rackemwells]

My wife’s mother told her not to get involved with a guy in a wheelchair, it would be a hard life. As if any man ever made it easy on his spouse. Lol 7 years and counting, one grandchild later, my wife is fine and her mom is gone.

[@GOTHICMAMBA35]

I'm glad it all worked out. I'm sad the wife's mom was like that. Sure you have to plan for accessible things but I'm a planner

[@valdiymartinez8797]

Thank you for inspiring me not to turn my back on life, this video will change the lives of many people thanks 🙏🏼

[@vickifluharty7094]

Can't thank you enough for this video. As my MS progresses and I lose more function, I can't see any "beauty" in myself anymore. I can't run 5 miles a day, I can barely lift weights. I feel like "I'm" gone. Maybe I just need a new outlook!

[@Wheels2Walking]

Yeah I can relate to feeling “less than” finding beauty in yourself and not your abilities or accomplishments is the key 😊

[@TrendyyWendyy]

I have a degenerative condition as well and have definitely had to deal with feeling like "I'm" gone as well. It'll take time and I think it's a bit different with progressive conditions because things are constantly changing, so we're always having to deal with new things. It's not the end of the world at all! There is always someone out there who won't care that you're disabled, they'll love you for who you are. Sounds cheesy, but my girlfriend said that she fell for me because I'm confident, positive and interesting (her words!) and the fact I use a chair doesn't matter to her, except when we're deciding where to go out for a day trip and things like that...

[@scotjuarez7148]

Vicki Fluharty my MS has taken my ability to walk but not my will to laugh when I can or smile.

[@vickifluharty7094]

@@scotjuarez7148 That makes me smile! :) Thank you.

[@lauramainiero131]

I feel you Vicki!! I have a Neurological Condition that affects my voice and the nerves spasm... It's drastically affected my confidence and the way I feel about myself... I've spent the last year watching positive uplifting videos and learning about how the brain works and it's helped me soooo much!! A positive mindset actually changes the chemicals in the brain!!! Making you healthier!!!! 🥰

[@barodrinksbeer7484]

You are a good example of what ive been telling my friend, even tho you may have been depressed, you can still go out and find a girl that will date you. But my friend is stuck in the fact that he is stuck in a wheel chair, while I believe if hes persistent with love, he will find it.

[@transatlanticnostalgia4655]

Okay, so, I've never dated, and as a person with a disability, I've struggled through the perception that no one wants a disabled partner. But realizing a very important truth saved me. I had the perception that I am somehow "less of a man" for having a disability, until I realized that what defines a "true man", the courteous, brave, confident and romantic person that women would like to see, is on the inside. Everyone has the ability to attract any partner they want. It's in the way we speak and act. I won't speak for myself, but there are disabled people who are much more attractive with their actions and manners than some of their able-bodied counterparts. Our personality is our biggest advantage. The people who wouldn't look into our personality are what I call "soul blind". HECK, your friend could even date a celebrity if he wanted to. Anyone can. It's all in our personality, the things that make us special.The most important thing, though, is to choose a person who understands and loves him for what he truly is. The question is not whether you're worthy of someone. But whether that someone is worthy of you.

[@wheelworldstan8608]

Enjoyed the video, I met my wife before I ended up back in my wheelchair but we discussed early on about what the future may hold. She doesn’t really see the wheelchair and I have more of an issue with it than she does. Been together now 14 years and looking forward to growing old together.

[@Wheels2Walking]

I too have more issues with my chair than she does. Funny how we both deal with that.

[@ChrisPage68]

I often wish I'd been born much later, into a more accepting world. It's much more difficult if you were born Disabled and don't have a "regular" shaped body. I was never given encouragement to feel I could achieve much. I was too busy avoiding dying, like most of my school friends did (I went to a "special" school). We didn't have disability discrimination laws in the UK until I was past my mid twenties. It's hard to have confidence when you're subtly being told you don't deserve the same as "normal" people. When you lose the ability to bounce back after so many rejections, you just retreat like I've done.

[@Wheels2Walking]

Man, I can’t imagine what that must have been like. You’re a tough guy for making it this far 💪🏻

[@NACHOAVGQUAD]

thanks for the video I've been struggling with this topic since 2011 eight year quadriplegic and pushing

[@Wheels2Walking]

You’re welcome man! Hope it gave you some hope for the future 😁

[@sunnycal2293]

I understood and related to so much of what you both were saying for I'm a female paraplegic. I had a lot of confidence in my younger yrs and when dating the guys would always tell me they "saw me" not my chair. The stories I could tell though. Haha! I was in a long term relationship and even gave birth naturally to a baby girl. My baby is now 21😀.

[@jasongooden917]

This is an inspiring story. I've been in a wheelchair for three years now and really believed my hopes and dreams of ever having a family was just over. Perhaps there is hope.

[@ericisawesome5725]

I've been in the chair for 20+ years... got a degree, got a hot wife, got a big house, got a nice car.... you still CAN do more than most people will do👍

[@silver933]

Easy for you to talk buddy. But there’re lots of worse levels of spinal injuries with quads that don’t have all the perks of a paraplegic Quads depending on others for every single thing without any independence level, can’t have your confidence So it’s not all songs and roses 😒

[@emanvel56]

I’m in a wheelchair and found a woman who loves me and want to care me praise the almighty lord Jesus Christ. Don’t give up God is great 👍

[@catyc1314]

GOD IS LOVE!!! AMEN

[@chuyduarte5298]

You're blessed brother. I'm also in a wheelchair still waiting on God's time. Blessings brother ☝️

[@emanvel56]

Chuy Duarte don’t give up brother hope you find someone with honest love 💕

[@chuyduarte5298]

@@emanvel56 Thank you brother! 😇 do you live in USA? I'm from Mexico but I'm living in Dallas Texas 😊

[@Suspect333]

If god is great I wouldn't be in a Wheelchair

[@ConnyNordlicht]

"This is your life and l want to be a part for all that it is!" People who think like this are the people who are the ones living with us and don't care about us! Thank you! And: This can happen to anyone!

[@renatab4588]

I love this lady's attitude. Great couple! Love them and love them even more🚁💚💛💙💜🧡

[@jobellecollie7139]

I’m learning to “redefine” how to answer that blunt question when people notice my disabled veteran car tags. On a dating site, I answered “retired” in the job question. I’m still me, still have a mind, personality, income, those things dating sites seem to hone in on. I DID include in my “describe yourself” that I’m a disabled vet, I use a power chair AND I have a service dog. I had to block tons of trolls that threw b.s. about why would a “broken, disabled person still want love and a relationship?” One thing I’ve know from dealing with my new body, my skin has gotten much thicker.

[@thekoo2011]

Just cried big crocodile tears. Thank you J. ❤️

[@Wheels2Walking]

She’s really the best isn’t she 😍

[@FreddotheWheelchairGuy]

It took me a while to believe I was worthy of love and dateable, but I have found love and what an amazing lady she is! ❤✌

[@biancalairuj2605]

I'm dating a paraplegic guy.. I dont see his wheelchair what I see s his big love to me..😍

[@terrybunch7313]

lol Sure whatever

[@QQ0000]

So cool

[@cjaydeep22]

Your girlfriend is super brilliant

[@Gene601]

I wish I had known stuff like this when I was in my 20s. I'm 41 and have used a wheelchair since I was 3.

[@bobbi543]

This is a very real and transparent video.. love it... and yes as a paraplegic we have these issues, and we need to get over them and pass them... and look ahead and know as he said crap happens, wipe your but and move (wheel) on..

[@HotWheelz809]

This video has changed my mindset, you guys have made me feel soooo much confident then before. You both are so right us being in a wheelchair isn’t a problem at all we just use it to move around it doesnt defined us

[@Wheels2Walking]

Awesome! That new found confidence looks good on ya!

[@Suspect333]

Truth is though 99% of women wouldn't date a guy in a wheelchair, you got really lucky bro... I'm 34, paralyzed my whole life and never had anyone so ya know some just get lucky.

[@suzanaknezevic4402]

You really have explained to all of us what is important in every relationship, whether you are with a person using a wheelchair or not. I tell everyone that we are the same because we have the same problems every day just we who use a wheelchair have one problem more, and that's it. Have a nice day

[@Wheels2Walking]

Agreed. We all have problems, you can just see one of mine. Thanks for the super kind and sweet comment Suzana!

[@aneeshkumar7610]

Hai iam from India, where your nation.... I would like with u friendship's.... Please send me fb request....

[@slobodanlifeusingwheelchai4895]

Upravu si Suzana

[@Julsthehippie]

You guys are so cute ☺️☺️ happy for you guys

[@Wheels2Walking]

Daw thanks Julie!

[@russellspencer28]

Watched this and really got a lot out of it. I'm currently in a relationship which has stalled since having a spinal injury late last year. Have been scared to end it because of the disability I have now. My partner does not encourage me in my efforts to return to a "normal" life and doesn't even ask how I am going with things like physiotherapy and other activities I have tried to return to. Really get the feeling that she doesn't care. I suppose, as they said in the interview, you get in a relationship with somebody because of that person, not their disability.

[@Wheels2Walking]

Are you a member of any support groups? I’m a member of Spinal Cord Injury USA group and there are people there that are more qualified and experienced in this matter. I don’t wanna speak on anything I don’t know about 😊

[@pinkrose5796]

Russell Spencer If you've thought about ending the relationship, keep in mind how you'll feel when you're not dating her. Will you feel more relaxed, happier, open up other chances to meet other women, friends, work out,etc. It's a difficult decision but sounds like you've gotten good advice about joining a support group. One idea also is maybe talking to military veterans who've gone through this?

[@Niko-xt5bs]

Menwhile I have legs and no girlfriend fml

[@FeralWench]

The hardest thing about pursuing a relationship while disabled is expectation vs reality. I've noticed that so many people think that when you're in a wheelchair, you're either someone who needs total assistance or someone who just cannot walk (both of which seemed to have flawed thinking). It's never, "Hey let's just get to know this person and see what kind of personality, abilities, and needs they have. If we mesh, that's awesome! If not, that's also okay". I don't want a person to beat around the bush with me, and feel nervous with asking me questions about my disability. I also don't want to be drilled for information, in case, "they're not able to care for me". It's frustrating when I hear people say, "I wouldn't want to date a wheelchair user because I couldn't care for them". I understand that in many cases that may be true but it's not always the situation. It's important to ask questions and to be open and honest with each other.

[@benjaminsorenson]

As the saying goes first impressions are everything. But in the case of wheelchair users that is not true like ever because making assumptions just make an ass out of the person without asking the wheelchair user even if the non-disabled person does not see the wheelchair but the wheelchair user as who they are.

[@stephaniebuterbaugh6692]

I LOVE this girl! So happy for you both! TRUE LOVE!

[@eatsleepdie1682]

I'll start by saying: "asexuality is a lack of attraction, asexual people still choose to have s3x very frequently." Now that is out of the way, let me tell you, this video gave me so much confidence as an able-bodied girl with a crush on my disabled friend. We have been exchanging sparks quite a lot recently and we had some history before, however, funnily enough, sure I am scared of the judgy stares and shit, but funnily enough, my maybe biggest concern (aside of the ordeal of dating a longtime friend) is the fact that I indeed am asexual.. or maybe demisexual and while I am somewhat sex-neutral, so not necessarily repulsed.. my fear is sorta that I will not be able to provide what he may need from the relationship.. or in the quantity he may need it. This is like a huge mental block always present in my mind and its so annoying to deal with.. Soo yeah 💯 But this video was very calming in a way..

[@thechariotvii9259]

Awesome honesty. I have found that women really enjoy getting to know about our lives/injuries and over the years theyve treated me very well. Sure there are women who probably wouldnt date me but thats the same for all people. I think especially great women tend to find us and its a bit of a test to love someone with a very different lifestyle. It shows something about friends and lovers that means a lot to people like us. Cathing was always the most awkward information to share with others. Many of us have found awesome women and I really beleive anyone can. Ive had entire bars cheersing me because of the women on my lap... Ive gotten unsolicited numbers.. even old ladies try to help me out of the car 😆 The love is out there for all people. I just concieved naturally no problem... fu&k yeah ✊🏻✌🏻

[@Wheels2Walking]

Fuck yes dude! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 to everything!

[@carllarsson7755]

Video idea: wheelchair adapted or adapted sex positions

[@nicoleknauer6374]

I had a good friend in college who had a below-the-knee amputation on both legs and often used a wheelchair (he had prosthetic legs, but didn't use them all the time). I didn't care about the chair, I saw Tomas...the funny, wheelchair basketball-playing, popular, college student who was a blast to hang out with. I loved hanging out with him, not because of a chair, but because he was nice, funny, and fun to be around. There are women out there that focus on the person and not a chair or the medical stuff that comes with the injury....if she (or he) can't love you for you and isn't willing to take on whatever challenge your injury may have, then she's definitely not ready for a relationship! An accident can happen to anyone at anytime, so I don't really see the difference in starting life with someone who's had an accident and needs care, or the potential at any point for your partner to need care due to illness or an accident...it's called being an adult and being in a committed, adult relationship.

[@LovelyPeach40]

Also look up role with Cole and charisma. He just propose to her he's in w/c. For more inspiration

[@mariagricius8994]

There isn't anyone whom is immune to and guaranteed life without any accidents of which could put them in a wheelchair or bed ridden. It's pure ignorance to look at anyone as less or even by pass a person because of a physical dis ability. It could happen to ANYONE. There are plenty of us whom are not shallow and wouldn't dismiss someone in a wheelchair. It's the heart, the person within whom counts. As a care taker in general, I have a very special place in my heart for anyone with disabilities and the elderly. They are such beautiful people.

[@georgiebethel4117]

My partner is a paraplegic, we've been together for 4 and a half years now and the way yous are describing everything is exactly how me and him are and how the start of the relationship was how you notice everyone staring and sometimes you look for people staring, now I pretty much never notice. He cannot walk at all but he does have a incomplete spinal injury (T12) so hes hoping one day theres a chamce he can gain a little more movement in his legs Love your channel!

[@romana1566]

Oh my God, you are so open! I absolutely love your chanel!!! Keep going!😎

[@cjaydeep22]

Best video so far in KZbin 🤗🤗 1000000 likes

[@Wheels2Walking]

Thanks you Jaydeep!

[@melimel9265]

I should of known u had a girlfriend. uuugggggg.

[@aawood00]

What a great woman! Thanks for the video.

[@Wheels2Walking]

She’s incredible. I love her so much. I’m a lucky guy.

[@jtowner7-rn4ee]

I wish I could find a loving, supportive woman like you've been blessed with. An amazing, decent woman is life for us... I have to use a walker and have become sad at waking up anymore, asking myself daily, is this all that is to b for me. Always appreciate her. 💙

[@WheelieGayJay]

Thanks so much for sharing something that should be talked about openly, but it isn’t. I met my partner when I was still able to “walk” with my disability. When my nervous system gave up and I couldn’t walk again, my first conscious thought was can I still have sex with my partner? For me, that answer is yes and no. Mine doesn’t work at all. I have spent the past 3.5 years trying to find out how paralysed guys can have sex. When you announced this vid last week, I was very excited. Unfortunately, you didn’t talk about you and if yours still works and how you both have sex. Can you please expand on your specific situation. You are the first person that I have found on KZbin that wants to discuss this topic. If you’re more comfortable discussing this via DM, please do so.

[@Wheels2Walking]

I got you dude! I can get hard on my own with some heavy kissing, petting, and nipple play. Sometime I’ll put my balls between my legs and then cross them to make a sort of cock ring if you will. It makes it hard enough for sex if she’s on top. For other purposes I like using trimix injections for long lasting and hard erections. Your guy can be completely dead and this shot will make you harder than a steel pipe. Trimix is legit and I highly recommend it. Don’t forget that sex isn’t always penetration, we do a lot of hand stuff and mouth stuff. I can’t tell you how awesome nipple play is. I’ve trained my nips to be as sensitive as a clit and I can even cum with nipple play alone. My ears are also a super sensitive area that gets me going. Hope this helps! Feel free to hit me in the DM’s on IG if you have any more questions 😁

[@raymondworsen964]

My man, mad respect to you. I go through many challenges in my day to day life, and I’m not in a wheelchair I just honestly rlly love to see even if your are disabled in anyway you still keep a positive vibe and a smile 24/7. 💯🔥⬆️

[@zapspiders92]

This video was a breath of fresh air. So many people would tell me the disability didn't matter but I always shut it down bc they hadn't lived it. You absolutely nailed the inner monolog I have with myself and then to have you essentially go "they are right it doesn't matter " was a good feeling

[@blindthief]

Sense of humor, inner strength, and independence are key ingredients to attracting women in my opinion. They love to laugh. They love getting inspired by people with a big heart. And if they see that you can do many things on your own your wheelchair suddenly starts to disappear and you become more attractive to them.

[@Wheels2Walking]

These are great points! Absolutely correct 😁

[@thedoublep434]

What I've noticed is that girls don't feel as threatened by a guy in a wheelchair. There's this guy in a wheelchair, not good looking, fairly old, not taking much care of himself, go to girls in a coffee shop and striking conversation with them, and they would gladly talk to him. So if you are in a wheelchair and you don't feel confident, don't be. You have much better chances in my opinion 😉 And if you are a girl, and guys don't approach you is because you are a girl, and we're scared 😂 It did happen to me once that there was this beautiful girl in a wheelchair and I wanted to talk to her, but I was too chicken. Simply because she was very pretty.

[@Yonkoclip]

Thanks bro love ur vids.. I live in jamaica been in a wheelchair since I was born that dating thing is hard asf

[@Wheels2Walking]

You’re welcome dude! You on IG? I have a great post about how to become more confident on there. That could be more helpful!

[@ReggieTime]

Soooo beautifully honest💖

[@sabrina1985]

Yes i would i a heartbeat. And ive learned that is doesnt matter what other people think about what ever. People always complain and be negative of decisions you make so it really cant bother me anymore. I live my life the way i want. I think you 2 are a very nice couple. And i get your insecurity at first but i am glad you found out that it wasnt nessesary. Love sabrina

[@Wheels2Walking]

You’re always so sweet Sabrina! Thanks for this comment 😊

[@renees766]

My best friend a few yrs ago was in a wheelchair, able to stand n step up for 1 or 2 steps. She was so independent n confident that I would forget she was disabled.

[@NavyVetChris]

this video was a bit insightful for me... i am a paralyzed veteran now.. i havent dated in some years now because of the chair.. i am really active now, i workout a lot,play tennis and compete yearly in the veterans wheelchair games... i love the terms you guys used able body, innner/able most people doesnt even know what those words even mean so i see someone was really educating themselves about this situation...but in real life its not as easy as you guys make it seem.. i think if you had a video recorder and a mic and asked several able body women some of these questions the answers wouldnt be as safe as her answers were.. i am a very confident person, lived the i guess you would say" players life" when i was able body and my confident of course it may have left for a bit in the beginning but now i know exactly who i am but women are different species...ok i can go on and on but good video...

[@stephen4764]

Fact.....Women acceptance of chairs IS NOT the norm.

[@thelastmanlefthere]

Damn way to go buddy! Shes a beautiful woman and seems to genuinely love you. Totally awesome! Good vid man thanks. T,his is something I often worry about being newer to the wheelchair lifestyle. I hope someday I can find a gorgeous womqn

[@Wheels2Walking]

Just take the tips I gave at the end. Become the BEST version of yourself and become confident in your life and a woman will see that. Confident is really sexy to women.

[@tanyasweatland9244]

@@Wheels2Walking and its the same way for a guy my man was so impressed with how independent and carefree i am

[@peaceonearth351]

The Waterdance is a good movie to see that deals with paralysis and a relationship where the man had an accepting woman.

[@latishacross3207]

I wouldn’t mind meeting a person in a wheelchair or possibly dating I have before no problem to me hell they human just like us!!!

[@GhostVapez420]

I'm 27 years old and have been paralyzed from the waist down since I was 2 years old. I learned to deal with not being able to walk over the years but last year I was diagnosed with Neurofibromatosis type 2 and I have as of right now 6 tumors in my head and another 8 in my spine along with the biggest one that is in my neck but I'm still lucky because so far their all benign. I had my biggest tumor removed last year after 15+ hours in surgery because I was leaking spinal fluid in my head and it was causing me spinal headaches every day of my life all day long with barely any breaks in between but it coming out cost me all my hearing in my left ear and i still have tumors in both left and right ears so I am slowly going deaf in my right ear day by day and then about 7 months ago I started losing my voice which turned out to be a paralyzed vocal cord. I can still talk but I have a really hoarse and husky sounding voice and I constantly have to catch my breath every 5-10 words I say. Needless to say I have never dated or even kissed a girl and I have absolute 0 confidence and no self esteem what so ever because all I can think when thinking of dating is who would want somebody like me with all these problems and limitations. Sorry for the super long comment but figured it would be better to give most of the details to understand my life

[@sanusafalya4335]

😥😥 Life is not fair for all.... wish in next life..or not want any life qgain... till then hang in...❤👍

[@stephen4764]

But chairs ARE typically the biggest barrier/hindrance to starting a relatiinshio with a woman. I have list count of the nunber of women that I have met online that conversations went fantastic right uo until the point that I told them about my chair. At best, it lasted 2 more days. With the chair mentioned in my Dating profiles, I would get ZERO responses, but with it not revealed then I would easily responses.

[@Hopeandpeaceinjesus]

You’re channel really saved me from the “chair slump” when I went in full time but with my old part time power chair it was major.

[@Wheels2Walking]

Reading this makes my heart smile. I’m so grateful for you ❤️ thank you so much for this kind comment. It lets me know I’m doing it right and motivates me to keep going 💪🏻

[@usasharks4699]

Hey so I’m a freshman in high school and I’ve been paralyzed from the waist down my entire life and what I’ve been struggling with recently is my volume of my voice when I’m talking to ppl. when I talk to someone since I’m significantly shorter than them me speaking normally isn’t loud enough for them to hear me but I never want to speak louder because I don’t want to be too loud. Any suggestions?

[@sumayasuleiman3401]

My love is in wheelchair i wasn't know before because we met online when he told me i said it's ok i love your amazing heart Alhamdulillah now we are happy we will get married soon i love him so much more than before

[@dianekeating4544]

There's nothing wrong with you being in a wheelchair I don't think and your girlfriend is a sweetheart

[@QQ0000]

Right

[@maia9787]

It’s just crazy seeing how able he is, he seems so independent.. my bf is in a wheelchair no nerve issues just didn’t do the physical training from his back surgery 4 years ago.. and stopped walking but we’re training now! But his mother pretty much did everything for him for years and got carried to the bathroom by his brothers to where even his hands don’t work very well let alone his eyelids from never looking up at anybody. It’s amazing seeing someone so functional. He gets really mad whenever I try and make a suggestion to help him better.. like us doing leg, hips, and core exercise together everyday or not using the knuckle on your thumb to grab stuff but try opening your thumb cause it will get you more used to grabbing stuff... but he just gets angry. Even this video he got really mad that I was watching it. I really feel like I can’t say anything to him.. almost like he wants me to lie to him and he doesn’t wanna do what will help him. The simplest stuff like getting protein shakes after our workout, nope. Just working out for an hour. LOOK WHERE THATS GOT US. NOWHERE CLOSE TO WALKING. He always just wants to fuck, get kisses, and be told good things. I left straight out of high school and halfway across the country to come live with him cause he told me he’d be walking in 1 or two months and all the pretty stuff we’d be doing.. one year later can’t even stand. NO PROGRESS BUT TEN POUNDS ON HIS WEIGHTS. I don’t know what to do I feel like I’m wasting my precious youth and time for college just sitting inside everyday with no job and going to the gym a few times a week. This is shitty of me to think, I know. But I’m just losing hope for the future I dreamed of.. the adventurous life with the love of my life will be a life of me probably dying young from taking care of my life his life an probably some children’s life’s. All. By. My. Self. His hands don’t workkkkkkkk he can’t lift anything above his head! Let alone lift his head up cause his hunch back prevents it. Damn I have a lot of shit to say... WOW. But I’ll end it here.

[@callumbranch2795]

I am in a wheelchair and this has help me

[@edmondcarter9457]

This is the main thing that has me worried. I haven't been in a relationship in 6 years. I have all the orher aspects in my life in order. I would like to have someone special

[@migueljoseph6940]

i'm a quadriplegic and everything u said about getting rejected and thinking that no one would accept u because of the wheelchair is true i think those things all the time and i think that able-bodied people just brush it off when u talk about getting a gf like so what theres other things or its no big deal but it easy for them to get accepted so they don't want to see things from a disabled person perspective, or some people think u shouldn't have anyone because disabled people don't deserve to have someone in their life.

[@LeaderLT]

It’s your your wheelchair it’s your damn legs

[@starrspoter]

u see more girls dating guys in a chair then guys dating girls in a chair.over America and England u see it all the time.not so much in Australia they cant see past the chair

[@QQ0000]

True

[@WheelchairLiving1]

Absolutely great video! Confidence in yourself is key! Every injury will be different but there are people that totally overlook the "problems" and look at the person!

[@Wheels2Walking]

Absolutely dude. Confidence is key! The more confident you are the less your injury exists.

[@frankdorado3337]

Hello I just would like to say this video is awesome it's really helped me a lot on dating girls because I've been single for many years now I am in the wheelchair I have cerebral palsy dating has been difficult for me because I haven't found the right girl yet and over the past couple months I've kind of lost a little bit of my confidence but this video has showed me you can't give up and I'm just like everybody else no matter what I will not let my wheelchair Define who I am I know one day I will find my true love and we will live happily ever after. PS keep on making awesome videos like this you guys rock I wish you all the best thanks.

[@samuelandersen9164]

I'm just getting onto the dating scene and you touched on SO MANY of my anxieties! I'm especially appreciative that you were willing to talk about sexuality, because members of our community are so deprived of sexual understanding. As always, great video!

[@courtneyw6378]

Dating for women in a wheelchair sucks because men care about sex way way more than women do and if u tell them u cant feel from the waist down then they dont want anything to do with u. Not all guys but alot of guys! Maybe someday I'll meet a decent guy...🙏🏼🙏🏼🤞🏼

[@courtneyw6378]

@Nice Guy82 There's no such thing like Netflix and Cuddles, it always turns into wanting sex unfortunately.

[@wheelchairup4272]

Just FYI it’s not the same if you are a female in a chair. I’ve had so many guys tell my friends how awesome I would be and how they would date me if I wasn’t in a chair. I’ve had lots of guy friends in chairs and their experience with dating has been much easier. I put dating out of my life a long time ago due to the heartbreak of the chair being the issue....which was hard because I don’t think about my chair in my daily life. So maybe girls are just more open to it that a lot of guys are...idk.

[@rhiannamackenzie442]

By boyfriend has a wheel chair and I didnt care he's perfect Richard is perfect to you

[@randih1670]

I'm in a wheelchair and haven't found anyone, I be feeling it is the chair they look at and that make me just feel like why am I here.

[@darthmommy1975]

To answer the question. I would date someone in a wheelchair. I don’t see why not? Someone would have to be shallow to discriminate 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@QQ0000]

Dope

[@hectorramos9242]

They don’t make women like her anymore 😢