This also goes for women that are kindhearted. Some men mistakenly think nice and kind means your flirting with them so I've learned to be more careful some men you can't even smile and say hello.
@Anti-democratChick10 ай бұрын
I had to learn this the hard way. They also think flirting means easy . When I realized that, I be nice and kind. But I never flirt anymore
@WITHGODSGUIDANCEANDDIRECTION10 ай бұрын
🎯💯💥
@donnajeffreys825210 ай бұрын
@@Anti-democratChick me too, to be honest with you , I don't really know how to flirt lol
@Carolina48010 ай бұрын
Yes I m a smiling woman but men take the wrong way totally so don’t smile as much I used to I can’t trust men I’m becoming more serious personality
@HSBsoulsurfer10 ай бұрын
I had to stop smiling in the grocery stores. As I glow up and level up in my 30's as a late bloomer, the public parking lot stalking & creepy experiences is getting out of hand. It becomes a safety thing. Most men do not understand how hard this world is for so many women... some like Tony know.
@idm173810 ай бұрын
Attractive doesn't mean Attracted 💎 👏👏👏
@J88Brooks10 ай бұрын
“She didn’t meet my preferences but she met my standards.” That’s a bar there brother
@queenshay8810 ай бұрын
Glad you're speaking on this Tony! I had my experience with an "older" guy and learned my lesson. I wish many young women will see this video!
@IntegrityMeansAll10 ай бұрын
Yes it definitely goes both ways. Actually the other way around is much more dangerous and more predat. if the men is older because women by nature aren’t pred. in the absolute majority of cases
@queenshay8810 ай бұрын
@@IntegrityMeansAll Yes! Absolutely!
@ShesGottaFastCar10 ай бұрын
Your son is spot on about his generation! I’m glad he is aware of it because that is the 1st defense to it.
@coollikethat269110 ай бұрын
🟢Where he day it at?
@Bklyn11210 ай бұрын
Wisdom chases many people. Unfortunately, they're outrunning it.
@singleparentfire236310 ай бұрын
Lawd Tony done hurt a lot of feelings 😂, people (both male and female) love to be delusional and think someone 10+ years younger is genuinely interested in them 🙄
@ramonaphillipsteach328410 ай бұрын
Many young men have motives and use older women.
@nameloading..866510 ай бұрын
Age is just a number. It’s all about maturity and attitudes and ENJOYING THE MOMENT. Most people don’t stay married anyway, regardless of the age so if it works for the two involved, there’s a genuine connection, then GO FOR IT!
@123-u1x8m10 ай бұрын
Does include an "mature " teenager with grown up person aka over 30? You said age is just an number but this type can get you into jail. In addition The younger someone should have less age gap in between than the other due to power balance in most things like experience in life etc. Most successful age gap tend be 10 years or less on average
@twinsma1410 ай бұрын
I married a man 18 years younger. We are divorced now, because of his family acceptance. The age was never an issue for us. Got along great
@LittleMissSunshine72110 ай бұрын
Dang, I’m sorry that happened. Smh.
@twinsma1410 ай бұрын
@@LittleMissSunshine721 Thank you! Other peoples ideas of what someone else should do is crazy. He and I still talk to this day and he would like to remarry, but now has a bunch of kids with other women. Not for me, but his family is happy 😆
@AmandaGivens-nj8jh10 ай бұрын
So sad .he will mature someday and keep his family out of his relationships
@123-u1x8m10 ай бұрын
@twinsma14 how he mature for you? Than become immature when you broke up?" Quote"bunch of kids". How old was he for his parents to be involved like that....
@onevenus604010 ай бұрын
@twinsma14 I'm glad y'all are still friends with each other ❤
@melissafreed674310 ай бұрын
Thank you TG for this video. I cannot even explain how much I agree with you! I'm in my 40s n single n abstinent for 8yrs. Trying to date this last year has been confirming to me who believes this. Porn babies are REAL. I will withstand my ground n my dignity for the rest of my life, or until God unites me with my husband. I've never seen more than 15-30 seconds of porn because it always felt wrong and... never knew when they momma was coming home! God is so good! Much love to you and yours! Yes n amen!
@ibcandy10 ай бұрын
He said, “ bop bop beep beep” 😂🤣😂
@JesusLightsYourPath9 ай бұрын
Yeah, the way he talks is calming haha. I see him as a dad giving me advice.
@appliedknowledgeispower202410 ай бұрын
My new man is 15 years older than me. I have always preferred older men❤❤❤ younger men are looking for cougars and they love to boast about being with older women …. A real man doesn’t boast. These men nowadays are not husband material most of them unfortunately.
@Carolina48010 ай бұрын
Yes it better that’s he’s older than being younger I would prefer my future husband to be older but never younger I dated younger and they are freeloaders ,users cheaters and want convinience for them
@mbubb462610 ай бұрын
"Real men" "husband material" ???
@Litehoney779 ай бұрын
My son (he's 20 as of this comment) says the same thing as your son. We also keep him close and pour knowledge into him. I worry about him finding some worthy & on his level. I pray the youngens who have morals & standards find each other.
@vchild10 ай бұрын
I saw the title and I knew it would be a good one!
@donnajeffreys825210 ай бұрын
Putting candy with medicine. I certainly do laugh at the funny stuff you say but I also understand that you're teaching us lessons. Wish these men would listen and learn to do much better. Thank God for you teaching your young sons what you know .
@ccharrhill63910 ай бұрын
Mr.T speaking for that young girl who grew up in S. FL I totally affirm and confirm this message.😢
@Thecurlmother10 ай бұрын
Tony right I’m tired of being an entrepreneur it’s not for the weak and I’m over it. Ready to put my apron on and start baking bread from scratch lol
@gracedforgreatness806610 ай бұрын
I laughing about the the nasty drawer, to the t.v. in the living room, the boop boop to the eye, but when he got to the t.v. with the lines and the certain channel, and the bumps on the forehead I was crying laughing. A good amount of this video was comical very truthful very truthful, however still very comical! 🤦♀️🤣😂
@vinadouglas11910 ай бұрын
😂😂TG I love your wisdom ♥️ Keep teaching
@Anti-democratChick10 ай бұрын
She used him, but i an't gonna cap, there's a great guy i work with, he's handsome, polite, hardworking and chile he 13 years younger than me. 😂 Chile, I'd marry him but 13 years a huge gap. He 27 I'm 40. Y'all he be calling me "mamn" 😂
@indiawood1910 ай бұрын
😅😂
@sharonhall743910 ай бұрын
😂
@tamitatangoto513410 ай бұрын
Your at the perfect age.🎉❤
@tanyareid687710 ай бұрын
I am 44 my husband is 29. Pray and allow God to lead. My husband is more mature than the men I’ve dated my age. Is he perfect certainly not but we are were working together to make our marriage be successful.
@mavshorts107610 ай бұрын
@@tanyareid6877same my guy is 15 years younger and more mature than most men my age
@juliannesharpe30663 ай бұрын
I would like to hear your views on men with nose, eyebrow, lip etc. rings as well as nail polish etc. I love to hear the truth: Tony, keep speaking it!
@ifeanyichukwuozobu781910 ай бұрын
Great video, I think alot of people should listen to this!
@MiraclesandMessages33310 ай бұрын
Thank you for the course discounts Tony. I'm gonna complete all of them this year!
@thatbeau180710 ай бұрын
I need to book my session with TG.
@terryf.932210 ай бұрын
Thanks Tony for another great sermon as a vessel from God. All of your lessons and sermons are welcomed and appreciated. If these lessons “sting”, then y’all have some healing to do. B’cuz if you’re healed, those words of God’s would not have any emotional impact on you! Many blessings to you and your family!
@ilciataracena-delcid53979 ай бұрын
Dominican Men that are famous urban singers they be polishing their nails is crazy to see and women love wearing their different colors wigs .. Afro Latinos know how Dominicans like to do the most .
@vibez88888 ай бұрын
I just feel like women and men get played, cheated on etc. Why can’t people legally be with who they want if it works. Like women have to have all these stipulations on who we can be with. It’s weird. What if we’re just living life. Dang.
@sandrapollard254110 ай бұрын
Wow!!! this was really deep, I gained some knowledge here❤
@l3l3Cakes10 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but that story about the pimples had me crying 😂😂😂 kids just be saying anything!
@I90west10 ай бұрын
The Bump story had me fall out .
@MarjorieSistaForRealPodcast10 ай бұрын
Yep. The older one is always trying to reraise you. My sister married to a man almost 30 years younger. I just love Tony level of wisdom. Great idea about cuticles. Yes, there may be blood on the tool. I always tell the nail tech to do not do mine. Yall, please take his advice. Tony wisdom on all levels is gifted from God. Congratulations to your son on his cooking interest.
@kmydesire1210 ай бұрын
I met a young man 15 yrs my junior. He was kind and respectful. But i know some point it much not be a match. He don’t have a Christ center life which was my first criteria. As I got to know him he admitted that he was lost and his life was a mess the first text message. I peeped that he really was just not in a position to properly court me and provide some basics that i feel is needed. I never want to cause a man to stumble so I keep texting and over all interactions to a minimum. I just can’t do it.
@Anti-democratChick10 ай бұрын
You doing right! Without Christ, he can't do anything
@Carolina48010 ай бұрын
Good for you yu want a man to elevate yu to help yuo not to to take what ever yu hard work have achieved I’m glad yu saw it immediately Don’t ever try or want to help a men if they don’t it together that’s on him we are responsible for fixing them don’t ever feel guilty say No ok they don’t appreciate it I been there he left me broke he didn’t care of ever I did he treat me like trash
@DrKrysRacquel10 ай бұрын
Honey these are the men that don’t have much at 25 while you are 40. Then, when he is 40 and you are 55, he wouldn’t be interested any longer and will now have resources to find another woman.
@Carolina48010 ай бұрын
@@DrKrysRacquel yes and he leaves yu when yu are older and the older a woman is she has a hard time finding another man
@lwarfield5210 ай бұрын
Well...what is your opinion about Macus Jordan dating Scottie Pippin ex-wife Larsa Pippin. This lady is old enough to be his mother! Larsa Pippen have 4 kids by Scottie Pippin. I though it was a phase for Marcus Jordan BUT!!! This chick got her claws in him!
@BiancaMalloy9 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling me to stop cutting my cuticles hahaha 💖clip clip 😂😂😂
@whitneydow710410 ай бұрын
I love these hard truths. Saving this for my workout
@VirtuousWoman114310 ай бұрын
WOMEN NEED TO BE CAREFUL DATING OUT OF AGE RANGE ALSO. PEOPLE BE HAVING ULTERIOR MOTIVES. ANOTHER ONE MY KIDS FRIEND WAS JUST KILLED ON JAN. 31 BY A JEALOUS EX BOYFRIEND. RAMAPO NEW YORK SHE GREW UP IN CHURCH & SCHOOL WITH MY GIRLS. SO SAD. SHE JUST BURIED HER MOM LAST SUMMER. 💔😭💔😭
@acomment599110 ай бұрын
That’s so sad. Prayers of comfort to you all.
@carolynlong870110 ай бұрын
You are hilarious 😂 but speaking truth.
@heyyashleyyy266910 ай бұрын
The women have that spirit GOOD FOR THEM! They usually end up with men of means/money and never have to struggle in life again
@tulip416910 ай бұрын
I just saw a video of them in the airport. She was talking to the airport worker and he was standing there quiet and listening. It gave a mother, son vibe almost as if she was talking for him. It’s amazing how they started dating right after that suspect video of him came out. I got the sense that she is teaching him “things” which is sick.
@tammyrichardson255310 ай бұрын
Who are y’all talking about??
@deerobbins146210 ай бұрын
Draya Michelle and Jalen Green I think his name is.
@ramonaphillipsteach328410 ай бұрын
We must all pray that we be not deceived. Denounce lust in Jesus name!
@HuricaneChampagne10 ай бұрын
i was offended by this because a woman can’t help if she attracts younger men and i was dating someone 15yrs younger thinking there’s no way this guy is really interested in me. if anyone got played it was me and i have star power. i have found that these 15+ younger men run game on us to study us and take that information to benefit them outside of the relationship never investing in an actual relationship using and weaponizing🪛as the way to get into your head but then that’s what men do typically nowadays no matter what your age. you really need to dig deeper than the shallow surface the industry has shown you and then i would respect your message. older women get broken hearted to.
@We-Win-n-The-End10 ай бұрын
I have a question family🙏🏾 I'm in SC and so many younger ladies because of drugs and alcohol are unfortunately not taking care of themselves as well as they could and it makes them look not so attractive.. Many of the Woman my age 40 look really nice and in conversations we eat healthy, go to the gym, and do facials etc.. No surgeries just self care.. Do you think in certain cities depending on how some young women take care of their appearance it can cause them to gravitate towards an older woman.. Also I trust your expertise 🙏🏾 Just a question out of the box.. If you've already answered in a previous video and I apologize to answer an answered question..
@AleroA10 ай бұрын
Jezebel spirit men avoidddd me. I catch them quickly and rebuke so they stay away 🤣‼️
@user-xp1xm8pr5j9 ай бұрын
I retired in my thirties, im on my 3rd home for investment, i have a small business. I have stocks and cds a d excellent credit. I don't tell men i just play dumb.
@jessicadodds56210 ай бұрын
Your wife's character shines through you ❤. It is beautiful to see the love of Christ in your union. God bless yall. Thank you for being obedient and sharing your testimony 🙏🏽.
@ToniCobbins9 ай бұрын
This is so true… very good information
@mbubb462610 ай бұрын
These young men are not wise. They allow themselves to be led by their third leg.
@ann-marierodney638710 ай бұрын
A Pastor once told me that The Annointing is attractive to the good and to the bad. That explains why the dysfunctional and perverted people follow you. It's The Annointing Tony.
@MersayW10 ай бұрын
Nowadays with the internet all you have to type is "Girl" in google and bad videos come up. My son was typing girl in google and weird videos were coming up. He does not own a phone and neither does he have a TV in his room. I aint playing; this stuff wont ruin my son.
@stephaniehall81799 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 man that nasty drawer was very real growing up in the 70’s and 80’s, had me looking at my parents with the side eye😂
@miztip91159 ай бұрын
Tonyyyyy....man you be too deep for the ppl!!! They are not ready!!!
@tlashai99029 ай бұрын
Tony, I thank God for you, but I have not ever in my life wanted an older man. I respect older men, but I’m not interested at all; I have had older men try me, but it’s just some things I wasn’t going for and I’m not attracted to older men. And no all of them do not have they’re stuff together, most are on child support or still recovering from a divorce.
@MyMercedes99 ай бұрын
Tony really takes forever to get to his point😢
@Tellerbe108 ай бұрын
The guy I’m dating is 10 years younger than me. He doesn’t mind but I feel weird about it. I believe society programs us around age, but 18 years age difference is a bit much. I decided to go younger (not 10 years) because the guys my age or older all had erectile dysfunction 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@MrsLC-tp8oj10 ай бұрын
You are 💯 percent correct these men are addicted to something. I know from experience.
@KDStyle110 ай бұрын
Sooo instead of them believing that u were staying true to ur wife and family by not following anyone else, they called u arrogant...wow..SM is crazy
@Quinarra10 ай бұрын
I’m curious to know, if your wife didn’t meet your physical preference, why did you approach her twice? I don’t think you’re being fully honest about that
@TonyGaskins10 ай бұрын
I didn’t know it was the same person. And I didn’t approach her for love, I approached for sex. Stop listening to argue and listen to understand. If I said it, I meant what I said
@tinawise66039 ай бұрын
Thank you so much about the porn … really enlightening. I have been married to my husband 15 + years old for 10 years. I am sticking with my standards of not getting involved in porn . All my the life , I have felt my young look 👀 as always been a curse for me . I really have learned a lot from you and I thank you so much for all your wisdom. Keep up the good work.😊
@Destinee3610 ай бұрын
Checking in!
@ramonaphillipsteach328410 ай бұрын
They see the Holy Spirit in you Tony.
@ddone80710 ай бұрын
Very true
@DrKrysRacquel10 ай бұрын
Tony I think you’re talking about ZESTY men lol but yes spicy and sassy applies! It’s the same thing
@cleoflowers391310 ай бұрын
Oh No!! Go ahead bash me, I'm in Trouble!! 🤔😔
@HSBsoulsurfer10 ай бұрын
LOOL, me too. 😂
@MyMichellle10 ай бұрын
Pray for God’s protection over you and wisdom!
@delanagivens518810 ай бұрын
That’s funny, Beyoncé does that too, she only follows Jay Z. I get it though, it’s YOUR page 😄
@VirtuousWoman114310 ай бұрын
DONT FORGET BEYONCE !!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@rhondafontes7109 ай бұрын
Larsa Pippen and Michael Jordan’s son?? I’d be interested to hear your take…
@elizamack451210 ай бұрын
We have told our sons from jump that they shouldn’t go after women older than them by a day.
@JesusLightsYourPath9 ай бұрын
This is the advice I never recieved because I grew up without a father.
@mahaalotaibi835210 ай бұрын
What's the name of athlete who's dating 15+ older gf ??
@b.robins730510 ай бұрын
True Tony! So true😢
@nursesrock426410 ай бұрын
I feel the same about a man with painted nails. Because why?
@gallagalina62599 ай бұрын
And what if the man think, that this woman is much younger than him? 😁
@ravanjanae6 ай бұрын
my ex was 23 dating a women 15+ years older before him and i got together
@MWisdomWisdom10 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@coollikethat269110 ай бұрын
🟢Just found out a 42 year old women is with a 13 year old child.
@broadcastdiva110 ай бұрын
Draya is a pass around.
@DaishiaOloughlin9 ай бұрын
your talk of porn and it's affect on men explains why some men I know personally are so disgusting. Like they don't seem to be disgusted by anything or have any shame because it desensitizes them. I've also learned from this not to take it personally when I deal with certain harassment from those men, (ie my dad and brother).
@idm173810 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏💯
@teresagreen53759 ай бұрын
Pray and ask God for deliverance from Pornography and anything that's not of God!!
@BlancaRosa7910 ай бұрын
I cut my boys toe nails 😊 .
@lawill355910 ай бұрын
Present
@NatashallDunbar10 ай бұрын
Woman date up in age all the time. Even joseph was older than Mary. Celion dion husband was clearly older than her. But a man and an older woman??? Naw. He definitely looking for a mom
@CeeceeH181910 ай бұрын
Tina Turner, Megan Markle, wife of the French President all older than their husbands
@123-u1x8m10 ай бұрын
Celine dion husband knew her since she was 12! And France president knew him since he was 15.....take it however you want it The rest the partners were grown up adults when they met.
@sweetdreamscr10 ай бұрын
Most of the time is to get experience and for sex. But there are some exceptions
@MissHTownSelassie10 ай бұрын
17:49 Took me Out! 🤣 Let me pull myself together to continue watching... Edit: A message Much Needed. Those on the path to True Righteousness is very Few. 🤍🙏🏾✨