When A Man ONLY WANTS You Sexually, He Will Do THIS!

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When A Man ONLY WANTS You Sexually, He Will Do THIS!...In this dating advice video, I will give you the one of the signs he just wants you for sex. I want you to know if a guy is genuine or if he just wants you for sex. You may see the signs he just wants you for sex on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
I don't want you to automatically think that every man is looking for friends with benefits. I know that sometimes it can be frustrating for a lot of women when you start to notice the signs he just wants sex. As a relationship coach and a dating coach for women, I want you to be able to tell the signs he only wants to hook up and help you answer the question of does he just want sex?
I want you to be able to avoid situations where you may be wanting more and he only wants sex. Make sure you take heed to this dating advice for women to be sure to know the signs he only wants sex so that you can avoid being friends with benefits.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful, and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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[@StephanSpeaksClips]

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[@taneska1]

A man who has serious interest in a woman will pursue her continuously to the point that he will leave no doubt in her mind that he wants her..if she has to ask him, herself, or others if he seriously has interest in her...HE DOESN'T!! Men go after what they want hard!! If you have a man who has a problem with calling/texting or isn't pursuing you with consistency...DROP HIM IMMEDIATELY!

[@jayc5756]

Yes, he will...but not necessarily chasing though. If you show no or zero interest, he will eventually give up pursuit and move on...no matter how much he really was into her in the beginning.

[@twins213rb]

Sure that might be true to you, but when a woman feeds her other options and the man is still trying to pursue her it gets tiring. Feels like she is making you loose yourself just to get attention from her. Like playing cat and mouse, to much games to chase women now

[@taneska1]

@@jayc5756 A chase is a pursuit of someone who is running away from you...When you Pursue with consistency & with a genuine purpose a woman of maturity will receive & reciprocate your actions with great delight💯

[@taneska1]

@@twins213rb Make sure you pursue the right kind of woman...A woman of maturity and good moral character will receive serious genuine advances with great delight & reciprocate it back to you so much more💯

[@jayc5756]

@@taneska1 I know whats the difference ma. I was just saying that real men don't like or want to chase their lady. Players that get a lot of women and easily...they may though. It is what it is

[@annekajordan6952]

This is why standards are so important. Standards are there to protect you so no matter or what he’s intentions are, you disallow him to dictate whether he gets to use you ❤️

[@jayc5756]

Exactly

[@Beautyfaithfinance]

The complete truth, I've learned 🙌🏾

[@RuthLovesJesus]

💯

[@alexia8977]

So we’ll said . the self control and standards are so VITAL so so vital.

[@judyperri9496]

@@jayc5756 No thanks

[@elenarotestan5823]

Hence why sex is not on the table until each person communicates their needs. Till then conversations and hanging out is all I would offer. My body is not available to an entire community 😕

[@ifinditinteresting.8709]

Yes!

[@devfern2270]

Push up the standard even more. Till marriage. Not even if one thinks / feels they are tbe one or even if engaged!!. Attaching a link by Michael Todd on "why sex before marriage ..." Every woman should hear this.

[@BrooklynBaby-1]

Don’t even entertain or give your energy to those that aren’t serious about you. It’s too much of a hassle save it for the man who loves and wants to commit to you. ❤

[@nessparadis6948]

@@devfern2270, agreed

[@goddesst5405]

This is the very reason why way back in the day the girls father would ask the young man "what are your intentions with my daughter?"

[@goaldigger1535]

Exactly! And why it should still apply TODAY more than ever.

[@goddesst5405]

@@goaldigger1535 Yes!

[@ussaher67]

Thats exactly what we muslims do….. no sex without first being commited to each other

[@dianaverano7878]

You ask the guy by 2nd or 3rd month when getting to know him If he cant say he wants to have a boyfriend title, put him in the friendzone

[@darnellhines2299]

Let's be realistic I teach my daughters this no matter WHO the man is what culture he grew up in or where he's from he's only attracted to you because he wants access to your body initially and if he says other wise he's lying, that being said a woman has to show a man she's more than just her SEX. Which is why I tell them to take sex off the table and if the man is really interested in who you are as a person he'll spend the time getting to know you other wise keep it movin because women pay a higher price for sex then men and women have a small window of time to find the right man to build a legacy with so don't let these lil boys pretending to be men waste your time.

[@chitchatwithbritbrat8412]

Good job King! My dad said the sameeee thing !! I used to act like I wasn’t listening because it was the awkward talk. But I heard everything!! It has helped me along the way!! I am beyond grateful for the talk. My dad did not sugar coat ANYTHING! Your comment made me smile !! ❤️✊🏾❤️

[@darnellhines2299]

@@chitchatwithbritbrat8412 I know what you mean I've always tried to stay focused on the people my children are becoming instead of people who they are because my grandfather sat me down when I was 19 at the end of my freshman year in college and told me that one day I'd have children and grandchildren of my own and to remember this one important thing you're not raising children you're raising MEN and WOMEN so don't raise them to be people you don't like, because if I did I'd failed as a father.

[@chitchatwithbritbrat8412]

@@darnellhines2299 that is POWERFUL ADVICE ❤️❤️✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

[@SoulBeauty1111]

THANK YOU!!! No matter how bullheaded these teens are, we have to continue pushing this messaging so we can get back to strong family units. Who we attach ourselves to makes a world of difference in our lives!

[@tabathadavis2917]

Well said!

[@latonyagather546]

Standards and boundaries are so important!! Ladies don't give up so much so quick make him earn you

[@liahlove8297]

There's a guy I swore was a good guy, and he asked me to have a casual relationship with him, I told him I don't do casual relationships, so he was turned down. I could have sworn he wanted a relationship but oh well. At least he was honest and didn't waste my time.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

What is a good guy?

[@guitarsinger1231]

Sometimes the “good guys” can be just as worst is what I’ve noticed

[@Rashaadthegr8]

@@guitarsinger1231 that makes no sense.

[@singuensful]

Some can aggressively pursue you just for sex. No man is « good » they all have their bad side.

[@liahlove8297]

@@Rashaadthegr8 that's a good question, not sure if you are being sarcastic or not but I've tried looking for one, and honestly, I'm tired. Because I meet men who all sometimes just act the same and this isn't a type thing, its literally just meeting different men with different personalities and well, same results. So I really don't know. Lol

[@dorothyechols2922]

Standards are important! When a Man is interested he will pursue you! Men are designed by God to hunt! If he is not pursuing you that is your answer! Period and the point blank!

[@abigalestoll]

😀😂🤣why would he speak the truth when he only wants sex? That's one of the reasons why people should go to God first before making any decisions 💯❤️.

[@Followmybliss777]

That’s why just wait until marriage - you dont have to be religious to have a standard. Why would we give our body to someone who isn’t going to love us through and through.

[@FreeSpirit47]

My grandfather told me many times, "Never give husband privilege to someone who is not your husband."

[@judyperri9496]

@@FreeSpirit47 Your grandfather sounds like another old man just trying to control a woman

[@sharonprice05]

That's is not how the world works these days be realistic if he/she is not wanting to automatically date and That's a process what makes you think he going to marry automatically all of these things takes time .....and time will teach what his true intentions are it's people out there that get married and they get it annulled so what happened here you will never 💯 % of who a person is .......married doesn't automatically determine it to be a successful relationship......you'll be hurt then you put so much effort into and it still didn't work....there aren't any pinpoint key to determine success except consistent positive behaviors .....

[@FreeSpirit47]

@@sharonprice05 It's unclear as to what you're trying to say in your comment. My grandfather was a very wise man, he was ahead of his time in many matters. Casual sex or unmarried sex often has devastating consequences on people's lives. Most often, it's the woman & the child that it affects the most. DNA analysis that is so popular, shows this as it's been happening for centuries. The power of procreation can bring so much joy, it can also bring a lot of misery & financial difficulties.

[@sharonprice05]

If it don't apply to you then disregard its very clear what I was saying and your grandfather no longer lives in this decade so that not a factor in every other circumstance. And if you're married what can change about your daughter or niece cousin people have to handle their situation the way they feel that's good for them ....oh I'm most definitely sure your are a virtuous woman who has never had sex out of wedlock....yeah right .....even then I'm pretty sure your grandfather probably have had some outside cookie from another woman outside his marriage....the repect has to go both ways Ina relationship....we all know relationships outside without a commitment can be hurtful and same goes for marriage......marriage does not change a man's mindset......or pathology......and marriage doesn't mean that their isn't going to be heart ache outside babies etc ......

[@staceywilliams1863]

Ladies: his desire for only you will NOT be permanent!

[@juvi4371]

Exceptions to the rule...the men who will say anything to make you BELIEVE they want a relationship just to sleep with you. However, you can always cut out the savages and the exceptions through boundaries and standards. It's actually quite empowering and somewhat entertaining when you see them kill themselves off like dead flies once it comes their time to meet/respect those boundaries and standards. PS: Texlationships are manipulationships, akin to situationships of which ALL are sexually led/motivated. The basis of a relationship is to relate. You cannot relate to what you don't delve (using all senses) into--it will remain an unknown.

[@nessparadis6948]

What are “texlationships?”

[@phenitagomes1292]

What this tells me is that there's no way of knowing if a man really truly likes you and wants to be with you because he isn't going to be honest from the start. The signs are good to know when it comes to 9nly wanting sex but the fact that he is already starting off by misleading her is the problem.

[@christianandreygel1060]

Yes those excuses remind me of guys who never wanted a serious relationship with me. 😒 They told me the exact same things.

[@jayc5756]

Usually they tell women Exactly what they want to hear. Actions NEVER Match...but women Continuously fall for it Over & Over Again. SMH!

[@user-vv5yu6fp4j]

I am ADHD and ASD so cannot think so flexibly, in the end, my mind goes to " I'm scared of men."

[@jayc5756]

Cause they know that ALL You Gotta Do is tell Women EXACTLY What they wanna hear to get them...and they Fall For It Every Single Time. SMH! 🤦‍♂️

[@taneska1]

This is why most men choose to go after women to whom lack maturity, self assurance, & self love...a woman with the above attributes knows that actions must match words...A man must show consistent actions over a period of time b4 a woman of maturity would even begin to believe that he is seriously interested 💯😃 Remember ladies check into his background & past actions from the beginning...The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior...Ppl will most often do what they've always done💯

[@jayc5756]

@@taneska1 EXACTLY!!! Everything you said here.

[@chrishaunafarquharson5293]

​@@taneska1that's not always the case since a man will pretend that he wants a relationship for as long as you want him to wait and as soon as he gets sex he leaves. Some men even shows their true colors after marriage..

[@taneska1]

@@chrishaunafarquharson5293 For the most part if he does that, he demonstrated such actions from the very start...We tend to dismiss those red flags & make excuses for them...As I look back on all my exes...they indeed showed me exactly who they ended up being from day 1💯

[@chocolatelioness33]

2:37 Why even try if I say I want a relationship but you just want sex. There is nothing wrong with me NOT wanting to share time with someone that just wants to run through me without any accountability. I need him to be honest with himself and choose the partner wisely. Only deal with women who just want sex.

[@heidizuri]

I’m convinced that not one single Person knows wtf they are talking about at this point.

[@salutemimi81]

Agreed but curiosity makes us watch 😂

[@kristenivory628]

Agree it’s the fact that relationships are really hard today, too much media in your face, nobody can concentrate❤️

[@cottoncandygrapes_]

@@kristenivory628wrong relationships aren’t hard . Ppl are

[@kourtney101]

Not every man will understand that they shouldn't sleep with every woman who they encounter. There's a hidden danger of the unfulfilled, gorgeous woman. Every woman cannot be entertained. You should carefully choose who to be intimate with, men. Take heed! 😞😞🧐

[@feliciamoore2149]

Without becoming overwhelmed about everything lol, I find it easier to understand who I am, what it is that I desire in a true and God-driven relationship, and being honest with myself and those I meet. That way I can keep my mind, body and spirit at peace while eliminating the riff raff 🙌🙌🙌

[@janiceparkerson4727]

Exactly 💯👍❤️.

[@ThanksThanks-cm4ce]

Thank you!!!! Truly said

[@shereehylton6670]

I agree. Hold on to your standards at all cost. He can get it freely so he won't pretend for too long.

[@ruledbyvenus1859]

Are we supposed to assume what #1 was? 😂

[@JoyOgah]

I was wondering too 🤣🤣

[@naomibamberg6419]

That video did cut in late…. Hey Stefan what was the first point???

[@beautifullyyflawedd]

To me it’s very disturbing that they can’t be honest. There’s plenty of low vibrational beings who’d be down for what they’re down for. But, no they usually go for the average woman who’s most likely not looking for a lustful connection. 😐

[@MsNunununu]

Another thing they don't like the pay for play women, so they target good women and act like want a relationship cause they don't want to pay

[@nickoletcampbell4657]

Makes absolutely sense putting myself in the shoes...

[@ziyou3494]

It's not what they say. It's what they do. If they only want sex, you can definitely tell.

[@beckyomosexy]

Men are full of shit. But i cant blame, women give it up to easily and love hard at an idea before even realizing if he wants a rship or not. These days am no longer eager. Ladies if he’s into u, let his actions speak. If not? find someone else simple.

[@jayc5756]

Thots usually give it up easy...not necessarily most women. But yeah, guys know that ALL You Gotta do is tell them EXACTLY what they wanna hear...and they are All In...instead of feeling the guy out...looking at his actions...making sure it matches up with his words. It should be very simple...but Idk. I don't get why they keep falling for the Same Trick All The Time Over & Over Again.

[@rahmasamir909]

You are right I knew someone online who was trying to have sexual talks I cut him and Say bye he strat to respect my boundries and he promise he will bé Always serious with me i will give him a chance without trusting him open eyes and ears to know him better

[@Blueberrybeeeee]

I had a close friend and he was a good person but one day out of the blue he wanted to have a sexual conversation and I'm a person who didn't like it before marriage I denied it, he parted ways

[@Blueberrybeeeee]

​@@rahmasamir909I had same experience

[@NOVAKAIN-wb1cs]

My boyfriend of 3 years just left me 🥺...after I told him I wanted to keep God happy by not committing adultery no more so we can b more connected when we take our relationship to next level......I was shocked...I'm Soo hurt.....I wasn't expecting this..😢 thank u for this vudeo

[@chrishaunafarquharson5293]

You will get a better man one day ❤

[@ashajeremiahqw8775]

Thnx Stephan

[@cynthiabautista4426]

When i say let's just go with the flow what i mean is. Let's not rush things and take it step by step. But i am working towards having a relationship and just wanna take it slow to enjoy each other! ( I wouldn't be with no one if i wasn't working twords something)

[@duniamaisha7695]

Yes you really speaks👏thank you

[@MiekaFastingWeightLoss]

Good to know. Thank you

[@narviaflournoy3869]

Thank you for sharing !! 😊👣🙏

[@RhondaR4]

Thank you, Stephan!🌟 I wish I knew this when I was a teenager!🤦🏽‍♀️

[@rednia1]

Me too my life would have been way better

[@stephanielondonio5446]

Wow .. Fantastic idea 🎉 You made such a valid statement … we need Stephan to get to our young girls .. They need to start hearing this … wouldn’t it be great if ‘we’ could help them have greater, healthier relationships. I will absolutely send my daughter and her friends his link. Thanks for the idea. 😊

[@feliciawatson3356]

Hi Stephan your right about that

[@kristenivory628]

There is nothing wrong with sex, it’s not evil, it’s fun, but it will not make a man or woman love you, that’s the confusion. Don’t try and trap with sex or even trapping a man with pregnancy it doesn’t work. Love takes connection compatibility and a million other things, women just need to be aware that sex giving it or not giving it isn’t the problem.

[@rebeccanicholson8328]

It’s becomes a problem when a man lies and manipulates a woman into bed which is what Stephan is talking about in this video and informing women. Men are totally out of order when they know the woman wants a relationship

[@kristenivory628]

@@rebeccanicholson8328 nobody ever manipulated me

[@Blueberrybeeeee]

I had a close friend and he was a good person out of the blue he started a conversation about sexual things and I the person who didn't like such things before marriage denied it and he said lets part ways

[@MzBrOdUs18]

Yup.

[@jaykay5688]

Thank you @stephanspeaks for telling and sharing the truth!!! You have saved a lot of woman out there who are about to become just another piece of meat to a guy!!!!!!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jayc5756]

Idk if it will help much. I hope so. Cause most women keep falling for the same ol game Over & Over Again tbh. SMH! But we can Only Hope.

[@tynaangelici3023]

I had a guy wanting me to come over his place expecting sex (even though he said he wasn’t) I told him I decided not to come over and he got upset.

[@erikaabrown5570]

When we’re on a dating app, I just straight up ask. I’m not about wasting time. You kind of get a sense based upon how much effort he puts into his profile. The only downside when you find a man who is seeking a ltr, is that some will treat you like you’re in interview rounds. Dating should be enjoyable not an interview, I should know I’m a recruiter.

[@skylahwinters1924]

😳 But….. I’m going to have to agree.

[@elizabethjesse6851]

What was number 1?

[@SophiaGoodThings]

I like these shorter videos.

[@marylynnnoonan-toschi4429]

And going to the beach holding hands and go to the movies and go to the romantic restaurant and what kind of music that we listen to and talk about what kind house that we are live in and the power bill and water bill and a taco bill and gas station for a car and going to a store for food and talk about what decoration for a wedding and what kind of cake and other thing that you .

[@lindaperson382]

Sex can change for a man or a woman.Have love.Be kind to yourself and others Thanks much love 💘.I heard you well be coming to N C.

[@samiam12blessed]

Lesson learned

[@Laura-ic7ps]

Same :(

[@Ohkeh640]

Do u ask what his intentions are etc

[@ashleysessoms4967]

If he doesn’t flat out say anything about sex it’s easy to see the signs therefore it’s still a no deal lol so no need for him to be worried because he will lose anyway🤷🏽‍♀️

[@yoiaheelee3536]

I wish I knew this before, so I had the chance to protect myself from him back then. 😞

[@JenSmyre]

AMEN AMEN SISTER 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

Just say you want friendship,and dont lead the person on in the beginning.

[@Daytonabeach2022]

Why’d you start with number 2?

[@janiceparkerson4727]

This behavior sounds like a grown boy.

[@anadiaz6919]

To flow means very different for a man than for a woman... For men it seems like nothing serious... For women means the organic evolution of a relationship, not forcing but never ever means " let's have sex gladly and without responsability" ... The problem is we tend to interpret that it means the same for them tha for us....

[@CNEFAM2]

He made it pretty obvious and even made his friends touch me when I said no

[@lilyofthevalley4435]

As HARD as this is to admit at my age...but I have been just having sex with someone for almost 2 years that has more than once told me that he didn't want a relationship but cared about me and loved me but wanted nothing more. I was so stupid to believe that sex would change his heart...I doesn't. 2 years now and I am ( until my recent mind change) still f!*&ing and feeding him. He will now go into the " friend zone that he desires to be in. The thing is....I DON'T do male "friends" (some) Men befriend women in my opinion to blur lines and stay vague and create soul ties through casual "friendly" sexual encounters. I broke that rule that kept my heart safe for years for him. Still living, still learning I guess. Thank you Stephen. It's videos like these that expose the toxic masculinity that men have been hiding from women since the beginning of time. We must stop falling for the lies, and start learning how to pour into OURSELVES or these clowns in crowns will continue to drain us of our essence❤️‍🔥💝❤️‍🩹

[@olganunez5965]

Happen to me

[@knyarabah]

First!

[@keetamosby6424]

or we just chilling

[@Brinevercared]

💯

[@fabienne4205]

What was number one

[@Toi84Toi]

PSA🗣️

[@jadaturner3972]

I met this guy and I really liked him, however we slept together on the 2nd and 3rd date. I feel so stupid for sleeping with him so fast. Now he's disappeared. Is there anyway to come back from this? or even just any tips to not feel like such an easy dumb ass :(

[@user-lv6ul5ep4c]

How can I stop him?

[@nakiasjohnson6223]

What was the first one?

[@user-fh6hv4eb56]

Exactly

[@anitracannon7528]

I know right

[@tiannad1378]

here's the full video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/robUn6SYZtWHfac

[@marylynnnoonan-toschi4429]

I got to carry away about are relationship and about sex when my boyfriend have a talk to me but some time I don't understand very well so my boyfriend explain it to me you now and relationship mean talk about he or she are self and talk about are family .

[@lovely_star1917]

all im gone say is that you hurt yourself by not being honest because are you plotting to force me because the answer is NO

[@ashleysessoms4967]

This ain’t toys r us lol

[@twinsoultarot473]

Men shy away and are not really honest about much of anything. Sorry, that's what I've experiencing in my life. And that includes my parents that were together for 50 years. And every man I've ever known hasn't some way trying to take control or domination over me. You all really need to work on yourselves like seriously before the war is end up on this planet destroying everybody.

[@rachelross5829]

❤

[@intuitionalwitch46]

What if a guy is honest with you and you still don't heed that warning does that mean I deserve that

[@kimberlyturner820]

Yes because he told you upfront.

[@richerDiLefto]

You don’t deserve ill treatment, but what did you expect?

[@lisajones-franklin3574]

🙏🏾🙌🏽❤

[@marylynnnoonan-toschi4429]

Need and talk about having a child.

[@queenorkuma8204]

What if you ask him what his intentions are and he says it's just sex and you understand that. But then he starts acting weird and more romantic and definitely acting like it's not just sex? What do you do then?

[@richerDiLefto]

It’s still just sex.

[@justbeingcossy]

if sex gatepass for marriage i could have been married now,men are users

[@christinatultul9257]

Can u please do a video on relationship and family mem who hate u....

[@christinatultul9257]

@yarima linda thank u I'm glad he helped u

[@minkwandering3561]

Tried to watch. Mic is literal trashcan, hope its better by now

[@burt2599]

Omgod mansplain I didn't get that atall

[@Nodrip79]

You gotta be Method Man to walk up and say that to a woman.

[@ellieon]

To those of us who practice celebicacy before marriage will never fall for this. But knowing his intentions is important.

[@Airendeau2095]

Turns out he was a 2 pump chump 😂😂

[@libbylee9-997]

Nice thumnnail that had nothing to do with the video.