When a Narcissist Hoovers.

In spite having an adulterous affair that lasted 7 years, Martell Holt still fixates on ex-wife #melodyholt
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[@jmdwright42]

Melody is an intelligent woman. In my opinion she knows that those phones purchased for the kids was a ploy to have access to her at all times. She needs to be careful, Martel needs psychological help. He wanted that street life, he wanted Coleslaw he now has free reign to both. Live your best life Martel you got exactly what you thought you wanted, leave Melody alone.

[@sheilawilliams9822]

Let me say what I know and have experienced when you walk in the light (with God) he will show you what your enemies are doing beforehand. It's called "spiritual discernment". God's angels of protection is covering Mel and her love ones. Just pray for the good and not speak evil into existence. At least try because that's what the devil feeds off. Amen and God bless 🙏

[@sweetali1495]

Simple as that geeeeesh!!!!!!!! Get a life and stop using the M&M kids for clout, uuuugh. I can't stand Hoetell.

[@vryan000]

Good because they’ll just get closer when Mel makes no phones rule

[@bluefish5145]

Melody chose her family, Martell did NOT..

[@carlastokes4448]

Now he is on instragram talking about family first before work, you have to work to rsne care of your family, they are not charity case she can earn her own money Martell needs to stop the bull sh$t

[@angelafunkygemini]

W😮W Sis some deep stuff! I've learned so much from you.. had a narcissist, but I lucked up.. never had children.. but his side chicken had twins, boy did I escape what would have been a nightmare..

[@queenshibadarling]

So glad it’s informative

[@carolynminter7839]

Mel's man was giving her gifts. Mel took care of that junkyard dog long enough and his side trick, and now she is getting spoiled by a real man as she should be. Mel is a Queen and she is being treated like the Queen she is. Martell is always trying to get a rise out of Mel, and Mel knows it so she refuses to give him what he wants. Martell is going to have to get it through his head that Mel doesn't love or want him. She has told him that so many times. She even told his mother when she asked her if she still loved Martell. Mel told her no. She has said it in interviews,, and now she has a man what more does she have to do for him to get that it's over man go on about your life.

[@feliciarowser308]

Go away junkyard dog and leave Mel alone

[@misty28882]

Mel please no more trips with him even if messy Carlos king asks.....it's time for you to move as a celebrity...

[@lynnaegink]

Amen

[@misty28882]

@@lynnaegink it's not that she's better than hoetell....but she has to surround herself around other cele.....hoetell is too vindictive and jealous

[@robinlove4080]

Facts!!!! I don’t think she will do it again

[@robbinhicks3112]

I doubt if she will remember he took her for Custody after the trip to Destin

[@roddaniels2976]

Changed behavioral is a sign he's changed. He's still with coldslaw that is not changed behaviors more kids?

[@IndelibleDeb6361]

He wants more Kids for control. He is hoovering because he is being forced to deal without having someone to blame for his issues. Dag Queen, I wanted you to finish about Knox and I would love for you to go deep and incorporate how his relationship with his mother plays into this -- oh and MartyMar's father lol.

[@queenshibadarling]

I may do it for my members in my Queen.

[@feliciarowser308]

I wanted the same I was soo ready to listen and learn

[@trishk1054]

Was he mad when he seen Melody receiving gifts from Louis Vuitton from her boo. Lol 😂😂

[@carolynminter7839]

He was punching the air and talking to himself before he laid down and cried in his pillow. Money making Mel is making money in her sleep and has a King 👑 treating her like the Queen 👑 she is. 😂

[@simp1eone]

Martell failed in entering Mel's house to plant a recording device so now for Christmas he got phones for the kids. Mel be careful . Don't allow those phones in your house. Always get an expert to check for any bug devices in your home. My wish for you is to afford and move on up to a gated community with high security and most of all I wish you to quit this show. You have plenty opportunities waiting for you

[@trishk1054]

I ❤❤❤ that she is NOT responding. And that her & the children are getting therapy.

[@mariaamor2496]

Your assessments are ALWAYS on point!!! I've dealt with a few narcissists!!! I thank God for setting me free from those demonic strongholds!

[@MaroonRose3216]

I’m going through it now but I’m thinking Him in advance 🙌🏾

[@tangajTANG]

Queen Martell CAN NOT PULL another Melody; everyone will be similiar to him. Think any successful woman, about her business will not deal with him for long. She would have to be young and impressionable or old and desperate. What lenghthy intelligent conversation can he give someone?

[@queenshibadarling]

I agree but he’ll come close. There’s always one who think they’re different

[@feliciarowser308]

He will show his Azz quickly bc he wants to be the female in the relationship

[@tangajTANG]

@@queenshibadarling TRUE he could find a woman like Kimmi "PICKME" in desguise.

[@cynthiagarrett6060]

If he does, she will be much, much younger and easy to control. No real GROWN woman whose experienced life and has been through the BS won't even look at Martell and those who don't know his story will learn will quick just how off the rockers this male is. Martell is going to have to get them very, very young or very, very needy like Arionne.

[@queenshibadarling]

@@tangajTANG yep!!! And or another Sheree.

[@maegilchrist4957]

Miss Queen Shiba, Martell Holt made the biggest mistake of his life by cheating on Melody

[@gracedarlin3331]

It’s universal law operating. He knew he wasn’t a vibrational match for Mel. The subconscious mind is our truth, recognize it or not. He HAD to do something to sabotage that union. It was going to be something to break That unequivocally yoked bond. He unwittingly chose sex🤷🏽‍♀️

[@maegilchrist4957]

@@gracedarlin3331, it's the spirit of Satan

[@angelafunkygemini]

Why would Mel ever have to introduce her dude to Montel.. EVER!!!

[@trishk1054]

Martel would not get Christmas , birthday, nor Father’s Day gifts, NOT with my money. The kids can make him gifts, if they choose to do so.

[@simonewealthy2251]

Your breakdowns are superb 👌🏾 Melody's ex-husband is seething. Instead of trying to pass the test to acquire his builders license, he's thinking of plans to keep attacking Melody. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@simonewealthy2251]

@catherinebranson3257 1000% AGREE! He is a fish out of water. If he at least could obtain the builders license, he could build off that and make legitimate good money. Unfortunately, his focus is attacking Mel and consistently taking jabs at her work ethic. SMH

[@RoseColored125]

You are so right! I see right through Martell and he is a horrible father. I remember the most horrible things my ex did to me. Not because I want to, but because it was ALWAYS around a holiday or special date.

[@queenshibadarling]

They often operate in that capacity. Just as he’s fixated with the number 20.

[@clm2822]

It’s crazy how Martell prides himself at being “a good father” yet can’t see his actions say different, he destroyed his home and went on to slander his kids mom every chance he has gotten! He is nothing but a clown in a tight suit who can’t find his way without help! Mel was that help for him which is why he has not been able to accomplish nothing without her! Listening to him talk makes me cringe and when I see AC it’s like he really killed his marriage for this girl!

[@lindacarter4211]

Another reason Martell is posting a lot of videos and reels is because he heard Melody say how much money she makes doing them , and the Scott are copying her also.

[@lynnaegink]

I wish Melody would stop telling her financial business and stop telling these fools how to make money. All these losers do is copy and act like they made it up or invented it.

[@PouringN2U.]

When Melody told him to his face that the Scott's were her enemies but he was the Ring Leader ! That's when she took her POWER BACK...Don give power to the narcissist..The POWER belongs to the one who overcame the narcissist! THAT WOULD BE MEL!! She's covered by a GREATER POWER...To GOD BE THE GLORY

[@rosematthews9474]

Amen 🙏🙏Amen 🙏Amen 🙏

[@starrynight9983]

Hello Miss Queen Shiba💫 I tell you what I've dated some of these narcissists & they are the cruelest nastiest demonic creatures ! The games the lies are so ridiculous! I have escaped them all thank goodness! Much love & encouragement to anyone dealing with these monsters- if you've left them please stay gone no contact because the abuse only gets worse! God bless

[@queenshibadarling]

So glad you were able to set our self fre.

[@robbinhicks3112]

I'M afraid for Suga mama and the oldest daughter he's manipulating that child it's so unhealthy. He questions her I believe about her mother so bad.

[@PheonixBluez]

The older seems smart enough to understand what is going on. When he slipped and said Mariah didn't want a phone and he got her one anyway. You see how she started throwing the snow at him.

[@callieparker4567]

I LOVE YOU QUEEN SHIBA. I was hoping your theory that Martel would propose to Sheree would come to fruition!? I think Melody is aware of Martel and what he is capable of. I don’t think she would choose a man that would SUCK UP TO MARTEL! I think her main choice in a man is a PROTECTOR! She needs that more than ever! I agree Martel will NEVER leave Melody alone. I do not think Melody nor her new man will fall for Martel’s antics! UNTIL MARTEL IS WILLING TO SERIOUSLY GET THE HELP, HE SO DESPARATELY NEEDS, HE WILL RUIN ANY WOMAN’S LIFE HE IS INVOLVED WITH. My fear continues to be the safety of Melody and the kids. If it is true that Melody has a new man and Martel is aware of this, it could be very dangerous for her. Martel is displaying all the signs of being UNHINGED! He is not well enough to accept another man in Melody’s life! Melody is going to need prayer and an ARMY OF SUPPORTERS AND PROTECTORS to survive this man! I PRAY SHE WILL BE BLESSED WITH THIS IN 2023!

[@carolynminter7839]

Coleslaw is supposed to be pregnant so maybe that's why he keeps saying that he wants more. I hope Mariah doesn't have to take care of the new one the way he made her play mom to Knox. Mel has a good man and she could careless about Martell and whatever he has going on with his side trick. Mel knows that narcissists inside out, that's the reason that those phones will NEVER come in her house. Mel bought the children burner phones and they can use them to call their father or he can call them. The children can use the phones he bought them in his home. I doubt that Mel is with a weak and foolish man and he probably won't have ANYTHING to do with Martell, believe me Mel has schooled her man on Mr. Martell.

[@erikaclasen7080]

Showing up at her house for a so called bag for one of the kids was an excuse. I couldn't tell if Melody was holding keys in her hands or something because, immediately, Martell said to her, " you getting ready to go?" And, she said yes. Well here's the bag you wanted..... She immediately let it be known that she wasn't giving him anytime for whatever he had in mind. You can see it aggravated him automatically. Enough that he didn't keep up the front of needing something for the kids. He was like, "NO, don't need that!" Was actually here to discuss camp and one of the kids moving up a grade( Melani, I believe). Um, all the kids are moving up a grade and, let's face it. Quite sure he isn't paying a dime for the kids to go to camp. That's why Mel was like, you came here for what????? Lol. I'd like to point out how very strange it was for Martell to show up and, Lord only knows why he wanted in her house. Especially if it's his week with the kids. Why were they not with him? Who did he leave them with while he was gone? Why wouldn't he have talked to her about " NONSENSE", when he was picking up or, dropping the kids back off to her? Left me with a twisted feeling in my gut and what he was up to. Especially to leave the kids behind on his week to roll up on her. IMO, he had bad intentions. Especially if he thought she was there all ALONE . Why try to get inside so bad when you've never been invited in. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@rosematthews9474]

He could have just call Mel on the phone.

[@evarene07]

Melody is spiritually aware is being “counseled”, “protected”, always 20 steps ahead of the narcissist. And any man she’s involved with will probably be in counseling with her. Respectfully, some people may be underestimating this woman nowadays. This is not the Melody of yesteryear…when you’re under “demonic/narcissistic attack - Moving in Silence is your best weapon…and in my past years of experience with a narcissist with histrionic personality disorder- where they make their major mistake is always “casting their intentions out loud”…They crave attention, attachment,…You have the extremely intelligent narcissist and then there’s the simpleton(Martell/IMO) but they all share traits in common: they strike out at your most vulnerable points. And when you don’t “react;” they keep showing their cards…and they try to hit even more sentimentally. However, Melody isn’t playing Martell’s devious game, Martell doesn’t realize he’s not even a worthy opponent in this “spiritual battle”…Melody is “cloaked in Holy Prophecy Protection.”

[@hevel4383]

If AC is pregnant, maybe this explains why Sheree left the picture so quickly. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@queenshibadarling]

Everyone keeps saying it.

[@latishahunt1968]

Him and ColeSlaw need to have additional kids! Leave Mel alone. Her new boo is going to have to beat him down.

[@latishahunt1968]

Don’t allow those phones in your house. Have tech to reset those phones to factory mode and delete location mode.

[@DellaHarris-o6p]

Why can't Arrion help him pass the builders test? I guess she can read too😅😅

[@natlovesfashion27]

Queen Shiba, I heard him say he got nothing hit Christmas, too! 😂 I immediately thought it was another confirmation that Sheree is done with his ass. 😂 As I commented on your previous video, Sheree didn’t go to our Mayoral Ball with him. AND now we know she also didn’t buy him anything for Christmas. So she’s DONE DONE! So yeah, all his attention is directly on Mel right now. It’s just sad to watch him post subliminals at her on IG when that woman doesn’t even bother him. How pathetic! My heart always goes out to Melody cause she can’t cut him off, completely, until Suga Mama turns 18yrs old and that’s 15 yrs away. SMH ….

[@queenshibadarling]

I’ve been looking for you. Thank you so much for that valuable information you provided on that other post.

[@jessiejackso6681]

No I don't tare going think that melody will have to put up with him until sugar momma get eighteen because I think with the older kids growing up they are going to by that time old enough to and are going to have learned what r done

[@jessiejackso6681]

Continue the kids will by that time have learn and understand what went on between their parents and will not even be bother with their father and neither will sugar momma by that time.once Mel stop letting Martell have her forcing those kids off on him talking about keeping the family image they will stop thinking about him and going on with their friends. OH DOD MEL have her father doing thing with her and her brother and her mother all the time ? I still don't hear her or her brother talk about missing their father and they both seem to have made great people and both are very smart and highly educated and good hard workers . So Martell don't always have to be with her and her kids because they are learning bad habits from him especially tank seem like every thing he say come straight out of Martell book something he say sound to grown-up. Check with your counselor.

[@sheryllcanada6215]

She should tell him to keep keep them phones with him when they are there with him or cut them phones off when they are with him

[@lindacarter4211]

Martell wants Melody and Coldslaw to be friends so he can have her around the children when it’s his time to keep them so she can help him watch the children, Melody probably have a court order that keeps her from being around her children.

[@queenshibadarling]

No. It’s so he can lower Melody’s level to that of a peasant

[@candy9544]

lets hope Mel has enough strength to avoid him and keep her distance from Martel

[@carolynminter7839]

It doesn't even take strength anymore. Mel will NEVER be with Martell again. He should just go on and marry Coleslaw because word on the curb is she is pregnant again and that's the reason he is saying he wants more children so when it comes out he can say I told Y'all I wanted more kids. He didn't even want Knox and she has put him back in the same trick bag. I'm so glad that Mel and those children are all in therapy, because the way Mel handled Martell on that vacation was true text book 101 on how you deal with narcissists. I also believe Mel told Martell she was staying over a few days because her man was meeting her there. That's the reason Martell went off when he got back from that vacation. Texting all of that mess on IG, suing for full custody of the kids, trying to get in her home when she had NEVER invited him inside EVER, and he didn't act a fool about it until this time. Why because Mel had told him she has a man.

[@lauramcgrew5604]

Like I've been saying I believe that martel is a clear and present danger to Mel and their kids. And I got so much backlash. And the reason I said the kids too is because at this point Mel is so not bothered about who/what he is doing so I believe the only thing that he can do to hurt Mel is to hurt the kids.

[@maefrancesfields889]

That's what I said and I believe it. Then he will hurt himself. He feel like he has nothing to live for. He is going to get tried of using the children because it takes up to much of his time. When see that it's not working he will try something else. When Mel revile this man my heart is going to drop because of her safety. The writing is on the wall. I don't understand why no one else see this. I will be in the courthouse and sometime that doesn't work. With him showing up at her home is not safe to me. He can hurt her then. I don't believe he is going to let her go that easy. When he has done all he think he can do and it doesn't work, I believe he will go to plan B and that's danger. Sorry, that's how I feel. He has already drop to the lowest of low. How much farther can he go. Sorry. Look how worried his Mother was looking the last time U saw them together.

[@delorisejones9126]

@@maefrancesfields889 I feel exactly like you miss he's very dangerous and a lot of women can't see it or refuse to see it,but l have mentioned this to Mel and her mother and I believe they are being cautious let's just hope he finds love elsewhere

[@maefrancesfields889]

@@delorisejones9126 I don't think he's trying to find love 💕💕 no where else. I think he thinks Mel belongs to him. We are talking about a very sick person. Who does the things this person has done and know Mel is intelligent and still think she would want him. All that he has and is still doing and still think he has a chance. That's scary to me. Lord if he hurt those children he knows he has to take himself out. That's not 🚭🚭🚫🚫 worth a damn.

[@donnaallen3377]

That fool treats SUGA MAMA like does because she brings Mel so much joy that fool is sick in the head frfr. Mel is not worrying about him she’s covered and don’t think for one minute she don’t have some one with her she’s to smart and she knows that fool. ​@@maefrancesfields889

[@mrs.dstarr1164]

I definitely agree he messed up big time now he regrets it …. He made his bed broke bed so lay in it and focus on the child little boy that needs him …..God bless the child

[@goodlife8044]

When Martell was married to Mel he said he could not choose between his wife and coleslaw. Mel divorced him so now he is free to be with Coleslaw. Why is he not with Coleslaw?

[@maefrancesfields889]

I'm afraid if he doesn't do something to himself, he is going to do something to Mel or someone else and I don't put it pass him that it might be the children. I don't put nothing pass him. I think he is crazy. He is really going to loose it when he find out who Mel is seeing. What does he have to loose? He has nothing but a chick that doesn't have anything and a new baby that he can't take care off. He miss the money and life style that he was living. He didn't care about introducing the M&M kids to his son. That was so wrong. Those children wasn't ready for that and he didn't tell Mek he was going to do it. He is such a sad person. He is not a man at all. I wouldn't put him under a man's category. He is a "DOG" barking. LOL

[@truthwest1037]

It is rumored that Coleslaw is pregnant. That’s why Martell is saying he wants more kids.

[@angelafunkygemini]

No!!! Lord!

[@therealnicki2424]

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Hoetell just needs to make it official with her

[@angelafunkygemini]

What is she trying to have 4 babies like Mel.. if true she's FREAKIN SICK!.. he doesn't pay or truly take care of any of his children.. I don't get this chick!🤔

[@msjay025]

I pray he does have more children, that will give Mel all the opportunities to gain full control of her children.

[@honeybunz9421]

WHAT!?!?!?! She would be a darn fool if she is.

[@patdimmel6568]

I pray that u share this with Mel

[@latishahunt1968]

She need to move to a gated community.

[@feliciarowser308]

She needs 24/7 security inside her home and outside too !

[@Mspamela444]

I blame Melody!!! She needs to change things up by changing the drop-off spot for the kids should be at the Police Substation. Contact her attorney to End this Demonic contract.

[@shannon8190]

Martell should be forced into therapy 5 five days a week. He need to go lay up with all his side pieces and leave Melody alone. Mel needs to stay away from him and keep her life private. Leave them phones at Martell’s house. Mariah didn’t want a phone but he got it anyway, she wanted a new iPad. Let’s continue to lift Mel and the kids in prayer.

[@angelafunkygemini]

Queen how can Mel leave HUNTSVILLE Completely 🤔

[@simp1eone]

the law wouldn't allow her. Only way is if Martell ends up in Jail. That's my wish unfortunately

[@eslaone8721]

Only way she could do that is by getting approval from Martell which will never happen or by having a judge grant her full custody then she can go where she would like with the kids. I believe it's just a matter or time before that happens. He's unstable and is going to do something out of order concerning those kids.

[@lakithameaux8121]

You know ur on point... Mel got Louis Vuitton hunni. Multiple boxes.... from her man boo boo

[@miomimichu3247]

When the kids are with their dad they can have those phones but not with Mom phones OFF! He is a basket case very dangerous 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Queen Shiba you hit the Nail on the head. I agree with you that I can see Martel LOVE BOMBING MELS NEW MAN OR HUSBAND TO TORMENT MELODY.

[@suetannenbaum2949]

Those trips that the families are doing is not in the best interest for Melody, maybe for the kids. Martell pushes for negative vibes, cause he still tries to control situations and Melody. He's NOT there yet and I don't know if he'll ever get there. It has to stop.

[@gloriaspringer535]

His girlfriend she no something he never check her not suprise

[@kimsartin1702]

I believe that Arionne is pregnant that is why Martell is speaking on more kids

[@mariaamor2496]

If she is with child, she is dumb as a box of rocks and there is no hope for her!!!

[@carlastokes4448]

I been said that she started looking like she picked up some weight and she is covering her stomach, poor thing she is not the smartest tool in the shed,smh

[@punkinpunkin6524]

Good evening Queen Shiba! I’m ready for this commentary, let’s go!❤

[@queenshibadarling]

Muah 🙃

[@reneehendrix7094]

Queen! Thx again for this valuable information 😊!

[@augustseventh7714]

There was a Doctor who ex was to exchange the kids .The ex wife ignored him it was on Oprah he killed himself and the kids to hurt the mom Martell is handsome but very very dangerous. A judge needs to order supervise visits.He needs to pay child support.

[@damnpam4680]

When I say I can’t stand this man and the Scott’s I stop watching this like I use to almost done with that show

[@bluefish5145]

U R absolutely right, he speaks about the past. Just like that red wine when told Ms Marlene the inspiration came from him and Mel's favorite red wine and the taste was better then any other red wine.

[@queenshibadarling]

Listen to him very carefully. Narcissist ate like the devil. They lack the ability to originate authentic ideas. Therefore, they live in the past or copy what they hear.

[@robinlove4080]

Those phones he purchased for the children will never be turned on in Mel’s house. And the narrative that Martel will get on the good side of a man she dates and can influence him in anyway is not likely. Mel will not let that happen. Just because he did it with the Scott’s and Wanda, dusty, is different. Those ppl are weak minded. It didn’t take much.

[@JaniceBenton1]

Powerful

[@dwanafields5932]

Mel knows who Martell is at this point, she has called him a narcissist herself. She's also stated that those phones are not allowed in her house bc after living with Martell for all those years she's aware of his narcissistic tactics.

[@sheryllcanada6215]

I'm quite sure she has shared things about Hotel Holt with her new man

[@queenshibadarling]

She wouldn’t have to. He may know on his own like we do.

[@Deneese3347]

Yep. Martell is failing, broke and he’s alone. Sex with simple minded women & Slaw is leaving him empty. His muscles don’t pay the bills. Sheree is keeping him at bay. Not good for his ego.

[@feliciarowser308]

He needs more powerful narcissist supply….Beware Women Run and run fast !

[@gracedarlin3331]

Remember last Xmas Martell followed Mel and went on live to open a gift from OWN to show he’d received the same gift. I’m waiting for him to do a LV gift opening live.

[@queenshibadarling]

Oh yeah. I do remember that.

[@AlwaysIndia29]

I agree

[@goodlife8044]

Soon as those kids get home, those phones will go in a box outside the home. When they are going to visit their Dad, they can get their phones. The phones will never enter the home. Period

[@queenshibadarling]

Buried deep in the snow ❄️

[@goodlife8044]

@@queenshibadarling 😂😂🥶

[@prettybrowneyes5197]

Great breakdown Queen 💜

[@yvonnefreeman5264]

You are absolutely correct! I notice with his children, the older they get he shun away from the older kids.He has the mind, of a child.Marty and AC are on the same level. Remember he stayed twice he wants more children while mel was in labor, second time during the baby shower, because he was busteed, people found out about AC being pregnant! Advice for him would be he can't afford it.Just Stop mel really doesn't care marty won't change.

[@Patricia-1201]

When he finds out Mel's out of town, he wants to know who the kids are with. He wants info to sue for custody

[@patdimmel6568]

I pray Mel stays away from him. Has those children turn off phones when with her. I will pray a lot for u Mel.

[@mssugamoma]

I think Coleslaw is pregnant and that’s why he’s giving us a heads up for if and when she drops that tidbit

[@geraldineglass180]

SHE GOT SOMETHING FOR HIM HER NEW MAN GO SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE MARTEL

[@cherylbryant3217]

I almost fell off my sofa when you said M.H. is "raging"... That's EXACTLY what he is doing! He is toying with his children, and NO, he would never own up to this fact. He has his baby boy more now, to try to both, antagonize, and just hurt M.S., imo. It is also to show others watching how great a father he is... Also to possibly appease A.C., like how he said he called her a "pheasant" to try to appease M.H.. I keep thinking about how earlier on, M.S. had professional photos of herself and the M&M kids, he did the same, with the twist of sitting his baby boy on his lap and having baby girl stand on the side; how he began to argue with M.S. with a vengeance about things when he couldn't get the reactions he wanted from her, etc. Then how he can never acknowledge his bad deeds!😒 She's making sure the quality of life they've always been accustomed to continues, in spite of M.H. "duffing out". But, classic M.H., he is using his platform to try and make the mother of FOUR of his children look bad, using their son to do so, when he would look so much better if he truly acknowledged that he is the root of all that's been happening to him, not his ex, be grateful that she was trying to create good memories for their kids, and let her keep her peace without being so spiteful. Their kids are not going to be young forever - as adults, they're probably going to see all of this, and it will most likely "bite M.H. in the butt"! Great commentary, as usual, Queen Shiba!👌👍🤩

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you 😊

[@connievickerson249]

GIRL you hitting it on the HEAD, I said the Same thing, MARTELL DON'T know NOTHING about raising kids, he like having them babies because it gives HIM a since or CONTROL, 🤨 But Ohh goodness, they don't stay BABIES for long ! SMDH

[@lynwill9946]

Unfortunately the kids have been and will continue to be harmed emotionally. They will have to remain in counseling for their entire life. No matter how much Melody does to reprogram the kids during her time with them. Each time they regroup with Melody, the kids have to go back to Martell for his respective week. Regarding the phones, I can only assume melody retrieves the phone during their week with her kids. Each time they return to melody the practice is to have the phones remain in the garage with the dead flowers he recently purchased for Melody.

[@vanessasimpson7744]

Why didn't Sheree or Ari buy their man a Christmas gift? Lol

[@queenshibadarling]

😂🤣😂😂

[@vryan000]

The best part is if the kids WANTED to get their father a gift she would’ve definitely helped them. The kids don’t care 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@queenshibadarling]

🤣🤣🤣

[@PEACE_LOVE_PRAYERS]

Queen Shiba teach us truth this evening. ✌🏾💜😁

[@bridgetteowens]

Thanks Queen Shiba for the commentary

[@queenshibadarling]

No, thank you Queen.

[@angelafunkygemini]

We've seen children are not off limits!

[@crystalamos9044]

GURRRL YOU HAVE DESCRIBED MY EX TO A T HUNY THAT MAN WHEW CHILE WAS A THORN IN MY SIDE FOR DECADES IT SEEMS LIKE AND EVEN TODAY HE ACTS LIKE HE DID NOTHING WE HAVE KIDS TOGETHER THEY GROWN AND GONE NOW, BUT I STILL CAN'T STAND THE SIGHT OF THAT NINGA.

[@queenshibadarling]

Listen!!! I try to bring 💯

[@MaroonRose3216]

How do your kids feel about him?

[@cathycruel9123]

I believe that Mel is smart enough to see what hotel is doing.. and I believe she will hip her new man to what hotel is doing as well. So, they’ll both be ready for whatever hotel tries to throw at them! These videos are more ammo against HIM than against Mel! Hmmm, think about it!

[@TBWL829]

I remembered when someone recorded his post an old Christmas/winter video starting from the outside to the inside with Melody cooking. I think that was last year.

[@carlastokes4448]

Yesss knowing his slick self he probably just left coleslaw house,because melody was about to bust, she was ready to have sugamama

[@Theblackbumblebee]

My ex was a narcissist!! If you want to do an interview of a child who was damaged from a narcissist and a family of narcissist. You can interview my son!! My son name is Blake Midas touch on Instagram. Now that my son is an adult. He can play back to what he thought as a child to what he some what he know as an young adult now. I was a Melody and l did so many thing's wrong because l wanted my son to have a relationship with his father and his father family.(I was wrong). Reset l, I was not bitter or mad. l just wanted to do the right for my son father. Boy, was l WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(narcissist do not give AF) I, like Melody was heavenly into the bible, the church because being that I am an southern woman from the south(North Carolina ) l wanted to do right by "God" which was WRONG!!!!!!! In my opinion and experience Melody should limited her children time with Martell. She should actually have supervised visit because Martell is sick and brainwashing those children. Martell is definitely saying things to indirectly damage Melody. She in my opinion need to stop pushing father to children relationships because HE will use those same children for bait and don't give AF that they are his!!! Martell doesn't give AF about Melody, Arrione, his children, his mother or family. ( look at Beyonce father, who didn't give AF and ghosted his two daughters for fling and fathered another child) Again you interview my son!! Peace and blessing

[@queenshibadarling]

Peace and Blessings. So happy your were able to find your way to living peacefully and wholly.

[@yogicdance240]

When a narc realizes he fumbled his supply. When he was married, Mel probably gave him THE BEST gifts! And she probably also had the kids get him gifts. And she likely made a big deal out of gifting the extended family members including Marlene and them. When a narc realizes he fumbled the supply but projects all the blame on others.

[@yogicdance240]

Astute observations, Queen! I heard him make that statement about being 40 and receiving no gifts and thought it had that ring of plausible deniability but your observations from the narc’s POV make a ton of sense in the Malignant Narcissism schema. I am also curious about your observations of Martell’s treatment of Knox. 🤨

[@gracedarlin3331]

How great a father of 5, planning to take his time, attention and resources away from them by having more children? Most parents would opt for quality over quantity.

[@Sexysally123]

I agree 💯 with everything you said he really scares me because you never know when he might just snap and harm Mel I pray that won't happen!

[@TA-fm1nq]

He’ll marry an older woman who have money and no kids.

[@andreababb7525]

You are so correct.

[@DaPhlyymamee]

Such a poignant analysis!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎯

[@tonyK5429]

I hate too say it but the only way Mel is going to get rid of this man is by way of him no longer existing this is sad

[@LindaBrown-c1s]

He only care about himself

[@angelafunkygemini]

Queen HOW AND THE HELL DO YOU GET RID OF THESE KOND OF PPL!.. WILL MEL EVER REALLY HAVE A LIFE🤔

[@queenshibadarling]

You have to pretend they never existed.

[@bettysheloves]

If you have kids-you will always have to see them at events etc. I stood on my belief, developed new friends through various charity organizations. Working to help others is very rewarding…I must admit it took me a long long time to reach this point. I have mottos on my bathroom rivers in my private places -inside closets etc 😅…I even joined an AA group (and I don’t drink😊) BUT many of the things taught there also works in a situation like this.. coping skills etc. met some very nice people from all walks of life., Remember: Success is the BEST revenge.

[@TinkMarshae]

I’m back friend. So get prepared for me to comment randomly as you speak on things. I’ll try to time stamp my repose. Hands down one the most authentic and intellectual content on KZbin.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you and welcome back!!!

[@TBWL829]

I think if he get custody of the 4 kids. He would marry Arionne. Then he get child support that would help him (them) to take care his marriage plus his 5 kids. Thank goodness his older daughter can speak to the judge. Yes, Martell can try it, but the man don't have to talk to Martell at all. Melody don't have to deal with Arionne at all, even if he married Arionne. Especially, if the judge finds out that Arionne was the woman who broke up the marriage. You are right. Martell is mad because the children didn't buy him a gift. Yes, I understand about Knox's what he doing to his son.

[@Protectblackwomen]

I wish that were true that he’d marry her but I SERIOUSLY DOUBT THAT because she’s not equal to Melody . He wants and need to be seen and can’t do that with AC . I have a need to one up on Melody and she isn’t it but SHE BY SHAREE for him would be almost an equal to MELDOY . I wants lights , camera and action (CLOUT) and she can’t do that for him . He’s really embarrassed of her

[@shirlynfranklin3400]

Good evening Queen

[@queenshibadarling]

Hey 👋🏾 there

[@anitagray6422]

Boss X miss the money. Embarrass kids all the time.

[@anitagray6422]

Has to generate air time.😗🤔

[@anitagray6422]

Dont believe hoe.

[@anitagray6422]

He cant use logical thinking.

[@anitagray6422]

Still, bad behavior makes look crazy. She dont want him. hoe, leave them alone.

[@tangajTANG]

Present 👋

[@queenshibadarling]

Hey 👋🏾 hun

[@Kisha12able]

Great 👍🏽 content 💯🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@LindaBrown-c1s]

Martell need to have a reaction to feed his ego it’s always about him!

[@queenbee9924]

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY 100% CORRECT‼️I was married to a narcissist 18 years.. Divorced in March THANK YAH‼️🙏🏽🙏🏽💯💯

[@bettysheloves]

I too was married to a narcissist, I endured this marriage for 16 years because I wanted my children to grow up in a two parent home. My Ex-husband, like Martell tried to destroy me..I didn’t know that there was a name for this type behavior…I see my Ex-husband-in ALL of the kinds of things Martell does to Mel and how he tries to be a great dad to the public etc etc. were it not for the Grace of God I could have lost my mind!!! I’m sorry that Mel has to endure this “psychotic behavior”…but please know Mel…that your situation is opening the eyes of millions of women (men) and enabling them to see that what they are experiencing is deadly to the family, heart, mind and soul😢. Mel’s hardship publicly being shown on the show Is a true example of the Biblical words “what the devil meant for evil-God used for the saving of many Souls”….Mel is my hero! I know young women who find strength in following her “Blueprint”…

[@MaroonRose3216]

@@bettysheloves how did/do you protect your kids from the evil antics? In the process of divorcing my narc with a newborn.

[@bettysheloves]

@@MaroonRose3216, sadly I could not truly protrct

[@bettysheloves]

@@MaroonRose3216 sadly there is not much you can do because we don’t think like them so each thing they do comes as a surprise to us. I read a lot of material about “parental alienation” my kids were Junior High and High School. My kids were/are still as adults confused. They are good honest educated and employed…but the emotional scars are evident to me. I developed a strong support group totally away from him. Like Mel many of our friends followed him. Just keeping my sanity from all the betrayal disappointment and verbal attacks was a full time job. I believe in God and today I stand tall in spite of the emotional abuse from him. I tried counseling for my kids but they only went a few times…cause “daddy says we don’t need counseling “ God bless you🙏

[@yogicdance240]

@@bettysheloves well said.

[@korimorris1315]

Awesome video

[@natalievalez8958]

I hate the way he exploits the kids to make himself look good, his actions have already proved he’s not a family man and the desperate people in his comments are lying to him, the reason he says money isn’t important is because he has NO OFFERS OR OPPORTUNITIES, if he had the opportunities Mel is getting he would be jump right on it full speed, and he is so JEALOUS of Mel, we all know this Boy you’re not fooling us.

[@trishk1054]

The kids are 6 , 10, and 11 years old , No phones are necessary for children that’s not even safe.

[@carlastokes4448]

Mariah will be 11 in January

[@trishk1054]

@@carlastokes4448 Right, I forgot her & Tank are Irish twins. LOL