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Narcissism Backfires

Narcissism Backfires

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@shekiLane1166
@shekiLane1166 Жыл бұрын
The only pain a narcissist feels is that they can't use you anymore
@plusone8015
@plusone8015 Жыл бұрын
😂
@viviandorseyporchia9928
@viviandorseyporchia9928 Жыл бұрын
You better believe it!
@lhyllianamarseilles
@lhyllianamarseilles Жыл бұрын
An empty shell of darkness with no soul.
@nshisamba5150
@nshisamba5150 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@conniemiller5125
@conniemiller5125 Жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍
@michaelmich00
@michaelmich00 Жыл бұрын
They dont know love, they have no empathy, they are empty
@Sourslurz
@Sourslurz Жыл бұрын
on the other hand we know love, have empathy, and we aren’t empty. as bad as it sounds at least it’s them and not us.
@evelynwieler8318
@evelynwieler8318 Жыл бұрын
Evil souls
@magicalindigoadult3838
@magicalindigoadult3838 Жыл бұрын
They have to much love they just are scared of pain so the love they want to give out hurts them
@chrisantoniou4366
@chrisantoniou4366 Жыл бұрын
The only "pain" a narcississt feels is his own. If you leave a narcissistic relationship rest assured that they will bad mouth you to appear the heroic victim, and blame you for their own failures. Narcissists NEVER change and you should NEVER go back.
@Sourslurz
@Sourslurz Жыл бұрын
nah we're the heroic victims. rose from the ashes and now we up for real
@chrisantoniou4366
@chrisantoniou4366 Жыл бұрын
@@Sourslurz Absolutely! 👍
@viviandorseyporchia9928
@viviandorseyporchia9928 Жыл бұрын
You got that right 👍!
@shawnpullen9517
@shawnpullen9517 Жыл бұрын
💯❤️
@7n1sun21
@7n1sun21 Жыл бұрын
When You Go Back, Everything Only Gets Worse.
@SalomeLempe
@SalomeLempe Жыл бұрын
After 26 years of marriage with my narcissist husband he crumbled and went into a depression mode. He lost weight and look sick. He never believed I would divorce him. He tried to secure new supplies but he doesn't last with them. He is using our children and he is not winning bcos they are older and understand his game very well. I'm not feeling sorry for him. I previously felt sorry for him many times and got burnt again and again. Now I have moved on and feel so happy and peaceful.
@narcssuckass
@narcssuckass 11 ай бұрын
Peace be with you always❤
@rochellet1333
@rochellet1333 Жыл бұрын
Never return! No Contact and live a Blessed life! No one deserves that pain.
@DnBDuBstep7777777
@DnBDuBstep7777777 Жыл бұрын
how you do this when you have kids with them?
@mariegallagher4725
@mariegallagher4725 Жыл бұрын
So, so true 👍
@23aceballer
@23aceballer Жыл бұрын
What if you feel horrible because of the loss and need them back.
@katjay3125
@katjay3125 Жыл бұрын
Get help
@littlepeartarot
@littlepeartarot Жыл бұрын
@@23aceballerthat is the trauma bond. It’s chemicals in your brain. Please know that it fades over time though sometimes it takes a very long time. Don’t go back or you start the abusive cycle over again. Trust me I have been through that. Let him back after a year and am starting all over. They don’t stop. They’re not good. They will trick you like a snake. Take care of yourself. ❤
@craigy691
@craigy691 Жыл бұрын
Nothing !!! They feel nothing they are an empty shell the only thing that matters to them is themselves nothing else
@DnBDuBstep7777777
@DnBDuBstep7777777 Жыл бұрын
true
@chanelgez2146
@chanelgez2146 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@wheres_bears1378
@wheres_bears1378 Жыл бұрын
Wishful thinking, they don’t care and neither should we
@linleycooper470
@linleycooper470 Жыл бұрын
They feel selfish pain that affects them. They never give a rats ass about you, ever!
@TheRealDeal130
@TheRealDeal130 Жыл бұрын
You just described my so-called mother exactly. For years, I couldn't understand why she hated me so much. I was so heartbroken from the neglect, intentional mistreatment, slander and suffering she put me through. Because of what she did, I was vulnerable and became a prey to narcissistic men who abused me for years. I am 46 now, and I'm starting over with my life after losing everything.
@plusone8015
@plusone8015 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@user-tu6py7de5w
@user-tu6py7de5w Жыл бұрын
Them mothers are so evil they act all innocent and they sneaky as hell i don't trust my mom
@J_van_can
@J_van_can Жыл бұрын
I understand… mine was the same.. happy I have no contact finally..
@cindymartin6307
@cindymartin6307 Жыл бұрын
I had to start over after 60 years of the abuse. I also lost everything. I am putting my life back together at 67. You can do this.
@bratbalal9042
@bratbalal9042 Жыл бұрын
You can do it, I love you
@huruduru5144
@huruduru5144 Жыл бұрын
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..
@J_van_can
@J_van_can Жыл бұрын
So agree..
@johnnycorn7225
@johnnycorn7225 Жыл бұрын
Great way to explain it, great analogy. It was proven by the fact one hundred percent of the time they always are extremely desperate to place their faults on to you and make you believe they're yours. Run run run like Forrest gump
@olivertaylor8788
@olivertaylor8788 Жыл бұрын
That's right
@yogib8
@yogib8 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think these birds feel anything!!!! I just want to heal and get better, for the first time in my life I choose me🌺💕🌺
@bratbalal9042
@bratbalal9042 Жыл бұрын
It is safe to choose god and respect you. Never disrespect utself
@hermymojica3957
@hermymojica3957 Жыл бұрын
You cannot shake my self confidence. May Panginoong Dios na makapangyarihan sa lahat.
@joserrapere5928
@joserrapere5928 Жыл бұрын
My father is a narcissist. He lashed out at me and refused to talk to me for months after he thought I was not concerned enough about him when he had an asthma attack which wasn't true. I tried to talk with him but nothing. When he seemed to start cutting off my young daughter I decided to stop all hope for reconnection. I never contacted him again. That was 10 years ago. He never tried to reach out. So not all narcissists will try to reconnect when you let go.
@jessicazavala4729
@jessicazavala4729 Жыл бұрын
I was with a narcissist for 32 years and had 3 heart attacks because of him and his ways but 2 weeks after my 3rd heart attack he said to me so your no good anymore and a couple of days later I found out that he was talking to another woman and sending her money promising her everything and telling her how beautiful she is I told him to get out and haven’t spoken to him in a month and 12 days and my health is already seeing improvement because I’m finally feeling peace
@paynebambo7546
@paynebambo7546 Жыл бұрын
Agonising experience to be around a narcissist.
@myrtenuman621
@myrtenuman621 Жыл бұрын
My mother went so far as to try and convince me my dad wasn’t my dad. She was jealous I had a good relationship with him, while I refused all contact with her. I wasn’t invited to her cremation. When I ran away from her at 14 yrs. old, she said I was a weakling to do so. My brother stayed, later he committed suicide. Somehow I keep attracting narcissists, so I lead a very secluded life now. First I have to learn to look after myself.
@monicanath4859
@monicanath4859 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for your brother’s soul and for your good health ❤❤!
@FindYourFree
@FindYourFree Жыл бұрын
glad you escaped
@myrtenuman621
@myrtenuman621 Жыл бұрын
@@monicanath4859 thank you, I’m alright.
@snicksabea
@snicksabea Жыл бұрын
Sorry about your brother. Stay strong 💪🏼 🙏🏼 It’s better to be alone than in bad company.
@siddharthalagh
@siddharthalagh Жыл бұрын
much strength to you, but please do socialize, we all need that fresh air to come in to our lives
@christinemunoz962
@christinemunoz962 Жыл бұрын
They're only upset because they were using you for one thing or another. And they lost that now they have to go and put on their mask again and fake it into another relationship. That's why they always go back into rotation with old supplies. Because it's easier to go into a carousel rotation of supplies. Then it is for them to put on a fake mask and be fake.
@dannymartinez9371
@dannymartinez9371 Жыл бұрын
After dealing with a narcissist who I believed loved me and watching so many videos on the subject, this is the absolute best and most succinct summary of their influence and desire for that continued influence. Just accept that he or she didn't love you and you are worthy of so much more. All you can do is pray for them but understand focusing on your own life and happiness should take precedent over giving he or she any new chance to prove he or she to you. Most important, understand you hurt because you are beautiful and that's why the narcissist chose you as a victim.
@user-tu6py7de5w
@user-tu6py7de5w Жыл бұрын
They feel that narcissistic injury when you give them the door slam and go no contact they so dusty💯
@isabelolsson1890
@isabelolsson1890 Жыл бұрын
There is no way in Hell that I would go back to the narcissistic abuse again. He was a Covert, hypersensitive, and fake good narcissist. I thought that he was the best man I had ever encountered. It took me six months to discover the truth, and yet he discarded me with out a word, I went no contact with him and now I se him spying on me everywhere, he is going to await until he die. Thanks again for your help.
@rayc9899
@rayc9899 Жыл бұрын
They are the same, empty soul....empty soul....
@yogib8
@yogib8 Жыл бұрын
Your story sounds just like mine. I thought I had struck gold… to find out he was gold plated was a disappointment… I married him thinking I could show him what a great lady he had , ummm , he certainly showed me… I stayed for 14 yrs thinking “change gone come” 😵‍💫NOPE! … I finally asked him for a divorce 2 1/2 years out, I never thought I would say this but he taught me my greatest lessons, I am sharper and so much wiser…, but most of all I’m seeing beautiful again…🌺
@rayc9899
@rayc9899 Жыл бұрын
@@yogib8 Their mask come out after awhile and you see the devil inside of them.
@MrExtraFINESSEtrial
@MrExtraFINESSEtrial Жыл бұрын
The sad truth is they may never change. Even worse, they may truly die alone. The worst ending of all. They still won't regret their actions or take accountability.
@ShadowKing1993
@ShadowKing1993 Жыл бұрын
They don’t feel anything. They just move on to another unsuspecting victim.
@ShadowKing1993
@ShadowKing1993 Жыл бұрын
@paulbarosan But when you cut them off it's not their fault it's yours. They're soo quick to shift the blame on to you and its your fault for what they do to you. They are truly sick minded individuals 😂
@samsonimeh
@samsonimeh Жыл бұрын
I was with a Narcissist for thirty years, and during this period, I lost my self esteem because he made me believe no man will harbour me for a week. When I left, he didn't believe it and was still sending me derogatory messages until I blocked him. When he talks to the children on phone I will be his topic. Even twelve years after walking away, he's still stalking me, but I have made up my mind, no going back. I learnt sometimes he'll be crying for no just reason.
@lucyannmcwilliams3889
@lucyannmcwilliams3889 Жыл бұрын
I HAD TO LEAVE THE STATE. 46 YRS OF MARRIAGE. SO DONE W ABUSE. PLEASE BE CAREFUL.. GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HIM. . SOMEHOW , FOR YOUR PROTECTION.. CHANGE CAR AND LOCATION. I MOVED OUT OF STATE. I HAD TO. I WAS SO SICK. MY DR. TRANSFERRED ME TO GET CARE AT A MUCH HIGHER LEVEL OF CARE. DIFFICULT?? YES! I HAVE MORE PEACE. I AM SO THANKFUL. I HAVE HEARD SOME TERRIBLY HORRIFIC STORIES. DO NOT TELL ANYONE WHERE YOU ARE. 😢🎉❤❤❤BLESSINGS DEAR ONE❤🎉❤🎉
@robinchilds7492
@robinchilds7492 Жыл бұрын
He ended the relationship but got angry when I calmly walked away.
@danielborrowdale3903
@danielborrowdale3903 Жыл бұрын
When the person is a hollow empty soul with no respect for themselves and thus no respect for you, your an object to be used if you don't work they go get a new object.
@keithgriffiths9864
@keithgriffiths9864 Жыл бұрын
They feel ' inconvenienced '
@joltjolt5060
@joltjolt5060 Жыл бұрын
They panic because you made the best slave and they gotta get a new one.
@elafayettestone1799
@elafayettestone1799 Жыл бұрын
They feel nothing. If they had feelings they would not treat you so bad
@MH_Prof
@MH_Prof Жыл бұрын
Narc I dated kept a harem of all women from past relationships. Some refused to participate and others just couldn’t get enough. You were not to leave the harem unless he dismissed you. You could not leave unless instructed to do so. I left without permission. I have no idea how he reacted as all contact was cut and blocked. I did not care how he reacted as long as he stayed away.
@6AxisSage
@6AxisSage Жыл бұрын
Andrew tate?
@TheRealDeal130
@TheRealDeal130 Жыл бұрын
​@@6AxisSage😂
@ruffian-wl1nd
@ruffian-wl1nd Жыл бұрын
They feel nothing because they have already moved on to the next person.
@makelifematter1896
@makelifematter1896 Жыл бұрын
As I told mine after I told him he destroyed my world after being there for him and his family for almost 30 yrs..but after the stages of what we go through to heal I told him the other day "You will never ever get over me I was the best you ever had you will never admit but we both know the truth and your G.F. you left me for good luck"
@sabrinapetersen5358
@sabrinapetersen5358 Жыл бұрын
Never go back with a narcissist and other narcissists that they know you are better off being with out these kinds of people you need God in your life not a dishonest man or woman that he knows or his fake acting friend either! Who took advantage of you too no contact is what you need to do with these disfunctional people!
@alemayehuwoldemichael585
@alemayehuwoldemichael585 Жыл бұрын
God Almighty take these evil cruel, shameless people out of our ways and out of the lives of our children!! They are indeed toxuc!
@erickriebel4366
@erickriebel4366 Жыл бұрын
A true narcissist will find another victim. The only remorse that they will possibly have as if they were getting cash and they lost a cash cow. Other than that they are on for their next person that they can get whatever they're trying to get and whatever they're looking for. I truly narcissist does not have any feelings.
@Jane-rc2rk
@Jane-rc2rk Жыл бұрын
Nothing … he feels nothing; how else do you cut your own children out of your life? Swap your own flesh and blood for a woman the same age as your daughters? And then ignore them? Nothing … he feels nothing but hatred for me.
@mariankeller5852
@mariankeller5852 Жыл бұрын
After putting you through Hell why would you care what they feel? I put up with emotional and physical abuse ..he deserves to suffer the same ..
@jozsiolah1435
@jozsiolah1435 Жыл бұрын
People don’t really go away, only when they die. When someone dies and becomes resurrected using another body, the same happens.
@SarahJacksonLV
@SarahJacksonLV Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today
@texasrefugee7888
@texasrefugee7888 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, you described my ex perfectly. Also how he used the children after I left that was the worst.😢😢
@Thegamehhh449
@Thegamehhh449 Жыл бұрын
Why do they try to manipulate the children I don’t understand that’s so evil
@kekesepheka4877
@kekesepheka4877 Жыл бұрын
They are evil
@VashneeAbiya-bm2si
@VashneeAbiya-bm2si Жыл бұрын
Narcissist mind: It's not my fault. You've done mistake and you left. You deserve that. I will start another game with someone.
@ruffian-wl1nd
@ruffian-wl1nd Жыл бұрын
They also say "I never promised you anything. ", " I don't know what you're so mad about.." or "I feel I did nothing wrong."
@susankibbey400
@susankibbey400 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this info. It really helps.
@evelynwieler8318
@evelynwieler8318 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to hear they suffer a little....this sick a$%& are soooo dangerous. I'm so damage after I went through I hope the worsttttttt.for him.😡
@MJ-qb5ph
@MJ-qb5ph Жыл бұрын
They will feel victory!!!!!
@tonyahenry8166
@tonyahenry8166 Жыл бұрын
Narcissist don’t care if you’re gone they pick another victim & move on
@angelosantaniello4113
@angelosantaniello4113 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@noelineheynsbergh8538
@noelineheynsbergh8538 Жыл бұрын
This is so true indeed, and encouraging, that you take the right decision,
@karenharris3808
@karenharris3808 Жыл бұрын
that how everyone feels with a loss
@Missybella92227
@Missybella92227 Жыл бұрын
They’ve replaced you already. If not they’re working on it!
@mortischahicks5341
@mortischahicks5341 7 ай бұрын
No Contact! No Contact! No Contact! 50 days today!
@keithmasters6118
@keithmasters6118 4 ай бұрын
they feel nothing, they just find someone else. I left her and never heard from her again.
@arthurzettel6618
@arthurzettel6618 Жыл бұрын
No more power to have control over someone or others. A narcissist discarded is another tyrant humbled.
@andrewromano-fw5vp
@andrewromano-fw5vp Жыл бұрын
I am in extensive therapy because of this. And the only resolution to me moving on is the therapist. Is trying to help me cope with accepting that? There's a strong chance. I will never see my daughter again.
@heyitsfp
@heyitsfp Жыл бұрын
This sadly doesn't work in a co-parenting scenario
@Vicky-jh3ci
@Vicky-jh3ci Жыл бұрын
Involve the authorities.
@bobandcarolehardy10
@bobandcarolehardy10 Жыл бұрын
They never anticipate it , because they never ever deserve it , you are supposed to endure assault , theft , revenge , lies , you must obey , their threats are terrifying , they are devils 👺, , you have to stand in your power when you decide to run , you. cannot live in fear , , pray for protection , , and call the police if necessary , no one has the right , to control another’s life , , but they think other wise , ,
@AdamantlyAdams
@AdamantlyAdams Жыл бұрын
My experiences are with my mother. She's a trip! I'm not wasting my time
@derekboyt3383
@derekboyt3383 Жыл бұрын
Many people are hurt and suffer deeply after a relationship ends. Many lash out as a result of this pain. This does not necessarily make them a narc. If however the attacks they take on you are lies and an attempt to destroy you then I you probably are dealing with someone who has an elevated or disorderly personality. Many of the these relationships involve people that struggle to regulate emotions. The Empath and the narc is a very common relationship. Both have a need for an emotional connection that exceeds what is reasonably expected in a healthy relationship. When ties are broken both suffer and often lash out. What I’m saying is that it’s important for both to recognize their role in this outcome. Yes, a departure and separation is needed to ensure a return to health but there is also a need to recognize and prevent choosing another partner with the same characteristics. Continue your empathy. Go to therapy to heal. Stay out of relationships until you have completely healed. When you eventually start a new relationship be patient. A narc will want instant access to all of your emotions and will use manipulation and drama to get it so patience will help you identify and avoid a bad bond. Wait until you identify a healthy person before having sex. Sex will create easy gratification and premature bonding at the expense of your long term emotional health. Stay strong, be well, love yourself, and seek out people with high character and values to surround you.
@craigy691
@craigy691 11 ай бұрын
Nothing !!! They will just move onto the next supply as everyone is an object to them nothing more!!!
@andrewromano-fw5vp
@andrewromano-fw5vp Жыл бұрын
Very sadly, at the end of your video. Explaining that narcissist will use children that they had together This happened to me. My daughter is now a strange. I have not seen her for 6 years. Although just a few months ago, after 6 complete years, I see her and her narcissistic mother. I woke up and before I said a word the narcissistic mother. Turn to me and curse me out. Vulgar language and threatened to call the cops on me. When all I wanted to do was lovingly speak with my daughter. This bothered me dearly because I did nothing to hurt them. I offered them money to stay afloat financially and I continually text my daughter asking her if she is okay telling her how much I love her which I do dearly that is patent. And no responses. I believe the daughter is afraid of the mother and her rage and possibly threat to throw her out. If she speaks to me, her father and the daughter does not want to betray the mother. So I'm left alone and it's strange from a beautiful daughter who I love dearly.
@andrewromano-fw5vp
@andrewromano-fw5vp Жыл бұрын
I text my daughter 277 times And no response and I sent her a $100. Check for her birthday with a loving card. And she never catched the check, but she never got it. Because the mother intercept the check.
@Critic-qn3hg
@Critic-qn3hg Жыл бұрын
It's like a virus 🦠 you get rid of it ,,you feel 😃 great, but don't be a yoyo and go back,😢 or a yo-yo keeps coming back 😮 your critic ❓🤔🧐
@JB-js4ir
@JB-js4ir Жыл бұрын
Lather rinse repeat… nothing new here, say it again and again until free
@gloriacato7761
@gloriacato7761 Жыл бұрын
When a,narcissist is searching for a partner, are their certain characteristics that particularly, interest them?
@anneofgreengables1619
@anneofgreengables1619 Жыл бұрын
Subservience
@gregmosk
@gregmosk Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Seer-yr9bn
@Seer-yr9bn Жыл бұрын
This is sad
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 Жыл бұрын
Devil 😈
@christinemunoz962
@christinemunoz962 Жыл бұрын
Aaahhhh poor wittle babies 😢😢😢😢😢
@user-rd3me1dc3i
@user-rd3me1dc3i Жыл бұрын
This is describing me, and my trying to save my narc and my relationship. She is victim too. All these narcissist videos have changed..?
@AnnieGrace777
@AnnieGrace777 Жыл бұрын
😂 he will just move on like he always did
@Wendy-LeeRattenbury
@Wendy-LeeRattenbury Жыл бұрын
Learnt that they are indeed Soul - Less , my ex even reckoned he was above God and would deal with that when he time came - boy , I hope so.
@subramanimani9779
@subramanimani9779 Жыл бұрын
Lovely podcast slowly and steadily discreetly leave without being hurtful after all covert narcs are not violent
@Corsina
@Corsina Жыл бұрын
Not always true. They can be very violent if provoked enough.
@twinny555
@twinny555 Жыл бұрын
Disagree. Violence is not their MO when it comes to control in a relationship, but it doesn’t preclude them from using it and most are willing.
@subramanimani9779
@subramanimani9779 Жыл бұрын
@@twinny555 yaa may be true also because violence is also not ruled out in some cases
@Vicky-jh3ci
@Vicky-jh3ci Жыл бұрын
They work their flying monkeys into becoming violent.
@twinny555
@twinny555 Жыл бұрын
@@subramanimani9779 when there’s a change in circumstances that affects the control they have over the victim e.g. end of the relationship and sometimes their own life as well e.g. reputation, non-violent individuals often progress to serious violence very quickly. Especially where stalking is involved.
@rambultruesdell3412
@rambultruesdell3412 Жыл бұрын
Remove the keystone and even a good bridge may crumble and fall
@Mariyahfatima
@Mariyahfatima 11 ай бұрын
Be a narcissist back go and ruin the new supply relationship and leave again..
@P4Eight
@P4Eight Жыл бұрын
This video is fundamentally wrong. Anyone who gets discarded goes through pain, confusion, regret. And if you were discarded by a narc who was cheating and eventually replaced you before they discarded you, you will be hurt, you'll be depressed, you'll be angry. You might even act erratic for some time. This does not mean you're the narc, it means you've been victimized by one and it causes severe damage. Total misinformation here
@leed.scottjr8938
@leed.scottjr8938 Жыл бұрын
AMEN THIS is TRUE ?????
@hermymojica3957
@hermymojica3957 Жыл бұрын
Sa Pinakamakapangyarihang Dios aco nag re rely, hindi sa gawa ng tao.
@lindavincent678
@lindavincent678 Жыл бұрын
Aside from all bad thing he said to me. Not too many compliments sometimes acted like he left alone are didn’t have an out to get out of this situation. We’ve been married since 2009 we were together in March 1999 and the first seven years were wonderful and then I guess people change a little bit out some people don’t like it, but what drilling did you get when it was good? What was that feeling? Like what is it superior or self cell or blah well they like your supply, so just have fun with different aspects infield you know it here a lot of them are introverted he is somewhat. He definitely knows how to manipulate into that or I’m dreaming had them arrested twice for domestic violence going to court tomorrow for more. Stay tuned.
@mofralojan
@mofralojan Жыл бұрын
How is this different from a normal response to loss of a deep and meaningful attachment?
@katjay3125
@katjay3125 Жыл бұрын
Because they never loved you it was usery
@TRUTHSEEKER-wp6si
@TRUTHSEEKER-wp6si Жыл бұрын
In my case, She had her Plan B ready. She told me I am too toxic and this won't work out. Due to financial reasons she is switching the state. I didn't saw it coming and it was out of no-where. The hilarious part is she started crying and told me to not drink and take care of myself. I didn't fought much and let her go. After a week she told me she can't live without me and I am the love of her life. It seems she forgot the part where I was toxic. I said No but she tried convinced me that whatever happened it was a big misunderstanding. I remind her that she has plans of switching states and it's kinda permanent how will it work out ? It came a shocker to me when she said " Don't take me that seriously, Enjoy the phase .... I m okay even if you make other Girlfriend but stay till I am here .... I can't leave you that easily ? " I was taken a back as I came from a conservative background and she's too... We mutually decided to go for a monogamous relationship. How can someone whom I respected, admired and for whom I am constantly trying to be a better person say such things to me ? I said it in her face to find someone else as I won't buy this. For a few week I was in utter disbelief and was facing serious withdrawal.The pain is real to the core . I am a jolly person and tries to find happiness in small things . Burying the light ain't my thing. I was in hope that she might be doing it in anger as I cross questioned her sometimes . I thought maybe I am too conservative. One day I drank and went back to her but she told me that I am scaring her now .... But then told me to stay for somewhile ... She told me that I can stay for this day and they we can depart. She was asking me, I was good drunk and was speaking my first thought .... She asked me some of her stuffs like " why I love her so much ? " And " why I don't trust her ? " .... I told her I saw you with that other guy talking and just want to clear your position with him .... She told me " why it has to be always about you ? " I was drunk but this still made no sense to me . I gave everything to this relationship and gained nothing out of it and she says " it's all about me ?". I didn't fought and came back home defeated. I cried that day hard. I rarely do that but this broke me to the core. My faith was shaken. I was clueless and thought, Is fidelity is too much to ask in a relationship ? For few months I went no contact with her. Someone told me that she is in relationship with some new guy. It was not the person I saw her with, I went to that guy whom I saw her with (first one ) and his state was same as mine and actually worse. I came to know that he was unaware that she was already in a relationship and he left her when he came to know what she is doing. I laughed, cause now I know atleast I am not insane to question her. The new guy she is with ... Is in some higher position. They both are together planning to move out of town. The crazy part was she still wanted me to be there so she is cheating on that rich guy too. Maybe cause I am her biggest source of ego boost ? Call her whatever, But this is the women I trusted my life with. I use to honour her but now I just feel stupid. The second was too a nice dude. He too wanted the same, a normal traditional girl from town, a women of faith whom he can trust on with eyes closed. Now I honour those women more who are blunt to my face and says that they want money and power. Atleast they are honest and I know what to chase and I see no harm in this. Sorry for my bad grammer, I am not a native speaker. Now tell me if it's a normal response to a breakup ??
@blastprosful
@blastprosful Жыл бұрын
Unless they monkey branched. A narcissist doesn't feel remorse because they're never wrong. They only care about themselves
@brar6146
@brar6146 Жыл бұрын
What about spells and ritualsthat are sent your way BINDING?
@magicalindigoadult3838
@magicalindigoadult3838 Жыл бұрын
But I found is job number on google and he hung up the phone when they gave it to him. He’s really stuck up so he’s not even reading my messages on insta it’s been 3 months last time it was 3 years Gemini only gave me a chance to be his friend after his friends moved to another state. This time he made friends with an old friend so it was easy to block me after so many years everyday coming to my apt to silence so why some don’t come back even when they are in pain he said it before that he will just stay depressed other than looking for me
@williamheinsinger7390
@williamheinsinger7390 Жыл бұрын
Bye FELICIA 👋
@MarcMolk
@MarcMolk Жыл бұрын
You're a covert advocate for narcs. You say don't return and in the mean time trigger all reasons to return. People, be careful here !!!
@sleepydoppy8516
@sleepydoppy8516 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had left her. But I allowed her to cheat on me 3 times and she even tried to kill herself, I think. Anyway what are they doing after they throw you out.
@runexscapexBotz
@runexscapexBotz Жыл бұрын
Keep WALKING in silence! Head up with a smile!
@sleepydoppy8516
@sleepydoppy8516 Жыл бұрын
@@runexscapexBotz ty. And ok. I am trying
@PeterShaw-ne1yq
@PeterShaw-ne1yq Жыл бұрын
It was her rage why I dumped her 🤔
@sleepydoppy8516
@sleepydoppy8516 Жыл бұрын
@PeterShaw-ne1yq her rage in the beginning was crazy but once the boys came into the picture, she went from loud rage to silence rage and only had to use her eye to tell me to die.
@PeterShaw-ne1yq
@PeterShaw-ne1yq Жыл бұрын
@sleepydoppy8516 silent rage is one hallmark of narcs demeanour! It is called passive- aggressive, and they maintain it for their lifetime. 😉
@JJShalashaska
@JJShalashaska Жыл бұрын
Ok so now what should I do? I have a narcissist friend who I discovered to be a narcissist only one year ago after many years of her ghosting and disappearing...in the early stages of our friendship she was lovely (too much) and according to her I was the best and most handsome man in the world. Then she started disappearing "because she needed time for herself" and showed back only each 2-3 months. Knowing her troubles with depression, I tried to respect and keep caring her. Until I decided to go no contact 2 months ago in response to her upteenth ghosting activity. And she texted me calling with nice names, operating a soft love bombing. But I kept silent...and she wrote me again after another week to "apologize" confessing me that she had tried to stalk me through people, adding my brother (who she doesn't even know personally!)on a false account she had created on purpose to gather informations about me😮 Basically because "she was worried to lose me"...but not because she was worried about me or my health, probably she's just worried that I understood her true nature! So now I don't know what to do. If I accuse her she will react badly. If I ghost her back, she will invade my privacy and involve my family into her madness... I should only be hypocrite, ignoring her and hoping she could move to a new supply...
@treatpeoplewithkindness5466
@treatpeoplewithkindness5466 Жыл бұрын
🙏🫂🌹
@marvkwia3973
@marvkwia3973 Жыл бұрын
What happens if there was a he and a she . That would be nice to see.
@cliffdenis144
@cliffdenis144 Жыл бұрын
Stop being delusional guys no full human being who doesn't fell pain mentally, emotional that how we were made
@Bronte866
@Bronte866 Жыл бұрын
Helpful if you’d get to the point instead of stalling with filler & fluff to get viewer time. 👎
@Howl909
@Howl909 Жыл бұрын
I'd watch this video but I dont care
@ninecatsmagee8384
@ninecatsmagee8384 Жыл бұрын
A whole bunch of robot-read bullshit. Move on is my advice!
@neo-lt8nt
@neo-lt8nt Жыл бұрын
I know this will sound cocky even extremely rude but all a narrasist can feel is a dick in em or excitement from harming other's.
@B1Goddest
@B1Goddest Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@johntim3491
@johntim3491 Жыл бұрын
In my experience, self appointed so called "empaths" are just as cruel, uncaring and blaming as narcissists. It's no wonder narcissists never trusted them from the beginning.
@Cranberries87
@Cranberries87 Жыл бұрын
A lot of narcissists call themselves “empaths” to fool people and make them think they are caring and emotional.
@johntim3491
@johntim3491 Жыл бұрын
@@Cranberries87 I would say the number of covert narcissists now outnumbers overt narcissists...its easier to get way with ... but boy these people are full of hate anger and a need to get for revenge on someone ... all the while excusing their own dehumanising judgements about people not being real people, excusing their own callous behaviour and enjoying the pain they inflict .. only to eager to discuss their twisted victories over their so called tormentors.
@yasanthajayawardena5931
@yasanthajayawardena5931 Жыл бұрын
Quite true, it takes time for us to realise that's quite opposite
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