When A White Boy Marries Into A Brown Family

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[@supimpanda2312]

"Just the ones that I like" "Theres like 5 people on this list" If that isn't relatable

[@ElohimsAgape]

Frfr...

[@bathsalt79]

People like that have high emotional intelligence.

[@OHOE1]

Brown family? He means black

[@9SRR]

ya uh.. 1 for me lol

[@kermit5822]

Everyone else disowned us 😌💅🏾

[@frommahisdesk]

"What will other people think?" That's the most relatable thing ever

[@felixsarmpit]

Sad

[@easky2876]

yeah and thats a really big problem with many cultures (including mine)

[@sanaali6439]

Exactly! Like all that matters is what will other people think??!!

[@frommahisdesk]

@@sanaali6439 And we don't even know the names of those other people.

[@elishawildish5067]

@@sanaali6439 yeah parents/elders mind/thoughts be like that

[@leechoi5671]

My moms Mexican and my dads Irish, they had 1,000 people at their wedding. I think the whole town showed up. Didn’t know what he was getting into 😂😂

[@lola_myl5715]

My small town has less than 1000 people 🤯 he had more people at his wedding than people in my town!!!!!

[@haydenhungerford9639]

​@@lola_myl5715I regret to inform you that yoy do not live in a town, you live in a village. You are a villager.

[@coffeecup1482]

Yeah you have to invite everyone when you’re Irish, I swear like you get your family and friends to invite people you’ve never met 😭

[@randomacc5107]

bro my dads mexican and my moms irish

[@willunawonderland5453]

@@haydenhungerford9639hrrmmmmm

[@SR-rz9uj]

“As long as we’re quiet”, as an Arab/middle easterner, two of us can’t be quiet in a library lolol.

[@hamzasultan96]

​@@320_allstarha...ha.

[@ivarisalie8759]

"what is everybody gonna think" "Who cares?" My man

[@roomtemperatureones63]

Man yall need some seasoning in yo lives. Thats just sad, like boiled chicken.

[@tuckerrichardson2606]

Thats the most relatable thing for me lol

[@pazthepole2814]

@@roomtemperatureones63 and that’s u will never be happy always to bothered about what others have to say notice how the most successful ppl don’t.....

[@wokeil]

@@roomtemperatureones63 Ofcourse you care about your loved ones opinions but if they disagree with you without a good reason then thats a completely valid sentiment. Too many people live their lifes to make other people happy. No one really cares about you like that except your mother.

[@roomtemperatureones63]

@@pazthepole2814 i like how yall are bothered by my comment and trying to give me life lessons. 😘

[@crackheadjay2543]

“Just the ones that I like” “There’s like 5 people on this list!” I can’t- that is way to relatable lmao

[@DragonOnStrike]

@KELECHUKWU IWUNZE oh my 😭😭

[@ashleydeialorita]

Ikr lmao

[@saf5210]

@KELECHUKWU IWUNZE they dont-

[@Jarl3169]

@KELECHUKWU IWUNZE no

[@saf5210]

@KELECHUKWU IWUNZE no. they aren’t both caucasians.

[@kaitlynsalas8337]

As a white girl who married a Mexican guy I can totally relate......not only with weddings, but literally every get -together, party, or “family” event.

[@alykat3856]

I'm gonna be marrying into a mexican-guatemalan family, I feel this 😂

[@LorenaArrioja]

I'm Mexican, this is sooo true

[@norakbubbles]

I recently went to a persian wedding and I can confirm that this is 100% accurate 😆 You two are adorable together ❤

[@kay01blank]

I read this as prison wedding and I was both confused and intrigued 😂

[@sydneyslaughter7163]

Who’re we kidding, this is EVERY wedding.

[@jahyamack8359]

I’ve never seen someone put who and are together.

[@danlol1042]

@@jahyamack8359 I just noticed that, I've never seen that either. I don't think it is a real word lol

[@aveisi9740]

I want it to be a real word though...

[@elliswebster7041]

@@jahyamack8359 are you all ok? It definitely is a real word

[@nicolakent1622]

@@danlol1042 ofcorse its a real word😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 its an abreviation of who are , just like the word "we're" is abreviated for "we are" or they're is they are

[@cobaltocean7938]

"theres like only 5" "thats all the people who i like" YES- my family hates eachother with a passion xD

[@JessicaJasinski]

thats a lot of money saved on a wedding. 🤣 my family hates eachother also.

[@benjaminbonilla9464]

Sameeeee

[@Jordanmarissa]

Same my family plays favorites they remember everyone else’s birthday but mine.😔 It’s fine I got all the people who care about me

[@AnakinandPadme1231]

Same

[@ScalyRaptor1944]

Mmmm!!!! Wow that is relatable. . .

[@winsuma8253]

“As long as we’re quiet.” So naive it’s hilarious💀💀

[@lillylunapotter8079]

Several of my friends did away with separate sides for each spouse because they had one with a large family and one with a small or not supportive family and one did a walk around with all the chairs to the middle instead of a traditional (in the USA where I am) isle and it was beautiful! I highly recommend inviting everyone you want and just having everyone get together as long as both sides are full of loving respectful people 💕💕

[@nwabisamkhize8054]

"There's 200 there" As an African girl who's been to many weddings I cannot stress how true this is.

[@NotMe-rs8ev]

Not just poc do this🥲 I hate having to socialize

[@LeHyperTech]

As a white that needs respect👍 (I have never been to a wedding xD)

[@mayasua3501]

Lol right it’s like 300 people

[@saadousalami3874]

Rttttt theres the cousins the other cousins and the cousins you dont know and dont forget the aunts omggggg

[@jillianlovell5016]

My stepmom (who is not like the stereotypical ones) she organizes weddings and she’s aloud to bring family since we always help her decorate too, but basically this one time we went too a Indian wedding and let me tell you that I have never experienced anything truly like that, of course the reception and everything was beautiful but I just wasn’t in the moment tho I was so happy I could watch them get wed :)

[@anjaliraju9832]

I’m Indian and in a normal wedding there are usually more than 3000 people💀

[@andrea-me4ou]

I don't even know 3000 people🤣

[@angieje]

Omg Nctzen hiii

[@anjaliraju9832]

@@angieje YESSS HEYYY

[@priyanshigupta918]

Right

[@forevera3701]

@@andrea-me4ou even if we don't know them we have invite everyone like our parents'relatives friends my friends all the distant distant relatives ya ......... Edit:and their families

[@adamjosm]

My wife is Mexican and I can totally relate, especially on the guest list part. 😂

[@joycehabib3219]

I can understand lol When my family friends have a party, we have all the moms make at least 4 trays of food and bring it to the party so that there is like three thousand dollars worth of food😂

[@chickenfeeet]

as a Mexican/German who attended at these weddings I can confirm this is 100% accurate

[@camila-aaliyah]

as a mexican/german it was pretty equal on both sides for me

[@fightersanchez3508]

Wow a combo i never thought about whats that like? From a mexican/mexican

[@sarah213]

As an Arab when there’s a wedding my family adds people they barely even know lmao they’ll be like yeah he’s your great grandma’s best friends son 😭

[@Syedgaming00786]

Just like as Brown

[@Potatocius]

Indians too 😂😂 There are, Like hundreds of Relatives I don't know but they show up at every event

[@Abbyravenclaw92]

Ahahahhaahahahhaahhaahahahhahaha so truuuuuuuuue

[@user-ch7hn8dd8j]

Ikr, one time a random family was invited. We asked why and the couple said they talked to them at the line in Costco. This might have been my dream or something but I would not be surprised if it happened

[@acheesysensation7047]

@@user-ch7hn8dd8j 😂

[@GeoffYTb]

I’m Peruvian/German, living in America, and I can say that we also have like hundreds of guests at our weddings, and large buffets.

[@kyroskiller]

she asked how many people, and I instinctively said five. LMAO XD

[@sere-san_5876]

‘It’s all the people that I like’ My Indian mom:It doesn’t matter if you like them, the only thing that matters is that they exist and that you can gossip about them at the wedding -

[@stephaniepittaluga5057]

😂

[@v.marcoq.1393]

Purr. El chismecito (gossip) is a must in every wedding

[@THEFIRST39]

Indian mom was/is a smartie.

[@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222]

Lmfao.

[@ash-bh6ts]

And they must bring a gift

[@serafina1335]

The thing with brown family’s : If u invite this aunt , u have to invite her sister if u have to invite her sister u have to invite her husband and parents if u invite the parents you have to invite their cousins and siblings if u invite them u have to invite their kids and so on if u invite this family friend u have to invite the mutual friend of their family friend if u invite them u have to invite their kids and so on ……… because if u don’t they judge u and Egyptians are NOT quiet about their opinions 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@idkthisisjustaplacewhereal8120]

So the whole world cause everyone is connected in some way

[@brittanylooper]

bye this is the most relatable thing ever

[@user-xx6pu6ij1g]

I am egyptian and girl I understand you and there is always that one aunty giving you the bad looks🤚😀

[@atl1563]

Me a Mexican brown girl get you lol same thing with us. I wanted a small intimate wedding. But my family spread the word and we had over 300 people at our wedding 😓

[@astanopasta]

Lol wow tell me more about Egyptian culture this wedding thing sounds similar to what we have in India, tho not this much now. But one thing is there that if a family comes they can bring just anyone with them, their friend, their cousin whoever, you cannot deny a guest.

[@butlerdude7237]

Yeah this is so true as a Mexican when I go visit my abuelita and there's a big celebration which is basically every time I visit there's a whole town's worth of tios, tias, and cousins who were able to visit.

[@arsheenzahid1972]

Desi weddings be like: i have to invite my aunt's nephew's best friend's dog also 🤣

[@tbfly77]

My wedding seriously. Latin people 😂 my parents invited the whole town and church. I stood there struggling to remember everyone I met since childhood.

[@FishieFat]

I’m so nervous for mine because I want a simple wedding and I just KNOW my mom is going to “help” me invite the whole of Peru 😭

[@soomalimidnimowadajir5688]

As somalis too ahhhhh

[@Mistah_J]

This was my first thought too. If he were Latino, that would be one massive guest list. 😂

[@hiandbye2807]

‘In my culture we are so big on food and family!’ Literally every single culture lmao

[@chadfalardeau5396]

It's one of the few truly universal things

[@rojaligajula2184]

Yeh Latinos Arabs Asians South Asians Greeks all of them share these family values. I guess it's just northern Europeans, Australians n Americans who don't haha

[@elizahamiltonfan4401]

@@rojaligajula2184 as an American we do share these beliefs

[@kenetrice]

@@rojaligajula2184 have you been to America? I cant speak for the rest of America but in the South, food and family is our life.

[@papazachariouu]

@@rojaligajula2184 Yep im greek of u don't invite the whole family and neighborhood its not a complete list

[@sequoia2648]

this is why i LOVE muslim/arabic/lebanese weddings! there’s so much people and it’s always SO much fun!! i once went to a lebanese wedding and the drums were so exciting! i’d love to go to another one.

[@daviddaniels6473]

Y'all are so entertaining! Thank you for being you!

[@direnbhatsavesoil9628]

"we are inviting like 200 people" *proceeds to give him 6 Qurans*

[@lilianrose715]

I’m weak 😂😂😂

[@hms267]

Those were other books😊

[@pacifist_SA]

They're not books of Quran lol

[@direnbhatsavesoil9628]

@Venom Jutt bro u take a joke too seriously.. Anyway, Quran is one. I agree. But you have a Quran at your home, I have one at my home. Now does it make 2 Qurans. Right? In that context I'm talking..

[@direnbhatsavesoil9628]

@@Patriotic8422 angrezi ni aati na tereko?? Tabhi ni samajh paya..

[@lemonadewithsnacks3733]

I am African and the traditional wedding is for the whole community 🤣🤣🤣 You don't really have control of the number of people that will show up. But with a traditional wedding (the more the merrier)

[@ushnamashaldanish5556]

Okay that's kinda super sweett. Its so nice... But like ... How do you arrange for food !!?? And the space ... If u dk the number estimate :O

[@womenrule7869]

Yes my mom's big southern family I cannot control the flow of people.

[@selenad7457]

@@ushnamashaldanish5556 there's usually alot of food and sometimes there's to much my mom spent two days just cooking food ofcourse she slept but yea

[@sov_brandon5901]

I never understood people who plan a wedding to impress everyone else like its YOUR wedding for YOUR big day not for EVERYONE ELSE.

[@haleemasajid2917]

This is exactly true in my case . In my wedding from my side almost 500+ people, most of them I don’t know or met , before and after wedding. True Pakistani wedding

[@fatemep1113]

My parents had 800 people at their wedding, and it still was considered small.

[@carymnuhgibrilsamadalnasud1222]

Lol

[@abdallajotaro1525]

Let me guess one was Irish and the other was arab

[@avleenrandhawa2492]

Indian weddings be like: Bride: mom who is that? Mom: oh, you know my cousins best friend from when she lived in dehli's wife's, aunt twice removed. She is her dog's old owner. No cap they really be inviting everyone they ever met or that is barely related to them AND they remember who everyone is and their names.

[@kashvi2441]

Dude ikr! 😂 And then my parents get surprised when I forget who more than half the people are -_-

[@avleenrandhawa2492]

@@kashvi2441 exactly🤣 Im wasting my memory on y=mx+b and the anatomy of a plant My mom be wasting her memory on remembering everyone who is not technically related to her but still considered related.

[@sukhvinderkaur7725]

@@kashvi2441 my moms always going psycho when it when it comes to weddings

[@supernova7848]

Truuuue!!!😂😂😂

[@kashvi2441]

@@sukhvinderkaur7725 haha same tho! i literally *do not* understand how their brain works 😅

[@kathrynjames6151]

Reminds me of my parents wedding story. Dad's side had roughly 150 people attend and moms had the remaining 50 plus guests.

[@hassangias273]

Her expressions are so desi. Loved it!!!

[@NS-ln7tf]

"White boy" U mean american boy In poland everone is white and we have masive weddings

[@Name-yv2zq]

@@Mr1237 No, we do. I'll never go there though since they have so much lgbt hate.

[@AndrewDoom]

@@Name-yv2zq lol have fun being accepted as lgbt in African and muslim countries

[@NS-ln7tf]

@@Name-yv2zq ye for good reasons besause they vandalise churches and religious symbols shout perverted mesages and distrupt people i dont mind if u gay but if you are gona march and act like its some celepration then you will be discriminated sors

[@whowouldntsimpforjin5564]

@@AndrewDoom I accept here I’m somali muslim But I don’t live in Africa

[@lucaa.6406]

White just describes European diaspora not mainland Europeans

[@mediocregardener9195]

I'm with the white boy, keep things simple.

[@kayf_ahmad]

Thats the Islamic way

[@hammadhussain3082]

@@kayf_ahmad Haven't seen literally one Muslim follow the "Islamic way".

[@nobody6317]

@@hammadhussain3082 keep things simple in terms of decorations, venue, money spent(not buying overly expensive stuff), etc. The more people, the better, I believe

[@hammadhussain3082]

@@nobody6317 You need to visit South Asia buddy. More people and keeping things simple in terms of decor, venue, money is inversely proportional.

[@nobody6317]

@@hammadhussain3082 nope not at all. You don’t even need decorations, so that’s out of the equation. And for a venue, you don’t need a fancy palace. You can have it at a simple place. No matter how big it is, it can be simple. And for money spent, yeah of course you’ll need more money if more people are there, but it can still be kept simple, you can have normal dishes people generally like, instead of ordering too many different food, from expensive restaurants. Simplicity is possible despite the quantity of people Also I was talking about how it should be done, not how it is done

[@cpmow831]

The “just the ones that I like” got me because that would be me.

[@dellawheeler1034]

😅 I felt this, I had a handful of guest, most of our list was made up of my husbands large family. And everyone had to get an invite 😂

[@maytda]

bro the line “what is everybody gonna think” like all desi can relate to that

[@user-tz7tl2hw9w]

Frr

[@TheChanelcupcake]

"There's only five" "That's all the people I like" I felt that! I'm not into my family either

[@BananaGrace]

😂😂😂 literally how I think when I contemplate my future wedding (if that happens)... maybe 5 people total....

[@TheChanelcupcake]

@@BananaGrace 🤣 we're gonna save money!

[@HackThePlanet137]

As a white person, every wedding in the family has been organised by the brides and there is always a good amount of people from both families and a massive buffet, the last one I went to had 3 types of cake to cater to everyone

[@bm8730]

This reminds me of my wedding, I am a revert to islam but I am a German, my wife is from Syria, Kurdish to be exact, let's just say that this is soo relatable 😂

[@julianne4118]

“How many people?” “Just the people I like” “There’s only five people on this list?” “Only people I like” LOL it’s okay I relate

[@beyourself6548]

Ok so in Pakistan a wedding consists of more than 500 people, we book a hall, for food the lowest type of meals we get are kheer and ice cream for sweets, two types of chicken, rice, salad, single meat dish, cold drinks, Russian salad, different sauces( dipping ones) and BBQ. We have a big gathering. And so much other fun we get to do.

[@anothergermanmapper7754]

That just seems sureal to me. How do you even know so many People?

[@beyourself6548]

@@anothergermanmapper7754 Its real dude And I know all of this cause I have raised in more than 10 countries until now and Pakistan and South Korea are major ones. So I know

[@Recipeswithaleezaa]

Yeah right, I am from Pakistan. Sometimes there are more than 1k people in the wedding. There are starters, more than 2 chicken and meat dishes, tortillas, breads, rice, desserts, cold drinks, simple water, juices, tea, salads and some take aways too. Even after then some people are always unhappy that we didnt make enough arrangements🤨

[@areebalam4553]

It is same in indian wedding too. Same type of meals in especially muslim wedding.

[@haesamrin423]

In India too, the thing is that besides family we've this huge KHAANDAN which probably consist of 500 people (atleast my khaandan), excluding all the friends and random people we just knew 💀💀

[@amandakazmark9107]

I’m not Muslim, but I absolutely love you guys and your videos

[@user-tq6ji6qp4k]

As a Arab from the Middle East… THE AUNTIES… like war flash backs every wedding it’s just some random aunties stare that’s like a guilty consions

[@yuzuru525]

an Indian wedding can go over 2000 people no cap lmao, I love this ! edit: the "do u remember me?" is the most stressful thing on the wedding day for the bride, grooms and the guests😅

[@fakhrussalhin3149]

I mean during Corona times my cousin invited only 800 and the venue was looking almost empty 😂😂 I mean I've never been in a smaller wedding party😂😂😂

[@maanasamiriyala7657]

So true

[@nya4218]

Ikr

[@goutamsardar8364]

Ikr!

[@ELMAAMohammadAdeebSultan]

😆

[@beafoxxylady]

Me, a Greek watching this: wait 200 people only?? These guys are crazy

[@hrishabjain6992]

*Laughs in Indian*

[@ifuckinglove.u213]

Literally, why do they think all white people are the same

[@rmac8378]

@@ifuckinglove.u213 they’re talkin about america

[@byak6687]

Me: laughs in asian

[@Name-yv2zq]

@@rmac8378 My family has around 190 on my moms side 250 on my dads

[@Big-Bert]

Eloping is the BEST. My own parents wouldn’t know until a couple weeks after! The BEST!

[@goggleheroomegamaple820]

The look at the end says it all😂

[@RNGesusHIMSELF]

“200 people?” Me as a white Italian, “I’m white and Italian and did I also mention that I’m white and Italian?”

[@lamp7746]

I’ve seen more white Italians than any race LOL

[@craftygamer2391]

@@anttwo Actually a lot of racists actually believed that prior to the early 20th century (and they probably still believe that) I can only imagine the prejudice my great great grandmother faced when she got here from Italy

[@ImD1v1ne]

@@craftygamer2391 same I'm Sicilian and my family was discriminated against for being dark, me however is not dark

[@Jules.C.]

You must be a huge fan of Benito Mussolini.

[@ImD1v1ne]

@@Jules.C. what a great WW2 leader who wasn't actually so great

[@Zero-Zero-Zero-Zero]

I don't want my parents judgement, I'll just go get married without them

[@MysteryMouseketool]

Or, better yet, don't get married at all

[@Zero-Zero-Zero-Zero]

@@MysteryMouseketool oi that's pretty genius

[@vato7oco]

If ure a muslim then its not a sin at all..its u whos gona marry..not ur parents..

[@arfathkhalid1099]

Dont marry, save planet

[@a_person4742]

@@arfathkhalid1099 how does not marrying save the planet

[@LatulaArts]

I'm an adoptee from a german-irish adoptive family, a polish adoptive family (birth mom is also adopted), and an irish birth family.. my list for my wedding was at over 100 and that was excluding the people I didn't know well enough to invite or who I know couldn't make it due to living in other states or countries... (my adoptive father's side alone is over 200) My fiance's list was 22 exactly lol.

[@lisaferrin]

This guy is hilarious! 5 people?! I booked the library !

[@UnityDoesWhatever]

My dad when he married my mom. “Oh we should probably not invite anyone but my mom honestly.” Meanwhile on my moms side of the family: 80 people raving on the dance floor at the reception. Lmao.

[@purplecactus2939]

Ya know that random uncle dude you’ve never met in your life dancing while he’s drunk? Literally every wedding I’ve been to has that one person

[@zaraheart]

Lol that’s how it is for me but my dads side

[@jahyamack8359]

@@purplecactus2939 that one person for me is Bill, the most 80’s Aussie you’ll ever see.

[@purplecactus2939]

@@jahyamack8359 lol

[@rufflesmyfeathersuwu1547]

Me who would invite my mother and father and maybe my one cousin: yeah..

[@ekekiel0898]

Yeah same, I don't think I'd even invite the bride, that's extra human contact and I don't support it

[@rufflesmyfeathersuwu1547]

@@ekekiel0898 zoom wedding with urself and urself only ✨

[@neemoss2]

SAMEEE

[@ekekiel0898]

@@rufflesmyfeathersuwu1547 bro I'd invite you tho for that amazing idea.

[@rufflesmyfeathersuwu1547]

@@ekekiel0898 bro pls do im gonna make a playlist

[@sweetchocolatesecret]

Chicken and mash potatoes!? Sir!! This is a wedding!! 😂😂😂

[@makdaddy69]

bro wait till you see that italian list 😅

[@ccoli849]

“Chicken and mash potatoes” Me: what about the classic Mac n’ cheese 😢

[@ccoli849]

Ooh thanks for the info 👌

[@fancyfox7845]

And the McDonalds fries

[@huntermoss9403]

Ikr!

[@csao7044]

@@fancyfox7845 YES

[@e9cw196]

@chris everywhere in europe mash potatoes is the base for everything i swear, especially where i live in the UK. Nothing beats some chicken and roast potatoes

[@samanthanchabeleng4617]

Most BlackSouth Africans be like: "Guest list what's that?" Who ever knows there's a function/ celebration just comes without an invitation

[@hermanvanschoor314]

Hahahahaha so true black people just show up with 20 people in their cars

[@JamalAli-ps1us]

Same thing in Kenya

[@aphelelemkize8452]

Bra u literally be looking at ppl like who the hella are u?

[@mariyamrahman7752]

If this starts in India you'll see more than half of the town at the function who will enjoy each dish and leave without letting you know who they are😂

[@khangelwakhathi508]

Exactly!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aa.official5097]

Brown people invitation goes like Mr. X & Family rather than Mr. & Mrs. X...😂😂

[@naomiedgett9850]

This is why its so beautiful when cultures mix you never know what youre missing until you do lol

[@danielmacintyre4170]

My parents were wedding decorators and I can assure you, this is the reaction of every bride and groom lol

[@wendymonkelien-brown579]

I had a much larger family & the wedding was in the church I grew up in. We had at least 200, & only about 15 were my husband's guests.....

[@WickedWitch08]

When I plan my wedding I'm only inviting close family and friends. I don't need the awkward distant family thing-

[@bettywith2girls]

Smart.

[@CanadianWaters]

One is about having a good time with people you like, and other is about how many people you can impress.

[@avrilquince9070]

Thank you for your great way of educating things that are clearly generally misinformed. Cheeky is so the better way.

[@Abdullah080]

Ok that's pretty accurate to my parents

[@mubashirakhtar789]

😃I can understand and relate to it. The amount of effort and money we brown people put into a wedding, if we put half of it towards the marriage. Trust me this is when a “happily ever after starts”.

[@surayyaperveen2167]

In a traditional Kashmiri wedding, it's held at your home. Like my parents, uncles, aunts, and cousins all got married at home. And also, there's three different parts. The Naka which is the legal part of getting married, then the mandi which is preparing for the wedding (there's one for the bride and groom) and then the Barratt, which is the celebration.

[@El1sL1n]

As a white person with a large family: My list is so small because their the only ones I KNOW Every time we have a family dinner or cookout or whatever where probably only half of the family shows up, I ALWAYS meet new people and with my shitty memory I forget them everytime

[@ThisIsACreativeName]

"Just the ones i like" "There only like 5" Do be how it is sometimes

[@byak6687]

“There’s 200 thEre!” Me, as a asian. I felt that so much. And I can’t even believe you wrote that down, I only know my grandparents and my father’s siblings and my cousins. I don’t know who’s my grand uncle or grand aunt or my father’s cousins even though I met them so many times I just cANR REMEMBER- (and lemme tell you, bc my my grandmother had 11/12 siblings.... I have a lot of relatives) And I can’t even call them uncle or aunt, I have to call them SPECIFIC NAMES like father’s older cousin(female) or father’s older cousin(Male) I DONT-

[@tiffanyzhang2864]

I feel you😭 I was a call with my grandma and I used to live in China and she showed me there people and they all were like,” you remember me?” Like I can speak Chinese you don’t have to talk to me in English because I’m In America😭 and I was like uhhhhhhh🤔 YEA!! I know you😬I just forgot what to call you🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@tiffanyzhang2864]

Sorry about the mistakes lol, I can’t type😂

[@byak6687]

@@tiffanyzhang2864 it’s ok xD

[@byak6687]

@@tiffanyzhang2864 it’s worse for me bc I always meet them during CNY so I should know what to call them by now-

[@pearly6849]

I relate to this so much. Like every time I go back to China I get introduced to new relatives and I'm like 👁👄👁 who are you and how are u related to me?!

[@AApril0106]

I don’t think I’m brown, I’m morrocan so- anyways 2 years ago was my uncles wedding and it’s actually the wedding I remember the most since kids are not allowed to attend all wedding ceremonies (even when you’re already 14, 15 you’re still a kid around here) and I remember the guests were around 400 since there were 40 table and each table has like 10 people. Plus in the city where the wedding was hold, their culture and anything was a bit different from ours (i’m from rabat) so if you pass by a wedding you can join even if you don’t know anyone and they’ll actually treat you very well. And they even have to invite the whole neighborhood like imagine the number of heads in just one giant tent.

[@menyaj2747]

So accurate. My mom is white and my dad is brown so and have inspired so much of my Indian family to marry into white families, and I have been invited to all of them because of them.

[@jesss1427]

this is literally just when a low maintenance man marries a high maintenance woman 😭😭

[@mochadoes]

💯💯

[@eduardocordova4207]

I’ve done party decorations for Muslims and Indians etc. they are hard to deal with if they get frustrated but when they aren’t everything is chill they just want everything perfect so they rerun everything they think

[@duschseitkleines-1193]

U must separate Indians and Muslim they are no the same religious. Anything is possibly going wrong because of miss understanding

[@angrykobold5970]

@@duschseitkleines-1193 you realise religion and culture are different ,two religions are different but two cultures can be very similar

[@duschseitkleines-1193]

@@angrykobold5970 yes but Indian also drink non halal thing and eat an non halal food. Do u want to let Muslim eat that? U will be sued

[@thefujoshiblink4189]

This is so accurate when you're a Filipino.

[@sophiasoliman4394]

Haha yeah! I'm also Filipino and my aunt needed to invite her officemates, their families, and even our neighbors in addition to our extended families. It was a LOT 🥴🥴.

[@peachyriigacha]

OMG is that a CASE IH pen? That’s where my dad worked and its very symbolic for me since he passed away in May.

[@caty603]

My cousin had his reception in this huge library in his downtown area and it was beautiful. He probably had 100 people

[@flyingchappal916]

200 people is seriously less in a brown family. Close acquaintances will be 200 itself

[@areebafatima6166]

Yep sure r less

[@deekshagupta7915]

Exactly my cousin had 1100 people at her wedding

[@M.A.Y.Y]

Haha... cause you send invites to the head of house then you get all 6+ members of the family plus acquaintances plus plus one plus whoever's else they wanna bring along .

[@yamnabilal7345]

Ikr? There were literally 900 in my valima.🤐 The nikah and rukhsati were simple and from home though. 🙂

[@viklondon3466]

Muslims have a high birth rate c/t everyone ele

[@TheBossManBoss319]

Why do all of that when you could just have a courthouse wedding and spend the money you saved on a wedding and go on a big vacation together.

[@Bella-Rose.]

I say the same thing or just have something simple and intimate. I rather use the money for a good vacation or on a house.

[@brown_gurl]

Or you can be quiet and realize that everyone's idea of a wedding differs and that some people care more about the wedding than honeymoon

[@craftygamer2391]

@@brown_gurl they have a point though, why waste money on like one day/week (since some ceremonies go on longer) when you can save that money for more important things. All marriage is is two people making an official promise to be together in the eyes of the law. I'd rather save that money to buy a house or something

[@tonedeaf6259]

@@craftygamer2391 so marriage isnt an important thing?? I see no problem with making a wedding a big costly thing. I see no problem with settling with a small simple wedding either. Just depends on the people

[@craftygamer2391]

@@tonedeaf6259 Honestly, I don't think marriage is as important as people think. Especially when divorce rates are pretty high; it shows people were either not ready for marriage or no longer wanted to be with their partner. I've seen great marriages as well as terrible ones. I watched how bitter a divorce can be just by witnessing my parents divorce. To each his/her own, but I'd rather have a small, fun wedding personally so I can save the money for later.

[@amirhaikal6672]

Yes i can relate to this. My dad's nephew just got married last syawal and the celebration is packed. Im talking no chance to BREATHE. And the food... Oh the FOOD. A feast fit for a king. The drinks? Almost 5 trucks worth of water and that is just water. People have to park their cars in other people's yard.

[@IamMuziq3]

As Moroccans our family takes over the whole city with celebrations 😂

[@mohamedshadab6437]

I strongly regret to have spent more than half of my savings in my wedding to please other people. I could have done a world tour. Shit shit shit

[@secretofchamber5148]

I will first do world tour with my friend then will think about it inshallah

[@QuirkeyJr]

It’s more like “when an American marries into a Muslim family”

[@MissAngieW]

Hahaha nah its middle eastern, Indian, Latino, etc. and so on. We have too many relatives regardless of the faith.😂

[@Weeble_Wobble]

Brown people. Not black people.

[@xnoreyyt931]

No no he meant “american” not “white boy” cuz u in america are like that. Cuz in europe are also majorly white people and we are much different from americans.

[@vraxxar2275]

@@xnoreyyt931 no the ‘white people’ in America are the same race as the Europeans

[@sushidapushy9654]

@@vraxxar2275 yeah but different culture

[@bathakhot]

as long we're quiet 😂😂😂 err its a wedding not a funeral 😂😂😂

[@viktorias63]

In my culture and region it was common for to have the whole village invited. Now most people do a small wedding, sometimes just in the legal building or a church with a few people. Most don't value these things anyone because it's more about showing off to others, and not about yourself and your family.

[@saisathanapalli8293]

AHH the classic phrase of all brown people "what will people think"

[@brumhelldah917]

*Asian

[@Omnisci33nt]

Yeh yeh lmao

[@saisathanapalli8293]

@Jamie Taylor im also brown lmao

[@ritsvora2785]

I am an Indian and I could totally relate with every word she said 😂😂😂

[@tacticoolweeb4445]

Im going through this right now and this is 100% accurate

[@debralucero3565]

I love the way they react to each other. This is so cute. 😅

[@anilaimran2557]

She : WHAT IS EVERYONE BODY GONNA THINKKK Will : Bruh, no one even cares lol 😂

[@fatemamahmud6814]

Salam, The prophet (pbuh) said "The best marriage is one that is easiest.” This is sunnah, much better than culture.

[@advenco344]

Too bad most people ignore this. They’ll only do what is sunnah if it’s culturally appropriate.

[@lynndabbousi4566]

Can you please send me the exact quote so that if my time for marriage comes i can show my mom. I cannot handle the 400 guest wedding that is normal in Lebanon, it sounds draining!

[@smoovesmooth4796]

@@advenco344 that's why day of judgement will be something

[@beth1121]

Alhamdulillah, when I married my husband, we had the sheikh and witnesses and my family on Zoom. I wore a £15 dress and it was perfect aha

[@lovescoffee9780]

My Dad 's way of thinking. Brought back memories.

[@royaledits9551]

With all respect This is soo true

[@reddish_blue7846]

You can't tell me you forgot the seasonings

[@DragonOnStrike]

This is probably the most true video I’ve watched all week

[@G0blin..urm0m]

This is actually very accurate cuz once I went to my black friends birthday party and and it was a huge Buffay big cake and looks of desserts it was so good

[@marianaamor6319]

My cousin married a man from India, and this is almost completely accurate. The only difference was that our side was a little bigger than his. They had a big church and huge event hall, and 3 buffets! One was the dinner, which was all Indian food, one was yogurts, fruits, and nuts, and the last was desserts.