Should You Tell Your Crush You Like Them (ODDLY SPECIFIC)

[@makesushi]

crazy amount of if statements, just use switch statement tbh

[@arielcg_]

if (crush.seeingSomeone) { goto 15:41; } switch (crush.meetingPlace) { case "friends": goto 0:43; case "school": goto: 9:11; case "work": goto: 10:54; default: goto: 13:23; }

[@makesushi]

@@arielcg_ i love you for this

[@888_crystal]

Idk what this means can u explain it but like I’m 5

[@arielcg_]

@@888_crystal it's programming jargon. An "if statement" is a building block in programming, to allow execution only if certain conditions are met. For example "if (your crush is not seeing anyone) { confess }". A switch is like multiple if statements combined depending on a single variable (piece of information). See my other comment, where I created a switch where depending on where you know your crush of, you go to certain part of the video.

[@888_crystal]

Lowkey delirious from my fever rn so words not really making sense to my ass but looks like people find it useful so I’ll pin it

[@best_guess]

i am cooked in every senario

[@iammrcakeuwu596]

dw bro you got this

[@smoothcat4334]

if that ain't the truth

[@Tensho_C]

​@iammrcakeuwu596bro idk man💀

[@iammrcakeuwu596]

@@Tensho_C nah the haters are getting to him

[@person69420w]

cooking in every scenario*

[@figeon]

Thank you. I’m gonna go tell my wife that I have a crush on her.

[@popsicIes]

How'd it go brother

[@IMAX0977]

Hope she likes you back 😂

[@figeon]

@@popsicIes She said “We have a baby and we’ve been married for almost two years… but me too”

[@n_aniki]

​@@figeonWow damn congrats that she said she liked you back!! 🎉🎉

[@72802]

Awn lol

[@goomyye4998]

That one friend in high school movies that gives the protagonist dating advice:

[@rosequinn769]

Fr😂😂

[@tearderp8327]

comp sci majors when they have an emotion(flow chart is necessary)

[@usershilov]

This is so true! I was talking to my friend about her relationship and she was mood charting trying to quantify how unhappy her situationship was making her in order to decide weather to end it or drop an ultimatum. She was like is that crazy, I was like no that sounds perfectly reasonable to me. She is a data scientist.

[@Friendpilledvisitmaxxer]

Even though I'm nowhere close to being into comp sci (humanities oriented) it makes perfect sense to me for some reason lmao

[@hurbig]

Comp-sci and/or autistic

[@copter2000]

@@usershilov "I do love you babe, but this Excel chart shown that we will be 0.15% better without seeing each other"

[@Wiggly38]

@@copter2000 She's probably correct as well. All hail the Excel chart.

[@hydroviperking]

We live together, have 2 kids, and are legally married. Should I tell her?

[@peachy_tea33]

Go for it man! The worst she can say is no

[@myself2noone]

Naa, man, I don't think she's into you.

[@Xiseies]

You didn't mention if she consented to all of this

[@MirrorOfEmotions]

Is she into you? A) Yes B) No C) Can't tell Yeah you can't tell at this point....

[@Nolead1]

No, its too soon right now, wait for more signs

[@mrsusDoesStuff]

Decades of game theory, logic, and computer science has boiled down to this absolute peak video

[@actualbatman]

girl what in the quantum mechanics is this

[@usershilov]

I'm dying!! Quantum mechanics is actually such a good metaphor for the talking stage.

[@ThatSpecificIndividual]

For some quantum mechanics is far less complicated than people.

[@atroposV]

Quantum mechanics isn't even all that crazy. When you're as single as I am this shit is straight alchemy. And the LEAD is NOT TURNING TO GOLD

[@aminulhussain2277]

​@@ThatSpecificIndividual Because it is.

[@dukeoog5466]

@@atroposV thats cause you forgot about equivalent exchange. gotta give up your liver for love life

[@francescojacobs8195]

Came for the funny stayed for the cady's law

[@antronixful]

The dimensional analysis of Cady's Law is wrong though. Because the left hand side is in Time units while the right hand side is dimensionless.

[@kindahollow]

​​@@antronixful the cady's constant makes it work, but it's 1 (mon) so usually we don't write it.

[@j-wie5476]

@@kindahollowlove that

[@ethymith]

​@@kindahollowgreat notation

[@lauracw_24]

BAHAHAH YES

[@shup6969]

I told her and she told me “ew” fml

[@audreyodonnell166]

damn that sucks

[@obz1357]

Welcome, gym bro

[@44fumi]

dude i am so sorry that’s honestly a really rude response from her

[@yasmineTabet-bp4qs]

Why do you have a crush on such a person??

[@5hanu]

Aww bro, I know this sucks, but don't get saddened, her words do not describe you, you're worth more than that

[@dominikw8476]

Good news is, I should ask her. Bad news is, I should ask her.

[@dudemanofdude]

All you gotta do is walk up and ask if she wants to go out on a date or something

[@jackweber3660]

best way is to just have a conversation about it. if you arent at the point of conversing casually, then wait for your friendship to develop more. inform them that the conversation will probably be awkward. ask open ended questions that allude to your infatuation, not yes or no questions. it’s best to use the word INTERESTED, as in “im interested in you” rather than “i like you” or “i have a crush on you”. try to avoid hypotheticals, ex: “So, what would you do if i were to ask you out.” if they reject you, immediately try to tend to your friendship. if you wait til later it will be extremely awkward. if they feel the same, then immediately have a follow up in mind such as “let’s go out for lunch” or “great, can i have your number then so that we can make plans?” if they dont tell you their feelings immediately, take it as a rejection and try to tend to your friendship.

[@dominikw8476]

@@jackweber3660 Thanks for advice, but no worries, we're friends and I was gonna do it anyway, I simply found getting confirmation from random KZbin video surprisingly funny and unsettling at once

[@audreyodonnell166]

how’d it go did you do it?

[@anotherbobafett6238]

Dude how did It got you do It?

[@Penguin5z]

"literally every single scenario" nah im literally single every scenario 😭

[@awkwardsilence4241]

😅

[@batoulbelfedhal9831]

You like parents 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭⁉️

[@daanstrik4293]

Being single doesn’t prevent you from having a crush

[@m.furkanyolal6952]

underrated

[@brutal-dubs]

underrated af

[@mrsokolov8954]

For the stoic, there's a simpler way to work your way out of this conundrum: > drink just enough to get tipsy > Tell your crush you like them > If they like you back, you win > If they don't like you back, pretend to be way more drunk than you actually are so that you may have an excuse the next day > Proceed to drown your sorrows in booze till you actually get drunk > Next morning, the problem is solved for better or for worse.

[@witek317]

bro is a genius

[@alguiencualquiera6217]

Only loser is my liver

[@hellogood7239]

ye but it only works for adults

[@seba9737]

​@@hellogood7239laughs in european

[@idkwhatsmyhandle]

but what if ion wanna get drunk? 😭

[@chuckblaze5147]

you are singlehandedly going to cure the loneliness epidemic

[@harrybudgeiv349]

I get it's a joke, but im writing this anyway because a lot of people don't understand this. Loneliness doesn't explicitly mean a lack of a romantic partner. It means having no real interactions with people. A good group of friends can fix loneliness and likely do it better than a romantic partner would.

[@Beepper]

​​@@harrybudgeiv349You can have friends, a partner and a good relationship with your family and still feel lonely

[@ImPowerAngel]

😂

[@chomp5558]

​​@@harrybudgeiv349 Every role has its own place and meaning and cant replace one another. You cant fill up the emptyness of a romantic partner with friends and you cant fill up the emptyness of friends with a romantic partner. Ideally you have both of em. I have friends Im hanging out with everyday. But they do 100 not make the urge for a romantic relationship to disappear, but even sometimes strenghen it, when they mention how they are doing things with their family.

[@harrybudgeiv349]

@chomp5558 Except that's blatant romantization of romantic relationships. You are putting romantic relationships on a pedestal like it's one of the most important goals in human existence when the concept hasn't even been around for a thousand years. Aside from that, if someone isn't married to their best friend, then they made the wrong choice in marriage worthy partners. Loneliness is not exclusively about romantic partners. It's about not having meaningful relationships, period. The loneliness epidemic is not about finding partners and the problem going away. It's about the fact that you have elderly folks who no longer have a community to rely on. It's that you have children in car centric suburbs who can't play with other kids in the community. It's all of these things. The problem is that a big chunk of people think it's about only loneliness from a lack of romantic partners. It's not and should never be thought of in that way, or we lose the more important thing to focus on. We need to make our communities more about and for people

[@Wond3ring1110]

I literally dont have a crush, I'm just watching this for fun and because youtube is free

[@burstmistakes]

free entertainment don’t get me wrong i’d love to have a crush but this is just as good

[@Wond3ring1110]

@burstmistakes yup, exactly

[@MrH.09]

same

[@MissPoplarLeaf]

I'm in a 12-year happy relationship and don't have any crushes outside of that, but I'm here for the memes and the silliness :3

[@migigluttony5968]

watched it even through I don't have a crush , nice vid

[@NauticalTurtle]

sugarcube, same here 😂

[@basement_gremlin2577]

real

[@nazubaba1435]

I have crush on you

[@gamebuddiez9688]

I wish I will remember this video when I have one.

[@whafflet]

this is so real (im thinking about past situationships)

[@chinaWhite-]

so basically never tell them, got it

[@Dooge]

always tell them. you can't be friends with someone you're attracted to.

[@YehudiNimol]

​@@Dooge I don't think that's always applicable. A friendship will usually last longer than an attraction. I think it depends on what you want from the situation and whether you'll be fine with taking a bit of space and sulking in your own misery for a while so you can treat them like a normal human being again. Choose your poison basically

[@Dooge]

@@YehudiNimol in my experience attraction actually builds as you get to know somebody after a "honeymoon" period. So as long as you're not pouring your heart out the first time you meet this friend then that's just being voluntarily in the friendzone which will tear you apart more than being strangers.

[@pol581]

based

[@len4129]

@@Dooge Eh I've been there the friend zone is not that bad especially after you get over them

[@JustAGamerPerson]

Hearing you say you never held hands with anyone romantically until you were 21 makes me feel SOOO much better about my own loneliness.

[@syedahkam7164]

same fr. I'm 21 now and 100% romantically virgin

[@george-broughton]

Alright, then if I said I've never done these things and I'm going on 30 this year, would that alleviate some of it too? Ngl I have been asked out like 16 times. Just, by people who I didn't know enough nor spend enough time around for that to even be a thing I'd consider. Still friends with most of then though c: You'll find that if you manage to keep them around long enough for you to catch feelings, they likely won't reciprocate though. They're generally more chill about it if that's the case however, since they can relate to how that feels on a more personal level.

[@metaphysicalfreediver]

​@@syedahkam7164romantically virgin but what about literally 😂

[@metaphysicalfreediver]

​@@george-broughtonsnooze u lose brother

[@JustAGamerPerson]

@@metaphysicalfreediverTo be fair to the guy, some people might not be comfortable with dating someone they don't know that well. I mean, there's so many stories about abuse from significant others, and it comes from not knowing them well enough until you're emotionally invested in the relationship.

[@cash1194]

tried it, she said no, had incredibly awkward moments, went bald, started playing valorant

[@LyKraad]

welcome to the gym

[@RomeinG.1918]

why did she go bald?

[@elektra8535]

If You are gay then You could find someone through valorant, if You are straight try apex, if You are racist try COD

[@averagebfdiguy]

@@RomeinG.1918no theyre saying that they went bald not the girl lol

[@mercuriejmd]

VALORANT MENTIO-

[@Tiberius-vs9wc]

This is like that one scene in Marvel where Dr. Strange examines every parallel universe and finds only one where thanos dies

[@jennatulls9225]

Equally as epic

[@dragonex4723]

Finding the one timeline where your crush likes you

[@justmerc1642]

When you find yourself in an oddly specific scenario with your crush and you look at your friend for support, only to see them shakily holding up one index finger

[@MyUsersDark]

Yet he would find zero scenarios where a girl likes me

[@RustXD_2009]

Where is the scenario “I don’t know if my crush is gay too?” 😅

[@lilywashere27]

Oh man. Thank God I found my wonderful hetero partner, because I still haven't learned what to do around girls I like (back then I was clueless, and now I don't like anyone but my boyfriend). I used to feel like a creep all the time, and I'd seriously want to develop a normal friendship and put my feelings aside, but I'd always end up saying the most embarrassing things. I don't have any solid advice, aside from (maybe): DON'T try to practice what to say around them (it will only make things worse); try to treat them as normally as you can; and try to befriend them or to get to know them better. After all, if it's sometime you like, you'll end up either 1) asking them out, or 2) stop having romantic feelings towards them but still have a beautiful friendship together; both of these options look kinda more manageable than just pining away endlessly. Sexual orientation aside, if they end up saying yes to a date it's a good thing (as long as you don't force on them an idealised version of themselves), if they end up saying no you have to evaluate together whether to keep the friendship without the side of gay feelings, or to never see each other again. If they say maybe... Well... Can't help you there, it's too complicated for a stranger over the Internet

[@multifandomnerd37]

That's exactly what I've been trying to figure out! I may just text her 'btw u gay' with no explanation and see what she does with it, she's chill like that

[@PrettyPearPricess]

Needed this section

[@POV-i9i]

Just ask them and if they ask why just say you seem fruity or smth. It's not that weird of a question as it may seem especially in today's world.

[@mnnnzz]

well I mean you can just tell them. they're either homophobic (in which case you probably won't be in any sort of relationship anyway even friendship so why bother) or going to give you a normal answer which is yes or no just as in a hetero scenario. the only thing to be worried about is what if they are homophobic and can tell someone who can harm you sooo maybe you just learn a bit abt them and who they talk to to have a a general idea of whether there is such a risk

[@kiyomi--]

woah she is either really smart or has been through all of these

[@cylo1859]

Anyone with an IQ above 90 could make that entire map. She is not good looking and old enough to have gone through half of these scenarios.

[@Spamilton1739]

Probably just an overthinker

[@Average_NerdIII]

She literally said she's neither????

[@Aphrofluff]

Lol

[@RushWheeler]

Really smart or really wise

[@gabbychery642]

giggling as I watch this... yeah forced proximity and its effects

[@Anime_Wee..b]

Fr, like I'm gonna be dululu and never tell them

[@pauline_lovesgod]

same 🤧☹️☹️ he makes college sm more interesting. got me having butterflies in the middle of physics labs

[@Dat1person_]

FRRR FR

[@NauticalTurtle]

@@pauline_lovesgod rofl 😂

[@pink_ice9454]

SO REAL! It’s so funny that I didn’t think much of this until now. Looking back this is almost definitely the reason I had a crush on the person I did a couple months ago LMAO

[@Haruki2009]

KZbin recommendations are getting a little too good at this

[@shrekiscool4743]

They know.

[@sophiabui8256]

now i just have to wait for the follow up video of **how** to tell your crush you like them

[@AAAAAA-qs1bv]

Preferably through speech or text but telepathic communication also works in a pinch.

[@Turachkh]

I would suggest not telling them. Keep it to yourself and overcome your feelings, they are always for ones own trouble.

[@sophiabui8256]

@@Turachkh who hurt you!!

[@atroposV]

​@@AAAAAA-qs1bv how the fuck do i get to "text" tho?? been tryna get the right time to get her number but I just kinda let the opportunities slip. The day I finally act is the day the gods send me a fated +5 OCT voicecrack too, I can feel it

[@Turachkh]

@@sophiabui8256 The primordial separation from oneness, methinks.

[@CheetoManActual]

That one friend who’s never had a gf casually dropping the best relationship advice you will ever receive

[@atroposV]

I'm that friend. Time saved on The Huzz has been specced into pondering and learning about how people work and think. Pondermaxxing has given me great knowledge which i can't apply because I just suck at letting girls know I actually like them even if I can tell they like me

[@priestjohn4128]

I love how she sounds like she is about to burst in tears, really adds to the experience

[@AnhVu-xy3zh]

It’s surprising how people are only scratching the surface and don’t take the time to read Flirtosphere Seduction. Go out of the rabbit hole guys

[@fungusz_4292]

huh

[@Leo-ui9hu]

Please explain

[@sasori6417]

The name... its probably a bot who will t​ry to sell you in on some bs.@@fungusz_4292

[@radanju3]

huh [2]

[@geraldshermeen3254]

huh "3"

[@vareskys]

This graph is amazing, its so yummy its so edible idk i have a thing for graphs

[@VvxVxvV-j2y]

I too love organized categories of text

[@froyosss]

Nice

[@kattej837]

graphs of any sort are my biggest hear my out

[@rebootow]

graphs 🤤

[@zyxgremory]

oh boy wait till you hear about pie graphs

[@augustgremaud2738]

Great vid, very funny, something to add: talking about feelings with a friend doesn’t have to ruin a friendship. Make sure that you’re honestly okay with a “no”, and emphasize that you value the friendship more than temporary feelings (since attraction wanes if you don’t feed it). If need be, consider taking a break to let feelings cool off so that you can return to a normal friendship later. So long as you can do this, anyone who holds it against you probably isn’t worth being friends with anyway. Rejection doesn’t feel great, but letting feelings fester feels so much worse (in my experience). Who knows, they might even like you back! Only one way to find out…

[@EdenP01]

Told my school crush I liked them. It did in fact lead to the best relationship of my life and marriage so I’d say this chart is very accurate.

[@JasonJia11]

Lucky you! I only just found the courage to talk to mine. We had a study session recently. We studied, chatted, got to know each other, and had lunch. It honestly felt like a study date, lol. There was a chance I wouldn't see her again, so I asked her out. She said her belief is that friends come before dating and said, "Let's be friends." There were signs she liked me too, but I took too long to start talking to her. Her response is a bit ambiguous, but I get the feeling we won't talk anymore. Sorry for the long comment, I just needed to vent about my current situation 🫠

[@Uravytii]

⁠@@JasonJia11if you really like this woman and see her in your life in the future, keep talking to her! She’s most likely wants to take things slow and doesn’t want to risk rush into anything. It might be worth it

[@perezz76]

Thats so beautiful

[@PersonWhoAsked]

This gives me some hope. I have a crush on a childhood friend and it's likely he likes me too. We have been hanging out more often. He said due to past experiences he doesn't like to make the first move anymore. Maybe I should talk to him at some point.

[@golemwhy3153]

Cool domino’s video

[@CheshireCatz]

This should be a website lol, a chose your own adventure Edit: I’m cooked guys, so cooked I turned crispy and just saw the end, riddle the site with ads to make the money

[@CreeperPlane_Crazy]

ok imma do it (without ads, ready in a few months!)

[@chilins8083]

@@CreeperPlane_Crazy give us an update when you are ready!

[@peachy_tea33]

Leaving this here so I can get the update 😅

[@CheshireCatz]

I may make it using Google sites at this point

[@CreeperPlane_Crazy]

@chilins8083 yup yup yup!!!! (rn its the end of the session but in a few months it will be ready hehe)

[@TheBlaqSpiderman]

This lady definitely worked for Telltale Games

[@wayriam]

girl that's genius

[@ukiy01]

Never, I repeat NEVER ever take down the masterpiece of a video

[@radanju3]

I'm downloading it just in case. It's gonna go in my sub folder under my special folder "My crush I've had since 2009" 💀💀💀

[@thatshack5755]

@@radanju3 2009?? holy cow

[@XxSt4rBurst]

Alright guys imma go tell my boyfriend I like him, wish me luck 🤞

[@socialanxiety9153]

If you handle this like a mature person, and your crush is also mature, it doesn’t always end in disaster! Trust me! I’m best friends with one of my previous crushes. When I told them we talked it out and decided it was best to be friends. I still know them now and we’re both in happy relationships.

[@clownsfallingoffthesky]

SAME I literally had a crush on my bestfriend, told them as a sidenote and they js told me they didnt like me and we still are bestfriends and tbh i lost feelings in that way and were super close soooo yup

[@aiu2919]

Same sort off, but instead of still being best friends, now we just know eachother, i fucked it up, i was a dumbass back in the day, and i miss that realtionship to this day, i rlly feel sorry for what i did to her and wish things could get fixed and maybe have a closer realtionship rather than just existing, since now im lonely af (not trying to cause any pity or be a victim) but somehow still hurts to this day, i thought i had beat the loneliness, i do have best friends, but the interaction i had with that girl, i havent had that for a long time, we used to talk, EVERY DAY, we really had a connection, i loved talking to her she always made my day, but my jealously and stupidity cause the fall of our great relationship, i also confessed my feelings before that through message just before the day of school i think, she rejected me in a nice way, she still wanted to be friends, im a fucking dumbass, i miss her,honestly, but anyways, thats not coming back since i dont even have the confidence to deeply talk to her, i just want her to be happy thats good enough for me

[@farzana_614]

@aiu2919 I feel you. my experience was also like this. i liked a guy in my class. we were becoming very good friends day by day. and i just caught feelings for him. i really liked being around him so after a lot of thinking i told him. i thought he might like me too as we were becoming very good friends but he rejected me. he assured me that we are cool and we can still be friends. but tbh it was not like before anymore. he started to ignore me quite a bit. i fucked it up. and after 2-3 months he just got into relation with another friend of mine. that was painful to experience lol. whenever i think about those moments my skin just crawls in embarrassment.

[@dalrain]

Yup exactly, I was definitely very awkward about it at the start when my friend told me he liked me but Ive come along way since and were still best friends now

[@1lovebaking]

​@aiu2919 dang

[@mimi-wiwi]

this video is legit terrifying bc it shows up HOURS AFTER I CONFESSED TO A FRIEND FROM SHARED CLASSES.... he was very sweet and nice about it, and now we're in the grueling process (in my head. im a scardey cat) of having open discussions abt what we can potentially explore. hours have never been so agonizing as it is now. on my hands and knees for things not to be awkward!!! our shared class is now over (i confessed after finals WHEW) , so now we're moreso online-mainly (he is taking a break from uni now). this is so fucking weird for me i never confessed before and im a sappy but shy ass person. thanks youtube for suspiciously recommending me me this video...!!! 😭

[@swagmundfreud666]

Hi former high school student here. You are in the most irrelevant period of your life. In a year none of this will matter. Don't be scared.

[@herbstone7310]

ignore that guy everything matters and i hope it goes well

[@jayyyythearsonist]

WOOO THATS SO AWESOME CONFESSING IS TERRIFYING YOU DID AMAZING :DDD GOOD LUCK!!! And Swag said it a bit harshly, but they're right when they say that you might as well try - in the end, it's better to have no regrets :D

[@ThinkerNinja]

Congratulations, well done!

[@thonk7611]

@@swagmundfreud666seems like theyre in uni

[@razorblade6746]

This really hit close to home. I've been in love with this girl ever since I met her in highschool and I fall in love with her everyday when I see her in the morning before I go to work and at night before I head back to bed. So this is it. Today 13th December, I finally did it. I woke up this morning and did what I had wanted to do every single day since I met her. Wish me luck guys. TLDR: Today I told my crush that I had a huge crush on her.

[@tinagillmore7796]

Ooo! Leaving a comment so I can hear how it goes. Best of luck!

[@Hanzology]

what’d she say

[@randomguyjack_yt8036]

Also leaving a comment to see how this goes

[@regeditpvp8136]

Keep us updated bro ❤

[@snaileyy]

LMK HOW IT GOES BRO

[@AnanasJeanPierre]

The moment I saw the graph I knew I was in for a masterpiece of internet. This is perfect, this is art, it's both tragedy and comedy, it's the yin and yang of romance. From now on you're my master, guiding me through the process of talking to my crush, and I don't even have one

[@oliverqueen5883]

3:10 I cannot believe that I am learning this instead of revising for my actual maths exam 😂😂

[@purplepronglefish]

i’m in this exact same osition lmao wish me luck for tomorrow

[@kneecaps4530]

I got my exams done today, so we ball (Also are you itish)

[@Beans2817]

exact same position. I still have an entire chapter to review for

[@1eelii]

Good luck to all of you! ❤

[@oavdov]

That's time-honored international tradition of every single ducking student ever - to duck around until the latest possible moment and then it's 50/50 - you either find out or you get lucky... Thank god I'm not a student now (I switched the team - now it's my students who duck around...)

[@LyonelLeon]

was in scenario 1, didn’t work out, but we’re still close friends (: if you’re both mature enough to understand that feelings are natural and can be worked through then it doesn’t have to ruin anything !!

[@Beans-nh6ro]

What if you met at school, were friends in school, they had a crush on you and confessed, and you had a crush on them but were too shy to say yes. They decided to date two other people, broke up, enter a new school and you're somehow still in the same school, and they still have a crush on you. All of a sudden they leave school and stopped talking to you for a couple of years. You meet up randomly at a random outside place and find out they moved close to you, but you aren't exactly close friends anymore after years of minimal contact but you still hold a crush for them. This seems like a combination of the friends, school, third space and situation-ship scenarios all combined. Please send help, my friend is in a bizarre situation.

[@tanukilord424]

at that point it’s either fate or “the one that got away”. so yeah, tell them

[@mr.explosife3958]

tell them

[@priii7772]

I went though this EXACT same situation your comment caught me off guard

[@Blueberry_Koi]

at that point enough social role barriers have been broken that the expectation of friend, school peer and stranger/associate no longer holds as a singular identity, so always tell them because the resulting social consequences is minimal. This is like the thing if you and your boss like each other but remained professional however yall met up randomly outside of work and confessed, usually HR will be very sympathetic and put u in different departments instead, because the social barrier of boss and subordinate faded naturally, so it is not unethical.

[@dearxdiary]

The reason why they never got over them was coz they never got to tell them so they better tell them. It might work out and if it doesn't it's better to be rejected than regretting to have never confessed

[@jayyyythearsonist]

1:38 IM TELLING HER IN LIKE 2 DAYS GUYS WISH ME LUCK!!! I'm mostly telling her cause she's moving away soon, so trust me, it's not because I am confident at all lol I HAVE NO IDEA HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT ME SO FINGERS CROSSED IT DOESNT RUIN EVERYTHING AT LEAST! REMIND ME TO UPDATE THIS COMMENT 😭😭 EDIT: I THINK SHE MIGHT BE BUSY TODAY SO I'LL PROBABLY TELL HER TOMORROW, THANK YOU ALL SM FOR THE SUPPORT!!! EDIT 2: GUYS I DID IT!!!! She told me she's not ready for a relationship right now, but that she really appreciates me as a friend and that she's excited to see me again soon :D Not exactly what I had hoped for, but a lot better than what I was expecting. I'm just glad I got it off my chest, you know? Really feels like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders, honestly (ps. she didn't say EXACTLY no, soooo.... Maybe in the future? 👀)

[@Twosay_Dossay]

Please let me know 🙏 Also you got this!

[@gtgb5680]

pleeeease let me know too

[@clementbarrieu]

be confident. confidence is key. i pray for you that you dont stutter

[@snowygnr]

PLEASE UPDATE ME WITH THE RESULTS🙏ALSO GLGL

[@tinnguyen5055]

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[@Ovioloqu]

@crystal Crush isn’t seeing someone>irl>school>see them often>actually like them> I’m sure Note: I’m a dude and she’s lesbian but I’m young and she has shifted from bi to lesbian many times. I’m not super close to her but we do talk pretty often. Should I tell her? If so, when?

[@tazjadersity]

so underrated like this is amazingly made wtf

[@Cool-Abed-Films]

thank you so much... i am autistic and find it hard to grasp the social reality constantly going on around me. i am so happy to have this as a scientific paper i can look back on and check before i do anything. love you

[@aooide]

I love you too 😘

[@iscoolerthenU]

Marinette dupain-cheng ahh video lol(this was really cool i love it keep it up)

[@sehalos]

TLDW: -if you date your friend's ex you will probably endangered your friendship with them -if you try to date your classmate then if you get rejected then class would be awkward -if you try to date your co-worker, HR will hear about it and you'll probably get fired -if your crush in relationship with someone, DON'T DO IT

[@Silvrah]

Ok but what if you met your crush at school, you’re on like weird but still talkable terms with their friend group, and they have a crush on someone else but not necessarily in a relationship

[@sehalos]

@@Silvrah see number 2. If they are not in your class then go for it

[@progamndocoisas4407]

why dating a coworker is so serious? I trought dating your coworker was normal(?)

[@Speed001]

​@progamndocoisas4407don't mix business and personal life

[@Silvrah]

@progamndocoisas4407 it’s not, takes away professionalism and can lead to power dynamics if they’re your boss

[@Cookedgodziller]

my situation is so weird. my crush and I have known eachother for 8 years (childhood friends), but we literally live in *different countries*.I visit there every summer for 1-2 months and we constantly hang out, but like, first of all, how am I supposed to tell, secondly. Even if she accepts, how tf is it gonna happen from different countries?im cooked, man.

[@That0therAsian]

Your situation either A. completely depends on the financial resources you have at hand and how much you are willing to use them to visit your crush in the event she says "Yes" And B. If you and your crush interact constantly through other means like the same online space or video game or group text.

[@Cookedgodziller]

@ it doesn’t matter if I have the financial resources, im like in the most important years of the school system in my country, I can’t really “fly out”.

[@Cookedgodziller]

@ and she lives in Russia which has all those restrictions so we can’t really communicate ig 🤷‍♂️

[@whzysywuxhhs]

​@@Cookedgodzillernah everyone in Russia can easily bypass restrictions, even boomers

[@augustgremaud2738]

That sort of situation sucks, but I think the answer for most folks is clear: starting off long distance is very difficult, and logistics matter. If circumstances change, go for it, but seriously consider whether it’s a healthy dynamic to try for.

[@tinytrinket7082]

I don't even know people, this video is absolutely useless to me, good vid

[@stati_ro007]

Real

[@lorraine4647]

“Are they a celebrity” “no my crush is a real person” HELPP WHATT 14:41

[@sunshine7.2]

lol celebrities arent real?

[@capndreadful2241]

akinator ah question ngl

[@oreo_6206]

It's giving akinator

[@chickenandrice94]

yeah I have a crush on Hatsune Miku

[@buysharp]

criminally underrated, this was actually entertaining asf

[@realnaomi1]

never been so thankful for a long term relationship in my life

[@toniodejimi3905]

bestie this is so absolutely helpful as im in a one-on-one friendship with this guy I like and ur chart was a simple way to determine what i should do. unfortunately, I'd rather get shot in my ankle and drag myself through Texas than face rejection. love the video

[@אלוןשיינפלד]

Real.

[@Unmknowmn]

life is short who cares if they dont like u back face sideways and theres another crush potential yippie

[@usershilov]

Just escalate flirting and then gauge if they reciprocate. That is kind of the point of flirting, it is fun plus you can get a read on how interested they are in you.

[@a1m..]

If you think he’d like you then go for it, but be realistic. Do you actually think he could have an interest in you? With most guys it’s pretty easy to tell

[@toniodejimi3905]

@a1m.. girl im so cooked call it flame broiled, toasted, roasted, beer battered and fried, sous vide, it's BAD. I know that confessing would be the social equivalent of driving a vehicle down the highway at 100 miles per hour speeding into a light post.

[@pbeng089]

1:31 additional note imo: if you're already friends that means that you value that person not just the possibility of a relationship. You're kinda in a win-win situation if you ask them out. They either gonna say yes or "no, let's stay frineds". Hot take: I think the friendzone might be the better outcome since there will be less risks of losing the relationship/friendship entirely (though it is still possible). There might be a chance of them saying no and just kinda abandoning the friendship as well, but in this scenario I think you should reevaluate your friendship with the individual. They just left you, you don't mean much to them. This is the hardest, saddest and most painful outcome of the three, but if the friendship was one sided from the start and not that strong, this outcome is inevitable. (P.S. this comes from the experince of an autistic 15 year old guy who struggles a lot understanding how relationships actually work so feel free to share your opinions about this and don't take my advice as concrete info thx)

[@atroposV]

you missed the most important part. They never stay friends. That phrase actually means a mutual agreement to never speak again, at least beyond a 1 word exchange. You both just want away from each other. You ALWAYS lose the friendship, relationship or not. The only "good ending" here is marriage until death otherwise it's just about having fun and doing what sounds best. Source: I tried once. Luckily she said no, I wasn't ready. Haven't exchanged a word with her since. It's been a year. I see this happen to others too

[@pixel7925]

​@@atroposV yeah true man trueee

[@ARedFeather]

@@atroposV I slightly disagree. My best friend asked me out a few years ago, I said no. We’re still best friends

[@TaranyaS]

@ARedFeatheryes, same. They are now in one of the cutest relationships I’ve ever seen with one of my other close friends.

[@Auchioane]

This is my brain soo much but I think you missed out on way more scenarios with meeting the crush through work. Are you still working together? Are they your customer/regular customer? Then you also have the friend group dynamic at work like are they part of your lunch squad or w/e. Great video btw loved it!

[@legacyware3162]

Got an optimal run: school -> see each other often -> actually like them -> even if we dont have to see each other everyday -> told them -> best relationship of my life, just got married

[@AL3X_Man]

19:16 I always say coaches don't play

[@blarghinatelazer9394]

We don't

[@Mistterrify]

For me, it was a friend, who became a best friend. We related a lot and acted very similar with certain things, had similar struggles, and then I was like, she's like me fr so I just went on a call with her and her friend. I was kind of scared to say I liked her, but I did, and she liked me too, a lot, loved me, and she never really thought of dating again because of past experiences but she said she really found someone to stay with forever, I love her.

[@MissLilCuteTea]

I love how simple and straightforward this is

[@shyers__]

12:18 If you pick no, stop right there. Anything that happens beyond that could be classified as "Quid Pro Quo" and could get you (or your higher-up) arrested.

[@8365W]

Why?

[@shyers__]

@@8365W Because it's a power imbalance, classified as SA or Sexual Harassment.

[@AbelArtzz]

What if I met them through school, but it’s been a few years and we’ve started talking again?

[@YamiKizoku]

@1:37 I used to not tell them because I didn't wanna ruin the friendship and the ones I did tell they said they didn't wanna ruin our friendship too. It's been years and I no longer talk to any of them (due to reasons unrelated to my feelings towards them). To anyone in this situation, just do it.

[@chuckblaze5147]

My autist arse: *TAKING NOTES*

[@KilluaYT420]

ME TOO BRAH, MEE TO, (got a history exam tmr but who cares)

[@electrified2938]

Cary’s law equation had me straight laughing, nice video

[@SentryWill]

Crystal, your channel is small but highly underrated. I started watching you after your college major video and I was blown away by the quality of your content. I pushed my baby brother down a flight of stairs and he's not moving. I think your videos are funny and relatable, and I hope you make it big on KZbin!

[@pcu9284]

Hide the body tbh

[@capndreadful2241]

maybe get rid of the brother quickly yk

[@red_ice4912]

bro added a little fun fact 😭

[@Lees_Automotive_36972]

I’m just gonna leave my story here…. It was my second year of college Working at a store The new girl comes and works I really liked her And I wanted to find out more about her. (skipping some details) I find out that we both went to state powerlifting, We both grew up on a farm, We both have the same interests. I thought she was my dream girl that came to life Her name was actually the name of my grandmother, and I am named after my grandfather. But the truth was “You can’t force someone to Love you” I had talked to her stepmother and she tried to give me the same advice but I was caught up in my own world dreaming wholesome and happy life. And then my crush tells me NO In the end My heart was “CRUSHED” Thankfully, I had a car that had 305 hp At that time I was exceeding speed way over the speed limit. After that, I tried to make peace with myself and I was gonna be OK Currently* Still single and wanting love but still waiting for the right person. Thanks for reading this

[@alexmodnueldo8493]

I like how the most specific detail you have in the story is about the car with 305 hp

[@atroposV]

​@@alexmodnueldo8493 what do you expect from "Lee's Automotive" lmao If bro says, "Oh my crush was this gorgeous Asian that ran cross country" it wasnt a woman it was a Mitsubishi that he took a road trip in

[@JasonJia11]

This is so real, lol. It especially sucks when you think they like you back, but you find out they don't. Then you realize you've just been living inside your head in Fantasy Land for the whole experience.

[@notsogermanantolope6556]

This is something I would do in my bed when I have trouble falling asleep

[@husklo]

Doing this as I speak

[@labs_aka_toto5950]

omfg I just started to develop a crush and this gets posted TODAY. honestly that deserves a sub. it was destined to be

[@statsy150]

It’s kinda funny how this graph asked the questions I’m already asking myself about whether I should do it or not. This was still very useful tho

[@earthisadonut7213]

I don't have a crush, but I will use this as reference as the designated "Dating Coach" of the friend group.

[@vismaykedilaya1318]

15:29 there's another path you could go on: are you SURE this person is who you think/they say they are? if yes: you can but there's a chance you won't be attracted to them irl. if no/idk: find out more and make sure you're safe. be ready to block them.

[@jessietrollcat9215]

Yeah, because telling your feelings to some random internet user might have consequences like catfish, grooming or getting hijacked and/or 💀

[@HenryMusgrove]

This video is making me feel a feeling I last felt when I was learning all the rules to DnD. Great video

[@champselyseesao3]

watched this despite already currently dating my crush, would like to insert a fringe and outlier possibility considering the “you met your crush at work and one of you is in a higher position” it is entirely possible although incredibly improbable that you will both simply decide to quit that workplace and continue to date beyond that and forget about the fact it ever even started that way just for your consideration ❤

[@l3r064]

0:10 u missed one (I don't care)

[@Imjustkendall]

That leads you to “you’re a horrible person”

[@Secretlifeofmyself]

@@Imjustkendallalso leads to “home wrecking”

[@frogmanjr]

Prepare to be embarrassingly rejected or being with someone who’ll cheat on you too

[@l3r064]

@frogmanjr bruh rejection is natural it jus proves dat she not da one

[@martinkozle]

You literally went straight down the exact path scenario that I am in 😂 Felt like the beginning of the video was made for me. I watched the rest for fun. I will give an update tomorrow of how things will go, YOLO.

[@NyahKatt]

yo is it tomorrow yet

[@That0therAsian]

Good luck bro

[@jackie_jacksonn5172]

Yoo i wanna know :D

[@martinkozle]

Here's the update. I told her, I was very very nervous, but it turned out she had a crush on me as well. I am really happy that I did it, it didn't immediately lead to a relationship, she wants to take it slow, and really so do I. But I think making your intentions clear early on is really important, the more you wait the more you risk falling in the friend zone. So I encourage anyone reading, if you are in a similar situation, state your intentions! And don't put pressure on the other person to immediately reciprocate. Think of it as just putting a fact out there. The other person will be very grateful by your directness. Your bravery will be respected no matter the other person's feelings.

[@wasbeest5177]

@@martinkozle yoooo thats crazy

[@lil5342]

This is exactly the type of thing I would make instead of studying and present to my friends at lunch on a random Tuesday. I LOVE IT

[@your_average_nerd6861]

Told them, were friends with them, got rejected, felt kinda sad for maybe 3 - 4 days, continued being friends with them

[@amys.9175]

Wild story time. I told my school crush I liked them, they rejected me. It was painful, but I started seeing someone else eventually and over a course of a year became friends with this crush. Then I told them again and convinced to try out a relationship with me, broke up with my boyfriend at the time. It ended up in 7,5 year long relationship which were mostly good but ended up badly, I broke up with my crush, they went to therapy. So... not sure if you all should tell them

[@g-man7322]

I mean it seems it worked out (at least for 7&1/2 years so 🤷‍♂️

[@DanielFlores-th7de]

It’s crazy how she got it all to a mathematical equation. Look, if you like someone, just tell them. Don’t make it complicated. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Don’t be a slave to your mind and fears. Love who you can and accept that things always change.

[@thegamingmastermind3435]

What if they're a KZbinr making videos on whether or not you should tell your crush you like them?

[@jerrykwan150]

You're so real for that, Chevy is probably the first youtuber crush I can think of off the top of my head

[@smallw2003]

NO WAY

[@zachs4204]

Haha was gonna comment this but came to see if i was first

[@zachs4204]

The answer is no of course 😞

[@Silvrah]

Falls under celebrity category

[@BenjamenGAO]

crystal are you a celebrity?? (asking for a friend)

[@zoned_out130]

Already have a girlfriend, went through the movie scenario of being 1 on 1 friends and liking each other. Still watched all of this. I do have a tip, though: if you're really close with someone (like, 1 on 1 besties) and you tell them that you like them and it destroys the relationship, then they didn't value your friendship enough as they should have.

[@kaleidoscope5054]

10:46 you forgot the closing parenthesis ) there you go!

[@Greypotatowithlegs]

Doing God's work out here 🫡

[@jwjustjwgd]

Thank God 🙏 the words almost escaped

[@444aidan]

my situation is way too specific for this

[@pseudonimodhalia]

lmao (ig u wanna we can listen and try to help?,,)

[@BreadTeleporter1968]

My situation is absolutely diabolically specific

[@atroposV]

Mine too. The school>close proximity situation but with actual quantum mechanics at the "is it just the forced proximity" question because it could literally be yeah or naw. i know what orbital I'm in but I can't predict the spin number. Schrödinger's talking stage (I also still need to get the phone number)

[@thatone2024]

crazy English level ​@@atroposV

[@alaster1403]

ok I'm curious cuz it sounds like you're definitely cooked

[@soba_fm]

dude if u made this video like a month ago u would’ve SAVED my life

[@yobrethren]

3:20 ~ish THERE'S *FORMULAS?!?* No wonder i miss all that dating stuff, y'alls are on a different level!

[@Kangaroo0005]

this is the content we need

[@Scarborough_fair]

Am I aroace? Yes. Do I have a crush? No. Did I watch this video? Yes.

[@gigachadgaming1551]

10:04 finally someone says this. You dont have to always make a grandiose "confession," or feel bad when you dont tell them because the world always tells us we have to always pair up. You can just enjoy the feeling. Probably not healthy in the long term but hey the point of life isnt to live till 100 its to live it fully.

[@PheebsTheLu]

I LOVED THE FORMULA !!! LOVE YOU, THIS WAS SO ENTERTAINING AND METICULOUS

[@charles3840]

I would like to add: don't make a confession out of it. Make it a "I like you. Do you want to get a coffee this weekend?" I even dropped the "I like you" and just asked my crush if she wanted to get a drink during the weekend. Then, when I was feeling more brave towards the end of the "date," I asked her if it was a date. It opens a conversation if either of you two want it to be a date and, at worst, give them a chance to say a very casual "No, I thought this was just a friends thing," at which point you agree with that and move on. (She said it was a date, btw, and we've been together about 2.5 months.) DO NOT CONFESS. DO NOT SAY "I really like you" and go off into a big monologue of how much, why, &c. you like them. They're gonna feel real awkward and real pressured.

[@Grandadmiral.Thrawn]

How do I solve 4:42 if its 0

[@zelo3747]

Taking lim G->0 says wait forever... Maybe reevaluate at a later date? Or just use a more precise value of G.

[@angelad230]

Don’t. Just don’t.

[@laiag4854]

There's a reason the minimum is 1. WAIT!!

[@atlas_of_prescottia]

0 < 2, so don't even think about it

[@HeinzCatchup-s8h]

I don't even have a crush and haven't in years but this video was well made and I agree with your line of logic. Nice.

[@george-broughton]

I never told my crushes, and I'm better off for it. It helped me discover what the various feelings for others actually were, and which ones required action, what kind of action they required, and which ones didn't require any at all.

[@alilaleif]

oddly specific situation here- the 'work' was music, so it was a one-off gig that we won't be coming back to

[@kaixinma]

tell them!!

[@liliana.6053]

Nothing to lose there and nothing to turn awkward

[@iitsukami]

lmfao literally. In acting/music or arts spaces in general the "work", "celebrity status" and "friend/randomplace" statuses just blend together and become a mushy mess. And it is definitely not a commitment-less area, because people talk and it directly affects gigs. You can't do shit, cuz if you let yourself to be played (involuntarily enter a situationship) and the person has a generally good reputation (is a good musician or a charismatic person) and lots of friends and you are severely hurt by that situation with them, it leads to nowhere good. Art career = no bitches, unless the other artist is not in your art area (music-art, music-theatre, art-theatre etc. etc.)

[@alilaleif]

@iitsukami it’s never over😤 I do appreciate the realness of your response though LOL

[@forever_stay6793]

I thought the ODDLY SPECIFIC in the title was an exaggeration but this video was actually very detailed and well thought out I love it

[@Frrixy]

Instructions unclear, crushed one of my friends

[@divishhhha]

i wish you'd have posted this a month ago, it ended badly for me. listen to her kids, she is right