When Babysitters Had to Call the Police on the Parents

[@LupusGelos]

I forgot to go and calm the baby down after she started crying for 10 minutes. Just like that, the Social Worker came and took her away, no court order, ne previous visits, nothing. She just heard the baby crying and marched right in and took her away. Cant have s**t in Sim City.

[@Keiji555]

Could probably go for that criminal career branch, get promoted a bunch, fire her when she becomes your underling, and whack her. Easy as that.

[@1981summertime]

I thought this was in real life lol

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

Had me in the first half, not gonna lie.

[@bucketbob6736]

My dad once had two sims and one day he logged on and they killed them selves like he logged on and there were just two body’s and the grim reaper

[@gooddad3575]

Noone should ever feel bad about having to call child services to save innocent children. Thats not snitching. Thats being a hero and actually making a difference. 👍

[@tejaswoman]

Yup. I've had to do it on a couple of members of extended family. In one case, I even volunteered to be the one to do it because we all agreed they needed to be called but for various reasons, it would complicate everyone else's life far more to be the reporter than it would complicate mine. Mom was able to hang on to the kids probably because it was early 2020 and COVID lockdowns changed situations in a way that made it difficult for CPS to get a verification of what she was doing no matter how much they dropped in. On the bright side, she seems to have stopped doing most or all of it, and about six months later she let me back in the kids' lives because she needed my help with their schooling.

[@JillianNoelle]

The sexual abuse ones and the one where the mom neglected to get her baby medical attention, make my insides hurt. 😢

[@lynnford412]

I was the kid- my babysitter literally left. I was at home by myself for four hours and she only came back 15 minutes before my parents got home. She got paid 🙄

[@lindseycollins5633]

What....the fuck...what the fuck is wrong with people...did you not tell your parents or something?? Or did you tell them after?? Or did they just not believe you??

[@lynnford412]

@@lindseycollins5633 I just didn’t realize it was an issue until I was older and it was too late to do anything about it. It’s funny now, but I had also just healed from a broken collarbone, so I was lucky to be alive with how stupid I was then 😂

[@jonas_ellis]

Shit like this makes my blood boil.

[@AwesomeShelbiNicole]

That happened to me too, but technically I was like 11-12 and my younger sister was around 10 years old and it was my older sister (17) who was supposed to watch me. She asked if we needed her there we said no. So she left and then came back before mom and dad could get home and we all agreed not to tell. And since we never got caught we kept doing it. Turns out later on (I was in my early 20's at this point) I admitted the whole thing to my mom.... SHE. KNEW. THE. WHOLE. TIME....

[@johnmccrossan9376]

While that's awful and your babysitter is a terrible person who shouldnt be left in charge of kids i can't help but respect them a bit for hustling your parents so well

[@nikhilpatel8752]

The first story has a very wholesome ending and I’m glad the girls got a good home

[@lindseycollins5633]

Last story teller: "my mom, being the nut job she was/is, desided it was still my fault and grounded me" Me: *DEEP inhale* "da fuq?"

[@strudel_reviews]

I hope Op cuts contact with her mom when she turns 18

[@lindseycollins5633]

@@strudel_reviews yeah same

[@REDridingh00d16]

Oh yeah, her daughter nearly gets killed by a couple of drugged up drunk assholes, but yeah it's *TOTALLY* her daughters fault. What kind of bullcrap logic is that?!

[@sarahferreira6937]

I wish I could double slap a few of these types of parents

[@reedgfx435]

Some people are legitimately fucking retarded in their own way.

[@lactobacillusprobiotic7029]

The first story was really sweet and I’m happy they are safe now.

[@salzkasten]

Except the mother just died somewhere.

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

The PTSD one makes me so mad. It seems like OP and the person who replied were trying to give the dad leeway because he had PTSD. Hitting your kids is not a "coping mechanism". It doesn't make it any less abusive. And the fact that he raised a hand to try and slap OP makes me believe that the whole "coping mechanism" thing was an excuse and not true.

[@PonderingStudent]

It might well have been true, but that doesn't make it any more acceptable than if he's just using that as an excuse. He was an adult and needed to act like one. No matter how bad you feel, the one thing you should never never do is take out how you feel on children. Its not their fault, they are in a powerless position, and its your responsibility to ask for help, from other adults, if you're not coping. I am glad the dad got help though, since it at least reduces the risk that he'll ever do it again. I'm even angrier at the mother, who refused to believe the physical evidence right under her nose, though. She had no excuse at all, dad might well have got help sooner and her son been less damaged if she'd noticed and acknowledged what was going on.

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

@@PonderingStudent i agree, and everyone just seems to think the PTSD is an excuse but it's not at all, it may explain it, but doesn't excuse it. The mother had no excuse though, she's the worst.

[@PonderingStudent]

@@tidepodpadthai2633 "it may explain it, but it doesn't excuse it" is EXACTLY right. It feels like OP and other commenters were also giving the Dad leeway because he's a veteran. I wonder if the responses would have been different if he'd acquired the PTSD another way?

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

@@PonderingStudent Probably not, honestly. A lot of people treat veterans like these saints who can do no wrong which isn't always true, like in this case

[@codex_jinora]

I read a comment further up that said "The kid was already scared of him coming home, meaning he did it before the PTSD as well" and that just made my stomach drop.

[@Human-kb6xc]

15:15 of all the stories, this one broke my heart the most. The way the son KNEW that there was something horribly wrong even as young as he was.

[@QueenSunstar]

Always, always wake a sleeping baby placed in your care. If baby doesn’t wake up, bad sign. Call for help. I was taught this back during my time working in a daycare. I have responded to several calls of unresponsive baby in my time thus far as a paramedic. One call led to dead baby. Baby suffocated while in their car seat because parents thought that was okay. What happens is baby’s chin rests on chest and it closes off their windpipe. Baby can’t lift head due to undeveloped neck muscles.

[@beckel3593]

Good idea

[@fitriaahsani1286]

Thank you for the tips! My goodness i am not married yet *and* I know baby who can't yet hold his/her head yet can't be left alone in weird position :( and he/she sat by his/herself in the cat seat? poor baby...

[@beepboopbeep111]

no one: not a single soul: Updoot Everything: BAABISIT

[@AwesomeShelbiNicole]

Technically wasn't babysitting. More like I lived with my in laws at the time. My SIL was kicked out for doing M. Had a baby and then would leave it at our house for her m-head mom (my MIL unfortunately) to watch. Anyways SIL came over high out of her freaking face MIL was also out of her freaking face.... I was supposed to go to work but called in so I could stay home (because you know there was a baby). After three days of calling in I was told since it wasn't a medical reason I could be fired. SIL and MIL were nowhere to be found and neither was my FIL or husband since they were working. So I called the police for child abandonment. They took the baby and I went to work. Last I heard baby was taken, but good news was that SIL got cleaned up and is doing really well now and her and the baby (she is 9 now) have a good life. SIL is married and baby has 2 brothers now.

[@janethmedellin6842]

I'm happy that this story ended well

[@leahcookscreates3706]

I had to call CPS one time on a neighbor because of their neglect of their Son..we found him walking naked at 11.00pm in winter down the street. Another day he was screaming in his room for hours I saw him standing on the window sill and hubby jumped the fence to find the little fellow had his fingers jammed in the window and the parents got pissed with my Husband for interfering. The final straw came when we almost ran over him..by the grace 9f God a tragedy was averted that day due to me forgetting something I was coming back to the car and saw something behind the back tyre sure enough it was the little boy sound asleep..I still feel sick thinking that if I hadn't forgotten the item then we would have run him over .. He was removed the next day.

[@talyncormier4214]

As a foster child. I know how uncomfortable and sad it can be. Really happy to hear the first story. Those parents are better people than most probably give them credit for.

[@paulhill3106]

a mouse ran across my foot and screamed.. did not know that mice screamed... How loud was the scream???

[@tejaswoman]

Was expecting this reaction within the Reddit comments.

[@DarethLover67]

like this: *AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAÄAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAĄAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAÃAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAÅAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAªAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA* my fingers hurt now

[@frosted_glaceon5513]

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[@Roadent1241]

Mice are surprisingly loud. I know I'm HoH but it's audible when they want it to be. Source - I recently heard one technically screaming in the grip of one of my cats' mouths.

[@swimfast724]

The people who helped these kids are amazing. Some people say they shouldn't have quit you could save more kids, but even if you regret not doing more or even if you feel like you didn't do enough, helping one child is better than none. You could be/have been the changing day in that child's fate. Thank you to all of you 🙏❤

[@lcoq19]

My birthgiver signed me over to my dad when I was an infant. But he had to work to support us so we lived with his mom(my _real_ momma- the personwho raised me), who was my primary caregiver. The birthgiver would take me on weekends (which she had no legal rights to but was allowed because my momma is a gracious person who tried to allow her to be a part of my life); I suspect she only took me to satisfy her own mother and grandmother's wishes. When she'd take me on Friday, I'd have no diaper rash and when I was returned on Sunday I'd have diaper rash so bad it bled and required a doctor's visit. It kept happening until the only way she was allowed to take me was to pick me up on Fridays at the sheriff's office; they'd pull my diaper off and show the sheriff I didn't have diaper rash. Then when she returned me on Sundays, it was the same process with her handing me back off to my momma. It literally took this stupid process to get her to actually take care of her own fucking kid. She has 2 more. The eldest is a boy, and an asshole, who she gave to her parents. She gave me to my daddy and by the time he remarried and I was 2, I'd become so attached to his mother, my _real_ mother, that he allowed me to choose to live with her (they asked me throughout my childhood to live with him and my stepmother, but I refused to leave the only real mother I had ever had). And the 3rd kid, another girl, she kept. I love my younger sister to death but she got the short end of the stick, tbh. Birthgiver did take me fairly often for weekends when I was older but there were also many times of her calling to say she'd pick me up Friday and then 4 year old me would sit on the doorsteps for an hour (like 2 weeks in little kid time) only for her to never show with no explanation or to give a shitty excuse next time. I do have good memories of zoos and movie theaters and taco bell and Chuck E. Cheese/Discovery Zone on her weekends when I was a little older, but I remember more of the time with my sister than her and her husband. Ah, well. What's done is done. I've had a pretty good life, all things considered. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@aprilfox9205]

I'm sorry honey...😕

[@lcoq19]

@@aprilfox9205 thank you. I'm not sorry though. I got a great mother out of it!

[@AwesomeShelbiNicole]

I have a younger cousin who went through that same thing. (Only it was both parents giving up rights to her grandmother because they wanted to be drunk/high all the time.) When she was little I would baby sit her sometimes and I would try to make it fun like going to the park or swimming. She's a teenager now and now has relationships with her parents but kind of at an arms length. She'll go visit them for the day, or go out to eat with them. But they're not super close.

[@WolvenDragonZ]

I get why you're using the term and not to marginalize, but "the birthgiver" feels like it should be part of a fantasy novel prophecy lol Good on your momma for always putting you and your happiness first (had to be hard to not slap a bitch instead of trying to safely letting you have a chance to have a relationship) and on your Dad for letting you chose where you felt safest.

[@vivi44]

That PTSD Army Vet one hits hard. My Girlfriend asked me to pick her up for something similar. Dad who had been over sea's threatened to throw down with us but when he saw I had a gun that I concealed carried he backed off. I told him I killed for my country for a paycheck so as a fellow enlisted he knew I'd do him for free. Their is a stigma in the armed forces about getting mental help means your weak and will look poorly on your record. While I sympathize and hope he got the help he needed we called CPS and never saw them again.

[@starbird3939]

Oh god, that English teacher... He probably wanted to peep on the mom (or blackmail her) and probably also wanted to sleep with OP.

[@thinkink3001]

I was the baby sitter. Never called cps but gave the mum a hell of a talking to. She left her todler with me all night, with no diapers, no spare clothes, no pyjamas and no instructions for food (thankfully i had a bunch of my teeth removed and had baby food/custard and soft foods in the house).

[@animelover7412]

Ugh. The sexual one on a little girl boils my blood. I mean, what the actual heck is wrong with people?!

[@sherrybrissette1614]

As a mandated reporter, I thank all of the heros who called the cops and saved the children. I cry every time I have to call CPS and I am a trained professional.

[@metarcee2483]

My babysitter had to call an ambulance once when I had a seizure. I had no history. It turned out to be a medication issue.

[@angrynoodletwentyfive6463]

The first mom sounded like she really was trying to do right by those girls but just didn't have a full deck to work with. her first instinct when coming to was to try to get the girls to somebody she trusted. I wonder if she flaked on the parenting classes because she knew the girls were better off with the foster parents then they could ever be with her.

[@frosted_glaceon5513]

Wait... So a parent comes back drunk, and op protects the kids and does what they can in the situation, and they get in trouble? wtf?

[@nopcshere6097]

Unfortunately it happens a LOT. It's because the babysitter has exposed the parent's criminal behavior which can result in them losing the kids and of course, they hate that.

[@17andtravelling]

Called the police while babysitting once, thankfully not on the parents! It was Halloween and two boys came to the door about 5:00, and looked to be about 12 and 14. The children I was babysitting didn't know where the chocolate/sweets were that they were going to give out, as this was earlier than expected for the first ones to arrive. They picked up some of their own little chocolate pumpkin balls, and gave the boys about 3 each, only the have them say that they weren't real sweets and they then threw them back at the children, hitting one and narrowly missing the other. They then biked away round the corner. A lady was walking her dog past the house a little after this, and said that they'd just told her to give them her dog and claimed to have a gun (UK so unlikely). She refused and they then knocked on this door. After trying to settle the kids down a bit, trying to get them focused on homework and trying to stop freaking out myself, I realised that whilst they may not have done much damage to these kids apart from quite a fright, there could be other kids home alone and who knows what they could try with them. I went into a different room and called the non emergency police number which way too few people know about in the UK (101) and reported the incident. Apparently I should have got the other lady's name with the dog, because that was a crime, and much more clear cut than what they did to us. They then told me if they come back I must call 999 instead. Thankfully the parents came home just as the call ended so I was able to pass the info onto them and cycle home when it wasn't too dark, as I really didn't want to be cycling home much later with those people in the neighbourhood on Halloween. As I was in the garden getting my bike, the mum went out to the front of the house, and realised that they'd been egged too. The police called me back later to get the parents details and other info they needed to file the report, but that's about as far as it went.

[@elizabethpiccolo5534]

I’ve read that you never accept a sleeping baby. Something could be seriously wrong and you could possibly be charged if you had no knowledge. Wake the baby up and make sure that it’s ok.

[@kendoruslink7017]

Why do parents always seem to brush off their child being sick and that

[@edgelordofhosts]

'His dad does that to him...' my heart sank

[@pattyputman4409]

Can't imagine how these people felt. Never felt the need to call police while I was babysitting lots of years ago. I guess I was a lucky babysitter. Speaking of babysitting...can't the computer voice be programmed to pronounce babysitting correctly? It is so annoying to hear it mispronounced!

[@WolvenDragonZ]

Relative had been out drinking with a group of relatives and decided to crash for awhile on the couch at her brother's house because it was closest. He and his wife were out drinking with the group so they had an elderly babysitter watching their kids (Babysitter knew her so they just waved at eachother). She wakes up to the smell of smoke and sees the kitchen has a decent little fire going, but she grabs the extinguisher and puts it out a little before the rirefighters burst in. About this point is when she realizes that the baby's still in it's crib. This adult woman had started a fire then ran out of the house and had the neighbors call 911, then waited on the lawn. Completely ditched the baby.

[@russcrawford3310]

School called CPS on me ... I know who, and I called and thanked him ... he was shocked, I insisted he did the right thing ... I hope that embolded him ... protecting children touches my heart like nothing else ... [smile] ... I keep a clean house, CPS didn't do anything ...

[@kribaby76]

Back in the '80s we were pretty tight neighborhood 5 or 6 houses of kids who would all play together you know ,well a new set of kids moved into the neighborhood two little boys they were with their dad he was a single parent at first everything was all right they made friends with my brother so they played with him quite often and we had a pool in our backyard so the first time they took off their shirts to climb in the pool and we saw the marks we didn't know what to do basically. It didn't take long for us to start hearing the results of their father's discipline you could hear the beatings outside the house the words windows closed could hear each and the valuable in each individual smack and the boys crying out screaming and pain begging him to stop. My mom couldn't take it anymore she said these boys when she could if their father found out they ate he would beat them they had worms because they would eat out of the garbage and really bad stuff. Mom called CPS and it's one of the best things she ever did.

[@reagantalley3266]

For 4:40 the one about the girls being whipped with a belt so hard it left bruises every where... my mom used to do that to me and my brother with belts, coat hangers, tv cords, one time she beat my brother with his Xbox cord.... she held me down by my arm and whipped me with a metal belt across my back like a slave and I had to go to school the next day with welts and I couldn’t sit in my desk properly because it just felt like my back was on fire and I got my friends to look for me and they were absolutely horrified.....tbh I told them to not report it because of the circumstances about their fathers my little siblings would probably go to foster care/ with my dead stepdads abusive drug addict hoarder parents.....lmao over sharing on a KZbin video anyway I moved out as soon as COVID hit and I graduated early at 17 bc of it and only talk to my mom when she’s giving me money/ Christmas gifts (now she wants to be nice to me after I leave 🙄)

[@sunnyquinn3888]

I'm just still trying to figure out what not having soda or maraschino cherries in the fridge has to do with anything.

[@aprilfox9205]

Me too, like wtf???😳😵

[@tejaswoman]

Guess she was trying to paint a contrast with the kind of sweet tiny gestures most families made for her when she was babysitting.

[@evasmiljanic3529]

Families will often leave out some snacks and drinks like soda for babysitters. She's saying the family never bothered to do that for her even though they had money for it.

[@JKLoopy]

I had this one babysitter that my parents hired to babysit me, they asked if she could look after my dogs one time while I was at my grandparents and they were in LA for their anniversary. The babysitter locked my dogs in the bathroom and hosted a party without permission. My parents came back to the babysitter and dogs nowhere to be found, after about 20 minutes the babysitters friend came back with my dogs after a walk. My parents then found everything a mess in my home and inside the bathroom door was scratch marks which took off the paint off the door. The babysitter was then fired and wasn't paid, I still have the dogs in this story to this day, they are old now

[@therealiateyopie7997]

there was one time my mom had to call the police when my grandma was picking me up from school to watch me because i forgot she was getting me and went to my friends house cuz my door wouldn’t open. i scared the hell out of my grandma when she couldn’t find me, i feel super bad abt it now i can’t imagine what she was thinking when i wasn’t there

[@titusbunce6031]

Honest opinion: child molesters and abusers should get castrated and death penalty

[@foggyfrogy]

I'm not for body mutilation or the death penalty....but some monsters really make me doubt my own morals...

[@user-kf9cn4rp3t]

We are about to enter the last month of 2020

[@juniperberries9437]

Merry Christmas

[@ginaabello3938]

we're in it now lol

[@DarethLover67]

damn, I'm alive

[@Nutmeg2063]

So I never had to call the cops but I babysat for a State police officer for a summer. That was interesting. He always managed to call when the 5 year old son was having a temper tantrum at like 2 or 3 pm because the kid still really needed naps. He would always come home and get in the boys' faces (5 and 7) for acting up while I hid in a corner...... Cause scary Statie yelling..... I sat for them one night during the week-long drunken Italian festival that occurs every year in the neighboring town. Mom came home visibly plastered and I totally exploded a glass plate in the microwave and cut my finger because the boys wanted popcorn. Ran into the dad like 10 years later and he absolutely remembered me. He's a decent guy.

[@kionnakelly2918]

Lol @ "he's a decent guy ". Sure doesn't sound like it....

[@lizbriar9565]

To those who babysit there’s a fun game that can entertain kids for ages and all it requires is a handheld mirror. Kid holds it so they see the ceiling and pretend they’re walking on the ceiling instead of the floor stepping over obstacles and whatnot. I used to do it all the time when I was a kid. No one taught me the game but it kept me entertained. Should probably be played with supervision to prevent tripping or walking into walls but it’s fun and handheld mirrors aren’t usually that expensive.

[@franklydankly1343]

The last part of the last story made me mad. How the fuck was that her fault she nearly got attacked by a couple of druggies and defended herself and some children?

[@zierragacha5089]

The last story made me mad because the girl's mom blamed and grounded her for what happened when she was trying to protect the kids, like wtf did she do to get in trouble?

[@Gloria-ro4vn]

Being hit with a belt leave welts, personal experience.

[@tashaconant5169]

2:30 story. I feel bad for the mom who disappeared. She had alot of problems and I wish she'd been able to get help. She definitely dead. And I'm kinda assuming it was that serial killer who put women in this box thing in his truck and murdered them, but idk for sure he was active at the time. But I still feel bad for her. I know way to much about serial killers, I guess.

[@kionnakelly2918]

Are you talking about the green river killer?

[@tashaconant5169]

possible, but I don't think so. I can't remember now.

[@Chimerism101]

@@kionnakelly2918 Sounds more like Robert Ben Rhoades, the Truck Stop Killer.

[@Usalas56]

Dude got punched in the gut 13 times for downloading apps? Yo that caught me way off guard 😶‍🌫️😳

[@maddy3821]

My mom used to frequently babysit 3 kids and they would pull knives on her and threaten her (they were between the age of 4-7 I believe) and the only reason she didn’t quit was because the parents were paying her so good. Anyway police would regularly show up to the house too because of what the kids did. She quit when one of the kids stabbed her in the arm (it didn’t do any damage as he was a little kid and didn’t have very much strength)

[@KoiDayz]

The thumbnail tho- 😳✊✨✨

[@JonahFried.]

Anya Olson

[@Inflamarie]

That first story is beautiful

[@lh6955]

The first story ❤❤

[@ashlynnheller8400]

10:15 I feel bad for both the Uncle and the babysitter. Like why would the parents not tell her he was there.

[@zoesherwin]

Was babysitting over a holiday and super drunk aunt showed up banging on the door demanding I open the door and let her in. I looked us in the parent room then in the parents bathroom and called the police. I didn’t know who the drunk woman was until mom came home yelling at me for getting her sister arrested............was a meant to open the door?!?!

[@sarahno4748]

The last story took forever to get through jeeze. I could read it 10x over at this rate.

[@kariduanimations]

This has nothing to do with anything but occasionally I babysit a friend’s kid (~8) and he has a big crush on me, it’s cute lol

[@itiswhatitis_842]

Happy that the girls in the first story had a happy ending.

[@chumplestiltskin7927]

Imagine all the deplorable places in the internet these people, and those like them go to find their thimbnails.

[@demonflowerchild]

What was the thumbnail

[@nattclf8574]

The family from the first story sound like fabulous people

[@Narutojaden]

If it was PTSD why would the 11-year-old know what was coming before the dad even got home... BTW post traumatic stress disorder can happen to victims of abuse you can check out the checklist for what qualifies but to be honest that is not an excuse for treating people wrong there are plenty of people they get PTSD that don’t go on and abuse other people having PTSDFrom war isn’t an excuse for hurting a child of your own molesting children because you were molested as a child is not an excuse being an alcoholic and doing some thing you’re not supposed to do is not an excuse if you’re putting yourself in situations that you are able to control yourself and it isn’t forced on you as in someone is literally making you do something by tying you up or what not you know what I mean by that then it’s your own actions that are creating the problem I find it very disturbing that people like to label things and then once they have this label they’re able to blame that word instead of actually looking at themselves and tell themselves that they are doing something they shouldn’t be doing I know a lot of people aren’t as self-awareBut that’s because they choose to not be

[@domoniquekennedy9727]

It's kinda sad that ppl see a teen with a young kid and automatically think teen mom. Like nothing wrong with being a teen mom just a lot of judgement comes with it and babysitter are a thing and so are older sisters so the automatic judgement is sad.

[@Mini_Squatch]

6:00 that's why there's the rule of olly-olly-oxenfree

[@xmel0dy318]

Not my story, but my friend was being babysat by her older sister (Who was 17). Anyways, her sister went out to get food and came back drunk. Parents got home and the older sis had gotten in trouble and tried to bribe the parents with wine. Anyways, she went to juvie or something similar.Made me sad.

[@justarandomotaku210]

I don’t care what people say, abusing your kids IS NOT A COPING MECHANISM that just sounds like an excuse. I don’t care how tough you think you are, if you are in the military, and you see/do/experience shit, make sure you get the appropriate help. Your significant others or children should not have to suffer shit be you suffered as well, it is not their fault. While no one should have to go threw ptsd or other mental Health issues, YOU decided to join the military. I feel that you kinda already expect to see shit.

[@Monte8Carlo]

"babbysit"

[@stonedjasonvoorhees5959]

They need to make a licence to have kids.

[@khenudae]

Some people honestly deserve to go to hell in every sense of the word.

[@anonymousjohnn7969]

My mom babysat a baby, the parents fed it straight up sugar water, the fucking poor thing was addicted to it.

[@lynzyrisingsun]

I never had to call the cops but I used to babysit the babies in the family at 7-8yrs old. Lol the 80’s, early 90’s were a different time.. I was dang good baby sitter if I must say so myself 😁

[@donavonseibert507]

Hmm, The Babysitters Club🥰🤗. What a good 90s show. Sad it didn't last longer. Only 1 measly season😒.

[@-RHYT-]

✨ I’m not gonna be sleeping tonight aren’t I?✨

[@alecnolastname4362]

“Are not I” This is why I hate compound words.

[@-RHYT-]

@@alecnolastname4362 oh my god$

[@DarethLover67]

✨yassss queen *SHINE* ✨😌💅

[@CyanPlushCaptain]

Something tells me that Updoot gets his thumbnails from a certain website 😳😳😳

[@GA4836_]

Lmfaoooooo

[@mercadonor]

I dont get it. Iv seen this kinda comment a couple of times. It looks like a normal stock image

[@Kidree69]

Same here lmfaoooooo

[@Astepole]

@@mercadonor apparently, it's a porn actress. I looked her up and she shares absolutely no resemblance with the woman in the pic. I'm like 80% sure that the woman in the pic is a younger version of the actress that played Lillian Kaushtupper from Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.

[@mercadonor]

@@Astepole now that u replied, I saw that the owner of the channel changed the thumbnail. It was a different one I swear

[@jeaniebird999]

When I was 8 or 9 my friend convinced me to run away with her. But as sundown approached, she changed her mind and went home! I _knew_ I couldn't go home. I _knew_ running away was a serious thing and there was NO going back. I was shocked that she just gave up and acted like it was a game. To me, it was serious as fuck and I was ready to start a new life. So I was determined to stay hidden and NOT come out, even though I could hear the pain in my mother's cries. It was heartbreaking, but I was determined. Eventually, paedophile junior, of all people, found me. I never spoke to that girl, ever again.

[@binnybubu]

Calling the WHAT

[@thepurplevaporeon9781]

Not really to do with this but it is about the hide and seek bit. I remember playing it with my cousin as the stayed over and she hid in an alyway in some bins. Me and all of my other friends where screaming her name and saying she won and please come out. Of course she didn't believe us and thought we were lying and that she hadn't won. She only came out once my mum began shouting her too. I spent 30 minutes looking for her. At the end of the day she got grounded and I was originally going to be also, but once my parents realised that it wasn't my fault they just shouted at me a bit

[@stevenroebuck4814]

First one your parents are wonderful and so are you

[@sp00kie26]

Ayo the thumbnail😈

[@kangaroo432]

"BabehsitTERS of redDIT" 😂

[@kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934]

Love first story🤗

[@stickonrr5927]

so glad that that one girl still bahbeesits Edit:Its how he says babysit lol

[@beckel3593]

2 likes

[@supdograinbarff1460]

Oh

[@ryliewhite7480]

My babysitter is me and my cousin sometimes and it’s amazing we get gourmet food and cake

[@pi2623]

Anya Olsen Thumbnail np

[@hallowedknight234]

Wow

[@chettyspaghetti226]

Is that thumbnail straight from a ...

[@stevenbtheworst]

Probably

[@lay-dee]

Link or it didn't happen

[@jeb284]

Diaper rash that bad wow. My daughter’s butt got rashes like that and I changed wipes and no more. She had to have only water and cloth wipes and I already did cloth diaper from my older child. Her butt properly would of been worse if I used disposable diaper. Some baby butte are sensitive

[@mostar1219]

I know the last story isn't mainly about the failure of a mother, but I hope the poster escaped from her

[@anikgypsy]

I've been looking for the movie in the thumbnail but I can't remember its name. Can someone tell me?

[@Mexicansheriff]

Bad thumbnail for the actual content of the video 👎👎👎👎

[@lynzyrisingsun]

What that actual fuck!!

[@Bigfoot_With_Extra_Stuff]

Wtf is wrong with human parents

[@ezracox1601]

Pretend I said something funny🦆🐊

[@vapethenasty6457]

These thumbnails need to chill bro 🤣

[@vergil9303]

C : Cocky P : Police S : Service

[@bucketbob6736]

Obama

[@BlueAvocado75]

am i first?

[@lindseycollins5633]

How...."1 hour"... *this was made 58 minutes ago??* youtube wat the fuq??

[@lindseycollins5633]

I mean I guess your first?????

[@thomastube9158]

Only normies watch this

[@thomastube9158]

Oh

[@Christabbaword]

Jeremiah 51 55The Lord will destroy Babylon; he will silence her noisy din. Waves of enemies will rage like great waters; the roar of their voices will resound. 56A destroyer will come against Babylon; her warriors will be captured, and their bows will be broken. For the Lord is a God of retribution; he will repay in full. 57I will make her officials and wise men drunk, her governors, officers and warriors as well; they will sleep forever and not awake,” declares the King, whose name is the Lord Almighty.