WHEN Did You Know Your Relationship Was OVER?

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@PrettyxNxPurple 2 ай бұрын

8 years later, and he thought it was only laundry I was complaining about despite telling them multiple times "no it wasn't just the laundry"

@jayster5077 2 ай бұрын

So they where lazy to the point of lacking introspective

@PrettyxNxPurple 2 ай бұрын

I don't think he had a problem there

@LEMATTOFFICIAL 2 ай бұрын

The stubborn selfish types will always make it about some small thing to avoid accountability

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

8 years of that? You have the patience of a saint.

@crimsonsr20 2 ай бұрын

I knew it was over the day I turned numb, as we were having an arguement. After 12 years of being together, countless sacrifice, and literally being the most vulnerable I've ever been with someone, she still didn't trust me. She started an argument over her insecurities. She stated that I was probably sleeping with some girl at work. This was a reoccurring problem in our relationship. Id tell her that I wasnt the type of man to do that and she'd apologize, but would eventually return to accusing and badgering me about these supposed affairs I was having. I loved her, I really did. No one had ever shown me as much warmth and love as she had. However once her insecurities took over, it was like a switch flipped inside her and now I was an enemy. A cheater and a deceiver. A horrible person. I just couldn't take it anymore. It hurt too much till it didn't. I couldn't feel pain or love anymore, just empty and numb. I told her after I came back from work that we were done. I told her why and of course she cried, but i just couldn't anymore. After we seperated, I was hurting. My self worth was at an all time low. A friend advised I should get back into dating. I did and it went horrible. I knew i still wasnt over her, yet I pretended everything was fine. The kicker being that this new gf of mine ended up cheating on me after 4 months. That's what I get though for not giving myself time, not being able to set boundaries, and not wanting to deal with the initial heart break. Instead I ended up compounding the problem.

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

Man, that’s a lot to carry. Losing yourself trying to save someone else never works. Here’s to healing and figuring it out one step at a time.

@markusgame3 2 ай бұрын

Dude that really really really sounds like your GF had borderline. This is the exact way ppl with undiagnosed borderline can flip.

@Nicholem718-1 2 ай бұрын

@@crimsonsr20 I’m so sorry you went through that. I can relate.

@jonf2009 2 ай бұрын

I knew it was over when she finally admitted she never wanted kids. 12 years of the ever moving goalpost and it finally clicked that was what she did to avoid things just move the goal post. I knew at that moment she would never get in shape and never stop the overspending. That moment I started disconnecting and preparing for divorce or her death from heart attack/stroke etc from the laziness and binge eating. Heart failure won that race and left me a widower beyond the age where I want to sacrifice for kids with no legacy and nobody to leave everything to.

@saljpal3 2 ай бұрын

When I took her on a family outing and all she did was complain and ruined the experience. 😒

@delamarturner498 2 ай бұрын

When my last girlfriend punched me in the face. She had gone to court for a DUI, and was put on probation. Part of her probation was to remain sober and not drink. She decided that to prevent temptation she would drink all the booze in our home. She then approached me and drunkenly demanded I take her to a facility to dry her out. At this point, it was 11:30 at night, and I had to be at work at 7:30 sharp. I told her no, I would take her after work tomorrow, and that I needed to get some sleep. She argued with me, and the argument turned into a fight. She started swinging at me, and one of her fists caught my nose. I was nleeding profusely, and when I tried to call the police, she tried to snatch my phone. I tried to headbutt her to get her off, missed her nose and caught her teeth on the back of my head. I was bleeding from both sides of my head and after getting the blood to stop, i decided I didnt want this to be the rest of my life.

@todo8328 2 ай бұрын

Look how many people only noticed relationship was over *after* their partner cheated

@Nicholem718-1 2 ай бұрын

20:19 bullcrap. He cheated and is trying to act like it was a wonderful thing in the end. It wasn’t.

@nationalinstituteofcheese3012 2 ай бұрын

Cheaters help cheaters. He’s trying to make her sound sympathetic because then it makes him look better

@superboydv4676 2 ай бұрын

Story 9: He is the biggest POS who is trying to defend his disgusting actions. He broke his wife and is trying to portray himself as the victim. He chose those actions, and she shouldn't have to stay with him. It was not a happily ever after, he may think his happy but she definitely is not. She just gave up. He doesn't deserve her

@paigrounseville4465 2 ай бұрын

First serious relationship we both under twenty her mom was super religious and thus so was she. Always went with her to church stuff to have time with her, she was aware of how the church I grew up at tryed to keep the numerus predators on the hush hush yet not doing anything. One day she told me if I give up on " God " she would have to give up on me. It killed me but I said so give up then I walked out.

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

That’s heavy, man. Sometimes holding onto yourself means letting go of someone else

@paigrounseville4465 Ай бұрын

@RufusStories thank you mi Familia

@outersketcher Ай бұрын

Your relationship is OVER the moment she tells you her social media, and emails are private. She is, plans to cheat on you.

@colonelrobertsjr.7882 2 ай бұрын

Last Story: The other woman is rarely an upgrade.

@sheepisfortheweak6164 2 ай бұрын

I knew it was over when I realized that we had way too many problems that could just not be fixed and not through lack of effort either. We were just incompatible which sucked because we really did love each other and the relationship was very wholesome, but at the very least it taught me what love is supposed to look like. I'll never settle for anything less no matter what.

@iTales-y7o 2 ай бұрын

I walked in the door amd realised I was excited to come home to someone. Just not him

@davidepintus6490 2 ай бұрын

Dang, cheating with the MC? Iwould destroy their career and sue for alienation of affection.

@willasnowdon-nox7796 2 ай бұрын

when I'd be excited to go home and see him then feel my mood drop the moment I walked in the door amd realised I was excited to come home to someone. Just not him

@imjustgonnasayit415 2 ай бұрын

All of this makes me not want to date

@CrimsonFoxxo Ай бұрын

All I have to say, being pushed away from helping does things to you which you wish to forget. I stayed up night after night texting her, asking how she is doing. Not hearing back and I felt cold. And college was even colder than before. I broke it off before I went back and now I have a loving boyfriend who actually gives a fuck about me.

@phoenix-element 2 ай бұрын

I really relate with Story 7

@lavonneevans988 2 ай бұрын

Jesus was a carpenter. She thought her husband was “A good for nothing carpenter”. Wow. Apparently, she had no vision . A carpenter is one of the most important trades we have in modern society . Silly rabbit.