When do you leave your partner? | Tim Ross on dating, abuse, & relationships | The Basement Podcast

[@knxje]

I’m 21, OD’d 7 times at 18 and recently been baptized and found this show. I love you so much, more than you know.

[@thejazzylife1180]

The fact that you’re only 21 and deciding to make a change is crucial. It never to late to change unless God decides your time is up. Some people don’t come to your realization until they are much older and the damage is done. Please don’t ruin your life Jesus has so much more for you! I’m 22 and I don’t want that story when I have the chance to change now before my poor decisions affect my future marriage and future children.

[@hollywood3353]

Goodluck man..I've been in recovery for going on 10yrs..its a battle but God had to sit me down in prison and lose everything to find him. Good for you! Follow him with faith and he WILL show you a new way of life. Stay strong and make sure you do the steps, but also 1 on 1 therapy to get the necessary things out you need to! God bless.

[@hollywood3353]

I'm 37 and just found him again almost 8 years ago. Doing it at your age is amazing..I've seen death personally and lost many friends an school mates to addiction. Proud of you brother! He's been with you the whole time waiting on you to find him, or wouldn't of saved you from the 7 overdoses!

[@hollywood3353]

He's on Micheal Todd's church also..called Transformation Church..check it out on here. It's helped me solve so many issues through God's word..❤🎉

[@Hectoralejandroguerrero]

I got really sick y'all- hence why you see me slowly deteriorate through out the pod. Thank you for your prayers!!!

[@PatriciaRose907]

Are you OK now? X

[@Antixocialbutterfly]

Praying for a full recovery before your trip to Miami in Jesus name! 🙏🏼

[@alaineglover4284]

Prayers for a speedy recovery Hector.

[@tealiciaharbin7515]

You are healed!

[@desireejohnson-flemister9947]

Praying for your healing !

[@alaineglover4284]

A good book I have read that has helped to recognize narcissistic leadership is When Narcissism Comes to Church

[@leethehumble9871]

My book just came in a few days ago. I can't wait to read it. Is it good?

[@dianaflower940]

This book helped me too!!! It’s really a good book 😊

[@alaineglover4284]

@@leethehumble9871 yes it is a really good read.

[@amandaecheona1457]

His guest Jenna mountain spoke of this

[@thandekav3]

Being in South Africa we always watch the podcast alot later but it still hits the same. Siyabonga Pastor Tim.

[@poeticsindile]

We in here 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@ethanwhite6995]

@@poeticsindile We definitely here!! SA!!

[@EbenezerN]

Let's goooo

[@ntokozosiluma6918]

The highlight of my Wednesdays😊

[@noxolondlela8843]

We out here. SA is in the basement

[@ashleyoliver6989]

I want to agree with Tim on the way God does bless us with the gift of speaking in tongues. I remember being baptized (born again) and everyone receiving their gift (of speaking in tongues) BUT me! I remember being sad and when I got home while praying at around 4am, JUST like Tim described, I began to speak in a language I could not understand! I knew it was not me and I knew I could not understand it, but it just flowed out of my mouth. It was with such ease and there was a certainty within me that God had just blessed me with such a beautiful gift. I was so happy that morning! My God just drew in a little closer that morning. I was so thankful! I cried and cried tears of JOY! That happened at 17 years old for me and I am 35 years old now and I just love to trust God and flow in the Spirit. I'd say to anyone wanting to receive the gift; it won't make sense... trust God and let it flow! It may never sound like anything you have ever heard or will hear. Never stop being hungry to receive all of God's gifts! God can do it!

[@kangruckus5939]

“The sensitivity of vulnerability in fragility” -Tim Ross Bars

[@j98253]

Tim I love how real you are in your walk with life and helping so many people. Real deal I was nervous to watch this time but God would not let me stop listening to the very end. When, you shared about your first 24 months and helping that married couple it just resinated with me and helped me in my healing process of the last 5 years. My name is Johanna and if you see this please pray for me and my husband in our restoration of our marriage I would appreciate it so much.

[@loriturnbull3356]

I liked where you talked about the egg. And vulnerability being your superpower. Recently after watching an online sermon the Holy Spirit revealed something that blew me away. He showed me a family pattern that has affected my current behavior. As I processed it with Him, He continued to show me more about something I've been working on. And how they are related.🤯 This experience came to mind as you talked about doing your own work. As I do my own work, I'm changing. I can't do other people's work. Thanks for that reminder! I also enjoy the YT live-s.❤

[@catrina90210]

Funny u mentioned this. As the Lord has been also highlighting the details of family cycles as well for me. Encouraging. I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Thanks for sharing. He's Worthy!!

[@CAVILA19]

I can’t wait to see you guys in MIAMI!! VousCon is my birthday trip🎉. To be able to attend to a live recording is just 🤯.

[@tealiciaharbin7515]

Just curious Tim... 1st. Thank all of you for your obedience, time and energy that yall put into this podcast. It gives me a healthy perspective on living life the correct way. Tim, what causes your abandonment issues being that you had a great healthy upbringing. Thank you in advance and God continue to bless yal life!

[@desireejohnson-flemister9947]

Can you guys do this every Monday? I love that you guys want to reach people live and I would love to ask questions too , appreciate all the advice and faithfully wait for the premieres of your pod lol signed a faithful basementer

[@yolandahart552]

I’m watching the replay and loving it!!

[@AmarisLW]

HECTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Missed your laugh my friend. 🥺. Hope you feel better!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏 Loved the live!!! I got a few questions answered thru other people. Blessings!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@Hectoralejandroguerrero]

Love you😭❤️

[@racheld4766]

I have watched pretty much all of your podcasts but this one 😢. I feel like God spoke to you because he knew what I was gonna pray and cry to Him about tonight before watching this podcast. Thank you for listening to Him 🙏🏾

[@Dems967]

It’s the Pod on Monday for me!Come through Unc Tim!

[@recipebandit3563]

This is the only podcast that I listen & enjoy to the intro shoutouts🤣. Blessings Basement

[@emanipettiford868]

I love how God allows you communicate in the spirit because you spoke in tongues was natural and I could tell it was genuine

[@kimfatica2228]

I just stumbled on to this after spending several hours watching KZbin videos of Tim and Preston. I didn't realize my notifications were off.😢 I won't miss another live chat if I can help it! ❤

[@ambe_ezy]

I missed the live because I was watching old episodes 😒 lol but definitely a good surprise for this gloomy Monday in Cali

[@quintonque1040]

@TheBasement Put out as many Podcast's ill speak for myself and can say I can listen to what you saying 24/7 because its eye opening, in ways one needs to be self aware of who i am and who is around me.

[@Mrhenry_fit]

We need a financial podcast!!

[@TiffanyParson-mw3yz]

Myron Golden is amazing

[@jordandandy4767]

3 EPISODE IS CRAZYYYY🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@quintonque1040]

This is the "Discussion" I needed to stay in tune for, because what was mentioned in 45-50min is how and what i needed to hear based on a past experience. As adults we supposed to speak through things not hide and run.

[@tabithajohn8254]

I’m so glad that you even think about us 😫❤️this suprise blessed me a lot 🙏

[@Nichole4Hope]

Do this again PLEASSSEEE!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I was working and did not know. If I did, it would’ve been on my calendar FOR SURE. 💯💯💯 Sending ❤from sunny Florida.

[@noahholden1750]

“God ain’t petty.” 😮‍💨🔥

[@Yaya_P]

“Oh.. go straight to the justice of peace, what the problem is” iiiiiii hooolllllaaaawwddddd 😂🤣😂🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Favorite thing to listen to while I telework

[@reneeorsak1144]

Basement live eeeek!!! Can’t wait for all the testimonials! Hallelujah

[@a.lan83]

I watch the pods in my car, so it takes me till the next Tuesday to be caught up 😂 but it feels great to always have something to watch/listen to. Love y'all!

[@ashleyoliver6989]

I am so happy! I can listen to your wise words everyday!

[@aramideabosede4082]

You guys got me on this one. This came as a huge surprise to me 'cos I receive y'all content in Nigeria on Wednesday and on Friday. So seeing this post was a shock and a beautiful surprise as well. I was like is this a episode I missed or what's going on. Then I saw that this was posted a few hours ago. Thanks for the surprise,Tim. Shout out to Juli, Hector, Sammie, Love you guys💕

[@Nichole4Hope]

Same here 😅

[@lachamaisalet7606]

Amazing word!!! Fire fire fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@user-ps1zh9bq1j]

Thank you for being on air… you have been so helpful to me with my life and marriage.. oh ps.. how can I get sweat shirt in the basement..

[@monicasoyombo3360]

I was on for about 20 min then i had to hop off to prep dinner for the kiddos, but the title....yo i was literally about yo ask some questions on this topic like🧐🧐🧐. Im going to make a cup of ☕ and enjoy the pod after my quiet time... Should we go live every Monday yaaaaaaas for da Lord!🙌🏿 From Owings Mills Maryland baby!

[@jordandandy4767]

The evolution of Hector fading in this is wild 😂 get better dude!! Props to powering through and still delivering like always .

[@NoemiFodorenau]

Well dang it!!! I missed the live but I’m here in boondocks of far south Weatherford, Texas catching the replay!

[@yvngapollo7234]

She coming in Honda, she coming in a Honda, she coming in a Honda.🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@reneeorsak1144]

Sooo beautiful Tim!!! What a new season indeed!!!

[@LynaeBarnett]

I knew I wasn’t trippin’! It was live 😭😭😭 my chest hurts!

[@Team_Blackledge]

A MONDAY EP LETS GOOOOOOO

[@TheIronPath]

45:55 bookmarking. On Forgiveness and not being bitter.

[@tonyabuford2095]

I'm mad Missed the live. I have never missed an episode

[@cassandrabyrd2788]

I definitely can relate to using the Bible, podcasts, and books for mentorship when it is not available in person.

[@eliawhitaker2497]

Yasssss for the lord! Im bummed i missed this live!!!

[@byrondavis8323]

The Q&A is dope. The title of the episode throws me off tho. Didn't hear much about what the title specified.

[@amandahernandez8279]

Amazing!! I love how much impact you have guys have. Thanks for obeying God’s word. 💕 Listening from Winter Haven, FL. Saludos Tim

[@karenalicea-dunn2099]

Great episode 👏

[@northlight6759]

I really appreciate the open rebuke of purity culture. I'm 37 and still struggling with its brainwashing, feels like I'm alone in it, and I still hear snippets of purity culture in the churches I usually attend. Honestly the whole thing has strained my loyalty to the church. So it's very refreshing to hear Christians not hedge or hmm-haw, but directly repudiate it

[@avia-dawnwalcott6006]

Great advice to feel the emotions. Feels great. I relearning how to feel now. I used to bury everything so as not to have a wicked heart l but that wasn’t the way to go

[@clarrisanabanoba6202]

Yaaaassssss for the live every monday

[@_javielys]

Thank you for the live!!! 🤩

[@mexicaflor05]

Praying my future husband loves me like Tim loves Juliet ❤

[@jasmineb0411]

So mad I missed the live. I was at work 😢.

[@claudiamesa8619]

Oooooouuuuuffffff!!! To Nike stuff, and just do it really hit home for me❤ and to not be paralyzed by a longing/desire 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽amen.

[@1990imthebest]

“Delete that Snapchat.” Hector! I screamed! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Kristen-z1q]

Amen! He is working all things for good even in times I don’t see it or feel it! Praise Jesus! ❤

[@papo30013]

The bit on tongues... 🤣🤣🤣💀💀 AND thank you!! I needed to hear it! Until that time comes, I pray Holy Spirit continues to provide me with prophecy.

[@saulhernandez5922]

Thanks!

[@ms_aariona]

So when Tim was talking about who he was going after referring to homer and the bushes it made me think about what I believe apostles do - round up the sheep and tend to the flock. I by no mean am concrete in this 😅AND when Tim was talking about that it instantly made me think about how apostles go out to shepherd.

[@sojo973]

This is healing me so much ❤

[@loidatshebeha8397]

You got me thinking 🤔 if it was already Tuesday or Thursday …. I loveeee you You all Let’s goooooooo❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@monizalez]

eyyy!!! I'm excited to see you here in Miami :D

[@annolamiju4363]

I am really missing the old theme song! 😢

[@johnathanrutledge5400]

Please come to Charlotte, NC

[@crucialily]

31:15 i cant do dates anymore i get way too attached... i always says we can be friends and if you want to marry me after bwing friends go right ahead

[@brookehampton_121]

Can’t wait to have you Timmy!! 😊VOUS is SO excited! 🎉 The Basement Live is sold out… VOUSCon not yet sold out!! Come hang with us!🫶🏻

[@poppnitwithpre]

It is obvious I’m not doing something right. I feel I keep being placed in the wilderness.

[@kraer22]

I love the bobble head!!!

[@Derrick619.]

I’m hurt… was off work today and coulda caught this 💔🙆🏻‍♂️

[@Derrick619.]

But I’m happy that I was able to spend time with my daughter today. Notifications are now on and won’t miss moving forward 🫶🏼 Gods Kids

[@jamekathomas5120]

Me too 619, I missed it.

[@manuelasmith441]

Me too😢 will watch the replay😅

[@WhitfordPR]

Can you do an episode (if you haven’t already) on purity culture? the damage/dysfunctional issues that stem from it, and how might we reset from it

[@maynadhunter]

I’m watching the replay. I would really love to sign up for the Dwellers. Can someone please give me the information to become a member? I already follow on all platforms. I mainly watch on KZbin.

[@LilLynda]

Hit the link in the description..hope that helps!! Happy Dwelling..LETTTSSS GOOOOOO!!😊❤

[@Antixocialbutterfly]

What Lynda says, you have to do it on a desktop or laptop though

[@maynadhunter]

@@LilLynda thank you sooooooo much! Done!

[@quintonque1040]

Little Timmy got a mic. Thats dope. I am from South Africa

[@claricezoggyie]

Chicago in the house!

[@antoprophy]

Here for that dating methodology and that it applies to both genders. Go on and rebuke that purity culture, yes here for my femininity not being smothered and weaponized. Oh yes to the formation. Go on Tim.

[@PraiseYWHW]

Come to Alberta Canada! Would love to see you live

[@faithmassok1983]

Caitlin's question is so me 😭...I am VERY scared, ALWAYS hiding...(Faith Massok from South Africa, Cape Town, Mitchell's Plain - 13/06/2023 - @ Work 15h49)...

[@DailyDoseOfRuth]

i’m soooo maddddddd i missed the live

[@CMTuck]

Sam is a FOOL 😂😂😂😂 y’all are such a team hahaha

[@Kinkaidp]

At 29:09 when he’s talking about how God told him that was his wife… how do we know that it’s God telling us that and not us just hoping that that is the truth? I’m struggling with this right now. How do I know the man I’m talking to is who God wants me to be with rather than just who I want God to approve of?

[@jamekathomas5120]

Wait, a Monday pod?

[@jamekathomas5120]

I was at work and on a Monday night prayer call.

[@yeviec9263]

😂😂she coming in a Honda, Roku tv, E. coli virus!! 🤣🤣

[@cynthiamoore745]

Hahaha thisssssss

[@christulier]

I wish I could gooooooooo! To the live pod 😭

[@Candie4JC]

Ok I’m upset that anyone in a church would THREATEN a member from leaving. I’ve seen that happen from my mother church during church planting the church I came from had a be pastor that SPIRITUALLY threatened members who wanted to support the church plant. Sadly, it worked. It’s only more 5 years later that many mother church members have their eyes open to the manipulative spiritual threatening they were under and many have come to the church plant to apologize. We have to ask for spiritual discernment because the spirit of covert narcissism & manipulation in the church is a hot mess. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@katymaestone]

@TheBasementPodcast Hi, Tim! I don't know if you have ever read the prodigal God by Timothy Keller. It talks about the feast at the end of the prodigal son in Luke 15 in part of the book. And how we focus on the prodigal son but lack the focus of the elder brother to come into the feast. And how as a church we look up to more elder brothers than the prodigal sons who don't feel welcome in the church. Both are sinners but we make the elder brother look good because of how he has done everything right. (self-righteousness) The feast is meant to bring both together and feast in peace. No wonder we have a lot of prodigal sons that don't wanna come to church. Hopefully this makes sense, I digress because there's so much more context for it. (This is to piggyback on what you are learning now and about the feast you talked about)

[@olivialeah14]

I can’t believe I missed the live 😢

[@TerryWilliams-u2e]

St Louis,Mo

[@MachelleNowlin]

I'm sprinkling Jesus glitter ✨️ over you @Hector, praying you are better!! 🙌🏽✨️🙌🏽 Thank you, @Tim, I have added Jesus glitter to my vocabulary 🤣💖🤣‼️‼️

[@dailyreflectionswithchris4984]

Dripping Springs too❤

[@alicrater3801]

Charlotte Gambil!!!!!! 😯 I already know! Let's goooooooooooo, Fam!!!!! 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

[@jamiehigh924]

Yes, I remember Romper Room

[@roseallen5514]

Make the bobble head bop to Pres B intro

[@ashleyfranklin4708]

Not sure if this will be seen or if this question will be selected for answering, but I’m going to go for it. Can Tim give me advice on this issue: I am a deep rooted Christian who is divorced with 2 kids. We’ve been apart for 11 years. My ex has become an atheist since we parted. Our daughter who is almost 14 is wrestling with her sexual identity. As a follower of Christ, I tell her I love her and also tell her that that’s not who God created her to be. Her father on the other hand celebrates this & buys her pride paraphernalia. Besides praying for her & speaking truth to her, is there anything else I can do to help steer her through this?

[@crystallight369]

Louisiana Fam 👢🫶🏽

[@katieanastasia]

Basement World Tour?? Australia, Melbourne?? 🤪

[@pzlzcreation9027]

What’s up Tim and Cruze. I’m From NC. Please check your compressor for the future. I know you’re trying to cancel background noise but, with Tim’s personality and different voices you are cutting his high frequencies TOO much. Thanks for all you guys do and keep an ear to what GOD says and DO that work. SODOPEFIYA🔥👊🏾🙏🏾

[@kikigeeu2be]

i liked what he had to say

[@michellelewis6914]

Romper Room Yes!

[@ENtantala]

Héctor you got a voice on you!

[@KgalaleloMalete]

So sad I missed the live 😶

[@KgalaleloMalete]

I love y'all❤

[@kayechapple0802]

Cleveland Ohio

[@nailomar3388]

Cleveland