When does a man fall in love?

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[@deborahdouglas3988]

A very wise man told me once when I was seriously considering "shacking up" with my then, boyfriend. He said, "If a man is really in love with you, he will marry you. If he isn't ready to do that, he's just stalling, waiting for "whatever" else might come along."

[@hermenahardy6008]

❤❤❤

[@jklmnoqr]

@@deborahdouglas3988 The very wise man was ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! 💝💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@gigibrown_wright]

Close your legs, open your eyes, close your mouth, open your ears!!! Thanks for the word Tony!!!

[@sylviathomas8268]

Yes

[@tammyhairdoctorify]

Wow needed this 20yrs ago ! I appreciate u 🙏4 me.!🙈🙉🙊

[@carmenchambers6175]

Very very interesting message

[@cccole7944]

I'm blessed you blessed

[@ZawadiBirya]

That's right and close your wallet.

[@toniwilliams9817]

A man will fall in love when he’s ready to stop playing games and stop playing the field...he has to want to fall in love...it has nothing to do with the woman...

[@zoeelauren4649]

@@eniepresley5867 bc we put up his antics bc most women are not secure within themselves FIRST and settle for just any ole thing vs being be alone

[@cherh]

And if it has nothing to do with a woman, who's making him want to fall in love? 🤔The desire of other women NEVER leaves a man. So again what's making him want to fall in love? You're not making sense. It has everything to do with a woman. You're a woman thinking you know more about a man than a man. Just stop.

[@cherh]

@@eniepresley5867 at 61 I'm sure! He's older and stuck in his ways. And you don't know what happened in his childhood that probably caused him to be that way. You or whomever is dealing with him should have gave that up 30 years ago.

[@cherh]

@@eniepresley5867 spelling Toni with an I is how a woman spells her name

[@cherh]

@@eniepresley5867 🤷🏾‍♀️there u have it.

[@Amegla1976]

The more I hear the more it seems us women need a Psychology degree to understand and deal with men these days...

[@ugonnae5504]

☝🏻i agree

[@jojocluddy2534]

😂😂😂😂

[@kelleybright3113]

Hell naw simply simple ...that save the world shit stops 4 us queens

[@tainachapman9486]

Its a VERY CONFUSING thing to say the Least!! And thats kind of because this Man/ Woman Relationship thing has truly gotten off the track over LOTS of years ago and women have put up with so much for sooooo..... long , and made excuses for his foolery!! Now its past time for RELATIONSHIPS to BE SET BACK ON TRACK and it CAN HAPPEN!!! We all (Men/Women) have to do the work!!!

[@overcomerbtbojesus]

@@tainachapman9486 💯

[@maiangellove8949]

It's refreshing to hear you speak so highly of your wife. 🥳

[@dastunnachick3077]

MAI ANGEL LOVE very

[@MyCrownstar]

It gives me hope. All the hatred being thrown at black women nowadays, from calling us bulldogs, thots, bed winches,etc.

[@laydeebee3174]

Be blessed...I enjoyed the wisdom you shared🙌🏾🙏🏽💯

[@happz88]

This is beautiful.......can't wait until my husband speaks about me.

[@ogbarss2230]

Everytimeee

[@arleciawhite7510]

I definitely know the difference, my first husband loved me, but my second husband was in love with me. My second husband's actions were so different, he brought all my walls down. He was a man of good character.

[@MsAldil]

Why did ur marriage with 2nd husband end?

[@jahmaykan3560]

@@MsAldil great question 🤔

[@tigerpaws111]

@@jahmaykan3560 I'm guessing they passed away?

[@rosesareredusa]

I don’t want a man to marry me if he not in love with me...period.

[@RealLadi228]

I feel you...but how would you really know? If they are acting and pretending 🙂

[@eastenderlady2773]

@@RealLadi228 Thats the thing, you may not really know at first there are a lot of manipulators and liars out there. But a person should always go with their instincts and pay attention to red flags🚩....it definitely gives the game away.

[@melmel7011]

@@RealLadi228 Not even pretending, they can love you but not be in love with you

[@jcymngo]

It's better a man enters into marriage from a pragmatic place.

[@nikkirowland]

Be blessed In the name of Jesus, Lord please send me and everyone woman watching this video a man that will fall in love with us on the level Tony loves his wife or greater. Lord may we all do the work that we need to do in the meantime so that we can truly accept and receive that love when it comes in. Amen 🙏🏽

[@nikkirowland]

LaFenice Forbes yes sis 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nikkirowland]

LaFenice Forbes be blessed as well sis 🙏🏽💕

[@22danewb]

Nikki Rowland sis yes! I receive that Thank you

[@michellecoakley-goff5177]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Amen, Amen, Amen

Nikki Rowland you are so sweet mama bless you 🥰🥰🥰✨✨😌💅🏽💎 you are beautiful ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@toniwilliams9817]

That’s why I don’t know if I want to be in another relationship...I want a strong man, who is secure in himself, and ready to be totally committed: mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically....in every way. They’re hard to come by because people are emotionally immature and weak.

[@gloriajjackson5035]

Toni Wilson.....call those things you desire, not what it looks like. Romans 4:17. Trust in God.....lean not to your own understanding! He will come through for you; He is Faithful & True! 💜

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Gloria J Jackson Yes, God is faithful. However, not everyone is called to be in a relationship. And that’s perfectly and beautifully ok.

[@TiffanyBTV]

“If you’re waiting for him to know for certain certain, he may die first” 😂😂😂😂! Oh my god this is a lot. Thanks Tony be blessed

[@jasminemartin6998]

TiffanyB TV lmbo!

[@mistybleu8589]

😅

[@abriajohnson-kinsey4099]

BIG facts 😂

[@reneepaulettemarshall8000]

TiffanyB YOU are HILARIOUS!!! ... BUT you're telling the Sho Nuff TRUTH.

[@trustnothing4400]

I fell out like "sheeeeeeshh die tony he might die first!!!"

[@TaylorMCross]

I've never heard a man say these types of things... never thought a man was capable of sharing this type of information. 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@felishapittman2778]

Be blessed...I knew my ex-husband was not in love with me. In fact he told me he was no longer in love with me. So I set him free and we're divorced. I didn't want it but I know you can't make someone love you.

[@ladyb129]

Boss move. You are your own champion! 🏆

[@rdot8869]

A lot of men deal with this to "Love You But Not In Love With You" While she does Care about you somewhat emotionally, she no longer LUSTS for you or respects you.... also, there's usually another man in the picture.

[@rozh8321]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪💪💪❤❤❤❤❤

[@anointedstilettos]

I tried to love my ex into loving me and that doesn't work either. Now, we're not together anymore as well.

[@belindalarissa311]

Girl I feel your pain same thing happened to me ! God bless you ! Good souls will always find love don’t worry you’ll find your true love one day

[@MsEvonU]

Amen! Thank you Tony! When does a Man fall in Love? 1. When he Adds to your Life and not subtracts from it. 2. When he is trying to Provide for you and family, not living off of you. 3. When he is showing you love and working at keeping you Happy daily. 4. When he is being Transparent and Vulnerable with you. His Character is his Currency! When he is LOVE and showing love and is Led by God, then his Currency is invaluable. When he is rude, disrespectful, bitter, trifling and lazy than he ain't worth a penny! As a woman know your Worth and stay spiritually motivated by the Word of God. Know that God has a man who's Evenly Yoked with you, for you! Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋

[@leahveal5470]

Amen!

[@anointedstilettos]

Thank you for this 🙏🏽❤.

[@MsEvonU]

@@anointedstilettos you're very welcome!🙏

[@MsEvonU]

@therese fassie you're right, I am not a man but Tony Gaskins is! And he did explain. And for the record...I never assume. Be Blessed!🙏

[@gloriajjackson5035]

Thank you Evon U.....well said in written format! 🤗

[@alicea561]

LOVE IS INTENTIONAL LOVE DOESN'T HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT :its DELIBERATE : its INTENTIONAL : its PURPOSEFUL Try not to confuse attachment with love. attachment is about fear and dependency and has more to do with love of self then love of another. Love without attachment is the purest love because it isn't about what others can give you because you're empty. It is about what you can give others because you're already full.

[@missmarymack3457]

LOVE THIS!!!! This needs to be on a billboard somewhere!!!

[@Queenwithinmysoul]

Love that

[@anointedstilettos]

This comment is the T-R-U-T-H 💯

[@Blessingbeyondborders]

Wow 👏🏽

[@gloriajjackson5035]

Amen, David Alicea! Ladies, our mission is to be already full of Christ, and not empty! 💜

[@magnolia2]

Everything you’re saying makes complete sense. People just don’t want to accept it and be true. I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I’d rather receive and accept the hard truth than to be naive and get hurt by these actors. Thank you.

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

Absolutely!

[@zek280]

Facts

[@adelafirme]

To the straight point!

[@ThisizKena]

Everytime you imitates an "upset woman"...I die..🤣🤣🤣. Lowkey sounds like me..🤣😔

[@nikkirowland]

This is Kena 😂😂.. I wonder if he realizes how funny he is lol. He’s so serious with it but I stay cracking up

[@thefacewhisperer6870]

That statement at 7:50!!!!! "She's getting more like wine instead of soda." Love it!!!!❤❤❤

[@sggray3983]

Key points LADIES toxic..lying..cheating..keep ex's around..on a come up..abusive..RUN

[@starbright2683]

A man I dated for three years, and was engaged to, dumped me for another woman. At that time, he told me that he wasn't in love with me and that he didn't even like me except for the first two or three months we were dating. This was shocking to me. My dad said, while seeing me crying, "Don't ever give your heart and soul to a man unless you are MARRIED."

[@yeahthatsme921]

Sometimes when men experience near death situations they fall in love real quick

[@ZoePat123]

🤣

[@RealLadi228]

Scared straight 😬 😅 🤧 😫

[@kelleybright3113]

Shit he need a care provider so uhh yeaa

[@qjay8793]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kadythompson4538]

Here for my daily dose of truth. It hurts but not more than the alternative. Thank you Tony ♥️

[@DevAllDay]

Kady Thompson Yes I agree!

[@MzSoulll]

Yep! I'm being reprogrammed and it's great! Lol

[@LatriceSkye]

Kady Thompson Amen!

[@anointedstilettos]

This message right here is the unadulterated truth and it's so eye opening.

[@nikkinikki1644]

be blessed

[@mistybleu8589]

Tony: “He will cry when you die” 😂 Boy, you rough! 🤣🤣🤣

[@itskadimusic]

I never comment, this time I have to... out of all the video's I've watched in the past 3 weeks, this video in particular made me relax and understand the meaning of falling in love from a man's perspective. Thank you for being here for us, we're really lucky to have you, continue sharing your gift no matter how hard it might be for some of us to hear... they'll be the same one's coming back to thank you or listen to you when it didn't go their way.

[@arleenruiz7779]

This is the only relationship vídeo any woman will ever need in her life period

[@OnyxxRose]

Honestly yes

[@ruthwells3990]

Men to me feel with their 👀 and women with their ❤️. Let me explain. We are all flesh, but men love Eros; physical attractiveness lust fully and women are more agape; vigilante, enthusiastically. If we can learn NOT to allow our brains to trick our bodies we will be okay. And mind you, your mind CAN and DOES play tricks on you. EVERYBODY!!! Unless you learn to discipline yourself mentally and physically and emotionally. The one who controls their mind and body and tongue is MOST POWERFUL!!!! Be blessed.

[@sabaspeaks1260]

I can’t remember who said it but “ We don’t fall in love but GROW in love” This is a great message, thank you Mr. Gaskins!

[@PinkiePPearl]

Bishop r c. Blakes

[@roshandawilliams3689]

As a 30 year old virgin (waiting until marriage), my "relationships" didn't last. I couldn't understand why i was giving all of me and guys gave me absolutely nothing in return. No date nights. No birthday or holiday gifts, never met families, etc. I was left depressed and brokenhearted each time. Your videos really helped me understand more about relationships and how men think. The MAN that i have now (been together a little over a year now) is amazing, treats me with respect and supports my decision and vowed to WAIT WITH ME. I am the happiest I have ever been. He's beginning to talk marriage. God bless you and your family.

[@faithayeni204]

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[@faithayeni204]

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[@faithayeni204]

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[@amandasutherland2631]

Oh my gosh he's so good, this is wisdom y'all. I learned so by 28 yrs old, I didn't devulge my life story, I hid my weaknesses for at least 2 yrs into a relationship. First date he asked ,WHY I WAS SINGLE?!? LIKE what's wrong with you...your too pretty to be alone, like..you must have a man and your not telling me or what's wrong with you. And, I stuck ta saying, oh I just wasn't compatible with whoever I dated basically that's it. That ish works y'all. He was NOT getting into my weaknesses with me, and he was way more guarded than he let on. He said I had a wall up, but he had fort Knox up and canons up. So they will preach be open right off the bat, but beware that stuff he's digging for will be used against you until he really surrenders. It's like that movie War of the Roses.

[@shelleybullard601]

Yeah, just don’t live with them or have relations without marriage. This will help him with his decisions, step up or give up. Or else this message will have you willing to live with a man indefinitely until he’s “ready “.

[@donzellaharris709]

THANK YOU TONY!!! FOR MAKING THIS SO CLEAR FOR ME AND OTHER WOMEN, IM OVER 50 AND I NEED THIS I LIKE A LOT OF WOMEN NEVER HAD A FATHER OR JUST A MAN LIKE YOU TO SPEAK INTO OUR LIVES THANK YOU AGAIN.

[@DevAllDay]

Donzella Craig yes so true!!!

[@victoriamccoy409]

Your videos brings understanding, understanding = Healing

[@CUBACHINA1986]

Exactly 💯

[@lotussunnamoonawebb9783]

When a women fall in love she falls deep she loves hard and when a man cheat he breaks the essence of that women who love him. A moment of cheating changes her life forever it take years of building and trusting again . The depths a women whose in love will look far beyond what she has gone through and love again and again .l thank you for this high frequency massage l now have what’s need. I don’t think 💭 that man was in love with me 28 years ...l love him more than he love me . I will never love someone more then me again .Mr Tony this massage was indeed a hard pill to swallow but l gotten it down . I type as my eyes filled up with tears 😭 the truth is freedom. Thank you 🙏

[@idearing]

Preach it! I needed to hear this. That's me all the way. I'm crying my damn self. Its bringing it out.

[@janiedavis477]

Powerful truths, be blessed🙏

[@narcsurvivorbythegraceofgo9426]

I am all tears.😔😪☹😓😣😩

[@drea4373]

Love in and of itself is PERFECT. However, humans are imperfect and do not always operate in the space of love, or come from a place of love. When you say you cheat, yet you still love, ok. But your cheating caused pain. Love does not hurt. Your choice to cheat HURT. Your wife was in love, and loved you despite the pain you caused. A husband’s bad choices HURT. And bad choices are not coming from a place of love.

[@northernroots6807]

So many women need to know this.

[@notthatvashti8127]

@@northernroots6807 ,yes sis you're right. It comes from a place of lust! A need to satisfy a carnal desire!

[@northernroots6807]

@CHC4669 you know all women now?

[@jarayshaw9928]

I agree.

[@jarayshaw9928]

Can you find self love through the teaching of the Bible?

[@ebonyflowers7599]

Be blessed! I had to stop, rewind, and And stop again. This video was hard to grasp and one listen. But I got it now and I’m taking notes. I am determined to date differently this go around because my way had me jacked up! Lol 😂

[@TonyGaskins]

Thank you for doing the work Ebony!! #BlessedTribe

[@talicialee]

Wow!!! As you were speaking I got a revelation. When I gave my life to Christ, I really didn't love Christ, but a few years in I love him with my whole heart and seek to please him 💙

[@marieaug9322]

Just told my friend days ago no one falls in love unless it's two of you. You may feel love, but you aren't truly in it until you both are.

[@thebeautyambassador5200]

Yaaas your wife is Jamaican!!!

[@mamalasting5085]

I asked my self for the last 10 years; if my husband is in love with me? :( God Opened my eyes today!!! Thank you Sir! Blessings

[@urielflores458]

Omg same !

[@danielle9342]

This was my last relationship! My ex was definitely not a “man” or in love with me.. and we were together for 7years 🤦🏽‍♀️ But God is a good God, he opened my eyes wiiddee!! Be blessed!

[@yeahthatsme921]

Don't feel bad your still young now your smart

[@traquilasmith2275]

Danielle I understand what you saying. Same thing with my ex in high school and my last ex God open my eyes to see who they really are i walked away from them and i learned and grown from my mistakes. We have to do better and pay attention to the red flags more lessons learned. God knows who best for us. God bless you and stay positive and strong. 🙏

[@kerryc8637]

I'm not even 15 minutes in on this video, and I've got to stop and say thank you Tony. I literally have not ever heard a brother speak so candidly about the nuances of love. So glad I came across you channel. Many thanks to you, and God Bless🙏

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Y’all here listening plz join the Blessed Tribe we welcome you all 💯

[@iyolaagard784]

It seems closed off to international folks

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Yola A what do you mean

[@iyolaagard784]

@@cheekscheeks5840 I'm from Trinidad and Tobago (the Caribbean) tried the link on many occasions and this keep coming up "Sorry, this content is unavailable for purchase" I hope this is a glitch!

[@daniellemitchell7977]

Tony I believe what u saying bc it just made 4 years and I am now seeing this fool acting like he falling in love I am kinda pissed 😤

[@lillianpitts9853]

Mines as well I am sad though so basically they deceive us until their ready angry and sad it's been 3yrs for me he actually showing love but now I want to walk away he put me through alot

[@TuBella14]

Danielle Mitchell 😂 better late than never.

[@DevAllDay]

Danielle Mitchell Right!!!

[@simeoda]

Lillian Pitts are you going to stay

[@lillianpitts9853]

@@simeoda he actually showing change I will ,if he switch up again I'm gone life to short to waste my time were married also

[@l.s.d.washington3943]

This brings me back to when people either married for stability or had arranged marriage. They wasn't in love but most of the marriages survived because the love came later.

[@thecontraceptivesschool5612]

So true. It ends up working out really well

[@mariadaskalakis9317]

I can say tony I had a more than honest conversation with my husband in his final days and he dropped some serious wisdom with me before he left us - let’s just say we had some things to work out - his conversation almost mirrored your video - and quite frankly I understand it completely- we are built differently- I don’t think there has been a time in my life I understood that more. Great video I’m not sure that every single one of us can appreciate the amount of truth that you’re spitting out here!

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

Mannnn this was DEEP DEEP!!!!!

[@nakooshaalbert8884]

I watch your videos more than once to make sure I didn’t miss something. Breaking it down like a Math problem!

[@myfingoodies]

I had to clutch my invisible pearls for this one. Be blessed man of God in the work that you do.

[@ericablige9449]

When he is wealthy cause of his CHARACTER!!!!! Love this💜

[@notthatvashti8127]

Mrs. G. might not be perfect, but it is obvious in the way you speak about her that she's perfect for you!!! Surrendering/letting go of ego to be able to really fall in love... a nice nugget of wisdom!! Be Blessed!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

This is God's honest truth and I've seen this play out in my relationships and in a lot of my friends marriages cos I'm thinking ain't no way someone that loves you will do that or act this way, ain't no way. This video articulates it so well. Makes perfect sense. In love versus love. I'm going into my next relationship super equipped.

[@channapooh]

Be Blessed! Ladies listen to him, he is 100 percent correct. It’s all in a man’s actions. Do not simply fall for what a man tells you, make sure he is putting action with the words. Thank you Tony for helping change the world!!

[@cherylwhite2566]

All i gotta say is...keep it comin! Lol im eatin up every word i gotta be wise in these streets!

[@yeahthatsme921]

In your home to

[@shereses.3298]

I hear the way this man talks about his wife, it's beautiful. I was married for 5 years to a narcissist and it literally makes me so sad to think my ex-husband would make me feel like and speak to me as though I was worthless.....well, thank God, my daughter and I are free from that bondage, and in the midst of my divorce God blessed us with our first home!

[@elamay8042]

👏🏾👏🏾 Hallelujah!

[@5alive388]

There is a difference between falling in And being in love!!! If u fall in u fall out Luv is action, luv IS!!! Commitment, understanding, agreements, etc. And u DONT fall. PERIODT

[@proudblackwoman4824]

I honestly cried listening to this. Literally CRIED. All these things no one teaches black women when we are younger. I can't help but think of all the pain that I could have avoided if my dad would have taught me this at an early age. It could have saved me so much heartache. I had no idea that men play so many games in dating .....when women are just simply trying to be loved. Thankfully I never had kids with any of the men in my past. That was actually the one thing I WAS smart about. Childfree and grateful. I know that it's never too late to make better decisions in regards to men. It hurts to hear this, but I'm glad someone is finally warning us as women. You are appreciated, brother.

[@madelinehunter1843]

Be Blessed . Tony, lol, what you say dont; go running showing this video to your Fiance "Are you in Love with me" .

[@justsomeideas9594]

Be blessed! You explained exactly what I experienced when I finally realized, that my spouse was never in love with me. It was a very hard pill to swallow. I knew the truth but refused to listen and didn’t pay attention to what my intuition told me. It hit me instantly like a ton of bricks 3 years ago and that’s what started me working on myself. That’s when I started working on the 3B’s! Wow another confirmation of what I felt!

[@melbamartin9781]

I love you for saying that . Your wife is your life. You get it. Thank you for sharing your fidelity, love and attitude towards union between man and woman.

[@safiyaprice8215]

Thank you Tony for sharing your continuous wisdom and knowledge. As single woman, I feel more empowered and better prepared for my future relationship, by watching your videos each day & being more intentional about doing the work (to improve myself). Be blessed!

[@takeauthority30]

Be blessed, yes it's true a lot of us get married in faith and grow more into love. Unfortunately some men jump ship when it begins to get to that "dying to self" part of it. It's too scary and if the woman allows him to "stay the same" he'll stay.

[@jewellfairweather5411]

💯💯💯

[@MsDrich2]

This is all a process but I feel better equipped for my next possible relationship when it presents itself because of your videos. Thanks Tony! Be Blessed 🙌🏽

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Facts

[@tadasmom1]

I like when you say...... “Listen.... “Listen to me now”.... 🙂

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

Thank you Tony! I’m 55 in a 8 year situationship. He’s 48. He is financially stable always takes care of home. We both are gainfully employed. People think he’s a good guy. Never curses me out or yells always comes home. He is a serial cheater and master manipulator. I’m working on my exit strategy I understand what you said. I’ve been married twice he’s been married once and I’ve been proposed to at least four times by different men during my lifetime.However I am tired of the games and just ready to be my best person if that’s alone that’s what it means. I wish I could’ve watched this many years ago. I’m ready for change. I’m in school and will be graduating with my bachelors in psychology this year. I’ve enrolled in Tony Gaskins University. I feel like I’m on the right track and I will continue to listen to you and take heed no matter what your age

[@dellaboothe4696]

God bless you, I am 66yrs old, got married at 18 because I was pregnant. We had no say in the decision. Our parents made it for us. High school sweethearts, he died at 36yrs old, in1990. You have blessed me with your honesty. God sent you to help me heal and complete my grieving process. I have been wondering if he was in love with me. Thank You.

[@aquarislov79]

Can you do a segment on women who have fear of marriage?? How to overcome that? Would that be physiological

[@evka24]

i think u may have fear of getting married to a wrong man....take ur time to get to know man well...ur fear should be lessened

[@denisejohnson7789]

Yes, that is the West Indian way. Being raised by West Indian parents you’re not going to hear many apologies face to face. I’ve learned in my adulthood it’s ok to express a sincere apology and in doing so it doesn’t make me a weak person.

[@ruru9400]

I have West Indian parents also so I totally relate 😩

[@darleenthompson3803]

I'm from the caribbean also. That's true . 🏝️🇻🇮

[@begee5847]

It’s a shame most of us women especially black don’t have real men in our life like Tony to tell us this. Would have saved so much heartache.❤️

[@DevAllDay]

BE gee right! We needed this information before we even started to date

[@cherh]

God I see what you're doing in the first 4 minutes of this video and I'm ready for my King to be just like that...protective! lol be blessed 💫

[@NaturallyNerdeeNicol]

I have concluded, I will basically never understand men and maybe in my twenties, I would have tried, however now, I am just literally too tired.....

[@rachelleenterprise8072]

That's how I felt but just keep listening to him. He's so calm, you can't help but accept what he's saying and then your fatigue will die out because you'll stop internally contesting what he's saying. This is what I used to do, contest because it don't sound right. Just let go & listen to him. Remember: This is for our knowledge. What men do may not make sense or even be right; it's just what they do. He's just giving us the 411 on that so at least we know how to move. (Not saying move like a man though). Just having this knowledge saves dating lives.

[@NaturallyNerdeeNicol]

@@rachelleenterprise8072 no, it's no slight to him at all. I appreciate his candor.

[@sggray3983]

Anyone that says anything about your wife is a hater.they never experienced..real loved💜in their life time..ll

[@beverlyloving2106]

The games never stop..

[@scooby1970m]

Tony this message is so needed. Getting an understanding of love and what is looks like to men vs women. Thank you!

[@godsanointeddaughter8782]

Be Blessed everyone. Mr. Gaskin out here saving lives one video at a time. I 💜 it.

[@LakeishaGoudy]

Be blessed! Thank you for this Tony! It doesn't always feel good to hear the truth but it's needed in order to grow.

[@venesiabrown414]

Love your videos Tony keep them coming. You and your family be blessed.

[@km7890km]

Not even a whole 7 minutes and this is good. Thank you.

[@14etaranda]

Tony, thank u for being so transparent and honest and thank u to your wife in supporting this ministry to help us sistahs out. Blessings to you and your family. 🙏

[@VintageAfro91]

I’m over here taking notes! Thank you so much, Tony. I now see where I went wrong in the past. I was telling way too much thinking this was my teammate, when it really wasn’t. Thank you again.

[@dailydevotionals2405]

And that's why you blessed Tony. I've noticed your videos are a little longer now and I appreciate your sacrifice. Sending all my friends your way. 🧡🙏🧡

[@yukoadams7309]

Thank you! I really needed to hear this today! I usually replay the videos from time to time because I may get something I needed from them one day, then listening months later, I’ll have so much clarity on certain parts of the video that help explain things I may be going through at that particular time. This is exactly what I needed to hear at this time! I feel so much better to have this clarity and understanding to point me in the right direction! You’re greatly appreciated for taking the time out to share your knowledge and wisdom with so many people that are truly in need and seeking advice on self love, relationships and even business! Thank you very much! God Bless!

[@nancyfluger1636]

Absolutely best spot in advice that can be given to women, no doubt. Even a queen conscious woman knows there is going to be test and trials that are going to come and attack the relationship. It is supposed to, it is meant to and I welcome it. Even the most spiritually awakened woman must know that this is too big for her and without the help of God she won't survive the misery and pain that a man can bring. So know who you are in Christ first. Make Jesus your first love and hopefully your meant to be husband can make it to second place. Be blessed 🙏

[@CoachHC]

Thanks Brother Tony for breaking it down. Keep these videos coming. Be Blessed

[@ericabostwick4033]

This is one of those messages I had to keep listening to because I didn’t want to miss anything. Thanks Tony!!! I’m meditating on this one! Be blessed!!!!

[@jazs2300]

Wow the way you explained your love for her in the beginning really gave me hope. Thank you for this video, it was extremely insightful. I look forward to becoming a channel member, you’ll be the first one I’m subscribing to and you really deserve it ❤️ praying for many many more years of joy and happiness for you, your wife, and your entire family 🙏🏾

[@katerogich8768]

I admire you Tony for putting the truth out there. I love to listen to you. God bless you.

[@nakooshaalbert8884]

You give the BEST breakdown of GROWN MAN VS GROWN BOY. If woman don’t understand where you are coming from then clearly they don’t want to understand!!! True indications of FREE GAME. Thank you my Brother Tony in Christ 🙌🙏

[@halim1582]

Well said

[@ladyb129]

I understood every word you said. You broke it down so clearly. Thank you for your insight. A real eye opener. 👀

[@lifeandwhatnot]

This was profound and I've literally never heard this before in my 37 yrs. Thank you Tony!

[@KAAT2239]

Tony this is one of your best videos ever!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to explain a mans thought process to us women!!!! Be blessed!!!

[@annettesolomon1347]

Be blessed , I listened to this twice .great info and I'm paying attention thank you for your wise words .

[@elle353]

Truth = clarity, ty & be blessed

[@ZoePat123]

GREAT video! Clarifies SO much that men we are with will NEVER tell us! Thank you Tony for sharing the knowledge.

[@reginajeter6204]

Be Blessed!🙏🏽. I totally understand what you are saying. It takes sacrifice to truly show how much you mean to that person and that you are “Falling In Love” with that special someone. True Love doesn’t come easy.

[@mst675]

"Overstand instead of understand"! As an educator I am definitely going to use that line :) Thanks for this vid, and be blessed!

[@sha2408]

Just finished last nights video! You are right on time ! 🙂🙏🏼

[@mariewalton7079]

Thank you Tony for taking this stand for us women. May God continue to use you in this mighty way. BE BLESSED!!!!

[@charisngozichukwuka2339]

You are such a gift to this generation. I'm so happy I discovered your channel. Your teachings has really helped and blessed me so much

[@KAAT2239]

One of the number one reasons I continue to listen to your videos is because you take your time to make us “overstand”!!! I really appreciate how you take your time and give us examples to further our understanding.... you are truly a gift! Merry Christmas and happy new year !!

[@tiffaniescott4014]

Be blessed. Another good nugget of wisdom

[@meek0514]

This all makes PERFECT sense. Thank you, Tony Gaskins. The light bulb is getting brighter, for real.

[@StephaniesWorld7]

Be Blessed. Thank you Tony for delivering us truth once again. 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏