“The reason why someone will typically reappear in your life is because THERE’S A VOID IN THEIR OWN”! I felt that!!
@jordanwilliam78103 жыл бұрын
Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back
@jordanwilliam78103 жыл бұрын
Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me💯
@lissettehooker12753 жыл бұрын
Been ghosted 3 times by the same person , he is 48 and so immature ,always apologizes and once I give my opinion about any conversation he get mad at me for no reason and block me right away ...
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
YES
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
@@lissettehooker1275 Where's your SELF-ESTEEM!!?? 3XS?
@tayanedepaula71233 жыл бұрын
When a guy ghosts me he KILLS whatever feelings I had for him. I've never accepted nor replied a single one of them back. Blocked for good 🙏🏽
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me💯
@sexxysadie29733 жыл бұрын
Good for you girl. There’s really no excuse for ghosting imho. It’s a HUGE red flag. I’m the same way, once I lose my trust with them I’m completely done!
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
@@sexxysadie2973 what's app him for help
@diyashikha933 жыл бұрын
Just happened to me today.. I blocked him!
@martinadelvai41153 жыл бұрын
"I don't want you but I want you to want me."
@aminsandra90593 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who help me solve my problem what'zpp him now for help
@thecourageousorange3 жыл бұрын
That's a thing for girls as well tho. I have that feeling.
@lynako25462 жыл бұрын
Just for that validation and ego boost
@bitturuyal68502 жыл бұрын
Thank u!!! I needed this
@hilo5901 Жыл бұрын
Make me feel attractive while I give you nothing. “
@DianaIsabel9293 жыл бұрын
Dated a guy for a few months and then he ghosted, quite brutally. TWO YEARS later he texted me. I ignored it. He texted again a month later. I ignored it. He texted AGAIN a month later. I ignored it. Finally he said ok I’ll let you be - just felt like I owed you an apology. I blocked him. Wow. He did owe me one and that wasn’t it. Even though the sex was amazing. I wasn’t doing that to myself again. Post 35 I seem to be finding some self respect 🤣
@deepdiver8493 жыл бұрын
Good On you!
@marialuisalota86713 жыл бұрын
Ahaha i love u
@bettinadorthelaursen85633 жыл бұрын
You are so strong 👍 wish I knew what I know now when I was your age😼
@DianaIsabel9293 жыл бұрын
@@bettinadorthelaursen8563 Many many thanks Bettina. I’m so grateful you took the time to send that message. Much love.
@princesscheryldeguilmo90473 жыл бұрын
I feel you.
@SuperMurray20093 жыл бұрын
Guys usually ghost when they believe they have more options than they really have. Guys usually dont have as many as women so they usually always come back.
@mistym0rning3 жыл бұрын
Or they ghost because they realize that this particular woman requires too much time/effort and they don't get "enough" out of it. E.g. if a guy is only looking for casual sex and a fun hook-up and something to validate his fragile ego, he doesn't want a woman that has high standards and wants to be intellectually stimulated, wants him to invest time in getting to know her, etc. And because it's difficult to communicate those things (since the woman might react in an upset/frustrated way if the guy hadn't previously made his intentions clear), guys are often cowards who'd rather ghost than to have that uncomfortable conversation. PS: I know women can be cowards, too, and ghost somebody instead of having a conversation. It's sadly become more normal in our texting-based times.
@NAConen3 жыл бұрын
Usually always lol
@SuperMurray20093 жыл бұрын
@@mistym0rning Ok your post started off well but certainly didnt end that way. Just because a guy wants casual sex doesn't mean he needs to validate his fragile ego. Does that same logic apply to women who want it? Also women ghost men all the time who doesnt want to have uncomfortable conversation as well. If anything its probably more women ghosting because more options
@NAConen3 жыл бұрын
@@SuperMurray2009 False
@SuperMurray20093 жыл бұрын
@@NAConen No.
@nicoleonfeels3 жыл бұрын
Nobody should ever be accepted back after ghosting.
@jannasterling41533 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 👍👍
@tami34563 жыл бұрын
Preach
@ceciliaramoscastillo28093 жыл бұрын
How does he know about what is happening in my life???
@nicoleancker91303 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!!!!!
@radhasen.animalwelfare.56443 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.. No need to have them in your life again.
@DianaThermopolis3 жыл бұрын
Yesterday a guy just tried to reconnect. Exchange: Him: Hi, how are you? Me: Silence Him: Sends sticker Me: Hi! I’m great. Thanks for asking :) Him: Are you busy? :) Me: Kinda. Can I get in touch with you when I’m not busy? :) Him: Of course :) I’ll be busy for his whole life. Bye, Felicio!!! We had a thing, he found excuses, ghosted, months later apologized, disappeared again, now he’s back. I’m sooooo proud of me 🙌 Thanks, guys!! All you, all you 😘
@bettinadorthelaursen85633 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work - I didnt knew what I know now - so I bleew it 😸
@BaptizeInFire3 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you too 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
I pulled the same! Thanks Queen😜😎💕
@kayanatorx33 жыл бұрын
GIRL proud of you! dont youd dare respond back, you already took that step forward and hes a step back, keep at it boo!
@Zm543213 жыл бұрын
@@Redouku Seriously what? She’s been ghosted TWICE and here you are judging her way of dealing with it. I felt she was pretty respectful just by replying to his messages.
@SamElle3 жыл бұрын
i say this time and time again but THEY ALWAYS COME BACK!!! The amount of people who have tried to slide in months or even years later is crazy
@IEVAKambarovaite3 жыл бұрын
Very true and it feels so different when we've actually let go of them and they come back and we feel absolutely nothing compared to when we're still holding on to them
@tami34563 жыл бұрын
I just cackle at them 😏
@chetsi_0993 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@SamElle3 жыл бұрын
@@tami3456 HHAHAHAHA yes I love that, I honestly just ignore them!!
@SamElle3 жыл бұрын
@@IEVAKambarovaite YES YES EXACTLY THIS!!! Like I don’t even blink an eye and I’m like whatever and don’t acknowledge them
@allfiredup933 жыл бұрын
I never trust someone who comes back after ghosting.. usually they ghost when things get tough etc, which is a pattern waiting to happen.
@Dontincludeme3 жыл бұрын
Or when they have something better lined up right after you. Like a day or two before meeting up with this guy, we'd been talking about my job, and not just in passing. When we met up, he was like, "What was your job again?" which now thinking back, meant he was talking to a lot of girls (this guy was a former model so...). After he said "Let's do this again," he ghosted me. So I'm going to assume there was someone else. Which is fine, I don't want to be with a dude like that.
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
You don't say🤪
@princesscheryldeguilmo90473 жыл бұрын
They're a lonely creature.
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
@@princesscheryldeguilmo9047 😂👏🏻 But I don't understand How come Men become lonely?? 🤔 Don't they have so many Side-chicks for them to play with and cater to🤷♀️and Considering the fact that they end up cheating on the Mature loyal women anyway! 🤷♀️😂🙄
@princesscheryldeguilmo90473 жыл бұрын
@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li for me they are lonely, that's why they want to hurt someone too to..I've been on that relationship and he just disappeared and came back without reasonable explanation...it hurts soo bad that you've been true to the person,but he just hurt and played my feelings
@fitforever222 жыл бұрын
He probably pulled back to show you he didn’t want a relationship or he dated someone else in the meantime and it didn’t work out. Or another possibility, he just wants you when he wants you so it’s never a good thing. If a guy is serious about you he will let you know what’s going on and you will know it.
@jenweatherwax71133 жыл бұрын
“I’m lonely, let me feast on your brain.” 🤣 🤣 🤣 love it
@MarenArt3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂
@Seriesmovies5553 жыл бұрын
Lmaaaaooo🤣🤣🤣and your feelings too!
@Seriesmovies5553 жыл бұрын
Fuck that heart up "brrt brrt" 🤣🤣🤣😭
@maryamhamid60032 жыл бұрын
@@Seriesmovies555 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@loladedelano7481 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Mentorme672 Жыл бұрын
Can I give another reason for ghosting (from a ghoster). I’m 34, spent my 20s being messed about and was ghosted etc. A few months ago, I met an amazing kind man, and when my feelings became intense (I was falling for him) I blocked him off everything and ghosted him. I did this because I couldn’t cope with my feelings, had unresolved past issues, and I felt in my mind that “I’ll get rid of him before he hurts me”. I ended up going to counselling for unrelated issues, and the counsellor made me realise that I had severe abandonment issues. I got back in touch with the man I had ghosted months later (after working on myself) and we have an amazing relationship now. All im saying is, not all “ghosters” are mean people, a lot of them might be messed up. Just remember, it’s not a reflection of you when someone does this x
@user-fy4pk5zl7c5 ай бұрын
Props to you! There are more reasons for ghosting than simply "dating other people simultaneously". We have made everything so black and white in this generation. Sometimes we need to assess our personal experiences to react differently, instead of blindly believing everyone functions and behaves the same way. That said, as someone being ghosted, you don't deserve to be treated that way- just be upfront about your boundaries, listen to their part of the story, and see if it sounds genuine. Of course this works only if you are secure in yourself.
@hangoutwithme346Ай бұрын
Mean or messed up, the painful result to the other person is still the same unfortunately. Glad you worked on yourself but I hope no one uses this as an example to take someone back bc ‘maybe he just has issues’. We all have issues. Treating ppl poorly bc of those issues is a CHOICE. The ghoster made a CHOICE that the easy way out FOR THEM was more important than respecting your mental health and feelings as a human being. Remember that.
@86sineadw3 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes people who ghost have an avoidant attachment. So either way, whether they met someone new or they have attachment issues. They blanked you, don't go back
@ashimakhokhar80143 жыл бұрын
Hey Sinead Walsh, is it really Matt who asked you to contact him through his personal mail because I recieved the same message on my comment?
@wendym62722 жыл бұрын
True
@AlyneMedium2 жыл бұрын
Women should never mistake “avoidant attachment” with “I don’t give a fuck about you but I kinda want to use you from time to time” kind of attachment. 💋
@ptrsrfns3 жыл бұрын
They comes back cause because they need some sort of validation.
@internetdisciple58173 жыл бұрын
Exactly what it is.
@lalou64083 жыл бұрын
Why validation though? To validate what?
@codingiscreativity3 жыл бұрын
@@lalou6408 their ego. They wants to feel they still got you.
@JenFromCa843 жыл бұрын
A guy breadcrumbed me for over 9 months. I told him that I deserved better. He said, “You want to know how I feel about that?” And blocked me. Came back 8 months later to tell me that his circumstances have changed and that he still finds me sooo attractive. Ugh. No time for this!! Blocked!
@ameliadora93423 жыл бұрын
Love's life i know of a powerful man who can get ex back and restore your broken relationship without delay.
@ameliadora93423 жыл бұрын
Text him via WhatsApp
@ameliadora93423 жыл бұрын
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@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me💯
@ashimakhokhar80143 жыл бұрын
Wish I had heard this advice three months back when the ghost I dealt with, returned after six months of break up with the idea of second chance. I gave him what he needed at the moment. I regret even today after he has left spoiling the peace within me again in the whole same way. So ladies, forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. Zombies do deserve a forgivness, but from a distance. What spoilt your peace in the first place, always becomes the reason for the second time ! Thank you Matt for your advice. Anyways, its never too late to learn something good ! :)
@tiffanymuthoni19672 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this🌼
@chioj3610 ай бұрын
Yes ma’am. I had a ghost come back after 4 months who I was madly in love with- he decided to date. We almost got married. Moved out of state. HE DID IT AGAIN the second I visited family and spoke up about some things that bothered me. I haven’t been the same.
@Justhannahfashion3 жыл бұрын
When I’ve been ghosted and they come back I always respond with “who is this?” even though I know exactly who they are 😆
@ruchis26873 жыл бұрын
Imma do this the next time. I was too sweet the first 2 times. Thanks for this , it's gold ❤
@Justhannahfashion3 жыл бұрын
@@ruchis2687 yeah you’ve got to be savvy with people who are just wasting your time, good luck 🤞
@sexxysadie29733 жыл бұрын
I’ve never tried this, I usually just never respond. What do they say after you say that? Lol I’m just curious, that’s gotta make them feel like absolute 💩
@Justhannahfashion3 жыл бұрын
@@sexxysadie2973 it’s just so funny as with just three words you’ve told them in a humourous way that you’ve moved on and you’re not waiting around. You get the last laugh. That’s just my sense of humour! Lol! Probably best to do it your way and not respond however some men came back disappointed that you’ve deleted them but you know what mate, you snooze you lose. Lol! The ones who come back are just looking for validation and Matthew says so there are times when I’ve just ignored them too. With one guy I had been friends in work and he hadn’t called for a month so he was shocked as he thought I had deleted him then he realised it was my sense of humour teasing him. Dated for a while but that long term wasn’t right for me so I ended it. Anyway bar the life story that you’ve got I love this line as it’s just fun.
@Heyyou000023 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@stayslickwithkit3 жыл бұрын
Oh we know this too well...He comes back because he wants to see if you're still an option. And we have to make sure not to confuse this for him now CHOOSING you. Having you as an option and choosing you are very different! Thanks for be an inspiring for my channel as always Matt, p.s your brother is a Legend 🔥
@chemnrd44043 жыл бұрын
I learned this standard: when a guy treats me like an option, I give him no choice. Be kind to yourself.
@lukrelukreciacia2 жыл бұрын
Good advice. Real talk
@alexazamfira12822 жыл бұрын
Right!
@Revolution-tl5wo2 жыл бұрын
If I don't hear from someone for a few days, I have a cutoff date. If they contact me before the cutoff, I MAY give them another chance, depending on whether they offer a valid reason for disappearing and don't repeat the behavior. If they don't contact me before the cutoff, I delete their number and don't respond at all even if I do hear from them after the fact. It doesn't matter how much I liked them, it only matters how they treated me.
@Han_rose3 жыл бұрын
Because they tried to do better but failed
@Tootie9293 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@NAConen3 жыл бұрын
Maybe I’m kidding myself but I like this response better!
@SummeRain7832 жыл бұрын
Lmao it’s like your kindness towards them made them think they somehow went up a league when really they just got lucky that you ever gave someone like that your precious time of day in the first place. Some ungrateful people…
@joyfitzgerald98782 жыл бұрын
💯
@TiffanyWestNyc Жыл бұрын
Haha he will be back
@esraayousef56433 жыл бұрын
I never tell guys who come back that I am with someone even if I was, I tell them I don't want them because I don't like them or think they are worth trying anymore, not because of someone else. They really feel disturbed by this. There is this guy who keeps saying "yeah probably you're with someone else now I wish you well" just because he never wants to be willfully and consciously rejected by an x of his that he dumped, but I never give him this validation, I always tell him I am not back with you because I don't want you anymore.
@sunmoonstars03693 жыл бұрын
Nah it’s much worse for them if they think someone else moved in on and courted you while they where out looking for options and dating others. It gives you value and makes them feel like a loser if they think someone swooped in to grab you up. It’s the thing most nightmares are made of with these dudes that’s why he brings it up subconsciously. You will strike massive cords of insecurity. If they think you are still single or not choosing them somehow then they will put the blame on you and your value is low.
@esraayousef56433 жыл бұрын
@@sunmoonstars0369 good to know, thank you!
@joemariedeguzman92043 жыл бұрын
When everything is said and done, don't be the person that the other person can always run to.
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
There's a powerful man who helped me bring my ex back to me within some few hours after I contacted him and it was unbelievable and I actually understand how you feel because i was once like you when my 2years finance left me and i almost committed suicide... Until i was introduced to a mysterious powerful man who helped me bring her back into my life within 48hours... Trust me that he can also help you bring your ex back to you just like how he helped me without delay but he can only help you in such way right after you contact him
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
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@janerosario973 жыл бұрын
I was talking with this guy, and he ghosted me, 4 months later he texted me "hey, i just wanted to know what is our relationship status?", dude we haven't talked in months what do YOU think we are?
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him**
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
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@crownedmelaninqueen3 жыл бұрын
Girl 😳😳🙄🙄🙄🤣
@naimadelafeunte91653 жыл бұрын
They are all comming back to Check if u still there to boost their Ego... And they needed you as a backgup plan.. I noticed mostly they Comeback after 3 months of Being a Ghost
@evolvedempress89533 жыл бұрын
From what I heard it’s usually 6 months sometimes some where around the Spring/summertime when cuddling season and tax season is over with and they want to start back being in the streets 💯💯🤦🏾♀️
@icbratbrattz79093 жыл бұрын
Oh man 3 months is correct
@natasha97713 жыл бұрын
Im on the 4month mark, expecting the rat to rear his head 🙄🤣
@lifeisbeautiful30193 жыл бұрын
@@evolvedempress8953 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Most kickass comment 👌👌👌👌👌
@pikachudemsy97512 жыл бұрын
Experienced the same sweetie
@daniellesmith803 жыл бұрын
I have one guy trying. Every month he pops up, sends me a voice message on WhatsApp or a picture. That's it!! His lack of trying by doing the absolute barest of the bare minimum is heartbreaking and shows me just how much I really mattered to him. And no, I have never responded nor even looked or listened to his weak pleas for my attention
@mistym0rning3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, girl, the next step would be just to delete the WhatsApp chat with him and block his number. You already know that you'll never want to communicate with him again, so the only reason you're still letting him message you (by not blocking him yet) is probably because you're curious whether he will continue to message you each month. So perhaps, on some level, you do get some sort of validation out of this? I don't know. I'm only speculating, and only you can look inside yourself and figure it out. :) I'm not trying to be rude to you, but I've been in that same situation with a few guys before and eventually realized there's no use in letting them do this -- it's fairer to myself to just block them and never have to think about them again.
@SK-no2pp3 жыл бұрын
Don’t let a man dictate your self worth!! He cannot take in your vulnerability and desire for a deep love.
@daniellesmith803 жыл бұрын
@@mistym0rning I will block him. I have been wrapped up in work and because I haven't opened them I guess I'm testing my strength and ability to not respond. He will never be in my life again so I should show him by blocking. Like I said, he never cared so why should I?
@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito3 жыл бұрын
@@daniellesmith80 yes girl, it's your power , whether to give these pricks ur attention or not.
@joemariedeguzman92043 жыл бұрын
If a guy TRULY LIKES YOU, he'll not just send you voice message, he should be able to be on your doorsteps and personally talk to you.
@user-yv1fh3fc8y2 жыл бұрын
Ghosting is not returning. Someone who leaves without explanation and then returns is a player, manipulative, trying to create attraction and weak. Ghosting is not returning.
@graciegee35412 жыл бұрын
This is so true 🥺 and the saddest part was I am an empath. So when they disappeared & treated me like I was disposable. My feelings and self esteem were hurt. They gave me the excuse that he had “a lot of bad things happen to him” but I realized it was all lies. He was adding & seeking more girls for ego boost. So THEYRE FILLING A VOID IS RIGHT. SEEKING ATTENTION IS RIGHT. Dismiss them & focus on what evolves you not dissolves you.
@cococalypso9890 Жыл бұрын
Similar thing happened to me. Only several months ago, we ran into each other and he tried to shove his way back into my life. I made it clear that I didn't want to be close like we were before and when I saw the tiniest red flag, I cut him off. Apparently, he didn't like it that I cut him off, but he taught me how. One thing I've learned is that these people are HIGHLY insecure and selfish. They constantly need attention and validation. When they deplete you, they drop you like a bad habit and then they're off to their next victims while you're left sad, confused, and exhausted. It's sad, really because instead of them working on themselves on the inside, they're constantly searching for it on the outside. For me personally, I'm glad I had this experience. Even though, at first, it was pure hell. It really helped me to spot out these vampires and avoid them at all costs.
@msantos77558 ай бұрын
Yes! Thanks for these words of encouragement. ❤
@jillparks3 жыл бұрын
Funny that ... whenever the guy who was my Mid-Life Crisis shows up in my life again, my friends sigh and say "The Walking Dread is back for another season."
@kaoshi_kutie3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that's brilliant!! 🤣👌🏼🥺
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
🤪😂
@kris03693 жыл бұрын
That is so funny 😂
@priscillaxsafi2 жыл бұрын
love this😂
@laurengg093 жыл бұрын
Wow... Someone comes Back because there's a void in there life. Il never forget that. Brilliant advice
@christinacatalano3 жыл бұрын
because somewhere along the line, we allowed them to think it was acceptable. love ya ladies, but we have to raise the bar straight out of the gate and be sure we are expressing our value.
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
There's a powerful man who helped me bring my ex back to me within some few hours after I contacted him and it was unbelievable and I actually understand how you feel because i was once like you when my 2years finance left me and i almost committed suicide... Until i was introduced to a mysterious powerful man who helped me bring her back into my life within 48hours... Trust me that he can also help you bring your ex back to you just like how he helped me without delay but he can only help you in such way right after you contact him..
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp..
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
+1 (937) 8 2 6 2 4 8 9.
@EmilyGiuffre3 жыл бұрын
What about “Lord of the Flings”?
@MarenArt3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@hibaaldubaish96973 жыл бұрын
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Hing1383 жыл бұрын
I almost choked on my food 😂😩💦
@christinacatalano3 жыл бұрын
💀💀
@kingskidpicaa30593 жыл бұрын
5 guys on a beach and they work it ?
@sugandhadogra17812 жыл бұрын
Before you accept them , after they have ghosted u and are coming back , remember the times u went mad and it fueled your anxiety, remember how much u felt bad and embarrassed, remember that they need u, u dnt need them and now my ladies, just see his messages n NEVER REPLY 🤣
@sarahheyes53712 жыл бұрын
Don't fall for the "hey you" message. Gaurantee that was sent to 20 plus peeps, they are just seeing who will respond first! If they can't even muster up your name in a message exchange, then its attention from anyone they want. Thank you for reading, ive saved you a lot of energy and time. Xx 👌👌👌
@lindahebb48322 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mvggy2 жыл бұрын
Hello. "Saudade" is a Portuguese word that means to miss deeply something from the past. It's when we feel a strong presence in our heart that comes from absence. It's the presence of absence. (We're very poetic in my country). Matthew, I love your videos, keep going please. Thank you, it helps a lot. Take care.
@laraonyoutube15323 жыл бұрын
It's always about the guy's ego being stroked and the serial ghosts are usually the ones that treated you the worst. There only one way to deal with them. Block them !
@LumyllaPaulla3 жыл бұрын
For me, there’s nothing like answering a week or so later with a classic: who’s this? Guys, you gotta know the power of a who’s this question!
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
There's a powerful man who helped me bring my ex back to me within some few hours after I contacted him and it was unbelievable and I actually understand how you feel because i was once like you when my 2years finance left me and i almost committed suicide... Until i was introduced to a mysterious powerful man who helped me bring her back into my life within 48hours... Trust me that he can also help you bring your ex back to you just like how he helped me without delay but he can only help you in such way right after you contact him..
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp..
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
+1 (937) 8 2 6 2 4 8 9.
@wannabeagoodperson58272 жыл бұрын
Lol that's funny
@paolamp30172 жыл бұрын
Amazing reply !!
@andsch38813 жыл бұрын
Lmao, had a guy text me on and off for literal months. After 8 weeks of ghosting, he texted me again and I swear it was so satisfying handing the phone over to my now-boyfriend and have him tell him off (and after the zombie started making polysexual allusions, block him) 😂😂 Some guys are just.. another kind of breed..
@DR0NE_BEE3 жыл бұрын
Likewise
@SummeRain7832 жыл бұрын
Polysexual allusions? Lol what?…
@yenyerita3 жыл бұрын
I hate men..... they always show all this interest and once they sleep with you, they start ghosting or messaging differently... im so done lol
@kimberley-77973 жыл бұрын
Just happened to me right now 😞
@8309barbie3 жыл бұрын
This shit happened on my birthday fucker ruined it for me, never again
@classysis62643 жыл бұрын
Sometimes they don’t wait for sex before ghosting. They just ghost like that
@depressed5963 жыл бұрын
@@classysis6264 so true!!!
@ytuporquenotecallas2 жыл бұрын
It's really horrible. I'm 46 and still happening to me
@dinabarake68293 жыл бұрын
now we know! because they think that we are an old nice Christmas movie they feel nostalgic about! This is one of the best explanations I have heard. thank you!
@mariagi973 жыл бұрын
Guys become zombies when they're out of options. They remind me of coaches who have run out of players and check out their substitutes list. If you don't want to be a substitute, don't behave like one. Change your coach.
@crowedwardjerkins10503 жыл бұрын
+ 1 2 6 0 2 6 8 7 7 1 7📞📞📞📞
@aminsandra90593 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who help me solve my problem what'zpp him now for help
@thehealingfairee3 жыл бұрын
They always come back. Always always always! But it would have to be some crazy extrenuous circumstance for me to ever accept them back
@lifeisbeautiful30193 жыл бұрын
Thanx dear 🙂😊 I assert with u on the extraneous circumstance
@8309barbie3 жыл бұрын
They though they could do better then you so they ghost and then come back because they realize they’ve fucked up and can’t do any better.. …walk away if they didn’t want you the first time they never deserved you in the first place Everyone deserves to be chosen first not be a consolation prize. .
@lifeisbeautiful30193 жыл бұрын
Thanx sis 😭 Thanks 🤧
@cha91652 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@gee_88923 жыл бұрын
My question is: why do most men constantly cheat on their women? I've got loads of male friends and they tell me the most horrifying stories about how they cheated and never got caught, how some cheated right before their wedding day and straight after and they brag about it. For me it's just so horribly wrong, imagine how these girls might feel if they found out, how desperate I'd be in their shoes. I'm scared of dating now that I'm single again.
@IEVAKambarovaite3 жыл бұрын
I think men and women cheat. Our environment has a massive influence on us, so if you're surrounded by those that cheat and take pride in it, I'd carefully reassess those relationships since you sound like someone who feels that cheating is a terrible thing to do. There's a great book by Esther Perel The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity. I'd highly recommend it if you want to understand why people cheat, how to get over someone cheating.
@bryanwoods33733 жыл бұрын
I don't think there's a man in my social circles that has cheated on their partner. I can only think of two guys I knew that might. One was the side piece, and the other was only rumor.
@elena-jp6ge3 жыл бұрын
@@jordangoodman8010 agreed 100
@hb90183 жыл бұрын
most men?
@suetucker92643 жыл бұрын
@@jordangoodman8010 Good people do not hurt other people on purpose; ONLY bad people do that! Maybe think about that.
@gettobedby39853 жыл бұрын
The guy who ghosted me almost a year just came back last week... such a long journey lol
@natasha97713 жыл бұрын
Omg the cheek, hope you told him 'um, bye bitch'🖐😆
@lilianawel16223 жыл бұрын
Girl , it took me 2 years
@mlj13093 жыл бұрын
@@lilianawel1622 how can they do that without feeling shame and embarrassment is beyond me.
@lilianawel16223 жыл бұрын
@@mlj1309 , one word : IMMATURE
@pikachudemsy97512 жыл бұрын
Hope you put him in his place
@gabez83 жыл бұрын
usually guys who ghost and come back to life only want a booty call
@DR0NE_BEE3 жыл бұрын
Usually, is a good word to start off with ;)
@gabez83 жыл бұрын
@@DR0NE_BEE agreed us guys always want to have our cake and eat it too. It may be considered wrong which it is but that's just the way it is lol
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
Always
@elizabetha96303 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy for a few months and he rang me EVERYDAY. He then ghosted me. I wasn't overly fussed but the rudeness of it got to me. A few weeks later he got back in contact. I asked him why he ghosted me and he said I was too full on. As someone who saw it as a fling who was being called by this guy everyday, I asked him if he could let me know how I was too full on so I could learn from it. He never replied. Few months later, he messaged again. I told him I didn't want to talk to someone who had randomly ghosted me twice now. To give him his due he apolised and hasn't messaged since. People have things going on that we will never know, just gotta roll with the punches. Thanks for this video ❤️
@elizabetha96303 жыл бұрын
@@ameliajones8727 have seen simular comments on a lot of posts lately so guessing this is some sort of spam/scam. If I'm wrong - thanks but I'm in a happy healthy relationship of 5 years 😊
@elizabetha96303 жыл бұрын
@@ameliajones8727 did I inturpret that wrong or are you saying I might think that I'm in a happy and healthy relationship but I'm not?
@michelledreyer81473 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes people ghost because things get too complicated and they are not clear on what they want....give them time to figure it out and live your life. Situations are all different.
@mistym0rning3 жыл бұрын
That doesn't excuse ghosting. There's literally no reason that someone couldn't communicate and say, "hey listen I'm going through some stuff and am pretty unsure of what I want at the moment, it's not your fault / nothing you did but I kinda just need to take a break and be by myself and figure my shit out. Very sorry but I hope you can understand and wish you all the best." Like, that took me 25 seconds to type. People who avoid that altogether are, simply, cowards.
@michelledreyer81473 жыл бұрын
@@mistym0rning I can agree with that.
@michelledreyer81473 жыл бұрын
@@mistym0rning I also think that every relationship is different and if it’s unbalanced from the beginning and one is pushing then it’s common. The key is to find your equal and learn how to balance.
@SK-no2pp3 жыл бұрын
Yes people usually goes to dismissive avoidant, conflict avoidant. And just weak and fearful.
@michelledreyer81473 жыл бұрын
@@SK-no2pp agreed. Who really wants to get that text saying they are taking off? And who really wants to send that text. I see an explosion taking place.
@neskorock2 жыл бұрын
When my first real love ghosted me and return 9 months later to wish me happy birthday, and want to be friend. I told him too late for friend. I was already engaged. The End!!
@_pinned_byandreijikh45642 жыл бұрын
He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏
@_pinned_byandreijikh45642 жыл бұрын
Wh@tsApp him for help.
@_pinned_byandreijikh45642 жыл бұрын
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@brose-bg3ks3 жыл бұрын
If I wanted something that would run away and come back when convenient I’d get a wild dog.
@KatalinaKristina2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I will use this on all the assholes that message me from now on. 🤣
@Carolina3788 Жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣🤣👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@saroraborealis7 ай бұрын
lol loved reading this comment
@happysunday13453 жыл бұрын
“its like an old christmas movie. you don’t wanna watch it in febuary , but christmas roles around and you crack out...elf” hahahhh
@aminsandra90593 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who help me solve my problem what'zpp him now for help
@aminsandra90593 жыл бұрын
.+2..34..80.73..31..74..60
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
🤪😂
@Marie-tf8ug3 жыл бұрын
I thought he was going to say Love Actually Lol
@victoriasarmiento41919 ай бұрын
Bro, the guy that ghosted me a year ago that I swore would never message me again just today hit me up, what a zombie. Videos like these made me feel better to know a possible reason why someone would do this sort of thing. I was able to handle this better and turn him away, thanks so much for this help idk what I would’ve done without it 🙏🏽
@SagittariusBabe8723 күн бұрын
Wow, that was a long time and he came back! Good for you for sending him away!
@Revolution-tl5wo2 жыл бұрын
If I don't hear from someone for a few days, I have a cutoff date. If they contact me before the cutoff, I MAY give them another chance, depending on whether they offer a valid reason for disappearing and don't repeat the behavior. If they don't contact me before the cutoff, I delete their number and don't respond at all even if I do hear from them after the fact. It doesn't matter how much I liked them, it only matters how they treated me.
@trusfratedkim42263 жыл бұрын
Coz he loves attention and love feeling the thrill of someone chasing them...
@trusfratedkim42263 жыл бұрын
4th.
@shirleyjimenez293 жыл бұрын
Soooo true.
@aminsandra90593 жыл бұрын
@@shirleyjimenez29 .I know of a man who help me solve my problem what'zpp him now for help
@aminsandra90593 жыл бұрын
@@shirleyjimenez29 ..+2..34..80.73..31..74..60
@trusfratedkim42263 жыл бұрын
@Matthew Hussey Sure I would love to if u were the real Matthew I adore & have huge respect for... Why would u do that? Make fake channels and ask people to contact u? 😂
@gersended61843 жыл бұрын
Nothing to do with the video, just wanted to thank you Matthew for being one of the reminders for me to finally take care of my mental health, and see a therapist. I’ve always been a pretty active person who has great social surroundings, but it felt like it wasn’t enough. There were these lingering issues that I had kept in close doors for years that needed attention. Thank you for reminding me to invest in myself. Your advice and insights are always helpful.
@shirleyjimenez293 жыл бұрын
They want the attention.. This is sooo true.
@radhasen.animalwelfare.56443 жыл бұрын
Humans return after being " ghosted" simply because their egos need some stroking or being stroked. . Or they found nobody better out there.. Or they return gloriously humbled asking to be banished again. There's no such thing as love... All relationships are based on sheer need. Once the need is over the relationship is over as well...! Frankly anybody who puts you in the freezer is not worth 5 mins of one's time again.
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
I dated someone for 3 months. Then he ghosted me for 4 months. On thanksgiving he texted me & I ignored. Next day he tried to call, I ignored. A couple weeks later he tried to call again. I’m tired of the games
@kristel66473 жыл бұрын
Just answer “who is this” 😂
@maryklatka59893 жыл бұрын
I usually actually have to ask because I deleted the number and forgot about them!
@sialee59263 жыл бұрын
I say no response, is the best response. People who ghost, show who they really are. They’re cowards, conflict avoidants, and disrespecting you immensely, by devaluing you.
@mistym0rning3 жыл бұрын
Best answer is none. Ignore, delete, block. Move on.
@ayamputihngingi3 жыл бұрын
Believe me, guys who have the audacity to reappear also the one who have the thickest skin ever.
@mariapericleous96402 жыл бұрын
So true about the pandemic! I had a couple of ghosts re-appearing out of nowhere in the last two years!!!
@theSchmeezla3 жыл бұрын
the real question here is: what you are going to do about it? me: nothing, ignore the zombie.
@mistym0rning3 жыл бұрын
Ignore. Delete. Block.
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
You bet😂
@oyen113 жыл бұрын
Seeing this video makes me so angry & cry at the same time. When my ex & I broke up, he kept doing this to me for basically a year. And Ofcourse I always ask him all the "why" question, but all he does is a lot of talking & not action. He always claims that he still "loves" me but he doesn't show it. And then he will just ghost me for awhile, & then come back & then same cycle of convo, then ghost, then come... Same cycle all over again. It really broke my heart & it still does bc I fell inlove with the guy, I move to a different STATE for him, I did EVERYTHING to make him happy , to make our relationship work, to please him, for him to be proud of me & show me off.. but I guess little did I know he didn't REALLY love me, unconditionally. He ONLY love me of what I can do for him. He ONLY love me if I am any useful for him.
@morganrollins813 жыл бұрын
I can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
@morganrollins813 жыл бұрын
+1 (213)-5 8 7-4 45 3
@morganrollins813 жыл бұрын
Message him on WhatsApp for help
@TheLaurdawgmacdaddy2 жыл бұрын
Ignore those messages about getting your ex back. You don't want this guy, these ghoster types are *toxic.*. And I'm sure they do this pattern with everyone else that they can get away with. You're so right that it's alllll about what you can do for them. They're selfish. Once you start learning to invest in yourself first and foremost and not tolerating that behavior, you won't take it so personally. It's a process but you'll be happier in the long-run!
@LucretiaVanPelt3 жыл бұрын
Because he sucks? He will probably do it again. Or something worse.
@lizogilvie83373 жыл бұрын
Saudades - ‘sao-dad-esh’ pronounciation. This reminds me of a Portuguese poem.. Quem inventou a partida Nao sabia eo amor Quem parte levar saudades Quem ficar morre de dor Basically means.. Whoever invented parting Didn’t know what love is Those who leave feel grief But those who are left behind die of grief ‘Heeeeeee’s back’ ... very funny Stephen 👌🏻
@janelleramcharan21852 жыл бұрын
Maravilhosa! Obrigada.
@janellinell45522 жыл бұрын
There’s no coming back just my turn to ghost you - let the games begin. I’ve already got plenty of more dependable options
@AncientSouthwest3 жыл бұрын
Movie title: A Few Meh Men
@MarenArt3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@japonica303 жыл бұрын
Lolol 😂
@anitad55602 жыл бұрын
My ex ghosted me after chasing me for 2 years. I had finally decided to get back with him then he ghosted me. Yesterday he called out of the blue. Sounding all excited and that he was bored and really wanted to talk to me. Not even an explanation. That was the end of it. Several missed calls but I guess he get the hint.
The only zombies I love are from *TRAIN TO BUSAN* If u are not one of them,stay the heck away from me 😂
@ruchidhimanpuskas3 жыл бұрын
Train to Busan is definitely one of my favorite zombie movie.
@angelahill2668 Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing! He came back yesterday, two months has passed. I had my first date since him, two days before he called to apologize and see if we could start over. WTH?
@aichaaicha88052 жыл бұрын
You guys are going to love this. I never dated the Guy, it supposed to be a blind date. So one day he contacted me, I didn't like the way he texted and I am not the type of girl Who use texting to get to know People, I prefer face to face interactions. Anyways i replied ( out of respect ) the next thing i know, he disappeared for TWO months ! To be honest, forgot about him after two days when he ignored my text ! Hhh. After two months he reappeared, I didn't give a damn ! He kept trying ( the idiot ) . My sister convinced me to reply because am in my late thirties and am running out of time. I replied, he put the blame on me, and intead of asking me out or just start Q and As to get to know me, he asked for pictures. I kindly declined and ended the discussion. Now am telling you that i'd prefer to be alone than loose my self respect. If they disappear, you disappear as well.
@Icanonlyjustbeme3 жыл бұрын
“Polterguys” 💀💀 exactly! 👻👻
@dawnlapka37822 жыл бұрын
People go away and come back is because there's a void in their own life: TRUTH. There's not a single person that doesn't have some kind of mental health issue. We're all a little sick inside. Recognizing that major statement makes going on a Ross and Rachel break easier. Just be patient with your own flaws and his. Marriage, even if it's not your first is still worth doing.
@caezsty3 жыл бұрын
I was brutaly ghosted by a guy, in the future when we rematched, i asked for an explanation (never actually expecting one). But i got one. And it was....actually good, and it made sense. I approached skeptically. But it wasnt a lie and i eventually gave him a second chance. Hes my boyfriend now and i dont regret that decision one bit
@clairemosier12743 жыл бұрын
Yet
@caezsty3 жыл бұрын
@@clairemosier1274 can you elaborate as to why i might come to regret it in the future?
@clairemosier12743 жыл бұрын
@@caezsty idk. Just any of the ways men usually do make you regret
@caezsty3 жыл бұрын
@@clairemosier1274 i assumed thats what you meant. But i feel like youd need more information to make that prediction.
@crownedmelaninqueen3 жыл бұрын
He’s now consistent and meeting your emotional needs ? ! Wow ! Well some people just need time eh ?
@KajsaBernhardina2 жыл бұрын
I once sort of ghosted a guy after he made a half-ass attempt of asking me out, and the shitty part is I really liked him and wanted to go out with him but I have low self confidence when it comes to these things so it’s not always about not being interested, sometimes the reason someone is ghosting you is because they think they’re not good enough for you and want to work on themselves / not ready for a relationship and it has nothing to do with you. And when they come back it might be to reassure you that they still think about you sometimes as someone they could potentiallh match with. Ghosting is harsh but it’s not always about YOU. I find it’s just as often a case of the ghoster having extremely low confidence /not feeling good enough and instead of facing your rejection after the first date, they feel ghosting you is easier because then you never have the chance of rejecting them.
@auds_e7 Жыл бұрын
So do u think that ghosting isn’t black & white & sometimes the guy does deserve a 2nd chance if he like actually puts in work to mend things?
@Em-im1yz Жыл бұрын
Then use your words like an adult and express that
@Octoberstorm333 Жыл бұрын
Spent the last 4 years focusing on myself only to bond with someone so well and embody my true standards. I made one joke at being ghosted before not knowing you’d see a text from me one day soon and it failed to spark a hint of dopamine in your skull. I never heard from you again. It’s still painful years later experiencing this and, picturing your person checking their phone and seeing your name and not thinking enough of you anymore to entertain acknowledging your existence. The abruptness of it feels so inhuman.
@alinat.24232 жыл бұрын
Taking an early walk, trying to deal with heartbreak done by an uncommitted situation-ship, I just had a great lol about 28dates later and polterguys. Made my morning. Thank you for this 💚
@aerochicc2 жыл бұрын
I wondered how long you guys were going to get through this video before cracking up. LOL! It was impressive actually. I will own up to the fact that I let myself be the fallback girl IN MY PAST. No more. My biggest flaw is that I felt I could be friends with some of my exes. Not saying that you can't, but after years of silence I'm not willing to be the camp counselor anymore.
@aerochicc2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, but don't need it. This guy wasn't my soulmate.
@gnartxx3 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched Matthew Hussey for a few years and I come back today just to see if he is still here and his voice reminds me of little time we had when I was listening to that voice everyday aww how sweet of recalling a little memories *wink* *wink*
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me💯
@taishahong20653 жыл бұрын
I don't know if Matthew is going to a tough path right now but i feel like he lost the enthousiam and spark in his eyes :( If so, be strong Matthew, wish you well!
@natashamcclintock13243 жыл бұрын
I went through the comments specially to see if anyone would say anything. I see it... And it's tough because he can't just take a break because social media is so fickle. Sorry Matt. If you need some time... We'll be here waiting. Xxx
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@shawnwinter94233 жыл бұрын
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@natashamcclintock13243 жыл бұрын
@@shawnwinter9423 you such a weirdo.... Firstly... I'm sure if he wanted the world to WhatsApp him... Hed give his number out... And secondly... People are not as desperate as you think to fall for your antics.... How's about you keep yourself to yourself son.
@bsheezybdazz3 жыл бұрын
He could be on a hangover lol. Everyone isn't on 1000 24/7
@CewyahAlt3 жыл бұрын
This kind of stuff feels helpful for non romantic friendships too. They both have break up and attractions and strategies to hold the relationship together.
@XcalWhite3 жыл бұрын
👌 they speak the truth and that shit hurts more than a arrow to a knee !!
@heatherwoodley82442 жыл бұрын
Bloody loving your film ideas guys!! 😂😂 Polterguy and 28 Dates Later! That was one way to make the message stick. Now I might just laugh the next time a zombie pops up, and deal with it much better. ❤️
@darrelltolbert75722 жыл бұрын
Let's not leave women out of this. I just had someone I was talking too for awhile do this. Always talked, texted. Hung out a bit. She ghosted me to go back to her ex,who she claimed didn't have a job, got fired for stealing. Suddenly I was no good anymore. Unfortunately, there is no coming back when things fall apart for her, and they will. Women are just as guilty as men when it comes to this. You walked away from a potential relationship, destroyed the friendship. Welp, keep on walking
@oluchieric44472 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
@oluchieric44472 жыл бұрын
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
@oluchieric44472 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him"**
@oluchieric44472 жыл бұрын
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@_pinned_byandreijikh45642 жыл бұрын
Wh@tsApp him for help.
@Princess157323 жыл бұрын
it happens to me all the time and I don't accept the reappearing ghosts ever again bc I don't believe they're worthy of anything.
@emmyetyet36463 жыл бұрын
Oh how aggressively I clicked on this video while thinking of a specific person.
@magdalenejover3492 жыл бұрын
I was ghosted for months and it was so tough for me. I liked this guy so much that I cried when he friendzoned me lmaoo. He then ghosted for months but last October he greeted me Happy Halloween out of the blue.. and started chatting again. Tried asking why he hasn't chatted for months he just said he has been busy...but this guy feeling of mine told me he was dating someone all this time before he chatted me again...idk what to do with him anymore tho lmao
@karlad24042 жыл бұрын
Bread crumbing while your on the shelf. Yeah they schedule time in between to keep the supply list flowing. Probably in the driveway of your best friend cousin hell possibly even your brother. They want it all and ruthless.
@kristypaigetheriot58192 жыл бұрын
Leave him alone. If you are confused or don't get a good feeling that means something isn't right. You are worth more than that.
@magdalenejover3492 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much guys. Sorry for replying late. I've been keeping myself really busy from thinking about him and I've blocked him everywhere and simply moved on
@magdalenejover3492 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for the help❤️❤️❤️
@auds_e7 Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me so depressed, I thought he was actually being honest & now I guess it was all bs
@s.wright69453 жыл бұрын
I have an ex of 27 years!! In the last 15 years he has contacted me numerous times and acts like we split up 2 weeks ago! He knows I will never take him back but still will not leave me alone.
@amelialouise66073 жыл бұрын
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay
@amelialouise66073 жыл бұрын
Text him via WhatsApp
@amelialouise66073 жыл бұрын
+ 1 ( 5 3 0 ) 9 4 8 8 1 2 0.
@scrubhero36292 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you might have to file a restraining order
@BarbieRachelEvans2 жыл бұрын
Single is best. Self love. Nurture yourself you will become self-validated❤️
@rachelanastasia0001 Жыл бұрын
YES!!!!! 🙌
@priyankapawar1912 Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@janep19682 жыл бұрын
Do this..... so what do you actually do? We addressed that it happens, but I never saw your answer. I have dealt with this several times. Thank you.
@ram201pa3 жыл бұрын
Okay everybody, I think I hold the record here. He came back after 3 years. 3 effing years. What is up with that? Yes, I asked him about it. He had no excuse. He mumbled something that made no sense. Needless to say he is GONE from my life. Gimme a break.
@littleredhen82053 жыл бұрын
Nope, sorry. Try 5 years.
@AliaslsailA2 жыл бұрын
@@littleredhen8205 hahaha mine was gone for 4 years and reaaally started to fight for me, telling me how badly he wanted me back and that choosing to get together with his girlfriend instead of me was a mistake. So I toyed with him for about 2 months and never slept with him because I said I needed to build trust first and then I ghosted him 😍 best revenge of my life.
@melissasmith18532 жыл бұрын
I shamefully hold the record. in 10years he ghosted me 7 times. I am sure all of them was running when things get hard and going to the grass on the other side. I took him back and one of them he went over 2 years and then came back. Don't ever do it. The pain is something out of a never ending nightmare. It destroyed me. But I blame myself for not seeing that he clearly has an illness.
@leecairns4213 жыл бұрын
This is my life..! They always realise when they've let a good woman go.
@lucilleyu50272 жыл бұрын
I love how the conversation went from ghosting to zombies😂😂😂
@salisashannon39033 жыл бұрын
That guy is so funny. He says things like he doesn’t even know though!!
@kellyzhang123 жыл бұрын
True , I figured out men always like to come back even you guys just have a short great time together, and they look like wanna double check are you still available or they just wanna prove them value. As a women , I have to say I never have the moment wanna come back , when you decided to let it go , it means that is it , that is why we call it past lol
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hello friend do you need to get your ex back
@berryyoung8883 жыл бұрын
Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me💯
@brandymore57203 жыл бұрын
I rather be single happy than being ina toxic relationship
@mareehutchin27023 жыл бұрын
Do you still belong to the ocean that I am in? Love it
@Universe_Draft2 жыл бұрын
It is really unrespectful when someone dissappear from your life .. have the audacity to come back and check on you.. 1.- First, you are not a piece of something that intentionally left in a shelf of a store... WAITING.. for him to decide to pick you up.. 2. People needs to understand .. and take ownership of their actions.. if someone is leaving would be better not even consider to come back.. will leave them as a piece a crap.. if they stumble with someone who respect themselves ( Man or woman)
@janpitman2 жыл бұрын
I have watched so many of your videos! Some of your words hit me to the core. Thank you for posting those helpful videos for women out there.
@WhyYoutubeWhy3 жыл бұрын
I just got one last week after 5 years in the great beyond lol! 5 freaking years! It was on What's app so I had a picture to go with, it took a few seconds to figure out who that was (and he did not age well let me tell you lol).
@estherjoes59033 жыл бұрын
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@maggiehaines22032 жыл бұрын
LOVE Comes softly like morning light and leaves like a thunderstorm in the night !