When I did this ritual, people started moving away (4 Step Energy Cord Cutting Ritual)

[@rylexander1]

"If it wasn't benefiting me, then it probably wasn't benefitting them either." Very wise words. I will certainly remember that!

[@BenVeyfeyken]

Relationship that no longer served me just went away for me automatically but I was going through some dark stuff at the time so I think the universe helped me with that. I started loving myself more, learn to say "no" more, setting boundaries,...I don't have much human relationships anymore (I feel no need for them at this point in my life). Just one good friend. I feel more connected with nature and animals to be honest. I find it more honest and pure relationship with no drama 😊 I like it that way. Thanks for the beautiful video Rei ❤

[@flowergirl7260]

when you ger healthier you aren't as needy and trust that people come and go, and that's the way it's supposed to be!

[@Ndamulelo888]

If you are someone who is going through a spiritual awakening, cutting cord with toxic relationships will just happen automatically( you will be divinely assisted with that part). Its like you will be forced to cut off toxic relationships. 🤗🤗

[@prernaarora2518]

That I totally agree!!

[@voidsage9359]

You aren't wrong, but this is a bit askance of what's actually happening. Spiritual awakening changes you from the ground up. As such, you are no longer resonant with much of what you had in your life before; so, the old relationships fall away because you no longer fit what you were before. Divine assistance is almost never needed, and therefore rarely given because this is more or less just physics; vinegar doesn't need divine assistance to make a lot of foam when mixed with baking soda, nor does water require divine assistance to turn into gas when heated to a certain point.

[@Morgan313]

@@voidsage9359Great explanation!

[@personalaccount7534]

the energenic chord was your trauma. there is a great ram das quote where he says what the person does is their karma, and how you respond is your karma. So its always about examining your karma and your patterns and freeing yourself from your attachments. They are just tools really for your pain body, ultimately they are playing the part your trauma seeks out and are inherently innocent.

[@RealisticCooking9992]

It brought tears to my eyes when I follow along the ritual, and unfortunately that person at the other end of the cord is my own mother, maybe it's best for both of us to keep distance for now.

[@espiritualme2048]

I NEED THAT TO WITH MY MOTHER. SHE'S A NARCISSISTIC EVIL BEING!!!😢 I'M SCARED THAT WHEN SHE DIES SHE WILL CONTINUE TO CAUSE ME MORE DAMAGED. 😢

[@maryquinn6661]

While I was in the process of cutting cords with a specific person who I suspected was covertly manipulative..I noticed was always trying to interfere in my jobs/career…that specific person sent a text message trying to connect me to a job! I immediately said NO…I Trust the divine was confirming my intuitions were correct and this person was not to be trusted!! So grateful I knew to cut these cords!! 🙏❤

[@ninilustig]

I have done at December 2023. they don’t understand and they won’t understand and they refuse to understand anyway. So I have done it anyway! Whoever is trying to do that for yourself , I wish you all good forces , good energy, take care of yourself both body and soul! ❤

[@the_observer7141]

True friends are like diamonds , rare and valuable whilst being surrounded by many fakes.

[@RegardsRei]

Beautiful words to keep in mind! Thank you 🙏🏻

[@otherworldlygirlie]

This helped me a lot! 💗 I cut people (including influencers) out of my life, but i still struggled with emotional/mental attachment and really getting stuck on their perceptions of me and upsetting things that were said. My brain kept repeating/echoing those things, and extending them. Now i can take my path and let them stay on theirs (in my case, it made more sense to imagine it that way rather than a crossroads). Thank you!

[@Shts-n7h]

From few days I felt like i have to uninstall my whatsapp and not invest my energy and time to chat with people. I feel relieved after doing so. I also need to cut some friendships because the purpose has ran it's course

[@margaretinsydney3856]

No, I have never done a ritual like this, which is probably why it took so long to part ways with the wrong people and find the right ones. After years and years of collecting frenemies, I now have a group of truly lovely real friends. I recommend these rituals. They work! ❤❤

[@espiritualme2048]

I hope that one day I can say the same!!😢🙏🏻

[@sefewet]

I have had a lot of relationships based on the things i thought i lacked inside of me. Holding them on, whilst actually being one sided and not benefitting me. I eventually by reflecting and meditating find those qualities in myself and i started to let go. This really helped me out, cause the people in my life that are still here are the people that i care about beyond space and time. The love for them is deeper then with other people. Ofc with this proces i also got a lot of help from some of my friends and just today i had a big breakthrough that really has set me even more free and that will also change some relationships that i have with some people. I noticed the difference between more "karmic" cords and cords that are deeper than that with a truly good deep connection.

[@flowergirl7260]

Good video. Sometimes we need to put family members into the 'acquaintance' category, too, when we need a healthier boundary. Thank you.

[@mellifergold]

For me, it happened this way : it seemed that something ( a greater awareness ? ) was gradually building up on the inside, while I still interacted in the same way with these people on the outside , until suddenly the new inside level kind of " spilled over " into the outside world and at that point, I just had to leave, now it was totally clear, no doubt and no turning back. The burning anger, aggressiveness and even hatred I was then met with ( one person even cursed me ! ) only confirmed that it was right and necessary to part ways....

[@adju05]

I did an energy cutting ritual for a person years ago. We drifted apart after, but months later, they came back. But it wasn't the same, and we just didn't match energetically even more so than before. I needed to do another cord cutting ritual after. Each time, I feel like I'm mourning. This video feels light, and I hope it will come to a point when I'll also view my experience lightly.

[@flowergirl7260]

Don't worry. Most often the other person is happy to be freed on a soul level! Sometimes it takes time to clear tthe issues.

[@patsydarling160]

Sjoo I have and am currently going through a total overhaul of friendships. My bestie and I were practically connected by the hip but somehow the universe prepared me for her leaving to a whole new country super-suddenly by relocating me to a place an hour away whereas we lived 5 minutes apart previously. I believe I was being prepared for this heart wrench. But strangely enough we hardly talk much now. It’s only been 2 months which kinda feels like we have fulfilled that purpose and it’s time to move on💫No hard feelings just a natural next step… Almost all my other friends just slowly faded away too as our vibrations changed. My journey is quite solitary and I’m loving it💓

[@sydneykasmar]

I really like your ritual. I have heard of this technique and it was to severe the cord with a sword and throw the cord into a fire to burn. Your ritual is respectful, honoring and I like the step of giving the person a boxed gift of love and good wishes.

[@jimbobdave]

When i was breaking up with my ex I could "see" the cord, it was sparkly and twisted like an umbilical cord. it went up above the houses though the air all the way to his house. I didnt know about this stuff back then but i imagined I had scissors and cut it, i guess it was just an instinct. After that i had no feeling toward him

[@RegardsRei]

That’s amazing that you saw it. After I cut the cord with scissors, I had the same reaction as you. The desperate, heavy emotions disappeared and all that was left was a general sense of well wishes.

[@AlexandraVogel-dj6mo]

Rei, do you think cutting the energetic cord can be more towards attachments, not actually intentionally finishing the relationship? Can i cut it for expecting an outcome? Not push the person away

[@domajoh]

So needed this very video! Today! Right now! Thank you so much! It's confirmation of how I need to release a relationship I am transitioning from. This process is such a beautiful, gentle and honorable way to do just that. Thank you!! 🤗

[@godfunk]

The people we care for have no earthly idea how much energy time and love we dedicate to them. I don’t always expect gratitude, but pretending they give as much back in kind is a bridge to far

[@elsiemunoz199]

My ritual was burning all my wedding pictures where my image . Still married but in the process. When my awakening happened i lost my job and then my marriage of 25 years. I know now that it was only based on superficiality all an illusion. Not to mention my dark knight but I’m here for a reason. I excuse my writing.

[@amna11-11]

Thank you ❤

[@Shts-n7h]

I free myself from people who serve nothing to me

[@mevalejj9707]

Yes, but this does not mean we cannot have compassion towards the other person. I cannot cut ties from people that do not benefit me I can just choose how much energy to give. If we are truly are one we must be remember not to judge others.

[@RegardsRei]

You have a beautiful soul ❤️

[@yappingstrascha]

thank you so much for this video! letting go from stuff is really hard but I find doing a ritual like this one helps with coping with the "loss" of someone, even if it is only energetic

[@jansimpson4364]

Thanks so much for this - I’m going through the same thing and have actually had to go ‘no contact’ with a couple of friends who just wouldn’t let go. I usually handle this by email and I do include well wishes there. I only send an email when I’ve had a long time to think about it and say what I need to say in the most life supporting way. I’ve done the cord cutting part but I like the additional steps you have from an energetic standpoint, particularly for myself. I also like that you’ve allowed that they might come back someday but it won’t be the same. My problem has been reaction from them which is sometimes very emotional. But I agree that if it wasn’t good for me, chances are it wasn’t good for them either. Again, thanks for this and nice to know I’m not alone in going through this.

[@voidsage9359]

I like this video! That's all very well explained, and this is an effective ritual! That said, what you've laid out is better described as "Redefining the relationship" than a "cord cutting" ritual: the first step is indeed a cord cutting, but step 2 sets things up so they can return later. Step 3 establishes a new relationship with the gift you give them; and step 4 Redefines where they will be in your life, and the kind of relationship you'll have. Doing the ritual you laid out is why more or less everyone you've done this with has in time returned to your life, but in a different relationship- if you remember/ kept notes on exactly what social circle you assigned them to in step 4, i would wager you'd find they all wound up coming back in that exact social circle. A true cord cutting ritual would omit steps 2, 3, and 4. In a way, you actually contradict the chord cutting by doing those extra steps. As you yourself said, in step 1, you end the relationship and give up control; but, then, over steps 2-4 you reassert and establish more control than you had before. The first form of the relationship happened organically, a blend between you and the other party. The ritual you've described puts you in complete control of the relationship; it is a form of Alchemy, in fact. You first destroy the current relationship and send them away, then you rebuild the connection in a new form rather than simply letting it die as you would in a true cord cutting ritual. It is also worth noting that what you've created could work as a love spell very easily- after all, nothings stopping you or anyone else who does this from putting them in the "Lover" circle, or the "Sexual Partner" circle if you wanted to make this into a lust ritual. In any case, great job, and great video! Thank you for sharing!

[@mandar13579]

Thanks Rei. ❤ I am asking / praying for the energetic connection to be cut off with a few people. I have to do it couple of times every day, as a way of reminding myself when I start getting mentally entangled in the past / future. I really loved them, adored them but it just couldn't work out. Perhaps I wasn't meant to be with those people. I don't know.

[@iamtheangeloflight]

Rei you've no idea how much I needed this 😭lifesaver

[@theliterarytarot]

My life has changed drastically as well. Lovely. Thank you.

[@scratfindnut4264]

The person I thought was my friend let me go VERY quickly when I said I was leaving the church. Haven't heard from her in years.

[@RegardsRei]

I’m sorry that happened. I’ve also experienced that too. 😥

[@mellifergold]

Left a cult like organization - lost all my " friends " and was cursed by the leader.. Never regretted it though !

[@traderkaz]

I am so happy I found your channel. Thank you❣️

[@ssss13861]

❤thank you!!❤

[@phionxdavis729]

Thank you for showing me how 2 do hugs and loves

[@Kingcxlt]

Do you have any more cool rituals like this. Maybe for manifesting ? Maybe confidence after narcissistic abuse ( a big thing I realized had been happening all my life after my spiritual awakening) This ritual is definitely going to help with that Thank you so much Rei, I am so grateful for you!

[@lauven18]

Dear Rei, I've been following you through this channel for quite a while now. I am not good at leaving comments, but I just don't want let another day go without expressing to you my deepeste gratitude for the wonderful content you create and share. Thank you so much!

[@Name_Lessness]

This'll work both ways unfortunately, you can cut ties with whomever but if someone still feels entitled to something about you the cord will keep attaching. A word like family can mean everything or nothing depending on whom you ask. Toxic people suck...

[@Hawaii_Sakura_88]

Great video. Thank you Rei. Very helpful. 👍

[@nicoleyang4216]

Thank you for this video💘 Definitely received this at the perfect moment just when we getting close to the powerful equinox!

[@Swatipal26]

I feel deeply grateful to you for all the efforts you put, because if you i had better understanding about my spiritual awakening ,i hold better perspective and feel validated for my spiritual awakening journey . thank you rey

[@amynay4686]

Part of me wishes there was something one could communicate to the other person so that it would be less painful for them, but maybe that is my fear talking. Maybe I can trust them to have their own personal growth and life experience without me solving it for them.

[@gabidaariel]

My dear Rei, thank you so much for your content, it has been a blessing for us. I've been having regular lucid dreams lately, but, whenever I become lucid, I come across a monstrous figure, that I have to pacify by praying and giving love. I understand those monsters are projections of my own psyche and trauma, right? My question is, did you go through this as well? Did this phase last long? If possible, can you make a video about it? Much love and thanks. ❤🙏❤👏❤

[@8no1likeme-infinitestar65]

very good explanation Ray I did a similar ritual, sent them off with love and light. .❤ I just love your videos❤

[@Esther0202]

thank you so much, Rei❤

[@jic137]

Thank you! This is exactly what I’ve been needing! ❤

[@JCnordic2983]

Howmuch identifying i experienced the same relations.

[@RoseMarika]

This is such a powerful video. Thank you Rei!

[@SewHealthy8]

Good explanation in step 4

[@HigherGold6]

Thank you

[@Jon2.2.0]

Thank you. I think I need this.

[@jaimiemistry4749]

Thank-you

[@IfraahAhmed-o3m]

Great I will try that

[@jeanlarto1035]

I keep experiencing animosity from complete strangers for no apparent reason. My daily interactions are mostly unfriendly and I feel they're upset about me but they don't really know why. Have you experienced something similiar? I'd love to hear your take on this. Thank you.

[@RegardsRei]

Ooohhh yes, I did! Unbeknownst to you, your awakening energy might be clashing with theirs, especially if they want to remain unconscious. Your energy might feel like that sunbeam hitting them early in the morning when all they want to do is keep sleeping.

[@mellifergold]

You' re not alone - I know this phenomenon very well, too. Total strangers acting angrily and aggressively towards me, in shops, in the street. Also, they tend to burp and fart right in my face... I also dread going to the little post office - where they always look for or even " invent " some sort of problem - although I try and check very thouroughly beforehand that everything is as it should be... So, yes, this kind of experience definitely exists. I am now trying different approaches to deal with this, like praying before I leave the house or blessing my sourroundings, the town, the streets, all the people...🌼🕯️

[@jeanlarto1035]

That's a great analogy. It's just very tiring. My intentions are good, but the reception is mostly terrible. And when I express that or set boundaries, then they say I'm victimizing myself... But it's comforting to hear you (and others) have a similar experience.

[@jeanlarto1035]

That resonates so much! For me no matter how small I make myself, or in the gym for example I face the wall or look at the ground, they'll find a way to be aggressive towards me. Or when I go outside I even put on ugly clothes to not gather attention...all that doesn't matter. It's so bizarre. But thanks for sharing your experience.

[@mellifergold]

@@jeanlarto1035 perhaps you might like to check if you carry some hidden aggression ( towards yourself ? ) or even self- hatred around with you that they are kind of picking up on and highlighting with their behavior... - If one is too willing to "disappear" completely just to please others , it is a little too much on the self- depricating side. Do you like yourself ? Maybe you could find ways to strengthen your self love , allow yourself more space , more of a "good life" ?? Have you sacrificed a lot already or somehow believe ( deep down ) that you are not worth much ? What about childhood trauma ?? ( I am " working " on all that myself, so...)

[@andybreadley429]

What to do if you are that "taker"?

[@swagatachakravarty3917]

Will this help me breaking up with my bf?

[@voidsage9359]

Actually, thinking on your ritual further... Steps 2, 3, and 4 were likely put in place because you were not really ready or willing to fully let go of these people, so you changed it from a cord cutting ritual into one that redefines the relationship so that it's no longer a burden to you. This is likely why you or others doing this would need to repeat it: it is much easier for your intentions to be in conflict doing this ritual than it would be with a pure cord cutting ritual. Actions affect the mind; if you only do a cord cutting, you Strengthen the parts of you that desire to end the relationship, and weaken the ones which want to maintain it, which reduces internal conflict on the matter. But this one, it leaves more room for your subconscious fears and desires to remain in the relationship, and your desires to end it, to conflict with each other, hindering the manifestation of the ritual. You should explore doing a pure cord cutting ritual, one with one function and one function only: To end the relationship fully. Sever the ties and let it die. I am told you'll find it helps you greatly on your path, and it will help you grow to the next step you are moving towards. Best of luck on your path, and please keep making these videos, i really enjoy them!

[@marishkaspirit]

How do you do the reverse? Like when you want your connection to be stronger?

[@RegardsRei]

Wow, that’s actually an amazing question. What I’ve noticed in my life is, the more mature and balanced your energy is, people tend to be attracted to you naturally even though you don’t put much effort into the connection.

[@KillaSea]

Bruh I have an old aquatince who think we we're closer than we actually were and he still think it's okay to call my mom his. I think he's in the closet or something and scared to come out l. I don't know what he's issue is but he's really toxic in my life and I hope the best for him but as of now I want nothing to do with him

[@MsZulu21]

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[@Anosaywa]

Do you think they were acting this way to support you?

[@RegardsRei]

At a soul level, we were both playing our respective roles for each other in order for each of is to grow as we were meant to. But on a conscious level, no, I wouldn’t say they were thinking about me to that depth. 🤔

[@Anosaywa]

@@RegardsRei does that undermine the value of their existence in your life?

[@RegardsRei]

@@Anosaywa Not sure if I understand you correctly, but cutting the energy cord with someone isn't about throwing that person away and declaring them as "valueless." The way I experienced it is, it was about letting go of that person so they can be whoever they want to be without me boxing them into my standards, and also releasing myself from what that person needed me to be as well. It was about releasing the harmful dynamic between the two of us.

[@Anosaywa]

​@@RegardsRei It seems you understood me perfectly. :) Thank you for humoring me. I just wanted to make sure I understood you! ❤ Appreciate you taking the time to respond.

[@cattobread.1111]

been binge watching a lot of your videos, I wish I could find a friend like you!

[@MsGechi77]

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