WHEN MUSLIM WOMEN LOVE A NON MUSLIM | Hidden Heart | Full DOCUMENTARY

When second generation British Muslim women find love outside their faith, they're forced to struggle to reconcile modernity with tradition. Their internal conflicts and fear of ostracism sheds light on the hidden tensions in our modern society between integration and tradition and the people who are at the heart of it.
Hidden Heart (2018)
Director: Zara Afzal
Genre: Documentary
© 2022 Sideways Film. Published under license.
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[@Happy-go-l]

I think as Muslim parents we should raise our children to fear Allah not us because when you listen to this ladies All they are worried about is their parents and their love life in islam you should be pleasing Allah first then the rest.

[@yabobayo5787]

Easy said than done.

[@Happy-go-l]

@@yabobayo5787 it depends how important it is to you with Allah's help it is achievable 👍

[@uniquepolyglot2022]

I am a Christian and I agree with you that we should fear God. Fearing God is more important as it will keep you grounded. God comes above parents.

[@maggie4922]

God is love , he does not want you to be fearful of him , because he is a loving god , he is also a forgiving god , human kind are born sinners so we are not perfect .

[@AK-dj5su]

Ur opinion doesn’t matter it’s haram in quran

[@HiThere-mb6pp]

I have a friend whos journey is just this. theyre a fantastic couple and he converted for her. Theyre great for each other. Her family abandoned her. Hes wmbraced islam and practices. He just wasnt asian and the fact he was christian was frowned upon for them. The girl went through hell on earth and still struggles with how they treated her. She has an amazing husband. Wishing them a fantastic life !

[@ssimba2785]

@HiThere-mb Converted for her, mostly muslim would ask you to convert before marriage.

[@HiThere-mb6pp]

@@ssimba2785 He wasn't asked , he learned through curiosity and found many similarities

[@abcdefghijkl4391]

The intentions are wrong and his conversion is invalid then, and if the women in question favoured butterflies above Allah's laws then she knows what time it is also. Most of these lovestories are laughable at best and I wish the involved muslim family all the strength to act just and Godfearing throughout all of this.

[@martinpugh1008]

HiThe well said and beautifully put across I have four adult children one in a mixed race relationship which I have no problems with if any of them decided to enter into a relationship with anyone from a different background ie religion race country etc I would respect that and would stand by them as long as they are happy being treated well and looked after and are safe then full stop that's good enough for me if they are not then I will relentlessly pursue them to the ends of the earth whatever the circumstances

[@bobburns7277]

The reason why this has happened is they approached it all wrong. Young people often think with their hormones before their brains. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men reverting to Islam, in fact it is a blessing.

[@chrissaltaur1254]

My grandfather was Muslim (sadly he died 10 yesrs ago). He married my grandmother who is white and Catholic. The prejudice and racism they encountered came not from white people but predominantly from Muslims, especially from my grandfather's family. The Muslim part of the family threatened and demanded that my grandmother convert to Islam and my gran declined and received subtle threats to her life from my grandfather's family. The Islamic faith today hasn't changed and isn't tolerant. Can you imagine a Christian forcing their Muslim husband, wife or partner to change religion?

[@martinvanburen4578]

That just shows the hypocrisy of the Islamic faith in its incessant need to grow and convert the world.

[@jimrudolph2864]

No one should force anybody into a religion. It’s the faith. I can follow all the rules but my faith is not there.

[@martinvanburen4578]

@@jimrudolph2864 a lot Muslims pay lip service to freedom of religion except when it comes to Islam.

[@aneesahemran4049]

it is permissible for a Muslim man to marry a Christian and Jewish woman. In your grandparents situation it did not go against any of Islam's teachings. The problem here is not Islam but those particular people in your family. Blame the people not the religion.

[@KaliKali-hv9bt]

Islam is so peaceful isn’t it?😅

[@jsmith5509]

There is a MAJOR DIFFERENCE between a FORCED marriage and an ARRANGED marriage! Many cultures, not religion, condone FORCED marriage. The Quran clearly states that people are free to choose their own spouses and if it's arranged by the parents, the daughters and sons must agree of their own free will.

[@jillbecker9333]

This brother has such a sweet spirit, hears from God and a clarity of the Lord's ways and purpose.

[@Areli_Precious]

I believe in God, I believe in faith, spiritualism. I do not believe in division and segregation. I believe in one god and that we are all human.

[@TiddlyBlinx]

On what exactly do you base your beliefs? What data are you using to form your belief system? I can tell it's not reality or historical evidence. It had to have been something that you heard in an indoctrination camp (be that television or public schools). Jesus Christ is the only thing that will ever truly unite us. Of all the thousands of years of mankind's existence, desegregation is a relatively new thing. It was not done naturally, but has been being forced by Western governments on Western civilizations for about the last 60 years. It was tried in Rome and it destroyed Rome where nothing else could. It's being tried in the United States and it is destroying the United States where nothing else could. Desegregation is a wrecking ball to civilizations and we know this, but they have emotionally blackmailed the kind hearts of Christians to effect it. You can't name one civilization that wasn't totally annihilated by desegregation/multiculturalism. Go watch a bunch of movies from the 40's and 50's, and then look at society today. Non-Christians did this to the only society on earth that any human would want to live in. Now our society is starting to look more and more like the barbarian heathen lands. Paradise on earth is gone, it's not found anywhere else. It was only ever here for the last 2,000 years and was ushered in by Jesus Christ, of that you may be certain.

[@andyv16012]

As a Christian man, I dated a Jewish woman. The only difference I noticed (outside of the dietary differences) was I never had to ask my Jewish G/F if something was wrong or bothering her, she would let me know before I even knew there was a problem.

[@ssimba2785]

@andy did you convert?

[@andyv16012]

@@ssimba2785 no I didn't. It caused some issues as we were getting serious (esp. about children). That's one thing neither of us would budge on. In the end she made her Mother happy by marrying a Dentist. I made my Dad happy by marrying a College Cheerleader 😁

[@andyv16012]

@@ssimba2785 I have 3 beautiful daughters. She has a son and twin daughters. We've remained in contact thru the years. She and my Wife are close, Me and her husband come from different backgrounds (outside of religion), so there's a lot of awkward pauses when we're left together 😅.

[@z4kry44]

@@andyv16012lol sucks for you. We Muslims are superior and have REAL MORALS

[@andyv16012]

@@z4kry44dated a couple Muslim Woman. It didn't work out. They were too passive and submissive. I'd prefer Women that have thier own thoughts, ideas, able to be their own person, not dependent on an insecure little Man telling them what to do. I wanted an equal partner not a child. But if that works for you, go for it.

[@norama3998]

كيف لأمّ مسلمة ترضى أن يكون أبناؤها من غير المسلمين لأنّها تزوّجت رجلا ليس من دينها ؟ ..الإسلام حسب تعاليم الله و ليس على هوى البشر .

[@adila2442]

Morrocan girl her guy hid the fact they were married for 3 years and that he converted for her to his Christian family - its not going to last. She had to prove to them she married. She going to do a church wedding for him in Nigeria to please his family. The Pakistani girl wasted 4 years with guy before she was ready to walk away, then when engaged to a Muslim ended up with white guy...he converted for her not for himself...the married without plan. If he was serious he would have married her sooner. The South Asian Muslim women made a mistake being a breadwinner in her relationship with Christian. All i see is red flags and ticking time bombs.

[@ms2am]

You’re right. I don’t believe this can last.

[@FF-by6ci]

They met in their teens, of course they'll not be ready for marriage while at college. They are in their 30's now and clearly happy with two kids.

[@Seekay-oe3qz]

It's muslim men that have a problem bec I know of many Muslim girls that married Hindus & are very happy - no strict issues on clothing, yoga, diet choices.

[@denniss8644]

Really enjoyed this, thank you. As a man that is currently pursuing a relationship with a Muslim woman, it has been helpful to watch this.

[@dunnerdag1870]

I love allah God is mighty and forgiving its realy the only religion that conects i have 2 friends from other contries turkish pakistanie and am moroccon we dont have anything incommen in culture but were conected as muslims.

[@roops2939]

Muslim women make great friends, girl friends and even wives.

[@DawnDingayan-sc2sf]

@@dunnerdag1870lol is CRUEL

[@thinkcat01]

You don't have to change your religion to marry her.

[@thinkcat01]

@@roops2939 Not so, you don't know until you married one.

[@theirishcailin333]

I was engaged to a Muslim man years ago, his cousin did ask would I convert, I read a bit of the Quaran but i wasnt converting!! Why should I?! we had a daughter but before I had her, he said he didn't mind her being brought up Catholic, as long as she was brought up right! Well he left us (his family got their claws into him when he went home) and I brought her up Catholic, his loss, he missed out on seeing his daughter grow up

[@abcdefghijkl4391]

LOL this is the exact reason these lovestories are prohibited, losses on both sides and the children suffer double. One faith has to go lost and how practising is the family after the 'conversion'? Really sad and pathetic, just keep your emotions in check like a normal adult.

[@DowsiyMSahal]

​@@abcdefghijkl4391she did what is right for her daughter. Don't blame her watch your stick mouth.He should know better

[@MahmudAhmad1234]

He's not a practical Muslim at all. A good Muslim will never leave his family to go astray.

[@shahee6579]

​@abcdefghijkl4391 exactly For every success story there are 5 horror stories

[@Anna2W]

Stop the manipulation. Islam is not distorted like Judaism or Christianity, which has been distorted into the paganism of the Trinity. You will not be able to distort Islam if you love a Muslim woman. You have to understand that she will be a good wife because she believes in God, the Last Day, and the Resurrection if you want. A Muslim wife believes in God. You must be a good Muslim for fear of the punishment of the afterlife. If you do not want to, then this is your order. Do not approach a cake that no Muslim woman has tasted. Virgins are not love dolls.

[@QabilAGhor]

These marriages don't last long! I have seen TOO MANY fall apart after few years. As people get older, physical attraction becomes less important, and people tend to become more spiritual. That's when these marriages begin to fail.

[@ms2am]

Very true. When they are young they think love can solve everything but as you get older you realise religion and family become more important

[@zubeidamohamed2916]

So true Alhamdulila. What about the children?

[@NinaNina-tm2mo]

Many marriages fail even if they're of the same religion. Marriage works when there's commitment, love and respect. What has religion got to do with 2 people who is willing to commit to each other, love for what and who they are. What bonds this commitment and love is the "respect" they have for one another.

[@QabilAGhor]

@@NinaNina-tm2mo You are absolutely correct that having a common faith is not a guarantor of a successful marriage. I think you have to look at this issue by answering two questions: 1). What factors keep the marriage strong? 2). What factors contribute to the failure of a marriage? You mentioned "commitment, love and respect." I agree, but I would also add mental compatibility, financial stability/dependency, friendship, sexual satisfaction, family values and religion. There are probably more things such as wit and a sense of humor, but let's just focus on these obvious ones. Marriages generally fail when one partner is cheating, lack of things I identified above, or there are conflicts in the family because of other people such as children or parents. Religion is not a panacea, but it does create a strong bond. It can prevent people from cheating. At least in Islam, it can compel a husband to provide for his wife and children. It can engender respect and caring relationship with parents. And it can allow a family to live by the same set of family values; vices such as drug-use or alcoholism is less likely to be an issue. As people get older, they start reverting back to the old family values they grew up with. They want to be surrounded by the same culture and people they think they actually belong to. I have seen that people can compromise on culture but ultimately their "inner faith" wins over and starts rebelling against anything and everything that is opposed to it.

[@thinkcat01]

@@QabilAGhor I see a lot of fail Muslim marriages, because the husbands always think the wives must obey him in everything and also they always think they are entitled to four wives. This is the reality on the ground.

[@buhletshuma4755]

Enjoyed watching the eloquency from the honourable gentlemen and the young ladies. Well presented indeed!!!

[@kesumakesuma7551]

Love Allah is the highest love of all, no human can replace that

[@sivakumarsubramaniam2388]

Even yr mother can’t replace it? Then why on the earth u guys come with heaven under the feet of mother while the ruler of the heaven is god. Clearly he is beneath mother who is happen to be a women!!!

[@piranauss]

Imagine if Allah was fake.

[@cactus252]

Yes even my mom can't replace the love of Allah. My mother taught me that Allah loves you 60x times more than mothers. ​@@sivakumarsubramaniam2388

[@cactus252]

​@@piranauss😂 you can imagine untill you taste the death. Then after you will surely start believing who was fake and who wasn't,

[@cactus252]

​@@sivakumarsubramaniam2388😂 I would like to ask why you Hindus got triggered after seeing the level of believes of muslims in their God 😂 😎

[@Uncle-Smart-Alec]

Keeping a marriage going is hard enough.Adding the religion problem just makes it that much harder.

[@carimacavan]

If you marry for the religion, love and success follows.

[@JohnPaul-ck8fy]

@@carimacavan thats not what this is about; they fell in love with the person first;

[@Sharkz_m128]

My daughter is married to a Jewish revert, I cry day and night, he took shahada, but there's no deen... please pray for my children, may Allah grant us aafyah... its a topic that needs to be duscussed

[@lilianavois4391]

Dear Rose. Your doughter did made a good choise. The Coran states the jews are the people of the Book..jews are NOT idol worshiper..they dedicate the Shabat for God, they eat kosher, a orthodox jew will NOT consume halal meat because the animal was not sacrified under strict regulations (blood expelled, bones checked not to be broken..organs not being flawed, etc), jewish women MUST be respected, she is the embodiment of G_d,s active Presence on earth. We say that the "mazal"of a husband hang on how he treats his wife. Jewish women can have her peace in her period days..and after those days, if she goes to the ritual bath, the mikve, is considered pure like a virgin..jews and muslims have a lot in comon. Coran has a lot taken from the Torah, like it or not..and the Tora has a lot of elements sourced in sacred writings even older than 2500 years (Tora).. It is so sad religion and politic keeps us apart from GOD - ALLAH..

[@djihanedaas1251]

Make duaa for them, if your daughter is religious she will teach him and he will learn little by little

[@djihanedaas1251]

@@lilianavois4391i agree they are people of the book, but they don’t believe in our prophet so they are non believers. And in her case he is a revert so he is ethnically a jew but Muslim by faith

[@carimacavan]

​@@djihanedaas1251All the original companions of the Prophet were reverts too.

[@djihanedaas1251]

@@carimacavan yes sure, i think you missed understand my comment I was just clarifying to the lady that he is now a Muslim.

[@sallithorpe1031]

Really enjoyed this! Beautiful women and their families…May they stay blessed 🙏

[@democracyforall]

The Quran does not say that a Muslim woman should not marry the people of the book, neither did Muhammad said that Muslims women are forbiden to marry the people of the book, all it says that it is lawful for you to marry the people of the book-mean Jewish and Christain. The rest is just man culture doing what they want it is not Islam...

[@What_do_you_want.]

‘’O believers! When the believing women come to you as emigrants, test their intentions-their faith is best known to Allah-and if you find them to be believers, then do not send them back to the Kuffar (i.e. disbelievers.) These (believing women) are not lawful (wives) for them(i.e. the Kuffar or disbelievers), nor are they (i.e. the Kuffar or disbelievers) lawful (husbands) for them. ...if you are sure of their belief, do not send them back to the disbelievers (includes Jews and Christian) : they are not lawful wives for them, nor are the disbelievers their lawful husbands...and do not yourselves hold on to marriage ties with disbelieving women. Quran 60:10

[@democracyforall]

@@What_do_you_want. Very wrong, this was not against Christian but against the Arab pagand with whom Muhammad was fighting, the quran says, lawful for you are women of the book, thus we know from those verse that Allah is not contradicting himself but you are saying He is astaghfirrullah

[@lawrencelawrence3920]

I met two beautiful Afghanistan women, i would have loved to marry either one of them but i am not religious. They said in order to marry them is that i need to convert to being a Muslim. I could not because i had no desire in becoming a Muslim. It would be disrespectful to their religion if i joined without truly believing in it. It would be false reasons and that is not fair to anyone including their religion.

[@MaryamNuura]

Donot convert without really beleiving it but try to understand it bcoz Islam is 💯 the truth. No salvation without islam.

[@ButterCracks]

The reality is that every British Muslim girl and in some respect Sikh and Hindu girl will be able to relate to this regardless if they’ve been in a similar situation or not. Faith is a personal relationship between the individual and god and nobody can judge you but god. Wishing you all a happily ever after ending x

[@AAA-sx5ej]

That's where u r going wrong. In islam Allah prohibits a muslim woman to marry a non Muslim. If ur iman is week.

[@keycard6828]

LOL i doubt your faith in God. Because GOD DOES JUDGEGES expilcitly against this! And you will be judged no doubt!

[@gayatrinambiar-greenwood5308]

@@keycard6828eh? Not quite sure what you are trying to say! If it is what I think it is: even if you think God judges everyone, you don’t have to take responsibility for being judgemental, God has it in hand. You just get on with living your best life within your definition of your faith

[@keycard6828]

@@gayatrinambiar-greenwood5308 To break it down a little: These women claim to be a certain religion: Exactly this Religion says and these are like basic core teachings :That God will Indeed Judge (in the Afterlife as kind of trial on Jugement Day) And He (God/Allah) indeed actually DOES JUDGE this behaviour ( at this moment of time) as huge sins and offences (HE did also in the past) Because it has allways been and WILL allways be wrong; A filthy act (as far as sex outside of marriage is concerned and marriage in this context means an islamically valid marriage contract( for Muslims that is, and even other Religions have certain rulings aswell but they dont preach about or live it out that much these days .it seams(at least in the west); So at the Moment at Every Moment God is Judging you, your decisions your actions your way, etc. Anybody who has basic knowledge knows: Its just a reminder to the Muslims especially; As they claim to be adherents of this faith. And yes actually it is also part of teachings to call to God ; IE to be faithful, to fulfill your obligations, part of this is not to go the way these women went. Even though all ended well so far! This is by no means the end. God does also punish you sometimes in this life, and everything in this Life is ultimatley a test ;To see who may does the best deeds, who may follow the commands of the Lord; Or who follows his whims and desires and culture, even if its against obeying and surrendering yourself to God! IE: God will never test a person beyond what they are capable of bearing: Which means in this case and obviously if you take a step and analyse this situation logically: Lets say they were treated unfairly and the situations they were put in werent allways the easiest ,best, or fairest or whatever. I will admit that. Still they would have had and did indeed have so many routes they could have chosen in which they could have rightfully resisted the parents forcing them to marry a person they particularly did not want to marry. Actually loving someone is a choice; Let me explain; You might have a crush on someone this does happen quite naturally to many people , i dont doubt that at all. But what you DO choose is to go after it: Therefore engage with that person because you let your feelings get the best of you even though you know you shouldnt; Then getting into an actual relationship (it takes 2 to tangle) which means their active participation of the person who has the crush.! Then by doing that its not only a crush anymore , but you fall even more (deeply) into love and start shitting on everything just to live it! And that is the wrong thing.I know myself and other people who had a crush on someone; But they knew or realised that this person ( for WHATEVER reason), is not right for them. And they turned it off; Yes it will take some time yes it will hurt , yes you will need some occupation to beat some time so you can eave it far behind you. But you will get over it; Escpecially if you dont start getting deeper into it ,then its much easier! So at the end of the day ; I dont even really judge them for falling in love; I judge them for letting it even get this far and not taking the way out. It was Love it just happend! What kind of a sorry excuse is that? Would you say that to any other person: I was so furious and angry; So i smashed the flat; Or looked for someone who was also bit dodgy to start a fight and smash his face. IT JUST HAPPENED. I FELT I NEEDED this particular item even thou I cant afford, so I just took a credit which will cost me my future: IT JUST HAPPENED. Oh I have the urgent need to go on an adventure; I will just book a flight to whereever and live there for a year maybe, I JUST wanted to get out and see something new; Afterwards come back, I'm in absolute debt, maybe may bankaccounts are frozen or deleted, my job is gone (got fired for no appearing at my work place) , flat mobiliar was removed to the wasteside, flat rented to another person: NOW I'M HOMELESS with not even a penny to my name: UPPPS IT JUST HAPPENED: Oh yeah I started trying drugs, even thou everyone from parents , teachers etc. warned me of this because it can be dangerous and addictive: YEAH i will just try it out a bit , nothing happend,. Do it again. Now every few weeks just for fun with my friends. OH something shitty happend; I take this drug now for relief and feel actually better: UPPPPS now I'm HOOKED on drugs! I'M a junkie now; All that matters is to get high or have enough of my own supply: Its getting expensive now , my health is also declining; Shit I loose my job because of poor performance or being unreliable not taking care of stuff; OH OH now I'm borrowing money everywhere , OH now my family found out ,what this money is actually spend for and they feel betrayed : NOW nobody wants anything to do with because I lied on them , cheated and swindled them out of their hard earned money(and their trust by the way). While all I do is getting high and being a bump; they dont wanna support the habit; NOW I I HAVE LOST MY FAMILY SUPPORT : Upps it just happened............ You get what I'm saying? And Yes; I dont like this behaviour: SO i say it. You dont like me beeing judgy (on issues like inter-religious marriage, because you think its okay). Thats why you are telling me HEY man dont jugde. Because you dont like this behaviour. So at the end of the day; You are also judging (me and like minded people). Because you dont like what I do . On other issues you would maybe agree with me. So what it is really the difference between me and you? Well we have different things that we find blameworthy or wrong so we judge differently, but we still all do judge. Thats it, so basically you and me are not different; Because its just human nature. But human nature alone doenst justify every behaviour, which you or some else could actually find resonable and or justifiable. Good luck mate. Have a great day btw.

[@PadminiBiswas]

​@@keycard6828Really! OMG!!!!

[@barbarasantamaria4456]

After listening to what these woman said it’s all boils down to what the parents want . Just because you marry someone of the same faith doesn’t mean you will have a good marriage. I have seen this among friends, controlling husbands and interfering family members. If your a female your just a commodity to be married off to anyone the parents want.

[@Growingcoinjar10]

But a vast majority of muslims arent like that they do not treat their daugher like that, the reason the interfaith marrige can be problematic is because that the faith itself might disapear a couple of generations down the line. Yes these girls are now married to converts but what will their approach be to their daughters marrying atheist? Like their children will be having mothers who are first generation muslim british, so I dont think a few generations down the line, islam will not remain in the linage. I blieve also this is a big reason for why interfaith marriges can be problematic, not just because of the present couple but also their children and grandchildren that might not have the faith instilled in them anymore.

[@andyv16012]

From what I watched it seems the parents of these Women were more worried about how it would reflect on them (within the community). As a Christian father of 3 Daughters, I am mostly worried about them being happy and treated right. Any of them marrying a non-Christian wouldn't be ideal, but not a deal breaker.

[@She_iswise]

It’s a requirement by God. Muslim women are told not to marry non-Muslim men. God knows best ❤

[@andyv16012]

@@She_iswise I agree God know best. But the texts were written by Men. Notice it doesn't say anything about Muslim Men not dating or marrying non-Muslim Women.

[@user-oi5mi9mm6q]

​@bunnypie4377 I think this concern is an oversimplification because sometimes the kids learn more from their mom. If they have a Christian ✝️ dad and muslim ☪️ mom, they could still prefer Islam ☪️. Of course, this isn't always the case, but you get my point. Also, they would have to live in very isolated areas for the faith to completely disappear. A Christian dad and muslim mom could have atheist kids, but that doesn't mean that's how it will be forever because their grand kids could convert to Islam at some point once they get re-introduced to it. You get my point? Islam has been around for eons. I don't think it will ever disappear regardless of what the parents believe

[@ia7362]

I could never give up my afterlife for another human being.

[@littlecatfeet9064]

The one that doesn’t exist? Get married to a Muslim stranger then and live happily until they divorce you.

[@ia7362]

@@littlecatfeet9064 I’m happily married sweetie, so excuse your bitter self to the left.

[@thinkcat01]

Did you think there is an even afterlife?

[@ia7362]

@@thinkcat01 What I believe has nothing to do with you. My beliefs are my own,such as yours is yours.

[@littlecatfeet9064]

@@ia7362 happily married people aren’t that defensive 🤣

[@allergictohumansnotanimals5671]

marrying a non muslim man is like not marrying them at all in islam. the marriage is invalid and if you sleep with him, you're committing adultery. really, really, really not worth it.

[@carolinet3776]

Great watch ❤

[@jibril2950]

Why does the honour of the whole family rests on the shoulders of the females in the family? I support every decision the young ladies took

[@abcdefghijkl4391]

Because we love our women and wish them good and righteous households. Seeing them drift off to a lifestyle of immorality is ofcourse heartwrenching and every sound man will protect his female relatives in falling into such situations. We accept your way of life, you just need to respect ours too :)

[@jibril2950]

@abcdefghijkl4391 I will never respect forcing women to wear what they don't want to or marry who they don't love or pushing religion down their throats and many more

[@abcdefghijkl4391]

@@jibril2950 nobody is talking about forcing anything. Its just that the families accept the marriage which means they give permission to something God has prohibited: this goes straight against religion and all the adults involved will need to answer this on the Day of Judgement. This world is temporary and love cannot only be received by 1 individual, in these cases the 'muslim' women are stubborn and rebel intentionally against family traditions which means they are unworthy to be spoken good about. Most muslim families fear having daughters like these so therefore i can't admire them even in the slightest way.

[@mackjohnson3918]

@@jibril2950 Your sister is on onlyfans, isn't she?

[@AshishKumar-if4dt]

​@@abcdefghijkl4391but you can't force your lifestyle to anyone respect others feeling otherwise ready to get the same reaction from others don't go for non muslim woman's your woman's have seen you going for non muslim woman so now they too want to do same

[@rickynoronha5813]

Great documentary. Asking anyone to convert for any reason is bullshit. Let everyone marry whoever they want and keep their own religions. Parents need to understand that. And support their kids. Religions are for people. Not the other way around. That's it.

[@rehan2118]

where does your Creator/God fall in your logic?

[@rickynoronha5813]

@@rehan2118 nowhere. He don't care. He's given everyone free will. If there's love that's good and if you're a good person that doesn't hurt anyone that's all that's important and matters. Religion isn't. Trust me on this.

[@rehan2118]

@@rickynoronha5813 But, how do you become a good person and stop yourself from hurting anyone? Isn't that where God and religion come in, as closer you are to God/Creator the less likely it is for you to hurt anyone and the best way to stay close to God is through religion?

[@rehan2118]

@@rickynoronha5813 If God didnt care you wouldnt exist and let alone enjoy all the fruits of God's creation on Earth

[@rehan2118]

@@rickynoronha5813 what do you mean by trust you Mr Hindu bindu? You think you know so much, do you?

[@tinageorge8058]

I DON’T THINK I CAN GIVE UP MY CATHOLIC RELIGION AS AN ADULT FOR MUSLIM AS I WANTED TO WHEN I WAS 10 YEARS.

[@bobburns7277]

Nobody is asking you to! The Quran strictly forbids forced conversions. This entire production is full of Western propaganda Rot!

[@dani40338]

Her mother made her "swear" on the koran--- of course that is islam, controlling. Jesus tells his listeners in Matthew 5:34 "to swear NOT at all. In context this refers to the act of swearing oaths and making promises.

[@bobburns7277]

@@dani40338 Just because this family behaves this way doesn't make it right. Like I said this production is full of Western Propaganda Rot! An btw your Bible that you hold so dearly was written by a bold 5ft faggoot with an axe to grind against REAL Christians who don't exist today because they all converted to Islam in the 7th century after their scripture was corrupted

[@Emk315]

Can you give up your catholicism for Christianity?

[@tinageorge8058]

@@Emk315 I just can’t see myself doing that.

[@sohachaudhary7352]

Unbelievable. Muslim women cannot marry non-muslim in Islam. I cannot give up on my religion for anything in this world.

[@jmudikun]

Marrying somebody of your own faith - or like many British Pakistanis, marrying your own cousin - is no guarantee of a successful and happy marriage. It's just as likely to end up badly. Because you're marrying a person, not a religion and people are imperfect and people. I've seen this happen amongst family members and relatives, where people marry in the traditional way but end up miserable, and/or live a double life

[@jamescook4402]

It usually works out buddy.

[@yakusemizhu2201]

The worst thing is it’s dangerous to marry within the family, it’s Incest, the risk to getting children with disorders is very high, it’s just disgusting!

[@dinamassoud2875]

@Jmudikun, marrying a non Muslim is as good as living with a partner/ in sin, leading a double life is not any better than that

[@abidakhamisa8008]

A Muslim cannot marry a non Muslim it's against the sharia. So whatever you do is your decision but if you can be blessed in this marriage never. And anyways when you do not understand and love your religion more then life itself you do this kind of wrong acts. May Allah guide you

[@yakusemizhu2201]

@@abidakhamisa8008 there are more than 4000 religions in this world, stop pretending your religion is the only one and truth just because your religion have the second biggest members!! it’s fascism within religions what your sharia teaches!!!

[@kay-fg8zy]

God over any man ❤

[@leahmusa7022]

Yes 100%

[@rehan2118]

@@leahmusa7022 Absolutely! God over any men or women.

[@maureencopeland5300]

No one should be forced to change who or what they are

[@Riyaz168]

Beauty is what lies beneath

[@HarunalRashide123]

100%, there is no compulsion. Nobody should be forced. If they don't want to embrace Islam. Don't marry them, walk away.

[@dani40338]

Muslim women are in bondage, beaten, forced to wear clothing that is despicable etc.. I am reminded of a scene in 95 F weather, where I witnessed a muslim man coming out of a dept. store with I assume his wife. She was trailing behind him and in agony and had difficulty walking cause she was extremely hot in her heavy black robe and thick black head covering. He was wearing light colored bermuda shorts and a thin, short cotton polo shirt and looking comfortable as can be. That made me angry.

[@nancysmith6053]

@@HarunalRashide123 or perhaps don't require someone to change their faith to yours to prove their love for you. That is just as controlling and abusive as parents insisting their children only marry within their faith.

[@z4kry44]

@@nancysmith6053Muslims only love Muslims. If you think it’s “love” it’s actually not it’s actually adultery and lust. Muslims are the only superior

[@leylag1466]

I am Muslim and my husband of 19 years is Jewish. We have 4 children and our marriage didn’t just survive all the issues that come with different cultures, languages and religions merged together. We have thrived. While many same religious couples have divorced around us we stood strong. We communicate a lot, spend lots of time together as a family but also as a couple. Mutual respect is mandatory just like in any relationship. Early on in our marriage we set boundaries for our families and their opinions. If you come into my home and talk badly about any religion or race, you are out. I don’t care if you are family or not. It’s hard enough as it is to make a marriage work different cultures and religions bring more challenges. However if you love each other and are committed to raise a family , to be each others best friend nothing can stop you.

[@Majid-bs6mp]

You're not a Muslim. You're out of Islam You're an enemy to Allah, and the prophet peace be upon him

[@Xati-ve3tg]

But didn’t Allah say that Muslim women must marry Muslim only?

[@littlecatfeet9064]

Sounds like an ideal marriage. You communicate well and have made your own rules about mutual respect. I hope you have many more years together.

[@KaliKali-hv9bt]

Awesome!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@anarivera8852]

What about the children? You don’t say anything.

[@cathy1944]

Everyone should be able to pursue their own path weather it be education, religion or even love. End of story!

[@che59v]

Won't happen for as long as we allow UGLY and RACIST dogmas live among us. It is up to every one of us to make this change happen, those dogmas (just like the Nazi racist dogma) should be outlawed as a starting point.

[@marian8772]

💯 agree! At the end of the day, each person will have to deal with their own consequences. Be it good or bad decision.

[@CrackberryMe]

Absolutely Agree !!

[@mtailor5529]

I absolutely agree too.

[@liamburns8554]

Not according to Islam

[@jeanettekasper7467]

I feel in my heart that if all people were mixed then there would be less prejudice and differences. All laws are created by men in this world for the good in their eyes and their community agreed and they enforced the laws. I could see the struggles that these strong people went through just to love someone out of their community. At the end, they won and are living their lives for themselves and not to live for others. This world needs more people like these to change and make it better. Through their suffering and standing strong they changed their path and no one could stop them. There's one God for this world! The secret to this life is just love, it's so simple and yet people make it so difficult.

[@brav642]

now we have gender problems because of people like you

[@ann.m.4794]

jeanettekasper7467; there is Father Son and the Holy Spirit Three person one nature One God..Allah is the deceiver comes from underworld.. so the only God is the trinity

[@abujeylani8937]

We should not mix to look like the Godless western society irreligious and no sanity. All they worship now is that of wokeness and lgbtq, we don't want that.

[@pissupehelwan]

Last thing I remember, I was Running for the door I had to find the passage back To the place I was before "Relax, " said the night man "We are programmed to receive You can check out any time you like But you can never leave .......[Hotel California]

[@sebastianliwinski222]

Religion should not be a barrier 🚧, when two mature individuals are in love with one another.

[@joshuatoledo8844]

Beautiful done. It always impress me for how much trouble people suffer for something that they just "believe". This world will be a better place if parents stop teaching their children what they don't know.

[@farahashique6056]

Your love for Allah subhaanahu ta aala should always come first you can never be successful in this life for the best of the hereafter if you love someone or something more than ALLAH 🤲☝️🤝💝💯💎☝️

[@arimas1977]

Thank you ❤

[@michellemoolcharan1228]

A great documentary.

[@stickyslimeprincess9024]

It's true you fall in love and can't help it but no human is worth disobeying the creator whom you will face on the day of judgement.

[@fatmaelsayed8933]

i totally respect the juristic part of the islam about marriage ; and i also excuse those girls and i beieve it was not totally their fault. they didn't choose to be torn a part between two different cultures. parents first bring that all, then mishandle and finally blame.

[@bobbygold3889]

"The Messenger of Allah [ﷺ] married me when I was six year's old, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine, and I used to play with dolls." - Aisha [RA], in Sunan an-Nasa'i 3378; Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3380.

[@Aksarallah]

@@bobbygold3889 yes, Aisha RA is one of the most respected women among muslims for her knowledge and wisdom

[@catholiccrusader5328]

That imam is right. You either live to please GOD and not people but it's very hard to merge two completely opposite worlds together. I'm Catholic but my family are non-believers. I remember the fights we used to have growing up.

[@xelakram]

This is a delightful, interesting and rather moving documentary. Thank you!

[@eternalwinters5741]

why is it delightful ?

[@xelakram]

@@eternalwinters5741 Four weeks have passed since I watched this documentary, so I cannot tell you exactly why I used the adjective 'delightful' in my comment. I have watched many a video and documentary since then. But I presume that I used the word because the young lady went against convention and followed her heart to find her happiness.

[@eternalwinters5741]

@@xelakram that sounded fetishy tho it's kinda weird.

[@xelakram]

@@eternalwinters5741 Don't be silly and ridiculous! You need to look up a good dictionary to inform yourself of the meaning of 'fetish'. There is nothing "fetishy" in a young lady following her heart and marrying the man she loves. For heaven's sake! Are you a Muslim(ah)? If you are, it would explain why you have such a distorted understanding of the word 'fetish'.

[@MrZerosphere]

So glad I'm a Christian: "Welcome the stranger to your land"; "Do not interfere with the faith of others, just live in a way that is an example of the Christ" etc. There is nothing the Christ has not covered, however, some religions seem stumped by so-called modern living by not having the answers. We can marry who we want, by the way.

[@user-ud3yv1hl7k]

no we cant, christians should never marry unbelievers.

[@Agapismene]

I am Orthodox Christian I love it very much ❤

[@shk-riesa8669]

Under Islam, a woman has equal rights to earn, own, spend and otherwise dispose of her property as she wishes, without interference by any male relative, be he a father, husband or guardian. As long as she is an adult and of sound mind, she has the right to do what she likes with her money and property. To add, irrespective how rich the wife is, the duty to give lodging, boarding, clothing and look after the financial aspects of the wife and children remains that of the husband. When a muslim woman marries outside of Islam she looses those rights plus any more. Most of the rights of woman in Islam can be found in The Noble Quran, Surah Nisa, an entire chapter dedicated to women. Islam is simple and the best way for all of mankind, a form of protection for those who accept it. Peace and blessings be upon Prophet Mohamed The Final Messenger and Prophet of Allah. World peace x

[@Grace0724]

Hello brother. Just in case you were not aware the Bible teaches “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?” Biblically we can marry any ethnicity, culture etc as long as they are Christian. God bless

[@She_iswise]

@@Grace0724Christians are the unbelievers 👀

[@aneesahemran4049]

At the end of the day people can do what they like but when you are apart of a religion you chose there are rules to abide by. Despite the faith, a real practicing Muslim, Jew, Christian, Hindu, etc will abide by their religions rules.

[@meenaiyer5856]

Hindus never force others to convert

[@bg6358]

Firstly, most were born into it and didn't choose it. Secondly, if they leave Islam then muslims make their life hell. Therefore your comment doesn't make sense.

[@What_do_you_want.]

This marriage isn't valid according to islam

[@catholiccrusader5328]

Regarding love attachments, all I can say is you love who you love and that's that.

[@hayatmir5908]

I think the problem is that parents especially the ones living in multicultural societies, don't talk about Allah to their kids. They don't tell their kids who and how their creator is, how benevolent and merciful Allah is, how kind He is to His creation, how pure He is, how He is the ultimate guardian and protector of His creation. They just ask them to pray which is important but in a more understanding and meaningful way. Only if parents could make their kids understand that it is only Allah who's there for his creation even when there's nobody else, I'm sure no soul would prioritise any creation's love over his creator's love. More you know your Lord , more you start loving Him.

[@nafizahlara1551]

That’s so true. I was taught and raised that we need to do all the pillars of Islam especially salah and if I missed I would get yelled at. I wasn’t taught but the deeper meaning which is knowing Allah and who he is. Now as I get older I started to learn Islam a lot more and deeper and come to learn bout our creator “Allah SWT” I have started to love him as I got to know him more and I feel honored to be able to know him in this life cause not many people do subhanallah

[@What_do_you_want.]

💯🎯

[@martinpugh1008]

We are all human and cannot help who we fall in love with Thank you for producing and showing this very informative and interesting video

[@WhatWouldVillainsDo]

I grew up with a Muslim girl who fancied me, she has asked her father if we could be friends and he said that as a Christian we could be but we could not be boyfriend-girlfriend that it was not allowed. Later in life she made decesions for her self and married a white secular-chriatian leaning white man. Her relationship with her family was strained until grandchildren were born then even her husband was accepted as a true son in law. He father's priority was no longer being upset with his daughter but loving his grandchildren. There was an American Imam who said that eventually Muslim females will marry non Muslim men , and like in Tunisia women have been given the right to marry outside their faith by the government.

[@Ibn_al_sham123]

Muslim women can’t marry non muslim man It’s zina (adultry) not halal islamic marriage it’s against islam.

[@paolatotaro9093]

Very interesting video, thanks to these strong women, God bless you all 🙏❤️

[@Sarasotaonestopweddingshop]

I am a Muslim woman and my husband who was Christian converted to Islam. My family embraced him but his family especially his mom did not embrace me as she is a devout Christian. We have been married for 7 years and have a beautiful son together!

[@Userr2689]

Ma chaa Allah ! You are defenetly lucky and blessed beyond limits. You must have done something amazing for Allah swt to bless you with his conversion.

[@baharmehr8395]

you may be very beautiful so your husband changed his religion because of you?

[@canolli2944]

@@baharmehr8395 He has to have deep belief in the faith in order to want to convert just like in any other religion. It has nothing to do with a spouses looks

[@michimacho73]

why didn't YOU convert for him? For his family he is going to dwell in hell because of you, why should they accept you?! Have you ever thought of this? Your family would never have accepted your husband if you would have become christian. This abrahamitic cults (judaism, islam, christianity) are all insanely trapped in the stories made up in their minds...... Life is more than the psychological dramas this sects create and the rules they make up in their fairy tail books ..... Just be attentive to Life and respond with love and consciousness to what Life brings on your way 🙏🏽

[@halimaosman1032]

Going to your desire and whimsy is disaster please go with sharia believe me you will be victorious when u please ur creator

[@a.z.s6679]

I am so glad i left the UK at a good time. I cannot see having to go through this. May Allah make it easy on our children. Ameen

[@mariamughal1722]

I'm a Muslim girl who's practising religion. I got an arrange marriage. My husband is a very practising Muslim guy who never stops me from doing anything, he's a very polite and loving person. It's important to stay in the boundaries that our religion puts on ourselves. Living in Muslim society, there's nothing like forced marriages. In fact some of my cousins married the loves of their lives who were also Muslims. I'd like to add that there are good and bad people around the world. Certainly there would be many bad husbands in other religions as well, the media should stop portraying Muslim men as bad people.

[@robmancuso964]

Sure, there are good and bad people around the world from different religions. But, is it really the media that portrays Islam in a bad way, or could it be that Islam teaches that Disbelievers from the 'People Of The Book', (Jews and Christians) as well as Polytheists are the 'Worst Of Beings/Creatures' for rejecting Muhammad as a ''prophet'' and are going to Hell-Fire for that? See Quran 98:6 and the Tafsir for that verse. When Islam speaks about Disbelievers/Non-Muslims in such a derogatory/offensive manner, then don't be surprised that Disbelievers/Non-Muslims don't feel all lovey-dovey towards Islam. Respect is a 2 way street. Show respect and you're likely to be respected. Show disrespect and you're likely to be disrespected, it's very simple. The Quran and Sunnah shows a lack of respect for Non-Muslims, so don't complain about the lack of respect and then blame it on the media.

[@BGpomakTR]

There are forced marriages all over the islamic world. That is no lie

[@infinity5184]

Finally a good muslimah may Allah give you everything you deserve in life in this world and hereafter may Allah forgive you all past sins and Grant you jannati firdous after death...ameen love from a Muslim brother from INDIA 🇮🇳.. really proud of you and your parents.

[@bobburns7277]

Well said Sister. This entire production is Western propaganda rot! These women and the expert have been cherry-picked in an effort to reform Islam by corrupting younger the generations souls. Islam is the final frontier for them to corrupt and conquer humanity. Teach your children true Sharia and be mindful of these con artists all over these media platforms with their lies and alternative lifestyles.

[@strangers_Ghuraba]

No doubt ,,The Zionism and the Great deception of Dajjal is at its peak. all the media is working for Dajjal and in return he or she is getting worldy material benefits only... Thats all. Being a Fundamentalist Muslim one should Thanks Almighty and the only One Allah Kareem. Muslim should not be reluctant and he is not at all.........

[@LLlondon99]

I grew up Catholic . Converted to Islam. Was strictly religious but it was too much for me to handle. Too many lifestyle changes so became less religious . Seen so many arranged marriages where both was Muslim but unhappy . A lot of cheating and no love. We can’t help if we fall in love with someone non Muslim . If that person will love and respect me but have different religion then what’s the problem? As for kids you can teach them both religions and let them decide themself later on.

[@Ziiphyr]

Sorry for the loss

[@LLlondon99]

@@Ziiphyr loss ? No one died lol

[@gothfather8741]

So how did it end, did you convert back to your original faith or remain a non-religious musilm?

[@irfanshaikh-ql3tr]

This life is love for Allah subhanawatallah. So as a Muslim I had a compulsion to obey my Lord.

[@Hannah-hg]

May Allah reward sister !!! Ameen! ❤❤

[@che59v]

Weak people, blinded, failing to acknowledge their dogma is racist will pay the ultimate price at the end (know many of those, who went through arranged marriage and took their own life, mostly going un-reported). How does it feel to be a sheep and think for one sec that God is racist allowing his followers to merry into religion and not pure blinded love? Just because it something was done for year on year does not make it correct let alone holly. It's up to smart people (sadly not many found here) to embrace god's humanity and creation regardless of color, culture, fear of the different, faith or creed. You my friend is a danger to all free thinkers who REALLY believe in God. We 100% pity you and your family.

[@thinkcat01]

@@lousmith4063 Not for you to say. You will be surprised in the afterlife of who went you hell, only when you died, you know.

[@bruce3242]

​@@lousmith4063According to you lot everyone's going to hell, so who cares? Looks like Allah made a mistake or 2 along the way.

[@monotfrommeccamonotfrommec1520]

​@@Hannah-hgmuhamad said most of the hell occupants are women.... Happy roasting to all the women folk 😅😅

[@johncrasto1195]

We belong to humanity world n you are free to marry any human being irrespective caste or creed or culture. Our religion is humanity .

[@martinpugh1008]

John Crasto 1195 well said I couldn't have answered it better myself I totally agree with everything you have said in your comments if two people love each other and want to be together and make each other happy then that's all that matters nothing else

[@ssimba2785]

@johncrasto ''Our religion is humanity'' Agree, try to marry a Muslim girl, you would be asked to convert, same with Jews

[@bellafa2120]

Religions should never be a problem when 2 people love each other...no matter their background

[@martinpugh1008]

bellafa 2120 Absolutely very well said I totally agree with everything you have said in your comments when two people are attracted to and love each other religion race etc should never be a problem being in love with someone special is a very beautiful and wonderful thing love can conquer and overcome anything ❤️😍💕

[@mary-zy9zi]

Everything becomes problem when you are married more than 6 months . The feelings you feel before marriage doesn't last long. Therefore the cultural, religious differences add more to couple's problems.

[@stephenodhiambo7556]

Exactly.

[@huse305]

As a Muslim to marry a non-muslim is going against the law of religion. But to your comment, yes religion does not matter because they itself aren't religious. If they are religious, they won't go against the religion.

[@rema232]

​@@huse305why is it not possible for muslim woman to fall in love with non muslim man (he can revert). But muslim man can fall in love with non muslim woman even atheist(which is against the law). Men and women both have hearts we cant control who we fall in love with just likw men cant

[@MA-pq7sj]

It makes me wonder that anyone of these women are actually concerned about their faith so much If they were then they wouldn’t be doing haram stuff in the first place May Allah guide them

[@sharonannc.3079]

Love doesn’t constrain… It does not bind you to rules… It is not Black & White…. Love isn’t prejudicial. It’s very troubling that the parents put such GUILT upon their daughters or Son. Relationship with God isn’t a constant bantering of LAWS. There is only one God…. Who loves us all…. We put boundaries upon ourselves…because of the guilt we feel. Relationship between 2 should be just that… between 2. I hear that these parents have conditional love…. God does not.. Religions divide people. If these parents want there cultures to exist in the family they should have remained in their own country… not in a Country that has freedom of choice, speech, and relationships… My hearts aches most for the lovely gal from Morocco.. She’s been through a lot … Bless her Blessings on each of these brave gals who followed their heart!! ♥️♥️

[@fal9005]

As a Muslim women I couldn’t marry a non Muslim

[@donmudit2257]

But Muslims men can Marry as they want..Women oppress by all means by man made religions..

[@wiggeltje3502]

And what if you where already married with a cristian man? Then it's inpossible for a woman to turn islam, or must they divorce and live as a cheater?

[@safinabegum4681]

⁠@@wiggeltje3502 Muslim women aren’t allowed to marry a non Muslim men god made it clear with the message and if that’s the case divorce the non Muslim person or ask them to look in to it if after that they decide not to accept them divorce

[@Aksarallah]

@scpython1 yeah we don't change and tolerate hedonism like christianity. Christians countries are the most hedonistic people out there

[@littlecatfeet9064]

@@Aksarallah hedonistic 😂. Did you know Pakistanis are the world’s largest per capita consumers of p*rn, including gay p*rn, in the world?

[@margaritaescoto3500]

As a christian woman I can say that these women have shown great faith, honor and commitment to all their loved ones and partners. I hope positive changes in all our churches brings more understanding regarding these issues. All the best to you.. cheers from Mexico

[@carimacavan]

But no obedience to their Creator. I don't know how they can describe themselves as Muslim when they are not submitting to Allah in Islam.

[@hfredydl]

@@carimacavanthey should stop following that medieval religion and stop calling themselves Muslims

[@feduntu]

@@carimacavan well in their religion they are commanded to be obedient to their husbands, the irony is that their husbands (muslim men) are not obedient to them

[@manuelAAU620]

I was in loved with this Egyptian lady in high school. But it never worked out her dad sort of threatened me not to continue seeing her. We talked to time to time after that … but i with only 18 y/o i went to the Navy i only saw her 3 times after that by accident… we were from the same town … now that i go back im glad that we distance ourselves. Me being from Peru and she is fron egypt was going to be a certain clash of cultures

[@naderzaal]

As a Muslim Allah gives us rules to obey and it's our choice whether we want to obey Allah or not. Allah tells us Muslim women should only marry Muslim Men period.

[@meenaiyer5856]

That is better than Why do get involved in Love Jihad

[@thinkcat01]

It is not up to you to say. It is for them to decide. None of your business if they choose whom they want to marry.

[@meenaiyer5856]

Same rule to be applied to Muslim Men also

[@monotfrommeccamonotfrommec1520]

My friend had 3 Muslim gf and he banged them all, one is already married 🤦‍♂

[@tupoufinucane458]

God never wants to push His or Her ideology on humans. Humans did that themselves, especially religious men. It is about brainwashing, power, and control.

[@mdhayirmohamud595]

The islamic principle forbids muslim women to marry non-muslim man but it is upto girl’s choice to obey her God or to drop and continue any of her wishes.

[@mari_000]

According to islam we Muslim women are not allowed to marry non muslim men! If she marrys one this marriage is not valid in islam and she and this men live in zina together.

[@PIK304]

When I met my husband he was filthy and smelly like they say but manage to love him and upgrade he's clothing to American standard from nylons, satin long pants to jeans etc. But at the end he's family don't agree with me and end up my husband married a mosley woman with out divorcing me. He now going to have 2kids if I'm not mistaken. He used me to get he's citizenship only.

[@ST-yc7uj]

You married a project.

[@muslimcel4581]

😂😂😂

[@nahidmajid7136]

Sacrifice patience it’s so darn tufff

[@mthzroy5755]

There are things which Islam told us and there are things we like by the time went out we know that religion is right BC when we are younger we feel for many things people and by the time went we went to know it was just lust and fake .... And how long we gonna live 80 years 100 years in this world and what I saw a year went like blink of an eye so its better to obey Almighty BC at end we got neither the world or place at heaven BC we can lie to our self but not to almighty ...!

[@thinkcat01]

Religion can't save you. You are not even sure you will make it to paradise or heaven. Only believe in a Saviour, not religion will get you there. Can a man saved himself while he is drowning. No. He needs a Saviour to pull him out of the water.

[@mthzroy5755]

@@thinkcat01 well I know my path very well after reading searching all religions and at judgement day its you and god only and no one else BC prophets pass the massage there job done rest Almighty forgive you or else its your deeds

[@thinkcat01]

@@mthzroy5755 You just have to get to know one person, you don't need any religion. If you know him, you will know the truth because He is everything. He is Wisdom, Bread of Life, the Good Shepherd, the Way, the Truth and the Life, the Gate, the Giver of life and the Giver of eternal life. Without him there can be no eternal life. 1 John 5:12 He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. 13 These things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life, and that you may continue to believe in the name of the Son of God.

[@leahmusa7022]

Well said Amen!!!

[@catholiccrusader5328]

From my time associating with the Muslim Students Union here in Chicago all I can say is that Islamic women are BEAUTIFUL and very kind. The only Muslim woman I ever had problems with was my beautiful ex-relative who hated Catholics, me especially, even though I never harmed her in any way. She just didn't like me. Other than her no problems though I think some Muslim men tend to be a bit...well like myself, a bit fanatical. We're all GOD'S people and I'll leave it at that.

[@hanefa283]

My marriage was arrangement it's good 20 years ilove my husband day after day❤❤❤

[@mukhar786]

May Allah guide my brothers and sisters round the world

[@antoniajane5442]

There is a lot of pressure on Jewish men to marry Jewish women, because the Jewish religion goes through the woman. If the woman isn't Jewish then the child isn't.

[@victoriaskennedy]

I'm an America who converted to Islam, married and divorced and later married a Sikh. This documentary meant so much to me because religion has been the thread of my life journey. I return to Shakespeare's words "to thine own self be true." Really all these ladies clearly want to do right by their relationships and families. They are all hard workers, have family values, and just want to have a beautiful happy life with their partners. I applaud them.

[@musiccapricorn918]

islam lies much//// they discriminate women/ but true love is only one wife not more/

[@musiccapricorn918]

fasting much kills stomach/

[@maggie4922]

Changing religion is PERSONAL DECISION NOT A FORCEFUL ONE , you have to want to do it because you are embracing it and wanting it.

[@nisarullah2969]

I hope you don't mind if I ask you a question i.e are you still a Muslim or you left Islam? Just to know if you want to answer!

[@victoriaskennedy]

@@nisarullah2969 I left Islam. I was a Muslima for 17 years. Both my entry and my exit had nothing to do with a man or love. Your question is fine.

[@kush833]

Love knows no race, religion ethnicity or culture, it would of been nice though if a non muslim men could convert, but even then our religion thought us not to force someone into religion, they have to be willing to. Let Allah be the judge. I've honestly seen non Muslim men who have a lot of good qualities that makes them good partners and fathers.

[@thinkcat01]

They have lot of good qualities are because they are Christians.

[@stephenodhiambo7556]

Let people marry whom they love. If your religion says that you can't marry people from different faith regardless of how good they are, then stop following it.

[@Journey.3104]

Yes, you won.

[@maresabruiners5199]

Muslim woman expect non muslim men to give up their faith because that men are inlove with them and want them

[@mariamamiri4946]

In Islam once you hit puberty, you can make your own decisions in life. Parents are suppose to teach their kids about their faith when they’re younger, once they become an adult they can choose their own life partners,preferably Muslim however, if they choose otherwise, parents are there to give their opinions and the rest is between them and God. No one is allowed to force anyone to get married to someone they don’t want to. arrange marriages are based on culture, not religion!

[@JohnPaul-ck8fy]

you are probably in some dreamland; may be some most liberal muslim families may do this; that is not the case in India, pakistan and numerous other countries (about 90% muslim girls-- i am probably conservative on this number)

[@What_do_you_want.]

Yes you can't force him/her but they have right to disown you 🗿🥸

[@dodosmamma1692]

I’m now divorced but I married a Christian. I told him I would never accept a that our children be brought up as Christian. NEVER! Fortunately, my ex-husband agreed and iur children also have Muslim names. Marrying a non Muslim didn’t work out for me but at least my children follow Islam. They have never met their Muslim relatives in Lebanon. My family have ostracised me for over 2 decades. We can’t help who we fall in love with.

[@RoseGold-db6xe]

So sweet ❤

[@littlecatfeet9064]

Women talking about not being able to be fully educated, about the practice of being sold into marriage (to a cousin no less), and all the Muslims in the comments can say is “marrying a non-Muslim is wrong”. Unlike being sold into marriage without her consent?

[@enlivenrex9997]

You are right on the point of forced marriage. It is invalid in Islam. And if this point is made publicly it will pit Islam against social pressure where the latter would have to concede.

[@abcdefghijkl4391]

Forced marriage is invalid in Islam so the parents really wronged their daughter, traumatizing her which led to her distancing from her own identity as a whole. This is a lesson for any religious fanatic that extremism never wins.

[@brendagodinez8285]

Let them be free. Every person has the right to choose for themselves

[@jayd4ever]

they shouldn't religiously but it is up to person and parents and who are the girls

[@carimacavan]

The name is misleading because these women married men who embraced Islam to get married.

[@drchefedwinajackson]

This is oppressive just hearing this because its difficult to control who you fall in love with.

[@politicallyincorrect4126]

No it’s not. Love is a choice.

[@drchefedwinajackson]

@@politicallyincorrect4126Love is a choice but falling in love happens when Allah puts the genuine love in that persons heart. You very much can choose to love or hate someone but again Allah is the only one who controls and own the heart that's why he judges by the heart and not the mind!

[@MMM11195]

Being a muslim is a choice. If you accept to become muslim, than you have to adhere by the islamic rules. It's very sad watching people ignoring Islam and choosing to pursue a marriage with non-muslim even though Islam is very clear as a muslim girl, it's prohibited to marry non-muslim. May Allah guide them to the right path.

[@nsubugaaidah6855]

Thank you,it is clearly put,"women impure are for men impure"

[@WandererinAqaba]

Ameen

[@piranauss]

Imagine if Allah was just an imaginary friend, wouldn’t all of this be silly?

[@rajarora2097]

loved someone beyond anything ever , but religion came in between, since then have always felt incomplete.

[@Zero-hl2zy]

My question is Why would they leave their Muslim countries and come to a Christian country that's what I want to know

[@Imnotsurewhytis]

Really well put together documentary. Such beautiful authentic well expressed intelligent young woman. God bless them all

[@Ibn_al_sham123]

Muslim women can’t marry non muslim man It’s zina (adultry) not halal islamic marriage it’s against islam.

[@ann.m.4794]

John 14:6 I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

[@alibinnaser]

lol, bible is manuplated by paul, don't believe in it. I am not lying, you can check bible contains tons of contradictions.

[@Grace0724]

Amen brother 🙏

[@dawoodfaiz-mahdavi7297]

I myself, from Iran a Muslim, man, I meet, a Philippine, girl, and we did go about, the relationship, I tell her, I can,t marry, in the church, think it over, and we have to have nila, first, and then register, she agrees, and we get married, first Nika and English wedding, that is all,

[@stepstojannah8173]

Withoit Allah and his blessing in your life following your desires You will never be happy Know the purpose of your life

[@humanrights4all425]

7:2 there is no such thing as hijab in Islam or the Quran. this hijab thing is the invention of fundamentalists and the likes of Da'esh. It's mentioned in the Book, but it means barrier or dividing screen and NOT veil.

[@minariv8300]

Is there any version of Islam that hijab is free?

[@humanrights4all425]

@@minariv8300 The word Hijab that's mentioned in the Quran in Arabic means screen or divide and NOT covering at all. I'm a linguist and know that full well. Hijab that we see today is political not religious except for traditional old people. Hijab spread in middle East after the Iranian revolution, and later by the Muslim Brotherhood in Egypt, then by Da'esh.

[@Mayo9464]

There’s no future here it seems. Come we stay never leads to anything, certainly not happiness

[@multiverse-UFO]

I think the lady doesn't care about religion. The definition of "muslim" is a bit confusing. Usually it means someone who follows islam, but in other cases it's someone with muslim families or background, regardless of believing or not. People confuse "muslim" with "arab" a lot. "muslim" is about what's in the mind, and can change; "arab"/"iranian"/"pakistani" is ethnicity, can't be changed. Mohamaddan would be the word describing followers of muhammad.

[@gogoneeve6387]

Sure, when divine law is negotiable.. anything goes

[@zinab2blessa]

These issues are just symptoms, the root cause of their choice is not being discussed or acknowledge. May Allah help us keep our faith.

[@madelinebrennan7603]

It's so interesting that the Muslim scholar gets that one shouldn't force a man to convert against his faith/heart, but for centuries there was no problem at all forcing women to marry against their will. The sheer arrogance of men who are seemingly incapable of seeing a perspective outside of their own is...astounding to me.

[@AJ-aabbcc]

Islamically if a woman was forced in a marriage, the marriage is null and void. People did it because of their culture.

[@mari_000]

Its not allowed to force women of the book to convert (real jews and christan women) because muslim men can marry them according to islam. The only that muslim men are not allowed to marry are non chast women, atheist women and Buddhist/hindu pagan women. So i dont know what you are talking about

[@madelinebrennan7603]

@@mari_000 yes. a patriarchal system would not allow women the freedom to convert. do you see the double standard? if you don't see that women--by virtue of being born with 2 X chromosomes instead of an X and a Y (a broken X, essentially, so LESS than what a woman carries)--are allotted fewer rights in the religions of the west (christianity, judaism and islam), then i'm not sure what would demonstrate that to you. let me ask you this: under these conditions, would you wish to be born as a woman? who would? :/

[@freyanoor6794]

God's rules are above the rules of men.

[@madelinebrennan7603]

@@freyanoor6794 There's an assumption embedded in your response, which I do not make.

[@wordlington]

You got to be in it to win it covert now and let god sort it out ameen

[@sharafatlatief9854]

The rules of the Qur'an are not traditional but rather the rules of Allah SWT.