When narcissists know, you figured them out, what's next | NPD | Narcissism

[@orinmoses7065]

Battling a narcissist is useless. No contact is the best strategy. They are self-deluded and self-deceived.

[@jodizellmer994]

Unfortunately with some narcissists even with no contact they still destroy your life. It all depends on the circumstances. Sometimes they change victims, but they never quit. They aren't capable of changing, as they see no issue with their behavior. That's how sick and twisted they really are!!!!!!!

[@orinmoses7065]

@@jodizellmer994 My ex-wife of 20 years feels no remorse nor compunction at destroying me - the father of her three children - see says that she remembers things different than the facts of the case that I presented to her. That is how deluded and self-deceived they can be. That is how gaslighting works - they get you to doubt your memories and your grasp of the historical facts. I have been paying her $634 a month alimony for 30 years, and she was the one that destroyed our marriage by cheating and then divorcing me.

[@Staticbrain]

Well put

[@Staticbrain]

@@orinmoses7065 30 years!?!?

[@orinmoses7065]

@@Staticbrain There are only six states in the US that give alimony for life. Virginia happens to be one of them. If I knew that I would have done my divorce battle long distance from Florida. She won't remarry, doesn't now have a boyfriend, but she fails to see that she still carries my name, and can't live without my money. She thought she was done with me. lol.

[@rhondacooper7957]

I strongly believe most of us are/were in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, due to lack of knowledge. These videos weren't around back in the day; now I have learned so much about NPD I'm aware of narcissist personality disorder. I thank God everyday I made it out of a toxic relationship, and thank you for sharing your videos they're educational and informative. 🙏🏾

[@JeffDavisGURU]

I can relate to just about every aspect of these videos and recognize tactics used by a former gf. Once I was removed from the situation I became strong, with the help of Jesus. Thank you for this information

[@albertcassler8763]

@@JeffDavisGURU I too have experience with a narcissist. My ex wife, a business partner, and recently a couple of neighbors. Currently, this bad neighbor has been gone for a while. I suspect he will be back, because he owns his house. I haven't talked to him in a few years, but he still feels entitled to trespass and valdelize whenever he feels like it. He accused me of shooting a gun at him, but I don't have a gun as I told the sheriff. And talking to the sheriff is of no use so I've turned to the Lord for help and advice. To which God has bestowed upon me the peace I desire. I also pray for the destruction of the enimie . Now I await with patients, the work of the Lord, for his day of reckoning is upon him. Praise God in the highest.

[@JeffDavisGURU]

@@albertcassler8763 realizing what is going on is more than half the battle. I'll pray things go well in your situations.

[@ilovejesuschrist992]

I was raised by a narcissist and in turn, i ended up attracting narcissists. Now I'm aware of this personality type and make better decisions when it comes to relationships and friendships.

[@scouttrucker]

I didn’t know I was being abused until I researched narcissistic abuse. I was constantly called a narcissist when really it was her projecting and blaming me.

[@demontrader1222]

Narcissism is so widespread, I am actually shocked at the absence of properly functioning people on this planet. And these excellent videos confirm my suspicions. I am quite logical in how I deal with people these days but have fully transactionalised my dealings with fellow humans. If only to protect myself with boundaries.

[@anj3595]

This is a world that has rejected God. He has been kicked away from the family dinner table, kicked out of the schools, never to be taught again. I am ready for the end.

[@katsummers8826]

Such a sad world that we can't trust anyone anymore 😢

[@katsummers8826]

Except GOD✝️🙏✝️🔥🕊️😢🙏🙌

[@demontrader1222]

@@katsummers8826 The human condition is a harsh one. In past times group narcissism was rife and women suffered all across this planet. Men in contrast, suffered inside identifiable groups. With the rise of capitalism and greed on an individual scale, that narcissism is between individuals.

[@Yayas_World29]

@@demontrader1222 you are so right on. I’m the same way; solitude is the only solace now. I’m wondering if it would be different in another country. I had the best time in Italy in a small village about 6 years ago.

[@dw6317]

Next is get out! What was next for me were death threats and smear campaigns. Noone else sees their true selves. Trust me. If like me, you can't phantom the reality of what you experience through a narcissist, the danger only increases dramatically for you. GET OUT!

[@karriesaunders8597]

Loads of people see but unfortunately they have a whole group of flying monkeys who support their false self. The flying monkeys are the worst for the victim because they enable the abuse and it never stops. My child's dad is a narcopath. I constantly encouraged rehab so we could sort our family out properly,not just me carrying everything. He dropped the therapy due to his toxic ex and family involving themselves in what they knew nothing about,they now support him in some situation ship with a person with three kids,having abandoned his own and everything we built up,it ridiculous,his mother supports that but wouldn't even come and see her grandchild we have when he asked her to come over to mine when were dealing with our stuff. I can't stand them,it's pure evil and the people around them cannot see the obvious evil written all over their faces. Selfishness makes people selectively blind I think.

[@deliajones9541]

They will kill you! I know from experience. They are not to be played with. Get away, stay away.

[@karriesaunders8597]

@@deliajones9541 yes,I almost took my own life because of the constant abuse and I was beaten and threatened by the narcs who believe the lies of the perpetrators

[@heathermccudden5436]

My daughter has drained me. Everything you have said is what I have been dealing with. I am just coming out of years of questioning myself for years. I just can't do this anymore. These videos have been great to watch to help me feel like it's ok if I remove myself from this intense situation that I can't believe this is what I have to do. I love my daughter but she has broken my heart too many times. It will be a slow process to remove myself but I know I have tried my best, tried everything I could to have a beautiful healthy relationship. I am just lying to myself. My daughter is never going to give up. Broken hearted but my sanity is more important. Thanks for the videos they really have helped towards my decision. I am a positive person and I love life and this is not living.

[@quimninja]

You're a good mom, sad situation 😪

[@shayshaymann113]

I’m right there with you with my son sadly 😢 It’s a pain I cannot begin to describe. Stay strong and don’t cave in. They are used to us as their mom to give-in. They play on our emotions and know how we love our kids. But doesn’t give them the right to manipulate and shatter our hearts and souls!

[@darkpro2945]

Are u sure she is not suffering from another mental health condition

[@James-bc2oh]

It is a sad situation,I had to go no contact with my daughter and son they took on their mother's narcissistic traits,all they did was use people to manipulate you and others narcissism ran in there mother's family and my own,they use and abuse good people so take heart in knowing that you are a good person with good morals and did everything you could for your daughter, things do get better in time ,time away is a healer

[@galeretacco8537]

Cut your daughter off. My husband is a narcissist and I’ve been going on 53 years with him. They never change and they will never show interest in you. God bless you and know that you’re doing the right thing.

[@cindycuthbertson]

Exactly want happened to me. One of my sisters is a narcissist. She made me an outcast from my other sisters and brother. She made sure she was always with me if I were to talk to another family member. Seven years has past and I still have no idea what I did!! Thanks to all the pod cast on narcissist I have finally figured it all out. Thank you for all the information!!

[@joysimmons446]

So sorry they do turn people against you for there benefit

[@cherylcawley9925]

I'm in the process of cutting a narcs out of my life who is emotionally and physically abusive .3years of hell and loss I just don't know how to get my strength back to completely stay away.im alone in this world I got nobody to help me so I listen to you daily .ty for all u teach us!

[@stanfen]

If you're in the I'm sick of the bs stage and leaving 💯 to never speak to them again.. you will find being lonely by yourself is better then being lonely with someone.

[@Dennis-vr1ri]

Cheryl are you capable of getting out and doing things?

[@ninath13]

God saw it and he will help give it to him 😊

[@chewita_]

I'm currently in narcissistic relationship, I believe this is worst what can happen with any empath. Thanks for everyone who shares they experience and author's for these amazing videos, bless you guy's 🙏

[@tmrsfitz1967]

So sorry now get out or it’s not a good ride ❤❤❤

[@shafiashakur9552]

Yes these videos are very educational and knowledgeable. I have learned a lot. I have experienced narcissism. But these videos have helped me to grow.

[@darkmetalphoenix]

The narcissist will end up all alone when they get old.

[@ay-tj7pj]

narcissist usually have a lot of followers so...no, they won't end up alone

[@elainemccarty1195]

This explains what has happened to me over the past 15 years. Many narcissists ganged up against me. After they lost access to me physically 11 + years ago they have continued to lie about me and gaslighting me. It has been very difficult.

[@erikbartlett2147]

Your take on narcissists is a different view and I really enjoy seeing another view that allows the listener to see a broader view inside the mind of these monster's. Thank you very much for your efforts in giving as much information on this subject as possible. Kind regards...

[@trulysensitive5620]

Most of these persons had horrible experiences as children.

[@majakolonja4266]

@@trulysensitive5620 So did most of us?!

[@alldollzarepriti]

It's so sad as they go from using religion and children gender anything for mere control and using people as they use any excuse its all manipulation when some are dangerous really as even the courts use some of the most dangerous

[@janebuchanan3684]

@@trulysensitive5620 the ones I met were born vile.

[@nicj5354]

Narcissist is just a super fancy term for pathologically insecure.

[@rohithreddy75]

no they are evil people.

[@nicj5354]

@@rohithreddy75 I think that's what makes them evil. They're so pathetically insecure that it opens the door wide for the enemy to fill them with demons and they don't even know it

[@rohithreddy75]

@@nicj5354 Insecure is a very small term to describe them. They are demonic people and there is no doubt about it for me. I have seen their real side. just dont go around there vicinity as it infects you.

[@MeghenFarley]

​@nicj5354 some know and love it. So scary

[@scouttrucker]

I actually did the love bombing to a covert vulnerable narcissist. But I actually cared for her and did extravagant things because she would smile and seemed to love it. Over time, she would devalue these things and I stopped doing them. She used it against me and always gave me silent treatment, blamed everything on me, told me I didn’t care, played the victim constantly. It was maddening. I thought I had to work hard for her affection and she would withhold it until she wanted something from me.

[@Zepster77]

Bingo this is my marriage and it’s breaking my heart

[@waragainstmyself1159]

Sounds like my baby momma

[@Jleafox]

My ex taught my daughter to treat me this way. She has become someone I don’t know anymore. I can only pray for her. At least I understand the problem. I hope someday for her to understand it as well. No contact with me is her only hope, besides divine intervention. Believe me, I pray for God’s hand and wisdom to heal and to be guarded. ❤

[@miriamkusimbo2841]

Sorry

[@stanfen]

@@Zepster77 accept you're gut instinct is the truth..

[@TheRealLiviaDarling]

So informative. You are educating and changing lives for the better. Thank you.

[@petertullemans]

Great content on the subject… keep up the good work in educating us on dealing with narcissists

[@junelledembroski9183]

My husband said the weirdest sentence ever when I told him, yeah I shouldn’t have told him but I was being dumb. He said, “I accept my… that I’m justified in my actions.” What the literal hell? Like he was about to accept responsibility, and then discarded that and said he’s justified. What the hell?

[@timothyoynespianistenterta9398]

By far, this video provides the most thorough and nuanced explanation of narcissistic behavior. It is SO disturbing that these wounded people wreak havoc on the emotional lives of empathetic people. This informative video effectively reveals the dynamics one encounters at the hands of these sociopaths. A huge thank you to the video creator for contributing to our healing journey! Keep making videos like these. I am so glad that I have found this KZbin channel. A true godsend!!

[@angelafreeman7881]

I’ve been going through this for years. Since I educated myself on what I was dealing with I’ve better learned how to handle this narcissist. However , now that I’m aware of what he’s doing I have file for a divorce, but he refuses to leave the home. Instead he chooses to stay there and turn my kids and grandkid against me

[@ilovejesuschrist992]

That's what they do best.

[@michaelportwood2450]

Get out as fast as you can they will even convince a therapist that you're bad I am going through this now she was trying to ruin my life. Turned everybody against you you just have to leave them and start over fresh with friends and everything sad

[@delmahermosillo6052]

Mine refuses to leave . i dont want to change the locks but i might just have too.

[@essiedelarosa9278]

Please get out as fast as you can if you have kids he or she will hurt them mentally it took me 14 years to see what was going on.

[@markgentry6688]

With out watching this video this is what I personally experienced. When you figure out you are are dealing with a narc the narc will put on a full court press. Remember it’s all a game in their mind. Remedy; expose what they are to everyone you know who knows the narc. And when you are in the narc’s presence and they are performing one of their pre rehearsed performance of smoke and mirrors, interrupt them and start clapping your hands and tell them to their face “that was an Oscar winning performance. You really deserve a trophy for that one.” My sisters jaw hit the floor and my narc dad was instantly pissed at me for blowing his cover. Sis had no idea. I immediately closed the door on that relationship and never looked back and was never again bothered by my dad. He sold everything and left town and moved to his vacation home in Florida. An old single wide house trailer in a national forest and literally died with a hole in his heart.

[@waragainstmyself1159]

I out smeared the smearing covert narc father of mine. I exposed him for the creepy incestuous bum he was. How he got everything handed to him, then turned around to talk shit on me who earned it. I labeled him the covert narc he is and it felt great. No contact now.

[@markgentry6688]

@@waragainstmyself1159 That's what I'm saying brother... Burst their Narc bubble and close that door and never look back 👍.

[@Mom-a-Dragon7622]

I have been going through that exact bunch of relationship issues you are talking about like literally the last two years. And they enlisted and confused a lot of people for some reason I have this fixation on me like they have to win some sort of imaginary battle. Like you said they feel the need to dominate me. At first I thought they were like undercover, possibly recently enlisted or whatever cuz I read up on it. And it said that they try to rise to power quickly etc.. now you have given me little hope. It makes a little more sense now thank you. It's me I am the roast 😅.

[@AwakenedOne-qu]

They hide from you at all cost

[@CD-gr3mk]

Thank you for enlightening us. God bless your way! Sincerely, A very grateful Hawaiian woman. Aloha to all 🌈

[@carlleonard1324]

I really appreciate this video cuz I'm experiencing a lot of that in my life right now with family friends and with the saying is truly true about how we have to handle these people thanks a lot for the information.

[@richardmarshall3194]

These information are so helpful, presently am working with and living with narcissist, thank you

[@cassandrawilliams8340]

When I look back at how this began in relationships, I find that I too have been affected by their disease, JESUS removed two of the most chronic ones out of my life 🙌. I am now working on the symptoms that have overtaken me over the decades of dealing with them. They will both deny any and all of this. I just want to enjoy the freedom that I have derived from not dealing with them any more. Triangulation is what I go through now, but I can't fight this battle; I gave it to the ONE who can JESUS. Thank you for enlightenment. 💞🤗🌈🌹😇🙏

[@MB-tr8sq]

Talk about hit the nail on the head in describing these creatures and how they love to destroy!!! I didn’t realize there were so many parts to the video WOW! Each one better & better. Please keep educating the unaware.VERY VERY important.thank you. God bless❤😊

[@lynda676]

If you find yourself with a narcissist be very diligent about protecting your personal resources. They will use them up and not replace them leaving you stuck under their thumb.

[@christinarestrepo2756]

Great advise!! Thank you ! Need some more insight regarding narcissist parents .

[@beverlyballard3845]

They will TAKE away your own children's LOVE behind you back before you know, too late to fix. Counselors told me, 'Sever ALL ties!" for me to say, 'I cannot, they are my parents, my kids love them!' NOW 15 years later, I live my life alone, as ALL go to their RICH grandparents Holidays and all! GET OUT, STAY OUT. Age worsens them! They USE the families children, indoctrinate them to hate!

[@billyshelor7340]

Go8ng through it right now. Thanks for the video

[@peacetoall5992]

Help - my Adult Son is a narcissist? I realised this a year ago after realising his father is one too. His father has now left - now he (my son) his show his narcissism. What can I do? We had a fall out very recently and I then remembered his narcissim and began to act in the way I'd learned after watching Dr Ramani and others ie no contact or very little. One word answers etc. Guess what - after he apologised - he's now love bombing - I'm surprised how true these outcomes are that I have been learning. He's asking me what I want for Christmas and do I want to go for a meal etc etc. I'm learning to keep verbal contact to a minimum.

[@JR-pf2fh]

I am hoping I'm wrong ..I think my son is like his dad too. So sad

[@oluwafunbiakinola0104]

Great.. Keep at it.. over time he'll bail!

[@rohithreddy75]

narcissism is genetic, just throw them out from your life irrespective of their relation with you or else you are doomed.

[@ishgalanida7830]

Thanks admin this is superlative educational information for AWARENESS of their existence.

[@terrideluca4111]

This video justified I was being mentally and verbally abused by a narcicisst for 4 years.. But he was also psychotic, probably bipolar too.. I got away 5 years ago and never looked back..

[@patriciadorris1149]

🙋"this will be your final words before passing"...Boy ain't that the truth!!!

[@johnholme783]

What’s the difference between a psychopath and a narcissist? There doesn’t seem to be much difference to me.

[@bonniehafeman9757]

Thanks for the update. Don't need the video...but the beautiful honestly is understandable. Thanks. Amen.

[@Ghettobank69]

Narcissist do care what people think about them

[@janiceclarke5723]

No contact, I don't have any and won't. I am allowed to voice my opinion. They are criminal, I will never believe it's a disorder , it's criminal. If someone does a intentional act repeatedly it not a disorder. It's criminal.

[@AzureThunder3]

With the high proliferation and increase of narcissism and the world being upside down and backwards now I think these people should be given a new name to help clarify what they truly are - D.P.I. - Demon Possessed Individuals.

[@reggyburnett9029]

My theory is when a narcissist know that you figure them out they try to take you out physically (Bodies harm) !!!!!!

[@MeghenFarley]

Yes and much more.

[@ethercreatures]

What you have presented here tells me that I survived a master class in endurance and empathy. I am one of those that is an empath by nature and plenty of experience to back it up. what happened to me is I got dealt a wake up call by a narcissist. One that happened to be suffering from physical disability and using it, blatantly. I thought if she could fine someone (me) who would care for her like no one else had, maybe she could cool her jets. As you might be thinking reading this, yes, BIG mistake. I am still not done processing although we were forced apart over a year ago. Nearly ended me and all I can think is empathy for her environment. She will continue to spread pain. Debate is, does she truly know it? As a result of her disability, she is obviously accustomed to assistance, but why this level of toxicity? I have a very difficult time thinking, let alone with playing with the notion of accepting, she created the toxic environment purposely. Very difficult to admit I got caught up in this...

[@miriam100ful]

I have an elderly narcissistic mother, and it's a nightmare, cannot go no contact.

[@lb1798]

Danish Bashir has good information about dealing with people when you cannot go completely no contact.

[@robynfoss9449]

Why can't you go no contact? She has made your life hell, don't be guilty about going no contact with your elderly mother you are not a doormat or a battering ram for a narcissist and there manipulations, gaslighting, verbally attacking you and your well-being abandoned her wipe your hands of it! No guilt on your part! Walk away

[@orinmoses7065]

Spot-on analysis

[@lionsndaisies]

Getting other people to catch them in a lie and accept that it wasn't a one off but their whole personality. Getting others to question or criticise them to catch them in a storm of defensive behaviour and reveal their heightened sense of superiority . They're only shadows of a real person, using a well worn script to get by, doesn't take much to uncloak them once you've got that sense that somethings not right.

[@soniaposadas3675]

I have one in my house and through this videos now I can understand more and how word they are.. and is true is a 8 year old in adult body for how they act.. am trying already to get out asap

[@l.5832]

When my fully grown narc sister told me she hoped I would get sick, I reminded her that that was not a way for family to speak....that wasn't "Love'. She actually snorted!

[@Mom-a-Dragon7622]

I learned a lot of this from a narcissist. Okay quick question: what if I don't want to get rid of my narcissist. What if I just want to be on a peaceful level, frienamies?! I really wish I had seen these like two years ago that would have been so much more helpful. I have gone through every single thing that you said! You're a blessing for those who hopefully catch it in time.

[@mikegrass7325]

Great video!

[@shirleyanngilbreath4353]

It's sad that he would actually tell other drivers on the road, you better get out of my way...has no respect for the road a child could be close to the road, his response... ugh if I hit you it won't be my fault. Crazy.

[@donnadaniels5095]

Absolutely thank you🎯 understanding narcissism, help me realize ,why my committed relationships, did not work 🤣🤷‍♀️ 🤡🤥🎭 refusing TO, deal with the drama🐂💩, walked ,away 🚶‍♀️was the best decision🧘‍♀️ , 👁 AWAKENING , know what I'm looking for now🙏🤣

[@bonniehafeman9757]

Yes it was so informative. Thanks again.

[@angelocorsi7739]

Ever so insightful!!!.. Thank You!!!!

[@tam.s.2337]

Run....

[@AnkaAneczka_]

These are very helpful insights. I like your videos, thank you 👍

[@Love-df3hu]

Very true. I've been there. Very true. 👍

[@JR-pf2fh]

I have a grandiose narcissist husband for 38 yrs now. I never knew he was like this. Cause I never knew what one was. I got him figured out completely. An he hates me for it. I will get away after I screw with him back!! He can't screw with me any more.

[@JR-pf2fh]

Can anyone tell me or know why a person is like this? Are they born this way due to genetics or hereditary? Is it a learned behavior? Is it due to the way they was raised since birth? What and how did they get this way?

[@oluwafunbiakinola0104]

Glad to hear ...

[@michaelgreen6313]

​@@JR-pf2fh A narcissist is not born that way,its simply a lack of attention,which leads to abandonment and rejection,this then carries on in there adulthood.i was a victim of narcissist abuse,its draining,its painful,and mentally a mind fuck.As hard as it is,because of trauma bonding,the need for revenge, the best and thing to do with a narcissist is NO CONTACT.

[@fabifabi7635]

You are so much right 💕

[@Wendy-y8x]

When you find out your involved with a narcissist get away as soon as you can and cut all ties. These people are lethal. I finally got away from the narcissist I was involved with for 6 years. In those years 6 years I have had a stroke a seizure died twice developed TMJ on my left side. Muscle spasms on my left side my left hand and arm would go totally numb for hours or maybe all day and when he saw that my TMJ was acting up he would pick a fight which he would make the TMJ worse trigger Muscle spasms my hand and arm would go numb. He made sure he would subject me to this if I didn't go through this earlier in the day would make sure I was subjected to it when he saw I was trying go to sleep. It's been a week since I've been away from the narcissist guess what no z,TMJ no Muscle spasms no numb hand and arm. and my hair stopped falling out

[@BeNice524]

This video shoulda got 1.2m likes

[@josephsnisky1851]

It's up to you what's next . Let them know this is it straighten up right now or I'm starting an exorcism. At this point you'll know exactly what you are dealing with. It's not easy I only have half success and it seems as though it could go in the good direction.

[@janiceclarke5723]

Acts done with intentions to set out and destroy people is criminal. Change the laws have them incarcerated. Only way you stop them.

[@susanbittner2095]

Yes Indeed!💜

[@aprilmoate6784]

Thank you so much for being this channel and thank you for the knowledge is where I'm at getting knowledge on how to deal with these people I appreciate you for being here

[@redrosewarrior2806]

I see I am in a bad way.. I was married 28 years. I say was because he violated our marriage. So without going into further detail, I can only say that due to my past - before him, and the kind of betrayal he did, I just cannot go back to being his wife. I know that many would feel I am wrong no matter what, but please keep in mind, all details should be known before passing judgment. If it is that I then spend the rest of my life without a special someone, so be it. Oh- and we still live together but a room mates. I sleep on the couch. It's not as hard as one may think because I absolutely love him as my best friend, but we lost the attraction. We just are not 'in love' anymore. I will try to make the rest brief as possible. By that time I'm getting older, mid 50's and get my first smart phone. I know Nothing of any form of social media. Everyone says Facebook. Yea, that was cool, but then found Instagram and really liked that because their were artists, poet's and musicians - right down my alley. Until one day I received a message from A guy that was quite different then others that you could tell from jump were up to no good. I kept thi king 'there's just something about this guy'..yes, I was hooked by a catfisher... that was 4 years ago, and I am STILL talking to him. I fell in love with him and thought he did me. Over the past year, I seem to be coming out of my daze with him. Too many unanswered questions, too many lies. So now I am in that horrible place. Not k owing where to go or who to turn to. I am highly introverted, so don't really like showing my closet, in fact, I have no idea why I am at this moment. Things now, as I look back, are so obvious, that I honestly feel like I am coming out of a spell or deep dream fantasy world. What sucks is that world was so much happier. After I get done with this man, I am leaving all social media- I have anyway really as he has isolated me from most everyone. Wish me luck and pray for me. This won't be easy.

[@maurakennedy5952]

Hello not a good idea to be living with your husband as things are is very easy for me to say get out and stay out you are a young women please have the courage and to make a new life for yourself he is not going to change it won't be easy the good Lord did not promise us a rose garden wishing you the best for the future tell yourself that you deserve to be happy in your own skin

[@redrosewarrior2806]

@@maurakennedy5952 Awe, such kind words, thank you. The living with husband thing is more complicated then you know. Neither of us have anywhere else to go. I can't work, I've had spinal surgeries & the trauma of finding out that I hadn't known my husband for 30 years, put me in hospital for CHF. - heart failure. He literally broke it. All the doctors & heart specialists couldn't find the cause even though they put cameras through my neck and up my arm and into my heart. Anyway, I would never have the heart to leave him and collect alimony because we are poor as it is. And we do get along fine as friends Thank you again for your kindness. It gives me hope. 💚💙💜

[@ChooseTruthAlways]

When this person is our mother, it's utterly confusing for a child. 😖😰

[@bonniehafeman9757]

God bless you.

[@nicselectronics81]

How they can nearly destroy someone and be completely normal with the guy next to you is beyond me, but definitely evil to the core. They don't deserve to "live"

[@Brian-tg8ye]

You should create a video called reporting to a narcissist in the workplace... I'm in this situation now and could use some guidance

[@fredziffle5219]

Our family narc. has been long exposed & went silent years ago but now the old fart needs help so he’s gotten much nicer, but he has not changed. We’re all still stupid, beneath him & he just knows we’re saying & thinking stupid things. He changes our passwords without telling us, he changes the thermostat setting, all kinds of sneaky crap & then LIES. He scratches major appliances, leaves fingerprints on the walls, just petty little things to bug us. The things families put up with to care for older relatives!!! The grandkids see all this & Im sure the pattern will not repeat with them.

[@wendikruger3431]

Thank you so much for these videos. So informative.

[@jag8789]

I have a sister , she turned the family and friends against me, After a while they realized what was going on with her and felt bad for it.

[@gregmijjares3725]

You love them! Because you can't stop talking about them!

[@lindamitchell9394]

your video is appreciated. Thank-you.

[@thegangstress]

yea my narc husband abandoned me after cheating and having babies on me and after i helped him to fame, and now blaming me for having kids with others its sick

[@Dajahgraves]

Wowwwww typical right there so sad

[@oluwafunbiakinola0104]

Evil beings!

[@alldollzarepriti]

At least u get a living wage lol sounds funni or tragic depending on who it's been happening too 1986

[@tovarestwhite7866]

My wife used to wear me down... Now I have built a serious stamina to challenge and beat her at her own games now... I love the chest match... I HAVE GROWN TO BE THIS !!!!!!!

[@NordGermanicEmpire]

Liveing with one now but don't fall it not to much longer he going be homeless me move I deal with it for 1 year lease looking forward to move out.

[@lorannichols2504]

It's damn messed up when your children are the narcissist : and won't let you see your grandchild . I would like to slap her head right off: and I am not a violent person . But I would enjoy it very much to do that.😊

[@know973]

I am with you in this experience....sad times we find ourselves in

[@marypatton1122]

When you figure them out you have to go no contact.

[@michellemartin3211]

Holy shit!! So accurate! Wow

[@bonniehafeman9757]

That information was helpful to me Thanks. Amen

[@markrace752]

Absolutely correct I was called Satan by my step daughter. Narc I found out only by recording her in Romanian and getting translated. Snakes

[@marygreen4481]

Ohh I see now I understand why this man told me that am full of problems

[@mariep4018]

No, they have not deceived me at all. I’ve been standing my ground all along the problem I’m having with besides knowing what they are, and who they are and what type of people they are, is bringing them out in the open and having charges pressed against them so they could be held accountable like any other person that gets caught when they commit criminal acts. Even if it’s just a misdemeanor or a felony. That’s the problem I’m having is having them convicted for their crimes that they have been committing for years and years and years of abuse. And some of them include county officials. Lawyers members of the board of directors in my H O A and they’re flying monkeys.

[@vivmatz1189]

Hi yes I relate to this happened several times to the cost of my son and grandaughter who have been turned against me with lies and deception. This is my only son and little 3 year old,they live in Germany so I only see my grandaughter on occasions on facetime. Which is limited ,she talks of my grandaughter needing things knowing I will send money or that they are struggling again I send money,this is a repeat thing,then comes the discard the arguments, follow where she goes into a vicious attack on me saying I said this or that which is total lies,she gets my son to text and say that I have upset her and I must apologise or he won't speak to me again. I am a total empath,my father and ex husband were also narcissist. So third time unlucky how can I get my son back,and see my little beautiful grandaughter I'm so at a block here I ask for help or direction ,but the people that do these videos don't offer any input in these messages.????

[@HomeFrendsten]

The more difficult thing to deal is when elders in family r dominating controling and misusing power,and when one or both parents r n arcts, I try to maintain my health while living with such arrogant people

[@rhondaphillips432]

Thank you so much for the information.

[@jaredmayo5820]

That stuff doesn't work on us because our focus is elsewhere

[@thegangstress]

he has not defeated me he defeats his victims way over there in his country

[@3bertotti]

Thanks

[@colmanlong1032]

We should be allowed take them out,and I don't mean to dinner.

[@HeartFeltGesture]

Unfortunately, although they deserve it, we would have to go against our own good nature to do it, which would corrupt us further, which plays into the narcissists game, even when trying to destroy them. Remember the narcissist is jealous of our goodness and integrity and they want to sabotage us and make us like them. We may not get to see it, but they will pay a high price eventually, when they have the golden chord (emotional memory stick) removed from their spinal line and holographically played back to them, they will have to feel the pain of every loveless deed they ever orchestrated., without the ability to deflect or justify.

[@colmanlong1032]

@@HeartFeltGesture tanx ,you just gave me a new perspective.

[@HeartFeltGesture]

@@colmanlong1032 Stay in the goodness, stay in the Light.

[@angelafreeman7881]

Noooo! Karma will catch up to them

[@colmanlong1032]

@@angelafreeman7881 I sure hope so,most of them seem to get away Scott free all their lives.

[@sheilahale3851]

Nailed it

[@normalindah3686]

Thank you for your message. I am in the process of leaving this toxic relationship. I have experienced all the phases you have mentioned. I am in the discarded stage right now. Ouch! 😢

[@leocampa6230]

David Matthew Drake played this well

[@coreyanderson7424]

Document if it's at work. No matter how passive aggressive the bullying was. Don't put it off. Otherwise when the narc falsely accuses you will have written record. When you report the bullying, to refer back to. You cannot just let it go,or, quit if it's your boss. Ignoring them is good but if you want to keep your job, journal every incident, document the inappropriate behavior. Don't keep it where it can be discovered. Also don't assume no one else notices. Chances are they do. With the exception of people being love bombed. I know it's hard when they lovebomb everyone and everything around.

[@adrianafernandez2458]

Thank you.

[@josemate2899]

I married a narcissist for 15 years, she was always fighting my siblings, chitting abandoned me with the kids for more then 10 months, she wanted to sell me sex. I refused she planed to frame me for a rape. I asked her to get out of my house. She took the kids and moved in with her boyfriend

[@oluwafunbiakinola0104]

Great for U.. Work on your healing before going for the kids. .. U can't give what U don't have!

[@beachlife8168]

Wowwww

[@nessauk2786]

My ex covert narc triangulated me with his ex expecting me to keep up a false facade over her shit parenting x god awful bs

[@cherryharris8238]

That’s when they are most dangerous

[@michaelhargrove9]

I suffered from narcissist abuse since a child and the abuser was my mother and she still a narc today so I chose to go no contact with her however most of her friends and family that she is closest to our also narcissist so I don't deal with them either how do you think I should and do it since her family is part of my family personally I don't like it none of them now what is your take on it

[@CapnSky14]

I wish I heard your video before I opened my big mouth because I’m paying for it now