When nothing goes right in your life, remember this

What happens when nothing seems to be going your way?
Maybe you're facing unwanted changes at work?
Maybe you didn't get that job or were passed on a promotion?
Maybe your new business isn't taking off as fast as you'd hoped?
Maybe even the boiler broke down, the washing machine packed in or your coffee machine stopped working, all in the same day!
If you're facing non-stop setbacks and seemingly everything is going wrong in your life you're probably wondering why bother, how can I keep going, what am I doing wrong?
What do you do when trouble comes knocking on your door? If it brings you down, I made this video to lift you up.
The origin of the fable is unknown. The story is narrated by Anis. Hope you enjoy it.
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[@SexyxSeds]

Literally nothing ever happens right, nothing not even with the littlest things

[@AnisQiz]

Sorry to hear that. I can feel the frustration. Sometimes taking attention away from things not going right, and focusing on things w are grateful for offers little relief. When we break the pattern of thinking, we have an opportunity to change our behaviour.

[@studioupdate6880]

20 years old and still living with frustration....nothing ever happened right since a kid...

[@AnisQiz]

sweety, you have your whole life ahead of you. We don't realise till time passes how the challenges and adversity serves us. Everything works out :)

[@nizarnassar6045]

It's as if I'm operating on a different frquency than the rest of the universe and it's just not meant for me to succeed in this life no matter what I do. Keep trying they say, but I do and only fail and it just makes it worse having 1000 fails instead of just a few.

[@SexyxSeds]

@@nizarnassar6045 yup, that’s how it is

[@Jsfreedom]

I LITERALLY HAVE LOOKED DEEPER INTO MY LIFE, WITH THE WILLINGNESS TO EVEN LOOK AT WHAT I MAY BE DOING WRONG. I HAVE MADE DECISIONS FOR THE BEST, YET, THE BEST NEVER COMES TO FUITION. MY DECISIONS HAVE EVEN BEEN ABOUT LEAVING UNHEALTHY PEOPLE AND UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS, ONLY FOR ME TO BE LEFT ALONE. I FEEL....

[@A.M.Lhistorica]

Yes all the time as someone who is high functioning autistic I’m fed up of getting constantly rejected and failing in life I hate how most of society doesn’t give people like me a chance, I wrote lots of musical material of my experiences but because I my low self esteem I’ll probably never show my music to anyone, I just want to die I’m fed up of constantly struggling and trying so hard but nothing changes for the positive

[@seekeroftruth1484]

Same here high functioning autistic and I agree 💚

[@freespirit7450]

Everything I want never happens but the things I dont want happen way to often.

[@AnisQiz]

wowza, I used to feel exactly the same, I feel you.

[@prince223681]

Smiling while getting shot doesn't change much

[@AnisQiz]

hot take!

[@terris7842]

This feels so patronising. It’s like blaming someone for being a potato because life and things out of this immediate control, keep knocking them onto their face, but they are to blame for how they feel about this because they didn’t look for the positive. Bit hard to look for the positives when you’re face down in the dirt with a foot on your back. I guess you learn to like the taste of dirt, right.

[@Lusity]

Sounds like a potato to me

[@veronicalagor4771]

Yeah. And sometimes adversity does leave some nasty side effects that have to be mended before moving forward. Illness, poverty, trauma, etc. If it happens to you early enough too, you have NO control over the outcome, or the ability to cope with certain kinds of adversity. And it'll impact the majority of your life. (Childhood trauma)

[@EyesOfHeaven-wv3ui]

Sorry but this was funny bc I thought of someone as a potato 😭thank you for making me smile im going through hell

[@SaadiaAMalik]

There have been times when i have definitely felt like theres no light at the end of the tunnel, Anis explains it in a great way. Patience during the time of adversity! What an excellent analogy and a brilliant way of explaining things... thanks Anis for the life tip. I will most def be remembering this and using it during difficult times! Keep the videos coming!

[@DREWTHEEMPATH]

All I want is my own place to live, is that really so much to ask for😂

[@christystout9436]

That and also be able to keep it and not be homeless every few years. Shit gets Old

[@Californicationgirls]

Lady you’ve just cured my depression!

[@AnisQiz]

for real? Elisa, I'm so pleased for you. Be kind to yourself. Wishing you a fabulous sparkly day. Xx

[@s.d.6822]

People who tell silly stories like this have clearly never truly suffered.

[@AnisQiz]

and people who judge others really hates themselves.

[@s.d.6822]

What a load of regurgitated cliche hogwash. My original statement was both an observation and an expression of disappointment, because this video is a wasted opportunity. Do you really think that a good answer for someone who is seriously down due to nothing going right in their life is to "be transformed and create a delicious and delightful experience like coffee"?! Sure, okay, someone will just magically "be transformed" when they're trying to figure out solutions to serious problems. It's ridiculous. There's no practical advice in that. You could learn something from this instead of defensively trying to put me down. And on that note, since you are presumably trying to cater to an audience of people who are are trying to improve their lives and/or are feeling low, your response to my comment is shameful. @@AnisQiz

[@AnisQiz]

@@s.d.6822 sorry to hear things aren’t going well for you. ❤️ Some like lessons w fables and metaphors. Metaphors are not designed to be taken literally. Only lightly. My reply was not defensive at all, just stated a fact. We can only heal ourselves when we truly know ourselves. sincerely hope you find something to soothe your sorrow. 🙏🏼 sending you love and strength.

[@veronicalagor4771]

​@@AnisQizExactly the sentiment wrong with the New Age sentiment. Lack of exposure to reality.

[@xyzain_1827]

Lmao true

[@tk567]

I’m have been taking so many Ls in the last few years. From heartbroken to unmatched in my residency applications ( finished med school but no job). It’s hurts so much. I don’t have anything to look forward to…. I don’t feel happy. I have everything but I’m unhappy.

[@nzluvsturtles]

I hope things are going better for you now, if not, just keep going because it will get better and know that you’re not alone❤️ I recently learned about manifesting and I believe that thoughts manifest so I’ve started to try telling myself positive stories instead of negative ones and even if it doesn’t work out, at least I’m not stressing out so much about it. Anyway I hope you’re okay❤️

[@tk567]

@@nzluvsturtles Thank you. I matched my dream residency program this year. Things always work out for the better.

[@nzluvsturtles]

@@tk567 Yay! I’m glad😇

[@sheilad7324]

I feel so defeated. I was thinking of seeing a voodoo priest. I think I have some sort of curse on me. Even the smallest things don’t go right no matter how positive I am.

[@nompumelelomillicent9286]

How did it go with the voodoo priest, if you ever went?

[@savv9212]

Also wondering how it went

[@nzluvsturtles]

I hope things are going better for you now, if not, just keep going because it will get better and know that you’re not alone❤️ I recently learned about manifesting and I believe that thoughts manifest so I’ve started to try telling myself positive stories instead of negative ones and even if it doesn’t work out, at least I’m not stressing out so much about it. Anyway I hope you’re okay❤️

[@elton6031]

With love I plead that you don't go down the path of voodoo becuase it will only open doors to more in the demonic realm. I know from personal experience what will fill the void in your heart and mend your hurting and brokeness is to seek and place your hope in Jesus. Truly, he is the way the truth and the life that we are all seeking for. If you are at the end of your limits and seeking any way to mend things, I urge you to try reading the Bible and pray to Jesus to reveal the truth to you and see what happens. The least we can do is try, right? I did this and Ive seen how things work in life in very odd and miraculous ways to bring me to a better path. even when nothing appears to be going right. I will pray for you that He heals what is tormenting you and leaving you feeling lost and broken. God bless ❤🙏

[@Crayon3aterGaming]

I see everyone else living it up. I’m generally a positive person but there are times (like now) where things hit so hard repeatedly to where I ask, why am I even trying? Like, when is my day coming?

[@luigilootz370]

For the past 8 years, i have been praying for restoration, healing, guidance and wisdom. I always dwell on God's word, to do good, to look the other way when harm done against you. I always help where i can. Before i consider any choice, I pray, I ponder, I wait, am patient - this has been for the past 8 years. I just wish for once something can go right in my life. I work hard, always aim to save up, but always end up with nothing. 8 years ago, we lost our property, not because of negligence, but due to the property that could not be registered in our name, a late estate we bought, unaware of this as first time buyers. 8 years later still praying, crying, looking forward, forgiving ourselves for what we going through, we still cannot obtain a house bond. What have I ever done wrong?

[@Yet333]

I really hope you get a life break and divine change without delay. I’m pulling for you. ✨🧡🙏

[@revenge8215]

God ain’t real, that’s what’s wrong

[@josephrawlins]

Nothing good happens until you are dead. Death being the end of experiencing, it is the first good thing that happens in one's life.

[@AnisQiz]

Joe, that was deep! Loved it.Thanks for sharing. Contemplating death is the best thing you can do to live more meaningful and fulfilling life.

[@josephrawlins]

@@AnisQiz Oh, I am constantly doing that, then. I know that my life has been wasted on trying to be a good person and deserving to breathe. If I could go back and kill myself when I was a child like I tried to, I would do it and spare others the insufferable burden of my existence. I am relieved at times to know that the dead do not miss anything and have no complaints. The only thing that I have left to look forward to is to never feel anything in this bullshit world, again.

[@AnisQiz]

@@josephrawlins Joe, ahh, you are not a burden to anyone. You are loved. You are worthy of every success. I meant contemplate death from a place of gratitude for our time right now. I too thought often of killing myself as a child. But to know our time here is short, reminds me to appreciate now. Have you spoke to someone about how you feel?

[@josephrawlins]

@@AnisQiz everyone wishes I would stop.

[@josephrawlins]

@@AnisQiz And you'll forgive my saying so but you cannot really say that I am not a burden on others as you don't know me or the people who have had to bear me all my life and have only regrets as a result.

[@tammiecurrie930]

Interesting example, but no light bulb went off for me. Nothing fair about life, and at the end of the day, it's just a hard pill to swallow at times😏

[@karellt2355]

Ummm...nope. Sometimes in life "something or someONE" is pulling the strings in our life. Not all the time but with me I know it's not me but something is stopping me from succeeding. Cause I'm too on point with little things in my life.

[@thevegantitian]

Same. Same in my life

[@TheFracturedfuture]

Yes. I didn't want to believe this but recently something happened to me that made me realize that there's definitely someone pulling the strings and that sometimes no matter how hard you try you're destined to fail.

[@karellt2355]

@@TheFracturedfuture exactly!

[@newflesh666]

my life is like this, except imagine that the stove doesn't work

[@AnisQiz]

Aww ☺️

[@gianthills]

as soon as I hear someone quote a new age guru, i tune out. and it was the Stoics who said it first.

[@AnisQiz]

hey Damon, that's understandable. Thanks for the feedback;) Hope you're well.

[@DREKOWICK69]

lately, everything is going to shit and nothing is controllable anymore and I just don't see anything good happening, it's all fucked.

[@pratikbidwai1099]

No matter how positive I keep, things going equally wrong. And I am left with no option but suffer as even hoping something better will happen turns things equally miserable for me. Thanks.

[@kemelgill4313]

People who actually agree with this. Good for u. But in reality nothing goes right, no matter how hard u try. I am so sorry but nothing, absolutely nothing works right.

[@AnisQiz]

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. You are 💯right. if you absolutely believe nothing goes right, no matter how hard you try, your effort is 100% influenced by this belief, you will produce the same results in your life. Keep telling yourself this story that nothing goes right, and you have created a powerful self-fulfilling prophecy.

[@TheFracturedfuture]

​@@AnisQizNot true. When I was younger I was super optimistic and everything still turned out bad. I kept trying to be positive through the years, believing that my life would turn out great but it never did. The things I thought of achieving and visualized in my head over and over every day for decades never happened despite all of my efforts. If anything the exact opposite of what I visualized and worked towards has happened.

[@noxie_nay]

My days have been crappy since day 1 of this year last year I lost someone close to me and I had faith this year would be the best and....nope nothing I'm not doing well in school I feel used by some people and didn't achieve my goals like I wanted to i felt so attacked or targetted all the time but thank you for the wise words

[@AnisQiz]

I'm so sorry to hear this, Noxie. I'm releasing a new vid next week to help you start your day on the right foot. Hopefully it will help you create a slight shift, energetically.

[@AnisQiz]

How are you doing, Noxie?

[@VandaSilva-nm1lf]

Simple, concise, great example on how to be resilient and come to terms with facing adversity! Loved it!

[@AnisQiz]

you sweetheart, thank you, Vanda.

[@rebeccathomas2573]

Great analogy - I will remember that one!

[@AnisQiz]

thank you, Rebecca! I'm so grateful you took the time to watch and comment! MEans the world to me. XX

[@crescentg5351]

Thanks for this! Missed a once in a life time opportunity due to illness and this video really lifted my spirits

[@AnisQiz]

Grateful to hear this helped you, it means a lot that you took the time to share ❤️🙏 hope you’re fighting fit and creating your new opportunity that’s waiting for you 👍🏼🔥

[@sarvinworld]

What a great way to start your day, thank you for your motivational videos during this difficult time.

[@AnisQiz]

Thanks for your kind words, Sarvin, glad the videos help. ❤️ 🙏🏼 Wishing you a joyous day

[@JulieCreffield]

Love, love, love this!!!!

[@AnisQiz]

Thank you, sweety!!

[@hellfireagency]

I'm just sick of waking up a live in a world where nothing is consensual and every breath is an act of violence.

[@hellfireagency]

and to expect one human being to give a fducccckckckckckckckckc is beyond human capacity.

[@pamelamarie4930]

So needed this...thank you

[@AnisQiz]

Glad you liked it, Pamela. Sending you ❤️

[@ScotlandHistoryTours]

Wow! OK so New Year's Day tomorrow is the best time to have watched this video. Thank you

[@AnisQiz]

omg, it's you!!! Helloooo.

[@ScotlandHistoryTours]

Aye it's me lassie. And th'morra I'm goin tae be a coffee person. First, a few drams tonight though

[@mike1967sam]

3:13 - No, I'm none of the above, I'm a human being which is radically different from eggs, potatoes or coffee beans and hence I require to be approached according to what I am and not what I'm not.

[@itsuriahlove]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO ! 😭 RIGHT ON TIME !

[@thobilenkosi8527]

Great analogy,investing in this video.

[@Jennifer-wr9si]

You know you're doing something right when the trolls start commenting lol

[@AnisQiz]

you're the best.

[@casspower]

I really appreciate your message because even though I’m in the fire I believe I will be made new

[@kemelgill4313]

These videos don't work, when nothing works right.

[@AnisQiz]

If that’s what you believe, you’re absolutely right. You get what you think about.

[@mbt9820mpp]

Easier said than done. I want someone to tell me of any PRACTICAL steps to take to be the coffee when you have lost your job, businesses are shutting down, lost income, etc. etc. etc.

[@nizarnassar6045]

This is very true. Stepping stones and stumbling blocks.

[@briancherry940]

Thank you 😊

[@AnisQiz]

Most welcome. You like coffee, too? You’re in the right place 👋🏽

[@mylifeasbrii]

Love this ❤

[@AnisQiz]

thank you for watching.

[@ebazileyes1475]

Yesssss I feel like this right NOW!

[@revenge8215]

I’m so bricked up

[@DianaB-vm1hj]

this didn't help me at all

[@KLausdabigD]

Hahaha...you help the creator for views i guess hahaha

[@articaXO]

I'm at the worst point in my life right now and seeing that actually made me smile for some reason

[@LinkWave290]

Great video, you have a very nice voice.

[@AnisQiz]

Thanks for watching 🙏🏼

[@Tashtales]

Idk why but this had me emotional

[@helldi2blo]

i dont even know why in alive. im just incapable of success. i can never do anything right. im a waste. i suck. why am i like this?? why do i never take action i only dream about things

[@donblaze33]

My life is the potato that got reheated over and over and finally life let the water boil out and just let the potatoe burn. I’ve toughened out so much out over the yearsof my life. But the last few years have been different. I truly just don’t have it in me anymore. My soul is tired. A lifetime of things never working in your favor will do it to you. I no longer have the same energy and strength and vigor I used to have. Every time I fall in life it’s harder to get back up.

[@baobaorii]

but what if i dont like the change? what if its already happening and what if i am soft and what if i am different, how can i accept change?

[@jitkasmidova3743]

I understand the metaphor but when everything goes to poop you don't take solace from any of this

[@shimaalcarrim7949]

I've been feeling like a stick of butter in boiling water when I should have been feeling like an egg or a potato all along

[@bigfatcloud4566]

Who else got nothing from this video?

[@sahardiaries]

👏🏻💖✨

[@someonefar5600]

Did he care to ask the potato and egg, which had hopes, dreams and aspirations before their souls were crushed by the boiling water? Are we all, somebody else's potatoes and eggs?

[@ueenelisabeth6256]

Ive been an egg for so long. Can i have something i want now!

[@AnisQiz]

Feeling your frustration, Queen Liz. Egg 🥚 moments are preparing us for what's coming. Focusing on small things we're grateful for helps break the pattern of thinking. X

[@AnisQiz]

Morning routine when nothing goes right in your life kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5-WqZ6eerydi9U

[@liyandayi1409]

But they all came out better.. none is better than the others

[@GentlemenJack109]

This week has been a bitch. Monday my crush rejected me, Tuesday I went to the hospital from a panic attack and then today my friend can’t take me to the gym and i probably can’t go to church tonight

[@AnisQiz]

oh no, sorry to hear this. Hope you're feeling better. how can you turn these setbacks into being like "coffee"? EG: work out at home? Alternative to going to Church that would give you same fulfilment?

[@GentlemenJack109]

@@AnisQiz im feeling better.

[@AnisQiz]

glad you're feeling better :)

[@Akanio_Vatheros]

Guess I'm a potato, how to unpotato myself?

[@brianpeterson1962]

Every minute of every day

[@briancherry940]

Coffee ☕ 😋

[@mdtajulislam3852]

What if i put some ice cube on this warm water, eventually i would be faded, i want to be faded from this unfair life. Its too much

[@keynerdanieloliverasbaraca6338]

Well, I think must be the egg first in order to at the end be the coffee, I mean, more happy but for yourself, conclusion nothing can hurt you and you're enough okay to enjoy your life.

[@kashisharora180]

never heard more random advice!!

[@AnisQiz]

thanks for watching, Kashish

[@vincentt753]

Next time make one for someone who has experienced 38 years of misery their child and their passion taken from them and get back to me I'll never watch one of ur videos again

[@ueenelisabeth6256]

But i feel like shit

[@AnisQiz]

Hope you are feeling better, Queen. Control what you can by doing something for you. Like setting a small goal to do a five minute run. Exercise is a great mood booster. ❤️👍🏽

[@NatureandSpirit111]

Be like Luke Did That: NO REACTION

[@thatpersonyoudontknow4509]

Sorry but everything is set the way it is. Life is not in our control

[@robertfullone9032]

Everything I "need" comes easy. Things I want, not so much.

[@wtfmilk3]

Carrot can stay in the boiling water like forever 😂

[@AnisQiz]

now I'm wondering how you know that?! hehe

[@rectombulas793]

Obviously this woman has things fall into place for her.... No one who has experienced a lifetime of bad luck...(psycological trauma) Can even have that veiw...you have to have positive happen to have a positive view... I can't even get out of bed....without anything negative happening to me... This has been witnessed by those in my life... My psychologist has said in the 25 years of doing this he has nothing to say..... Except this..... That's the reason so many do away with themselves.

[@AnisQiz]

when i was 15 someone attempted to murder my father, it was a miracle he survived, a few years later my uncle was murderd - he was like a father figure to me. I could go on. My friend, one thing i have learned, arguing for your pain and arguing for your limitations only keeps you there.

[@jackdavids2723]

what if you can't help but be a potato, the potato never asked to be a potato it's just is.

[@joyces5593]

I was watching Eckhart Tolle and wanted to make a comment on his video. You made the exact comment I was going to make! So I clicked on your name and found this! Please don't take this the wrong way....your last name is delightful....Qizilbash...tee hee

[@AnisQiz]

Hello Joyce, thank you for watching and sharing. Your comment brought me joy, similar to your name ❤️🙏🏻

[@margaretek5350]

🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙🤗🤗🤗

[@neelshah7013]

Which Incese stick you were using

[@AnisQiz]

nagachamp or frankincense, probably :) Thanks for noticing.

[@romas9426]

I choose to be a much potate that falls and smashes the the gound so life struggle could finally end

[@kemelgill4313]

What's the point.

[@Keith-tz2jy]

Im the patat

[@lucila5466]

I'm the cheese

[@thephoenixx888]

😂

[@considerthis7712]

Brittle egg?

[@AnisQiz]

thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts

[@xyzain_1827]

I'm the potato

[@gaming4K]

I am a fucking potato! 😐

[@shagdog80]

Life sucks.

[@gainer83]

wtf kind of advice is this

[@AnisQiz]

cool right :)) Seriously, though, thanks for watching and I get it wasn't your cup of coffee.

[@gainer83]

@@AnisQiz this advice sounds good in theory but will never work in real life.

[@AnisQiz]

@@gainer83 I hear you. And you’re right. it depends how you interpret it, which is based on your life experience. The message is ultimately to be flexible and adaptable, like coffee. Instead of rigidness of the hardened egg and closing your mind to opportunities and ideas. Being open to seeing different perspectives and ideas is like coffee 🫘 Is that impractical and not applicable in life? Thanks for replying 🙏👍🏼

[@remopkr198]

potato

[@natashakaye9223]

This does nothing for me. Sorry. There's scientific reason for the different reactions of the three. Also cooked potato tastes great too, and (not me I love coffee) some people hate coffee. What I'm saying is life is not this simple.

[@lily12457]

These ingredients are made that way. U can't make a potato hard as an egg by boiling. If only u can make a potato hard as an egg. Then it show anything is possible. But it doesn't work that way. Why don't you take this video down.

[@imnotimpressed420]

Ridiculous

[@earnestspeight6597]

This potato lost a limb and toes. This potato lost Time and hope, something that cannot come back. This potato feels like a fuckup which is scared of himself and others. Every time I hea don't give up something else happens. Getting tired of this 😊