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[@khinenyeinayemandalay]

“Expectation stands for suffering”. This is so true. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@destinyforreal9744]

Thanks for this video I got hit by a car and they broke my leg and my ribs I needed to hear this

[@saikumarroyyala7985]

@@destinyforreal9744 I hope and pray you recover fast and get well soon..,,, Namo Buddhaaya!!!

[@TSS370]

@@destinyforreal9744 hope you are feeling better now...

[@jumanapetiwala4018]

We expect for a reason.....but then finally realise.....every one is different......most of the time only giver suffers the most..... receivers only enjoys and forget how the giver makes things possible 🙏🙏

[@tanboonmeng2862]

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[@thethnin8820]

This appears in right time when i am needing the most 🙏 thank you so much

[@Inayah143]

Exactly

[@ovz197]

Truee

[@nimnaliyanaarachchi8151]

Yeah...same

[@kevinchenr]

Same here lol. I hope things will get better for you real soon! 🙏

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[@kumarglanofficial]

Buddha said, If problem can be solved why worry and if problem can't be solved by us then also why worry so We shouldn't be worried either problem can be solved or not.

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[@arvynou]

Then what to do at that time

[@SukhpalSingh-qu5ir]

​@@arvynouthen u must realise that the problem( indirectly)is for our goodness in future and the problem itself is will of god

[@lallmanish90]

Three things to do when facing tough situations 1. Realize what the situation is - analyze and understand the problem. 2. Determine whether the situation is in your control or out of your control. 3. Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control.

[@thewizardfromoz8220]

His kindness shines trough so much and his smile and dimples are just adorable.

[@marilynsik8959]

It is a fact that nothing is fair in life . I know that life is full of suffering. I do not expect anything from life. I do what is need to be done . Be kind, be truthful , be helpful to people. Yes I am going thru struggles right now but I accept it wholeheartedly . Just keep going till your wheel of life stops. I try my best not to react on a negative situation . Walk away from toxic people. Thank you for the Buddha’s teaching . I learnt so much and is still learning . I don’t really think much about what people say about me . I focuse on myself and my well-being. Every day I always thankful for the gift of life. I am very grateful for the blessings and graces that come my way.I terribly adore and love Buddha’s teaching . And I applied it in life . Believe me I am so at peace with myself . Thank you . Thank you. Thank you. I listen to you everyday. 🙏🙏🙏

[@ianthedesilva9676]

I am a Christian that listens to your program and enjoy it very much. Thank you!

[@sunilnair2366]

I thought you are a human

[@lbcthinkingoutloud3427]

Please don’t label yourself,

[@user-yf3rr6ob6r]

It's never too late to become a Buddhist. Become a Buddhist before you're forced to be reborn into another life! Accept Buddha TODAY!!!!

[@winsandarnaing6673]

I am suffering a lot because of situations that are out of my control and also in my control. Thank you for this advice and may all the ppl get a peaceful life❤

[@healedsoulhealer]

I really needed this. I am going through a situation as you described,. It is out of my control so i will follow your advice and won't try to change the people instead I will control myself n my emotions. I wish someday I will understand life.

[@floriankrone]

Keep going! Something great is waiting for you, Fatima 👍👍 just go on 😉

[@healedsoulhealer]

@@floriankrone Thanks 🤗

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@@healedsoulhealer 😁👍👍

[@chetanthazeem5671]

Bro, everybody is somehow in situations where you get frustrated. Even if somebody is giving you 1000 solutions still that don,t break ice.with you. Be still for the time being and look around. Don't do anything, but problem will get solved for sure. Meanwhile this is another advise. & solution. Take it easy.love

[@rammyabandara7666]

Yes… do practice accordingly, you will never fail… blissful life is ahead… May the supreme triple Gem Bless you dear friend

[@renukadave7273]

What beautiful thoughts..!! The tenderness of your words.. your voice is so powerful, Master 🙏😊 God Bless you...Namo Budhdhay 🙏😊

[@anomakahawandala6816]

මාගේ භාග්‍යවතුන් වහන්සේට මාගේ උත්තමාංග නමස්කාරය වේවා! උත්තම ශ්‍රී සද්ධර්මයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා! ඒ මහා ශ්‍රාවක සංඝරත්නයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා! ඉතා අගනා දේශනයක් ස්වාමීනී. බොහෝමත්ම පින්!

[@serenityx8927]

? 🤔🤐😱😵 Yip Yip🤣

[@chandramunasinghe4017]

By listening to you i am at peace...Namo Buddhaya

[@natubhaijadav4519]

Very good sir excellent Buddhism is everything for best life. Because in Buddhism there are no place for casteism.. corruption.. discrimination..hatred.only exist love passion in Buddhism

[@varuniekarunadasa4434]

This is so true. No matter how many good things you do life is not always fair. Its hard but we have to move on .

[@ulagasivalingam6312]

After listening to your words ,I felt stress-free, peaceful and Happy with what I have.😇 Whatever flows ...flows..... If we can't change the situation then We have to change our perspective ✌️💪 It gives me hope to run my life.

[@susanduncan4381]

Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to suffering.. just let go trust the journey 🙏🙏 blessings 💖💖💖

[@saancloud5766]

Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to SUFFERING

[@susanduncan4381]

@@saancloud5766 that's what I said.. 🙏🙏💞💞💞

[@bernadettekelly8165]

Expectations when prosponed can cause anxiety....

[@amuthat6619]

Started loving Budhism.... Namo Budhaaya🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@serenityx8927]

🇩🇰👑🇹🇹 🫒 Hi Buddha, thank you for your wise teachings👊 I listen, I learn. I love listening to Buddha's messages👌. Greetings from DK 🇩🇰

[@girijasuresh2196]

I love your great words.it gives peace to the mind.

[@pohhuaooi1541]

Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

[@wicramarajashinghe7302]

He is not Buddha dear he is a disciple of Buddha he is a Buddhist Monk.

[@kushymathai9821]

Yes you are right 👍👍🙏🙏

[@persiancat1597]

@@wicramarajashinghe7302 he is a Budha. Everyone could be a Budha. The Budha you are mentioning is a specific person but being Budha is not limited to one person.

[@saibaba6474]

Sir ur teachings hv changed my life to a great extent n helping me everyday to lead a peaceful life. Thank u so much. Namo budhdhaya🙏

[@daviddelarosa5188]

I love Buddhism it has helped me through so much!! Thank u so much for your teachings !

[@isuripriyadarshanikumariha7598]

NAMO BUDDHAYA🙏💛🙏The way my dear thero explains is so much easy to understand those situations we face in day to day life. Sometimes we want to change some situations for good for people. But the Majoriy don't like it. That always makes us angry n sad . Sometimes we get furious,can't control anger,But ultimately ourselves we understand the angry towards the people is soo useless. Calm mind n kindheart always win the world. I always takes examples from Buddha's life story because my dear BUDDHA wins whole cruelty of people from the overloaded kindness . We cannot reach that kindness of my dear Buddha .Thats called Purisadammasarathi' quality to control people's attitudes through kindness. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@RAMADEVI-oc3vm]

Namo Buddhaya. You are God's gift to me. Your preachings have turned my life completely, I just can't explain how much valuable your videos are to me. Very simple explanation.

[@kumuthavalli7204]

Millions of thanks for such wonderful service. If possible, Please make us a video regarding 'how to inculcate positive thoughts and ideas in our mind' because mind gets easily indulge in past trauma, criticism, sufferings than living in present moment. Thanks a lot 🙏

[@roschanrottana6700]

Listening to your advice made me live meaningful and so powerful.🙏🙏

[@karenng848]

Thank you Bhante for this awesome video and your great teaching. Namo Buddhaya.🙏🙏🙏

[@bhavyasurisetti07]

Well said! Its completely true in my life... Expectations definitely kill as a person.Its also said that expectation leads to greater disappoinent ✨ Let's feel surprised when unexpected things get happened💙✨

[@hishesherpa1965]

Thank you Vanteji.May you live healthy and a long life

[@marcelalove4897]

Thank you🌺 You give us joy🍀 There is lot of truth in it. Now the practise must come to the fore 😊😊😁

[@daisydaruwalla4189]

First of all I would like to say that I was so happy to see a video put up here after quite a while. Today's video has come at a time when I how been facing such circumstances for quite a while. "If we cannot change a situation we should change our perspective towards it". This sentence speaks volumes and is the best advice to all who are in this situation. It makes me realise that all this while I've been trying to change things which are not in my control. Now I realise that it's better for my peace of mind to let things be as they are and not to let them affect me. Hope to see more such videos.

[@manishasinha4387]

Needed to hear this so badly ... Thank you so much universe for this sign 🌈💕💫

[@Padmaja625]

Upto now this is the calmest Buddha master 🙏 God bless you ❤️ Very happy and peaceful to hear him 😁

[@julisharma5631]

Thank you so much for giving me direction in my life... Before your guidance I was stuck... Thank you so much I love you

[@shrikantjadhav2344]

Thank you soo much. Bhante your voice, your body language and your teachings are soo positive. Pleasant to hear from you.

[@savitapaikrao7313]

Nice 👍 one of the most valuable information about our controllable & uncontrollable situations... Thanks Bhanteji🙏 Namo Buddhay🙏🙏🙏

[@Thewrongshoes2]

Thank-you so much 💖 this was so needed right now. Blessings 💖

[@marymuscat7482]

Thank you so much for your videos, i am so grateful and enjoy listening to the buddhism so true to life 🙏

[@Madan_Thakur]

just what i needed right now...thank you so much...now i am feeling better after watching this Happiness is inversely propertional to expectations.. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻😊

[@christine8203]

Thank you for your wise words. They helped clarify my approach to a particular situation right now. Grateful for this moment which shows up as it should - for a purpose! 🙏

[@anonyhisoka]

Thank you so much for your amazing perspective.. you are truly making a positive impact on so many people.. Lots of love to your channel !

[@namrtachakarwartivlog5390]

I watch everyday your videos because your thoughts is very helpful my life is totally changed and i am so happy ... Changing is more important in our life😊

[@southsidecustoms17]

I’m 23 and don’t know where my life is going. This video helped change my perspective on things. Amazing video

[@georgiafrancis9059]

Honey, I'm 80 and I can absolutely tell you that you don't have any idea where your life is going! In fact it's an understatement! You have no idea how absolutely wonderful life is when you let it open for you. Decide what you want to do to make a living and let God take it from there. I came close to ending my own life before I was 30. If I had been successful I would have miss traveling to over 50 countries, and having my own successful business. The exciting part is that everyday is a new day! Enjoy!!!

[@southsidecustoms17]

@@georgiafrancis9059 will do. Thanks

[@lavanyaramesh238]

🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much .. I'm so blessed to watch this.. Namo Buddhaya..🙏

[@LC-xx9re]

Simple yet so powerful if fully actualised! Thank you for your kind words of wisdom

[@deesticco1719]

Yes, If people act thru’ their lenses it is not you or nothing to do with yourself! It is their sanskar! Radiate compassion to those who criticize, & are opinionated ! Obviously they are not happy with themselves! 💓🙏🏼

[@elizabethotoo638]

I always live most of my life on your advice because am a listening person. Txks ✋

[@diamante3924]

His energy is so soothing

[@rajarajeshwarirajarajeshwa4987]

Namo buddhay 🌺 Thank you for today's video 🙂

[@shuklamonibarua3469]

Thanks for moving forward Buddhism through your outstanding ritual speeches 🙏🙏🙏

[@wicramarajashinghe7302]

නමො බුද්ධාය 🙏 Thank you for English sermons May you be blessed with health and long life Blessings of Buddha 🙏

[@nethmiwalisundara4265]

I remember I requested for a vdo like this one day! ❤️✨ Tysm Venerable I was in need of this! 🙏✨. Grateful to the universe and god saw this today. Hopefully this made me day will share this with ones who need this like me. Namo Buddhaya!!!! 🙏💖✨

[@estilonlh8231]

Thank you, this really saved me I have been rejected by many things that I truly put efforts on but didn't get the success from those things.

[@christinemaddy6164]

Listen to good things our hearts r alway peace Listening to your good teachings Buddha Really cannot expectation too much then our lives will be less sufferings that's we should understand 🙏💟

[@ceciliadeparis7317]

Thank you for the explanation of changing perspective in one moment in our life

[@goal83]

* Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control* .....literally this line...changed my mindset....and now i feel i can deal better with anxiety issues having most of times becoz of my whole class (classmates).....I'M GLAD THAT IM CONNECTED WITH CHANNEL

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Thank you, I have been blessed to find your channel and you are a part of my daily routine now.🙏

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Namoo buddaya 🙏🏻🌹

[@floriankrone]

I love these messages 🙏🙏

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Hands off u sir... Ur d amazing motivation speaker.. Well adviser ☺💫

[@kvngode22]

This is true words of wisdom thank you!🤗

[@angelodalpadado5240]

Thank you Bante Your smile shows how calm & collective you are, your teaching greatly appreciated

[@missspandana7705]

I really can't believe initially . The love and kindness which you are spreading is massive.🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐🕊️🕊️🕊️

[@manjaripeiris9908]

I sleep very few hours. The rest of the time in the night I listen to these sermons. Superb.

[@Lion_King_143]

I am a Catholic but I listen to this.... it gives me new perspective. And what he is saying is actually true. You can never go wrong with listening to words of wisdom and do implement it into your life. Expect to Fail but rise up again. In this way, we all learn from our mistakes but gain more wisdom along the way.

[@KVVijay-ol8oy]

Thanks a lot for that wonderful explanation. Om Namo Buddhaya

[@riyasoni7050]

Namo buddhay. Respected sir how do I not expect from other person. And just be on my own and accept everything that is happening in my life

[@overlord3499]

Thank you for the wisdom. 🙏❤

[@edm5166]

Thank you. Life owes you nothing so seek the greatness you encounter as is treasure 😊... Wonderful

[@davecameron5355]

Thank you for your kind and wise words. Your advice is always so pertinent and practical. May your life be peaceful.

[@BeingMe-zi7xu]

Yes ❤️❤️❤️ thank you ..I would like to know how to grow yourself in a neg environment and what should b our approach towards self life🙏🙏

[@necyescuro400]

I'm new subscriber. I love your teachings . It guides me. Thank you so much.

[@souvik_98]

I was suffering very stressed in since some days but after watching this video l feel better .. Thank you so much 😊❤

[@tdkeditz7331]

Namo Buddhaya. Everyday I hear and I can see all the answers whenever I start thinking and when I feel sad.swamiji you are stopping me to think and do anything which is against our Karma when someone hurts me mentally. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏

[@judethomas4216]

Thank you Buddha for this message. I wish this message to be spread worldwide to people who need it and May God bless everybody always🙏🙏❤️❤️🤲🤲

[@gglin5595]

Yes, expectations are killing us.. you are right , expectations are suffering 😢 😔

[@AwakeningAscendancy]

This is one of the most valuable videos I've ever seen. Will listen to this again and again ❤❤❤❤

[@poulamichatterjee9920]

Your words are so inspiring.. whenever I am in a tough situation your sayings inspire me a loooooooooooooot..Lord Buddha's preaching is really very good to hear in order to enable our thought process to be executed according to the situation. Thank Uuuuuuu soooooo much 😊

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Thank you so much sir Such a wonderful timely message 🙏🏻

[@rachellata715]

Thank u so much … heard this at the right moment 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@benpeng9775]

I feel more comfortable,my heart feel more peaceful and calm after listening your speech,Gold bless you

[@monikaturkar7097]

Namo budhhay....the most essential teachings I got from this ...if things are not going in your way jst change your perspective this seems so simple but it got so much deep to understand and I my case I m suffering with my studies and it's doable situation I can do about this...I analyse where I m lacking and also realised that each day shouldn't be same always so don't expect too much to be every coming I can feel that energetic...so accept that and find what can uh do about that situation

[@jhancyrahulpleaseuf319]

Thank you sir for your great teaching

[@anjaoldnettle2841]

It is true, I once in my live experienced exactly what you describe. This was the Golf war. We in Germany almost all were depressed, because we grew up with our recent fascist history and we were suffering a war was there again. I lived in Hanover, went to school, had to Referate, usually shy, I did not care. I had been sitting crying, talked in front of the class, sat down and went on crying. A male teacher who taught type writing for a colleague, broke down crying over the type writer. Finally in another class the teacher said, o.k. You can all go outside and join the protest. Walling within the large groups brought some relief as long as we were there. At home my friend and I continued what we did those days! We talked about it, watched TV about it, for the first time in our young life, we could not sleep, for the first time we bought wine, drank it before going to bed, in a way we never did before, to become in a mood where we just knocked out, which was for us both together a half bottle of wine. We woke up again, because that is no real sleep. In the morning we stood up very early to sit in front of the TV, suffering and listening to the horrors that happened. After some weeks I said to my friend, you know what, we will ignore what is happening because we cannot change anything. What if we turn out the TV and read books, go for a walk. We were living in a kind of nightmare, but we were not forced to. We were healthy and outside in our town there was peace. We had good people around us and friends. We changed our reaction to what happened. We slept at night again and felt better. I still think, if one could change bad things that happen, it would be our duty to do what we can. As there was really nothing we could do, it was what helped us. Thank you very much for your advice and kindness. Again a time we all suffer.

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[@krishnasuman9920]

Thanks a lot ...🙏🙏 Your thoughts are extremely appreciable...after listening your thoughts life feels very easy ..and also give me the right Perspective towads any kind of Situation and People as well .. I appreciate to u with.. pure ... heartedly

[@explorebengaluru4736]

Don’t know I usually don’t watch videos more than 2 mins. But this one I watched till end. Very true.

[@M.Ojha9435]

Thank you Namo Buddhaya

[@chamilaniresha3457]

What a beautiful thoughts 🙏

[@a.s2118]

Dhamma is truth. So simple and logical. Thank you for sharing it with tenderness. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏽

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Anumodhana Bhante 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 From Indonesia , NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@sunshinewithin435]

Thank you Venerable one, great piece of advice, common logic as Buddha sees it 🙏 Namo Buddhaya 🙏

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[@katylew4426]

Thank you so much to take the time to made the videos and teaching us. The videos are short and have so much wisdoms. We need this channel to continue teaching more Buddha Wisdoms. I love this channel so much and listing it every day. It made me feel peace. ❤❤❤❤Namo Buddha.🙏

[@moubanimohanta5657]

Sir your positive words really help me a lot to change my perspective about the situations which are not under my control. Thank you so much 😌🙏

[@skincaregirl2962]

He has a charming smile. God bless you monk

[@shardachaudhary5378]

Thank you🙏 sir. For the video Please🙏 make video everyday your wisdom make our life easy.

[@sukanyabarua1231]

Take my respect Vante 🙏🌹 It's really hard to control the mind. Hope I will control myself and positive thinking. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🌹

[@Mrbrbusby]

Indeed the mind is fickle and wavering. But like a tortoise retreating into its shell, in due course, so too the mind will be brought under ye control.

[@user-mwreixqw]

Sending you prayers and blessings 🙏💐💐

[@veenarajendra1747]

You make it all sound so easy and simple. Hope we get to follow your words 🙏🏼

[@medicofavourite3884]

J Yaa this is absolutely right & me personally experienced it more expectations becoming a reason of depression , anxiety,

[@gabrielr8642]

if nothing goes your way then stop trying too hard and relax then it may start going your way either through that thing you wanted or through another door. If you want to come out of a difficult situation then you relax like the Chinese finger trap - the more you struggle to escape the harder it gets. You dont run away from your suffering but you remain with it quietly and listen, from that comes the flash of insight - in the last moment the tides can change. The ancient greeks called suffering as passion and passion is energy. There is great energy in it.

[@RadhaRani-iw2yb]

Very good master. Whenever you are guiding us like you feel the situation nd flow in that situation.great sir.thanks.

[@seoservicesspain]

Simple, yet so powerful and enlightening! Thank you.

[@yaharagayathri8937]

🌍🙏🙏🙏 one of the great message to whole world.

[@Mrbrbusby]

Bhikku is like the coolest guy on KZbin. ☸️🕉