When someone is more introverted than you

When you are forced to be the extrovert
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[@FrankJames]

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[@EshamPlayz]

ok

[@thuylinhhha]

🤩

[@qqq141]

grah grah bow

[@oneandonly.mwahaha]

Why do you hit the truth so hard 😭😂

[@mahirturkey]

Being a smart introvert is better than being a stupid extravert who turns to be an introvert in the end.

[@hopesilver5132]

if I see another scared timid introvert struggling I immediately become the alpha introvert and attempt to assist them.

[@amitypuff]

as the scared timid introvert, you are a hero to us

[@thegeorgianlady7476]

Alpha introvert 😂

[@ramune_flowers]

Alpha introvert is my new favorite word

[@villamiles]

😂😂😂 I like it

[@MariaFernandazz]

alpha introvert MJSKSJSKSJ😂😂 i can relate so much to it

[@nihilisticpancake308]

*Being with an extrovert like:* Please stop talking. Can't you take a hint. *Being with an introvert like:* Can you please say something you weirdo. I'm doing all the work here.

[@cniknik9863]

Perfectly put

[@menkae6708]

Literally my roommate

[@madao2794]

No i will be like "im grateful they're not talking too much"

[@osen9881]

@@madao2794 same

[@Armando.Krijnen]

I am ambivert!!

[@super-sizedmcshizzle6235]

I’m an introvert who once got placed next to another introvert even quieter than me but after some awkward silence we quickly became two of the loudest kids in class when we talked with each other and the teacher constantly had to shut us up 😂

[@phatcat3705]

That's hilarious, but can relate. As an introvert myself, when with another introvert, I'm somehow always the more social/louder one of us, and it's not unusual for that to rub off on the other, so we end up being the loudest and silliest.

[@anah.forrat]

Saaaame! I'm a really friendly introvert, I like to make friends (even tho I'll be reeeeally needing some alone time later lol) so sometimes I sound just like a shy extroverted to someone who's more shy or quiet than me. And the giggling get so loud lmao there's nothing more exciting than two introverts getting excited about something!

[@aliyakrebs8754]

I love your profile pic Leo

[@MarRayRay1996]

My voice carries and I think it’s because my siblings are all extroverts and I was the quiet one out of 11 kids

[@davidbolu7179]

I can definitely relate to this lol

[@ZHEER]

Social anxiety does not equal introversion. It took me a really long time to learn I had social anxiety and I wasn't an introvert. The internet's false view of introversion really contributed to my problem. I hope people in the same situation as I was in figure this out. Social anxiety is really a bitch and the sooner you begin treatment the better.

[@hakoonamartata]

Agree 100%

[@VioletMiracle]

It's true. It's ironic how self-proclaimed "introverts" are the ones to never fucking stop broadcasting things about themselves everywhere. Most of them are really socially deprived extraverts.

[@beinformed3607]

How are you treating that?

[@lizvillegas6603]

So true. I'm an introvert (I get drained by social interaction and need to recharge by being alone) as well as shy, but the social anxiety I had in my teens was a different thing entirely! I couldn't do anything in public without feeling terribly self-conscious. Luckily it's something that I've (mostly) overcome through the years, with good environments and conscious effort.

[@ZHEER]

@@beinformed3607 Medications, therapy, personal efforts.

[@timefliesaway999]

When you meet a more introvert person and suddenly feel like you became the master of small talk, although you’ve only asked one question.

[@graceyfreeman2502]

For real ahahaha

[@taurusrohxane6432]

That is soooo relatable :')

[@letshaveanormalname6325]

Yesss hahahah

[@awkwardmyrtle]

Or you feel like an interviewer from all the stupid questions you ask in a desperate effort to get a conversation going

[@walkingbycommentvideo8265]

True

[@mid0rri411]

“is this how other people feel when they talk to me?” accurate asf

[@watovit]

Dude yes

[@riri-sj7lu]

I’m scared- the part played exactly when I read this 🧍‍♀️

[@hirzaahmadmutahari6987]

Cant relate, no one talk to me first

[@acharich]

😩🤣😩

[@alyssaromero7470]

Frrr 😭

[@Nutella27Rimi]

"I will do all the work and you can do the talking" super accurate

[@willowingwhispers2612]

I had a science teacher in high school who quickly realized I was uncomfortable working with other people when it came to projects. One day, he sat me down before class started and asked if I would prefer to handle projects alone and I said yes. I was so relieved when he agreed and then realized how grateful I was. He was the only teacher in all twelve years of school to notice and accept the fact I just didn't do well in groups. He handled it professionally and respectfully. I don't know where he is now, it's been over ten years since I graduated, but I wish him the best and hope he's doing well.

[@josren]

He’s really doing you a disservice. You will need to work well with others in the real world

[@willowingwhispers2612]

@@josren As someone who is 30 and works in the real world, I can tell you no, he didn't do me a disservice. His class was one I did better in. I work with people perfectly fine at both of my jobs, but in school, I never excelled at working in groups. Working in the real world is different than doing a group project in school.

[@JWildberry]

Oh god, I misread the first part, and though he made you sit in front of the class when he realized you had problems with it. I'm so glad it was the opposite!

[@JWildberry]

​@@josren People who dislike working in teams or with a partner tend to choose jobs where they don't have to sit on top of other people for extended lengths of time. "Working well with others" at a job just means being polite and helpful when someone requests something, always answering your mails/phone fairly quickly, and being punctual about showing up and finishing tasks. Since a lot of introverts don't want to be a bother to anyone, others usually enjoy working with us because we're easy to deal with. Polite and no drama.

[@morticiaheisenberg9679]

What an awesome teacher❤️

[@xem_ity]

“I have become the thing that I swore to destroy...”

[@meisterhase3587]

I love you and I love Star Wars

[@giuliapasanisidefoscarini]

you can’t take me down

[@toumbryth7862]

I have the high ground.

[@Bigjizay]

Don't lecture me Obi Wan!

[@meisterhase3587]

@@toumbryth7862 You underestimate my power!

[@Hello-yh5xo]

Yellow shirt guy made a bold move to go over there by himself instead of waiting for the teacher to do this.

[@Arkynkili]

My thought exactly. 🤣

[@dragoncult666]

Yup, ain't happening!

[@MrCaradePanque]

That requires nerves of steel.

[@zerzavy]

Had the teacher said his name out loud in front of the class he would have been the center of attention smart introvert play only real introverts understand

[@Arkynkili]

@@zerzavy True, that is also awful, but still slightly less intimidating. Oh, and it's not a matter of being a "smart" introvert or whatever the opposite of that is that you're implying. Gtfo with your ego trip, pal. 😂

[@CantEscapeFlorida]

it's great when you meet an introvert on your level and you are both in sweet sweet blissful silence.

[@rajendradangi2585]

1000000000% true.

[@Mizrob10]

And you only speak when necessary.

[@babooshka-it4cv]

cant realte ;(

[@schwarzemilch]

This is so funny...The body language is perfect, the avoiding of eye contact, th editing. Brilliant!! 😂

[@StephanieRZ]

I laughed too 😂🤣🤣🤣 the bit about one-upping him over going to the hospital from falling onto the floor by hitting his head during presentation 🥴😂

[@alejandrovalenzuela2228]

Yeah but I h8 the arquetypes he's portraying so I've mixed feelings

[@RealSaudiExplorer]

When someone is more introverted than you, you are automatically more extroverted. You feel like a leader.

[@SingingSuperstar28]

I'm starting to wonder if the same thing happens to extroverts 🤔 Guess we'll never know

[@SneakyWarriorCat]

Yeah i know you feel good about it, your profile told me

[@adhaujang4894]

@@SingingSuperstar28 it does. I have a friend that is more extroverted than me, then I become a quiet person 😅

[@SingingSuperstar28]

@@adhaujang4894 We have solved the mystery guys! Thanks 😄

[@Lee-cr6xb]

Makes feel bettee yet frustrated sometimes xd

[@blainefiasco8225]

I've actually noticed that I'm less shy around other shy people.

[@alexandra9944]

XNFP here and lol same I turn into the most confident, outgoing, extroverted person around very introverted people. But if you put me next to loud extroverts I seem introverted

[@yomsha]

Yesssss me too ❤

[@newchapterasmr]

Me too! I turn into a hell of an extrovert which is VERY strange.

[@Multitudes_]

Same. They don't make me uncomfortable because I know they feel the same way, and my instinct then is to empathize and try to make *them* comfortable. (INFP)

[@icannotcomeupwithanything4609]

Hm. I am shy rounded a lot people. 😖

[@y.mma09]

"I dont really like small talk" "Is that what im doing" GOT ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR HAHSHAHHSHA As an introvert myself this is really accurate i literally HATE doing projects in a team and then presenting it in front of the class😭😭😭😭😭

[@NotDuncan]

This seems like an extreme mixture of introvert, anti-social and lack of self worth problems

[@mahbubsaite3079]

... ... ...

[@spoonman9584]

So a classic high school introvert. Or college.

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

that was my during middle school

[@vvoof2601]

@@spoonman9584 That's social anxiety.

[@deannaramirez7855]

Who’s Duncan

[@swan9721]

it's the worst feeling in the world when you realize the other person's expecting you to lead the conversation

[@apollopapadopoulos4226]

So true!!!!

[@Gandhi_Physique]

It isn't bad... But.. It is when they only give one word responses.

[@swan9721]

@@Gandhi_Physique yess like i at least try to be responsive when i’m talking to someone more extroverted

[@porple4430]

nah it's the best cause you're not intimidated by an extrovert

[@swan9721]

@@porple4430 but then you have to be the more energetic one

[@DragonriderEpona]

Don't you hate it when the silence is so awkward that you feel like you have to do small talk and act being the outgoing one? It's truly terrifying.

[@magei1613]

FOR REAL🙄🙄😒

[@marzipanmerci1068]

It is, but it's better to go through the wreck first to discover the mutuality & go smooth from that point on..

[@ynntari2775]

It's only awkward if you think it is.

[@JohnArden4444]

I really hate it

[@isah1911]

ugh yes

[@josereyes1148]

It's true. If someone is more introverted I all of a sudden feel like I'm a master conversationalist. It's crazy how relatable this is.

[@tarakeshpasupuleti558]

I am an INTJ. When I met an INTP, for the first time in my life I felt like someone is more introverted than me . This was the exact feeling that I got

[@maryamkhan7953]

Maybe you just didn't find the super niche and precise topic that unlocked his mouth.

[@babooshka-it4cv]

​@@maryamkhan7953YEAH, THAT... Is exactly how to get them talking :^

[@kiei8083]

But i thought that it was the other way around...

[@miriamrobarts]

@@kiei8083 There is a range of how introverted or extroverted each person is within any given personality type. I think this can overlap between similar types.

[@kiei8083]

@@miriamrobarts can you explain further by that?

[@rabidbunny2705]

“Is this how other people feel when they talk to me?” 😂😂😂

[@iaminevitable5696]

Is that true? In real.

[@kitten_doughma]

Yes exactly

[@raesita8476]

Yes, it is

[@AbanoubMG]

Read the comment while hearing him saying it at the same time.

[@aggie5668]

*I have become the thing that I dread.*

[@AnnikaJoy]

And then they start telling you you’re an extrovert just because you’re more extroverted than them

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

Yes! I was shocked to be described as an extrovert by one of my introverted friends, just because I *can* talk when I need to. Never mind that I spend the next few days needing solitude and quiet to recover! 🙄

[@gforce2002]

Exactly!!

[@mrsohara1]

Literally it’s so funny

[@angelpdg]

Exactly. I'm infp and I've been called ambivert / chat-extrovrt, face to face introvert 😐 because i talk to complete my tasks. They dunno how much im dying inside

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

That is a very good way of putting it

[@fevkaladeninfevki]

I think growing in a internet dominated era has its cons but young people being able to see/know that they are not the only one who struggles in some ways and even laugh about it is a blessing..i wish i had that when i was younger..

[@btu1734]

I love it when I get into an “introvert battle” and then I pull the “I once spent 10 hours in my room waiting for my dad to leave the kitchen so I can eat in peace.” True story btw. And yes I would do them again

[@Amanda-C.]

Okay, I'm having a hard time imagining a situation where that's funny and relatable. I have all kinds of questions about what it was like living with your dad, and I'm not sure if you were wanting to go in that direction at all, but that's exactly where I'm going.

[@shanewright4650]

You were waiting for him to leave? I normally pull out the "So far, I've been waiting 2 years for my dad to come back." So I guess I'm something of an extrovert myself

[@9to5Drone]

Why was he in the kitchen for 10 hours?

[@deboragenesis8831]

@@9to5Drone the true question 😂

[@Vibes4Life536]

Lol I do that too

[@ellybean7354]

It's so awkward. I'm thinking, Noooo I don't want to be the extrovert in this situation.

[@ella7513]

me everytime it's so annoying

[@rochisha9531]

Aah true!! It sucks 😓

[@LotusWaltz-Projects]

Haha this is so relatable

[@illigirl768]

Haha yup lol Though sometimes I don't mind :)

[@theLifewereLiving]

I actually like it cause it shows improvement in my social skills lol

[@superjune5756]

Now imagine being an extrovert and ending up in a room with someone so darn extroverted that you’re forced into a introvert roll and you just sit there and think: do I ever sound this obnoxious to my friends?

[@calminthewater6391]

I feel like most extroverts could *really* use that at least once in their life

[@superjune5756]

@@calminthewater6391 and most introverts need atleast once where they realise how annoying it is to hold any form of conversation with them since you carry the whole thing by yourself. One word replies are the bane of my existence 💀

[@McClotilde007]

Yep, happened to me.

[@vanessavalentin4304]

@@superjune5756 yesssss

[@-criedjupiter-8464]

@@superjune5756 we both need to get it together show me ur ways

[@lenamafalda]

I was in the same position with "Frank" character last year, when a friend of my mother's visited us with her daughter. Even though I'm usually quiet and I may ask introductory questions here and then, she (the daughter) was so quiet and reserved I would see myself as the only one breaking the silence and making questions to her.

[@meixichen2007]

I feel like this is a perfect capture of an INTP fighting an INFJ 😆

[@TheAmazingRoberto]

intp and infp fits more.

[@Lavu125]

"Is this how other feel when they talk to Me? " Such a mood

[@panlis6243]

You've become the very thing you swore to destroy

[@somethingbambi875]

Always feel sorry for all people that had to go through this with me, now that I know how it feels 😂 Never laughed this much!

[@notanartist9908]

To be fair, maybe the person just doesn't wanna talk to you. Nonetheless, this is a very real question I'd ask myself whenever. Lol

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

I would like to see blue shirt meet a guy that is more introverted than him.

[@susangarrett5808]

👏

[@jacobharris5894]

Susan Garrett They just wouldn’t say anything to each other at all. Maybe a unreciprocated hi 5 minutes in but that’s it.

[@susangarrett5808]

@@jacobharris5894😄 I know! 😶 👀 Just crickets Lol 👂😳

[@marzipanmerci1068]

He basically would just yeeted, especially if he couldn't be the one doing everything and have to be the one doing the presentation. Ghosting is easy

[@nanabaka2094]

Hell yess please

[@Carmen_JC]

I think is a good therapy and a good way to facing your insecurities being with people who are more shy and introvert than you. This forces you to talk more to follow the conversation and kind of makes you act like the extrovert of the group

[@simpleduck9799]

That first sentence he said was literally how I met my one of my first friends in high school. I spent a solid 5 mins building up the courage and structuring my sentence before I actually ask them to be my partner for the project💀

[@Rawt173]

"Is this how other people feel when they talk to ME?" Me: *sweating intensifies*

[@fergiemedina7856]

Omg same

[@oindrilaghosh8848]

Same here....

[@chaosdromanah8620]

........

[@eshadey8214]

This moment of realization is uncomfortable

[@chriper77]

Nah, the guy sitting down was just rude. You can be an introvert and not be rude

[@rachelleyeung]

"so my name is Frank" "uh, i don't really like small talk" *killed me*

[@mechengr1731]

And its not even small talk, its a societal norm 🤣🤣🤣 They have to state their names for the group project

[@booklovingpoet5942]

That shot triggered me for some reason

[@marzipanmerci1068]

He should have said *ASL?* instead, that'll be less intimidating or self-exposive 🤣🤣🤣

[@jamien.5528]

IS THAT WHAT IVE BEEN DOING?!

[@crystalsingh8327]

@@jamien.5528 😂☠️

[@xdeexquisitex]

So I ABSOLUTELY experienced this. I'm an introverted shy person with self esteem lower than Mariana trench and fear of people judging me. I could recently make amends with myself and increase my self esteem and be comfortable in my own skin and I started to want to get to know more people (also it's my first year in uni so I have a lot of opportunities to do so). I tried talking to this one guy and it was his first day so I thought I could have a nice and easygoing conversation with him but it turned out that he was more introverted than I was, and I didn't know what to say next because he wouldn't contribute to the conversation either. So I sat there, stressed, awkward and anxious. Now I wouldn't be this stressed because of silence normally but I REALLY wanted to have a long conversation with him and be his friend so I really wanted the conversation to go how I thought it would go in my head. Anyway now we just wave hi or bye or smile at each other if we catch each other looking and that's it. I'm still frustrated because I want to get to know him more but I just don't know how to so I'm just stuck in this weird space (which is probably only my overthinking and he might be perfectly fine with how the things are) being an INFJ doesn't help either haha ;-;

[@BknMoonStudios]

This happened to me a couple of times while I was still at school. I often found myself thinking "I don't want to start the conversation, but someone just _has_ to do it or nothing will ever get done."

[@StaubZuStaub]

Being a 9/10 introvert and meeting a 10/10 introvert is magical lol

[@markwright3161]

If I'm recalling correctly I think I 'scored' 98% in introversion or whatever you want to call it in the 16 personalities test. :) I don't think I'm as 'bad' (for want of a better word) as blue shirt guy though, having said that, it has been a while since I've been in a 'common' social interaction, over a year. Although, I probably am like blue shirt guy when I'm dealing with business people and need to make a decision I wasn't able to pre-plan my response for, like when they couldn't say exactly what was the cause of an issue I'm having with my car and threw me a 50:50 choice of what to fix, on the spot important decision making, personal nightmare. I just sat there for what felt like minutes staring at the steering wheel with them standing next to me waiting for a response, then I think I came up with 'I'll think about it', and it still isn't fixed a year later. Sorry for offloading. :)

[@belindawilliams4915]

@@markwright3161 I felt that in my soul.

[@Shrektopuz]

@@markwright3161 16 Buzzfeed tests?

[@shinysparce3708]

@@Shrektopuz no, there’s this one test on a site called 16personalities.com, it’s a personality test except it’s written by people who actually study this stuff, their studies say they’re are 16 types of personalities, hence the name. He didn’t take 16 buzzfeed tests lol he just took the one real one.

[@markwright3161]

@@shinysparce3708 Yep, that's it. I managed to miss your reply before replying to them myself. :) Just took it again to get to that page with the bars and percentages to make sure I was remembering it right when telling them about it. It has now suggested ISFJ-T vs INFJ-T previously, and 'only' 90% introverted now. I've always been close to the middle on 'energy' if I remember right, and current circumstances might be what has heightened 'observation' vs 'intuition' there, a certain inescapable negative reality that's been going on for a year now, for us anyway.

[@GopherwoodExpress]

I think if anyone was more introverted than me in school we would have just sat in silence and ignored each other.

[@mcd4370]

Correct

[@greatestsawes9712]

Love this comment!

[@sk61181]

Waiting so long for the other one to break the ice, that one day school itself was done.

[@MissDafne92]

Happened to me many times

[@evawambani7992]

Yes! Exactly... We'll just marinate in the awkwardness/silence till time's up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@senshino]

This is what i felt when i approached this senior i'm into. I've never seen him talk to anyone, and he likes doing his own thing in a quiet area with as few people as possible. Anyway.. i decided to talk to him, sat next to him, and then, i think to myself.. "Holy shit, is this how people feel when they're talking to me back then? So karma is real after all." When i said hi, he only looked at me for a few seconds.. 1.. 2.. 3 then continued doing his thing. Nah i didn't give up, i continued talking to him, it felt kinda nice tbh. After that i got his social media id, texted him, and he hasn't replied until now. I'm sad, but no reply is a reply so.. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[@t_a7923]

What happened...got the reply !!

[@senshino]

@@t_a7923 well.. unfortunately no. I texted him on December 6, and he read it after a few days. I was about to text him again then, but I'd hate to irritate him with my persistence. And besides that, i respect myself enough to not go after someone who clearly doesn't want anything to do with me, so it's all good now. Honestly, even if he doesn't like me in a romantic way, i would certainly love to be his friend tho, i'm just genuinely interested in him as a person :)

[@72Reshu]

With one of my friends it's hit or miss if she will respond. I once did the exact same thing to someone but never brought it up but neither did they. I could tell they were mad but I did not know how to start the conversation. I get real anxious at seemingly random points. I like to think I'm getting better at small talk and then it happens again.

[@MarioB-us6um]

I love how he says "i fade into the background sometimes..." So naturally 😂

[@Iku00]

"Is this how other people feel when they talk to me?" This hit close to home, actually no, it hit home way too hard, my house is gone now

[@sonny1524]

XD

[@derandere4356]

Dies that mean you have to be...OUTSIDE?!

[@panda22518]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😭

[@shaikhaali7447]

It hit home so hard that the the universe is now gone.

[@destroyerofworlds4663]

Like the big, bad wolf?

[@TumblinWeeds]

Other introvert: yeah I don’t really like small talk Frank: **I have become the very thing I swore to destroy**

[@eloghosa-esoheomoregie6863]

Lmao🤣🤣

[@svetabogush8266]

I was searching for this comment

[@rodoa.4466]

Many introverts hate small talk, but I think at some point we have made that as well unconsciously 😅😅

[@ygfamareliteralcrackheads.8432]

The heck‼️🤣

[@maxime2445]

It was said that you would destroy the sith not join them

[@furno2373]

This is so relatable I can relate to both characters

[@dhariniparker]

No one gets the pain of introverts when they have to talk , bear unwanted questions and noise of others

[@zombiemolly9711]

I thought if I took classes, I'd get better at it.

[@heyheyvicky1498]

When you're in a group of introverts who are even more shy than you and you become the one keeping conversations up - that identity crises hits hard!

[@Multitudes_]

Haha, for me situations like this are less of an identity crisis and more just discovering another side of myself that doesn't often come out - which only broadens and enhances my self-understanding. Embrace your complexity!

[@katannep7798]

Or you can embrace it. I once ran a church rummage sale with a group of people. The extroverted people all stood together talking, and me and a couple other introverts sat together in comfortable silence eating snacks

[@marzipanmerci1068]

@@Multitudes_ love that bright insight!

[@marzipanmerci1068]

Most of the time introverts joined hands pretty well and let everything went auto-pilot smoothly. The moment a controlling ones tried to take charge, it might throw off the balance and created a revolt instead. Even the revolt gonna be autonomously as well 😂

[@fatemakhanpurwala1473]

Yeasss

[@J.N.B801]

“I died” isn’t even an exaggeration presenting is scary af.

[@lorireed8046]

I went through my entire school years without EVER doing one presentation.

[@clouded1516]

@@lorireed8046 HOW

[@lorireed8046]

@@clouded1516 Can't explain it. Kid's were afraid of me and teachers just excused me. It was REALLY weird but I didn't care as long as I got my way.

[@lorireed8046]

@@clouded1516 Ohhh and I'm OLD ... that was the 1980's.

[@clouded1516]

@@lorireed8046 that honestly sounds awesome to me. The last time I had to stand up and talk in front of a class I cried the moment I stood there. Just burst into tears before I could even speak

[@misingleter3119]

“I have never been so uncomfortable by silence” answer: Because you’re not creating it

[@almuthasenkamp834]

This is just brilliant!! Thanks for sharing! I'm working as a teacher and sometimes do groupwork and presentations of students in class. I'm well aware that many people are not comfortable with this so I try to make it as easy as possible for them; esp. the presentations! There are many things you can do as a teacher to make people more comfortable with stuff like this.

[@WhisperAudiosASMR]

Oh my god. I finally see how people see me…I AM ENLIGHTENED

[@ksh1692]

How beautiful !

[@mcneilohara1463]

Stop butchering philosophical terms to fuel your rampant narcissism, roastie

[@aperson1009]

@@mcneilohara1463 Huh?

[@Benry1]

@@aperson1009 pay no mind to the angry middle schooler haha

[@feedmeastraycat8247]

so you just don’t talk? how weird

[@rochisha9531]

Fact: 99% of audience is introvert 😂 Edit: this comment is just made for fun, and is probably stupid... It's not based on any real life evidences! 😅

[@jeremysmith9694]

Did you know that 90% of people don't show up to a party they weren't invited to?

[@rochisha9531]

@@jeremysmith9694 😂 true!

[@azx9995]

@@jeremysmith9694 Wow! I didn't know that 10% of people were psychopaths.

[@ArcaneGinger]

I'm part of the 1% who isn't *lil dance*

[@xem_ity]

Yes, I’m 92% introverted and an intp-T

[@solim4161]

I seem so extroverted around my quiet friends but the moment a true extrovert comes around, I clam up and hide somewhere lol.

[@rachellemcculloch6411]

Thanks for making these videos! They express what I truly think deep down, therefore helping me understand myself better! Growing up I thought there was something wrong with me. Now I realize I'm just really introverted! 😅

[@gwyn7327]

“what is your name?” “i dont really like small talk” me af

[@carolinereadowl6271]

I wish the yellow shirt guy answered: "Ok, Idontreallylikesmalltalk, let's continue our work"

[@shreyasheen1116]

@@carolinereadowl6271 ahahahaha

[@ry8880]

Having conversations with other introvert is like: "I hate silence but I don't want to talk" "Wait, did I just talk this much?" "I can't believe what just happened, who am I?" 🤣🤣

[@a.t.1241]

Exactly🤣🤣🤣

[@cam9759]

INFP here: I'd practically die inside if I got told they would do all the work but have me present it. If I'm presenting I have to do all the work. It wont make sense to me otherwise plus I'd be speaking with the other person's words not my own. Which I don't want to do ever. I'm fine with group presentations but my part always runs longer than the rest of the group because I'm terrible at being concise.

[@donnawoodward3163]

Very disturbing and very funny🤭

[@ash3075]

Me and Most of my friends are introverted so this is literally exactly what every conversation is like

[@silenthill8312]

Agreeeeeeee

[@HaloHighlightz]

My guy admitted to pretending to be more introverted than me, so I was like while silence is nice, *somebody’s* eventually gotta talk!

[@calliebeaudette582]

This is me as an introvert who is not actually socially awkward (just feels like it). I can't tell you how many times people have found out I have social anxiety and they go "really? I would've never guessed". I sometimes wished I didn't have good social skills so I wouldn't be forced to be the presenter and have a panic attack every time.

[@mohamednaflan4361]

This isn't introvert, this is social anxiety.

[@alina-wh3he]

i think it’s a bit of both

[@ADeeSHUPA]

@@alina-wh3he uP

[@miss.random2235]

Basically me

[@miss.random2235]

Well not totally social anxiety because I have it I am not even able to say anything I will just agree and try to find ways to disappear on the time

[@strawbeary.6501]

i thought it was the fact that introvert people just don't like to talk to others and they made that decision

[@someonenotsomeone8450]

When I find a more introverted person I immediately act like an extrovert. You need me to raise my hand and point to you so you can answer the question you know? I gotchu. You want me to walk to the front of class to throw something away? I gotchu. You need me to be loud when your stomach growls so you aren't embarrassed? I gotchu. (Never-mind the fact that I couldn't even ask to use the restroom because I'm so scared.)

[@icewing202]

now im just imagining like, one day everyone wakes up and they're suddenly an extrovert through this logic, except one guy who is just the most introverted guy in the world

[@ChrissieL]

You're so thoughtful! Caring for someone can get us out of our comfort zone, but it doesn't really change who we are. It just makes us braver!

[@kaylebh7460]

Your my hero 😭

[@Ashwagur]

Omg YES!

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

Daaaamn that’s actually me

[@priscilla3215]

For some reason , when I’m around someone more awkward than me , I feel powerful

[@kacp6485]

Yep, that's pretty much how it feels, when you talk to an introvert😂 You know, everyone says how extroverts are annoying, but it's not much better even the other way around

[@reznovvazileski3193]

I mean in our defense though, we don't get to choose who decides to talk to us. The talker can decide at any point to end our misery and abort mission :')

[@aroobkhan1171]

Was there a time when you were introverted but then there was someone more introverted than you were, so you had to play the role of an extrovert and you’ve never felt more confident your whole life...? Cause same.

[@luffy123monkey6]

I m always confident, i just hate to talk

[@peterpeterson3385]

A few years ago, on the first week at my college we were divided into groups and a few groups had to hold a presentation for +100 people. I am introverted myself, but I don't really mind about public speaking etc. Our group was randomly chosen to hold a presentation and my partner did not come with me, so I had to hold it alone. I remember before I started my presentation I said 'it seems like my partner is missing' and a bit later I saw her in the audience and we had eye contact. After this I never saw her in our school, I think she decided to quit the school because of this.

[@tahimati6607]

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[@wildofamoon]

@@peterpeterson3385 i totally relate to her

[@bhagyshreetambe5060]

Omg same lol

[@aether1356]

There's a girl in my class who's about the same level of introvert as me, we sit together at lunch and scroll through our phones and don't talk, it's great. She was more introverted at the start of the year but I annoyed her up to my level

[@dawnmic.herring]

My best friend now was like that (I mean same, now when we hang out we probly look like extroverts haha), and now we're so chill and it's great.

[@silkorsilkie]

And then there's me. I always hated my school. I had no friends and was bullied in my class. Until one day I sat down with a book at my usual place, some stairs leading down to the cellar of the building. And then another girl came over, sat down at my side and quietly took out a book herself. It was the best 20 minutes of my life up until that point. Just quietly reading and enjoying the presence of each other. She became my best friend and we would do this for years, just sitting there, reading, or talking about literally anything. It even started to attract other people and we sometimes had 10 more or less random people at "our" place. That place, the stairsteps, it showed me that you don't have to be overly social or "extroverted" to find friendship and have a good time. Sometimes, you just have to sit down and read a nice book. P.s.: The "Iron fey" book series really stuck with me since then ;)

[@josephjoestar953]

I actually need this but I'm the kinda introvert that doesn't find other introverts easily so probably not anytime soon lol

[@aether1356]

@@silkorsilkie yo I loved the iron fey series, the author was my fav for a while

[@nothingness77]

Hahaha the way you expressed it was very funny

[@HealthandFitnessCentral]

Hey there! Loved your video on "When someone is more introverted than you!" It's so relatable, especially for us introverts. It's important to understand and respect each other's energy levels. Keep up the great work! 👍🏼

[@lyonkennedy4892]

These situations make me question if I'm an extrovert after all but an actual extrovert later pops up and clears my doubt

[@Daffodillon]

Introvert actually get well along with each other and look like extroverts when they spend time together

[@tamilarasi1981]

Yeah

[@baji_keisuke9232]

Any type of personalities get along but sometimes they crash wether it’s extrovert x extrovert, introvert x extrovert, or introvert x introvert.

[@x.0_o.x]

You only think you're an extrovert until the extrovert actually tells you

[@Noah-og6ll]

Nope, only if u know each other for long time

[@liseegeskov8769]

Nah. Me and my good freind are both introverts so i end up trying to make conversation with her. In the end we look like strangers that have to work together.

[@tealovinggeek2192]

As an introvert who only starts talking really around her friend group of a whopping two people who are also introverts, I vibed with yellow-shirt Frank and felt reeeeally uncomfortable.

[@stampysquid53]

Social introverts scare me. Some of us introverts are just so much more comfortable in their head around other people than they are bouncing ideas. laksjfoahsdfophasd;fnaweoihfwpqafdf

[@lavandulanepetoideae149]

If you are talkative around other person you're not introvert .you are ambivert

[@leoteodia.6952]

In my case if I'm with someone more introvert I don't say anything either xd Just a few sights

[@franciscoancer2618]

Do those two people include you?

[@user-fp8pg9xb7q]

@@lavandulanepetoideae149 Well people never know that even I didn't know it before, so I am still an introvert. I am not an expert but I found this comment really uncomfortable.

[@rana6_]

and then they refuse the fact that you're an introvert too. i've doubted myself several times just because of them I CAN LITERALLY TALK TO SOMEONE CONFIDENTLY ONLY IF THEY'RE MORE INTROVERTED THAN ME.

[@ari3lz3pp]

"I died and had to be rescucitated.. twice". Lol 🤣 I relate to being more comfortable around another introvert than being caught by surprise that I'm making small talk. 😁 There are two people recently that I think have friend potential but they are also more introverted and avoidant. So....... You know.

[@mitsuzawa]

A : "hi" B : "hi" A : "how r u?" B : "im fine... thank you" A : "good" And thats the whole conversation

[@kyupified2440]

Yea lol, and still get tired of it

[@-criedjupiter-8464]

Sometimes if im being generous ill ask them “and you?”

[@dude2410]

@@kyupified2440 yea bro, now u'r really exagarating

[@greatwavefan397]

Don't forget sheepishly smiling at the person and barely lifting your hand to wave before you leave.

[@andrel9850]

@@dude2410 no really that conversation can be really tiring depending on the person

[@kathy04]

"Group study" =the disgusting thing ever. "Seeing everyone group studying except thyself"= the MOST disgusting and disturbing thing ever.

[@Jaechhetai]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@eloghosa-esoheomoregie6863]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kathy04]

@Fy. A **Socrates wants to know your location**

[@jdcv17]

Flashbacks! My friends back in school are all introverts except one but they all gather for a group study before exams while I silently stay in one corner.

[@acharich]

😅😅😅

[@xCupidPanda]

i also feel i have to be talkative when i meet someone who's more introverted than me.. the awkward silence between talks is so relatable... its like a simulation in your head before u speak it out

[@umaizasfunactivities7478]

I am actually the most introverted person I know. If I was in that situation, I'd just be doing all the work quietly while ignoring the extroverts chattering next to me.

[@Kennymay912]

"What's your name?" "Listen, I don't like small talk." That's so funny!😂😂

[@abinayaelil574]

"I need to know your name" "Why"🤣

[@Kspachannel]

Lmao why is this me 😂

[@abinayaelil574]

@@Kspachannel I wish I could say those replies out loud 😅

[@danielperales3958]

Once I was talking with a man, (assuming I'm underage XD) and we were so focused on the topic (factorials) that we just skipped completely the small talk part XDDDD. Best talk I've ever had in life.

[@ruatfelachhakchhuak7823]

When my classmate ask me my name, i always consider its small talk. If im correct, i swear one dude in my class ask me where i live more than 10 times throughout the year cuz that's all he can find to ask me.

[@joelizena7604]

Plot twist: They became best friends and Frank is the comfort extrovert

[@kitjrose]

♡♡♡♡

[@San-lh8us]

what is a comfort extrovert?

[@yuuri9064]

@@San-lh8us I'm assuming it refers to (introverted) people who will act extroverted to make someone else comfortable, like yellow-shirt Frank is doing here. I wonder if it also applies to introverted people who might, say, ask a question on someone's behalf.

[@joelizena7604]

@@yuuri9064 yeah, that's what I was referring to. As you say, It's a person who acts as an extrovert to make people feel good and comfortable. I've only heard this term to refer to extroverts, it can also be applied to introverts, though :)

[@christinamasih4540]

That's actually what happens

[@leahbaer11]

I really hate when introversion is conflated with shyness or anxiety. It’s not at all the same. I am introverted but not shy and have no problems speaking to other people or in public. It is simply that I prefer not to seeing as I get my energy from being by myself and that sucks a lot of energy. They are completely different. I wish more people spoke to this.

[@ravenregards]

Yes, I was always mistaken for being shy or quiet. I was often quiet, but I don't consider myself shy. Being an introvert is sometimes more of a personality trait. Sometimes you just like silence. I don't like noise and constant chatter becomes noise to me. I also like to think a lot so I prefer solitudinous activities. I'm fine with lone walks on the beach or solo bicycling.

[@Khan-gz9ih]

I am introverted and can usually be very good friends with extroverted people. They like to talk, and I like to listen. However, I have one very close friend, who is a double extra introvert. When I am with him it is so silent and even when we talk it is always a very short conversation😂

[@tarae6587]

no name: yeah, i don’t really like small talk... frank: *IS THAT WHAT I’M DOING???*

[@marzipanmerci1068]

Should have asked "how do I write down your name, you know, for submitting the assignment?"

[@I_Am_Kosh]

I read this as that part played.

[@kyurei4478]

Giving your name is already too much. Lmfao

[@2013Flora]

I met my girlfriend like that. She's my wife now-

[@thecyclopsofrainbowleaf]

Congrats

[@sereyhuot5811]

That’s cool 😜

[@z.284]

Awww! Cool😍

[@sarahsamreen3526]

Cute💞 and ARMY! 💜

[@kaptansimav1710]

Does she know that ;)

[@stolra]

This is basically me and my friend. I’m an introvert who doesn’t talk around others unless we’re friends. My friend is also an introvert, but he talks even less around others and is still kinda shy around me. It’s funny how we’ll be talking and it’s pretty normal (although I talk a little bit more), but as soon as we’re in some sort of group we both never talk.

[@Ritercrazy]

I laughed so hard I teared up. Oh so funny. And the further remarkable thing is, I was laughing so hard with you mostly just sitting there as either character saying little. Now that's talent!

[@tylerhawley4012]

This made me realize that being socially incapable isn’t actually inherent to introversion.

[@infernusblack9924]

Alas that difference makes no difference to me (I have both)

[@goldenapple3952]

Many people dont realize that and thats why theres so many introverts all of a sudden

[@drunkcroissant]

thank you. i always felt so weird because i’m an “introvert” and i can’t have constant social interaction and need to recharge, but i also love socializing when i have the energy.

[@tudornaconecinii3609]

Think about it this way. The life experience of an introvert with poor socializing skills: This sucks a bit but hey I wouldn't have gotten much out of socializing anyway. The life experience of an extrovert with poor socializing skills: This is torture.

[@pleasetf7214]

@@goldenapple3952 Yeah, people think introvert = shy, extrovert = social/confident when really: Introvert = loses energy from social interactions, extrovert = gains energy from social interactions. I'm an introvert but I'm not a shy person, I'm into public speaking and on a debate team. I just feel really drained after being around people and if I had the choice I would live out the rest of my life alone on an abandoned island lol

[@fleurierosa3284]

This is literally INFJs around the introverts cuz we don’t want to make the situation feels awkward 😅😂

[@juliannahikaru9912]

*FACTS.*

[@jeronimselles7840]

and INFPs

[@arch3mi_22]

Yep

[@helgaioannidis9365]

Sempre Forza Roma 😁❤️ and yes,I agree

[@shaii1874]

So true 🤦

[@zarahesari5599]

INTJ: When I saw a class mate same as me , I realised how annoying I was. I started to behave like a extroverted,and be nice to people.

[@Megan-lr2hx]

Spot on! How do you remember how introverts act? Seeing your video, did bring back some of those experiences.

[@StephanieJeanne]

😆 I've had project partners like no- name guy! It is unsettling when you have to become the outgoing one.That was very funny!😭👏👍

[@MrCaradePanque]

🤣

[@seasons1146]

This is me in discord. 😂✌ im the no name person.

[@mrsohara1]

LITERALLY

[@StephanieJeanne]

@@seasons1146 😂✌️ I'm scared of that! Don't you have to talk in there? And/or be seen? 😱💀

[@seasons1146]

@@StephanieJeanne nono its a personal choice if you wanna be in the call room or not. Also just so you know discord was so toxic to me. I dleted the app and left cuz everyone kept asking me about my real name and i was so annoyed. I was called autumn there. They all bullied me so i just left. But in real life in most of my middle school and junior high i was the no name kid. 😂✌

[@rantallaboutit]

I'm definitely less shy around introverts. Though I'm an introvert I still have a dominant personality, so when I'm around quiet introverts I feel inclined to take initiative because somebody's gotta do it and if I do not nothing will get done. 😂😂

[@elliamaris]

That's exactly how I am 😂 I've had to be the "leader" when it comes to group projects with fellow introverts lol

[@shabyheltay]

Totally me. And secretly mortified around real extroverts 🙈

[@erinyes3943]

It’s like when someone is too nervous to go get ketchup and suddenly I have a burst of bravery.

[@bananagomm]

@@erinyes3943 BURST OF BRAVERY TO GET THE KETCHUP LMAO

[@blackmoon4559]

@@erinyes3943 omg... noooOOOOO😂

[@Houssy213]

This is absolutely me 😂 The first time I see your channel You're great bro 💪

[@zoeorchid]

I am a *very* extroverted ENJT, and yes, all you lovely introverts, this is how we feel around you.

[@tiagoferguson632]

You mean you feel like the guy in the yellow shirt or the blue shirt:)?

[@jennyneon]

*Technically, it's the perfect time* for social anxiety to slide in the conversation.

[@curiouschildalways8991]

And this social anxiety turns you to be an extrovert..😪😪

[@evazavaleta1996]

What nobody noticed was the 3rd introverted guy who was so introverted that the guy in yellow sat on him, thinking the chair was empty 😭😭

[@LittleMsGhostgirl999]

This is a joke right? I had to re-watch just to be sure 😂

[@whereswaldo5740]

He sat in front of him all year. And he didn’t see him.

[@samanthaalbergottie]

Yo thats a real thing....

[@koreanbigminion7895]

Wait what?

[@engenes761]

@@LittleMsGhostgirl999 LMAO same

[@SageBerry01]

When I meet someone who’s quieter and more fearful than me, I get a little jealous and then quickly turn from jealous to willing to help them out. I go from “God, I thought *I* was the quiet one..” to “Wait, they’re like me! I should talk to them.” Me: “Hi!” **Strikes up a conversation** Them: **Ends up being the most interesting and cool person ever** Me: “SCOREEEEE”

[@Enderlight_6061]

*"Finally a worthy opponent, our battle will be legendary"*

[@maatuainen6208]

As a social introvert, I often find myself being "the leader" of the introvert study group or something, because nobody wants to take the lead. I hate being the leader, but I also hate that awkwardness when people are actually more introverted than me. So I have to save everyone from that point and just take the lead, it's the simplest way.

[@strayedtoofar5775]

Never have words resonated so much with my brain

[@aglurh]

@maatu INTJ?

[@Anonymous-qp5ot]

Me too

[@strayedtoofar5775]

@@aglurh INFP haha, but leadership traits run in my family.

[@Multitudes_]

Same, except I don't hate it. It rarely happens, and it's actually kind of a relief to be around people more introverted than myself for once, and interesting how naturally it comes to me to be 'the extrovert' in those situations when I hardly ever am otherwise. (INFP here.)

[@lowkeyweirdo9869]

" What is you name? " " - why? " Literally me all the time honestly ...

[@luks303]

Then you're lowkey weirdo ngl

[@fadhfadhlullah586]

@@luks303 i do that too

[@charnightt]

Nobody asks my name, but that's how I answer.

[@emilypiens2355]

hello why! how's your day?

[@lowkeyweirdo9869]

@@emilypiens2355 " Hello why! How's your day? " "- uggh.. Why? "

[@this_world_is_not_the_best]

Haa.. In those situations, I truly become a different personality and gain the confidence to lead the conversation. Its always a pleasant surprise for me to see myself that way.

[@maysha7836]

Anyone more introverted than me, i treasure them ❤️❤️

[@mercifulsamurai1]

The fact that an introvert said "this silence is getting awkward", just killed me

[@fiorellalescano]

I thought they could be good friends... 😔

[@BeckyPhelps]

@Fiorella Lescano Friendship is a lovely thing. Wasted opportunity, very sad. 💔 Think of all the traumas they could share. 😎

[@fiorellalescano]

@@BeckyPhelps I know, it breaks my heart. 😭

[@hacerkiilc]

The new abnormal❤

[@katydiaz6490]

Two introverts actually get along way better together

[@BeckyPhelps]

@@katydiaz6490 I agree with that for sure.

[@gardengarden1717]

like my desk mate and me. I really don't like talking to people, or rather I can't talk, but my desk mate doesn't talk at all. like never. Sometimes I feel like I can't breathe when I'm with her, I feel like I have to start the conversation in order to live. I'm a terrible speaker, but thanks to her, I think I've improved. and we became friends. we still don't talk to each other much but I think it's better. I'm an INTP and she is an INFP.