WHEN THE HEALING BEGINS

[@midgegerbich4259]

Thank you for posting daily & helping us remind ourselves that we weren't imagining ANYthing with the toxic ploys - the head games, miserableness, the toxic manipulation, gaslighting, the enabling flying monkeys, the deceptions, as well as the verbal (& physical) abuses. Your daily flowers are also a lovely support & they are wonderfully encouraging in starting the day off in the BEST way for *us!* Thanks again for your posts & helping us to help ourselves after so much negativity & bullying. Healing also means having healthy Others around Us, & I'm glad you're here too! Namaste! 💓🌺😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏☀️🙌❤️

[@janetroberts5140]

Peace, love and blessings to you Midge!

[@midgegerbich4259]

@@janetroberts5140 & to you as well! 💓😍🌺

[@saveliapapasavva2586]

You are not alone! God bless you!

[@midgegerbich4259]

@@saveliapapasavva2586 and you as well!

[@Ang-ie3qy]

Hey Andrew 👋.. After 3 month's No Contact.. My Healing has begun. I'm feeling better each day. Thank you so much for your video's. 💯🙏🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 🙌☀️💯

[@janetroberts5140]

Congratulations Ang!

[@denisguay4315]

Congrats Ang and all my hope of better days.

[@Eighties-Jadie]

Congratulations and that's fantastic news ☀️ hearing positive stories like yours makes me feel happy for you and also hopeful for my own future free from abuse since going no contact. Best wishes ❤️

[@prostyle1626]

A wise person said something to me about recovery time and I want to share it with you. Keep what you've gained while adding more to it.

[@Mikielike]

Thank you for being you Andrew ❤️

[@steveobaby6048]

When you block someone The healing begins you're at peace

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️😉💯

[@cindyg3396]

That's the key to true healing, blocking them.

[@LaceyMad]

Totally agree!👍

[@aimane3375]

Unfortunately, if the abuse was long term, you are far away from peace. To heal the brain has to feel safe and rewire itself back to creation and deep sleep a relaxed state. Which is good new because this is a new chapter in your life where once you start being mindful and spiritually surrender yourself to god and have faith.

[@daljitvirdi1024]

I'm getting educated on this topic but as I'm still going through this situation I feel the real healing starts when your completely done with the narcissist. 😊💖🌟🙏.

[@mayanchetrit9240]

Narcissus opens our old wounds, he came so that you learn your strength and learn not to judge ourselves and understand what love is

[@cindyg3396]

Yes, I was trained as a child to take abuse because my Dad was an abusive alcoholic and back in the 60's you didn't leave your husband, you stayed. Me, my brothers and sisters begged my Mom to leave him. He would lock us out of the house to beat my Mom. No cops were called back in those days, the neighbors did not get involved. Everyone knew what went on in our home. My grandparents knew. Noone said anything to my Dad. THERE WERE NO BOUNDARIES. No wonder I picked out a Monster and put up with him for so long. IT STARTED THE DAY I WAS BORN IN MAY 1960 WHEN I WAS BORN INTO A TOXIC FAMILY.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing.. ☀️💯🙏❤️

[@1Tmally3]

❤🙏🕊

[@gratefultobehere]

Thank God you're out and educated! I'm thinking your story has some duplicates in here girl...we're getting healthy and setting a new standard for the future. No tolerating abuse and no more being silent.

[@emilywilson7308]

God bless you!

[@livingforfree2]

💚💚💚

[@terrirobson9043]

I love "If not now, when?" Great motivation for someone who has been a giver/doormat and found themselves "stuck" over and over. The time is now. Ok. Thank you so much.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💪💯🙌🙏

[@דיהפלדמן]

I wish you a beautiful life ,🎯❤️

[@detjaggillar8081]

Exactly 💯

[@wendyhannan2454]

This is excellent, one of your best. It so resonates with me. Take care every one. As Andrew said, we are not in this alone, 🙏

[@FieryKTarot]

It's a HARD pattern to break. It's hard to learn to identify when you are giving and shouldn't be in the first place much less to break the addiction to that behavior.

[@clarerameka1462]

Thankyou Andrew. 4 years free now of 15 years of being gaslit, manipulated and ignored when out socializing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@danielbelcher2700]

Excellent content. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯😉🙏

[@jandjohnsonpi]

Thanks for talking about these people. They all have the same personality and now it’s very easy for me to spot one walking my way. It’s very powerful saying no.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@Lucy.S]

You're being my lifesaver, i need to listen to this everyday. Thank you♥

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@tinablok5700]

Dear God, please liberate me from the evil and let me live, laugh and love again! Thank you Andrew for your great help! 😎

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@noku_nz]

I come first, second and third from now on 🤗

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯🙏

[@rachelluxton9226]

I’m finally out of my toxic relationship! Thank God!!! And I thank you, Andrew, for helping open my eyes. I thought I was crazy.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏💪🙌😊

[@cobwebafternoon3737]

Congratulations Rachel! Welcome to your healing path! 💛❤💜

[@gumbikim5454]

Narcissists make you go crazy. They are insane; they're a psyscho. My Narc turned me into a worldwide crazy woman. He goes to my school, and he even spread rumors throughout the whole school and now everyone thinks I'm crazy. I still can't believe someone who looks so angelic on the outside turned out to be a narcissist. He's hoovering me for another round of cats and dogs. I went through a decade of it; I hated it.

[@zulemaflores1234]

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

[@casperinsight3524]

Blessings to all those who have the capacity & resilience to remain narc free 🙌 Cheers to living authentically you 😎😘

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💪💯

[@synesthesiafilms]

Thank you! Such good video this time. Blessings are coming your way.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌😊

[@chp6489]

You are absolutely correct ! What works as a child , does not work when you are an adult. Those tools are obsolete ! It took me turning 58 this year to understand this! On my third month “no contact” with the Nac in my life! Thank you so much for educating us with the truth! We are all lucky to have this channel!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💡💯🙏😉☀️🙌😊

[@1Tmally3]

❤💯🙏🕊

[@thebigh9324]

It can be a very LONELY journey at times , as others don't understand and may misjudge you ! Thankyou Andrew for giving all of us a refuge of hope and possibilities !! 😎🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯😉🙌😊

[@KL-pq3mz]

Healing takes a lot but it is worth it. 3.5wks of no contact. It’s been very hard, but it is so important to find my own self worth after all of the shenanigans and abuse. No more ppl in the circle who can be harmful. They can and will steal every single ounce of joy you have. 💯💝

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Regaining your power after a toxic relationship is the biggest part of healing, especially since we’ve gotten so used to being controlled. Be kind to yourself and take it day by day, so you can begin to feel more powerful and confident in yourself again. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯😊🙌

[@lorithomason8404]

Omg every video you make is spot on. This is the best explanatiot of what I went through.

[@pfunkydude]

So right! Its all on me to change - take myself serious with my needs - where is my goal! Get away from all this abusers - TAKE ACTION!! Yes… forward not coward 😉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏☀️

[@paulineclarke5940]

As you said if it's a day or a lifetime you don't wish this pain on any human being. I've found my tribe now thank you your education .Starting my healing 💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯😉☀️

[@carolprivate418]

Exited a narcistic relationship a year ago. Then came a different person...as a TEST. Didn't catch on as quickly as I'd hoped...gave free pass for hanging up the phone and then blocking me. However, when this narc tried gaslighting me...I was able to RESPOND instead of reacting. I ended this relationship within one week of meeting this person! I deserve to be treated with respect and kindness...those that can't do this...cannot share my life. Thank you Andrew for your compassionate support towards the healing of our world! Love always 💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@anndavis4789]

Hi new friend, thanks for coming into my life. I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Sending immense love and gratitude for you 😘🫴🏼❤️💚❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌☀️💯

[@eleniglymenaki5977]

The healing begins with the truth , with psychotherapy, self love, , blocking narcissists and their enablers and start from zero, setting boundaries, insulation, focusing on your dreams & hobbies, dealing with your fears and enhancing your career. Having a cat, praying and exercising alongside with psychotherapy and becoming psychologically aware by educating myself has worked for me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌🙏☀️😊

[@saras7635]

yes, thank you Andrew! healing is a path, it gets easier with time. if we fall off the path, dust self off and quickly get back up on the path -without blaming self for anything! .... keep going forward! don't look back.... there is beauty around you and infant of you waiting to be experienced. - - - there are many helpful books on "toxic work environments" ....pick the one that resonates with you.... sometimes rereading passeges gives great reminders ....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️💪🙏

[@cherrybacon3319]

My healing began when I knew in my Heart we were finally done. 🍒

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏😊

[@roseannedreesen2768]

Phenomenal Messaging .. Transmutational..Thank you for Being A Divine Teacher & SHARING YOUR LIGHT

[@blya8978]

Hi Andrew thanks again buddy!! I hope you get positive benefits from your posts and share all your sadness with us you are not alone! My gut feeling is very rarely wrong how I read people! Narcissistic has the dark side feeling superior and angers that’s unresolved in their life for years! They are combative and you can’t have a regular conversation they are hyper sensitive on everything and they want to win ! I don’t want to jeopardize my recovery anymore and I’m very grateful and humble I have a chance to find happiness and peace! I don’t envy anyone I have been there down and you name it the lesson I learned taught me a lot of wisdom ! I will never give up helping people and compassion without it you’re an empty soul !!🙏❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌😉💯

[@earlymorning93]

Thanks for this video. I've found that starting and running your own business is a great way to make you implement boundaries because it makes you realise the value of your time and energy even more than before. You meet all kind of people who may try all kind of tactics to steal your time and energy whether they are narc or not.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏☀️🙌

[@dianaabad3910]

Very well said Andrew. But hard to see the light thru the trees. Just want to heal asap.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️☀️💯

[@rolandberendonck3900]

Know there is light and love and keep being focussed. In time you will embody it.

[@marvinholliday973]

Andrew my man, I swear are you are my blood brother you are my animal spirit I cannot believe how you describe my wife so perfectly we are in the middle of a divorce right now and stupid me I’ve been trying to save the marriage until I stumbled across these videos brother this stuff is eye-opening you want to talk about a lightbulb moment I had a whole box of lightbulbs go off thank you and please keep doing what you’re doing I’m trying to get the courage to keep going through with the divorce it’s scary as hell though I have nowhere to go my moneys all gone you know the story it’s all the same

[@charlielynn3674]

Again Thank You Andrew. The truth hurts when you live alone and your only child is the abuser. I'm so curious as to how other parents cope. I'm torn up about possible brain damage due to drug abuse and maybe she lacks the good sense that it will take to navigate thru life on her own. However after 33 yrs. of trying and her not stepping up in life I've let go to save myself. I struggle with the idea of family values and religion. Processing the idea that my immediate family is gone forever while still trying to find purpose to live. But it is a relief to be away from the rage and manipulation.

[@yvettebrownstone1100]

🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯☀️❤️

[@1Tmally3]

❤🙏🕊🎲

[@denisguay4315]

I don't know how to cope correctly because the mother of my 2 boys is a narc. She doesn't know what she does to the kid and blame me all the times. My oldest is tired of her and my youngest his showing strong sign of beeing narc himself. But from that point the got ADHD and lots of anxiety. I getting exterior help for him but she use lot of verbial abuse againts him and it shows and lot of time it hurt to see him go around like he does because of her. She complain to people how he his but she cannot see what she's doing to him because of the problem, the root its her. When he his alone with me usually we have beautiful days.

[@charlielynn3674]

@@denisguay4315 I'm sorry this is happening to you and your children. I hope you can find the means to get the help you and your children deserve and are able to protect yourselves from further destruction. I'm happy you are educating yourself on the subject but I don't believe the mother of your children will change and hopefully you can provide a safe place for children without interference of the mother's abuse. Yikes I feel for you because you are younger than myself and it takes awhile to get strong and come up with a plan. God be with you and your children. How sweet beautiful days make the difference.

[@maggiejenkins7794]

I did this for 36 years in my marriage. I ditched him18 months ago. I am done. I am important and worthy. I am the priority.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@michellemooney4225]

You are very right about this. Thankful u share all the time with us.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌☀️

[@SavedbyGrace19]

thank you..I have so much too share..but I am healing and one day my words will set the captives free

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💪🙌

[@Rys12.3-4_5]

It was a nightmare ! Thank God for saving me from the monster narcissist !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯😊☀️

[@leilagomulka5690]

I’m so ready to begin healing. I’m emotionally stuck. Ruminating. Problem is so many “ games” were played on me it’s hard to know how to begin anew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌☀️

[@donnacook7066]

Such precious healing words🌸so timely and appropriate 🌺Thank you again!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@Rrm60]

My healing began almost 1 month ago. I left my husband the narc after discarding me for 4 year while living in the same house. I was grocery shopping today and was able to make some decisions myself with no help from my daughter. I use to always ask my daughter “which one should I get, what do you think”. I am thankful I felt confident to make some shopping decisions by myself, I thank God! Andrew keep making videos daily cause they are surely helping me thank you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message 🙏💯🙌❤️

[@nilz9397]

This is the clarity that I needed and the direction that I need to understand.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️

[@melobazzi]

Right 💯 , lot of empaths start out Disney blue pilled .. after the healing begins, Red Pilled reality 🙌🏽

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯💯

[@susanjaneterry1073]

I put the final pieces of the puzzle together with a timeline going all the way back to his arrested development. Now, I can break it up and toss it in the box for someone else to solve. Thank God!!! I had to do the work, had to know what it all meant. Having done that, it became clear. Now, I am free to focus on what I need, what I want, what I care about. That's healing, my friend.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️😉😉

[@nastyya19858]

Powerful video! I watched this a couple times on repeat for the message to sink in. Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💪☀️

[@sunshinelalu]

All of your videos are great Andrew, but this one knocked it out of the park. Thank you is an understatement. Empath to empath, ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯☀️

[@jeweloftheisle498]

Andrew , I’m so great full to have found your Chanel. I’ve just watched about five of yours and am feeling lighter because of your words. 🙏🏾🌻 I’ve always known I am an empath but had to find out the hard way about narcissists. Much love gratitude and kind regards from Australia. 💗

[@joannejohnson7006]

You have helped so very much. I am stepping into the unknown’ healing from these relationships is possible. Your painful experience was not in vein. You are a blessing Andrew Namaste

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@franksimmons9242]

It does feel like closing your eyes and falling backwards into the unknown sometimes. You are right.

[@franksimmons9242]

It does feel like closing your eyes and falling backwards into the unknown sometimes. You are right.

[@sophiarieber7558]

OMG.......MY narcissistic relationship DID end yesterday! and amazingly at around the same time you posted THIS video, and when you said "if you were meant to be somewhere else, you'd BE somewhere else, think about THAT for a minute" .........this is a case of a superpower empath speaking to his people out here!!! Your videos are amazing me, one by one........thank YOU

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💯

[@ilenestrack1488]

yes, you will heal to be functional but never completely I still have triggers that will never go away justice and the fine line between hate and forgiveness I will carry I believe we lie to ourselves because it feels better than the truth the damage has been done and throughout your life, it will affect you❤‍🔥

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌😉💯

[@JessieBarronK30]

Late , I was invited to a concert. It was wonderful. I felt my old rel self. I am healing . Can’t thank you enough. Good night Andrew. It was a birthday gift from a friend.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Happy birthday 🙌💯☀️❤️

[@deenaminyard3788]

4 months no-contact. Relative that I love, but I left the toxic relationship. It is so freeing. Thank you Andrew for your wonderful videos that save lives.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@janelle3061]

When I found info on this. I started crying and shaking. Now I have hope again.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️😉😊

[@kathybradshaw3722]

Thank you for the kind in site. Pretty much healed. Have to make the decision to block all the people that are still are friends on face book that are his. I really like these people but must tell them it's me or he. Don't think they know. Nobody that has gone though a relationship like this really knows or understand. Xoxo

[@Work4Love3000]

You are the priority, Your presence on earth brings positive change. The narcissist is just a roadblock; an obstacle that you need to recognize and overcome in order to do your work. These words used to be hard to hear but I'm getting better. I'm also reminded of a belief that the Scientologists have that people from other dimensional worlds came here and dumped all their unreasonable and insane souls into a volcano somewhere. It's an interesting story and reminds me that there really are people that can't yet be helped. Or that maybe it's a job for someone else more qualified.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌💯

[@UNDFTD36]

This was necessary for me to hear. Thank you for taking the time and energy to make these videos. 🤙🏾

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@kellymcdonnell319]

Amen! Brother , you are telling my story… I’m just starting to heal..this video is saying exactly what I’m going through… it makes me feel im not alone or crazy thank you soooo much❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙌🙏❤️

[@lisaraymond6193]

You are such a blessing to all those who are on this path. The more you understand, the easier it is to spot these people. The love bombing is the most confusing place for most. If it looks to good to be true, it probably is a good performance. All you have to do is test their motives. They eventually show us who they really are. I now can tell in just a small conversation, when I need to get away from this person. Would be very difficult to trick me now. God is so good.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌🙏☀️

[@fern4550]

total sense....... i really appreciate your videos x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@JodyLuvsHumanity777]

Thank you Andrew 😁, I appreciate 🙏you and all that you do beautiful soul. ☮️❤️😁, great health, healing and other forms of prosperity all ✨️ 🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯😊❤️

[@deniseyonkers1463]

Thank you! Sending love, light, & victory your way. ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@CosmicGlowUP]

a😍ndrew from costa rica we love you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

❤️☀️🙌

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Healing starts when you put your energy into you and NOT others💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💯

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

Thanks for this video Andrew. Keep on learning you all because it leads to healing that is a fact! It's the only way to get through this and be the winner. Have a great weekend. From Marie France Québec city Canada 😇 ❣

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💪💯🇨🇦🇨🇷🙏💯😊

[@elanahammer1076]

Thank you 🤔❤🇺🇸

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@lindakencana2181]

You are right Andrew, healing begins when we realize the person/relationship is toxic. 2 years of no-contact. I couldn’t believe i could start the healing journey. It was hard at the beginning, especially breaking the trauma-bonding. Yes, it takes time. Acceptance and self love help me to go through the rough journey of healing. Thank you Andrew for your insights. Namaste.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌💪

[@lostit9977]

The hardest things for me are people like My Mother who is constantly yelling at me to get my Life back together after Avery long drugged week of a situation by an Xboy friend of 10 years...I was completely blind sided by what happened to me for 8 days and now I've got so much work to do with even more new diagnosis and no support from family or NAMI......Where in Ohio can I go for support groups? Thank you for your time and direction..God Bless you

[@thepeoplesadvocate9079]

I remember a conversation with him when he said "What can I get you to do for me today"....as I think back on this it really is disgusting how much he enjoyed using me🤦🏾‍♀️. I'm just grateful that I lived through it and I'm slowly healing. Thank you for sharing these conversations 💞

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ☀️🙏💯

[@lesleewatson4266]

So affirming. Ty! 🙏👏👏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️

[@1Tmally3]

I'm here, and supose to be. I appreciate that you are with us. Hope you have a peaceful evening, thank you, Namaste💯🤟❤🕊🌏🌠

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌☀️😊❤️

[@ruthiedavis8786]

Hey everyone 🖐🏾 wishing everyone a good . Blessings 💯 One thing I will always do is work on ME to better MYSELF. It's my time. All my life I have put others before myself now I can see there's something wrong with that picture, big time Thanks Andrew for this video. We may not all arrive at the same time on the healing path. The thing is we arrive. We will have set backs am pretty sure but we don't give up. Our lives depends on it and others are also depending on our strength to keep moving forward. Rest if we must but never taking our eyes off the 🎯💯. Andrew, I'm thankful for all the education you are providing and for this sanctuary you have provided on the healing path. Good night ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️

[@warriormom5843]

Staying true over here!! Have a beautiful evening, Andrew. 😇🙏🏼💟☮️🕉🙏🏼😇

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌☀️😊

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

This is so respectful of me! I never had anyone treat me with this much respect for my time and efforts as you are giving in this video. It makes me feel a lot more like a real person. That must have gone missing in my relationships with only narcissists. I must have felt like "something" much, much different in my life with all narcissists. IOW, I feel I have more substance!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️🙏

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Yes, I feel more like 100%.

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

After listening to this video last night and allowing these ideas to mull around in my mind for a while, I finally divorced myself from my family! I was already no-contact for almost 4 years but I was able to say "No" to the patterns that kept me trying to love them!!!! This is VICTORY!!! Thank you for being a last key to unlocking that, NarcDaily!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💪🙌💯😉☀️

[@franksimmons9242]

You are right I received a mentally and emotionally abusive text from my daughter this morning that that seals no contact. I observed her for a long time hoping for the best.

[@lenaleong4894]

Namaste🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏

[@StellaDoroBreadstick]

Thank you Andrew for your videos. They are very helpful and you seem like such a nice person.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌

[@StellaDoroBreadstick]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you 🙏🏻

[@lazylama]

Another awesome video

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[@woodpigeon7776]

Excellent and accurate 💗✨🌻

[@woodpigeon7776]

You eloquently put into words something that seems ineffable , yet is such a weighty burden for many of us to bear . Thanks brooo

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🙏🙌☀️

[@annamariehewitt3173]

We can never find peace and healing by avoiding life...

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[@roslyncerro1263]

God bless you, Andrew. First, second, and third makes me smile! Freedom rocks, and better late than never!😘

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🙌☀️😊❤️

[@debbiethomas3080]

I was taught my opinions didn't matter and out of six kids, I was the embarrassment. My siblings were gorgeous and I was the plain Jane one, so I had to recreate myself as the comedian in order to get any attention. In my relationships I had to do the same and it never mattered how I felt because my job was to entertain and be there at their time of need. I'm staying single now and living a solitary life because I need to learn negative from positive interactions so it's not repeated again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@goldbrick2563]

Thank you 🙏🏽...i have narcissist sibling and have had to block the 'family' group text, which this sibling started and insists everyone be on and contribute to. It is awkward b/c I love my parents and other sibling. I am the scapegoat for this individual. I can't tell my parents why I don't want to be in the group text or don't participate. I look like a bad person for not participating and i'm sure this individual uses my action to make me look bad to everyone who will listen. I came to the point where I just don't care what anyone thinks. I want my phone to myself and not to be constantly invaded by energies that I do not want and to be reminded of a person who has continually devalued me for a decade now. I don't know anyone who is in this situation w/the group text thing. It's very awkward. I feel alone, but I meditate and tell myself its the best thing I can do for myself.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message of empowerment 🙏🙌💯😊☀️

[@goldbrick2563]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you 🙏🏽

[@1Tmally3]

😊💯🎲

[@janetroberts5140]

@Gold Brick, hang in there, your parents probably realize there is friction. My mom called it a "friendly rivalry" between myself (the oldest) and sister 3 years younger than me. She's all been the righteous one, all "black and white" and I. The advocate for others the "nurse empath." I don't wear that like a badge, it hurts. I have something that I am aware of...my mom was raised by alcoholic father. My only excuse for being jumpy and easily moved to tears was I'm a grandchild of an alcoholic. I married an alcoholic (26 years). I feel that my self work will be more on that part of my life, never addressed. I have the "Laundry List," that is spoken about. So I'm almost 64 and I'm going to go to Adult Child of Alcoholic meeting and see if it helps. Love and peace to all. Thank you Andrew, great message.

[@cobwebafternoon3737]

Thank you Andrew! I'm so glad to be on the healing path now. Blessings 💕⚘🌸

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Welcome 😊💯🙌

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I am on a journey to put myself first, second, and third. I only give when my cup is full and when I want to. Thank you for that. I learned different when I was young but now I know better. Thank you for setting me straight. Someone finally has mercy on me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@hollylorn131]

Thank you, Andrew, for another great video to help us all get educated about narcissism! I have learned a lot from your videos, but one thing that I especially learned about the healing process from your channel is that you begin the healing process when you start to make yourself a priority, to show love and compassion for yourself, and to put all your energy and focus on yourself, to move forward in life, to understand narcissism, and to set healthy boundaries for yourself so you bring in more healthier people rather than more narcissists into your life. I am getting practice setting boundaries for myself these days. Some people understand when you set boundaries in a kind way but others are surprised and disappointed/angry/not accepting of the boundaries I'm setting for myself. I'm also learning that I don't need to apologize as often as I have been when trying to say no and setting boundaries. I still need more practice with boundary setting. People are surprised sometimes when I try to be the new me and set boundaries. Sometimes people test the boundaries I set but I stand firm but kind with the boundary setting. People start to respect you more when you set boundaries for yourself. Andrew, thank you for the beautiful pictures and words of inspiration you post in the mornings. It's very inspirational to be reminded daily to make yourself a priority and put all your energy into yourself as you heal. It has been a foreign idea to me up until the time that I started to watch your videos. It's one of the pieces that has been missing from my recovery process for several years, but now it's front and center in my recovery. Thank you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this message 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@franksimmons9242]

You speak for me too.

[@ChristiaanHartNibbrig]

Another excellent video, Andrew. Thank you. I am finding, about a month after cutting my malignant narcissist mother out of my life, that 1) part of the day (usually when I'm running) is spent thinking what a horrible person my mother was to me; and 2) how hyper-sensitive I am to slights in my daily life. Little things, like an inconsiderate neighbor, really vex me. But I'm giving myself a break on that. I just cut my mother of 60 years out of my life. I figure my emotions would be all over the place after such a "pivot." Overall, I know it was the right thing to do. Take care. Chris

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth and progress 🙏🙌☀️💯💪

[@ChristiaanHartNibbrig]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Your videos have helped a lot. You really know the personality type. I had a professor in grad school who wrote a book about foster children abused by their parents. Most still wanted to live with their biological/abusive parents. So, I understand that it would be difficult to cut off one's mother at age 60. (I can't believe I'm that old, but that's what the birth certificate says.) I have a sense that I won't have a long life. But that's okay. I'm at peace with that. I have genuinely had a sense of freedom and peace internally after cutting off my mother from accessing my heart. One of the main things I've learned from your excellent videos is that the narcissist kind of 'feeds' off empaths like me. I feel hurt when someone abuses me, so I'm a perfect 'mark' for sociopathic narcissist bully who gets off hurting people. That she did it to her own son, a nice, sweet kid, a nice, sweet man, is really sick and disturbed to me. Take care. Chris

[@madhuchoudhary1733]

Bang on Andrew .... this is the most important lesson learned and realised after the breakup.... you are amazing Andrew..... amazing insight.

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[@דיהפלדמן]

Good morning, good luck ,"take action" 🙏🏾🎯🙏🏾

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[@myportal8512]

People are good at telling others what they need. They don't really care. I believe you're right. At this moment, I am exactly where I'm meant to be. The devil will be knocking soon. Don't want to miss my visit! 😇💪🤫

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💯☀️🙏☀️

[@trishharrison5732]

Hi Andrew, it took a bit for me to admit it but my ex was definitely narcissist, I still four months later cry each day due to feeling worthless, however it’s way less each day, you have given me tools to heal. Thank you so much.

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Welcome 💯🙌🙏

[@marcelb.1721]

Thank you 😊

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Welcome 🙏

[@hollylorn131]

As I'm learning about narcissism, I'm having trouble understanding how a narcissist can flip personalities so easily going from good/kind to rageful/scary behavior very quickly and back and forth. Could you explain the reasons for how this dramatic personality change happens so frequently and easily with a narcissist? It's mind boggling. Thanks.

[@dubliner1303]

Listening to my Playlist this afternoon. Lonesome Day and Long Walk Home by Bruce Springsteen is on my list to uplift. Pleasing myself. Trying to listen to some music everyday and journaling again. Have a good weekend. From 🇬🇧

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌☀️🇬🇧🇨🇷🙏

[@lizwoods6661]

I have learned so many terms because of my narc experience. I never knew what future faking was until this but can now look back and see where it occurred before and know what to listen for now. Thank you for taking the time to share and to educate others about narcs.

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Welcome 🙏

[@playaj4429]

NEVER CHASE A NARCISSIST. THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANT. PUT GOD, YOURSELF AND YOUR NEEDS FIRST. 🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Excellent insight 🙌💯💪😉

[@Naomi-N1ZPS]

Every word of your video struck a chord within me; it felt very personal to me for some reason. Having just broken free, I'm finding your videos to be both my life vest and directionsl sign, keeping me afloat and also on this new liberating path - not falling back into old patterns. I'm glad in a way for my past struggle because only then could I appreciate this feeling of being free and growing as a person in a whole new way. I turn 50 next month... looking forward to a beautiful second half of life :-) Would love to hear more about your journey :-)

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🙌💯🙏☀️

[@judygregg47]

Many, many thanks to you, Andrew!!! Sending you much love and respect!!! God bless you!!!

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Welcome 🙏 🙌☀️

[@Laura-ii1xq]

Thank you for this. I am in the process of healing right now. I left my family recently so I could heal. So much has come out. Things I didn't know I had bundled up inside. I keep needing to remind myself that I'm still healing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@hazem2810]

Thank you so much I’m on the healing path I can’t take any more abuse from my narcissist companion I went to the hospital today I have two broken ribs I don’t wanna go back thank God I’m housesitting so he knows I’m not coming home he doesn’t live in my state but he staying at my home I just want him to be gone I can’t take anymore

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 😊💯

[@CT-uq8bw]

Another great video as always, thanks Andrew❤

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Welcome 🙏