PRACTICE RADICAL ACCEPTANCE

[@donnaengelman1171]

NARCISSISTS ARE NOT GENUINE PEOPLE, THEY ARE EVIL. THEY ARE NOT A LOSS TO OUR LIVES, THEY ARE A LESSON. KEEP MOVING FORWARD, FIND OUR HAPPINESS WITH OTHER PEOPLE WITH A GOLDEN HEART ❤️ A LOT OUT THERE. NEVER LOSE HOPE, GOD IS NOT SLEEPING AND WILL ALWAYS TAKE CARE HIS CHILDREN WHO ARE RIGHTEOUS. GOODNIGHT, NAMASTE🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏 💯🙌

[@tathe3786]

So do I am walking wit Jesus!!!! ❤️

[@lorina-janebuonanducci.1042]

God is not sleeping. So very true!

[@perrissmith8809]

Beautiful

[@stacycemp4624]

They have a demonic Attachment. We have to stay away from them. Both family members who came after me and never stopped had mental problems, got on meds for long periods of time and were very jealous hearted. They still do all two and still are the third. now, hurting and destroying my reputation and my life is their Life now. Hurting me and humiliating me is the only way they can ignore what they have become.

[@debbiethomas3080]

100%, Andrew. I am seeing the difference now in toxicity and healthy relationships. September will be 2 years since I was tossed the curb like I was nothing. I am better now than I was. Tomorrow will be better

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏😊💪

[@denisguay4315]

Thank you Debbie, As of may 7th, it will be 7 months that i was tossed. I take it day by day and try the best i can each day but i am have my down but reading what you said make me feel better thank you.

[@joykraft1175]

It's a new beginning! (I was devalued and discarded) I'm free!!!

[@greener9115]

Me 2

[@janearviso1184]

I discarded my narc in Jan. after 34 yrs of this one-sided relationship of abuse. I was stuck in the trauma bond. Then I came across info on this type of relationship. Oh man, I saw the light! I began to see the pattern (lightbulb moment). The narc had a heart attack 2 wks ago. The guilt I was feeling has turn to radical except ance. Freedom I haven't felt in so long is also scary & I patiently work with it. I've been watching you, Andrew & getting all the info on the narcissist relationship. This is my first comment after almost 4 mos. I went with my daughter to see him while he was in a coma. I was proud of my, no contact progress. Am I still good? Moving on in New Mexico🧡 I've been in for many years. I began to get educated.

[@lizzierose007]

My radical acceptance goes like this... "Let go & Let God" Your lessons been learned, keep going, & don't look back! 🦋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful 🙏🙌💯

[@cindyg3396]

Amen!

[@myst2.0]

I love that too, my fav comment. Let Go and Let GOD. Amen and Amen. 🙏❤️

[@tinarustman8832]

Amen!!🙏🙏

[@steveobaby6048]

Andrew ever since I've been watching your videos my heart rate has gone down and it's probably because I don't have to deal with the narcissist people anymore and it feels good I feel good and healthy thank you Andrew once again without your videos my heart rate would be going up and up and up

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message 🙏🙌💯😊

[@mariaawake4502]

So glad to read that your health is improving.

[@californiacat9762]

Enjoyed the video. Best wishes from California Cat 😸

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙏🇺🇸🇨🇷🙌

[@livestotravel7589]

My narc ruined my vacation months ago. That was my last straw. I cut her off over 5 months ago. Just 2 days ago she got ahold of my daughters number and left a message like “ what did I do for you not to talk to me?” 🤣 unreal. I am not taking the bait. Why would someone wait that long to ask that?

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@treelover1050]

SOUNDS LIKE A HOOVER TO DRAW YOU BACK IN TO THEIR CRAZINESS.

[@treelover1050]

I ONLY CONTROL ME. NOT OTHER PEOPLE. I LEARNED MY LESSON ABOUT THE NARCISSIST. THAT MEANS LEARNING ABOUT BRAINWASHING AND PUTTING UP HIGHER BOUNDARIES. THAT MEANS MOVING FORWARD WITH MEETING NEW GOALS AND AVOIDING TOXIC PEOPLE. ALSO HELPING OTHER PEOPLE IF I CAN.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@pamelariley6694]

"Radical Acceptance", sounds like a turning point. One we need.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@lisajolly9340]

I think radical acceptance comes after a long period of being in denial at least it was for me. Any loss is a form of grief. On the plus side… no storm lasts forever.❤️❤️❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

❤️💯🙌

[@mattwesney]

Exsctyl! You can't practice RA without going through the denial stage first. Which for everyone comes at different times and lasts different amounts of time as well...good point though!

[@edsal26]

I much agree. Your mind has to radically change from “this person is who I love” to The realization that “ this person has used me without loving me back for all these years” what a fool I’ve been! That’s a very tough transition to make. It’s radical acceptance for real. It takes self love,bravery, Knowing you CAN go on and create a life based on truth and honesty with yourself.

[@mday3821]

"This to shall pass."

[@margaretwhelan1475]

The Serenity Prayer says it all too about acceptance Andrew. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@vicihigby269]

One thing I learned about acceptance is that you don't have to like it, it's looking at the truth, I accept that he is a narc, I accept that he doesn't really love me, I accept that he is not going to change, accepting allows me to change

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌💯

[@Vermontita]

Thanks for the comment- youre right- i dont have to like it one bit and I dont. Its not about denying what happened or glossing over it.. its really been tough.

[@VOCALCHEMY]

Bless you star brother, thank you so much

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@VOCALCHEMY]

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[@katem58785]

Hi from Australia, I take a line out of Vikings, Ragnar says to his to his sons "DON'T LOOK BACK WE'RE NOT GOING THAT WAY "Thank you Andrew

[@brianlane9534]

Don't look back, we're not going that way! Love it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🇦🇺🇨🇷🙌

[@petedevlin3077]

Another key moment in the healing journey absolutely is realising you were abused, you stayed even when you knew it was toxic and that nothing you tried worked because you cared too much - far more about them then yourself. In my experience from two relationships like this afterwards once I stopped blaming myself it took time to truly accept. The first one took an enormous amount of time because I did no healing work despite learning about this world, the second was faster with therapy but it still took a few months. Be patient and kind to yourselves - you'll get there🙏

[@denisguay4315]

Thank you Pete because it sound like me. Thank you for reminding me. 💪🙏

[@petedevlin3077]

@@denisguay4315 🙏🙏

[@beverlytaylor1745]

I had a therapist tell me "Givers pick takers. Pick another giver and you'll be ecstatically happy". This was in '02. Didn't know about narcissism - so fell for the narc in '04. I'm still in, and at 64 🙄 I am applying strategies and planning/praying for an exit. I'm also waiting for truths to be revealed to be Scripturally free. If I am ever blessed to love again, as late to the party as I am, I have left it up to God to choose for me. This may wait until after Armageddon, but I'm not going to worry about narcissism anymore. I am focused on healing. The best to you for having done the grueling work it takes to recover. 🌸🌷🌸

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@petedevlin3077]

@EXPOSED. Algerian satanic narcissist. Bilal lakama Absolutely it does. Fully engaging with therapy helps 🙏

[@lisamilne9700]

I felt hypnotised when I was with them, I knew something wasn't right but I was literally stuck to do anything about it..im 3 months free no contact, Its awful going through things in your mind wishing you could have stopped it sooner!! Im going through stages of anger, frustration and embarrassment that I allowed it to happen yes I was left exhausted to the point of ill health while they watched . I accepted this while I was with them and found my escape route out of the country I brought him too for a better life for him, I have sleepless nights and so drained most days on my healing period I know it'll take time but just want my internal joy and happiness back namaste

[@zulemaflores1234]

Dear you didn't know! We have been there! We understand you! Glad that you found your escape route! You will heal.

[@debieaves4788]

@Lisa milne - You didn’t know what you didn’t know when you first began the journey with the narcissist. As Andrew has said, “There are no coincidences.” I believe everything we experience in our lifetime is meant to be a lesson - a learning opportunity - not only about ourselves, but also about others. The lessons are presented to teach us about love/hate, trust/betrayal, forgiveness/holding grudges, wounding/healing, haste/patience, passion/disinterest, anxiety/peace, etc. When my mind starts focusing and ruminating on negative thoughts, I stop and acknowledge those thoughts, then take a deep breath and refocus on the positive aspects of my life. I may need to make a temporary change in my location to help my mind get “unstuck” - like stepping outside for a few minutes - to help me move out of the emotional thoughts and into the logical thoughts. Three (3) months and NO CONTACT is terrific! Keep up the great work!!

[@lisamilne9700]

@@debieaves4788 its funny how you browse social media i kept being drawn to narcissistic pictures and quotes as it were as if someone was showing me the way, I knew through most of my relationship with him what he was, but my brain couldn't process the information..disbelief really.!!

[@damar921]

wish you well, you will be ok. I have been there and I promise it gets better with time.❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@paulag7108]

Accepting what you can’t change is vital and does require patience. Letting go of mistakes and learning from it will take self introspection. Thanks Andrew for the video 🙏

[@brianlane9534]

This is key. Accepting that you were a 'victim' and letting it go is one thing. Preparing yourself to not allow it to happen again is another. Good advice.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@lynnfincham6839]

Great advice Paula thank you

[@rosesantiago174]

THANK YOU!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@sandraallen1011]

Thank you for the kind and helpful words. I stayed in that relationship for 20 years! I had no idea that people could be so evil. I thought that I could change him; or that I was crazy. I am allowing myself to process it with the help of council and antidepressants. God bless you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@CherrysJubileeJoyfully]

Suffering brings sympathy we are EXACTLY where we are meant to be.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@foodogslove2588]

Good morning Andrew, from the steely, grey skies of England. This topic of “ Radical Acceptance” is something I realise I have been fighting against. Now, with this new information, I shall order a book and educate myself about this. A “light bulb” went on the moment I watched your video and then re watched it to consolidate my thoughts. This is an area of my life that I have deeply neglected. I am so grateful, that through your pain, you are helping to alleviate mine….namaste 🙏🏽🌻🇨🇷🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇨🇷🙏☀️

[@lynnfincham6839]

❣️❣️❣️

[@foodogslove2588]

@@lynnfincham6839 Thank you ❤️

[@janetroberts5140]

I have to use radical acceptance. I am in my happy home and the ex husband is gone. I lived there before he arrived here. The "You are Good Enough," talk you gave , I cried hard, I needed to. I am the emotional person in my family and I am now past being broken. The tough time was forgiving myself for that marriage. It was a mental endurance race for survival! If he wasn't hollering at the TV, he was making noise by drilling, Sanding metal after midnight! It's a wonder we were not kicked out of the apartment! The air no longer smells like metal smoke, or spray paint, and no more Bleach water being sprayed through the air! No more TV news being played in the bed on his phone 24 hours a day! Peace is here, better food in the house. I can use the washer and dryer again, no more hand washing my clothing.(He unplugged the washer as a signal to me.) It does get better every day, being alone and in peace is a blessing. I can accept and tolerate myself.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌💪

[@myphd-myprisonhistorydiplo691]

Congratulations for getting your peace back❤️I journal often to help and I write a list of what I am grateful for. It helps! Sending you much love and healing prayers! Hugs y abrazos 🤗

[@janetroberts5140]

@@myphd-myprisonhistorydiplo691 many thanks

[@emilywilson7308]

Thanks for your inspiration!

[@lisavansant961]

Well this sounds familiar to me I lived in chaos for two and a half years woodworking in the middle of the night noise banging TV 24/7 wow I understand totally I left 10 months ago and I'm enjoying the peace and quiet now. Constant chaos what a mess

[@nomadlife2637]

Thank you for the awesome message. I haven't heard of radical acceptance. I will start to practice more and more everyday. I have been able to finally start accepting that the narcissist will never change even though for years I hung on to hope that he would. I'm healing within myself and everyday realizing how toxic and everyday we would fight about something and how everyday I was manipulated in some shape or form always shifting the blame on me. Leaving me confused and really I didn't want to believe that for years and I've finally been able to slowly process that yes it was a narcissist relationship and yes it was toxic, and that it will never work, and I wasn't meant to be in that path. I was in denial that someone could be so sly and gaslight, lie so much, and charm people so well with a fake mask. Trick me so well. Had no idea someone could lie every single day it was mind blowing. So thank you for your videos. Awakens us more everyday. Helps to know so many others out there have experienced the same. Much love and peace from Florida. Bless u all. Great videos.🙏☀️🦋🌻

[@brianlane9534]

My experience too. Wishing you the best. Think of it like scraping chewing gum from the bottom of your shoe.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@1Tmally3]

I do accept it! I found your channel just a few months after I lost my father, who I loved very much, he was'nt a narc! I'm working on that acceptance, of my father being gone, it's only been five months. Your channel has helped me more than you know! To radically accept that I was once with a narc, being gas lit, manipulated, smeared, dealing with flying monkeys in the aftermath! You have been helping me with both! I am radically accepting both, and it is hard!! Namaste, much love and appreciation❤🙏🕊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message ❤️💯🙌🙏

[@janetroberts5140]

@Stacy Dauterman, Blessings and love to you, I lost my Mom May 1st 2019 and I had cared for her 24/7 for 6+ years. Death and a parent passing is difficult, I was with both parents when they died and I'm a RN. Our mind and hearts were not built to accept death.

[@1Tmally3]

@@janetroberts5140 Thank you, Janet! Bless you, sorry for your loss! ❤🙏🕊love to you.

[@lynnfincham6839]

I too lost my father at Xmas I totally understand how you feel ❣️

[@1Tmally3]

@@lynnfincham6839 ty, sorry too! It is hard to accept both! ❤🙏

[@shellysscratchcards]

I love how you take the time to reply to comments 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@manwithanamethystheart]

We learned this tool in treatment. Yes it is not always easy depending on the circumstance but with practice it can be done. My situation i can't change what happened but i can change how i respond. I can't control the narc but i can control how much the narc can have access to my family and household. Thank you, andrew🙏namaste!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌💯🙏😊

[@warriormom5843]

Rad-acc all over the place this week as I explained 2 videos ago. Laid off. Moving forward. When one door closes another opens. Heed the signs. The only constant in life is change. Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans. Let go, let God. There’s a higher power at play……and we must learn along the way. Have a peaceful night, Andrew. Enlightened dreams. The precious present. 😇🙏🏼🌟✨💟☮️🕉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

[@nancyP7448]

Thank you Andrew. Been watching your videos for three weeks now. Going through, what feels like a separation with my Narcissistic 22 year old daughter. It's super rough, I don't know what is going to happen. We're being ghosted right now. Thank you for telling me I'm not alone.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💯🙌❤️

[@52dsr]

Nancy my heart goes out to you, I am going thru the same with my daughter 43 and after just going thru a narcissistic ordeal with a female (friend) finally saw the patterns and mind games realize that is what my daughter has been doing tome for yrs. I barely escaped with my sanity. Got a lot of money stolen with lies deciect and destruction. OMG

[@Ezrah-Caris]

@@52dsr Hey ! We have the same daughter. I look (from a distance) at my time with my very nasty daughter & wonder who the heck raised her. ?? I can't take it anymore. So so glad I found Andrew :)

[@vickymoore2520]

Good video Andrew, I understand radical acceptance. It reminds me of the serenity prayer . I understand the death of a loved one and that is totally out of our hands . Getting over a narc relationship feels like a death of destruction ! I can accept God‘s will, but not my own stupidity . The pain of the discard overrides a lot of other things that I should be more concentrated on . Just some late night thoughts, check in with you tomorrow . Namaste🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏

[@ladyv1971]

Andrew I appreciate your talks. A lot of what you're speaking about I have recently learned about over these last couple of years. For me I was raised in the narcissistic environment and didn't realize how conditioned I was to those relationships. It's been an uphill journey to reprogram myself. I've had to distance myself from family so I can learn what healthy relationships are. I'm still healing, learning and accepting.

[@mariaawake4502]

I was also raised in a narcissistic family. It is bitter to find out in therapy how caregivers discouraged children at an early age in these environments. So much needless suffering follows....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@jilldowell8346]

Thank you so much for this important message, Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙌🙏

[@brianlane9534]

Thank you. We need to be reminded of this now and again. I've been able to do that throughout my life. But for some reason I was unable to accept the fact, or acknowledge that my spouse was never going to change. I kept giving her more chances, hoping that 'this time' she'll change. It was only after I learned what narcissism really is did I accept it. Sometimes it takes being pushed too far to get it. Once I accepted it, the rest was easy. It wasn't less painful. But it became an act of necessity to remove myself from the situation.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@lisavansant961]

I agree

[@manwithanamethystheart]

I wouldn't mind being in Costa Rica! By your tan i can tell the sun must be great right now🤣🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🇨🇷😊

[@lisaj2491]

I’m so glad I found your channel.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Me too 😊☀️💯

[@mattwesney]

It's the way of the stoic. Just focus on what we have control over otherwise we cannot change something by thought or worries. Great video, hope you had a decent Friday buddy! 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@madmaxxx69]

best channel on yt imo thank you for doing this for humanity! really appreciate you brother!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌💯

[@wandaschroeder9172]

This is where I am right now Andrew. 8 weeks no contact and I moved to a different town. For weeks I felt confused and overwhelmed. This past week was different….can’t say the exact moment my mind shifted but it did. Everything seems to be falling into place and I had several interval of a happiness I don’t think I’ve ever felt before. I feel a peace around me. I find myself actually in the moment. There are still rough times but I’ve accepted them as a part of healing. Thank you so much for being here. Happy weekend everyone!💯🥰

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌☀️😊

[@emilywilson7308]

I love that book,”Wherever you go, there you are.”

[@mday3821]

I tell myself everyday that my narc mother never loved me & she wasn't who I thought. Andrew, I know your channel is for narcissist romantic relationships, but you are still helping me. Thank you so much because I needed to hear this tonight. You keep it real. God bless you.🙏💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙏🙌

[@gratefultobehere]

Embracing this. Meeting with a very wise woman who said "this is a catalyst for change what happened to you..." --- We are blessed, we have MANY quality resources to utilize and a community who is growing in knowledge (and empathy). Staying focused, being thankful, remaining in Faith and hopefully make a better and healthier impact for the good of others moving forward. This entire process has not been without pain. I want to see good out of this.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@darias4265]

Hi Andrzej, thank you for your words of explanation. I'm making progress to be more confident after abuser's actions. You inspire me a lot. Blessed day for you today🙏🤗🥰

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯😊

[@collie8]

what’s going on over there with your president Daria?

[@shellysscratchcards]

Watching now 🤗

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌☀️😊

[@christinacirillo54]

🙏100% Like you said it is a hard pill to swallow. It is a lifetime learning experience.....don't stress over what you can't control. We are only in control of ourselves, no one else. It took me many years to learn that. Knowledge is power. Thanks Andrew for all of your videos. They have helped me immensely as with everyone else! God bless you my friend!! 🙏👍❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌😊

[@christinacirillo54]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙂

[@oliverakaric7956]

No,is not the linear,yes for everithing exsist the reason ,thank you,hug.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@stanleymaestas5441]

Yes Andrew i did struggle at first with radical acceptance. Never again. Defiant self care. Self 1st, others 2nd from my overflow. That's terrible. I am so sorry this trauma was experienced. There are no coincidences. I am not a victim. I am a conscious creator. My trauma happened 4 me not 2 me. I am always in the right place at the right time ⏲️ ❤️ 😉. Something wonderful is about to happen to me. Nameste everyone ❤️ 💙.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@lorina-janebuonanducci.1042]

We're extremely lucky to be on the healing path! And that involves unpacking the whole of our relationships to face these truths and accepting what was really there. Just a unilateral/one way relationship/s brought us to the lowest points in our lives. It's no joke wasting years and mental energy and your precious life force to someone who is only interested in service to self. Radical self acceptance is a great teaching for us to begin to move into the light. And it does come. We feel better and better. Love to you Andrew. Thank you.🙏💙💡

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙏🙌☀️😊

[@cordewitt]

Thank you Andrew for this video I needed to have this wisdom today🙏🌹😎

[@karenpanton243]

One day there was a stroke when I woke up and saw things clearly and had acceptance therapy I realised you need to rewire from the brainwashing cloud and learn learn learn.....wonderful information Andrew....thankyou blessings🙏🌹🇬🇧

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯

[@myphd-myprisonhistorydiplo691]

God Bless (the person) change me! I did not sign up for the situation but the good news is I can become educated and enlightened! Bonus I get to know it’s great to have boundaries!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@cinziaconti9024]

Thank you Andrew, I love you from Italy.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🇮🇹🇨🇷🙏🙌🙌

[@beckyharrt]

Another great video, thank you so much! I hope that the love you send out to others is returned to you tenfold.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏 🙌😊

[@TWILLIE639]

My 33yo son died 10 years ago and I still grieve for him. It is extremely hard for a parent to “go there” in their mind of the finality of it. But I’ve already decided I need to practice radical acceptance for the loss of relationships since his death.

[@rdbeckett590]

I was in recovery from the time I was 26 until now at 58. No narcs around that I knew of working a program!! That is the last thing a narc would do - so that’s why I didn’t know -- cause everyone I dated was working with a sponsor and so forth. The narcissist was a friend of a friend that we all would hang out a few times--then they groomed me a few years and boom they went for me. And they tired like hell to destroy me for four years!! The lies and all the cheating !!! I really didn’t know these narcs existed except for you know Ted Bundy !!! I know now and I’m grateful for the knowledge. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯

[@merlina9852]

Wow this really resonates with me I will certainly be doing my research on this subject.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@peaceandlove9613]

TY

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@jessicawicker3582]

Om healed because I will never eva have to be around a narcissist again. Lesson well received. Namaste;)

[@izawaniek2568]

Radical acceptance is vital to heal properly. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@JJ-dk1lr]

WOW, I used those exact words recently talking to someone about getting over the Shyt from the Narcissist.

[@perrissmith8809]

Sioooi hard! And sooooo sad! My heart goes out to al! My heart is still broken

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy 💯🙏🙌☀️

[@AZDC99]

1:01 "It is NOT easy practicing (radical acceptance). It takes patience, it takes fortitude, it takes strength, commitment, and most importantly, it takes understanding." Makes me feel better for my brief back slides on NO CONTACT. Yet am trying for a 100% instead of a D grade in that next time. I'm trying to keep the no contact permanent this time

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏💯☀️💯🙌💪

[@lisavansant961]

Yep they'll try to hurry back in that's for sure takes a lot of strength not to go there I've been in no contact 3 months.

[@gilliansanderson287]

Eventually I walked out and have no intention of going back. What everyone has to realise , those good times you shared were not genuine ( its a transaction) at that moment you were making the narcissist feel relatively good ( as they never feel entirely good. The word happy doesn't even exist in their mind nor any emotionally based feeling that only we experience . At the time you were merely supply and not considered human , more of an object, a need, a portal to feed their need . You cannot debate with the narcissist even when you believe you have a fair point, they will usually overrule it or if at any rare time you actually think they may agree and you believe they are actually willing to do what you want just for once you then feel elated as subconsciously you know this doesn't usually happen and off you both go to finally do what you want to do .... Beware ! The narcissist is storing his revenge for you being so incredibly selfish and he or she will wait for their moment to yet again demoralise you. Here comes the abuse again whether it be gaslighting stonewalling retracting intimacy or other, its all highly toxic highly confusing agitating and upsetting and the narcissist acts like nothing happened as he or she yet again drains your beautiful soul ... These people truly are egomsnical and insipid . Truth is their fear , lies manipulation , perversions , misogynism , control and their machevellian ways are there god. They are fickle , hard faced two faced, users who leech of any vulnerable or empathetic person they happen to come by . I could go on and on and I wouldnt have enough space on a triple toilet roll to fill the vile completely repugnant ways of these sick twisted individuals .. Sent from the UK

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🇬🇧🇨🇷🙌

[@awakeningEmpath]

there are many things in life we have to accept when we don’t want to , radical acceptance is when our bike is stolen & it wasn’t insured & the police are clueless & we have to accept we won’t get the bike back. Radical acceptance is accepting our narcissistic parent doesn’t love us the way they naturally should. Radical acceptance is accepting we are getting older or accepting we have an incurable illness . Thanks Andrew for your compassionate emphatic insight

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯

[@jeremyyates9148]

Today is rough. I yrust ill like video so i tapped lile. Ill watch tomorrow. Goodnight. Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 🙌💯

[@himchannel3624]

Powerful message!!! Thank so very much!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@enetyjones4303]

Good Morning. Excellence well received...Amigo God bless you. Peace of God be unto you.. Have ah great Saturday everyone.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌☀️

[@enetyjones4303]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone It is so wonderful knowing that I'am not alone. Also have this familia at the tribe.God bless each one.

[@deb2319]

Curious to hear your poltical views. Yes Radical Acceptence, yes great topic. thanks again!

[@NancyKelly-cu2uh]

Been watching your KZbin channel on and off all day . And Iv learned more from you in one day Andrew than I have ever done with anyone in my whole life . Love you and God bless 🙏🤍 Namaste 😉🧘‍♀️

[@wendylock6949]

Your looking great, xx. Great video ♥️♥️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@wendylock6949]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 😘

[@monalisa2662]

I cannot tell you how grateful to veiw this today! My covert narcissist husband also tossed me to the curb after 29 years two weeks ago. Why didn't I toss him to the curb years ago? (he has Multiple Sclerosis) I have been loyal (trauma bonded?) and was willing (why?) to take cruel abuse and live off occasional crumbs. I take care of my elderly mother who is not doing well.. I cannot imagine life without her. My faithful dog and companion of 19 years is not doing well either. I am feeling alot of loss. So much heartache! I am desperately trying to get my footing. God is good as I feel you made this video just for me! My wings have been clipped for way too long... I am ready to fly. I am starting to see how free I am now and no longer afraid of my own shadow.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending strength and positive energy 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@ustulo3488]

Andrew has the best channel on YT concerning Narcissism and the effects it has on other people. This concept of radical acceptance is important to moving through and on from the recovery process of narcissistic abuse. Most people including myself saw tons of red flags in the beginning and throughout the relationship with a narcissist. Don't blame yourself for having the ability to love this person and try to continually work through situations with them while being abused by them. They conditioned you to be that person for them in the beginning and during the times they would act "normal" towards you. I believe narcissism is a form of insanity, and you cannot fix that in someone. You are only in control of yourself and your own actions. In time your emotions will catch up with your logical thinking about who and what this person and the relationship really was.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏

[@mariaziak7387]

Thank you Andrew🙏 Respect from Australia 🇦🇺

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙏🇦🇺🇨🇷🙌

[@angieRN73]

Thank you so much for sharing this message! Stay blessed 😀

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😊😉💯

[@jenniferbourgeau49]

I just come to understand last night after listening to a woman who was traumatized by her own family and who I can relate with said last night in a video that people with narcissistic personality disorder are in fact possessed by demons. Because people with the right set of Mind do not go around harassing people for no reason. Because the creator of Heaven and Earth wants to love people and people with demonic spirits want to cause chaos. And just an FYI when I live with my narcissistic boyfriend in Mexico he did a video of himself and his eyes began glowing and when he closed his eyes it was just really odd that his eyes were glowing in the video. On top of that he was practicing witchcraft in his grandma's bathroom.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@katarzynalabaziewicz2142]

most definitely. when i silently prayed over my SO in bed, his breathing got heavier and he was visibily uncomfortable, unaware of my prayer over him. it was so pronounced.

[@jenniferbourgeau49]

@@katarzynalabaziewicz2142 the only way to fight these types of people is to never lose sight of the good within and get away from them. Pray for them and keep peace. The lack of peace gives these types power for more destruction towards others especially themselves.

[@danielbelcher2700]

It does take time to get to this point. And can be somewhat difficult. Outstanding content

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@debbieramsey2696]

The hardest thing for me to except is that I won't ever be the person that I was before. It took along time for me to realize that I don't want to be that person again,because the person that I am now would never fall for a narcissist again. I'm a lot stronger person than I was before. Thank you Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@beverlytaylor1745]

Hi Andrew! I realized hope was futile - I might as well ask him to fly. I realized he's immature - who brings issues and needs to a child? I realized he didn't care about me - so ANY disclosure was on a 'need to know' basis. I realized to improve my conditions in 'enemy camp' - I had to not engage unnecessarily. I realized nothing I said reached his heart - so I said very little. No reactions, no emotion, minimal responses, and there it was - radical acceptance. My life became built apart from him until he wasn't allowed in it. I had to protect myself from him emotionally. Now I am on my healing journey - layer by layer. I accept that my plans don't include him - and why.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@rachelklein2319]

Thank you so much for this lecture. I needed to hear these concepts today.

[@abez6083]

Thank you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@anniemargaretmuir3838]

Great video Thankyou ✌️🙏 I started using Acceptance in my journey years ago when I had trouble with forgiveness. It lightens the load 🌟

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 🙌☀️

[@anniemargaretmuir3838]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneThankyou 😃

[@kimmcdonald2022]

This is POWERFUL. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@eileenallen1178]

Hi Andrew-I am almost completely recovered, largely in part because of listening to you. My encounter with the malignant narcissist was brief, but the wound was sharp and VERY deep. If this had been an actual knife wound, it would have killed me with one strike. It took me over a year to recover fully. With work, radical acceptance, and honest self-appraisal, I am nearly completely recovered. I now see the weakness, desperation, overwhelming fear, paranoia, deep sadness and depression that turns into severe mental illness for the narcissist. I now understand why he desperately wanted to steal my light for himself. It was never about me or us. It was about him desperately trying to feed that evil ego of his, at my expense. I now can feel pity for him, without any involvement. I now understand how badly his life is going to end-completely alone. He will die alone and unloved. And, as you have stressed over and over again, NO CONTACT is VITAL FOR RECOVERY. I cannot emphasize that enough. I am putting this out here your followers who are still in great pain over their encounter with a narcissist. Complete recover is entirely possible.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message 🙏🙌💯

[@eileenallen1178]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Andrew, you are the voice those of us in recovery need. I cannot thank you enough. Blessings.

[@serataylor772]

My motto: "It is what it is". And so it is. So be it. Radical acceptance and gratitude are two powerful practices that I am focusing on daily. Both keep me in recovery mode. Thanks for the affirmation, Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙌🙏

[@user-tk3nm2ul1e]

The smear campaign from The narc !! Heavy & untrue! Thank God i am strong! Strong boundries!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@awildadavila4142]

True story Andrew!

[@hollylorn131]

I watched this video and I appreciated learning more about radical acceptance. In order to move forward in life, radical acceptance is necessary to accept life as it unfolds and not wish it would be different. It's a complex way of thinking to practice but necessary to make progress in the healing process. I have been trying to practice radical acceptance with the idea I married a husband who was a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde personality who wanted to control me and physically injure me. That's a hard truth to accept but I'm working on it. Thank you, Andrew, for discussing radical acceptance in the video.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💪☀️🙏💯

[@kathleenritchie8216]

Wonderful video! I believe we are here to learn lessons and this planet is a great school. Thank you for being one of its teachers! Much love Kx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 🙌☀️

[@annamariehewitt3173]

A big learning curve for me was... When someone shows you who they really are.. Believe them the FIRST TIME......

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@PartnerWithAngela]

Am ready to practice radical acceptance

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@loribrinzer5483]

I needed to hear this. I love you too. You are saving my life

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️🙌🙏

[@cg00000]

Yes, in fact I'm getting back into Taoism, letting go, accept.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@tbz1209]

It has not been a good few weeks for me. Because of that, I haven't watched too many videos lately. But when I get a notification, I always look to see if you hit the big five-oh yet! Andrew, I'm so excited for you to hit 50k subscribers! It means you're spreading awareness! Thank you so much for everything you do. I hope to someday be where you are, in your recovery. My ex is hindering my progress and I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel yet. We are all at different places, and I pray for everyone's healing and recovery.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@damar921]

love this , powerful!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@mariegallagher4725]

Thankyou again as I feel I am going through that now. It started with anger but now I am learning through your videos that understanding finally helps you let go of that anger. The knowledge, the freedom and lightness you feel is so, so much better.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@vargtheoak4200]

Love this man.

[@ruthiedavis8786]

Andrew thanks💯. Blessings, may love joy and peace be multiplied unto you. The LORD directed me to this channel and also another one. I'm receiving what I need to be healed. I now understand what happened to me and why. I can boldly move on with my life without being angry with myself that I allowed such a nothing to duke me for three years. Nothing but straight up devil. My story shall have a happy ending. I kicked my Narc out after three years. Hes been out for almost three weeks and still begging to come home. The brain fog is leaving and I have my joy and peace back and am moving forward. He has to come back and get his things that he has been making excuses about why he hasn't come. I have kept my family in the loop and they have been with me every step of the way. I haven't grieved yet maybe that's because I have been grieving for the past three years...no more 😭 I am being healed as I go on my way. This I do, forgetting that narc, leaving him for behind, paying attention and praying that I never ever fall in the snare of the devil ever again. May everyone on this channel who has suffered this kind of abuse be healed and set free from every demonic attack May y'all have an amazing life in the name of JESUS ❤️🙏🏽

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@tinarustman8832]

He works where I live and even though I DO NOT WANT to, I see him or his car around my complex which is very hard. For me it’s it out of sight out of mind and that can’t always happen. I’m trying and I see it will still take time. Hardest thing to accept?? That he really didn’t care..

[@ccarlymartin]

Namaste, Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 🙏

[@icicle8384]

Valuable content as usual!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯

[@jeanwolfendale405]

It would be good if my narsscasist ex would accept that I will never go back to him instead of posting out silly messages about me. He's ended up living on handouts in a homeless shelter and his family and associates have all abandoned him. He goes on dating sites whilst simultaneously believing in his head that I'm an option advertising himself as ' Down to earth'. Those dating sites are a cesspool of people like him and I personally wouldn't consider going near them or FB because they are full of predators. Stay safe and blessed.

[@brianlane9534]

I'm not qualified to give advice on this subject - or am I? It would be good if you totally ignored your "narcissist ex". That means no contact. No contact means don't even read about him in the papers (social media etc.). Do yourself a favor and stop torturing yourself. Let it go. You seem to be focused on your ex having acceptance while you seem to not be accepting the fact that it is over. Is it? It's not over if you continue to keep tabs on him.

[@jeanwolfendale405]

@@brianlane9534 Hi Brian I'm not keeping tabs of my ex. He shows up like a bad penny sending outrageous messages via other people. I've not responded to him once and doesn't seem to get the hint. Wishing you a nice day.

[@debieaves4788]

@@jeanwolfendale405 I think your ex “got the hint” but is refusing to practice radical acceptance of your decision to disengage from the relationship. He doesn’t want to accept that he no longer controls you and you are no longer feeding him fuel for his arrested emotional development. Great job, girl!!! 🏆

[@brianlane9534]

@@jeanwolfendale405 Thank you. I'm glad to hear this. Wishing you positive energy.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@debieaves4788]

My Scottish great-grandmother used to say, “What’s for ya will not pass ya by.” She also taught me, “You have to winter and summer with a man before you [can] really know him.” She was a wise woman. 💝

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@carriedillmann4455]

Thank you Andrew! The term Radical Acceptance is new to me . However I have been practicing it for many years but I didn’t put a definition to it ,❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌